10 Reasons to Get Off Social Media - Jaron Lanier

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  • You might have trouble imagining life without your social media accounts, but virtual reality pioneer Jaron Lanier insists that we’re better off without them. In Ten Arguments for Deleting Your Social Media Accounts Right Now, Lanier, who participates in no social media, offers powerful and personal reasons for all of us to leave these dangerous online platforms.
    Recorded June 19th, 2018
  • Наука та технологія

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  • @monicab7646
    @monicab7646 3 роки тому +289

    How many people here deleted their social media accounts? Like if yes.

    • @Jordy120
      @Jordy120 3 роки тому +6

      I did several years ago. It really annoyed me...I'm being polite here.

    • @sampath9dasari
      @sampath9dasari 3 роки тому +16

      I don't think anybody's really qualified to say Yes, 'Liking on UA-cam' - Social Media!

    • @LyliJ
      @LyliJ 3 роки тому +7

      october 1st im going to! so looking forward to it

    • @ivornoiv
      @ivornoiv 3 роки тому +3

      For now I took the apps out of my phone. Looking for my way out.

    • @MagnaMater2
      @MagnaMater2 3 роки тому +1

      Lol, I thought I deleted my Facebook-account some years ago - came across this video and went there to check: and lo, I was still a member... I clicked on the grey x, that allegedly clears one's profile, but I doubt, that really cleared everything from every server... Most likely I still have a twitter-account, too, but unluckily I forgot my twitter-name, my password and since then changed my computer, my provider and my e-mail, too - I fear, under this circumstances it is undeletable, and I'm bound to be a digital corpse...

  • @sarahloffler1872
    @sarahloffler1872 5 років тому +674

    The man is a genius without ego. He serves Humanity. I am grateful to this man.

    • @BillClinton228
      @BillClinton228 5 років тому +10

      Too bad he is a brainwashed liberal. It seems like he watches CNN and believes everything they tell him unconditionally.
      Either than that, I fully agree with him that social media is toxic.

    • @scottpratico1315
      @scottpratico1315 4 роки тому +24

      @@BillClinton228 you are proving his thesis.

    • @EmilyGloeggler7984
      @EmilyGloeggler7984 4 роки тому +3

      Scott Pratico Jaron has since been debunked.

    • @eraknosbeats9191
      @eraknosbeats9191 3 роки тому +5

      @@BillClinton228 man please raise the bar... you look dummy, like write a book or do something, something elaborated !.....

    • @teddypantbongaram2865
      @teddypantbongaram2865 3 роки тому +4

      @@EmilyGloeggler7984 By whom? You?

  • @skoky76
    @skoky76 5 років тому +631

    It's funny how some comments are addressing his "fitness" to be honest I do not care as he clearly has a fit brain, unlike many who comment him.

    • @Pepi86753
      @Pepi86753 5 років тому +18

      Petr Skokan maybe it’s more of the noted hypocrisy? He obviously has addiction issues himself.

    • @ThaisLinhares
      @ThaisLinhares 5 років тому +18

      That's many forms to be attractive, and he's very charming and lovable, indeed.

    • @lemostjoyousrenegade
      @lemostjoyousrenegade 4 роки тому

      WORD!

    • @talk2thoran
      @talk2thoran 4 роки тому

      One is not wholly independent of the other.

    • @catherinewylie6959
      @catherinewylie6959 4 роки тому +3

      ​@love is my religion Very true! It's like people can't critically separate out ideas abymore or deal with distinct nuances.

  • @keelaeire7491
    @keelaeire7491 5 років тому +398

    Very intelligent guy, I’ve deleted my Facebook, instagram two years ago and never felt so anxious free in my life..it’s pathetic when people say I’m on Facebook to catch up with old friends but yet they have no time for them in real life! Says a lot 😂

    • @junglecat_rant
      @junglecat_rant 3 роки тому +3

      @@MissTryALot What a strange conception. There was no social media when I grew up and of course there were connections to other people, some of them were very meaningful.

    • @barbaras3092
      @barbaras3092 3 роки тому +1

      I totally agree!!

    • @dalcloud8873
      @dalcloud8873 3 роки тому

      Are you still off? How's things going? 🖤 🖤 🖤

    • @shana2712
      @shana2712 3 роки тому

      Is UA-cam considered a social media?

    • @metastract
      @metastract 3 роки тому +5

      Yep. There's really no point to social media for maintaining local friendships. It works best for expats like me with lots of international friends they met offline first. Otherwise nobody needs to share a constant thought stream with friends or work colleagues they see regularly anyway. You're supposed to have some time apart from friends and loved ones so that you miss and appreciate each other.

  • @nothingevenmatters771
    @nothingevenmatters771 3 роки тому +247

    I’m done with social media. I’m an empath so I absorb everything very deeply and forget my own intelligence sometimes. When I deleted all of my accounts in 10th grade my life flourished. Went back to it and became so depressed and insecure. Today I am done.

