I don't watch this channel to see the challenges you two face because you're an interabled couple. I watch your channel because I enjoy seeing two people who clearly love each other.
Hi ☺️ I’m a quadriplegic C4 C5 C6! I recently started making videos to help motivate those like me! Please consider checking out my channel! Thank you 🙏 god bless!!!
The explanation about the safe word “butterflies” by Cole is the most beautiful thing ever. Many of us have never been in relationships where the other person took that kind of consideration for us. You all are teaching me things. Keep up that type of communication.
I nearly cried when Cole talked about Charisma's safe word, what a thoughtful man you are. How you care for each other 💕 it's beautiful to see. If you want to know what love is, you've just watched it 💕❤️💕️........seriously. Bless you both. Sending you love ❤️
Hi ☺️ I’m a quadriplegic C4 C5 C6! I recently started making videos to help motivate those like me! Please consider checking out my channel! Thank you 🙏 god bless!!!
Thank you again for sharing and showing the pleasure and the joy of being positive. I love the confidance that Cole's mother and father demonstrated as it relates to Charisma. As soon as they pulled out the driveway, Cole's parents immediately turned their backs and went into the house. They knew that Cole was in loving, capable hands, in the form of Charisma. For that and many other reasons, I am a huge fan of Charisma. Because Cole graciously and respectfully accepts help and because he is so very encouraging and loving, I'm a big fan of Cole's, too.
You guys inspire me and my hubby (c5 incomplete quad) so much. We are young and all and still wanna live a fun filled life... But we've never ever done a holiday or an overnight trip by ourselves without a caregiver. This video has us planning our first overnight trip caregiver free... Nervous but excited. Love from South Africa 💙💕
I have just "found" you two a few weeks ago and have been going backwards in time watching your newer videos first and working my way back. The changes in what Cole does for himself in the two years since this video was recorded is amazing! When I need a smile, I watch your videos!
Who would have thought watching someone do mundane every day activities and find it enthralling Lol Love seeing you enjoying each other having fun. Great sound effects Cole. You are so super cute and authentic.🌸
That’s cool that you recognize It can be can be overwhelming for one person. so always give charisma her space when you can tell that she’s feeling overwhelmed.By the same token you let charisma know when you’re feeling overwhelmed and that you need space. Overall you guys keep communicating and keep taking it one day at a time
Evelyn Brown I can relate. I went there for college and then moved there. Only reason I left is because I met my now husband (online) and moved out west (Seattle) to be closer to him. I still love DC tho
That is the simplicity of love, trusting , respecting, and honoring each other’s love . They truly demonstrate what a shared partnership is about, acknowledging each other’s strengths andchallenges and strategically balancing it out. We love you for that💕💕
Traveling together as a couple for the first time is always a learning experience about your partner, and can be overwhelming at times. Being an interabled couple vlogging the whole experience, y'all have more hurdles and planning than others, and thank you for so openly sharing your experience with us. Lots of memories made, I'm sure! Charisma, lots of love from a fellow OT in Indiana! 💕
Traveling as an interabled couple was not as hard when it was just my husband and I. The moment we had the twins, things changed. I remember we travelled a lot to L.A. and we had to drive because I was nervous they would freak out if we flew. We are planning on going to Africa(Botswana) to show my family the kids, it is definitely going to be interesting. My twins have never flew before. Anyway, enough about me now. Let me finish the video. I love you Charisma for loving Cole. I can't wait for the wedding video already.😍😘
Honestly, care givers need awards or something.My mom was a nurse and has worked as a care giver to all types of people from older ones with dementia to paralyzed ones. It takes a special type of person to become a caregiver and I know that's not me. However, I respect the ones who dedicate their lives to doing this. Charisma I have so much respect for you and I just want to give you a hug. Hopefully you didnt have to use the safe word. Cole is always so happy and positive. Love you guys. P.s don't worry mama Kelly you are beautiful no matter what
I think this is just amazing because it really shows society that even if your ♿ or have disabilities that you can still find love no matter what you look like or no matter what's wrong with you. This is truely amazing and I'm really in love with this bond and relationship and I think it's amazing to watch these two amazing people come together!!
Hello beautiful couple Cole and Charisma♥️. Cole is adorable and Charisma as well. Cole’s mom is awesome. It was nice taking us to your trip and your wonderful journey. Stay blessed. I love you so much.🌈🙏🏽🎶♥️
His mother has to have a lot of love for charisma!!! To have someone love what you love and show respect towards your young one!! My heart will melt. 💜.
