Overseas Pakistanis Open Up About Their Deepest Fears in an Intimate Portrait - BBC URDU
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- والدین سے دوری ہو یا مستقبل کے بارے میں خدشات۔۔۔ بیرونِ ملک مقیم پاکستانیوں کی پردیس میں کیا مشکلات ہیں اور ان کا سب سے بڑا خوف کیا ہے؟ جاننے کے لیے ہماری یہ ویڈیو دیکھیے۔۔۔
ویڈیو: احسن محمود یونس
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سب سے بڑا خوف بوڑھے والدین کو پیچھے چھوڑ کر آ نا ہے 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Bilkul 😢😢
Left elderly parent to die and worrying about not reaching their funeral. 😮
Bilkul aisa hi hai is me koi shaq nai. Lekin wo bhi bicharay majboor hotay hain. Ye tou yahan k beghairatou ko chahiye k ab bhi hosh k nakhun lein. Hukmiraan mene is lye nai kaha k ab pata lag gya hai. Hukmiraan tou puppets hotay hain yahan k sirf unka ye kasoor hai k wo ghalat kamo me apnay chotay se faiday k lye istemaal hotay hain
انسان کو ہہت رگڑے کھانے کے بعد بالکل آخر میں یہ گیان ملتا ہے کہ دنیا خواب پورے کرنے کی جگہ نہیں ۔ بلکہ یہ ایک مسلسل کوشش اور آزمائش کا نام ہے ۔ اصل کامیابی اور اصل خواب آخرت میں جا کر ہی پورے ہونگے ۔
right
اللہ پاک سب پردیسیوں کو آپنی حفاظت میں رکھے آمین
Ameen
Ameen
@@shahidhussain-cv2em ameen ya Rabbul Alameen.
AMEEN Sum AMEEN
اپ کے اس میسج نے مجھے رلا کے رکھ دیا اس میں میں بھی شریک ہوں
اللہ تعالی ہم سب کی پریشانیاں دور فرمائے اور اللہ تعالی ہم سب کو اپنے حفظ و امان میں رکھے یا رب العالمین
بہت ساری دعائیں ہم سب مسلمان بہن بھائی کیلئے خوش رہیں اباد
very relatable videos to all overseas Pakistanis. My biggest regret is that I am not able to spend time with my parents. Whenever I go to visit I can see them getting old on each visit they have a different appearance. And the mighty thing is they never say to stay although they deeply want you to live with them. They just want us to be happy wherever we are.
No doubt the feeling of emptiness is killing me. Life is good in Canada but I don't see myself satisfied as I miss Pakistan everyday.
same
Same here
The emptiness is never filled here
Wapis jawo beta - go back to complete yourself
Same
Had same feeling when I came to Canada! Try to make friends, get involved in activities. Yes it’s a different culture . Children will be Canadians all the way! So far Pakistan is concerned problem can be employment. Daily
struggle can become unbearable unless you are filthy rich!
جہاں دانہ پانی لکھاہو انسان وہیں رہتا ہے۔
اللہ سب کو کامیاب کرے ۔
اب تو جدید دور اور واٹس ایپ ہے ۔
ایک الگ معاشرے میں رہتے ہوئے اپنا اسلامی تشخص اور پہچان بنا کے رکھنا مشکل ضرور ہے مگر ناممکن نہیں ۔
سب پردیسیوں کے لیئے ڈھیر ساری دعائیں 🤲
I’m also one of the overseas. Let me interpret overseas situation in a different but realistic way. All human beings have the right to dream. Unfortunately, the dreams that force us to leave our beloved countries n go abroad to seek our dreams n goals, are based on materialism which is further complimented with freedom. These are the only factors that don’t let us come back to our countries.
Practically speaking, freedom to waha hoti he jaha koi pochney waley na Ho , jaha kisi ko Ap ki parwa na Ho . Agr ham pardesiaon ko ye freedom itni pasand He to Phir dukh Kiyon hota he Jb bemari me hamen koi Aik glass pani pochney wala nhi hota . Ye freedom to hamen us wakt bhi enjoy krni chai na.
Ham na chahtey hoey apney dreams k nam pr bahir rehte hen , to koi is ko majboori ka nam de ye freedom ka . Bat to ye he k ham in facilities ko chorney k lie tyar nhi hotey jin k peechey ham apno ko kho dete hen .
Ham olad k Roshan mustaqbil k lie pardes kattey hen n Phir Jb ham des wapis jatey hen to Wo olad apni aney wali olad k lie hamey chor k bahir chali jaey gi .