    • @amaryllistheplant3598
      @amaryllistheplant3598 3 роки тому +10

      Your mental wellbeing is way more important then keeping up with fake lifes of insecure people. They are the real insecures, you have just consciousness

    • @thedrawingfiend1887
      @thedrawingfiend1887 3 роки тому +4

      Good for you :)

    • @laurens4479
      @laurens4479 3 роки тому +8

      This is exactly what happened to me on Friday. I’m also an empath and I really struggled in 2020 because I was targeted by narcissists on two separate occasions. After going through that and learning more about narcissism and why I was attracting these people, I came off it completely. I’m never going back to it. I’ve learned that social media is actually a very toxic place and I feel better without it.
      Good luck with your journey.

    • @ketsune23
      @ketsune23 3 роки тому +1

      @@laurens4479 :) we are all on the same page

    • @alaalfa8839
      @alaalfa8839 2 роки тому +7

      Feedback is good to have once in a while..Entertainment once in a while... but being social is not possible on social media. You don't see the face-to-face interaction, don't hear the tone of voice.

  • @bensondeen6970
    @bensondeen6970 3 роки тому +98

    if you are wondering "can I actually delete them?" you can!! I watched this video initially in January 2020, its September now and I'm super happy being off of social media, I don't miss it one bit. my relationships, spiritual practice, fitness, and general ability to be present for the people and moments in my life have all improved dramatically. now when I hang out with people who are constantly on their phones using social media I can feel the difference, they carry the collective anxiety of the hive mind and I feel relaxed and in the moment. Do it!! you'll be healthier and happier for it!!

    • @nicolemilman1795
      @nicolemilman1795 3 роки тому +4

      How do you deal with being the only one sitting or standing there without your face glued to the device? It makes me resentful. It is hard to find like minded people now with whom to actually spend time (even without the pandemic) 🤔

    • @maekong2010
      @maekong2010 2 роки тому

      Conversely, you can just turn-off notifications, in which case, your _mind_ would control if and when you are reminded of a particular site. Your actual friends ought to have your email address, ffs. I wonder why no one ever thinks of this. Seriously, once you've become aware of a site's toxicity, why would you even choose to go there?
      Or, how about this? If you've something to get off your chest, go, post, and, without regard for consequence, leave. Give it a go. The catharsis is real, and the targeted strike allows you to immediately get on with your life.

    • @Eddie_ML
      @Eddie_ML 2 роки тому +1

      @@nicolemilman1795 I feel like you don't have to judge anybody because you've made different choices ! It frustrates me when I see my friends being on their phones when socializing, but I understand we do things differently, and I am not better than them for not doing that.

    • @anonymousedonor5703
      @anonymousedonor5703 2 роки тому

      I wholeheartedly agree and beg people who are unhappy with their lives to at least try it. I went the extra mile and only have a smartphone for calls/emergencies and I recently let go of Amazon, my credit cards, and debting in general. Being conditioned to interact via smartphone with these unseen entities was figuratively killing me. There a few things I won't be able to do, I guess, but I have literally never been more calm or happy. SO worth it.

  • @KnThSelf2ThSelfBTrue
    @KnThSelf2ThSelfBTrue 5 років тому +171

    It says something about you when the most interesting thing you can think of to comment is a remark about the appearance of the speaker.

    • @buildingalaska5925
      @buildingalaska5925 5 років тому +1

      Isaac Lee Oh no someone got offended, don't worry it'll be ok just take a few deep breaths and count to ten.

    • @jclark1693
      @jclark1693 5 років тому

      I honestly find it very distracting when someone is making social criticism, while overtly obese. Especially when talking about behavior modification. This dude is eating enough for two or three people.

    • @KnThSelf2ThSelfBTrue
      @KnThSelf2ThSelfBTrue 5 років тому +13

      @Building Alaska
      Yes, I've been offended people being offended by someone's appearance to the point of not taking their points seriously. Congratulations, you got me. I hope that doesn't offend you.
      But like can you imagine someone who is so easily triggered that it doesn't even come down to ethics or something important, it's ultimately just like, "Oh God my eyes, it's a fat person". Like, I love a good troll just as much as the next guy, but like, if you're gonna poke fun at how people need to calm down, I feel like you're missing out on the quality trolling material by wasting your time on me.

    • @KnThSelf2ThSelfBTrue
      @KnThSelf2ThSelfBTrue 5 років тому +17

      @J Clark, I appreciate your honesty and straightforwardness, so allow me to reciprocate. I frankly find that viewpoint disgusting. I don't trust the judgement of someone who makes no actual comment on an individual's argument, and feels as comfortable as seem to be dismissing said person based entirely on their appearance. The fact of the matter is that you don't actually have any real insight on this speaker's character from knowing this person in any way, you just think all obese people are out-of-control food addicts.
      Even if that were 100% true for this individual, I'm still shocked that you think that this in any way disqualifies him from having a well-evidenced argument for the function of social media as a form of behavior modification. You wouldn't feel the same way about someone making a lecture with a large coffee cup, would you? Do you feel the same way about strung-out ex-heroine junkies with track-marks if they happen to claim to have an interesting and thorough analysis of the effect of heroine addiction as a form of behavior modification, or any other discussion of socially orchestrated addiction, would you? I certainly hope not.