I do not comment often online videos. But i am just so fan of your couple. First video i saw it was Cole's mum and i was just amazed what positive energy he can spread around him. I just cant believe he found his perfect match. You both are fun sexy and sooooo cute together. You are lucky to have found each other. Life wont be easy everyday but we all have our struggle. Your smiles and life vision have a purpose ! Thank you for sharing them with us! Ida from France ( my mum is from Madagascar. Dad from Congo) . Keep rolling !!! (Hope that proper english lol)
Just been watching someone who had a spinal code injury getting healed through prayer. Praying the Lord will also meet Cole at his point of need. Our God is able.
OMGosh!!! That's it! I'm suing you two, for breaking my freaking jaws!!! I have never smiled and laughed so much at folks I've never met.😁😂😊 Your love for each other is so authentic and pure. It really showed on this trip; where you were away from everyone else and could be free and uninhibited! You guys are AWESOME together! I wish you both continued happiness! 🙂😍❤🙏🏽👍🏾
Thank you for the video I'm so glad that you are putting out for all to see the life of a disabled couple my disability isn't as bad but the struggle is real. I called you a disabled couple because my wife has to deal with my struggles also I know that I couldn't make it threw without her and I appreciate her so much. Lots of love to you and I hope that you enjoy the rest your trip
Oh I forget Charisma, you were "GREAT" I see that you really don't mind doing what it takes to help with Cole. That's what I'm doing with my Husband. Some people say that I am good for him. I see it as if you LOVE that person you stand by them not run away..... love u guys 💞
I can't imagine being in a sitting position for many hours...Cole has an upbeat attitude and keeps the complaining baffled at or of his tenacity...surely the d c trip allowed Kelly Mama and Clem daddy a much needed break.
Wow! First, I have to say I can't believe how much I missed watching you two last week! So glad to see you two! Lol Charisma, can I share just how much respect and admiration I have for you!! Girl, you are holding it down for your man and I can't hate on that at all! I am really in awe at your level of care you have for Cole. Girl, you are a rare fine in this generation especially! Your selflessness is something we should all be aspiring to! Cole, your love for your lady is always in your eyes... it truely is a beautiful thing to behold! And your thoughtsfulness for your Charisma is so sweet. Awww:) Finally, i just have two questions, when is the wedding and can I come?! Lol
Lola, well said!! These two are destined for bigger things..I truly admire their unconditional love for each other, and their respective families unconditional love and support for them, it's truly a blessing worth admiring.. can't forget Kelly, ugh!! I just love that lady..she's def one of my faves...
Hi guys. Now that's the way to pack.Thnx for showing us. My daughter needs to see this video.lol. Hope you enjoyed your trip. Love you always. From West Palm Beach, Florida.
You guys are my favorite couple. It takes a lot of love on both parts and you guys are supreme. Thanks for teaching the rest of us how to love and be each others friend (agape love). This is my favorite youtube channel.
Omg! New love is the best..you two make my face hurt and I cry a little every video. Thank you..every video teach me and give me so much joy..it makes me remember what happiness looks like.
Wow! What a beautiful video. Laughing, joking being affectionate towards each other and showing us what is involved in Cole's care e.g. what he needs for his daily/ nightly care and his morning routine. And the work that you Charisma put in. You are so loving , giving and kind Charisma. Even choosing the clothes together and what medical supplies are needed. In the U.K. we have done away with using the word handicapped. We have not used it for decades. So it's so strange to hear that word. Over here we found the term to be insulting and out of date. Because it was used at the turn of the century. It was meant to describe someone who was homeless, had a disability and went begging with a cap/hat hence the term hand in cap or cap in hand = handicap. We use the term Disabled instead. Or alternative living needs. But generally it is Disabled. A long , long time ago we used to use that word ( handicapped ) but the thinking / language was changed because Disabled people did not like it and health professionals and educators agreed it was derogatory. Little U.K. bit of knowledge Also we use the phrase ALTERNATIVE LEARNING for children / adults who have intellectual differences. But yes beautiful varied video. Lol. I am getting fed up with the term Lol. Do you have an alternative shortened phrase that is used in the USA ? If not I will have to keep using it because it seems to be universal. I might start my own and use ALLOL = A little laugh out loud. Because Lol to me means a really loud raucous laugh and sometimes it doesn't seem appropriate ALLOL !! I cracked my tooth on an un pitted olive and the pain was immense. All the nerves in my gum are exposed and its agony. So glad I am having it taken out tomorrow. Just thought I would throw that one in there. Haha. Ha maybe start a campaign to change the term handicap lol.