Ye never ending cycle he . Jis ki chain ko hame khud break krna Ho ga but is k lie HIMMAT chai but unfortunately, we all are good orators ( including me ). We don’t have the strength to take initiative to return back . Life is nothing without emotions . Facilities are just to facilitate but we mix these two factors which leads to chaos n mental stress.
May Allah guide n help us all to take right decisions at right time.
Nice comment
May Allah SWT give you himat
Remeber /// the story of ashabi Kahf only few youth could migrate from a society which was involved in shirk and other wrongdoings , majority remained
Same is happening now only few have guts to take big steps to come out from the shirk of worshiping and obeying our desires ..
We need to make ourselves to be that FEW and not be amongst the majority that is preferring wealth , comfort of this duniyah over love of Allah
Pakistan Pakistan hai!!! Love it
تمام ماؤں کو میرا سلام 🙌🏻
ہر فیصلے کی قیمت ہوتی ہے۔ کچھ خرید کے دینی ہوتی ہے اور کچھ، بنا خریدے
میری ایک بہن باھر ہے جس کی یاد بہت آتی ہے. اس کیے کیا جذبات ھوتے ہون گے. ھم تو یہاں اپنا دل ھلکا کر لیتے ہیں وہ کیا کر تی ھو گی ❤❤❤
We can't imagine their pain...we didn't do or think much about them
its true that living abroad is not easy, but unfortunately living is Pakistan is harder. when we think about our next generation living in Pakistan, its a quit daunting, Pakistani living abroad should distinguish between controllable and uncontrollable issues and don't worry about uncontrollable issues. be grateful for what ever we have can keep us content and happy.
@@memories0046ab name change krlo ( back to Canada) 👍
Good one xD,@@baburao1243
Agree❤
پردیس میں اکیلے بیٹھے اپنوں کی ہر خوشی ہر غم سے محروم لیکن پاکستان میں بیٹھے ہووں کے لیے پردیسی صرف اے ٹی ایم مشین ہیں۔۔۔مانیں یا نہ مانیں
پردیس کے نام سے ڈر لگتا ہے مگر میں نے 17سال سعودی عرب میں گزرا دیے ہیں الحمدللہ بہت کچھ حاصل کیا ہے لیکن آب دل نہیں لگتا ہے کیا کریں اور بہت مجبوریاں ہیں اللہ تعالیٰ اپنی رحمت کرے گا
❤❤ میرا مشورہ یہ ہے کہ انسان کو ہمیشہ بڑا دل بڑی سوچ رکھنی چاہئیے یہ کیا ہوا کہ ایک ہے یا دو ارے بھائی موت کو کون ٹال سکا کُھل کے جیو بے غم ہو کہ اگر با عمل انسان ہو ہر وقت اپنے رب سے ملنے کو تیار تو میں نئی سمجھتا کہ یہ دُنیا پھر کوئی حثیت رکھتی ہے ایسے انسان کے سامنے میں خود بچوں کا باپ ہوں ماں باپ بہن بھائی الحمدالله سب ہیں لیکن سب دور دور ہیں لیکن محبت سے ملتے ہیں اور رہی بات موت کی تو ہم میں سے کسی کو بھی آجائے تو بھی کوئی غم نئی نیک اعمال کریں سکون قلب حاصل کریں جگ جگ جئیں۔
Beautifully explained the fear of overseas Pakistanis in 4 minutes.
موت ایک برحق ھے لہزا خوف خدا کا ہونا چاہئے نہ کہ موت کا
موت کسی بھی وقت کھبی بھی آسکتی ہیں۔۔۔۔۔اپنے ایمان اعمال کی حفاظت کریں یہی کامیابی ہیں۔۔۔۔۔۔۔
الحمدللہ آپ نے بالکل درست فرمایا
Perfect comment
Bohut khubsurat video bohut hi gehre aur dard bhare paigham ke saath. jis kisi ne bhi banai hay, bohut shukriya aap sab ka.