    • @jclark1693
      @jclark1693 5 років тому

      Isaac Lee you’re making arguments against things I never said, I don’t see the point in that. You’re mostly responding to your assumption of an opinion rather than trying to understand it.

  • @Paul-Weston
    @Paul-Weston 5 років тому +211

    I deleted my Facebook profile when the Cambridge Analityca thing came out, and I've never used Twitter. The only social media I use is UA-cam, because of the videos about my various interests. I've switched off notifications, so I'm not addicted to people liking or disliking anything I say. I click "not interested" on any video that makes me angry and eventually the algorithm stops suggesting that channel to me.
    My life is so much better now than 9 months ago, and I feel a lot better about myself.

    • @grayslim6194
      @grayslim6194 5 років тому +2

      Omg I’ve been on subsisting on UA-cam all day,. It’s so bad

    • @grayslim6194
      @grayslim6194 5 років тому

      Ben FACTS 😫😕

    • @Paul-Weston
      @Paul-Weston 5 років тому +8

      @Ben yes, good point there I agree. However unless you're a blogger you're not posting pictures and videos of yourself or your day to day life on UA-cam, like you are on FB, Twitter and Instagram. So you don't so much get into that addictive cycle of people "liking" your stuff, and the depression if they criticize you.

    • @Paul-Weston
      @Paul-Weston 5 років тому +7

      @Ben yeah, I just watch UA-cam for the informative videos about things that interest me. Then I end up watching videos about dogs cuddling with cats etc..

    • @cmproc1
      @cmproc1 5 років тому +8

      Me too , I have done the same thing. Deleted it nearly a year ago and feel amazing. My life is actually private

  • @daughterofsekhmet81
    @daughterofsekhmet81 3 роки тому +77

    Jaron Lanier is a national treasure and must be protected at any cost.

    • @manjsher3094
      @manjsher3094 2 роки тому

      Stop him from eating himself to death?

    • @teabagger0871
      @teabagger0871 2 роки тому

      Is he in danger?

    • @CocoShade
      @CocoShade 10 місяців тому +2

      yes, He is sweetest. I wish him good health.
      I honestly hope somebody (himself) will help him with weight pushing on his joints ... etc.

    • @Pimp-Master
      @Pimp-Master 8 місяців тому

      He's as big of a fool as he is a genius.

  • @blackbird5634
    @blackbird5634 5 років тому +125

    he's a hell of a Yoda. I like this guy. well done Jaron.

  • @Exisles
    @Exisles 5 років тому +154

    Who should care how he looks; He's a brilliant speaker with injections of humor & fine tailored musicianship.

    • @EmilyGloeggler7984
      @EmilyGloeggler7984 4 роки тому +1

      He’s not. He’s a bore.

    • @childfreesingleandatheist8899
      @childfreesingleandatheist8899 3 роки тому +12

      @@ElementFreedive : He's giving a lecture about social media, not healthy diets.

    • @ryanedgemon8050
      @ryanedgemon8050 3 роки тому

      Whatever gets people to listen is best imo. I imagine he has thought of it. It seems like an ethical use of manipulation to teach people how to not be manipulated

    • @albertawheat6832
      @albertawheat6832 2 роки тому +2

      @@EmilyGloeggler7984 Thanks for your useless comment.

  • @user-pz2ms8qn3c
    @user-pz2ms8qn3c 5 років тому +62

    i deleted my facebook ,and my hapiness improved siginifficantly in a matter of days :)

  • @karlkidd1
    @karlkidd1 3 роки тому +80

    I deleted my fb account about a month ago, mainly because of all the covid propaganda. I feel so much better.. Think of the time you're being "news fed" as time you could be having your own thoughts and your own time

  • @whodis5444
    @whodis5444 2 роки тому +16

    Deleted my social network accounts half a year ago, and it really improved my day to day mood. I've lost acquaintances and people I thought were my friends because of it, and it is harder to meet people when they cant just look you up, so it has objectively made me lonelier, but I do feel as if a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. That negative feedback loop is gone, I no longer have to deal with a bombardment of outraged viewpoints from people trying to get me just as outraged about something they're passionate about. That weird competitive nature that social media not so subtly shovels onto you isnt stressing me out anymore. I also feel more secure knowing that my identity isnt just floating out there in the ether for anyone to peer at when they choose. It was a tough decision, and there are downsides, but in the end, I encourage it.

  • @hassankajogoo3226
    @hassankajogoo3226 5 років тому +68

    One of the greatest thinkers on social media (of all times?) He is really trying to save you and I, pay attention please.

    • @alaalfa8839
      @alaalfa8839 2 роки тому

      Mom told me that some female politician was very much focused on ordinary people, who don´t earn much money.. She felt social feeling to them... So the opposition decided to call her a "nazi" politician, which is not true.
      Jaron Lanier is right, they save money by saying negative stuff.

