The secret behind who you choose as your husband.

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 158

  • @tharshiniravi5298
    @tharshiniravi5298 3 роки тому +18

    Maam I really goosebumps and happy after saw your speech. You help me identify what's the actual problem of myself. The reason for my insecure mindset and low self confidence because of past childhood tragedies. Now clear with what I am and what should I need to do to change myself. ♥️💯

  • @sasikala3673
    @sasikala3673 6 років тому +115

    Tq mam,,,,,marriage nu nenachale bayama iruku mam,,,,enoda frnds and family marriage pathi negative ah solum podhu enaku adhe mind set laiye iruken mam,,,,na adha epdi handle pandradhu pls solungah,,,

  • @julyvna
    @julyvna 3 роки тому +18

    Thank you mam. I'm raised by a toxic family.. Narcissistic, emotionally abusive mother.. To deal with them, since childhood, I made sure I earn and become independent. And I did. But I'm very scared about choosing my life partner. I'm worried if my family would continue abusing me even after marriage. Can you help me anyway mam?

  • @dhivi0302
    @dhivi0302 6 років тому +47

    Naa enga appa va base panni enoda life partner ah select panna virumbala pannavum mata

  • @kanzaamuizftuy9y729
    @kanzaamuizftuy9y729 2 роки тому +1

    Really heart touching 👏♥️
    Thanks mam for ur great advice

  • @arula9323
    @arula9323 2 роки тому +1

    Your analysis is good

  • @reshikalalitha6550
    @reshikalalitha6550 6 років тому +10

    Well said.True Words..But just a thought..In the example you said,The more you are ignored the more stronger you emerge at the end with a fighting spirit..👍

  • @reenavictor
    @reenavictor 6 років тому +7

    Wow!!!really true!!!Thank you!

  • @malarkodibalakrishnan1145
    @malarkodibalakrishnan1145 6 років тому +4

    I have no daughter.Only my younger son is talking to me normally.My father and mother both died.I have no other place to go.My elder son wants to get married.I don't know how to search a bride.My husband he wants to go to tour.He doesn't like his elder son
    But both are same gene behaving identically.

  • @pricimeenu4861
    @pricimeenu4861 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you mam . 💐💐💐🙏

  • @roshinirachel9339
    @roshinirachel9339 6 років тому +11

    Awesome rightly said .👌

  • @vigneshkumar3460
    @vigneshkumar3460 2 роки тому

    Right and excellent thinking . You are a good reformer

  • @sumitramurgan6642
    @sumitramurgan6642 4 роки тому +2

    Mam I'm Sumitra Murugaiyan ..from Pune Maharashtra ....... I have seen all ur videos .... I'm students of 2year - B.COM .... I'm getting very depressed by little things.

  • @gayathrisundaram4958
    @gayathrisundaram4958 6 років тому +4

    It's fully applicable for me

  • @jeevijeevi5058
    @jeevijeevi5058 6 років тому +58

    I am love married but my husband is my world 🌎 my hubby is so good love you so my Dr hubby 💜💜😘😘😍😍😍

    • @sbathma
      @sbathma 4 роки тому +3

      Eppo epdi

    • @sheikh7120
      @sheikh7120 3 роки тому +3

      Whatsapp status la poduradha inga vandhu poduringaley 🙄

  • @keerthibalan2059
    @keerthibalan2059 6 років тому +10

    exactly..this happens in my home

  • @vigneshkumar3460
    @vigneshkumar3460 2 роки тому

    I salute you for guiding youths

  • @devimurugeshan348
    @devimurugeshan348 6 років тому +1

    mam super unga speech unga speech sema use fulla irukku

  • @rislarizlasiyam3528
    @rislarizlasiyam3528 2 роки тому +1

    Tq so much mam

  • @captainjack5779
    @captainjack5779 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks akka en lifela unkita oru time nerla pesunum unga voice supera iruku akka

