BJJ Vs. Kidnapper (More to the Story)

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  • Опубліковано 17 січ 2024
  • Two things that we learn from this incredible update: 1) Just because violence is justifiable doesn’t mean it’s necessary, and 2) We never really know what causes people to behave the way they do.
    Thank you Brian Kemsley for showing us the way.
    Find a Gracie Jiu-Jitsu school near you or learn online at www.GracieUniversity.com.
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  • @SnakeBitBob1982
    @SnakeBitBob1982 4 місяці тому +92

    20 minutes for NYC police to respond to a "kidnapper being held" call? That's a problem beyond comprehension

    • @yew2oob954
      @yew2oob954 4 місяці тому +6

      Remember...they need MORE funding...more and more funding while doing less and less.

    • @The85F0X
      @The85F0X 4 місяці тому

      @@yew2oob954also remember that they decreased funding to the NY police and the city government turned their backs on them. This resulted in the lowest numbers of NYPD officers ever.

    • @rgrapplerinoc2617
      @rgrapplerinoc2617 4 місяці тому +2

      Welcome to New York...lucky the cops even showed...

    • @DarkLight-Ascending
      @DarkLight-Ascending 4 місяці тому

      Police are the clean up crew...
      This isn't new news.

    • @johntice2063
      @johntice2063 4 місяці тому

      @@yew2oob954if they need funding and they need more people on their force, then they actually have to do more with less.

  • @josephhaynes4526
    @josephhaynes4526 4 місяці тому +33

    Amazing story! Just because you may be a practioner of a martial art doesn't mean you have to brutalize your opponent. And Jiu-jitsu is the best way to end a conflict safely with no one getting seriously hurt. Show kindness, it will have a long-lasting, life changing effect than trying to embarrass someone by knocking them out.

  • @jamestickle3070
    @jamestickle3070 4 місяці тому +38

    Subway guy was only applying choke when the other guy was struggling. Guy was drugged and erratic and probably died from drugs/ heart attack not the choke. The trial is ongoing let’s wait for evidence under oath before calling that guy a killer.

    • @shrimuyopa8117
      @shrimuyopa8117 4 місяці тому +1

      Exactly, thank you.

    • @capatheist
      @capatheist 4 місяці тому

      Oh ok… “only applying when”
      So he was only squeezing then?
      But his bicep and forearm were still pressed against his Carotid arteries right?
      So the guy kept passing out and stopping struggling because of lack of blood to the brain but the guy who choked him stopped squeezing?
      Did he let go of his neck?
      No?
      You’re an idiot… how you git 30 odd likes for you’re little political statement without someone from the jiu jitsu community pulling you up on that. Is beyond me.

    • @HaroldBluetooth-uz1zz
      @HaroldBluetooth-uz1zz 3 місяці тому

      And that dude was pushing people onto tracks hurting people. That dude got what he had he got coming to him.

  • @UnskilledGrappler
    @UnskilledGrappler 4 місяці тому +8

    Life is complicated. People are complex. It’s a good reminder not to be too quick to judge.

  • @poot111111
    @poot111111 4 місяці тому +21

    Beautiful story, that family history has me choking up.

  • @fightlifepod
    @fightlifepod 4 місяці тому +10

    3:10 When Brian said the 12 year old stopped his siblings from going into the room that really got me... The more I learn about people the more I learn that many times there are reasons for why we are the way we are and many times its not our fault. At some point we have to become aware and take responsibility but we should have grace with ourselves because we have all been through things in one way or another. Thank you for sharing this story.

    • @jedsanford7879
      @jedsanford7879 4 місяці тому +3

      yeah I teared up a bit at this story tbh

    • @graciescottsdale
      @graciescottsdale 4 місяці тому +1

      Everyone is fighting their own battles.

  • @Andrew-cs1td
    @Andrew-cs1td 4 місяці тому +15

    Yeah that subway scene was horrific. BJJ is dangerous if you only see it in the UFC ring and mimic it in the streets, but a life saver if you actually know the techniques.