  • @jacobjacob4139
    @jacobjacob4139 5 років тому +48

    This guy's brain & spirit are fit I tell you.

  • @ClintonAllenAnderson
    @ClintonAllenAnderson 5 років тому +242

    I'd LOVE for Jaron and Joe Rogan to sit down and have a nice long talk!

    • @amorfati9861
      @amorfati9861 5 років тому

      @Vikki Zima Rhetoric

    • @jaimerachelle2636
      @jaimerachelle2636 4 роки тому +22

      Joe Rogan wouldn’t have a clue what to do with Jaron Lanier. Joe is still absolutely obsessed with money which is obvious from his podcasts with Russell Brand. I just couldn’t see it working. Joe pretends he’s woke but is really not.

    • @JungleScene
      @JungleScene 4 роки тому

      @love is my religion its memes, my dude.

    • @JungleScene
      @JungleScene 4 роки тому +8

      @@jaimerachelle2636 but rogan is at least interested in machine learning, harms of social media, and the idea of the scourge of AI.
      The benefit of joe rogan is specifically that he is a dummy and approaches topics from a dummys perspective so his big brain guests can explain it in a digestible for for other dumdums like myself.
      If only smart people were allowed to have conversations about society, they would only be discussed by a tiny percentage of people and regular blokes would be disenfranchised. it is a benefit to society to include the uneducated in complex discussions.

    • @alreadyforgiven7849
      @alreadyforgiven7849 3 роки тому +3

      J’aime right! Jo would talk over him and interrupt him the entire interview.

  • @robbiepullan7805
    @robbiepullan7805 3 роки тому +21

    What a coincidence, came off all social media a few days ago so have videos like this in my recommended. What I wasn't expecting was the speaker to be one of the people whose extensive virtual reality knowledge formed a backbone of research that was able to get me a first on my dissertation. His book, Dawn of The New Everything was an incredible read that I would highly reccomend to anyone who is remotely interested in how virtual reality has developed from its inception decades ago. This man is an absolute genius, no question.

  • @Tsnore
    @Tsnore 5 років тому +53

    Jaron is a blessing to mankind.

  • @BookOnThrough
    @BookOnThrough 3 роки тому +15

    I had a Facebook since I was 12. I am 24. I have been off for almost 3 years. My friends think I'm weird for it. UA-cam satisfies my media fix, and I try to keep it to educational material but more often than not I do enjoy small entertainment.
    I attest to this having a positive affect on my life. Not big, but bigger than I first guessed.
    Hi five, this lecture was great!

  • @darrenc3979
    @darrenc3979 5 років тому +24

    "I think I'm feeling evasive!" this is hilarious!
    I adore Jaron's mind!

  • @malikinvictus2647
    @malikinvictus2647 3 роки тому +7

    I liked the point he made about being addicted to negativity more than positivity. Makes sense why social media really makes you feel like shit.

  • @bprathe3205
    @bprathe3205 3 роки тому +14

    I could listen to you for hours. Thanks brother for having moral courage to expose these issues.

  • @MsBaruschka
    @MsBaruschka 3 роки тому +14

    I feel like he is the kind and caring uncle I never had hahha. Very interesting person!
    I also deleted social media, only keep youtube and sometimes check tumblr. Healthiest decision!

  • @aniqabano1582
    @aniqabano1582 3 роки тому +10

    My Facebook account once got hacked and I was forced to stop use it . Although a stressful incident in the beginning mainly because i was worried about my data, it proved to be the best thing that happened to me.
    I had more time to spend with family., read books, walk, sleep. ....
    Got my post graduate degree on time .....
    It's really rewarding

  • @karimawilliams9417
    @karimawilliams9417 5 років тому +15

    I like him , he seems like a good human being who wants to see the world positive , loving, harmonious. Blessed the peace makers. I m in I love these kind of people. Another thing : people who criticize his weight I m sure they will criticize me too so these kind of people I don’t like them I don’t want them as friends or associates. Social media can be used positively or negatively, we have the choice. Negative energy some call it negative spiritual world wants the world to be destroyed, positive energy wants to see the world united, loving and helping each other. There is a world besides us and these entities is using people. Peace and Love , be the light .

  • @psychodelicategirl
    @psychodelicategirl 5 років тому +42

    I like this guy. I like how kind of weird yet confident he comes across, loved the music. I deleted Facebook a few months ago and I don't miss it. Never fell into Twitter. I'm planning to wean myself off the rest over the next year.

    • @Alic4444
      @Alic4444 2 роки тому

      same! (Twitter and Reddit for me.)

  • @kaleidojess
    @kaleidojess 5 років тому +44

    He can have an amazing impact on the future.

    • @derechtem0mo
      @derechtem0mo 2 роки тому

      the same impact my fart can have

  • @missnightlight4339
    @missnightlight4339 3 роки тому +13

    Deleted mine 2 days ago. Felt good doing it, and I certainly didn't have any regrets. I highly recommend to anyone. Your life never needed it, and u won't miss it after all 👋🍵🦋

  • @hanniffydinn6019
    @hanniffydinn6019 5 років тому +55

    Smart people do not engage excessively in social media. He's right. I never have, but all the dumb masses have nothing better to do.