  • @anbu6555
    @anbu6555 6 років тому +3

    thank you sister😍

  • @maninivyakoki7498
    @maninivyakoki7498 6 років тому +3

    100%correct madam

  • @AD-db3sv
    @AD-db3sv 6 років тому +2

    Wow superb.. most needed one

  • @psolomon1000
    @psolomon1000 6 років тому +2

    U r very good..and correct

  • @Dineshdinss2211
    @Dineshdinss2211 6 років тому +3

    I followed ur every speech mam..really i admired from ur words .but in this speech make me to change myself.yet ur told story perfectly matches with me..sry the word more than "perfect" will suits my situation..ur every lines makes me to feel cry mam.. seriously i xpect that from my future husband and I didn't getting married.but i love one guy whose name is Dineshkumar for 9yrs.but still my mind gets disturbed not bcoz he's a bad characterized one..he's really such a gud personality yet i feel more depressed mam..ur words replay makes me gud..thank u so much mam..thanks a alot mam

  • @ramyajayaraman4488
    @ramyajayaraman4488 6 років тому +6

    thanks mam really u are a legend thanks for such a inspirational video

  • @vishalishyam5988
    @vishalishyam5988 6 років тому +2

    Exactly said.. thank you

  • @priyangajagadeesh7127
    @priyangajagadeesh7127 6 років тому +15

    Mam my dad is so strict and so he went allow me to go out with even friends or their house. Every time when i go out i wont tell him. Without knowing to him i ll go out from college by bunking. And he wont allow me to wear decent modern dress but i wish to wear it and i am comfortable in it. How to make him understand mam☹️

  • @vinus5290
    @vinus5290 3 роки тому

    Romba nandri mam

  • @a.janani2038
    @a.janani2038 11 місяців тому

    Super 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @feminaazmi3753
    @feminaazmi3753 6 років тому +1

    Thanks for this video 😃

  • @mahanbaisvision9421
    @mahanbaisvision9421 5 років тому +3

    Tell how a men should select a girl

  • @revathychandran6670
    @revathychandran6670 3 роки тому +1

    Its true

  • @tt-es9gf
    @tt-es9gf 6 років тому +5

    Rempa tq madam enaku ulla topic tan ithu

  • @Yazhsara1991
    @Yazhsara1991 3 роки тому +4

    My husband is literally has my dad's behaviour and thoughts which I hate to the core. My dad don't respect girls and woman. But he wants my salary amount to spend on unusual things. He always speaks kitchen is only meant for woman, he don't even take his used plates or tumblers aside. Woman should take all his used utensils. I hate to the core. Woman should not speak on high volume in house or public. Shit on him 😡

  • @sudhapandian6577
    @sudhapandian6577 3 роки тому

    3.48 I start to cry because its reflect my self

  • @vijigayathri4264
    @vijigayathri4264 3 роки тому

    Tq amma

  • @lakshminarayanan6491
    @lakshminarayanan6491 6 років тому +2

    Highly good thought

  • @charupriya1434
    @charupriya1434 6 років тому +1

    Super mam.. tq😇😍

  • @ArchanaG12345
    @ArchanaG12345 6 років тому +1

    Definitely mam

  • @syamalaparamanandham6795
    @syamalaparamanandham6795 4 роки тому

    Vazhga vazhamudan mam

  • @vaishnavisrini2627
    @vaishnavisrini2627 4 роки тому +1

    correct

  • @deepa5089
    @deepa5089 3 роки тому

    Tq Akka ❤️

  • @eshwarieshu7075
    @eshwarieshu7075 6 років тому +1

    It's true ...

