Mormon Explains: The Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives

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  • @tylerbenderr
    @tylerbenderr  4 місяці тому +42

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    • @caitlingill
      @caitlingill 4 місяці тому

      Are you still Mormon? I thought you were exmo

    • @bpanda8310
      @bpanda8310 4 місяці тому

      Bbooo why do you think you should get any f****** money out of any of us? Holy f*** you're sad

    • @bpanda8310
      @bpanda8310 4 місяці тому +1

      Where are the onlyfans link... Bbbbooooo

    • @bpanda8310
      @bpanda8310 4 місяці тому +1

      Bbbooooo

    • @bpanda8310
      @bpanda8310 4 місяці тому

      Where they at tho

  • @milkpuddingangel96
    @milkpuddingangel96 4 місяці тому +1496

    One thing that freaks me out is that those people ALL look the same, they're like Hallmark movie clones. The hair, the fake tan, the makeup, the white clothes,... it's fucking creepy

    • @thousandreasonswhynot
      @thousandreasonswhynot 4 місяці тому

      One of the hallmarks of a cult is everyone looks the same, they are all Mormons and exmos right? It would make sense

    • @Valentineatelier
      @Valentineatelier 4 місяці тому +121

      @@milkpuddingangel96 I’m glad it’s not just me !!! Notice how their names were constantly edited on top of them during scenes with their ages and during their weekend getaway they literally all had sweaters with their names on them… my senses are telling me it’s because the producers couldn’t tell them apart and knew we wouldn’t be able to either LMFAO

    • @manicmyelin
      @manicmyelin 4 місяці тому

      Utah Mormons are a weird genre of Mormon. 😬
      The FLDS Mormons are straight up criminals though. Polygamy, giving young girls to men as wives, chasing young teen boys out of their communities because there aren’t enough wives to go around, etc.
      I’m ex-Mormon though. That church is a corporate cult. Creepy.

    • @fwa54321
      @fwa54321 4 місяці тому +84

      welcome to Utah...diversity is not one of the strong points of our state

    • @Lachronix
      @Lachronix 4 місяці тому +23

      It’s a cult

  • @moonlightauras1
    @moonlightauras1 4 місяці тому +2329

    Maybe I'm petty, but when Whitney said her husband had a profile on Tinder I literally said out loud "Girl, you pronounced Grindr wrong."

    • @tylerbenderr
      @tylerbenderr  4 місяці тому +230

      same 🙈

    • @MT-cn2uk
      @MT-cn2uk 4 місяці тому

      He has to be gay. It is literally not possible that he's straight.

    • @Dolphinboi
      @Dolphinboi 4 місяці тому +64

      Do y’all forget that bisexual men exist? Also y’all can’t taunt peoples husbands for being gay and say you love the gays/lgbtq community. Make it make sense.

    • @sagepark1170
      @sagepark1170 4 місяці тому

      @@Dolphinboiit’s the hypocrisy babe. Mormons don’t believe that people can be gay 😘

    • @rychellefay38
      @rychellefay38 4 місяці тому +1

      he is giving closet gay, hopefully he gets out soon.

  • @zrswitch8434
    @zrswitch8434 4 місяці тому +709

    Props too Whitney for keeping things super interesting by having a different haircut from everyone else and a gay husband who looks like the stereotype of a gay man from the 80's. She knows how to stand out thats for sure.

    • @lesego1503
      @lesego1503 4 місяці тому +40

      I'll give it to her, I was entertained when she was on screen. Also, her bitchy-pious theatrics were a nice break from the heavy Taylor/Dakota and Jen/Zac drama. She gave good reality TV (she hasn't reached great levels)

    • @manaona3730
      @manaona3730 4 місяці тому

      @@lesego1503I agree!!

    • @manaona3730
      @manaona3730 4 місяці тому +6

      LMAO GAY HUSBAND 🤣 I thought that immediately after seeing him too

    • @TinaTomassen
      @TinaTomassen 4 місяці тому +7

      I actually didn’t dislike her as much as other people seem to. It was clearly edited to make her look horrible and she looks still just sort of bitchy. Didn’t seem like she gave them that much to work with.
      Jess/Jez was the one that seemed villainous to me (despite “kind” editing)…

    • @CalebItachoi
      @CalebItachoi 3 місяці тому +1

      @@manaona3730How do you guys know that her husband is not bisexual? Bi men exist. Prince looked “gay” and y’all constantly say that he’s straight. Such double standards and ignorance

  • @reevesnick
    @reevesnick 4 місяці тому +299

    Thank you for your service. After one episode, I canceled Hulu and just went on a 50 mile run to observe the meaning of life

  • @iwasborninohio1992
    @iwasborninohio1992 4 місяці тому +680

    As a straight man whose wife has been obsessed with this show I really needed this to catch up. Thanks Tyler. Feels like she fell down the rabbit hole in only a day or two and it left me struggling to catch up.

