You guys pushed her away from Islam…
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- You guys pushed her away from Islam…
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Please reach out to her. You are more knowledgeable than me. Let one of the sisters try to help her. And am ready to help and provide if possible.
Jazakumu Allah khayra.
@rhyadmuslim answer me. Are you following a sect in islam? Which islamic school of law are you following? Are you a sufi? Because u talked about maqam in one of your videos and there is literally no evidence of something like that from our Prophet pbuh. And I dont wanna gain knowledge from someone who is following a sect and not just quran and sunnah. Who are you and who is your teacher and why do you not give evidence in a lot of videos?
What does the title have to do with her? She hasn't left Islam, so why is that title?
I wouldn't recommend anyone to post their Islamic journey on the internet ever, at least when expecting serious responses/criticism.
@slothlord1675 who showcases his islam journey as if its a Netflix show ?? they brought it to themselves they dont do it for themselves sincerely, they want clout, and then invite imbecils who are attacking new muslims fake and make the excuse that muslims are bad and evil and push away new muslims.
@slothlord1675 what the fuck is that profile pic?
@@dominickcolon4755 unfortunately, many people have been using such profile pictures to show solidarity with the palestinian people. i suppose they mean some good by doing it, they just show their support in a harmful way
@slothlord1675 yo is that a gay flag?
@@shaquilleoatmeal7389 looks like you have sympathy for the people who are genoc1d1ng Palestinians for over 70 years
may Allah guide her back ameen
She didnt left
@@IBN_IDREES proof?
Who is she?
Ameen
May Allah guide those who tried to guide her too hard
Before I was Muslim I was surrounded by many unknowledgable Muslims and those who were Muslim by name only. They told me that everyone will go to hell and a lot of other rubbish. I didn't believe them and it was decreed that I learnt Islaam and became Muslim some years later.
“That is the guidance of Allah by which He guides whom He wills. And one whom Allah leaves astray - for him there is no guide”
[az-Zumar 39:23]
Many also stopped speaking to me after I became Muslim...and Allah replaced with new friends ❤.
Allahumma barik ❤️ Allah chose you to be guided, of all of those people.
May Allah bless you and your family seeker of truth never lost. May Allah guide us all.
You're an inspiration to many people, may Allah give you everything you wnt
Thank you all for the kind words!
Masha Allah brother/sister
The thing is, she does stuff like praying in English, and she's a hadith rejector. So when people try telling her it's wrong, she instead gets upset instead of researching why it's wrong.
What's wrong with praying in English? Unless you mean Salah
yes, it is wrong. But every person has their own journey with religion. If Allah is willing, He would have helped her to learn how to pray the Salah in Arabic. It just takes time.
Plus, it's better to be a muslim and make mistakes than to not be a muslim at all.
Why is praying salah in English wrong? there are some parts that are too difficult too memorize in Arabic, so instead I do one part in English right after the opening. This is suppose to be a personal choice which dua you want to make. I believe Allah s.w.t. ❤ won’t reject salah based on effort. Jazak Allah khair.
@@DinsFlame-br4pr nope. you get personal choices of which dua you can make when the dua youre making is added from you, and youre not changing a central part of salah. its true that you arent meant to be stiff during salah, but you arent meant to be wrong either. especially when youre just denying education.
if it is too hard for you though, its not allowed, so please memorize it as soon as possible.
you can also read off a book you wrote. get a bookstand.
so the lesson here, is instead of denying something just because you dont want to, seek alternate correct ways to make the thing easier instead of being wrong by your own making
@@DinsFlame-br4pr Because it changes the Salat. Pray the Salat in Arabic and for the parts you have not yet memorised, put down a text with transliteration to read off of when praying. JazakAllahu khairan! ❤
She should keep her faith journey more private and not expose herself to the world, Good brothers and sisters will offer correction and guidance. TikTok and other social media platforms aren't there for you to share your intimate relationship with Allah anyways. If the sister is genuine she will find her way regardless of what anyone says, it's not easy for any Muslim in this day. My own family but heads with me, still dint take my hijab off.
Masha Allah sister. Allah be with you
Still we're doing a terrible job at promoting our faith if we keep acting this way.
If people want to guide her then they should act the way a true teacher will not a tyrant. We had our whole to learn what they have been learning for only a few months.