  • @doxyshiva
    @doxyshiva 4 роки тому

    Thanks mam

  • @kalaivani-fo9hb
    @kalaivani-fo9hb 6 років тому +4

    Sure mam namala kastapaduthura ninvugala apdia vitudurathu nallathu.apo than atutha step namanla pogamudium thank you mam 👍👍👍👍

  • @Manju-ne5pi
    @Manju-ne5pi 4 роки тому

    Tq....so much mam and I love you....mam

  • @rathna786
    @rathna786 2 роки тому

    Well said

  • @sasisekar7630
    @sasisekar7630 6 років тому +6

    Enaku arrange panagka but engagement pani break aiduchu epdi na en life patner choose pandrathu therila mam second time break aidumonu bayama iruku eng aprom tha pesa arambicha two daysle prblm vanthuduchu so ineme epdi en life run pandrathu therila mam plz ur advice mam

    • @nnglotus
      @nnglotus 5 років тому

      Don't worry. Everything will be better soon!

  • @abdulnasar7480
    @abdulnasar7480 6 років тому +1

    நன்றி

  • @karthikeyan-iw5on
    @karthikeyan-iw5on 6 років тому +2

    nice speech meam

  • @pragadeeepreethipa1216
    @pragadeeepreethipa1216 6 років тому +5

    Sis...I have a one doubt...Ninga soniga love va share panikanunu....kedaikanunu ethir pakkathinganu....Apa namba matu Tha anmba pakir thukanuma...Avanaga keta erunthu erthir pakka kudatha.......avanagalu than Tha thana athu share agu

  • @malarkodibalakrishnan1145
    @malarkodibalakrishnan1145 6 років тому +2

    My husband is like that.I am living with him for 30years.My elder son is like him.My younger son is also doing mistakes and telling lies.I am very much self pity.Madam please help me.

    • @malarkodibalakrishnan1145
      @malarkodibalakrishnan1145 6 років тому

      I am not scolding anybody.I am giving lots of love.

    • @haripriyamenon
      @haripriyamenon 6 років тому +1

      What were you doing for 30 years?

    • @malarkodibalakrishnan1145
      @malarkodibalakrishnan1145 6 років тому

      My husband and my elder son are behaving like psycho.Their only strength is going for a job. My elder son doesn't contribute for the family.He doesn't talk to me.He is not answering my questions.

    • @haripriyamenon
      @haripriyamenon 6 років тому +3

      @@malarkodibalakrishnan1145 you go for a holiday or to ur parent's house for a month..then nly dey will realize your value..If u had a daughter, i feel she would have been good to you.

  • @ammulu6861
    @ammulu6861 3 роки тому +3

    Frustration irku mam. Dono what to do feeling so lonely if I try to spend time with parents they feel like I'm annoying them... na pesnale pudikalanu soldranga ... I don't hv siblings i don't hv frdz all r busy with there own life bf nooo he is married now .. I am all alone no hopes about future 😭

    • @sajunas881
      @sajunas881 3 роки тому +1

      same here girl. Try to focus on yourself. Learn and do something which interests you (like any hobby / skills). Don't waste your time for people who didn't care about you. Occupy your mind with positive thoughts which benefit your future career / life. Let's hope our future brings out the best!

    • @sharmadapraveen
      @sharmadapraveen 2 роки тому

      Ths S Lakshmi,chennai,
      S...well said saju....
      Cheer up Latha...
      I focused on my fav
      I can't accept about hobby (spending time)
      Stitching, drawing painting, embroidery gardening r my fav...
      Learned frm you tubt... Self taught...
      C my passionate work on my channel
      🙏💜

  • @divyashree9213
    @divyashree9213 3 роки тому +3

    Mam I have seen lots of fighting with parents it has affected me so unfortunately I have aceepted the marriage subconsciously without liking the groom now it has forwarded 6 years now by others n convence. Now atlast I dont like him lots of misunderstanding even i had baby boy at age of 4 years. Plz. Tell. Me what to do. I decided to leave all n going back to Banglore actually i got to person at age gap Of 10 years lots of misunderstanding plz help me

  • @pk_editz342
    @pk_editz342 3 роки тому

    100% true

  • @sangarisang8503
    @sangarisang8503 3 роки тому

    Tq akka

  • @Balapriyadarshiny
    @Balapriyadarshiny 6 років тому +1

    Useful mam

  • @Anu-uu2gj
    @Anu-uu2gj 6 років тому +1

    Super mam

  • @pushpashanmugam2120
    @pushpashanmugam2120 6 років тому +1

    Gayangala eppadi aathuvadu.....