    • @quantumwasabi
      @quantumwasabi 4 місяці тому +27

      this is so wholesome. tell me why I giggled

    • @EryDark
      @EryDark 4 місяці тому +17

      Mine sent me an insta reel about it and I'm like, ehh I'll wait for a review, then boom 20 minutes later, Tyler has me set 😂

    • @samsca8529
      @samsca8529 4 місяці тому +5

      Thanks for clarifying your sexuality

    • @iwasborninohio1992
      @iwasborninohio1992 4 місяці тому

      @@samsca8529 anytime

    • @meddlesome-
      @meddlesome- 4 місяці тому +2

      been really needing this to understand my millennial friends as a gen zer right now

  • @demureworm
    @demureworm 4 місяці тому +365

    “clout goblin” “her gay husband” “i think i found his instagram” banger after banger in this video

  • @Mintzik
    @Mintzik 4 місяці тому +595

    Question: Does everyone in Utah go to the same hairdresser and clothes shop, and are they all at least fourth cousins? WHY DO THEY ALL LOOK THE SAME.
    Like I bet at least part of the swinging was down to people just mistaking other people's spouses for their own because Tan Beachy Waves And Honey Blond Extensions saw Square Head Lightly Squinting Designer Stubble and thought, 'yeah, that's my Brayden' but actually it was Chadley who was also mistaking McKiggley for Mitchelynn

    • @milkpuddingangel96
      @milkpuddingangel96 4 місяці тому +70

      i cackled because fr they look like hallmark christmas movie rejects it's scary

    • @SpicyPlur
      @SpicyPlur 4 місяці тому +88

      So, funny enough, there is actually now a "Mormon face" DNA because they have all been together for so long. Also, because of the fit in culture and plastic surgery being a good excuse to get drugs, a lot get the same cosmetic surgery

    • @Lachronix
      @Lachronix 4 місяці тому +6

      Cult

    • @user-lg3rx2ko5g
      @user-lg3rx2ko5g 4 місяці тому +2

      Lmaoooo

    • @Xxmilkshake202xX
      @Xxmilkshake202xX 4 місяці тому +18

      Apparently, a long time ago, the Utah Mormons brought Scandinavian women over to Utah, converted, and married them. That’s why they all look similar.

  • @caitystrong4599
    @caitystrong4599 4 місяці тому +448

    Surprised more people aren’t talking about when Whitney’s baby had rsv and she made a TikTok dancing next to them at hospital.

    • @tylerbenderr
      @tylerbenderr  4 місяці тому +97

      Just wait

    • @jessicakakern4571
      @jessicakakern4571 4 місяці тому +26

      That lady is on this show!?

    • @joanna0988
      @joanna0988 4 місяці тому +33

      To me that's worse than swinging 😅

    • @halliegillian
      @halliegillian 4 місяці тому +16

      when i found out that was her my jaw was on the FLOOR

    • @TidePodDiet69
      @TidePodDiet69 4 місяці тому +3

      I had no idea it was the same girl! Shoot guess I need to get Hulu…

  • @ann3923
    @ann3923 4 місяці тому +532

    I'm not from US. Two years ago i didn't know about Mormons existence. Now i know more about them than 95% of my country.

    • @itsthedamagetalking
      @itsthedamagetalking 4 місяці тому +7

      Same here lmao

    • @Zozerelli
      @Zozerelli 4 місяці тому +29

      The suspicious history of the mormon faith is way more interesting than the reality tv nonsense this show tries to sell. I’m fascinated by it so this tv show was a real letdown.

    • @Sam-hv9yy
      @Sam-hv9yy 4 місяці тому +4

      You actually don't know.

    • @moustik31
      @moustik31 4 місяці тому +4

      Same! I feel like I fell down the rabbit hole after having watched the "Under the Banner of Heaven" mini-series.

    • @Username0467
      @Username0467 4 місяці тому +7

      @@Sam-hv9yy Found the Mormon.

  • @LunaZeidner
    @LunaZeidner 4 місяці тому +337

    Mormonism and it's consequences lol. Who would've seen a culture of repression creating this specific set of circumstances.

