10 Signs You are Simping HARD for the Girl you Like

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
  • Shwetabh Gangwar author of The Rudest Book Ever talks about the 10 signs that mean you are simping for a girl very hard. The basis of simping in this video is being that clingy guy who is trying way too hard to get a girl. In doing so, he is compromising everything, becoming controlling, manipulative and possibly toxic too. Shwetabh gives a simple list of behaviors and actions that indicate you need to pull back and start living for yourself.

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  • @ShwetabhGangwar1
    @ShwetabhGangwar1  3 роки тому +300

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    Follow me on Instagram @mensutra and Message me your problem, I will try to make a video.

  • @skmillionaire333
    @skmillionaire333 3 роки тому +1379

    9hrs of work
    1hr- gym
    1 hr of cycling or walk
    1 hrs for analysing stocks for swing trading and portfolio
    2-3 hrs for my part time business
    8 hrs of sound sleep
    Ye simping wala chutyapa aaj tak nahi kiya proud of it
    Focus on urself ✌️❤️

    • @abhaygoel8813
      @abhaygoel8813 3 роки тому +29

      Trading kaise seekh rahe ho bro? Which segment you trade in?

    • @akshaythakur262
      @akshaythakur262 3 роки тому +20

      Trending or trading??

    • @maulin67
      @maulin67 3 роки тому +29

      Bhai koi bhi govt employee trading nhi kar sakta rules k hisab se.
      Fir govt job mai mat jao fir bro.

    • @MukulYadav-hv2cc
      @MukulYadav-hv2cc 3 роки тому +3

      Bhai trading kase krte ho?

    • @uditnarayan8353
      @uditnarayan8353 3 роки тому +38

      Bhai govt job 2 ghante Mai nhi nikalti 😂😂😂 10 hour max daily

  • @sharkasmm
    @sharkasmm 3 роки тому +886

    If she is your last thought before sleeping and first though after waking up than you r into deeply drowned into simping..

  • @ddveer
    @ddveer 3 роки тому +1561

    Treat her like a celebrity she’ll treat you like a fan!
    Edit:- 1.1k dudes i guess at some point you’ve treated her like a celebrity that’s why you liked this comment.
    Edit 2:- are you simpin’
    Edit 3:- Son are you simpin’ again?

  • @Rohit-wp2xp
    @Rohit-wp2xp 3 роки тому +202

    Maturity is when you realize self respect is greater than love 🖕

    • @Rohit-wp2xp
      @Rohit-wp2xp 3 роки тому +4

      😈 😇

    • @sudipsaha9632
      @sudipsaha9632 Рік тому +7

      Thats what Andrew Tate told

    • @kartiksharma1532
      @kartiksharma1532 Рік тому +1

      Self respect is smart way of ego saying- you are not a loser.

    • @aayushsinha1050
      @aayushsinha1050 Рік тому +2

      @@kartiksharma1532 there is a large difference between self respect and ego I hope you will understand that someday😅

    • @joe-joejones180
      @joe-joejones180 Рік тому +1

      A person can love you one minute and hate you the next

  • @rakibraihanfahim1934
    @rakibraihanfahim1934 3 роки тому +111

    One year ago, this 10 signs would have applied completely to me. Now thanks to this guy, who changed my perspective. An elder brother everyone deserve to have. 🖤

  • @udapsharma7107
    @udapsharma7107 3 роки тому +719

    In this crucial teenage and the age of 20s + we need to focus on the financial stability and personal skills🔥 along with development and growth of an individual. Dont get distracted by girls . Be a man and do your work ! more capable girls are wating for you in the future. Have a good time BRO's!❤

  • @ajinkyapantode5100
    @ajinkyapantode5100 3 роки тому +201

    Become such a high value person that she is the one dying to be with you

    • @ADityaEvilxpirit
      @ADityaEvilxpirit 3 роки тому +4

      SIMP 👁👄👁

    • @biebersucks27
      @biebersucks27 3 роки тому +18

      High value...Lagta Hain we have an Aman Dattarwal fan here

    • @MannanGoel
      @MannanGoel 3 роки тому +17

      Ranveer Allahbadia ke channel par karte hain yeh comments bhai

    • @bhupendrasinghrajput701
      @bhupendrasinghrajput701 3 роки тому +4

      @@MannanGoel Gajab bejjati he😂😂😂

    • @pulkitdhingra8351
      @pulkitdhingra8351 3 роки тому +7

      Kuch bhi bhai. Is case mei bhi to ultimately uske liye hi kaam kar rahe ho.

  • @Dante_13127
    @Dante_13127 3 роки тому +284

    "you have to talk to yourself"
    introverts - allow us to introduce ourselves

  • @Ankit-dt4mb
    @Ankit-dt4mb 3 роки тому +242

    8 months back I was this kind of creep .... 🤮
    And now negligible 😏

    • @sachinbhardwaj9246
      @sachinbhardwaj9246 3 роки тому +6

      Mai 2018 mai tha shwetabh gangwar ne sudhar diya.

    • @anushkdua277
      @anushkdua277 3 роки тому +2

      did she approach you after you backed off ?

    • @topmarvelanddcclips
      @topmarvelanddcclips 3 роки тому +15

      @@anushkdua277 bro don’t even try to get her back if you were the one who was putting efforts. In most cases if you will get her back you will again develop these 11 symptoms and will again lose your sanity, best advice is to move on. Never ever try to get her back if she hasn’t changed a bit.

    • @anushkdua277
      @anushkdua277 3 роки тому +1

      thank you brother for the advice

    • @topmarvelanddcclips
      @topmarvelanddcclips 3 роки тому +1

      @@anushkdua277 welcome bro 🤗

  • @vaibhavkandari6840
    @vaibhavkandari6840 3 роки тому +113

    Conclusion: almost all Bollywood movies and a few Hollywood movies support simp behaviour...