I’m so happy for you two! Also, shout out to Cole’s parents for that balance of letting him be a man and being so supportive of him at the same time. That takes strength considering what they have been through with his health. I see this love only getting stronger.
The love you guys have for each other is beautiful. You can see how much you guys truly love each other. I hope to find a partner one day as loving and supportive as you guys are
Charisma, you got some moves girl! Werk it! I feel you about parking in the city. Full size trucks are a beast and impossible to parallel park in a downtown area. My husband drives a Tundra and we learned the hard way. We drive my car unless it’s necessary Looks like y’all enjoyed your DC trip.
🥂🎂Congratulations... I know this channel is really going to just keep growing. I'm glad I'm one of the early birds. Thank you for sharing your life journey with us. You two stole part of my heart. You make me smile and sometimes I want to shed a tear for some reason . 🌹😊Hugs to you both.💖
Charisma I don't know how many women will do what you do for Cole. God put you two together for a purpose. I hope you enjoyed your time together for the first time. I know Cole must appreciate you. Cole's mother always look good so don't worry how you look today. Looking forward to see how Charisma handles the next trip. Best wishes always.
This vlog was so sweet. I know Charisma has stated in past vlogs that she is shy with PDA. This vlog was quite different which was so nice to see. You both were so affectionate with each and the love you have for each other is palpable. I really enjoy watching you share your store.
Fellow quadriplegic here, love the channel you guys have created. I love the "safe" word idea. Cole, teaching Charisma your care needs is vital but don't become content with her as an ongoing caregiver. This comment may get buried, but the advice comes from experience. Lots of love to you guys!
Anyone who knows Cole, will tell you that he's not that kind of person. He's far too caring and considerate and definitely not the type to burden his Queen. She wants to help sometimes and it's ok ☺. Otherwise Cole has a caregiver and Charisma is not doing anything out of compulsion, she helps because she can and wants to. 💛
I wish it was that simple. I don't know Cole well, but I know his disability. Just a friendly reminder to stay vigilant; nobody is immune, regardless of character.
It was nice to see you guys really enjoy each other even in traveling how your genuine love shows that Charisma takes such good care of you and doesn't mind because that's what love does. So inspiring
I'm an L1 paraplegic from an auto accident in November of 2012. Really enjoy your videos. I have a great able bodied girlfriend that also does so much for me. U can really see the love that you have for each other. I also got some great ideas from your channel. I especially like the safe word. Because being overwhelmed can sometimes lead to taking things out on someone in the wrong way. So by using the safeword it's great for not giving it the chance to esculate to that point. Keep up the great videos. 👍👌
Thanks for sharing and your vulnerability, Cole & Charisma! I never understand when a handicapped spot is far from an entrance. Surprisingly, I've experienced this. I have ME/CFS & POTS and I try to only park in handicapped when I am running really low on stamina & energy or it's hot (makes me weak), but sometimes a regular spot is closer...which kinda defeats the purpose of a handicapped spot being most convenient/accessible.
When I see the too of you together it makes me so happy because there is so much love the too of you make one. My the good Lord keep blessing this family.
You two are a real gift from God. Charisma continue to be the strong and caring woman u are. I love your energy and the way u make cold feel. God bless you all.lots of love from me.
Oh my god... when charisma was helping you put your white shirt on in the morning, and she was trying to lift you up to pull your shirt down. She couldn’t stop laughing. That made me laugh along with her! And the funniest part is that Cole was just like..... no seriously why are you laughing LOL
Hi guys, 👋 In each video that you make, you show your great love. It is a lesson for many people who set limits to love and let life go by without ever feeling how beautiful it is to feel loved. Seeing you so happy fill us with smiles. Charisma I've been with my husband for 34 years and I do the same thing as you selected clothes by color until the clock has to combine 😍. You will come to do this with much love for many more years with Cole 😍❤. You are blessed to have the support of the two families 👐. Until the next video my dear friends. Blessings for all 👐👐
"Differently able" is a term that was used in Barbados. And yes, try hard to stay positive. Charisma, you are a gem. Keep doing this. It educates, encourages and entertains.
Happy Saturday to C&C and my 21,476 family members. 😊 I pray that your day will be filled with laughter and love. ❤💗💕 Some of these vlogs are close to hitting 100,000 views, but needs our help to get them there. 😊 Today will be a good day for us to turn on our devices and watch ! watch! watch! Be blessed! 💕
A safe word is an absolutely wonderful idea! My wife is my caregiver and has times when she gets a bit frustrated. We are about to think of a safe word for her. That is awesome! Thanks guys!