    • @i_have_no_profile_name_at_all
      @i_have_no_profile_name_at_all 4 місяці тому +8

      As a fellow mormon, I can confidently say these women not LDS whatsoever. I don't know whats going on down in Utah💀

  • @UniqueLibra1981
    @UniqueLibra1981 4 місяці тому +381

    now I don't need to watch the series. Thank you. An iceberg on this topic would be fun, to watch might be tough to research 😅

    • @tylerbenderr
      @tylerbenderr  4 місяці тому +55

      Iceberg video is tempting 👀👀

    • @arturbuchhorn
      @arturbuchhorn 4 місяці тому +5

      @@tylerbenderr Do it! Also a deepdive on the anatomy of their fashion style. Like, why do they all look the same?!

    • @UniqueLibra1981
      @UniqueLibra1981 4 місяці тому

      @@tylerbenderr 🫶🏾✨

    • @UniqueLibra1981
      @UniqueLibra1981 4 місяці тому

      @@arturbuchhorn Check out Alyssa Grenfell. Left a reel on the exact question you asked. She shares about her experiences grownup up and Temple Marriage and is very enlightening. Listening to her and Tyler is LDS culture is American culture and the MLM affect alone. My mom literally did all of the 1970's, 80's and 90's MLMs as a SAH mom then as a single mom. The aesthetic doesn't go unnoticed and Alyssa did her DNA and "Mormon" is an ethnicity specific to the Utah area. The Freemason input interesting. I have to give props, the work of being a missionary lends itself to a human able to navigate humans which is a invaluable tool in capitalism. Christians have tall full hair and LDS have long shiny hair. The fullness helps the cone of the Kaykaykay hood be pointed 🤪😅😬
      Their is a husband and wife couple that shares about post LDS life and they both have almost auburn blonde hair.
      ua-cam.com/users/shorts9bylGgUbYo8?si=VAf3ekS1jjVrEv-M

  • @superbrokul
    @superbrokul 4 місяці тому +220

    I'm not from the US. Whenever I hear about Utah, I wonder what kind of cultish, small-town place stuck in the 1960s it is... MLMs, religion dictating every aspect of life, everyone looking the same, getting married and having babies before your frontal lobe is even fully developed - it feels like living in a dystopia.

    • @ky4864
      @ky4864 4 місяці тому +35

      As someone from Utah, that’s what it’s been like. But! The counterculture is strong and there are also a lot of cool people and places, plus its a beautiful state, full of mountains. There’s Definitely a strange dominant culture, but it’s not all of us:)

    • @CalebR-zd5ql
      @CalebR-zd5ql 4 місяці тому

      @@ky4864Utah is one of the most conservative states in America so you’re wrong. It’s full of homophobes and racists. I can tell you’re not a minority

    • @CalebR-zd5ql
      @CalebR-zd5ql 4 місяці тому

      Utah is terrible. It’s one of the most conservative states in America. Full of bigots

    • @peacelovemotivation8366
      @peacelovemotivation8366 4 місяці тому +10

      Actually the whole thing about “your frontal lobe isn’t fully developed til 25” is just a myth/misunderstanding. The cited research *only* looked at subjects *up to* age 25, and the conclusion was simply “The frontal lobe *continues* to develop into the *mid twenties.*”
      The human brain continues to develop and change throughout the *entirety* of the human lifespan. There is no objective point where it is “finished” or “fully” developed.

    • @hollykirby2845
      @hollykirby2845 4 місяці тому +5

      I've lived in Utah my whole life, and it's really not that bad. Mormonism definitely influences the culture, so you got a lot of fake tans, blonde extensions, and the worlds worst liquor laws, but most Mormons I know are not at all like this

  • @SleepySuperhero
    @SleepySuperhero 4 місяці тому +129

    Miranda had an OF making out with Taylor n a hottub.
    She was definitely involved.

    • @tylerbenderr
      @tylerbenderr  4 місяці тому +44

      WHAT?!?

    • @Valentineatelier
      @Valentineatelier 4 місяці тому +22

      @@SleepySuperhero holy shit…are they actually Mormon like for real 😭

    • @SleepySuperhero
      @SleepySuperhero 4 місяці тому +23

      @Valentineatelier yes. From what I understand, their dads and husbands were high-ranking, which often leads to getting away with lesser stuff like drinking, but these ladies and their husbands took it to a wild extreme.

    • @caitlingill
      @caitlingill 4 місяці тому +1

      I genuinely wonder if some of these women are bi/pan just won't admit it

    • @Dolphinboi
      @Dolphinboi 3 місяці тому

      @@SleepySuperhero Can a man be Mormon and make out with men on OF?

  • @jamesbuchanan2001
    @jamesbuchanan2001 4 місяці тому +64

    As a 29 year old Australian man that has no social media, I am so invested already, but I have to hear it from you.