    • @razustalkie2445
      @razustalkie2445 3 роки тому +7

      Nah boy! It is a romantic movie of only 2.5 to 3hrs so they have to conclude whole story within this time.. From the part two protagonists meet till they get married including villain sequence, music(only if Bollywood), action fight scenes.. It is for common public to enjoy rather than assuming that itself as reality.. If industry starts making movie logical and realistic you wouldn't enjoy and spend money to watch in theatre only if movie story is superficial it is enjoyable.. Common sense required brother for everyone ...
      Wish you all good brother
      Take care all😊

    • @Tanuj_ranaaa
      @Tanuj_ranaaa 6 місяців тому

      Songs alsoo

  • @shwetabhgangwarviewer5132
    @shwetabhgangwarviewer5132 3 роки тому +155

    Summary of the video
    Signs You are SIMPING HARD
    1. You are almost ALWAYS on your phone waiting for her to text/ call with you . Always checking when she came online last. 🧐
    2. You get offended or 😣emotionally threatened if she doesn't text you but is online.
    3. You are almost ALWAYS thinking about her.🥰
    4. You love her in your mind 😍; plan and imagine a married life with her.
    5. You are ALWAYS AVAILABLE for her .😔
    6. You cannot say NO to her ..no matter how disagreeable or 😏unaccommodating it is.
    7. You almost ALWAYS agree with anything she says or does. 🤗
    8. You are always thinking about doing something for her . Ex: Surprising her😲 by creating something artistic.Buying her something she likes. Doing her work.Doing research for her .Finding answers for her . Surprise her by being valuable. Showing her that you are caring 😘.
    9. You want to become her EMOTIONAL CLUTCH. Basically, friendship with you means she doesn't need any other friend in her life. You are enough.The only person she needs to talk to .So you get jealous 😧 if she talks to some other guy. You immediately start attacking the guy 😠.
    10. You are her guidance counselor, career counselor, therapist, aunt, brother🤣 , mother , father ,you actually believe you love her more than her parents do 💗. It is possible you have even tried to convince her of this .
    11. You act passive - aggressively when she does anything that doesn't include you 😏😒😡
    KAAM KARTE RAHO 🙏👍

  • @danishsheikh7397
    @danishsheikh7397 3 роки тому +863

    A wise man once said : *“I'm not a simp, but I like girls because I'm not a gay”*

    • @Rohit-hk6nd
      @Rohit-hk6nd 3 роки тому +41

      And who is that wise man??... You??

    • @aviavii
      @aviavii 3 роки тому +30

      *who was that wise man?*

    • @NotNice481
      @NotNice481 3 роки тому +121

      ~Danish Sheikh 2021 (1 week ago)

    • @bhaskarjha9500
      @bhaskarjha9500 3 роки тому +31

      Markandey katju 😂

    • @omtapkir8639
      @omtapkir8639 3 роки тому +10

      @@NotNice481 😂

  • @Abrollt
    @Abrollt 3 роки тому +90

    1. u r almost always on ur phone waiting for him/her to text/call with u, always checking when he/she came last online 😀
    2. u get offended or emotionally threatened if he/she doesnt text u but is online 😳
    3. u r almost always thinking about him/her 😔
    4. u love him/her in ur mind, plan a married life with him/her 🥺
    5. u r always available for him/her 🥰
    6. u cant say no to him/her 😢
    7. u almost always agree with anything he/she does 😍
    8. u r always thinking about doing something for him/her 🥺 (eg. surprising him/her by creating something artistic, buying him/her something he/she likes, doing his/her work)
    9. u always want to become his/her emotional support and you get jealous if he/she talks with someone other of the opposite gender 🤧
    10. u are his/her guidance counsellor, career counseller, therapist, aunt, mother, father, u actually believe u love him/her more than his/her parents do, it is possible u have even tried to convince him/her of this 😖
    11. u act passive-aggressively when he/she does anything that doesnt include u 😡

    • @Ash-np6zm
      @Ash-np6zm 3 роки тому +1

      Bete ,bhot tez ho rha hai tu!!😀😀

    • @Abrollt
      @Abrollt 3 роки тому +2

      @@Ash-np6zm yeh kyu likha tha iski back story nhi bataunga 😃

    • @Ash-np6zm
      @Ash-np6zm 3 роки тому +1

      @@Abrollt aree vaiii mai to joxx kr rha tha!!! Apne paas hi rkhna uss baat ko vaii 🤫.
      😎😎
      Abhi mai iss vdo mein bhi tera comment hi dhundne aya tha. Mujhe yeh symptoms wali list chahiye thi,maine socha vdo k cs mein hogi and tera cmmnt mil gya xdxd .
      Ly bb 😚

    • @sigmapsycho8505
      @sigmapsycho8505 2 роки тому +5

      My crush is a feminist and I don't believe in ideologies of feminism I disagree with her half of time am I not a simp ?

    • @mr.unknown1070
      @mr.unknown1070 Рік тому +1

      1 & 3 partially tick, but dono mila ke 1 point. I will change

  • @mitrar123
    @mitrar123 Рік тому +9

    As woman , i hate simps. Men with strong character and persona is attractive.

  • @therealJeffMatt
    @therealJeffMatt 3 роки тому +80

    Wow, I realize I was simping so hard before and during my relationship that ended up in a horrible breakup.
    Stop simping, start trusting and giving the other person a space. Trust is the foundation in every relationship and that doesn't mean you're giving the other person the right to cheat on you. If you catch em cheating, just leave rather giving them a chance to cheat on you again. They cheated on you bc they don't love you anymore. So, patli galli se nikal jaao.

  • @bharatsaroj4832
    @bharatsaroj4832 3 роки тому +465

    Landed here with the Speed of light.