    • @gvis3880
      @gvis3880 4 роки тому +7

      I used to engage in debates on FB, then I realized how pointless it was. Now I only use FB for staing informed on events, if I use it at all.

    • @ohsweatbret
      @ohsweatbret 3 роки тому

      As you engage on social media

    • @shaddyraddy92
      @shaddyraddy92 3 роки тому

      Social media is effective for business. Other than that, its validation.

    • @sanjusabu5488
      @sanjusabu5488 3 роки тому

      I used to debate as well on youtube but now I have refrained myself most of the yime from doing that

    • @hanniffydinn6019
      @hanniffydinn6019 3 роки тому

      @@sanjusabu5488 smart move! You may be interested to learn why so! See ua-cam.com/video/YbX0wwp-nlI/v-deo.html

  • @Alexander-rq9he
    @Alexander-rq9he 2 роки тому +2

    I realized how addicting and toxic social media was very early on and disconnected from it right away.

  • @musicalfringe
    @musicalfringe 2 роки тому +3

    When Facebook and Twitter first appeared they made me deeply uneasy. At the time I noticed the quality of the interaction and how it was all superficial emotional fluff and meaningless expressions of empathy/encouragement without any depth - in other words, the electronic incarnation of the "self-esteem movement" complete with virtual trophies just for being alive. I never touched Facebook but I did develop a small Twitter habit the last couple of years, thinking that the online discourse badly needed people with functioning brains to talk sense.
    A few months ago I s###canned Twitter and the improvement to my mental health was immediate. I'd never look back. I'm sad to say that I've given up on fixing the world, but at least now I'm approaching the lightness and focus I need to address my own life.

    • @musicalfringe
      @musicalfringe 2 роки тому

      @@LA-wv7gf Wow, do people really brag about their random acts of kindness? That's truly messed up.

  • @inkoftheworld
    @inkoftheworld 5 років тому +42

    Jaron Lanier is so cool, intelligent and humane. I've already heard most of what he said here cause I've listened to so many of his talks already, but I love listening to him. Also, this one was especially great because he played a lot of music!

    • @alaalfa8839
      @alaalfa8839 2 роки тому

      Sam Vaknin says conditioning is worse than addiction... that addiction may be treated but it's harder to deal with conditioning.

  • @ItsMikky
    @ItsMikky 3 роки тому +6

    1:03:55 what a breath of fresh air when he began to play. After such a daunting reality, this beautiful melody is played. Love it.

  • @jesseautumnmusic
    @jesseautumnmusic 3 роки тому +6

    Omg - I love this talk & love the music so much! The overtone flutes totally took me by surprise - I’ve heard the Norwegian version, so beautiful. I look forward to reading Jaron’s work. Enlightening!

  • @smartbeautiful1593
    @smartbeautiful1593 3 роки тому +6

    WOW! This gentleman is AMAZING! I truly LOVE to see him MANY MORE years to come.HOPE he'll pay attention to his well- being/health so we can enjoy his music and INTELLIGENCE moreeeeee.

  • @BTotty
    @BTotty 3 роки тому +10

    Jaron is absolutely brilliant and bold and I'd love to meet him one day.

  • @Herehear49
    @Herehear49 5 років тому +6

    Can't say we have not been informed and warned by the intelligent and conscious Jaron Lanier. Quite the musician as well. The music was enlightening as well!

  • @justamysticalbeing4972
    @justamysticalbeing4972 3 роки тому +5

    Dude I love you, think I met you in Seattle many years ago. Take care of yourself, this world seriously needs you!!!

  • @stephena.sheehan9959
    @stephena.sheehan9959 4 роки тому +7

    I'm surprised that even Jaron was taken in by Russiagate. I think that shows just how powerful what he's saying is. It impacts all of us including Jaron included. Really great talk. Thanks for posting.

  • @JackAcid
    @JackAcid 3 роки тому +4

    Like a lot of us on here watching this, I first learned about Jaron a week ago, after Watching The Social Dilema. What an absolutely fantastic bloke! He fascinates me. Wonderfully Dr. Who-like, but clearly brilliant.

  • @brianrichards7006
    @brianrichards7006 5 років тому +16

    The genius monk of Silicon Valley, who speaks a powerful message. Excuse me, but now I have to check Facebook and see what disruptive and disturbing posts have appeared in the last 10 minutes.

  • @johnatyoutube
    @johnatyoutube 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you Jaron for everything you're doing. You're a good soul.

  • @xuanius
    @xuanius 5 років тому +47

    I've already decided to stop logging into twitter, wechat, instagram, facebook (except for messenger to respond to questions and meetups). UA-cam will be hard to quit. I think I'll hang onto this one :')

    • @richcampus
      @richcampus 4 роки тому +2

      Yes.