    • @32Theresa
      @32Theresa 4 місяці тому

      Do you know any Mormons in Australia? I’m American, I’ve only met a few (that ik of) but then again I’m not from Utah or Idaho where most of em are lol

  • @ninefourninethree
    @ninefourninethree 4 місяці тому +212

    “With her and her gay husband” 😂

    • @Dolphinboi
      @Dolphinboi 4 місяці тому

      Y’all act like bisexual men don’t exist. It ain’t just straight or gay. And if someone called your husband gay you’d gay you’d freak out. Interesting..

    • @LizBizEEEE
      @LizBizEEEE 4 місяці тому +5

      Right?! As soon as I heard that I skipped it back and when it was confirmed I started searching to see if anyone else picked up on that

    • @Dolphinboi
      @Dolphinboi 3 місяці тому

      @@LizBizEEEE Y’all love acting like bisexual men don’t exist. The fact that y’all call her husband gay shows that.

    • @LizBizEEEE
      @LizBizEEEE 3 місяці тому

      @@Dolphinboi y’all? I never called anyone anything

    • @Dolphinboi
      @Dolphinboi 3 місяці тому +1

      @@LizBizEEEE you laughed at Tyler calling her husband gay. Clearly u think it’s ok. If you’re gonna make fun of men’s sexuality then u should own it

  • @thepalindromeemordnilapeht1267
    @thepalindromeemordnilapeht1267 4 місяці тому +62

    When you said "but remember that Taylor is a child" i lost my shit lol

  • @Moonpie90
    @Moonpie90 4 місяці тому +252

    My husband is donating blood next week (UK based so it's a volunteer thing run by the national health service), they have moved it to the local mormon church. I have briefed him not to engage with anyone at the church, for fear they start showing up at our house. I will crack out my lockdown era witch gear if needed

    • @cmaden78
      @cmaden78 4 місяці тому +6

      YES!!!!!😂

    • @ysabellarivera8166
      @ysabellarivera8166 4 місяці тому +9

      Best of luck, haha

    • @strawberrycherrybaby
      @strawberrycherrybaby 4 місяці тому +10

      They have Mormons in the UK???? I thought it was just a US problem 😂

    • @Moonpie90
      @Moonpie90 4 місяці тому +6

      @@strawberrycherrybaby nah they get everywhere, been here for decades. Had mormon missionaries knocking on our door growing up

    • @TinaTomassen
      @TinaTomassen 4 місяці тому +1

      @@strawberrycherrybabywe also get them in Switzerland. I had some nice conversations with missionaries (on the train/commute). They never tried to convert me or establish additional contact. They just seemed glad about the smalltalk…

  • @wendy_lynn
    @wendy_lynn 4 місяці тому +324

    I hate to say I watched the entire season in a day… but I did. I am not a reality show lover because I hate manufactured drama. I enjoyed this one though. I love Taylor.

    • @falseprofit9801
      @falseprofit9801 4 місяці тому +19

      it’s so delightfully unhinged lol. It’s become my guilty pleasure.

    • @tylerbenderr
      @tylerbenderr  4 місяці тому +15

      Honestly twins !!

    • @Nightbird1914
      @Nightbird1914 4 місяці тому +6

      I pride myself for not watching reality shows. Also me staying up all night binging this train wreck.

    • @ResidentMilf
      @ResidentMilf 4 місяці тому

      They didn't need to manufacture any drama for this one. They had a surplus.

  • @ChiaLanita
    @ChiaLanita 4 місяці тому +177

    once I dated a mormon boy and he told me I was unholy for kissing a girl. his mom was a homophobe too and a foot doctor.

    • @WastedBananas
      @WastedBananas 4 місяці тому +9

      that's crazy, id get it if you did it while you guys were dating cause that's cheating but being mad you did it before? bros doing too much

    • @ChiaLanita
      @ChiaLanita 4 місяці тому +29

      @@WastedBananas i kissed a girl before me and him dated

    • @aR0ttenBANANA
      @aR0ttenBANANA 4 місяці тому +2

      The hell is a food doctor? Like a dietician?

    • @ChiaLanita
      @ChiaLanita 4 місяці тому +4

      @@aR0ttenBANANA my bad lol i meant foot

    • @timetraveler0002
      @timetraveler0002 4 місяці тому +23

      you should have made out with his mom

  • @ShhhandGiggles
    @ShhhandGiggles 4 місяці тому +25

    "she talking to her about sex with her gay husband." The way i hollered 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @thechosenone7760
    @thechosenone7760 4 місяці тому +24

    When an addict is in recovery, they tend to find a new addiction. And his new addiction is her.