  • @user-kz8cm8ko8h
    @user-kz8cm8ko8h 3 роки тому +176

    It feels good when you realise you're not a simp.

    • @cadennevah7248
      @cadennevah7248 3 роки тому +8

      It does indeed

    • @pseudoxap9291
      @pseudoxap9291 3 роки тому +7

      Indeed bruh

    • @caul69
      @caul69 3 роки тому +5

      welcome to the club

    • @yath3681
      @yath3681 3 роки тому +15

      Then you realize you don't even get outside your home , so social life ==0

    • @humanhuman9228
      @humanhuman9228 3 роки тому +2

      @@yath3681 that's true though :) In my case

  • @ayushchowdhury4560
    @ayushchowdhury4560 3 роки тому +126

    I hour reharsal
    2.5 hours of working out
    3 hours of studying
    ❤️

  • @Shubh6669
    @Shubh6669 3 роки тому +32

    "If you put her on pedestal, she will have no other option than 'Look down at you' "

  • @mukulmuradaya4465
    @mukulmuradaya4465 3 роки тому +63

    Humans are interesting.
    - RYUK

  • @tathagatachatterjee8428
    @tathagatachatterjee8428 3 роки тому +284

    Waiting for MENSUTRA...

    • @mallu2408
      @mallu2408 3 роки тому +2

      What happened to that channel?

    • @007_akashkumar4
      @007_akashkumar4 3 роки тому

      Mai bhi wait kr rhe hai

    • @007_akashkumar4
      @007_akashkumar4 3 роки тому +2

      @@mallu2408 that channel is going to start again 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @Naruto12.v
      @Naruto12.v 3 роки тому

      @@mallu2408 sir don't want to make videos on that channel

    • @EnglishBeater
      @EnglishBeater 3 роки тому

      Learn english with me😊 (english learners only)

  • @in_catharsis______
    @in_catharsis______ 3 роки тому +719

    This video is going to burn many houses of couples. 😂

    • @VIKASSHARMA-sy9nz
      @VIKASSHARMA-sy9nz 3 роки тому +7

      Right🤣👍🏻

    • @ANNI_LIFTS_
      @ANNI_LIFTS_ 3 роки тому +1

      😂

    • @Munna-Kumar1
      @Munna-Kumar1 3 роки тому +1

      Hmm sahi

    • @chandrakanthotkar7262
      @chandrakanthotkar7262 3 роки тому +17

      Sometimes leaving some things are good.
      Our male to female ratio is responsible for all of this. Females are taking guys as SIMP. If you dont act like that you will not find anybody.

    • @premmahato3758
      @premmahato3758 3 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂

  • @AMANRAJ-zw9qu
    @AMANRAJ-zw9qu 3 роки тому +250

    Me: Has no girl as a friend but still watching for future reference.

  • @imnitin.s
    @imnitin.s 3 роки тому +75

    My girlfriend once asked me to get a job and marry her soon because I wanted to build my own company and I was struggling 3 years back. I just told her if she's with me in my journey then I will love her my whole life otherwise she can take her own path in life and let me focus on my paths of life. And then happened which is most common, she left me and married a guy after 3 months of our breakup. Right now 3 years have passed and I'm earning almost 30X of what my ex girlfriend's husband makes.

  • @aryaputra9242
    @aryaputra9242 3 роки тому +118

    I did not know I was simping for the only girl I have as a friend. I knew about simps but didn't know I was one. I used to be a topper throughout my academic life and never interacted with girls, this lack of female interaction is going to be an inconvenience now. It was a shock to find out that my behavior checked some boxes and almost the same as other points mentioned. Thanks for the eye opener.

  • @shreyanshojha8820
    @shreyanshojha8820 3 роки тому +749

    Vedant secretly watching this video and hitting all the checkboxes and crying inside lmao

  • @priyanshunayak3165
    @priyanshunayak3165 3 роки тому +295

    Alternate Name for the Video :
    10 signs of Friendzone.....

    • @manasnayak2810
      @manasnayak2810 3 роки тому +12

      exactly can totally agree... When you are in friendzone you always misinterpreted the care from girl as love and can never get out of iy

    • @priyanshunayak3165
      @priyanshunayak3165 3 роки тому +10

      @@manasnayak2810 Not Kind of.... A caring for someone is also a form of love... Cause mostly in Friendzone, Guy literally becomes a servant for her and she kind of enjoys it....
      Whereas if a person is good, she will understand whsts your feelings and will never misuse it.... What matters is what kind of person you've chosen to be with....

    • @manasnayak2810
      @manasnayak2810 3 роки тому +5

      @@priyanshunayak3165 So true bro so true... Actually care can be given by any other girl but what make different the care from the girl you like is the romantic essence to it... But that never actually happen

    • @priyanshunayak3165
      @priyanshunayak3165 3 роки тому +5

      @@manasnayak2810 agreed....

    • @rapstarbohemia1
      @rapstarbohemia1 3 роки тому +3

      @@priyanshunayak3165 bruh love that explanation. On point.

  • @appurav7156
    @appurav7156 3 роки тому +230

    "More you simps about her far she gets from you"
    -appurav

    • @Ladakh-er2id
      @Ladakh-er2id 3 роки тому +16

      True ...!!
      And i was that stupid guy 👍

    • @divyanshsaxena245
      @divyanshsaxena245 3 роки тому +1

      @Kartikey Kasniya simp identified😂😂

    • @EnglishBeater
      @EnglishBeater 3 роки тому

      Don't be afraid of English .watch my videos. (Only English learners )

    • @Yalla_Habibi_Cat1
      @Yalla_Habibi_Cat1 3 роки тому +1

      Experienced lagte ho.😂

    • @appurav7156
      @appurav7156 3 роки тому +1

      @@Yalla_Habibi_Cat1 n bhai 😂

  • @umashankardas2295
    @umashankardas2295 3 роки тому +52

    "MGTOW" is a real gift today. And saves men's lives too.