    • @HaroldBluetooth-uz1zz
      @HaroldBluetooth-uz1zz 3 місяці тому +1

      The dude was hurting people on the subway. Screw around and you might find out.

  • @RonFitCoaching
    @RonFitCoaching 4 місяці тому +3

    We all should live like the next person we're dealing with could be 3 seconds from a total meltdown. Be polite and compassionate to everyone . Just a smile and a thank you goes a long way.

  • @lancem.2597
    @lancem.2597 4 місяці тому +8

    Respect to both of you guys and your way of thinking.

  • @santiagopatitucci9583
    @santiagopatitucci9583 4 місяці тому +2

    This is one of the best stories I've ever heard. Thank you for sharing it. To be honest I would have done the same as the military guy in that situation, but after hearing the complete story I've changed my mind and I would have done the exact same as Brian. Thank you very much for sharing! Compassion is the way.

  • @aavv1818
    @aavv1818 4 місяці тому +11

    BRAVO BRIAN!

  • @CallMeKO13
    @CallMeKO13 4 місяці тому +6

    Hi from France ! Great lesson thank you guys and respect to Bryan.

  • @1tylerd1
    @1tylerd1 4 місяці тому +6

    What an amazing story!!!! Brian you are a hero!!!! Thanx a lot for sharing Rener.....love and Respect from germany ❤

  • @merilwen
    @merilwen 4 місяці тому

    Thank you. This was so touching. I'm glad you had the compassion to help him ❤

  • @HMALDANA
    @HMALDANA 4 місяці тому +6

    Wow, speaking of self-control. Way to go Brian.

  • @jrod8517
    @jrod8517 4 місяці тому +3

    Amazing story! That's why we all need to be a little more open minded. Thanks for sharing!!!

  • @vrbased
    @vrbased 4 місяці тому

    I have never once commented on any video I've seen on UA-cam prior to this, however this video is so wholesome and I wanted to thank Brian for sharing. I hope this gets the traffic it deserves and reaches others the way it did me!!! Good stuff brother

  • @noth9617
    @noth9617 4 місяці тому

    I have my boys in jiujitsu at a Gracie center. They're in different classes so we're there 2 hours a night, 3 days a week. Some people are surprised and say they couldn't do that but I really love watching them to jiujitsu. It's nice to see them develop skills and confidence and hear all of the beautiful encouraging words that come out of the instructors. They're kind and fair but treat the children with seriousness and also demand respect and not letting the children mess around as it's only them and the other kids who miss out when they're not paying attention and being disruptive.
    When my son wants to practice with me it makes my heart swell with pride. It's one thing to see kids practice on each other but when he does it with me I end up feeling bruised. It's amazing, I have no doubt in my mind that my 8yo child could fend off a much older child or even a young adult. It's funny because the moves don't even hurt unless you resist. So that's where the magic is I think.
    When you show a child that they can be so powerful and so adept at defending themselves without even breaking a sweat, that they know secrets not everyone else does. That they don't have to swing their fists around to get their points across. It's very empowering and as a parent it's so beautiful to see. My boys love Gracie's, the games, their instructors, the other kids there. My two would go 5 times a week if they could. I'm sure they're just waiting until they're invited to black belt club.

  • @kailani5711
    @kailani5711 4 місяці тому +2

    To say or insinuate that someone without formal training does not have compassion and contro or the ability is an outrageous statement.

    • @TrayCaddyyy
      @TrayCaddyyy 4 місяці тому

      This comment insinuates that you are untrained or you missed the point of the video.

  • @donovanjones4175
    @donovanjones4175 4 місяці тому +2

    Whatta story, really, great job guys

  • @mikewhosoever8703
    @mikewhosoever8703 4 місяці тому +3

    That is such an amazing ending to that story!

