10 QUESTIONS I ASKED MY HUSBAND BEFORE OUR ARRANGED MARRIAGE | Ranju N
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Arranged marriages can be fun, full of live and happiness. Honestly saying this out of personal experience. Having said that, meeting a stranger for the first time and discussing, you past, present, future and your expectations can be daunting.
In this video I am sharing 10 questions I asked my husband before our arranged marriage. And in my opining, it is best to be completely honest with these questions.
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Ready list for quick reference
1 Family
2 Education n career
3 Passion n interests n hobbies
4 Lifestyle
5 Is he-she independent
6 finances
7 children
8 personality traits - conflicts, stress, mental health, short tempered, impulsive
9 Faith - religious spiritual belief
10 expectations from your partner
Thank you
Thankyou!
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Thanks. She said there would be background noise and THEN ADDED music on top. Had trouble hearing it.
Past
Will anybody answer honestly? They just answer according to our comfort
Sometimes who does not know these calculations got excellent partner than who does calculations.
Thank you so much for the video... Really helpful for people like me who are going to have arranged marriage
It's not demanding attitude..she has struggled in her life and knows how to shape future so that its smooth... Many ll realise these things very late....
All the best to you to have an enjoyable life to the fullest. Great video
Hi Ranju
Only one thing missing in this video Hello Evrybodyy 😊 I like that when ever you say that In your every video. It sounds so refreshing
Aw... You are the sweetest! ❤️🤗
Love all your videos, pl can you make a video about plants indoor and outdoor and your fav things in life❤️
Thank you for the request... I'll definitely work on them and get them up soon 🤗
Hello mam,
Thanks for this video in my house they have arranged for a proposal I was confused in my mind but this questions made me to think easier to take right decision.
Please make some more videos which will be helpful for all who will be confused with their life.
Good one yar, thanks for sharing
My eyes widened and subscribed right away after hearing the word vegan. It just gives you such a good feeling to hear from another vegan.
I’m a vegetarian. A Brahmin Madhwa here 😅
Really useful info. Thank you so much. U look so pretty sis 💖
Very useful information thanx
Very good video ...keep up the good work !
Loved it,Thanks 😍
really helpful thank you! My mom arranged a proposal for me, and I am really anxious
so now that I know what to ask it will make it a bit easier hopefully
Verify with documents, ask neighbors
@@lorenasmith7135 or show him a vid on MGTOW
Really it's good to ask such questions. God bless you both👍
😁😁😁 The fact is if one point matches to you another point can't!.
Pls make a video for what questions are to be asked to girls in arrange marriages plsss!!
All good advice... Nice 👏👏👏👍
Thankyou so much for this video sis ..m 👍🏼
Very practical discussion.. thanks for the video.
Really great Video for people in arranged marriages
It's nicee,U did not say about the topic like any bad habits,how can we know that he is genuine
Hiii mam...
U r really a awesome person as per ur thought process...
Love Love ✌
Can someone Plz put a video on how today's generation that is more advanced or open in matters of relationship can carefully approach arrange marriage.
Practical questions
Good... Keep loving and caring 💗
You and your hubby discussed all the vital parts of a married life..but,at the end if it ..in retrospect you would have felt that compromise on either side keeps the marriage solid..so we are lucky if we get a person willing to bend a little.
Yes you said it. Because life and situations change and your partner and you need to find middle ground so both of you can live a happy life 😉
Before getting mistake everyone think’s that he/she always is doing the right thing.... you got it that’s why you talk like this...
This video is gonna help me for sure 👍👍
All the best!
I think losing a few pounds will help you more
We want to know the answers too Ranju.
Such nice topics you are taking nowdays
Thank you...
What to wear , on arranged m. 1st meet , color too
I m downloading this video because i m going to this phase and m superconfused, thanks for the video❤️❤️
You are welcome! All the best! ❤️
Hopefully everything works in your favor
Update? 😋
i have some problem with arranged marriage concept !!
why the dating period or phase r very less in such type of marriages?
why it can't be for atleast 1 year before getting engaged or married??
break the chain of typical arranged marriages !!
coz only knowing the background and nature of the partner is not well to get married with that person!!
there should be some heart to heart connection , emotions amd love as well !!
It was really superb ranju...ur such an inspirational n a person u always spread a positive vibe.. loads of love to u from us.. keep going.. keep well 😘💗
Thank you so much.... Love you loads 🤗❤️
Pleasure 💗
Only marry who you love
3:11 Soppu sound is an emotion...