    • @sigmapsycho8505
      @sigmapsycho8505 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah but I'm not one of them I believe in their ideologies

  • @shubhamzanzad428
    @shubhamzanzad428 3 роки тому +30

    Not gonna lie I related to 10 points you said. 4-5 years ago I was the same guy. To all youngster if you find your present self relating to yourself then try to pull out yourself from it bcoz it is very depressing. After you become self-aware you will blame yourself for being such a fool.

    • @godson200
      @godson200 3 роки тому

      Yeah even I was similar kind of guy 4 years ago..

    • @rahulphilip4909
      @rahulphilip4909 3 роки тому

      Same here bro

    • @chakraborty1989
      @chakraborty1989 3 роки тому

      My condition was similar 2 years back, sometimes cried a lot... now looking back I blame that I waste 2 years of my life coming out of the stupid stuff...never will let my emotions heavy on me 😡

  • @manavjaiswal24
    @manavjaiswal24 3 роки тому +273

    You just told everything i used to do in my last relationship. I realised later that how toxic she was for me. Luckily i got out and now i am a better person... Such videos gives so much credibility to perspectives of so many people... Thanks Man❤️❤️

    • @insanelysaneman2033
      @insanelysaneman2033 3 роки тому +5

      Same goes for me...

    • @anewshri3957
      @anewshri3957 3 роки тому +13

      You were the one who was toxic not her😂

    • @manavjaiswal24
      @manavjaiswal24 3 роки тому +15

      @@anewshri3957 my habits were toxic for my mental health and perspectives. Ofc she was enjoying the attention, gifts, and whatever i did for her. And after she left, on retrospecting i really feel that, well i was wrong. Its not abt toxicity of a person, but the toxicity of the way of the relationship became...

    • @chetansingh55
      @chetansingh55 3 роки тому +8

      @@anewshri3957 same happened with me today. She was fake. She was toxic. I couldn't identify her true colors.

    • @adityashelke7643
      @adityashelke7643 3 роки тому +6

      @@anewshri3957 you are just a feminazi

  • @prasoonpandey9569
    @prasoonpandey9569 3 роки тому +64

    Lucky i don't have any simptoms of this.
    Because of you buddy

    • @a.radhaney7960
      @a.radhaney7960 3 роки тому +1

      Beta future meh karoge dekhna pacca

    • @prasoonpandey9569
      @prasoonpandey9569 3 роки тому +5

      @@a.radhaney7960 21 ka ho gya hu sir
      Mai abhi bhi relationship me hu, mai shwetabh sir ko "why true love doesn't exist" se fallow kar raha hu

    • @tusharsolanki8564
      @tusharsolanki8564 3 роки тому +1

      @@prasoonpandey9569 bhai tum to relationship me ho to problem hee nhi h tumhari to

    • @rudraveerpratapsingh4359
      @rudraveerpratapsingh4359 3 роки тому

      @@tusharsolanki8564 chutiye ho kya bro?

    • @tusharsolanki8564
      @tusharsolanki8564 3 роки тому

      @@rudraveerpratapsingh4359 no

  • @shivamnitt8473
    @shivamnitt8473 3 роки тому +304

    Deer in the backside be like :- arey shwetabh bhai ye sb chhodo mujhe justice dilao 😂

  • @Koustubh_Vlogs
    @Koustubh_Vlogs 11 місяців тому +3

    Do Saal Pehle Mere Me Poore 11 Symptoms The...AAj NA Ladki Hai...Aur Na Hi Ladki Ke life ka important Banne Ki Chahat...Thank You Shwetabh Bhai For This.

  • @HK-nd9fe
    @HK-nd9fe 3 роки тому +33

    Being single has its own charm. I am really loving being alone when I don't have to answer someone what I am doing and where I am going. I feel totally independent and loving my friends company. I don't want to have any headache before marriage. Until I am married I want to enjoy my life this way.

    • @AnshuOP69
      @AnshuOP69 2 роки тому

      True

    • @bilawalrandhawa5694
      @bilawalrandhawa5694 Рік тому

      Absolutely beauty ke chakkar mein mat pado yaar freedom is important hum sochte hai ladki kitni sunder hai isko mein set karunga but Sunderland is not everything humme yeh sochna hai ki kahin I ma not stuck in mud whole day

  • @rashiqueiqubal4013
    @rashiqueiqubal4013 3 роки тому +57

    I am still single , enjoying life with no tension

  • @daddygun9217
    @daddygun9217 3 роки тому +34

    I found that SOME of these simp-ing things are ok if the girl is ACTUALLY involved in a commitment with you, but if you do everything just to get her, well you’re gonna gain nothing.
    KEEP YOUR HEAD UP KING 👑
    Focus on building YOURSELF, focus on YOUR grind and see how things change for the better.

  • @dhruvvaria
    @dhruvvaria 3 роки тому +5

    All points are true. I will survive now. 😎 Never attach someone untill u recieve same effort as you applied

  • @rashmidubey8261
    @rashmidubey8261 3 роки тому +16

    Second time this guy I heard and seriously I felt compassion for him.
    God bless you. Be strong brother. Let people live and learn. Do not blame guys or gals. At an age emotion overflows it get settled with time. So stop blame guys or gals.
    Hire psychiatrist and start meditation.

    • @aparichit9728
      @aparichit9728 Рік тому

      He is not blaming he is just addressing those problems

  • @maheshsirvi754
    @maheshsirvi754 3 роки тому +101

    I think I am Simping hard for Shwetabh.😂😂😂.

