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  • Опубліковано 4 лип 2024
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  • @rheapunzel3
    @rheapunzel3 4 місяці тому +116

    *waves a giant ace flag* My fellow aces, let us eat our cake and be proud of who we are!!!

    • @MissEliMay_3
      @MissEliMay_3 4 місяці тому +6

      I think 'fellow A-specs' would make more sense in this context 😗

    • @rheapunzel3
      @rheapunzel3 4 місяці тому +4

      @@MissEliMay_3 Ooooh, I like that! 😃

    • @thomastorres3491
      @thomastorres3491 Місяць тому +1

      Hellz yea!!!

  • @danivan6704
    @danivan6704 4 місяці тому +64

    Heck yeah! Another demi-gorgan being their awesome self!!! Stay positive and I hope you and your boyfriend have an amazing day!

  • @FloriOnRails
    @FloriOnRails 4 місяці тому +34

    Your feelings are valid and you are not alone. Love is love, no matter if it looks different from how others love.

  • @tri_iris6890
    @tri_iris6890 4 місяці тому +26

    1:30 This was the most perfect way to describe my feelings with NSFW. I’m not very nitpicky, but finding something like a comic that has emotional moments are what I really like. Its really nice and makes me really happy.
    Welcome to the demi-gorgon club!

    • @rheapunzel3
      @rheapunzel3 4 місяці тому +3

      I am sooooo the same way! I love reading the emotions they feel while it’s going on, but if I see any details of what’s going on, I’m out!

    • @SkullpunkArt
      @SkullpunkArt 4 місяці тому +2

      Yup

  • @tracyblanchard7663
    @tracyblanchard7663 4 місяці тому +17

    That bit about the voice saying 'what a prude' is so real.
    Gray-ace here and the fact I just don't really have an interest in sex far more often than not and focus way more on the emotions than the physicality when I am interested is really awkward in relationships. It feels kind of expected to have that physical intimacy as a mirror to the emotional, but damn if I don't just outright prefer the latter with or without the former.

  • @fuzziestoffrawgs
    @fuzziestoffrawgs 4 місяці тому +11

    I was literally questioning if I'm Demisexual today wow
    Congrats 🎉

  • @fynnthefox9078
    @fynnthefox9078 4 місяці тому +9

    Understandable. I'm sorry you're feeling that way, you should be happy being your truest self.

  • @ericasutton3147
    @ericasutton3147 4 місяці тому +9

    YES!!!!! Congratulations! I discovered I was Demisexual last year! All of this is so relatable. I’m so proud of you for going through this journey. Yay ace community 🖤🩶🤍💜

  • @thatdarlo
    @thatdarlo 4 місяці тому +5

    Two thumbs up for staying true to ourselves.

  • @Cloudhead25
    @Cloudhead25 4 місяці тому +16

    We support 👍✨

    • @wolfy3224
      @wolfy3224 3 місяці тому

      @Cloudhead665 I also support you. I mean, I'm bisexual but I prefer girls and I even aromantic. So, in a way, I'm very related to you, hattey! I love your content. ☺️

  • @CrashMan221
    @CrashMan221 4 місяці тому +11

    Demi-mortgage.
    Also yes please take care of yourself and support your own self and feelings, keep it up! You're always good at what you do.

  • @georgesears934
    @georgesears934 4 місяці тому +19

    Never heard the theory Jessica Rabbit was asexual, but it's a very cool idea and would be some awesome representation. Thanks for sharing this, and doubly thanks for sharing yourself and your feelings with us. We're proud of you, and we want your journey to lead you to the greatest happiness you can achieve!

    • @madhattey
      @madhattey  4 місяці тому +12

      Oh it's not even just a theory, it became actually canon! :3
      Anyways thank you all so much, yall are so sweet!! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @georgesears934
      @georgesears934 4 місяці тому +3

      @@madhatteyOh, when? Would love to check it out!

    • @madhattey
      @madhattey  4 місяці тому +5

      @@georgesears934 www.wearequeeraf.com/jessica-rabbit-is-an-asexual-icon-heres-why-that-matters/#:~:text=%E2%80%9CI'm%20not%20bad.,she's%20seen%20as%20canonically%20asexual.