  • @alyssataylor2338
    @alyssataylor2338 4 місяці тому +19

    My (Mormon) mom told me she started watching this show and that it was like a train wreck that she just couldn’t look away from. I don’t ever watch reality tv, so I appreciate your run down so that I could get the gist of the show and participate in convos with my mom about it.

    • @Dolphinboi
      @Dolphinboi 3 місяці тому

      @@alyssataylor2338 I bet she started saying slurs when Whitney’s husband came on screen

  • @zahraaalz9621
    @zahraaalz9621 4 місяці тому +21

    All these women are young AF. Explains SO MUCH.

  • @bagel_bitez1
    @bagel_bitez1 4 місяці тому +141

    It's funny to imagine any of these people in temple garments/secret ceremony robes on.

    • @mRudie1318
      @mRudie1318 4 місяці тому +14

      More like damn near impossible to imagine. From everything I’ve heard here these people sound like they are light years away from qualifying. 😂

    • @kokconsulting2
      @kokconsulting2 4 місяці тому +3

      Ain't one of them a participating member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints

    • @mRudie1318
      @mRudie1318 4 місяці тому +2

      @@kokconsulting2 they certainly aren’t following the rules. My mom used to call our family “Jack Mormons” because we did smaller things like watch rated R movies and drink caffeinated beverages 😂. But this is WAY down the sin rabbit hole for anyone professing to be a practicing LDS member.

    • @kokconsulting2
      @kokconsulting2 4 місяці тому +1

      @@mRudie1318 exactly. Drinking coffee is one thing. This is easy down the road

  • @antimayomac
    @antimayomac 4 місяці тому +81

    Haven’t had a chance to watch the actual show but a bunch of coworkers keep talking about it. Keep the recaps coming please! I like watching you so much more than actually slogging through the show!! 😂

    • @tylerbenderr
      @tylerbenderr  4 місяці тому +10

      That’s what I’m here for 🙏🏼

  • @hyesterical
    @hyesterical 4 місяці тому +19

    I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE OMG

  • @lorrithelinguist
    @lorrithelinguist 4 місяці тому +30

    13:04 nah fr. I hold sooooo much resentment towards my mother for marrying the worst men ever and ignoring our abuse. Now she's married to her third guy and is surprised that I don't wanna call him dad. At some point, you need to wake up and realise that your kids are more important than some shitty relationship. An adult has more power to leave an abusive relationship than a child does. So much trauma could've been saved.

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 4 місяці тому +2

      Fully agree with this. It makes me so mad when people take the mom’s side and tell the kids to get over it because she had I helped trauma herself, but that doesn’t take away from the fact that she caused her kids to experience trauma too.

  • @authormccastile
    @authormccastile 4 місяці тому +18

    Thank you for pointing out Whitney's husband is gay. Like it's so painfully obvious it was Grindr and not Tinder.

  • @princesswells9469
    @princesswells9469 4 місяці тому +21

    19:34 yeah Taylor’s boyfriend doesn’t act 31, he acts 12 (derogatory) which is not cute if you’re grown.

  • @elisacolard-minardi6685
    @elisacolard-minardi6685 4 місяці тому +27

    I watched the show without any context, so I was really confused by the whole swinger scandal and who was involved. So thank you for this video because it helped me understand everything a lot more.

  • @themissingpiece5022
    @themissingpiece5022 4 місяці тому +6

    I absolutely hate 95% of cheating scandals where the husband could (even potentially) be gay/bi because so often the discussion transitions into blatant homophobia and biphobia and away from the original discussion of cheating

  • @makeitmakesense2616
    @makeitmakesense2616 4 місяці тому +16

    Ive been a subscriber for about 2 months and was wondering when you was gonna touch on this. I don't have time to be watching all these shows and desperately need people like you who come from the world of the subject of topic, to break it down, and with humor
    Thank you boo

    • @tylerbenderr
      @tylerbenderr  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for subscribing 🫶🙏🏼

  • @emmapaterchak
    @emmapaterchak 4 місяці тому +22

    your goodbye bit at the end infuriated me. you're too good at that character

  • @sarahmarie557
    @sarahmarie557 4 місяці тому +11

    I have to watch this like 5 times to follow the plot, thank you for your investigative journalism

  • @dsaybra
    @dsaybra 4 місяці тому +62

    i had no idea who any of these people were before this video (very far from their target demographic) but i now feel so bad for taylor. it’s very obvious that her arrest was unfair (she was trying to defend herself from what is an obvious abusive pos, and utah doesn’t strike me as a place that believes the victim) and this man has blown up her life. this is what happens when your culture prevents you from having the worst boyfriend/situationship of your life at 19. hope she bounces back from this

    • @dsaybra
      @dsaybra 4 місяці тому +3

      taylor’s a scapegoat but obviously the only person anyone really cares about is

    • @Dolphinboi
      @Dolphinboi 3 місяці тому

      @@dsaybra Taylor is a trump supporter so she gets little sympathy for me. I doubt she’d have compassion for an LGBTQ people in that situation

  • @TimEast-yn3cd
    @TimEast-yn3cd 4 місяці тому +8

    You are the best! So unapologetically obsessed and still funny, clever and amazingly professional about it all! No one could have done this as good as you! Your super sharp intellect honour these people with your spot on observations! God I wish I was your friend!