    • @Aryan-wl7mc
      @Aryan-wl7mc 3 роки тому +6

      Lol and I simp for Levi

    • @SCUTIBOI
      @SCUTIBOI 3 роки тому +3

      @@Aryan-wl7mc I do for Mikasa

    • @Aryan-wl7mc
      @Aryan-wl7mc 3 роки тому +1

      @@SCUTIBOI Mikasa looks like a man now😂 she isn't waifu not to me atleast

    • @SCUTIBOI
      @SCUTIBOI 3 роки тому

      @@Aryan-wl7mc lol

    • @sarojdhamala3772
      @sarojdhamala3772 3 роки тому

      🤣🤣

  • @authorbhattacharjee4957
    @authorbhattacharjee4957 3 роки тому +79

    This guy has mastered the art of thumbnail
    And now he's back making his old style videos
    Noice

  • @vijay5110
    @vijay5110 3 роки тому +17

    He is the only one on youtube who talks about real boys problems🔥🔥

  • @harshshukla9589
    @harshshukla9589 3 роки тому +8

    Very practical points 👍... That's what I wanted from majority boys to understand because every time girl is not at fault

  • @AnonymousAlien2099
    @AnonymousAlien2099 3 роки тому +30

    The best part of this video :
    0:00 to 13:27 😎

    • @maheshsirvi754
      @maheshsirvi754 3 роки тому +15

      Yes only this part, rest of the part wasn't that good though.

    • @maheshsirvi754
      @maheshsirvi754 3 роки тому +1

      @Anshika Kumari I think it's Editors mistake 🙃.

  • @digitalunboxing.5321
    @digitalunboxing.5321 3 роки тому +59

    I have read your Book,The Rudest Book Ever.It was amazing.
    I think Every Young people should read this book.❤️❤️

  • @nikhilpandey2618
    @nikhilpandey2618 3 роки тому +196

    This comment thread is cursed🤬

    • @aakashkhuraniya6944
      @aakashkhuraniya6944 3 роки тому +11

      Bhai rulao mat yaar , I am simping very much from 3 days 😭😭,. Almost 8 points I have

    • @michaeljosephjackson2364
      @michaeljosephjackson2364 3 роки тому

      @@aakashkhuraniya6944 lol I have been simping for 1 year

    • @benambadsha5520
      @benambadsha5520 3 роки тому

      Me to bro

    • @-Prakriti
      @-Prakriti 3 роки тому +1

      Actually we don't like
      simps
      I also left one -_- sala selfish lier tha😹

    • @BlunT402
      @BlunT402 3 роки тому +3

      even johan libert is a simp lmao

  • @ankitshaw6491
    @ankitshaw6491 Рік тому +3

    1. Always on your phone waiting for her text or call and expecting her to call and stalking her.....
    2. You got sacred and threatened when she doesn't text you while she online.....
    3. You always think about her even doing other work.....
    4. You dream about marriage her and having a dream love story with her and keep manifesting that inyour mind......
    5. You always free for her and willing to giver anything for her even your important things.....
    6. You can't say no toh her and don't wanna offend her or you wanna please her always......
    7. You always agree with anything she says and does you justify all her actions and act and think she is always good and you are just being insecure......
    8. You always think about doing something for her by action......
    9. You want to become her emotional support and provider you want them to have other male frnds and want to keep her for yourself......
    10. You act passive aggressive when she does something which doesn't include you.......
    Okey all this point are in me ..... So I guess I need to do lot of work

  • @hajiraerum
    @hajiraerum 3 роки тому +28

    Oh shit! As you were saying all those things I was ticking all the boxes because all those things my ex did to me.
    Thankfully I'm out of that relationship.

    • @bhupendrasinghrajput701
      @bhupendrasinghrajput701 3 роки тому +14

      Tumhe koi nuksaan nhi tha dost. Nuksaan use tha.😂😂😂

    • @namelesssoul104
      @namelesssoul104 3 роки тому +3

      @@bhupendrasinghrajput701 sometimes simping can creat unhealthy obsession that can affect both parties so yeah...use vi nuksan tha.

    • @nistuber_thinks
      @nistuber_thinks 2 роки тому +6

      really happy....but for him...

    • @syedadnan5861
      @syedadnan5861 Рік тому +1

      @@bhupendrasinghrajput701 exactly

  • @rishabhmishra4653
    @rishabhmishra4653 3 роки тому +12

    Thank you for not putting music in the background..You are a wise man❤️

  • @invinciblebgmi5978
    @invinciblebgmi5978 3 роки тому +37

    THE REAL MEN!

  • @jehoshpaul5791
    @jehoshpaul5791 3 роки тому +27

    Finally something good and non political

  • @sandeep-km2sz
    @sandeep-km2sz 3 роки тому +26

    Unfortunately all the symptoms apply to me😔.
    We will come back to edit this comment within 21 days😊

    • @Abrollt
      @Abrollt 3 роки тому +4

      21 days ho gaye bhai

    • @Abrollt
      @Abrollt 3 роки тому +3

      21 days ho gye bhai kab aaoge

    • @Abrollt
      @Abrollt 3 роки тому +5

      sandeep vai laut aao 😭😭😭

    • @Abrollt
      @Abrollt 3 роки тому +4

      laut aao sandeep tumhe comment section bulaati hai 😭😭😭

    • @Abrollt
      @Abrollt 3 роки тому +2

      vai 21 days ke 30 days ho gye kab aa rahe ho vaapas 😭😭😭

  • @paramchavan9872
    @paramchavan9872 3 роки тому +5

    Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved.