You guys are a charming pair. I do think until you have this level of love that you do not understand how overwhelming it can become. A safe word is a great idea. Congrats on 20K and counting!
WOW, Charisma you are such an amazing positive force. The strength and joy that you have in your relationship with Cole is beautiful. Cole you are an equally amazing young man who aceepts your life with grace and humility. I applaud both of you. Both sets of parents have raised two adorable and ready for the world young people. Great job to all of you. I love Cole and Charisma.❤❤❤❤❤❤
Great video and immensely enjoyable. Mama Kelly always looks good so please always show yourself. I thought it was so sweet Keenai? followed directions to go to bed and sleeps in Cole's room. Had an horrendous time in DC (a few years ago) when none of the ATMs would accept my UK debit card. Had to travel to the same out of town location that accepted it beforehand - it was a "disaster" but returned to DC and enjoyed the rest of the day and shopping.
Charisma, you must really love Cole! Taking care of a person who is handicapped is a lot of work. I know I was in the caregiving business for 20 years and just recently retired. It takes a special person to care for a person who needs a lot of help. You have a good heart and I hope Cole knows that?!
I don't watch this channel to see the challenges you two face because you're an interabled couple. I watch your channel because I enjoy seeing two people who clearly love each other.
That is really good.
Me too
Charisma I love u for real,you are so careing.GOD bless you and give you more strength to care for your hubby.
Hi ☺️ I’m a quadriplegic C4 C5 C6!
I recently started making videos to help motivate those like me! Please consider checking out my channel! Thank you 🙏 god bless!!!
Me too ✋
Charisma you have a beautiful heart.......thank you for showing the world how beautiful and genuine us black women are.
cristina g We ARE true servants.
@ Cee Gabe!! Meaning what??
Myrleen Murray Meaning what I said.
Or just people are.
Yes she does may god continue to bless her and cole
The explanation about the safe word “butterflies” by Cole is the most beautiful thing ever. Many of us have never been in relationships where the other person took that kind of consideration for us. You all are teaching me things. Keep up that type of communication.
Couple made in heaven .u guys are awesome couple.God bless you.
I nearly cried when Cole talked about Charisma's safe word, what a thoughtful man you are. How you care for each other 💕 it's beautiful to see. If you want to know what love is, you've just watched it 💕❤️💕️........seriously. Bless you both. Sending you love ❤️
Roll with Cole & Charisma Yes, he most definitely is 💕
Hi ☺️ I’m a quadriplegic C4 C5 C6!
I recently started making videos to help motivate those like me! Please consider checking out my channel! Thank you 🙏 god bless!!!
I tried to come up with something clever to say this time. But I can't. You two are too adorable for words..
I admire Cole"s Mom. She shows a great deal of courage and friendliness.
Thank you again for sharing and showing the pleasure and the joy of being positive. I love the confidance that Cole's mother and father demonstrated as it relates to Charisma. As soon as they pulled out the driveway, Cole's parents immediately turned their backs and went into the house. They knew that Cole was in loving, capable hands, in the form of Charisma. For that and many other reasons, I am a huge fan of Charisma. Because Cole graciously and respectfully accepts help and because he is so very encouraging and loving, I'm a big fan of Cole's, too.
MsChicoro agree 100%, nicely stated.😀
Well stated. I completely agree
😭😭 best comment
Love this comment!❤️
MsChicoro so true
You guys inspire me and my hubby (c5 incomplete quad) so much. We are young and all and still wanna live a fun filled life... But we've never ever done a holiday or an overnight trip by ourselves without a caregiver. This video has us planning our first overnight trip caregiver free... Nervous but excited.
Love from South Africa 💙💕
I hope ya'll have fun! Please tell us how it goes.
Definitely do it, it's always refreshing. I even drove with my husband who is a quad too, to Johannesburg.
Charisma is God sent, that is why Cole got injured to meet her. She's too positive wish them well.
Charisma with the braids and the pony tail is GORGEOUS
Cole fiance is a true treasure, what a woman , God bless you both
I am part of an interabled couple. I'm in a wheelchair. My fiance and I road trip all of the time. This was so much fun to watch. I love you guys.😊
I have just "found" you two a few weeks ago and have been going backwards in time watching your newer videos first and working my way back. The changes in what Cole does for himself in the two years since this video was recorded is amazing! When I need a smile, I watch your videos!
I love your interactions, it's true to know when you are overwhelmed and communicate it with your partner.