I don't know you're married, u look so young, god bless u😊✨🙏
Thank you 🤗😍
I'm glad that I watch this video Today and I'm learning alot from this video.😁
Hi in there could we get to knoe more of a openly ended structured question
Aaaa
I prefer girls ask me as many questions as they would like to ask me so that they are one hundred per cent assured that they are either marrying the guy of their choice or they are rejecting the guy who they believe is incompatible with them. Earlier while chatting with girls in online chatrooms trying to choose a girl to make her my life partner, I used to ask every girl several pointed questions which helped me gauge my compatibility with each one of them. Unfortunately, those whom I liked wouldn't marry me because they were killing time online and those who liked me couldn't marry me because they were already married to their soulmates. Today, if I am given a chance to ask girls relevant questions I would certainly shy away from it because I believe that judging girls for who they are is a grave violation of their basic human rights. 🙂
Ye questions boyfriend banate waqt puch le toh arrange marriage ki naubat na aaye 😑
Dhokha kha k hi akal aati h
Lifestyle is most important 🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍👍👍👍
Have to be precise and open ended
Music sound is louder than your voice
All Husband log ,,,point to be noted
Luckily all these things I've discussed with my fiance except for the children part.
🙄 ; after discussing all these better remember what you answered!
These are great questions I wish I would have asked these when first getting married.
Are you naked or what in the pic
@@pushpendrasingh8277 why does it matter? are u turned on? XD
Very useful for every girl lovely vedio love u ranju lu so.....much
Thank you so much... Sending you love!
Mam really thanks 😊
Omg.. that a great content dear.. ❤️
Thank you so much!
There was an incident when a boy came with a proposal for my friend... What he asked was... "If I am having a bad day in my office and when I come to the home if I beat you to end up my frustration what would you do? "... This question just shook her out... Thank god that he explained his whole behavior in a question..
He just tested you. Its a trick question and you played yourself. Nobody beats anyone with intention or marries just to beat the crap out of women Lol
@@trigcat3107 I knew that... That explained his behavior and that he thinks he has the right to beat his wife....
@@trigcat3107 He tested what? No normal sensible man asks such a question.. What reply did he expect from the girl..?
First thing first I want toeet u in person so badly this Diwali I am going home but after that I am surly gonna come to banglr and beg u to meet me, u r so motivating Yaar I mean Bolne ko Subse bolte hai but u actually walk the talk, I was in love with my husband and we fight we cry we don't talk at times but the love in us keeps us together, as he is from Karnataka I am from Punjab everything is differ for me yet he always stood with me and together we grew up to b decent human being,y husband is really kind hearted that that is what made me look up to him as he believes be kind is the need of the moment these days, we are together for 11 years now 4 being married. I still get angry at times as I have horrible hormones sometimes, and shout and cry and get annoyed at him but, he is very calm and collective , I know he is the one woh can handle me and takes care of me,
In this era when everyone is holding love marriage ka banner u talked about arrange marriage that's so cool. Xoxo
Thank you so so much... That's is no relationship without fights and ups and downs. But it is important to look at the bigger picture. Learn from the fight and work towards strengthening your family. Sending you love... 🤗❤️❤️
I don't think anybody is as ill tempered as punjabi. Kannadigas are nice creatures, and if you're fighting with him, the issue lies in you
@@trigcat3107 BTW he is a Muslim. And I am a Punjabi but born in bidar and bought up in different states of India as my dad is an airforce officer , the way u pointed the finger shows how u r, I am saying this to u and u only coz, I know all kannadigas are not morons like u.
PS don't b a flag bearer coz I r a negative person how see's only bad things and not good in others. So sad.
Pss think about your life and choices, if u walk this way u gonna end up real bad..
Good video
Great content.. Good job
What a bright smile in your UA-cam DP👌👌
Ask any past history before marriage , if any one comes to know after marriage if the boy or girl has been in relationship with some one , it will surely end up in worst marriage.
Exactly
Don't talk about it..May be the person might have moved on.. It will remind him or her again.. That could lead to painful moment..
@@arsalangreen593Nah, it wouldn't make them uncomfortable if they have the clarity about them that they have already moved on. If it's painful to them that means they're holding onto past things, they haven't moved on.