  • @arulmurugan2072
    @arulmurugan2072 4 роки тому

    What is best age difference between husband and wife mam..

  • @suvib260
    @suvib260 6 років тому +1

    Unmai.... Niengal sonathum, teliva vilankuthu

  • @jasminefarvine175
    @jasminefarvine175 6 років тому +1

    Anba pagirthuka porom 👌👍👍

  • @prabu7965
    @prabu7965 6 років тому +8

    Yen friend ku avanga appa vaa pidikathu? Avanga yepdi life partner choose panvaanga mam?

    • @dhanushree6984
      @dhanushree6984 6 років тому +4

      prabu sinu simple avangaluku avanga appa kita pidikatha qualities avanga partner kita iruka kudathu nu ninaipanga... avanga appa apdi irukanum nu unga frnd asa patangalo adhu pola vara pora partner irukanum ninaipanga....

    • @prabu7965
      @prabu7965 6 років тому

      dhanu shree ok thanq ☺

    • @prabu7965
      @prabu7965 6 років тому

      dhanu shree yen frnd konjo jolly type..avar partner silent type naa future la ithanaala prblm varum ah?

    • @dhanushree6984
      @dhanushree6984 6 років тому +1

      Its all abt situations ryt we cant judge tat thngs.... but unga frbd jolly type na ellamey prblms vandhalum slove agidum... bcuz edhaium periya vishayam eduthuka matanga.... bt smetyms adhuvey kuda prblm ah varalam... situation ku thanguntha pola react panna prblm irukathu...

    • @prabu7965
      @prabu7965 6 років тому

      dhanu shree hmm naa paattathu vara mostly wrong ah thaa iruku..silent ku silent jolly ku jolly thaa correct pair ah iruku konjo maari iruntha always fight so only asking

  • @rakchinidurcka
    @rakchinidurcka 6 років тому +1

    Very good

  • @PriscillaEsther
    @PriscillaEsther 4 роки тому

    Exactly mam

  • @sasthikauma1059
    @sasthikauma1059 5 років тому +5

    Mam my age 25, Athai paiyan age 36 avanga enna than Marg pannuvennu pidivathamma irukkanga.....rompa love panranga...enga v2 la foriegn mapilai pathu irukkanga ..yara select panrathunu confused as h irukku Mam...pllzz help

    • @jeworks7368
      @jeworks7368 5 років тому

      ipo ungalukku marriage aakita

    • @prathabA5935
      @prathabA5935 3 роки тому

      @@jeworks7368 yaarum reply panna maddanga

  • @parveen2034
    @parveen2034 6 років тому +5

    Madam naanum en loverum 2years love panrom romba innocent love ana ipa avanga future ah nenachu romba bayapdranga nadakatha oru vishayatha nenachu bayapadranga oru solutions solunga madam

  • @balakrishnanc4176
    @balakrishnanc4176 6 років тому +1

    Super video madam

  • @chandrashri18
    @chandrashri18 6 років тому +1

    Super sister

  • @shfd3832
    @shfd3832 5 років тому +1

    Super aah sonneenga

  • @toptucker5329
    @toptucker5329 6 років тому +3

    mam enaakku USA la work poga asai but na middle class family and appa anuppa mattaru and mrg pannikka ippo viruppam illa ippothan Bsc 2nd year padikkuren study mudiyarathukku 4 years irukku mudinjathum us la job panna poganumnu asa na enna pannatum give me a sajestion mam.

  • @vidyapriya3591
    @vidyapriya3591 3 роки тому

    I'm so sensitive but my husband family can't understand that so so many problems come in my life ... How to manage at pls help me

  • @vidyapriya3591
    @vidyapriya3591 3 роки тому

    Mam I need help mam

  • @roja7716
    @roja7716 3 роки тому

    Madame neengal sollurathu ennodha vazhakai pathri.