  • @DarkLight-Ascending
    @DarkLight-Ascending 4 місяці тому +1

    Broooo.... you guys are finally opening a ctc near me!!! (Harrison, Ar.) Im freakin stoked!!!
    I looked 2 yrs ago for a ctc, and they were all to far from me.
    Lez gooooo!!!!

  • @ggscv
    @ggscv 4 місяці тому +3

    Jiu Jitsu literally saving lives

  • @jenniferferrer2641
    @jenniferferrer2641 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for your message. I'm excited to start my DJJ journey soon.

  • @ComputerProMedia
    @ComputerProMedia 4 місяці тому

    That's an incredible story. Great job!

  • @hoss2200
    @hoss2200 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for the update. ...and I am a lover and a fighter. Love making is what I love to do 5 times a day and fight my evil side every day from within. Lots of respect, bro

  • @doublelunger1978
    @doublelunger1978 4 місяці тому +13

    That marine let go many times!!! Follow through on your stories dude!!!Aaaggghhh!! I can't take it. I'm trying to be a fan here but golly geez.

    • @HaroldBluetooth-uz1zz
      @HaroldBluetooth-uz1zz 3 місяці тому

      Not to mention that dude was pushing people onto the tracks. He was a violent danger to the public.

  • @craigmeyers9137
    @craigmeyers9137 4 місяці тому +3

    Awesome!

  • @rangerjim3872
    @rangerjim3872 4 місяці тому +2

    What an inspiration.

  • @dougdomeny
    @dougdomeny 4 місяці тому

    Awesome story!

  • @lpz6564
    @lpz6564 4 місяці тому

    Thank you.😢

  • @jedsanford7879
    @jedsanford7879 4 місяці тому

    The ability to essentially nullify a situation with BJJ is actually so amazing. You can, as a reasonably trained white belt even, just make sure that no one will get hurt. I once held a very close friend in spider guard for almost an hour because they were having a bad trip on some edibles. My friend was just afraid of intrusive thoughts and hurting themselves and they had a sweater on, so I just put them in spider guard for an hour. I am actually a pretty good striker myself, but that is useless in helping my friend. I've been saying that law enforcement should all be at like a blue belt level. Its a lot of training but imagine how much less danger there would be.

  • @michaellyons33
    @michaellyons33 4 місяці тому +3

    Love love love it

  • @UponGiantsShoulders
    @UponGiantsShoulders 4 місяці тому

    Bless you, you helped save that mans life.

  • @jessihagen8547
    @jessihagen8547 4 місяці тому

    I love this JJ is the hero. You are loved, Jiu Jitsu. Yes. Crying.

  • @LMB9888
    @LMB9888 4 місяці тому +3

    This is why all LEO should practice BJJ.

  • @VeGamers
    @VeGamers 3 місяці тому

    Had to find you from magnus video. Great martial arts of course, but also grreat merch invention

  • @devinross9758
    @devinross9758 4 місяці тому

    I would like to say as a practicioner of bjj that this man showed the upmost control and mental awareness. I think this video also touches on several things and in no particular order but all of equal importance. Number one is that mental health not only gets underdiagnosed but it also gets overlooked or even glossed over. So many people are in denial about mental disease, defects, and disorders. As someone on the spectrum of austism I've had my share of struggles and issues and that was on the mild side of things. I couldn't imagine what this man had to go through with his mother being murdered. As a psychology major I can say for sure that mental disease, disorders and defects are real and a lot more needs to be done to address this issue. Number two. This video also illustrates the problems with and in the law enforcement community depending on one the state, but also the resources available to law enforcement and the political landscape that they must navigate through.(It should not take the police 20 minutes to respond to a kidnapping call.) Let's be upfront here. Liberal and democratic states do not support their men and women in blue therefore they lack the man power and resources available to do their jobs effectively. The problem also lies in other parts of law enforcement from not just lack of funding and training although those are two huge elements that currently hurt the police's ability to do the jobs effectively. The problem also lies in lack of support from the public, but it also lies in staffing shortages nation wide, as well as a lack of proper and effective de escalation training but also effective training when it comes to the use of force continuim. As a prior corrections officer use of force training often puts emphasis on either maximum use of force such as using pepper spray or a stick or taser or gun, rather than using minimum use of force such as a basic double leg take down or a hip toss or even wrist control if someone is trying to take your weapon from you. As pointed out on this channel and in the literature so far, the number of use of force incidents have significantly decrease in police encounters simply from learning bjj. Imagine how much further down we could bring these numbers if cops were to be trained in other martial arts such as judo or wrestling for example. I hope this message can continue to spread and that we can raise more awareness on mental health and how seriously we should take it, the importance of learning martial arts for self defense, and supporting our men and women in blue so that they can have the resources necessary to do their jobs so that one day especially in states like new york we don't take 20 minutes to respond to a kidnapping call.