My God, it seems like an interview to get into a top MNC.
Girls please take it easy!!
Arranged marriage is like a interview... Whole life related with it...so it can't be take easy for men/ women...good to discuss before marriage...
Well you too should ask girls ... No one has stopped you ☺️
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Marriage isn't that silly to take it easy... Selecting a person with whom u are going to live the whole life with... That too within a short period(arranged marriages)... An interview is required by the girl and by the boy
i have some problem with arranged marriage concept !!
why the dating period or phase r very less in such type of marriages?
why it can't be for atleast 1 year before getting engaged or married??
break the chain of typical arranged marriages !!
coz only knowing the background and nature of the partner is not well to get married with that person!!
there should be some heart to heart connection , emotions amd love as well !!
I feel your check become little big very little and it looks good too,
Loveeee
Good one dear... :)
Thank you sweetie! 🤗❤️
Thanks babe! ❤️
Finance guy always said please pay my all EMI. Also share house expenses. I can't cook because I am belonging from traditional family. Guy not bother anything over hot topics.
These things should be taught at school, we go into relationships not knowing what we are looking for..disaster waiting to be happend!! Lol
3rd comment!
I will be honest and say the music drowned you out too. I could have heard it better without that. Background noise is one thing but to then and music was a bad idea.
Don't you worry like what if the marriage don't work and fail , what if your husband lose interest and leave you....?
It's a business deal.. I don't know why UA-cam recommend this video
,:D. Jiggly Shiv paneer butter masala. Packed with karma!
I'm basically anti-relationship now
So i'm very curious. As a vegan, did you or would you marry a hardcore non vegetarian? Would you marry someone who drinks, and also is a hardcore non veg? How important is that for you? Just curious, you need not answer if you don't want to. :)
Dear it seema a good idea to ask all your questions. But then will you do if
1) men may fake answers or give positive ans just to show them in good pictures especially those who are desperate to get married in arranged marriages.
Eg they may claim that they dont drink ...they do housework and they like their partner working after marriage ....which may just turn opposite after marriage
2) in arranged marriages they may discuss your conversations with their family members, brokers for Eg topics like having kids and other personal topics which may hamper your reputation.
3) some men are good in manupulating answers.
You are absolutely right... That's why it's important to not jump right into it but take your time to get to know the person despite what they say and seem in the beginning. Also it would be awesome if your parents can find mutual friends with their family who can vouch for them
Decision making is too tough..The only one strong decision to get married which cannot be changed later 👍
It's not just the men. Same does apply for women. It's the human nature to put out their best foot forward.
In my family 2 engagements broke because females faked everything in professional manner. They didn't even worried about spending made from both the sides. In addition to this happened after asking the female if she has some problems thousand times. Just ask how many were broken in your family, and who initiate it
@@sarafchinmay probably they were forced to marry by parents and if they confessed in the beginning parents would beat, starve them for cancelling marriages or disown them.
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Loved it
Hii, these r th ?? EVery person speaks about but ours was totally diff dr its only v saw n said s no ? Asked n v dint speak at all. Mom n dad liked n v said s but I should thank them making a vice decision he is pure n genuine person wd no bad habits at all ( that’s what I wanted personally)😀, video wd g8 content👌👌
I'm looking for marriage if any one is practical in life can reply words are not enough
Why you asking soooonmany questions... If I ask all this .. that guy sure will run away from me
That shows the guy isn't serious, so good for you
@@QwertyQwerty-eq7th Then no guy is serious. People will start lying if you present a questionnaire
At 3:09 soppau !!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thank you so much. I am arranging my own marriage with my partner I met on a Muslim dating app and I hope I know what I’m doing lol smh
May i know what a guy can expect from you
Shoppoholic😂😂😂 bass reject from my side
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Hi my dear m not commented on last video dear m not well so m not watched sorry for it today I saw really I enjoyed new Ranju can c in that video dear... Coming to this video m done love marriage dear 7 years of love and 3 years of marriage life it's going good dear in my life also ups and downs there with my family and relatives dear adjusting it v r living here... M done my marriage with all blessings of our parents only dear... Understanding should there dear... Echo should not there between them dear then only they can lead it otherwise no so only many pairs are coming to divorce etc... Because of lack of understanding between them.... All the best dear.... Thanks for this video so that I have shared my life dear sorry for boring this things dear.... Love u baby stay blessed dear...