    • @richcampus
      @richcampus 4 роки тому +3

      UA-cam is pretty damn good.

    • @nothingevenmatters771
      @nothingevenmatters771 3 роки тому +7

      UA-cam isn’t bad if you’re typing in what you want to watch rather than scrolling down your UA-cam timeline. After a while it only shows the same things when you scroll down. Which can be toxic. So only search what you want to watch and get off. Pinterest is the only social media I trust because I can create vision boards of my goals rather than looking at other people’s lives ☺️

    • @nothingevenmatters771
      @nothingevenmatters771 3 роки тому

      QTee righttt!

    • @alecoloxa
      @alecoloxa 3 роки тому

      @QTee also they recomend news channels "tv stuff" bbc and everything like that

  • @alwaysyouramanda
    @alwaysyouramanda 3 роки тому +7

    I didn’t get big into my smartphone until I was well into the age of 23. (I’m 29 now, and addicted. Yes.) But back then, my peers thought I was odd for not wanting one/having one on me. I miss who I was then- productive and aware: I noticed everyone looking down at their phone. Just the minute or two I witnessed was startling. Now, I picture myself.. 2-5 hours easily. Gone. Absolute mortified.

    • @alwaysyouramanda
      @alwaysyouramanda 3 роки тому

      Absolutely**

    • @iwanttocomplain
      @iwanttocomplain 3 роки тому

      I remember when text messaging was a thing. I literally sat in a bar on a round table with five other people all looking down at their phones for what seemed like hours. No conversation occurred at all! I felt so insulted. I think people are mildly more aware now then back then at how rude that is.

  • @JungleScene
    @JungleScene 4 роки тому +16

    Duncan Trussell is right, this dude needs to be on JRA ASAP

  • @elkiness
    @elkiness 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you. I was at the pioneering stage of computers in education in Israel...( I'm 72, a baby boomer...) made the first menu for children who don't read yet! ... helped develop a children's authoring system, lots of games for learning. Ah, it was great. I was thrilled to go to work every day--making magic. Yes, we were mostly all idealistic. Now I'm worried about my grandchildren, so much screen time. And now I'm even more worried, after hearing you. Very important, your concerns and well explained.
    (And really thinking (again) of quitting social media. Facebook first, which I've pretty much weaned myself from.)

  • @AbenaAnima
    @AbenaAnima 3 роки тому +4

    I just love Jaron! He is so lovable. With his consent, i would just love to hug him. He is so Good at what he does. So nurturing and holistic in his way of being.

  • @priscila5612
    @priscila5612 3 роки тому +8

    This is eye opening and great information overall. I appreciate that though he worked/works in Silicon Valley, he hasn't drank the Kool Aid. He keeps it real about what social media is and does.

  • @cherie7010
    @cherie7010 5 років тому +4

    I am totally captivated by his knowledge insightful wisdom. He has such a wonderful way of simplifying a somewhat complex topic and presenting the information in a way that is simple to understand yet provocative. Love this guy... I’m buying the book for sure

  • @andivlogs
    @andivlogs 2 роки тому +2

    Jaron is so smart and sensible, he seems like a humble person too

  • @ladybird491
    @ladybird491 3 роки тому +3

    Got my whole life back leaving Facebook and Instagram and twitter. I am writing some amazing work every day and now have writing success. Social media is EVIL I don't need dopamine but from my life purpose.

  • @bobleclair5665
    @bobleclair5665 4 роки тому +6

    Jaron,like the way you explain what a lot of us feel

  • @dylanlarson435
    @dylanlarson435 5 років тому +16

    Rarely does someone change someone’s opinion on a matter via social media posts. I’ve been known to troll when feeling my beliefs or ideas to be marginalized, “ganged up on” etc. it’s so easy to be negative on social media and that’s how social media thrives. It doesn’t want harmony. It wants to divide us because division is addictive.

  • @arande3
    @arande3 5 років тому +2

    During the questions segment, Jaron brought up the analogy of DoS attacks in reference to information availability in the modern internet. "Cultural DoS." Very smart.

  • @breathnstop
    @breathnstop 2 роки тому +5

    Everything he says is true. You can feel it.made me so much more aware of the manipulation.

  • @marisaelenenadiejamusiccom3974
    @marisaelenenadiejamusiccom3974 5 років тому +6

    Thank you for this video! Peace to you!

  • @daylinlott5723
    @daylinlott5723 2 роки тому +1

    Props to the accompanist in white shirt, who paid attention and smiled and laughed at the right times. He didn't drift off while Lanier spoke.

  • @lisamangano138
    @lisamangano138 5 років тому +5

    I do not use facebook or instagram at all. I did not like how much i was dependent on it. I have been off for 8 or 9 months now and I feel great

  • @duncanmacleod2382
    @duncanmacleod2382 4 роки тому +32

    I love your work, but I think most of the sheep in the crowd will internally defend their social media addiction like an alcoholic defends their alcoholism.

  • @baileysimrell4946
    @baileysimrell4946 3 роки тому +5

    Love this guy & the energy he puts out there

  • @bealtainecottage
    @bealtainecottage 3 роки тому +4

    Jaron is inspiring, a man with integrity!