    • @HaroldBluetooth-uz1zz
      @HaroldBluetooth-uz1zz 3 місяці тому

      They are too busy reducing standards to be a cop and forcing diversity.

  • @urbantreesteve2805
    @urbantreesteve2805 4 місяці тому

    Right on 🙏🏻

  • @rampart6925
    @rampart6925 4 місяці тому +2

    This one was heavy.

  • @DarkLight-Ascending
    @DarkLight-Ascending 4 місяці тому

    You are my Favorite gracie, Renner.

  • @manlioschiavo4251
    @manlioschiavo4251 4 місяці тому

    One of my top 3 video about GJJ.
    Hundreds of videos.....
    This LESSON about the BEAUTY of Gracie Jiu Jitsu is ...... BOOM!
    😮😅
    Real world.
    the story theach us THE lesson, and the lesson makes the story, like in circle....
    Ying/yang value??
    9.5/10
    😉😜

  • @sargelooksmad5847
    @sargelooksmad5847 4 місяці тому

    I don't know how to get videos to you but these officers need your help.

  • @josefrodriguez7441
    @josefrodriguez7441 4 місяці тому

    Bit of background. March 2021, is am recently retired and sitting at my home. The door bell rings and my wife goes to the door. No one there. A second later I see a guy in my backyard attempting to gain entrance to my screen enclosure. I open my patio door and ask him what he needed. He tells me he wants to see his sister. After a few seconds i stepped completely on to my patio and repeat to him his sister doesn’t live here. I open the screen to walk him off my property after few more seconds of exchanging words. At this point he picks up a small piece of a paver and throws it through my back window. At this point I know this is not going to be good and we start throwing air swings at each other. During this period I was able to move in on him by going under one of his failed punches. I hooked my left arm underneath his left arm and grab him with my right arm around his waist and brought him to the ground. At this point I’m in a similar position as Bryan and the other guy in the train. I have my legs wrapped him and I roll him over on our side because he kept trying to get his legs loose. The entire time I’m not letting go of the choke hold and I’m telling him to cool it. I would loosens my arm just a bit. He keeps telling me he wants in the house to see his sister. 10 minutes later the deputies arrived and they had to help me get untangled. He was arrested. Six days later I’m in the ER fighting for my life. Because our faces were inches apart I had gotten COVID. After dying twice in ER I was finally stabilized. But it took ten months to fully recover. I had learned to walk again. To feed myself because I lost all normal functions of my body. The videos that Gracie creates were so helpful. Coupled with my military basic hand to hand training from years ago I had the confidence to defend myself from this much younger guy. Thank you for the videos and continue success.

  • @maximusdecimusmeridius5438
    @maximusdecimusmeridius5438 4 місяці тому +4

    Free Daniel Penny

  • @aslahazlan1721
    @aslahazlan1721 4 місяці тому

    Why there is a lot of jiu jitsu in a real life situation. Damn I wanna learn right now🤯

  • @paulpenfold8236
    @paulpenfold8236 4 місяці тому

    Having had to use a head and arm choke to control a very muscular out of control drunk has shown me that even experienced grappler's can also over do choke holds in street situations , [ he survived I let go just in time but the police were not impressed with the hammerlock I was holding him in ] , controlling our own fear and power in these situations is a hard thing to learn .