Oh hey... I really hope you will feel better soon. I hope its not viral as it is going on rounds here in bangalore.
It is so wonderful to read about your marriage and what all you have accomplished! Very proud of you... Keep it up. Sending you love! ❤️
Please check the man's passport mark sheets friends relatives jobs
Alcoholic hai
Verify everything don't take any decision in haste
However sweetly boy or man talks check each and every detail
I asked some of this to my bf ...but he answer some only n then said marriage is abt luving each other...n not abt questioning...
He is right bt as a working women i also wanna 9 wht he is upto..
Of course love it important. But it is also important to know what you are getting into so you will be better prepared for it.
About any health issues u can addup to it
Children 🙄??sorry but I'm not understand??
Mam had a question that I'm 28 and currently jobless and I'm doing my pgdm but not financially independent due to family conditions there is delay in it...and family is also stressed as all my age people and younger than me are getting married.. so I am searching for a guy but I m embarrassed to tell him that I'm still studying and not financially independent..you know how it is in arrange marriages ..so can you help me how can I talk to them and will they understand ??
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Itne points sunte sunte buddha ho gya. Ab kya shaadi kare....
Mooth marke sojao
Thank God you got married....
Don't worry dear.. You are black and your husband is bald. That makes a perfect combination.
What’s the point of making such grt content which can not be heard properly due to background noise ?
I know right... I'm sorry... I didn't think it works be so noisy outside. But thanks for watching anyway 🤗
It's audible. Video is absolutely fine.
What's the point of blabbering when you can simply close the video and mind your own business, atleast she made a video, most people got what they wanted.
Background music is very irritating.. plz see before uploading the video... Can you hear your voice clearly.. i dont understand why people put background music and its too loud
One weird que i want to ask with all due respect of everyone, i will also metion my thought process behind it in later part...
The ques is ,Is it ok to ask abt previous relationships and virginity only n only if u yourself didn't had one ?
Thought process-i think if der is some past ppl tend to compare or sometimes carry forward prefixed thoughts n judge on previous
experience
Then compare that previous person was better then this n then stay unhappy and also make patner unhappy...
Of course a criminal is judged by its past. And its not a crime to lose virginity.
Some people prefer virgins(there are solid reasons for that).
You SHOULD discuss it BUT with prior notice before you table it in front of him. If you want him to accept you in totality you must tell relationship and virginity issues. Its an arrange marriage and these are genuine questions imo
not a good question to ask, they will feel disrespected...if you can find out from neighbors or some other source then fine else it's better to forget about it if you really like them...
@@jacobspeeds nowadays we dnt exactly know the town or city of other party where exactly is it on te map and you're saying to enquire from neighbors...
Those were the days of our parents generation when we us to get info from neighbors...
And this is a arrange marriage senario love toh baad ke batt hai na e1 if we like a person prima facie
@@sud4008 true... So we have to be our own generation and forget the girl's past.... Finding a virgin these days is not an easy task and one shouldn't make an issue out of it...
@@jacobspeeds yah you are right,but i have already mentioned the reason but again i ill like to tell with a example of one of best frnd he met a girl in his colg days they had a mutual crush so they just became frnds n they weren't even in relationship.And the girl got married to some else.And now after marriage she is comparing her husband with my frnd and e1 she txted my frnd saying that is not understanding like you n caring like u n all and i guess she is unhappy with it...
If she would have been happy she wont hav had txted him such things...
Luckily my frnd is a good person but i also know a person if he would hav been in my frnds place he would hav ended up making her happy in unacceptable ways...
Just imagine if this girl didn't had a known my frnd it would hav been a different story for her ,she wouldn't hav compared her husband and stayed happily...
And their may be other such good girls who dnt speak up but compare and end up staying unhappy...
(What if they would hav been in relationship it would hav been more difficult for the girl)
And i can give u other such examples as well...
Ps-No gender discrimination intended
All these questions in the first meeting is big No.
If there happens a second meeting then you are good for atleast 3 questions and the remaining can continue depending on the responses.
as if he will speak truth😂
i have some problem with arranged marriage concept !!
why the dating period or phase r very less in such type of marriages?
why it can't be for atleast 1 year before getting engaged or married??
break the chain of typical arranged marriages !!
coz only knowing the background and nature of the partner is not well to get married with that person!!
there should be some heart to heart connection , emotions amd love as well !!
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