  • @jansishanmugam5578
    @jansishanmugam5578 4 роки тому

    How' to get direct councling from u mam

  • @harshithacj6585
    @harshithacj6585 4 роки тому

    Same mam l am having same problem l am study 9th

  • @saganamary2833
    @saganamary2833 6 років тому +1

    Thank you madam

  • @riomass9681
    @riomass9681 6 років тому +1

    👌👌👌

  • @maria_w_n_l
    @maria_w_n_l 6 років тому +1

    ur awesome

  • @jenli4160
    @jenli4160 6 років тому

    How to contact miss personally? 😮

  • @saishali
    @saishali 2 роки тому

    Mam ungala yapde contact panurathu

  • @abinayas6221
    @abinayas6221 3 роки тому

    Love marriagenala.. Parents..... Apdi thituranga? Apdi pasuranga.. Un maanasu alapaiuthanu?

  • @arund7904
    @arund7904 6 років тому +1

    Madam, Payipu, Gnanam.,

  • @srinivasan9794
    @srinivasan9794 6 років тому +1

    How can I contact u mam

  • @Samuelprime_7
    @Samuelprime_7 2 роки тому

    akka enaku ungakitta irundhu Oru advise venum ka

  • @jayalakshmipandipandi9910
    @jayalakshmipandipandi9910 6 років тому +1

    வணக்கம் சகோதரி

  • @senthamilselvisivan7482
    @senthamilselvisivan7482 6 років тому +3

    mam I want meet to u how to contact you mama

  • @jayalakshmipandipandi9910
    @jayalakshmipandipandi9910 6 років тому +8

    உங்ககிட்ட எப்படி பேசுவது சகோதரி

    • @ramachandrandurai2145
      @ramachandrandurai2145 6 років тому +1

      Communication mastery by Kirtanya, con:- 9840 841 481

    • @jananiraja3267
      @jananiraja3267 6 років тому

      நானும் meet pannanu

    • @ramachandrandurai2145
      @ramachandrandurai2145 6 років тому

      Janani, Neenga avangala meet panni ungaloda problems eathuvum solve aaga porathlla. avangalukku athukkana time irukka porathilla. so, better avangaloda Videos eallam youtube la paarunga. unga life style kku apply panni think pannunga. neenga intha society la mathippu mikka kudimagalaaga vazhnthaaley avangalukku magizhchi thaan. Wish you a happy future...

    • @thubailthubail5800
      @thubailthubail5800 6 років тому

      @@ramachandrandurai2145 Annaen yaarunaen neenga ..ippadi details puttu puttu vaikkureenga

    • @ramachandrandurai2145
      @ramachandrandurai2145 6 років тому

      @@thubailthubail5800 அதான் அண்ணே-னு சொல்லிட்டியேப்பா...
      "நான் உனக்கு அண்ணன்"😊

  • @Kathircomments
    @Kathircomments 6 років тому +1

    nice video

  • @antosangith5009
    @antosangith5009 4 роки тому

    Neenga nalla pesaringa

  • @Happyshorts22
    @Happyshorts22 6 років тому +1

    Correct pesuna sari agatha problem ethuvum ila...

  • @pavipavithra5899
    @pavipavithra5899 5 років тому +1

    My life apadi tha iruku.

  • @karthikayeni4526
    @karthikayeni4526 6 років тому

    Its true I love my father

  • @maniazhagar1458
    @maniazhagar1458 6 років тому +1

    Sema speach mam....

  • @drsareekakatkuriphysiother5376
    @drsareekakatkuriphysiother5376 5 років тому

    Pls translate

  • @ManoMano-bc6ev
    @ManoMano-bc6ev 4 роки тому +1

    Hi mam Uganda number veanum

  • @rajudhoni2788
    @rajudhoni2788 4 роки тому

    🙆

  • @princychristina264
    @princychristina264 5 років тому +2

    F he ask divorce na what to do.?

  • @vikidustin2249
    @vikidustin2249 5 років тому

    hi kaa ....mathro