  • @gytv_ok
    @gytv_ok 3 роки тому +19

    होंसला मत हार गिरकर ऐ मुसाफिर। अगर दर्द यहाँ मिलता है तो दवा भी यहीं मिलेगी।🙏👍

  • @dineshbaweja2768
    @dineshbaweja2768 3 роки тому +5

    Best video for self improvement. Guys pls bring ur lyf back on ryt track. Leave wrong track. Love love love starting main hota hai. But at last what matters is how much settled u in ur lyf financially nd education wise.

  • @legolasmovies7479
    @legolasmovies7479 3 роки тому +11

    If anyone wants to talk to any girl or boy they can, but they should at least keep the friendship point in mind instead of convincing him/her to fall in love with you, as it will ruin your thoughts and capacity of thinking and can be toxic sometimes, so just make friends it will help you maintain your worth rather than simping.

  • @varadthokal1406
    @varadthokal1406 3 роки тому +9

    no for every point lol. absolutely love my life and myself. hope everyone finds strength to improve themselves, CHEERS !

  • @jinendrajain3969
    @jinendrajain3969 3 роки тому +10

    I don't have simping nature wow
    ❣️I amproud on myself ❣️

  • @marshaldteach2054
    @marshaldteach2054 3 роки тому +13

    Best thing to do for yourself is to learn the art of saying no...

  • @adilkamar594
    @adilkamar594 3 роки тому +20

    The thing is that she is not going from my mind that's the problem .

    • @ASHISHPATEL-ot3lu
      @ASHISHPATEL-ot3lu 3 роки тому +2

      Try anima integration by Carl jung

    • @diyashikha93
      @diyashikha93 3 роки тому +6

      Bhai, sun le meri baat!
      Tum uss imagination se pyaar ker rahe ho, ki tumhare kal kaise hoga, uske saat future kaisa hoga, etc. Tum uske bure side ko nahi jaan rahe ho aur uske sweet-side ko hi dekh rahe ho.
      Aur pyaar 1 aise feeling hai ki addictive hai, dil ko sukoon milta hai, shayad uss feeling se pyaar kar baithe aur jaan bhoojke usko bhula nahi parahe ho.

    • @tihomidahg2991
      @tihomidahg2991 3 роки тому +3

      Bhai koi kaam dhund jisse motivation mile aur bas phod de 💪

  • @adityaparmar3574
    @adityaparmar3574 3 роки тому +49

    My bestfriend Doing prep. For govt. Jobs for marrying his gf.....

    • @rishuraj9174
      @rishuraj9174 3 роки тому +20

      Atleast he is not doing wanna wau wau wanna wau wau😂

    • @ayushsrivastava1672
      @ayushsrivastava1672 3 роки тому +2

      Are you sure he's doing all that JUST because he could marry her? Or he's seriously interested in it?

    • @user-vw2bn6qi2l
      @user-vw2bn6qi2l 3 роки тому +1

      Even i am for my bf 👁️👄👁️

    • @adityaparmar3574
      @adityaparmar3574 3 роки тому +8

      @@ayushsrivastava1672 if she left her..... He have no aim in life...

    • @tridentgameing6192
      @tridentgameing6192 3 роки тому

      He also get financially independent

  • @1fps996
    @1fps996 3 роки тому +5

    Woah. Found so many red flags in my life through this video. I will try to eliminate all of them.

  • @atlasinmymind
    @atlasinmymind Рік тому +5

    Fell in love for 5 times. No matter it is one sided or approach from her side, I know that I always get down in all terms literally everytime when i fall for her and its a fact that people take us for granted when we are available for them all the time. If you really like him/her, just tell them that you. And thats it. Dont expect anything back from them. Meditate, Focus back on ur life and your likes, your work, your efforts to make yourself better. Life is too small, there is much to see and enjoy. Nothing is restricted except hurting others. Love yourself dude

    • @atlasinmymind
      @atlasinmymind Рік тому +1

      And dont assume everything😂 Things and objects can be manifested. But not a life partner. They come just like that. Dont wait and live in such fantasies

  • @aljami5549
    @aljami5549 3 роки тому +116

    Yes I'm a Simp
    S- Shwetabh Gangwar
    I- Content
    M-
    P- Enjoyer

    • @maheshsirvi754
      @maheshsirvi754 3 роки тому +52

      You are not SIMP, you are SCE 😤.

    • @sourabhmalusare4229
      @sourabhmalusare4229 3 роки тому +4

      @@maheshsirvi754 🤣

    • @YopraX
      @YopraX 3 роки тому +4

      @@maheshsirvi754 😂😂😂😂

    • @sarveshyadav01
      @sarveshyadav01 3 роки тому +32

      Let me correct you
      S- Shweatbh Gangwar's
      I- Intelligence
      M- Maturity
      P- Perspective Enjoyer

    • @abhaysharma9751
      @abhaysharma9751 3 роки тому +3

      @@maheshsirvi754 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @rsrs6959
    @rsrs6959 3 роки тому +7

    I recently watched a very good Bwood movie that highlights the importance of not going to extremes. It's called Kya Yehi Pyaar Hai. Jackie Sir has a dialogue in that movie which goes something like this, "LOVE IS NOT HEART OF LIFE BUT IT IS ONLY A PART OF LIFE". That movie has very good advice for boys and men. I recommend that movie to all young boys and men of all ages.

  • @amansharma-qp6ts
    @amansharma-qp6ts 3 роки тому +3

    Good to see old Shwetabh gangwar ! This kind of one to one communication is far more better than those raw and real podcasts, in my opinion.