پردیسیوں کے دکھ بہت بڑے ہیں 4 منٹ کی ویڈیو میں شاید کوئی درد دل رکھنے والا محسوس ہی کرلے ۔۔
وطن اور اہل وطن کے لئیے ہر لمحہ آنسوؤں اور ہچکیوں کے بیچ دعائیں نکلتی رہتی ہیں ۔۔ ہم دیار غیر میں بسنے والے غریب الوطن ہیں ۔۔
کاش اہل وطن زرا سا محسوس کر سکیں وطن اور مٹی سے پیار کیا ہوتا ہے ۔۔ بچوں کی آنکھوں کے خواب پورے کرتے اور انکی آنکھوں میں چمک دیکھنے کے خواہشمند ہمارے اپنے خواب ادھورے رہ گئے اور آنکھیں دھندلا چکیں ۔۔
اور کیا لکھوں بس دل بیٹھا سا جاتا ہے ۔۔
جی بالکل سہی کہا آپ نے ۔❤ فرام پاکستان
ALLAH ap ko himat dy kush rahen❤
I have lived this fearful life in UK . I am british citizen but now I am back to pakistan. Bye bye UK
Bahi jan Ma sha Allah you r an extraordinary person,you deserve the highest reward for the bravest action you have taken to protect ur eeman,I'm living in Uk for the last 48 years but I haven't see anyone truely happy here,May Allah give u taufeeq to be steadfast and be example for others to follow you,but many inferiority complexed wreched still want to settle in Europe,may Allah give hidayat to all of us
Me too Alhamdulillah ya Rab ul Alameen ❤
@@tariqjalil230 let them taste what they can't have.. forbidden fruit is always attractive. Well I am done with UK ... I was thinking to myself, it's now or never . I am relaxed in Pakistan. Need very less money to live a basic life style in Pakistan. Life is short don't want live with any regrets. If you want to move out sure do it, if you don't like it sure you can always go back to the UK
@@abiedafatima wise decision, at least you will have no regrets
That's true 😢
Last year my 18 months daughter died because of cancer.😢
I cried too much it's like I was just a dead body 😭
I could not go to my country
Because i was too far studying in UK
May Allah SWT give her highest place in Jannah and sabr to your whole family.
@@adele_90 Ameen brother
Thank you so much 🙏🏻
Allah sabr ata farmaye
سبھی دوڑے ہوۓ ہیں کہیں پہ پہنچنے کے لیے ۔۔مگرکہیں بھی نہیں پہنچ پارہے۔تم جہاں ہو پہنچے ہی ہوۓہو۔۔
مکمل بھرپورقدرت کے تقاضے
قدرت کی تقسیم سے جو یہ راز پاگیا
وہ پرسکون خوش ہے ۔۔اس کے لیے دنیااورآخرت دونوں ہی جنت کی طرح ہے ۔دنیابھی جنت ہوسکتی ہے اس کے لیے جو اس بھول بھولیہ کو سمجھ کر
روکناجان گیا۔۔۔❤❤❤
Behtreen bat ❤
I have been living in Canada with my family for the last 18 years. I don't have these kinds of fears anymore.
What about children's brought up, their religious concepts, their bond with culture and parents??
@@adeelahmad7928 tu Pakistan me konsa Islam Hy?
Molvi sub shirk and jado me lage hen... Average admi paiso ky pechy
@@memories0046exactly
I want too move but have any sources?
@@adeelahmad7928 Brought up children here is way better and easier than back home. Their concepts about religion are much clearer than mine (even though I spent half of my life in a Mosque). Culture is a tough question..., I think they have their own culture and norms. As far as parents are concerned our kids love us, respect us, do care, very thankful ... what else do you need?
I feel like the respect you get in your own land a foreign land would never give you that. Despite nationality. Culture and country provides a framework of one large family hence being away causes home sickness. It is natural to love your own land language food and be around your people no matter
کبھی بھی مر کر بھی اپنا مذہب نہ چھوڑیں۔۔۔۔۔۔۔یہی اسلام ہیابدی زندگی کی کامیابی کا ضامن ہے۔۔۔۔❤
belkul
Says who?
Oh man these people speaks my heart out :( !!!
Kia tension lag rakii hai sub NAY. TRUST ALLAH
Heart touching
Thank u for such a beautiful video
It is interesting to see how fears of Male and Female are different. It could be because how culturally we are raised as Pakistani and Muslims determine our fears!
Bilkul aisa he hay
Assalam o aliekum
Maamla 2 times roti ka hain
insaan kaha say kaha 2 time k roti k level baghta pirta hain
ALLAH SWT asani or khair or afyat ka mamla karay ameen
"Zara nam ho to to ye mitti buhat zar-khez hai saqi". Kaash ke is sher ka pehla misra tarkeen-e-watan ke liye saccha hota..
میں اپنی زندگی کا سب کچھ برطانیہ میں اچھے مستقبل کے لیے لٹا بیٹھا ہو
May Allah SWT fulfill all yours as well as all the overseas Pakistanis dreams who are patriotic or want to help out their loved ones back in Pakistan!!!