Who would have thought watching someone do mundane every day activities and find it enthralling Lol
Love seeing you enjoying each other having fun. Great sound effects Cole. You are so super cute and authentic.🌸
That’s cool that you recognize It can be can be overwhelming for one person. so always give charisma her space when you can tell that she’s feeling overwhelmed.By the same token you let charisma know when you’re feeling overwhelmed and that you need space. Overall you guys keep communicating and keep taking it one day at a time
The sound effects kill me everytime😭😭😭
Yall are my new favorite couple. I just love how positive you are.
Hi guys. My son lives in DC. He went to college there and never returned! If you see him tell him to CALL HIS MOTHER! 🤗
Mine too🙋
Evelyn Brown I can relate. I went there for college and then moved there. Only reason I left is because I met my now husband (online) and moved out west (Seattle) to be closer to him. I still love DC tho
You guys are the cutest!! Mama Kelly you look beautiful stop hiding from the camera. I just love you guys spirit and zest for life. It’s refreshing
That is the simplicity of love, trusting , respecting, and honoring each other’s love . They truly demonstrate what a shared partnership is about, acknowledging each other’s strengths andchallenges and strategically balancing it out. We love you for that💕💕
Well said, Yvonne.
Btw, does anyone else thinks Cole resembles Super Man after Charisma did his hair😊. He’s so handsome, blessings.
I noticed it a long time ago. I always thought Cole resembled Christopher Reeve...the original man that played Superman in the movies.
I see it.
Cole is obviously a very handsome young man, his looks favors a young Ricky schroder...
Omd he’s fine 🔥😍
I thought so as well. Superman.
Traveling together as a couple for the first time is always a learning experience about your partner, and can be overwhelming at times. Being an interabled couple vlogging the whole experience, y'all have more hurdles and planning than others, and thank you for so openly sharing your experience with us. Lots of memories made, I'm sure! Charisma, lots of love from a fellow OT in Indiana! 💕
Always pack extras of anything! ( in the cerebral palsy world) as well! Enjoy DC!
Traveling as an interabled couple was not as hard when it was just my husband and I. The moment we had the twins, things changed. I remember we travelled a lot to L.A. and we had to drive because I was nervous they would freak out if we flew. We are planning on going to Africa(Botswana) to show my family the kids, it is definitely going to be interesting. My twins have never flew before. Anyway, enough about me now. Let me finish the video. I love you Charisma for loving Cole. I can't wait for the wedding video already.😍😘
Wow! I am watching Cole and Charisma from Botswana
South Africa is my home
❤❤❤
Honestly, care givers need awards or something.My mom was a nurse and has worked as a care giver to all types of people from older ones with dementia to paralyzed ones. It takes a special type of person to become a caregiver and I know that's not me. However, I respect the ones who dedicate their lives to doing this. Charisma I have so much respect for you and I just want to give you a hug. Hopefully you didnt have to use the safe word. Cole is always so happy and positive. Love you guys.
P.s don't worry mama Kelly you are beautiful no matter what
Cole's reaction to "jumping" into the shower WITH Charisma.....LOLOLOL....sooo priceless😂
Yep I noticed that too, lol he was thinking lol
I know.... he is the cheekiest and most mischievous ever. Gotta love them!
Cole is a character 😃, I can see him doing some acting. Wish them all the best.
🤣 I replayed that part a few times.
@@goofeybutreal4398 😂
I think this is just amazing because it really shows society that even if your ♿ or have disabilities that you can still find love no matter what you look like or no matter what's wrong with you. This is truely amazing and I'm really in love with this bond and relationship and I think it's amazing to watch these two amazing people come together!!
I don't comment all the time but I really enjoy yall's channel
Lol. I love how Cole was quick to include Charisma when she said: "Welcome to the Cole show. " So sweet.
Our safe word='s WE ❤ YOU GUYS!!!
I love Charisma ❤ she's a bundle of energy☺Playing with Cole and swinging her hair 😁😁
Hello beautiful couple Cole and Charisma♥️. Cole is adorable and Charisma as well. Cole’s mom is awesome. It was nice taking us to your trip and your wonderful journey.
Stay blessed. I love you so much.🌈🙏🏽🎶♥️
Guys I'm so obsessed with you guys,woke anticipating your video,Charisma you've got things covered,all the best from Jamaica
Charisma is one of a kind, kind of the one for Cole.💕
I loved that you guys showed every thing you packed. It really teaches us about your life Cole. Thanks for teaching us
Charisma keep dancing like that 😃, Cole is gonna get up and chase her around the room. You guys are too funny.