    • @Lucifersfursona
      @Lucifersfursona 4 місяці тому +3

      Ace Jessica my beloved

    • @echonvoid
      @echonvoid 4 місяці тому

      I headcannon Midnight from mha to be aroace but with a high sex drive for very similar reasons

  • @coradagenheart7955
    @coradagenheart7955 4 місяці тому +4

    i literally just broke up with my partner (its cool were still besties) after discovering i am now 99% sure im entirely aro/ace who only enjoys the world of sex and romance through fiction, to not only have just had that happen but ONCE AGAIN have you make such a comforting and validating video about the topic is so awesome.
    *We're so proud of how far you've come Hattey*

  • @echonvoid
    @echonvoid 4 місяці тому +3

    Yo!!! Im in a weird place with my identity atm but the first label I ever gave myself was demi! Not to mention I’m demi-gender. Hope the outpouring love from your community helps silence the “itty-bitty-shitty-committee” and any aphobic haters!!! Love y’all and stay safe!

  • @sakurabiskuit
    @sakurabiskuit 4 місяці тому +4

    Demi-gorgon gang!!
    Also, I'd like to add: Another thing that disproves the notion that "everyone is like that" are celebrity crushes! It's extremely common to see people thirsting over hot actors and singers, yet society somehow still thinks that lusting for strangers is unheard of.
    It was particularly hard for me to understand the concept of demisexuality as a woman because this is what society already expects of us; for us to "wait for the right man", lest we be labeled as sluts. So surely "sluts" must be the minority, right? Society wouldn't hate the majority of women, right??
    P.S: I want that demi shirt from the end credits

  • @ThatXavier
    @ThatXavier 4 місяці тому +4

    I just saw your post on Instagram, I didn’t know you made a video about it. Thank you so much for sharing your new label! Every time people be their true selves, the world is a brighter and more interesting place to be in.

  • @CatWithGoggles
    @CatWithGoggles 4 місяці тому +3

    Hello Hattey! Just wanted to say I love your content as a fellow queer and trans guy and im glad you were feeling confident enough to talk about this.

  • @Ollie_668
    @Ollie_668 4 місяці тому +5

    I thought I was asexual for like... 4 years? It helped me through a lot of stuff, but now I found out I might be Demi instead. I'm still grappling with it and trying to figure it all out, and it was nice hearing someone else talk about it :) thanks for the video!

  • @anelmartinez3792
    @anelmartinez3792 4 місяці тому +3

    I'm actually a demi sexual too!
    During my teen years I identify myself as asexual because I didn't have much interest on being in a relationship with anyone during my high school times, but I think what changed me to think that I'm not asexual was because of a guy. We started out as good friend, getting to know each other, and we would sometimes hold hands and talk to each other whenever we're alone or free. And we didn't made our relationship official until we graduate from high school. Unfortunately, we broke up for a year since things didn't work out for the both of us.
    Thinking about this now, I guess it made a huge change about myself and my sexuality, and I'm really proud of that

  • @LordDarner
    @LordDarner 4 місяці тому +3

    I’m happy for you. It’s good to know you have support from your boyfriend and you have my support too.

  • @jennicahogg6320
    @jennicahogg6320 4 місяці тому +2

    Fellow Ace, here. I actually didn't discover the community til I was in my late twenties, so I'm very familiar with the feeling that I was simply broken in some fundamental way. It makes a world of difference to know you're not alone on that front, and I hope the jerks out there don't give you too much grief. You're valid, and crazy talented to boot, and I look forward to seeing what you make.
    Plus, cake and garlic bread are delicious, and Jessica Rabbit is the GOAT :D

  • @Guest_E
    @Guest_E 4 місяці тому +7

    Welcome to the aspec club, it's kinda ballin

  • @pop-roxs
    @pop-roxs 4 місяці тому +3

    AAAAA OMG I FEEL THE SAME WAY!!! ive identified a demi for not too long, but ive felt the exact same way, with indulging in art and feeling uncomfortable with sexual comments, and not understanding that this wasnt the norm. im so glad youre exploring and accepting yourself.

  • @j.e.canimation8425
    @j.e.canimation8425 4 місяці тому +3

    YESSSSS DEMISEXUAL TEAM

  • @FynnBerry
    @FynnBerry 4 місяці тому +2

    I'm the same here, before I found this sexuality out I thought I was ace but then I found the right word to describe and that's what you have 👍

  • @PoisonedLuck
    @PoisonedLuck 4 місяці тому +2

    what a little bit sized bundle of joy!

  • @yeanofullname4283
    @yeanofullname4283 4 місяці тому +3

    YES! MORE REPRESENTATION! WHOOOO!