کاش گزرے لمحوں کا بھی کوئی مداوا ہوتا
انا للّٰہ وانا الیہ راجعون
اس کا مطلب ہے نہ ہی خود پر بھروسا ہے نا اللہ پر یقین ۔ دین اور دنیا ساتھ ساتھ ۔ ۔ ۔
1:51 IN SHAA ALLAH
زمین تو ساری اللہ کی ہے اور تقسیم بھی اس کی ہے اس کے ہر فیصلے میں ہمارے ہی لئیے کوئی اشارہ ہوتا بس سمجھنے ۔
.، والا دل ہونا چاہیے
Allah par tawaqqul karo bhaiuon behno....wohi zaat hamesha rehnay wali hay osi say dil lagao....ya sab baten choti lagnay lagengi..
A country is just a line on the map. Learn to live and grow wherever you live. Live in the present and enjoy your time on this earth. I left Pakistan 35 years ago, most of my family followed me here. Many of them dont even call me anymore. its a truth. in the end we are all alone regardless of how rich or poor you are or which passport you hold. Remember, people change with the time and you should change too. Do not live in the past. it will never come back.
Agreed 100 percent
اپنے چھوٹ چکے ہوتے ہیں، اور اپ سوچتے رہتے ہیں کہ آپ نے ایسا کیا کیا جو وہ آپکی دوری کا باعث بنے
Ye rizq ki baat hoti ha jis ka jahan likha.. I never dreamt of living abroad...but now living Alhamdulillah and bachon ka apna naseeb hota ha.... pak main reh kr b bigar jatay bachay fear hr jaga hota ha probability kam ya zyada ho sakti ha
This world everybody have different stories just 1 think put ur mind all time
ALLAH subha na tallah is greatest
U know everything he watch us everymoments he know very well about our self just believe on him
My story am doing my bissnus in saudi Arabia 8 years after i go Pakistan i dont have money for doing business i ride rikshaw 4 years am educated and very hardworker then i deside to go agian any country for good future of my 3 sons now am here in uae last 7 year bfor i start my bissnus but loss but my believe in
ALLAH
INSHA ALLAH
Soon i start agian my bissnus i grow very very well
So just 1 word
ALLAH sub na na talla
Is greatest
Never give up
Never lose hope❤
May Allah give us wisdom (Aameen)
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first good vedio of BBC
Same in Sharjah
It's true when parents are sick in back or any family member leave us it's so hard to live in abroad 😢
Exactly
Pehli line he sb se bara khof hai hmara 😢😢😢
Completely relatable 😞
جو اپنی مٹی پر رھتا نہیں ھے ۔ وہ رھتا ھے مگر رھتا نہیں ھے ۔
Agree with all
باھر رہ کہ مجھے ھمیشہ اپنے گھر والوں اور بچوں کی فکر رھتی ھے. پھر سوچتا ھوں واپس چلا جاؤں پر واپس جا کر بھی دیکھ لیا کہ پاکستان میں کچھ نہیں نہ سیلری نہ بزنس نہ خرچے اٹھانے کی ھمت. پھر مجبوری سے واپس آنا پڑتا ھے پر دل. ادھر ھی ھے.
Same brother bus dua Karo Allah humari mushkilat asan kary or humaray mulk k huqumrano ki Soch awam k haq main laye ameen
Allah Sab ka liya bahter kara Ameen
الحمد لله
We live in Saudia. Whenever we want we goto Makkah Madinah. Just 4 hour flight to Pakistan for any ER or family event. Barakah in rizq here overall and we maintain relations as well as our values and identity. Yes there are some shortcomings/disadvantages but what's the point of having passport and PRs in West if you break away from your parents, brothers and sisters and friends amd can't even reach if they pass away? Not worth it just for a comfortable life. I'm happy to face some discrimination if in return it doesn't takes me away from my religion and my family. Alhamdulillah.
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200% correct!
True, I am overseas Pakistani, I have same fears.
Ham log ronay k baad 😒
Apnay ansoo Hud hi saaf kr lytay hn
I was born and brought up in Pakistan and still consider myslef a Pakistani but I rarely go back there. My home is where I live now and have no qualms about spending rest of my life here. Hasta la vista Pakistan.