  • @actuallylatino
    @actuallylatino 4 місяці тому +77

    the INSTANT i subscribed to ur channel i get a notification for this video 😭😭

  • @iChristyG
    @iChristyG 4 місяці тому +13

    I came into this video completely ignorant about this lore, and I must say, 14 minutes in, I am blown away by how messy this all is. I am truly in shock, lmao.

  • @Bi-polarbear
    @Bi-polarbear 4 місяці тому +9

    What perfect timing! I spent my whole work day watching the entire season 😅

  • @SJTJ
    @SJTJ 4 місяці тому +10

    Okay. THIS is the in-depth deep dive I needed.

  • @crystalcastillo7575
    @crystalcastillo7575 4 місяці тому +8

    So Taylor thinks that marriage is too soon because she doesn’t know Dakota enough but is having a baby with him…. Like is a child not a bigger commitment than marriage …. Yikes

  • @staciezimm
    @staciezimm 4 місяці тому +8

    OMG, Thank you so much! I watched the show ( actually only episode 1) having never known the back story or watched any of the mom-tok videos. I had seen the previews and heard some details from the show but that's about it. I wanted to know what really happened, but I did not want to go down the rabbit hole of actually researching it! This is the best TLDR cliff notes summation of all I wanted to know!

  • @tagtraumerin5077
    @tagtraumerin5077 4 місяці тому +27

    7:30 he‘s got the same shade of fake tan that she does 💀

  • @yourstruly9013
    @yourstruly9013 4 місяці тому +5

    I cannot wait for pt two this drama is WILD

  • @lyannastarkweather
    @lyannastarkweather 4 місяці тому +17

    I spent my entire Saturday watching this series and thinking “I can’t wait for Tyler to do a video about this nonsense.”

  • @gabbie8826
    @gabbie8826 4 місяці тому +5

    I got to episode 4 yesterday and told myself "I know Tyler has a video on this somewhere!" Very much needed info!

  • @genesisq5943
    @genesisq5943 4 місяці тому +2

    The way I was waiting for this. Thank youuuuu

  • @LillianMcAllister-ch9ne
    @LillianMcAllister-ch9ne 4 місяці тому +27

    Omg, Tyler posted!

  • @tametsin1320
    @tametsin1320 4 місяці тому +13

    Was Whitney the one dancing by her kid in a hospital cot or was that a different momtoker?

  • @emmajohnson6271
    @emmajohnson6271 4 місяці тому +9

    Utah girl here and THANK YOUUUU this is everything I needed lmao

    • @ewe392
      @ewe392 4 місяці тому

      Y'all are the reason men get away with so much

  • @spiderwickian
    @spiderwickian 3 місяці тому +1

    CANNOT tell these ppl apart, thank you for the explanations!!!!

  • @SkyeSoleil
    @SkyeSoleil 4 місяці тому +11

    I got a Bible verse app ad the second I clicked on this 😭😭

  • @mage1439
    @mage1439 4 місяці тому +4

    Something about all the energy and the pictures on the wall. I can't stop seeing the Charlie Day meme.

  • @Marney43211
    @Marney43211 4 місяці тому +2

    This is EXACTLY what i was waiting for. Thanks for your hard work and bingewatch time queen ❤

  • @beee.4real
    @beee.4real 4 місяці тому +7

    this is so fascinating to me and honestly the highlight of my week thank you tyler 🙏

    • @tylerbenderr
      @tylerbenderr  4 місяці тому +1

      Omg hi member 👸🏻👸🏻👸🏻

  • @Mozzar_ella316
    @Mozzar_ella316 4 місяці тому +2

    I’ve been waiting for you to talk about this

  • @DaisyDuke0
    @DaisyDuke0 4 місяці тому +6

    Love when Tyler does deep dives

  • @Julia-fm6mg
    @Julia-fm6mg 4 місяці тому +1

    I was waiting for this video!! ❤

  • @kristenfrancisco11
    @kristenfrancisco11 4 місяці тому +3

    I’ve been waiting for this video since I finished the series.