  • @fuckthisaccount8133
    @fuckthisaccount8133 5 років тому +3

    This man is one of my favorites

  • @NickiTedesco
    @NickiTedesco 5 років тому +7

    This is amazing, it's the perfect combination of real data, very intelligent conversation about our humanity and culture interspersed with ethereal music to keep things really where they are located...in the ethos

  • @LeandroVelez7
    @LeandroVelez7 2 роки тому +1

    I have a history of finding brilliant people and then watching every talk they gave. Welcome Jaron to my menagerie of brilliant minds!

  • @mrajsma01
    @mrajsma01 5 років тому +2

    I am enthralled by the speech and eloquently expressed ideas. One thing I must disagree with is the separation of the Czech Republic and Slovakia in 1993. I myself am Czech and know well that this was a peaceful, mutually agreed and accepted decision.

  • @bagholderwithaplan
    @bagholderwithaplan 3 роки тому +7

    I already deleted my facebook but I'm gonna have a bit of a difficult time getting rid of instagram and youtube

  • @WezMwangi
    @WezMwangi 5 років тому +5

    "Reliable tiny shades of difference carefully applied consistently have a compounding effect." - Jaron Lanier

  • @theodora_pilates
    @theodora_pilates 3 роки тому +3

    That was a very pleasant surprise at the very end where he mentions cats! 😻

  • @lucadior74
    @lucadior74 3 роки тому +2

    I thought I was watching Korn live !!! 😂😂 but it got better , I love this guy 🤓

  • @emluvs92
    @emluvs92 3 роки тому +1

    Social media has helped me stay in contact on a more personal level with past managers and coworkers that have helped me get new jobs through their references. That’s what’s stopping me from deleting everything.

  • @paraschaudhri
    @paraschaudhri 3 роки тому +3

    He has a child like innocence. Absolutely Love him

  • @kirsten4803
    @kirsten4803 3 роки тому +4

    I would love to see a complete list of what is considered social media, beyond all the obvious ones. Of course Facebook and Instagram are there, but what about amazon? And other shopping websites? What about news websites, blogs etc, what about Netflix? Of course we don’t post anything on Netflix, we get suggestions based on what we have watched. What about youtube? What about job search websites, if you look for one job type, before you know it you are getting similar suggestions without even asking. I really wanted to email Jaron Lanier to ask this question, but I can’t find an email for him. If anyone knows, it sure would be helpful. Somehow I think the entire device - the phone or iPad, is addictive. I don’t think it’s enough to only get rid of the obvious social media sites.

    • @jashnchahal7544
      @jashnchahal7544 3 роки тому +1

      This is an underrated comment! It would be amazing if these questions are answered! Would make things more lucid

  • @Anvyy
    @Anvyy 3 роки тому +1

    What an excellent public speaker. AND he's a genius.

  • @danieljakubik3428
    @danieljakubik3428 5 років тому +8

    I see the societal problems of social media

  • @TurnbasedBooks
    @TurnbasedBooks 3 роки тому +1

    I’m just now getting into the tech industry and this guy is becoming my guru.

  • @johnnyblade4351
    @johnnyblade4351 4 роки тому

    Just come across this man and he is Brilliant... Wowza !!

  • @llhpark
    @llhpark 3 роки тому +5

    Oddly, my decision to leave Facebook earlier this month is what likely resulted in the offering here. While my parking ticket has been stamped nicely as result of this offering and I love the musical offerings, the contrasting realities at present with respect to the free market and the inherent ‘premise staples’ from which seem very relevant at the time - perhaps the point he raised about the combinations of socialism and capitalism being the worst of both worlds at that time, I have to presume he hadn’t considered the new feudalism that seems rather likely to be further along than mere abstraction.
    The feedback loops , the parasites that feed the mice which feed the cats .. just as real and more so now.

  • @yobeenocreative6984
    @yobeenocreative6984 4 роки тому +1

    What a wonderful man. Great music. Great chat.

  • @Agakir
    @Agakir 2 роки тому +2

    Every social interaction costs a lot of "money" that's why, social media is cheaper and easier to control.

    • @daight254
      @daight254 2 роки тому

      Could you plz elaborate

    • @mesayingthings7063
      @mesayingthings7063 2 роки тому +2

      @@daight254 costs money to do things (movies, shopping, club, restaurants, etc.) but social media is "free"

  • @mademan4life
    @mademan4life 3 роки тому +1

    He is the IT teacher, who no one ever had.

  • @libertysprings2244
    @libertysprings2244 4 роки тому +2

    Great talk, thank you!