    • @King_Harrold
      @King_Harrold 4 місяці тому +1

      The hypocrisy of the police not being impressed with your restraint.
      Im yet to witness a police takedown or restraint executed in a safe way for the assailant or officer..

  • @brasdhonneur
    @brasdhonneur 4 місяці тому +2

    wow

  • @dirtygeazer9266
    @dirtygeazer9266 4 місяці тому

    Back control is rough I'd switch between kesa and knee on belly and mount

  • @jonniem
    @jonniem 4 місяці тому +1

  • @Freduccine978
    @Freduccine978 4 місяці тому +1

    hell fucking yea dude

  • @Uberkoolsound
    @Uberkoolsound 4 місяці тому +3

    20 minutes waiting for help…. This is why you need BJJ

  • @MLM111
    @MLM111 4 місяці тому +1

    We need police it’s sad what this country is turning into….thank god for people who intervene and care when police aren’t around

  • @michaelmoss6590
    @michaelmoss6590 4 місяці тому

    My biggest concern with a submission in street situations like this is that 9 times out of 10 the guy will have a knife 🔪 and you're a sitting duck. I've seen a video of a guy this happened to. Thought he had the guy, choke and all, but the guy pulled a knife and stabbed him multiple times in the side of the stomach

    • @HaroldBluetooth-uz1zz
      @HaroldBluetooth-uz1zz 3 місяці тому

      Not to mention he could have friends.

    • @michaelmoss6590
      @michaelmoss6590 3 місяці тому

      @HaroldBluetooth-uz1zz precisely. I remember training in Krav they always made us stay on our feet and get back to your feet quickly. Avoid going to ground. His friends will kick you in the head

    • @HaroldBluetooth-uz1zz
      @HaroldBluetooth-uz1zz 3 місяці тому +1

      @@michaelmoss6590 It’s why I make sure to practice the standup in jujitsu and learn to get up from being taken down. The wrestling and takedowns are important in jujitsu but way too many people don’t practice them.

  • @Drolkrad1725
    @Drolkrad1725 4 місяці тому +1

    sounds like the next step for this guy is gracie bjj. invite him

  • @shrimuyopa8117
    @shrimuyopa8117 4 місяці тому

    I hope her story is true about her brother.

  • @alrivas1477
    @alrivas1477 4 місяці тому

    He didn’t choke that guy to death. The guy was whacked out on enough drugs to drop a rhino.

  • @BH-qs7vo
    @BH-qs7vo 4 місяці тому

    What's the recidivism rate for kidnappers?

  • @andrewskokan6372
    @andrewskokan6372 4 місяці тому +1

    I have respect for you doing this to protect someone, but it doesn’t excuse this guy being a dumbass and trying to steal someone else’s kid.

  • @bluebutterflies4568
    @bluebutterflies4568 Місяць тому

    "Just because it's justifiable, DOESN'T MEAN IT'S NECESSARY!!" Read it again folks
    #heros #jiujitsu #theheroisjiujitsu

  • @drewbehler2379
    @drewbehler2379 4 місяці тому

    Your very kind for letting him live. Idk if I would have in that situation. WWJD 🤷‍♂️

  • @rojaskendall
    @rojaskendall 3 місяці тому

    A man 😍

  • @James-pq5pi
    @James-pq5pi 4 місяці тому +3

    It's better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war! Jordan Peterson reminds us that the correct interpretation of the phrase, "The meek will inherit the earth" is really, "Those who know how to use their swords, but have the wisdom to know when to keep them sheathed shall inherit the earth." Awesome stuff from yal'll. Keep spreading the word.

  • @JackRabbitSlimz1
    @JackRabbitSlimz1 4 місяці тому +5

    I hate the way this guy speaks. Like everyone is 7, and he's the parent...