  • @lynneelizabeth
    @lynneelizabeth 4 місяці тому +3

    Taylor, thank god you did this. I'm not going to watch all the episodes but I NEED the details.

  • @victoriam9030
    @victoriam9030 4 місяці тому +2

    I KNEW you would cover this! Tysm

  • @thatonedog819
    @thatonedog819 4 місяці тому +7

    This immediately did not go the way I thought it would go

  • @JT-ki1fz
    @JT-ki1fz 4 місяці тому +1

    this is the best thing I’ve watched today. Love this!

  • @ambert.3792
    @ambert.3792 4 місяці тому

    this breakdown is so, SO good. 👏🏾

  • @michaelsmom1199
    @michaelsmom1199 4 місяці тому +3

    i knew you were putting something together for us queen 🩷

  • @cailindineen9532
    @cailindineen9532 4 місяці тому +1

    HELL YEAH ive been waiting for this one!!!

  • @elise12345
    @elise12345 4 місяці тому

    I’ve been waiting for this! I knew you would have all the perspective necessary for what this show demands!

  • @robertacagle4975
    @robertacagle4975 4 місяці тому +5

    It would have been so easy for Whitney to text Taylor and say she wasn't coming to the baby shower, but then there wouldn't have been the "where's whitney" drama, and she definitely seems to want to be the center of attention.

    • @ky4864
      @ky4864 4 місяці тому +2

      Ngl it kinda feels like producer-created drama. I’ll still watch though.

  • @rose.b.99
    @rose.b.99 4 місяці тому +1

    Another upload I'm super excited to watch from my new favorite youtuber 💛

  • @mariannemacdonald4568
    @mariannemacdonald4568 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m so glad you did this because I really didn’t want to waste my time watching this

  • @mtvphil
    @mtvphil 4 місяці тому +4

    u snapped in this

  • @fgreen21
    @fgreen21 4 місяці тому +6

    I can't be the only one who thinks all the pictures of women on the wall look the same

  • @almondmilkshake
    @almondmilkshake 3 місяці тому

    6:05 Tyler you don't need to convince me, I'm already subscribed

  • @Devki24
    @Devki24 4 місяці тому +10

    Can they call it swinging if there’s no s3x? It sounds like eighth grade level drama

    • @SpicyPlur
      @SpicyPlur 4 місяці тому +6

      Lol "soaking"

    • @Valentineatelier
      @Valentineatelier 4 місяці тому +6

      I believe in the infamous live stream Taylor said they called it “partial swinging” or “half swinging” or smth like that

    • @caitlingill
      @caitlingill 4 місяці тому +3

      @@Valentineatelier Soft swinging

    • @Valentineatelier
      @Valentineatelier 4 місяці тому

      @@caitlingill yeah!!! That

  • @adrianflores9983
    @adrianflores9983 4 місяці тому +3

    I just saw the show and was going to ask if you were going to do a recap! I will be watching the show and coming back to this video. Love your recaps especially on mormon videos, it feels like I'm getting insider tea.

  • @samanthacostido7823
    @samanthacostido7823 4 місяці тому

    10 minutes into this video and I LOVE how you are explaining this!

  • @josilync7027
    @josilync7027 4 місяці тому +6

    Jessi’s blue contacts are freaking me out

    • @josilync7027
      @josilync7027 4 місяці тому +1

      Wait are they contacts??? I’m so confused someone help

  • @tacrewgirl
    @tacrewgirl 4 місяці тому +1

    OMG, more stuff I have no idea about but you make it so entertaining. Thanks Tyler! 🤣

  • @missyellowfreek
    @missyellowfreek 4 місяці тому +1

    Saying “Her and her gay husband” so nonchalantly I SUBSCRIBED SO FAST😂

  • @samsosa7234
    @samsosa7234 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you soooo much queen! I couldn’t get thru the first episode but now I don’t have fomo

  • @ruththecatlady
    @ruththecatlady 4 місяці тому +1

    Tyler I love when you bring out the wall! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jazzibrensan
    @jazzibrensan 4 місяці тому +1

    WAITED FOR THIS ONE

  • @Netalula0707
    @Netalula0707 4 місяці тому +43

    Honestly converting to fit in is such bs. I was the only Jewish girl in a class of mostly Roman Catholics and never even once considered converting to fit in.