This is Real story All
Please make a bigger documentry video on this topic
interesting
Jb Pakistan main tha to sochta tha bus bhr chla jaon lekin yhan akr pta chla k asal zaindagi to Pakistan main hi thi ye koyi life nh allah pak Apne mulk k halat thek krde out country ki life bhot bekar he Paisa bhot kuch he lekin sub kuch nh
Our people are very emotional. Humans have migrated from the beginning of times and that’s how you broaden your horizons, find new opportunities and contribute to the success of your future generations. Even Islam was spread in countries such as Malaysia and Indonesia by muslim people who were not scared to migrate to a new country. There is nothing to cry about.
Overdramatic yes .
I think as humans we are designed to feel protected and a culture and a country provides similar shared values which acts like a big family therefore when you immigrate you are always going to be a secondary citizen and no wonder homesickness exists all over. Humans are designed and given different races for a reason because we all love that familiarity of shared language food ideas etc. while migration was done initially to inhibit lands far away due to growing population, once people settled in various lands that’s how they formed nation states and cultures
You hit the nail on the head!
I have lived all my life few years in European countries and finally made USA my home from last 30+ years, my personal experience unfortunately us Pakistani are never happy and don't count on our blessings,we are very negative people we always find reason to whine and cry
And looking at the mess back home, I think we should be more worried about going back instead of complaining about پردیس
@@nasiralvi5121talk about yourself do not try to include all of us with yourself
This is the price you have to pay for a better qualify of life, nothing is free. There is a trade off for everything. Living abroad is not for people who are over sensitive and emotional. In Pakistan you suffer every day with traffic, pollution, corrupt system, inflation. Overseas you suffer when there are special occasions, like Eid, Ramadan, family milestones birthdays weddings etc. If you cant take it go back. Otherwise accept it. This is a part of living abroad.
جن کے لئے ھم پردیس میں آئے ۔ جب واپس گئے تو وہ سب مٹی ھو چکے تھے۔
True fears
True even i am going through this fear each nd every day and night.
ture sister same
Just make intention to help others, stay firm on deen.
Economics ka ek principle hai.
People face tradeoffs.
Tamam mard hazraat jo apni biwia , betia ya apni families bhi chor k Gaye hai sirf unko khilane k liye k woh sukoon se reh sake ya even parhahi k liye bhi gaye hai un sab k liye izzat aur barh gayi hai .
Canadian Citizen ho kar be yaa koof Retirement ka baad keyaa ho ga ? agar wapis jana par geyaa tu keyaa ho ga?
Listen brothers & sisters! People earn, save n die n left over relative use your wealth in their own way.
We all make efforts for unseen tomorrow, which is never there, its always today.
Make your day beautiful with no regrets. People have money but no health, if they have health no family, if have eveything then no eeman. lucky r those who r satisfied with their Creator n know the reality of this life as its very temporary
Live ❤n leave it😂
U r not meant to live here forever
Thus, do not despair
Be thankful to Allah in all the forms n stages of life
And keep asking Allah for goodness
Watching it from 🇯🇵🇯🇵🇯🇵 Japan.
I want to go to Japan. Can you guide me
@@future2478 I'd suggest you to look for consultant. I'm not the right person.
It’s all a matter of priorities. Happiness doesn’t come with money and no amount of money in the world can bring your loved ones back.
دوبارہ زندگی موقعہ دیا دے تو وطن سے نکلنے کا سوچیں گے نہیں بلکہ کم پیسوں میں اپنے ملک میں ترجیح دیں گے ۔اپنے بچوں کو بچپن میں وقت نہ دے سکنے سے بڑھ کر کوئی پچھتاوا نہیں ۔۔۔۔
😢 I find way to cry now
I was in London for 6 yrs but left British citizenship and came to India for my parents.
You can't get everything in life, You have to choose!
Right 👍 Yahi Darr Rahta h har din 😢
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Grass is always greener on the other side. Pakistan is an emotional country. Let’s also highlight the opportunities these countries provide them with and the luxuries they avail while whining about what they do not have. Let’s thank Allah for what we have!
That’s the problem we didn’t thank Allah SWT for Pakistan 🇵🇰
We left this land which was given to us after so many sacrifices of our ancestors, we left it to be run over by munafiqs .
We left it in the hands of Qadyanies
That’s how we thanked Allah 😢
حیرت ہے پاکستان سے دور رہنے والے اپنے بچوں کی پرورش بارے بالکل بھی خوفزدہ نہیں جس کا سب سے زیادہ ہونا چاہیے تھا.. اصل میں آپ پاکستان سے باہر جاتے ہیں اپنی زندگی کا معیار بہتر بنانے کے لیے ہیں نہ کہ پاکستان میں پیسے بیجھ کر مزید مکان بنانے.