Cole & Charisma update = happy me 💖💖💖
His mother has to have a lot of love for charisma!!! To have someone love what you love and show respect towards your young one!! My heart will melt. 💜.
I do not comment often online videos. But i am just so fan of your couple. First video i saw it was Cole's mum and i was just amazed what positive energy he can spread around him. I just cant believe he found his perfect match. You both are fun sexy and sooooo cute together. You are lucky to have found each other. Life wont be easy everyday but we all have our struggle. Your smiles and life vision have a purpose ! Thank you for sharing them with us! Ida from France ( my mum is from Madagascar. Dad from Congo) . Keep rolling !!! (Hope that proper english lol)
Love from Zimbabwe. May God bless you two.
Just been watching someone who had a spinal code injury getting healed through prayer. Praying the Lord will also meet Cole at his point of need. Our God is able.
OMGosh!!! That's it! I'm suing you two, for breaking my freaking jaws!!! I have never smiled and laughed so much at folks I've never met.😁😂😊 Your love for each other is so authentic and pure. It really showed on this trip; where you were away from everyone else and could be free and uninhibited! You guys are AWESOME together! I wish you both continued happiness! 🙂😍❤🙏🏽👍🏾
Every time I'm upset, or depressed I watch your channel I love you guys! You guys teach me things, and make my day!
Thank you for the video I'm so glad that you are putting out for all to see the life of a disabled couple my disability isn't as bad but the struggle is real. I called you a disabled couple because my wife has to deal with my struggles also I know that I couldn't make it threw without her and I appreciate her so much. Lots of love to you and I hope that you enjoy the rest your trip
Oh I forget Charisma, you were "GREAT" I see that you really don't mind doing what it takes to help with Cole. That's what I'm doing with my Husband. Some people say that I am good for him. I see it as if you LOVE that person you stand by them not run away..... love u guys 💞
Charisma is one of a kind👌,I love how u help Cole dress up,u do it whole heartily. Bless u both👌😘☺
OMG!!! A 20-minute vlog you are really serious about being a full-time vlogger!!! Love it...Keep smiling 😁😁😁😁
I can't imagine being in a sitting position for many hours...Cole has an upbeat attitude and keeps the complaining baffled at or of his tenacity...surely the d c trip allowed Kelly Mama and Clem daddy a much needed break.
Y'all are adorable! Love the positivity and how you show that your relationship is just like every other young couple!💜
Wow! First, I have to say I can't believe how much I missed watching you two last week! So glad to see you two! Lol Charisma, can I share just how much respect and admiration I have for you!! Girl, you are holding it down for your man and I can't hate on that at all! I am really in awe at your level of care you have for Cole. Girl, you are a rare fine in this generation especially! Your selflessness is something we should all be aspiring to! Cole, your love for your lady is always in your eyes... it truely is a beautiful thing to behold! And your thoughtsfulness for your Charisma is so sweet. Awww:) Finally, i just have two questions, when is the wedding and can I come?! Lol
Lola, well said!! These two are destined for bigger things..I truly admire their unconditional love for each other, and their respective families unconditional love and support for them, it's truly a blessing worth admiring.. can't forget Kelly, ugh!! I just love that lady..she's def one of my faves...
Roll with Cole & Charisma can you guys do a live stream of the wedding when you guys are ready please. 😍
Proud Haitian watching from China.... when love is real, it’s beautiful ! Stay Bless 💕🇨🇳🇭🇹
Hi guys. Now that's the way to pack.Thnx for showing us. My daughter needs to see this video.lol. Hope you enjoyed your trip. Love you always. From West Palm Beach, Florida.
You guys are my favorite couple. It takes a lot of love on both parts and you guys are supreme. Thanks for teaching the rest of us how to love and be each others friend (agape love). This is my favorite youtube channel.
Omg! New love is the best..you two make my face hurt and I cry a little every video. Thank you..every video teach me and give me so much joy..it makes me remember what happiness looks like.
You two need your own cable television show!!! I love watching you guys!