  • @himanshu.panday
    @himanshu.panday 3 роки тому +4

    #Sign you are a Simp guy :-
    1. You are almost ALWAYS on your phone waiting for her text/call with you.
    Always checking your when she came online.
    2. You get offended or emotionally threatened,if she doesn't text you but is online or busy on another call.
    3. You are almost ALWAYS thinking about her.
    4. You love her in your mind; Always Plan and imagine a married life with her.
    (Kind of Obsession)
    5. You are always AVAILABLE for her,it means ALWAYS.
    6. You cannot say NO to her -- no matter how disagreeable or unaccommodating it is for you.
    7. You almost ALWAYS agree with anything she says or does.
    8. You are ALWAYS thinking about doing something for her.Like-planning surprise, doing her work, showing her how valuable you are for her.
    9. You try to fulfill her everything like no one should she talk you take help.
    You want to make her feel that you are enough for her in every aspect.
    If she is anywhere taking help, is involve with someone else you feel jealous.
    10. You are her guidance counsellor,career counsellor, therapist,aunt, brother, mother,you actually believe you love her more than her parents do.
    It may be possible you tried convince her all this.
    If you are this type friend of someone get out off it,Or if you are relationship you can also read above things and can help protect your self-respect.
    Last thing if you are relationship...
    Trust your partner,if she or he has to go or cheat you no one can stop them,Love is all about pure feelings for someone special if you are not special you can't do this by any kind of force; Except improving yourself in your studies and your self respect.
    So work hard ,let them go who don't deserve you.
    All the best...

  • @namelesssoul104
    @namelesssoul104 3 роки тому +5

    You need to keep in mind that there's a big difference between loving someone and simping for someone.
    ---------
    EXAMPLE:
    ~ A guy donates his eyes to his girlfriend who recently lost her eyes due to an accident.
    ∆ In this case a LOVER would donate one of his eye so that he and his girlfriend both can see the world the same way and be happy together.
    ∆ A SIMP however would donate both of his eyes so that the girlfriend would have the ability to see normally while he would cope with blindness.
    ---------
    So, loving someone means you want to be happy WITH them regardless of the obstacles.
    But simping for someone means you want to keep them happy regardless of anything even your own life.

  • @aneesh3170
    @aneesh3170 3 роки тому +16

    how to control simping for success.......i am simping for my rank in exam

    • @godson200
      @godson200 3 роки тому +1

      Hehe thats not the definition of simping

    • @Om-id1qr
      @Om-id1qr 3 роки тому

      Tbh that's the simping we aim for

  • @ibrahimtahir4818
    @ibrahimtahir4818 3 роки тому +100

    Two of the guys i know did this, she called them brothers in the end publicly 🤣

  • @DrMaddy98
    @DrMaddy98 3 роки тому +12

    🔥🔥🔥kadak we have some valid point to tell someone simp and help him to being a Man

  • @shubhamchauhan7481
    @shubhamchauhan7481 3 роки тому +24

    Sir, I have read your book 'The Rudest Book Ever'. It has really helped me a lot. I always take care of each point which you have mentioned in your book like 'people are wierd, you don't have any idea about them so instead of making any assumption or stereotype about anyone, you have to wait for real data.' Thank You for your lessons and for making me mature day by day.... Lots of Love ❤️❤️

  • @idyllic.diaries2426
    @idyllic.diaries2426 3 роки тому +5

    This video was much needed now, idk if this was destined or an coincidence, but thank you sooo much, I'm finally seeing the right path. Thank you with all my heart🥺❤

  • @saranshgour
    @saranshgour 3 роки тому +31

    Aaj 8 ghante study kri aur 4 ghante skills(web development) seekhi

    • @jester.364
      @jester.364 3 роки тому +1

      👍

    • @karannsharma3245
      @karannsharma3245 3 роки тому

      Brother.
      I am interested to learn website development.
      From where can I learn it online?

    • @sunilpuse5828
      @sunilpuse5828 3 роки тому

      Course chaiye kya web dev ki.. free mai.. puri start to end..? Mail sunil.puse@gmail.com

    • @jester.364
      @jester.364 3 роки тому

      @@karannsharma3245 Apni kaksha se padh po free mei...

    • @jester.364
      @jester.364 3 роки тому

      @@karannsharma3245 its on YT

  • @roshankumarrauniyar1476
    @roshankumarrauniyar1476 3 роки тому +10

    I am feeling proud of myself as none of the sign or symptoms are on me.

  • @coldhearted2741
    @coldhearted2741 3 роки тому +7

    All the points are true for me 😁😁😁......but in past......... Now red flag dekh kr..... Bhaga diya saali ko...... And enjoying my life....... Very peaceful vibes of being single 😍😍........

  • @mm45454
    @mm45454 3 роки тому +4

    1st priority is Self Respect 💯

  • @Aryan-wl7mc
    @Aryan-wl7mc 3 роки тому +33

    Shwetabh telling about 10 signs about being simp towards a girl
    Vedant intensifying 😂😂😂

  • @jimjones3392
    @jimjones3392 3 роки тому +11

    Shwetabh bhai. 8PM CLUB KI PLAYLIST AUR HASHTAG BANA DENA PLEASE. USSE FAST dhundh paayege saari problems.

  • @adhilshibu8967
    @adhilshibu8967 3 роки тому +30

    Your 8PM club would be perfect for me as I would be relaxing after doing “kaam”

  • @ajay-r6r
    @ajay-r6r 3 роки тому +6

    Though I never did this to any girl but I've seen others doing this to girls.
    Learning from others mistakes is fucking useful skill.
    Many of the times this has happened with me very often that I get to understand what's going to happen in many situations and its consequences because I've already watched Shwetabh's video on handling such situations. Thanks Shwetabh Bhai. You are amazing. ❤

  • @rishitachandra1434
    @rishitachandra1434 3 роки тому +15

    My friend(girl) was simping over a guy v hard when he treated her like shit...now thankfully she is over him...phew

    • @deadbutworking
      @deadbutworking 3 роки тому +3

      Went through the same for 3 years. Wasted a lot of my time, now I'm much more happy and focusing on myself.