  • @SalsaBailaProductions
    @SalsaBailaProductions 4 місяці тому

    bjj is king

  • @kirito3082
    @kirito3082 4 місяці тому +1

    Those who save the wolf sacrifice the sheep.

  • @jordanarcos391
    @jordanarcos391 4 місяці тому +3

    Amen, great story yall.
    Scriptures: Matthew 5:9Jesus said, “Blessed are the peacemakers, because they will be called sons of God”

  • @philiprohs
    @philiprohs 4 місяці тому +1

    Is the update New Yorkers actually put the hero in jail?

  • @SwordFighterPKN
    @SwordFighterPKN 4 місяці тому

    20 min!?! Wow what a great response time. Maybe LE was too busy dealing with J walkers and asking for ID.

    • @NovatusRSGaming
      @NovatusRSGaming 4 місяці тому +2

      When there’s 5 of us showing up to work and 10+ calls on the board, it’s hard to respond to everything in a timely manner 😅

  • @jsthiffo9568
    @jsthiffo9568 4 місяці тому

    you learn this in : judo , catch wrestling , krav maga and sport bjj too..

  • @literofcola
    @literofcola 4 місяці тому

    Police, and supporters of police, need to understand this. Jail, brutality, guns, tasers are not helpful. So many people come from trauma and need trauma - informed care. If we have to have police, they need to know bjj and be trauma informed. I can tell both presenters care about the life of anyone. Take care

  • @YHWHsaves-dot-com
    @YHWHsaves-dot-com 4 місяці тому

    God bless your work 🙏

  • @makepool
    @makepool 4 місяці тому +1

    How did she have his number?

    • @makepool
      @makepool 4 місяці тому

      @@MajorImpact well it is for me, so perhaps you could enlighten me?

    • @makepool
      @makepool 4 місяці тому

      ​@@MajorImpact multiple different ways, hence why I asked the question.

  • @theDarkMatterMyth
    @theDarkMatterMyth 4 місяці тому

    i guess knee on belly was too much

  • @Jahlu
    @Jahlu 4 місяці тому

    Wonderful story. Thank you all for caring about other Human's lives. But Palestinians are human too. We have to raise our voice to stop the GENOCİDE !!!

  • @kirito3082
    @kirito3082 4 місяці тому

    "Their father murdered their mother"
    Let's stop there, he is the way he is because he inherited it, we need to stop making bullshit excuses for violent behavior, some people are like this by nature and regardless of whether he actually improved or not (we don't know if his sister is telling the truth) the fact is he already victimized too many people and will like have children that are just like the rest of the family tree.

  • @barsnack7999
    @barsnack7999 4 місяці тому +1

    BJJ specially by scammers like gracies should be banned from any business and sports.

    • @christophersmith3695
      @christophersmith3695 4 місяці тому +6

      tell me you got choked out and humbled without telling me you got choked out and humbled....

    • @samlane7142
      @samlane7142 4 місяці тому +7

      wtf are you talking about

    • @bruhinthewild
      @bruhinthewild 4 місяці тому +2

      Lol...Gracies been choking people out foreal foreal. I bet you do Aikido.

    • @barsnack7999
      @barsnack7999 4 місяці тому

      ban them@@christophersmith3695

    • @user-fb4zo8wd5n
      @user-fb4zo8wd5n 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@bruhinthewild
      Judo people are always bitter about BJJ. They just can't get over it 😂

  • @JohnDoe-ky2qd
    @JohnDoe-ky2qd 4 місяці тому +1

    Find something to do let's give the indigenous there land back and culture..do something constructive

  • @YHWHsaves-dot-com
    @YHWHsaves-dot-com 4 місяці тому

    Amen

  • @YHWHsaves-dot-com
    @YHWHsaves-dot-com 4 місяці тому

    👏👏👏

  • @sargelooksmad5847
    @sargelooksmad5847 4 місяці тому

    Awesome!