Wow! What a beautiful video. Laughing, joking being affectionate towards each other and showing us what is involved in Cole's care e.g. what he needs for his daily/ nightly care and his morning routine. And the work that you Charisma put in. You are so loving , giving and kind Charisma. Even choosing the clothes together and what medical supplies are needed. In the U.K. we have done away with using the word handicapped. We have not used it for decades. So it's so strange to hear that word. Over here we found the term to be insulting and out of date. Because it was used at the turn of the century. It was meant to describe someone who was homeless, had a disability and went begging with a cap/hat hence the term hand in cap or cap in hand = handicap. We use the term Disabled instead. Or alternative living needs. But generally it is Disabled. A long , long time ago we used to use that word ( handicapped ) but the thinking / language was changed because Disabled people did not like it and health professionals and educators agreed it was derogatory. Little U.K. bit of knowledge Also we use the phrase ALTERNATIVE LEARNING for children / adults who have intellectual differences. But yes beautiful varied video. Lol. I am getting fed up with the term Lol. Do you have an alternative shortened phrase that is used in the USA ? If not I will have to keep using it because it seems to be universal. I might start my own and use ALLOL = A little laugh out loud. Because Lol to me means a really loud raucous laugh and sometimes it doesn't seem appropriate ALLOL !! I cracked my tooth on an un pitted olive and the pain was immense. All the nerves in my gum are exposed and its agony. So glad I am having it taken out tomorrow. Just thought I would throw that one in there. Haha. Ha maybe start a campaign to change the term handicap lol.
I’m so happy for you two!
Also, shout out to Cole’s parents for that balance of letting him be a man and being so supportive of him at the same time. That takes strength considering what they have been through with his health. I see this love only getting stronger.
The love you guys have for each other is beautiful. You can see how much you guys truly love each other. I hope to find a partner one day as loving and supportive as you guys are
Charisma is a wonderful caregiver and so strong!
Stop at 5:36 and just take it in! lol That face was priceless! Charisma ain't having any of that talk.
Too cute! Yes.....God is so amazing to have you two find each other....for such a time as this.....beautiful. Peace and I am getting me a sweat shirt!
Charisma, you got some moves girl! Werk it!
I feel you about parking in the city. Full size trucks are a beast and impossible to parallel park in a downtown area. My husband drives a Tundra and we learned the hard way. We drive my car unless it’s necessary
Looks like y’all enjoyed your DC trip.
🥂🎂Congratulations... I know this channel is really going to just keep growing. I'm glad I'm one of the early birds. Thank you for sharing your life journey with us. You two stole part of my heart. You make me smile and sometimes I want to shed a tear for some reason . 🌹😊Hugs to you both.💖
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Charisma I don't know how many women will do what you do for Cole. God put you two together for a purpose. I hope you enjoyed your time together for the first time. I know Cole must appreciate you. Cole's mother always look good so don't worry how you look today. Looking forward to see how Charisma handles the next trip. Best wishes always.
Cole were you always this funny even before your injury? You say the funniest things 😆.
This vlog was so sweet. I know Charisma has stated in past vlogs that she is shy with PDA. This vlog was quite different which was so nice to see. You both were so affectionate with each and the love you have for each other is palpable. I really enjoy watching you share your store.
Fellow quadriplegic here, love the channel you guys have created. I love the "safe" word idea. Cole, teaching Charisma your care needs is vital but don't become content with her as an ongoing caregiver. This comment may get buried, but the advice comes from experience. Lots of love to you guys!
Anyone who knows Cole, will tell you that he's not that kind of person. He's far too caring and considerate and definitely not the type to burden his Queen. She wants to help sometimes and it's ok ☺. Otherwise Cole has a caregiver and Charisma is not doing anything out of compulsion, she helps because she can and wants to. 💛
I wish it was that simple. I don't know Cole well, but I know his disability. Just a friendly reminder to stay vigilant; nobody is immune, regardless of character.
@@lewiswharf Totally agree!
Charisma you are too silly! You be having me cracking up! Dance for your man girl! You guys are the cutest!!! 😍
It was nice to see you guys really enjoy each other even in traveling how your genuine love shows that Charisma takes such good care of you and doesn't mind because that's what love does. So inspiring
I'm an L1 paraplegic from an auto accident in November of 2012. Really enjoy your videos. I have a great able bodied girlfriend that also does so much for me. U can really see the love that you have for each other. I also got some great ideas from your channel. I especially like the safe word. Because being overwhelmed can sometimes lead to taking things out on someone in the wrong way. So by using the safeword it's great for not giving it the chance to esculate to that point. Keep up the great videos. 👍👌
Thanks for sharing and your vulnerability, Cole & Charisma! I never understand when a handicapped spot is far from an entrance. Surprisingly, I've experienced this. I have ME/CFS & POTS and I try to only park in handicapped when I am running really low on stamina & energy or it's hot (makes me weak), but sometimes a regular spot is closer...which kinda defeats the purpose of a handicapped spot being most convenient/accessible.