  • @RoxyPaw_
    @RoxyPaw_ Місяць тому +1

    Welcome to the Ace family, Noel!

  • @teaandcrackers0615
    @teaandcrackers0615 4 місяці тому +3

    Me too!! DEMI-GORGONS UNITE!! It's hard to be this way but we stand strong :)) (Demisexual and Demiromantic myself!!)

  • @wes-tern1764
    @wes-tern1764 4 місяці тому +1

    Shout out to that one Patron named "Ace" in the credits of this video. Nice theming :)

  • @AsimpleOtter
    @AsimpleOtter 4 місяці тому +4

    Welcome to the asexual spectrum community, we have tea and cats.

  • @jadedisaster
    @jadedisaster 4 місяці тому +1

    WELCOME TO THE FOLD DEAR!!!
    I id as aro-ace myself and have gone through many of the worries you're voicing here, I'm so happy to see you're finding yourself and feeling more and more comfortable with the labels you identify with!
    you do you forever, and fuck anyone that says you're wrong for doing so!

  • @dottydemon6419
    @dottydemon6419 4 місяці тому +1

    Yay this makes me so happy to see other Demi people!! I am demiromantic and maybe ace (or demisexual I’m still figuring it out) and I see little to none Demi representation anywhere so it’s nice to find a creator that I enjoy also be Demi.

  • @jadegoggin1246
    @jadegoggin1246 3 місяці тому

    Oh my gods- Im Demi too and Im so happy you came out- there are so few that will come out as Demi and Demis need more care that they deserve

  • @spyroJM
    @spyroJM 4 місяці тому +2

    I love it, sweetie 💕 love who you are and love yourself 🥰

  • @dooplets._.5776
    @dooplets._.5776 4 місяці тому +4

    This is pretty fantastic :]

  • @HazbinHusker
    @HazbinHusker Місяць тому +1

    I found another Demi! YEEE

  • @rj_c2571
    @rj_c2571 4 місяці тому +2

    Happy demigorgon!

  • @purrkittycatman6496
    @purrkittycatman6496 19 днів тому

    Honestly, as a demisexual gay man myself, so much of this matches my own experiences. Thank you for this, Hattey. Love your art!!!! 💜🤍🖤🏳️‍🌈

  • @SIutStarShine
    @SIutStarShine 4 місяці тому +1

    go off bestie!!! demi gorgons unite!!!~

  • @Tidmouth-River-Studios
    @Tidmouth-River-Studios 4 місяці тому +2

    It's so nice to hear that you've discovered this thing about yourself
    I've never commented on your stuff but I've been watching for a while and I love your content
    So happy for you!^^

  • @evy3637
    @evy3637 4 місяці тому +1

    This cheered me up allot, thank you! I’m probably to have my favorite content creator in the community!

  • @yokai820
    @yokai820 4 місяці тому +2

    We will support no matter what!

  • @CommissarHazel
    @CommissarHazel 3 місяці тому

    Mad Hattey please don't feel down about yourself, your sexuality, your looks, your art, and everything about you are what make you unique. Your art is terrific and your content is awesome, while this might mean literally nothing to you considering I'm a stranger on the Internet who you'll never meet just know I'm proud of you, and so is everyone who's subscribed to you. Keep up the good work and no matter what just remember that you matter!

  • @Darkthestral1
    @Darkthestral1 4 місяці тому +1

    Welcome to the community! I'm ace and love seeing others talk about their experiences.
    I get what you mean about sultry looks. I love the aesthetics of "sexiness" but can't tolerate being looked at sexually. Still love looking good though
    I look forward to more of your work, it's always a delight

  • @MadArtistParadise
    @MadArtistParadise 4 місяці тому +2

    yay, a fellow Demi ^u^ seriously though, what you feel is valid and no one can say otherwise.
    I totally get what ya mean with people misunderstanding. I tend to make emotional bonds rather quick and when I met my boyfriend (only dated online for like 3 months before being official), a friend of mine and his mom didnt like that. Friend's mom tried everything she can to convince me that her son was a much better opinion than my boyfriend by purposing using my sexuality against me - example: "you know my son much longer", "dont you have a strong emotional connection to my son?" and so on. I have explained that while yes, I do have strong emotional bond with my friend, I see my friend more as like a brother rather than potential partner. Plus, I'm also drawn to personality and just plain respect, ya know and my friend...ho boy...while yea, he respect me to some senses; but he have shown himself to be a man-child that needs his mother constantly (not a girlfriend) and doesn't respect me enough to give me space when asked nor respect my job as a freelancer since everyday he tried to get me to play video games with him. Lastly, my friend never really showed interested in dating nor romance stuffs which got me thinking either he's not all there in the head (he is autistic so I'm little forgiving here and there) or big maybe here - he could be aromantic or asexual...maybe both. Nothing wrong with the but his mom definitely need works since she was trying to get us to hook up because I'm one of the very few ladies who actually give a damn...