  • @josephrigan2421
    @josephrigan2421 3 роки тому +3

    been (intuitively) on this very thread for about 20 years, un-coincidentally only as long as i've been using the internet (but for the most part, avoiding social media). am not involved with silicon valley, so naturally i can't articulate the specifics with the inside perspective and obvious genius which jaron has magnanimously bequeathed his audience here, and in his book ...... one thing is very clear however, no matter how you receive (digest) this information, jaron is a digital visionary/ renaissance man...with the ability to peer into and navigate the hectic labyrinthine inner-machinations/anatomy, of this preposterously behemoth experiment in social behavorism. and some of it is, as he says, very positive in terms of connectivity, but along with that comes the nefarious skinner- box /dopamine -excitation manipulation, with attendant dark algorithmic wizardry, the shadow or dystopian aspect. the question remains as to whether the benevolent virtues outweigh the faustian compact, which is unfolding each and every time you (we) sign into one or more of these platforms, including yt.......the segment regarding cyber-pioneer norbert weiner is sufficiently terrifying so as to grab our attention, it is the epitome of prophetic (from the 1940's...) de-construction of the pestilence of cell-phone addiction, which we are experiencing as a societal malignancy, both literally and metaphorically. jaron hits the nail on our heads, pretty consistently...thank you sir, rock on!!

  • @GratefulFed
    @GratefulFed 3 роки тому

    Such a wonderful person. Much needed information.

  • @dr.mikeybee
    @dr.mikeybee 5 років тому

    Jaron has a very interesting perspective. It's difficult to imagine a less clichéd POV.

  • @vagizz
    @vagizz 5 років тому +8

    Music was unexpectedly good btw!

  • @criticalthinker7822
    @criticalthinker7822 2 роки тому +1

    This gets good at 9:00. Thanks Jason for sharing this.

  • @janefink7509
    @janefink7509 2 роки тому +2

    This man is brilliant.

  • @darkvalue505
    @darkvalue505 3 роки тому +3

    There are some apps that are hard not to use because they are included in the business. In Dubai, you must have WhatsApp to communicate. In China, you must use WeChat. In Taiwan, you must use Facebook. Social media can even help you find a job. The problem is vanity. We all want to be famous from social media. The likes and the followers and the views. The illusion is the social media companies can quickly make you famous or it can shadowban you.

  • @larkatmic
    @larkatmic 3 роки тому +2

    I can’t believe I’m not having to pay to hear this amazing man speak and play music. 👍 I’m canceling my Facebook tonight.

    • @albertawheat6832
      @albertawheat6832 2 роки тому

      Did you cancel it ?

    • @larkatmic
      @larkatmic 2 роки тому +1

      @@albertawheat6832 I have it hidden in a file and actually still go on it now and then. Its awful. I feel like when I used to try to quit smoking. I would light up behind my garage so my kids didn’t see me. I eventually quit (15 years now) I look back and seriously can’t believe I smoked for as long as I did. Addiction sucks. I will eventually close the chapter. On toxic FB. Every month it gets easier to do so.

    • @albertawheat6832
      @albertawheat6832 2 роки тому +2

      @@larkatmic I know we don't know each other, on a personal level. But I always wonder when I read old post from people, as to how they made out. thank you for an honest reply, and I am happy that you have gained some ground in this area. Peace to you and your loved ones.

  • @reallyok98
    @reallyok98 3 роки тому +1

    Maybe all of us who have jaron s lanier videos now in our recommendation is just the algorithms wanting us to get the hell out of social media for one reason or the other

  • @TheIsleNarrator
    @TheIsleNarrator 3 роки тому +2

    What a fascinating life form Jaron Lanier is. And I say life form because I'm convinced he has transcended the human experience and is on a another dimension of consciousness!

  • @JoeMmt347
    @JoeMmt347 2 роки тому

    Norbert Weiner! My Uncle bought me his book 30+ years ago. Classic.

  • @jimbrausky
    @jimbrausky 5 років тому +6

    I wonder why I be on Amazon like 20 times a day and have an ever increasing to buy list that I check daily and the thoughts come to me often. Huuummmm 🤔

  • @isaacpaulsen1158
    @isaacpaulsen1158 2 роки тому

    That piano playing is like nothing I've ever heard, brilliant guy, helped me put perspective on today's world.

  • @yesthehandymancan
    @yesthehandymancan 5 років тому

    glorious Q&A session

  • @danieljakubik3428
    @danieljakubik3428 5 років тому

    Mixed in here are some really intelligent, thoughtful questions

  • @skoky76
    @skoky76 5 років тому +13

    Great speech, but might not be understood properly by many.

    • @user29a
      @user29a 5 років тому +1

      /r/iamverysmart/

    • @bigsuz
      @bigsuz 5 років тому

      Petr Skokan it takes time for people to learn a new language.
      It took me awhile to delete Facebook after watching him speak. His last book convinced me. Sometimes people need an explicit manual to do new scary things, as a sort of handholding promise that things will be okay.

  • @xpez9694
    @xpez9694 2 роки тому

    What a frightening idea and have it explained to me so clearly. But I like social media to see things that interests me not necessarily social between old friends or whatever(the original reason for facebook) just subjects like astronomy, programming, art, architectural etc...

  • @gearsofwar2497
    @gearsofwar2497 2 роки тому +2

    The music they’re playing is amazing