    • @Valentineatelier
      @Valentineatelier 4 місяці тому +18

      Well I mean how do you know 😭 I’m assuming you’re talking about Layla, she was young only 16 and Mormon culture is almost synonymous with Utah culture so she was constantly surrounded by it

    • @lyannastarkweather
      @lyannastarkweather 4 місяці тому +15

      In addition to what @Valentineatelier said about the Mormon faith permeating Utah culture. There’s also the proselytizing aspect of the LDS Church. Everyone is expected to serve a mission with the specific purpose of converting more people to the faith. So a major part of the culture is actively trying to bring people into the church. That same expectation doesn’t exist in the Catholic Church so there wouldn’t be the same pressure on outsiders.

    • @Netalula0707
      @Netalula0707 4 місяці тому +1

      @@Valentineatelier i was 12 and living in Rome.

    • @Valentineatelier
      @Valentineatelier 4 місяці тому +9

      @@Netalula0707 right….so your situation’s different

    • @virginiarogers9391
      @virginiarogers9391 4 місяці тому +7

      @@Netalula0707 your situation is really not comparable, even in rome, especially BECAUSE you're jewish. for most people judaism isn't just a religion, it's an ethnicity, something that's inherited. It makes complete sense you'd have no interest in converting. But if you don't already have an identity like that and virtually everyone around you shares an identity that you could pretty easily convert to..? not saying it's right, I think it's really sad, but it's obvious the situations are REALLY different

  • @rachelsteinsmith
    @rachelsteinsmith 4 місяці тому +5

    I’m not Mormon - what is a “temple marriage”? Is that just when the husband and wife get married in a church?

    • @SpicyPlur
      @SpicyPlur 4 місяці тому +13

      A marriage with a big Mormon check of approval. You can't just go to the church and say "I would like to marry here" you have to "earn it". It's the magic clothes and passwords to prove your Mormonism. Very private secret temple ceremony, not a public wedding.

    • @rachelsteinsmith
      @rachelsteinsmith 4 місяці тому +2

      @@SpicyPlur thank you for the explanation!

    • @johanabi
      @johanabi 4 місяці тому +4

      In addition to what the other commenter said, temple weddings can only be attended by Mormons. I found out outsiders aren’t allowed in temples in high school when I was invited to my friend’s sister’s reception and gentle told only Mormons could attend the temple wedding :’)

    • @i_have_no_profile_name_at_all
      @i_have_no_profile_name_at_all 4 місяці тому

      I'm a mormon and we believe in being married for eternity and not just till death, you can choose to get married in the temple, its just more private and simple. I am very dissapointed outsider can't come into the temples but they have open houses where anyone can come in!

  • @mmmmmm-un9zr
    @mmmmmm-un9zr 4 місяці тому +1

    THIS IS SO GOOD I had no idea about anyyyyy of this

  • @joseph3164
    @joseph3164 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for this Tyler! You are the goat, now I don’t have to sit through 8 episodes.

  • @Reetietoo
    @Reetietoo 4 місяці тому +5

    Ok thank u bc I was so confused apparently no one in the show was actually doing the swinging

  • @pthaloblue100
    @pthaloblue100 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for enduring all of that so we don't have to, enjoyed your synopsis!

  • @TalkForALiving
    @TalkForALiving 4 місяці тому

    Neat topic, looking forward to part two 🎉

  • @shelbysmith6959
    @shelbysmith6959 4 місяці тому

    I literally told my fiancé i was curious about the show but not curious enough to watch and i was like to “wait for tiktok to recap the show” this is even better!

  • @tracymarshall8273
    @tracymarshall8273 4 місяці тому +4

    😂🇨🇦 xmormon girl here. I love your videos ❤

  • @idoitforchina
    @idoitforchina 4 місяці тому

    I was WAITING for this 🎉 love your channel sm

  • @ajsweetie22
    @ajsweetie22 4 місяці тому +3

    I was WAITING for your video on this. The Utah Girlie I TRUST

  • @NextianGeometry
    @NextianGeometry 4 місяці тому

    Funny that "Sam" has so little profile in all this that Tyler can just stand in front of his picture and nothing is missed.

  • @caroline_grace111
    @caroline_grace111 4 місяці тому +3

    wake up babe tyler just posted

  • @ErinnnMarcia
    @ErinnnMarcia 4 місяці тому +3

    Thank you so much for giving us a recap and not making me watch the entire series 🥰

  • @TechAIwithMelody
    @TechAIwithMelody 4 місяці тому +1

    Have to go watch the show and then come back for your recap 😂

  • @Apothecary_Pinch_of_Yarn29
    @Apothecary_Pinch_of_Yarn29 4 місяці тому +2

    I’m so early! Love you and your videos Tyler! 💕

  • @BinaryNerf
    @BinaryNerf 4 місяці тому +2

    "MEN WITH BLUE EYES... SUS."
    (thinks about the man with blue eyes who I have A Thing for)
    Can confirm. 😂