  • @nerdz6849
    @nerdz6849 3 місяці тому

    WE'RE SO PROUD OF YOU FOR COMING OUT WE ALL LOVE AND SUPPORT YOU AND ANYONE WHO DOESN'T JUST BECAUSE YOUR QUEER ISN'T WORTH YOUR TIME!!! ❤❤❤

  • @Psynical2020
    @Psynical2020 4 місяці тому +2

    I’m glad you were comfortable enough to make a video about this. We support you!! :D

  • @TheMediaMage
    @TheMediaMage 4 місяці тому +1

    Eyyyyy! A fellow Demisexual! Definitely resonated with a lot of what you talked about. Wishing you the best!

  • @Yoitscaivaxthemolotovfox
    @Yoitscaivaxthemolotovfox 4 місяці тому +1

    I think I might have this hmmmm more questions for lil peanut brain

  • @isabelsmith5824
    @isabelsmith5824 4 місяці тому +2

    It's okay to be trans,it's okay to be gay and demisexual,if that's how you feel,that's how you feel,just be yourself,no matter what anyone says,everyone is beautiful,regardless of who they are and who they love and how they love that person,by the end of the day,love is love
    and I hope for you to be kind to yourself and love yourself

  • @michealargandona3660
    @michealargandona3660 4 місяці тому

    One more reason I love Hattey. I had already been super into your art and content and knowing we share the same corner be of the LGBTQ arena is awesome. Thanks for sharing!❤❤

  • @Lucifersfursona
    @Lucifersfursona 4 місяці тому +2

    This is amazing! I’m still trying to figure out if I’m Demi (and/or poly👀) after the T lol bc before it I didn’t have a functional sexuality, and I didn’t get to grow up with one either.
    I’ve fallen in love with a partner who only wanted fwb too, it’s the worst, seriously. I’m glad you’re okay, and f that guy.
    Drawing ship and self nsfw is something I relate to SO hard. More for my alts than myself as people are often very cruel/disgusting about depicting them 🙃

  • @sterlingstumbackle
    @sterlingstumbackle 4 місяці тому

    GO PROFESSOR HATTEY!! WOOH WOOH!! But that being said, super proud of you x2! You educating us and tell us how you feel is so incredible, and knowing what I know now, it makes me want to look more into asexuality and demisexuality! Love you Hattey!!💖🖤🩶🤍💜

  • @greenhydra10
    @greenhydra10 3 місяці тому

    * happy demiromantic noises *

  • @HarlyMarley
    @HarlyMarley 4 місяці тому +2

    GET IT!!!

  • @thattransmuffin
    @thattransmuffin 4 місяці тому +3

    Heck ye

  • @doodl3noodl3
    @doodl3noodl3 4 місяці тому

    I am glad u told us and u r one of my favorite UA-camrs and aspire me!!!

  • @brianlockett4369
    @brianlockett4369 3 місяці тому

    Stay Fabulous and Health, my fellow aces 🖤🩶🤍💜

  • @Lem0n_23
    @Lem0n_23 4 місяці тому +2

    Les gooooo! Happy for you :)

  • @w1ld_gl1tch
    @w1ld_gl1tch 3 місяці тому

    Just had my; "Wait, that sounds like... Oooooohhhhhhhhhhhh" moment thanks to your video. So uh Thanks!💙
    Didn't think one moment I'd find your Insta, and the next, I'd find a little bit more of myself.😅

  • @Danund81
    @Danund81 3 місяці тому

    ❤ This, was amazing.

  • @aidanfiadh
    @aidanfiadh 4 місяці тому +3

    Please accept supportive hugs and smol kiss on forehead (like a cat) from me
    Also that tshirt at the end is very cool and I would totally buy it from a merch store just saying

  • @Thattunkikik
    @Thattunkikik 4 місяці тому

    “I’m pansexual” when I first heard that I literally thought it meant you’re attracted to metal or just a pan

  • @victorlannister5606
    @victorlannister5606 4 місяці тому

    Yess!!! Another Demi!!!! Me too!!!!!!