I could not wait for Thursday sooo damm cute, happy, funny and positive ❤️
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It’s a hard quad life 🤟🏾💪🏾🏋🏾♀️ keep flexing
When I see the too of you together it makes me so happy because there is so much love the too of you make one. My the good Lord keep blessing this family.
Charisma is so sweet and beautiful intelligent woman . Cole is handsome nice guy. May God continue blessing you both....😇
I really love to watch you both, you're so funny, love you both,you were made for each other
God bless your wife
You two are a real gift from God. Charisma continue to be the strong and caring woman u are. I love your energy and the way u make cold feel. God bless you all.lots of love from me.
Oh my god... when charisma was helping you put your white shirt on in the morning, and she was trying to lift you up to pull your shirt down. She couldn’t stop laughing. That made me laugh along with her! And the funniest part is that Cole was just like..... no seriously why are you laughing LOL
you two where meant to be :) have a great day
You both were meant for each other. I see the love you have for each other it's just so real. God Bless you both.
I'm loving the Roy Williams picture behind his watches!!!
Every time I watch this video I’m 😆 and talking to the screen, like Charisma can hear me. Saying, “butterflies Charisma! Butterflies!😆
0:07 Cole sure loves Charisma's butt a lot 😂😂
I miss you guys!!
You guys are a strong couple 👫. The love for each other is amazing
Hi guys, 👋 In each video that you make, you show your great love. It is a lesson for many people who set limits to love and let life go by without ever feeling how beautiful it is to feel loved. Seeing you so happy fill us with smiles. Charisma I've been with my husband for 34 years and I do the same thing as you selected clothes by color until the clock has to combine 😍. You will come to do this with much love for many more years with Cole 😍❤. You are blessed to have the support of the two families 👐. Until the next video my dear friends. Blessings for all 👐👐
Cole your so crazy...love your laid back attitude. Charisma you make us sistas proud.
0:06/08 LAWD!! 🤦♀️🤣😂 I LOVE how you guys can make light of yourselves.
It's always nice seeing you two😊 love from Namibia Africa ❤😗
Joyce watching from Namibia too😊
@@patriciajamela846 how awesome 👏😊
"Differently able" is a term that was used in Barbados. And yes, try hard to stay positive. Charisma, you are a gem.
Keep doing this. It educates, encourages and entertains.
Happy Saturday to C&C and my 21,476 family members. 😊
I pray that your day will be filled with laughter and love. ❤💗💕
Some of these vlogs are close to hitting 100,000 views, but needs our help to get them there. 😊 Today will be a good day for us to turn on our devices and watch ! watch! watch! Be blessed! 💕
This is a good idea Mardy. I went to bed 12 midnight trying to get caught up.
A safe word is an absolutely wonderful idea! My wife is my caregiver and has times when she gets a bit frustrated. We are about to think of a safe word for her. That is awesome! Thanks guys!
Love you guys so much and your mum is freaking awesome!
You guys are a charming pair. I do think until you have this level of love that you do not understand how overwhelming it can become. A safe word is a great idea. Congrats on 20K and counting!
Great video. Thank you both for sharing...Charisma’s dance moves are epic😁
WOW, Charisma you are such an amazing positive force. The strength and joy that you have in your relationship with Cole is beautiful. Cole you are an equally amazing young man who aceepts your life with grace and humility. I applaud both of you. Both sets of parents have raised two adorable and ready for the world young people. Great job to all of you. I love Cole and Charisma.❤❤❤❤❤❤
Great video! It was like watching my favorite movie in high definition. 👏👏👏👏
Great video and immensely enjoyable. Mama Kelly always looks good so please always show yourself.
I thought it was so sweet Keenai? followed directions to go to bed and sleeps in Cole's room.
Had an horrendous time in DC (a few years ago) when none of the ATMs would accept my UK debit card. Had to travel to the same out of town location that accepted it beforehand - it was a "disaster" but returned to DC and enjoyed the rest of the day and shopping.
OMG...I just genuinely love you two - individually, and what you bring to your relationship!! Thank you for this informative travel vlog!!
These beautiful smiles you both have keep me coming back for more Team C C ❤️
Charisma, you must really love Cole! Taking care of a person who is handicapped is a lot of work. I know I was in the caregiving business for 20 years and just recently retired. It takes a special person to care for a person who needs a lot of help. You have a good heart and I hope Cole knows that?!
Third shift done, warming my car to go home. Watched every bit of this 20:47 video. Now my cheeks hurt😁.
Kathleen Evers you made me 😆