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LOGON KO NA UMEED NA KRAIN
اللہ کا خوف پیدا کریں دنیا تو جسے تسے گوزر جائے گی
life is not perfect anywhere you go, you have to deal with the pros and cons whether you live in Pakistan or abroad. The most important thing is to have faith in Allah and keep going.
فلسطین میں نسل کشی ہو رہی ہے بچوں کو شہید کیا جا رہا ہے اللّٰہ 😢تعالی رحم فرمائے
AMEEN
Ess mulk se bahir Jana aisa Hain jaisa pull e siraat paar karke Jannat main Dakhil hona.
Allah Mujhe iss mulk se bahifazat bahir nikalni ke taufeeq Atta farmaye.
Aesa tu kuch bhi nahi hai aur aap ney kuch zada hi bol Diya well aap ko bahir Jana hai tu shoq se Jaye
These days my biggest fear is traveling to Pakistan and coming back safely especially traveling with daughters
This is why i always say to people who from Pakistan trying to move to uk europe that everything has changed please look at this short clip i was born in the uk but i want to move from here
The deepest concern is financial crises.
Bahir rehny ki liye
Dil ko bara krna parta h
Buht se khawishun ga gala ghutna parta he.apny mulk ki her chez yad ati he.khushi aur gami apno k sath guzarny ka dil krta he.aur apny her waqt yad rehty he khas ker k maa bap.per jub apny mulk aty he to Mali halat dekh k wapis jany ko jee krta he haay bahir wala to phas jata h na idar ka rehta he na udhar ka.
There are parts if you live in Arab country then it's easy for us and family. If in Europe etc countries then sab Kuch alag hay ... Life easy Hoti hay bachon ki education health no problem lakin Kisi ki Shaadi ya fotgi ho Pak main to shirkat NAHI ker saktay. Sab say bara nuksan ya hay keh agli nasal wapas Pakistan NAHI ati Matlab humari nasal Pakistani hi NAHI rehti. Kash keh Pakistan main insaf HOTA.
پردیس ایسی جیل جس کو انسان خوشی سے قبول کرتا ھے 😢😢😢
Lots of people leave pakistan thinking they will have a better life or easier life. Its not true its very hard you struggle just as much. I've lived in the uk and dubai and you make just enough to get by. You don't save much and everything is expensive. Don't leave pakistan thinking you will have an easier life.
Recently aik dost family k saat migrated to UK, spent around 2 cror... They were very well off but left due to the circumstances here in karachi. But later its been six months settling there..chalen wo b alag baat he sawal ye he k 2 cror say Pakistani pakistan me koi business q ni karna chahty ..mana halaat sazgar ni par har well off insan yhan say migrate kar jata he to yhan kese changes asakty hen. Changes to jobs creation say hi asakty hen or uske liye yhan new business ventures are required... Change jub tak ni asakta jub tak yhan risk na lena shuro karen log..
Allah ka shukr ada krain k aaj hm bahar reh kr bhi kissi bhi lamha apno sy contact kr saktay hyn. Aaj sy kayee saak pehlay k log to letter bhi likhtay thay to wo letter unkay duniya sy guzernay k baad pohanchta tha.
Hijrat to duniya k shru hotay hee wajood mai aa gayee thee. Kuch paanay k liyay compensation deni hoty hy. Bs umeed achi ho khaloos k saath apnay piyaro k kaam aatay rahain.
That fear may cost you the best years of your life.
میرے ابو فوت ھو گئے میں پاکستان جا نہیں پائئ تھی مجھے یہ گلٹ بھولتا نہیں اب میری کوئی دوست یہ بتاتی ھے کہ میری ماں یا باپ بیمار ھے تو میں خوف زدہ ھو جاتی ھوں اور فورا اسے کہتی ھوں جاؤ یار پاکستان چلے جاؤ وقت کا کچھ پتہ نہیں پھر ساری زندگی انسان افسوس کرتا ھے کہ کاش میں چلا جاتا ۔
What would you do if you there? He is already dead.
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Bitter reality
dar nai lkn dukh hota hai kabhi kabhi walda phone pe roti hain to ek pal k lie banda toot jata hai. sochta k kash abhi phone se nikal k unhe dilasa doun. walid bhi yad to karte hain jese me karta houn lkn walid khud ko jese tese mazboot kar leta hai walida k lie mushkil hota hai.