  • @Husky7904
    @Husky7904 4 місяці тому

    As a fellow demi I've felt similar stuff and go through the same process with shipping and intimacy between fictional bois
    You're never alone

  • @lightningstorm911
    @lightningstorm911 9 днів тому

    I may not be a demi person but I respect everyone of who they want to be so if that is what you want to be demi gorgen that be demi gorgen ( also i am sorry if that is disrespectful i don't mean to be disrespectful ) and i hope you have a wonderful day/night/evening/afternoon and i also hope you have a wonderful life and stay cool

  • @Nightmare_wolf1023
    @Nightmare_wolf1023 Місяць тому

    Your not alone stop being you I know it might be hard sometimes but you have loved ones you care about you and don't stop what you love. I'm a non binary, bisexual person but I still get picked on but I don't stop expressing myself by what people say about me I continue to do it ❤

  • @SkullpunkArt
    @SkullpunkArt 4 місяці тому +6

    Is this your voice? It’s very nice.

    • @madhattey
      @madhattey  4 місяці тому +5

      Gaw thanks I'm usually very dysphoric of my voice and hormone therapy is expensive af for now, so it's nice that people enjoy my voice :')

    • @SkullpunkArt
      @SkullpunkArt 4 місяці тому +1

      @@madhattey yeah, honestly dude it sounds awesome, I wish I could sound like that.

  • @Cephandr1us
    @Cephandr1us 4 місяці тому +2

    🎉🎉🎉

  • @LivvyTube24
    @LivvyTube24 4 місяці тому +1

    Woooo! I'm so glad you're on that journey of figuring yourself out, and you are so strong to get through all that! Proud of you Hattey!!!
    ("Emotional bonerrrr" had me rolling)

  • @TheMimzez
    @TheMimzez 4 місяці тому +1

    🍻🍻 hey I'm also gay trans and ace who has a boyfriend! though I'm kinda somewhere between Aegosexual and Demisexual, but it's pretty close. The point is, there are more people like you than you think!
    don't let the stupid inner demon say you're weird or "other", it's wrong! You are just a person experiencing regular person things, even if those things may seem "other" from your immediate surroundings, on a larger scale you will find so many other people with similar feelings and experiences!

  • @lumicarph5041
    @lumicarph5041 4 місяці тому +2

    Wellcome to the demisexual world XD Pass for 1?

  • @bella_daze3092
    @bella_daze3092 3 місяці тому

    I’m a gal who doesn’t know what my sexuality is. I know I’m not straight and I know I’m not interested in romance. I know I wouldn’t mind dating someday, just not be pressured into it… my friendships are complicated enough.

  • @danielenglish235
    @danielenglish235 4 місяці тому

    I'm finsexual, I really attracted to anyone who is Feminine and has feminine features Regardless of their gender

  • @seritonin_witch1395
    @seritonin_witch1395 4 місяці тому +3

    Yay fellow ace! Congregations on Coming out ♡⁺◟(●˙▾˙●)◞⁺♡

  • @unknownshadow8491
    @unknownshadow8491 3 місяці тому

    Is that not the thing from stranger things

  • @user-fm7iv7vw4e
    @user-fm7iv7vw4e 2 місяці тому

    Me to :]

  • @hudson9885
    @hudson9885 4 місяці тому +1

    That's amazing I'm abrosexual❤❤❤

  • @floortjekoopen4586
    @floortjekoopen4586 4 місяці тому

  • @dylanangsengsiatsass2688
    @dylanangsengsiatsass2688 4 місяці тому

    Is this your actual voice?

    • @madhattey
      @madhattey  4 місяці тому

      Heh yeah. Not the best, my deep testerone was snatched away from me since birth hhhhhh

    • @dylanangsengsiatsass2688
      @dylanangsengsiatsass2688 4 місяці тому

      Oh. You sound 18

    • @madhattey
      @madhattey  4 місяці тому

      @dylanangsengsiatsass2688 yeah I get that a lot sadly, and I'm 26. Puberty is not kind to me 💀

    • @dylanangsengsiatsass2688
      @dylanangsengsiatsass2688 4 місяці тому

      Don’t worry, things will get better

  • @cassidywoodliff
    @cassidywoodliff 4 місяці тому +3

    Yeeeeeee we’re here for you!!!