  • @Deepak_Rathore0
    @Deepak_Rathore0 Рік тому +1

    being single is not lonely it is independent think deeply

  • @sifatahmedx
    @sifatahmedx 3 роки тому +21

    Damn I stopped taking to girls after this SIMP trend

    • @pirateking8768
      @pirateking8768 3 роки тому +18

      And became a spammer

    • @sarthakambekar4792
      @sarthakambekar4792 3 роки тому

      @@pirateking8768 😂😂

    • @YopraX
      @YopraX 3 роки тому +1

      Lyrics rakh simple thoda aaram lele

    • @YopraX
      @YopraX 3 роки тому

      @Shalini Chaudhary ye uske dp me hai wo ek rapper simp mat kar is spammer ko

    • @cooldragoncool3046
      @cooldragoncool3046 3 роки тому +3

      @@pirateking8768 spammer fir bhi thik h
      Its better to waste few mins on youtube in comment section rather than giving whole life to a girl who don't give a shit about you 😂😂

  • @ujjwalsingh9931
    @ujjwalsingh9931 3 роки тому +45

    I'm second cause everyone is first 😂❤️

    • @g-seriessongs7686
      @g-seriessongs7686 3 роки тому +1

      I'm third

    • @shubham_bandhavakar8826
      @shubham_bandhavakar8826 3 роки тому +1

      Ok

    • @ujjwalsingh9931
      @ujjwalsingh9931 3 роки тому +2

      @@gurusharan7 hahahha bilkul bhai

    • @vrindagoel8292
      @vrindagoel8292 3 роки тому

      @@shubham_bandhavakar8826 SUNO!! toh mera ek UA-cam channel hai aur main sahi sahi video bna leta hoon. I have an entertainment channel (NAME - gforgovind) and I want to become an actor toh please meri videos dekhkar bta do main kaise improve kar sakta hoon.
      ua-cam.com/video/Evq5v6XEgpI/v-deo.html
      Thank you :)

    • @vrindagoel8292
      @vrindagoel8292 3 роки тому

      @@g-seriessongs7686 SUNO!! toh mera ek UA-cam channel hai aur main sahi sahi video bna leta hoon. I have an entertainment channel (NAME - gforgovind) and I want to become an actor toh please meri videos dekhkar bta do main kaise improve kar sakta hoon.
      ua-cam.com/video/Evq5v6XEgpI/v-deo.html
      Thank you :)

  • @jatinchanchlani8982
    @jatinchanchlani8982 3 роки тому +9

    Bro no relationship is perfect. So what are the qualities to ignore in a girl and what to accept? On a generalized level. Please can you cover this topic?

    • @smoowills4379
      @smoowills4379 3 роки тому +1

      He has already made video on this topic...Watch Type of girls to stay away

    • @jatinchanchlani8982
      @jatinchanchlani8982 3 роки тому

      @@smoowills4379 thanks for suggesting 👍

  • @linkinparkforlife6506
    @linkinparkforlife6506 Рік тому +1

    Asal baat yeh hai ke you dont love her, tumhe pata he nahi pyar hota kya hai, mein is cheez se guzar chuka hun, simping sirf liking hoti hai pyar hua tab pata chala ke what is love

  • @techhd-7
    @techhd-7 Рік тому +2

    Hey,
    Bro I have all the symptoms 😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😒

  • @mystictales5661
    @mystictales5661 3 роки тому +5

    Jordan Peterson- the father I never had.
    Shwetabh - the brother I never had.

  • @bugsbunny145
    @bugsbunny145 3 роки тому +17

    Audio is low as compared to your other videos.

    • @maheshsirvi754
      @maheshsirvi754 3 роки тому +2

      But it's not that low as well, it is really loud if we increase volume.

    • @satyamtripathy3867
      @satyamtripathy3867 3 роки тому +2

      Agreed

    • @bugsbunny145
      @bugsbunny145 3 роки тому

      @@maheshsirvi754 maybe only through headphones/earphones

  • @DD-nc3oc
    @DD-nc3oc 3 роки тому +5

    Girl in the thumbnail?

  • @digvijayk4916
    @digvijayk4916 3 роки тому +2

    Just respect your own personal space

  • @uttamrajput7334
    @uttamrajput7334 Рік тому +1

    2yrs ago I use to make fun of such videos but it's really helpful now.

  • @koshal4med
    @koshal4med 3 роки тому +30

    I used to be a SIMP G.O.D, but I'm not thanks to you. 👦🏾🍻 I'm a brown munda though 🔥💪🏻,

    • @godson200
      @godson200 3 роки тому +7

      It is forbidden to use more than 3 unique emojis in a comment.. Otherwise shwetabh bhaia will clap your cheeks

    • @SB-yd5pj
      @SB-yd5pj 3 роки тому +1

      Mast re bhava

    • @koshal4med
      @koshal4med 3 роки тому

      @@godson200 who cares 😂😂😂

    • @DEEPSINGH-tm1yx
      @DEEPSINGH-tm1yx 3 роки тому

      Brown Munda Akay😍😍

    • @blaqarot45
      @blaqarot45 3 роки тому

      Brown face
      Fare Arm
      Real Indian

  • @jattttt5911
    @jattttt5911 Рік тому +3

    I was literally doing all😂

  • @dopelover9198
    @dopelover9198 3 роки тому +7

    First ever test where I score 100 Percent marks

  • @satyam7995
    @satyam7995 3 роки тому +1

    If she don't know when and where to make boundaries when talking with other boys....This implies that she is not mature and prepared enough...So don't invest yourself in her...💗

  • @vidhroh1538
    @vidhroh1538 3 роки тому +3

    Inshort sarre points are
    "Tumare pass kaam nhi hai kuch karne ko"

  • @justawesome3757
    @justawesome3757 Рік тому +3

    Glad I'm not a simp just got attracted by thumbnail 😅