Reverts are doing an important job helping spreading our faith and help change people 's minds. It would be both unfair to them and non beneficial to us if they just stayed hidden
@@Megaspinosaurusrex those are not teaches, you guys bring up muslims on social media, they are trolls, dont trust any faceless nameless account giving you comments on tiktak, its his own doing, people un alive themselves from comments made by trolls, how can you take them seriously ? so no, they aren't teachers, if someone not talking to you face to face, leave.
Enjoining (what is) right and forbidding (what is) evil (Arabic: ٱلْأَمْرْ بِٱلْمَعْرُوفْ وَٱلنَّهْيْ عَنِ ٱلْمُنْكَرْ, romanized: al-amr bi-l-maʿrūf wa-n-nahy ʿani-l-munkar) are two important duties imposed by God in Islam, as revealed in the Quran and hadith.
This “only allah can judge” is a modernised cop out for people to do what ever sin they want and never be called out on it. But as Muslims it is our duty to call out and forbid evil acts, so that people have “SHAME” once again, which is completely lacking in modern society.
@@FlareVolt0 this is so true
Salam Alaikum brother, I like your content a lot, but the story you told in this video is incomplete/incorrect. The guy died before he was able to repent. He was on his way to repent when death overtook him. Even tho he had not repented yet, Allah showed him his mercy, and entered him into paradise because Allah judges based on intentions.
Did he take his shahada
@@randomvidz8742 I also remember it like this.
I wouldn't say incorrect tho. He just summarized it without going into the details of what happened next. This is fine too cz we all know that that man was forgiven by Allah. It was intention and desire to get closer to Allah in his final moments that resulted in his forgiveness.
It is better for her to stop engaging witg people in the instagram.
Keep your faith with yourself. And if you have question for something then you must research it yourself.
Thats the issue here
No it’s not the full issue. While I agree, the bigger picture is that we as Muslims shouldn’t push people away from the true religion. It’s a reminder that you guys represent Islam. (speaking as a convert)
@@chelsea_ap i understand but if somehow it affects your faith its better to touch some grass.
Instead of arguing and replying back to those commrnt which we all know wont be much of good.
Sadly there are two types of comments one from actual muslims and another from non muslims which tries to make thr new revert uncomfortable.
So if you or anyonr leave islam just because of some stupid comment in social media then most of it is your fault.
May Allah guide us all.
@@yasifaizi4316Don't be like that. They're literally discovering a new world. If you tried to learn about another faith, but everyone acts like a jerk towards you just for not doing everything perfectly, if course you will start doubting. They're barely discovering islam. The least we can do is be welcoming first and foremost
@@Megaspinosaurusrex everyonr is not acting like a jerk theze are usually non muslims and uneducated muslims that causes this.
What i think is that if it shakes your faith its better to stop engaging in such thing and actually meet real muslim outside instead of social media.
There’s actually more to that story brother…… the man who helped that murderer turn to Islam told him to go seek knowledge from somebody who is a greater worshiper than him, and on his way to seek knowledge that murderer died, so then the angels of Mercy and the Angels of punishment came down and they were fighting over whether to take his soul to heaven or hell, Allah (swt) ordered the angels that if this man was closer to his destination to seek out knowledge about God he would go to heaven, and if not, he would go to hell, and he was actually closer to his starting point, so Allah (swt) being the most merciful and in control of all things order the dimensions of the earth to literally change so the man would be closer to his destination and go to heaven. WHO IS MORE MERCIFUL THAN ALLAH (swt) 😢
How is the man more merciful than the Allah (swt)
Yup, that's the version I heard as well. Alhamdulillah.
@@cat-vx3we"who is more merciful than Allah" is a rhetorical question
@@Froge4291 Allah is the most merciful there is neither one who is equal nor powerful than Allah
@@cat-vx3we of course, but again that was a rhetorical question
When announce to world u reverted over social media it will become a challenge for the person as everyone wants help but they end up condeming. Your advise is correct having a teacher will guide them and also keep it private so u can gain knowledge.
And Alhumdulilah- My papa is my BEST teacher, WALAHI 🥰🤗🫶 Alhumdulilah... 🤲
alhamdulillahi rabbil alamin ar-rahma nir rahim maliki yau midd-in iyyakana* budu wa ii yakanastain ihdinasiratal mustakim siratal lazina an amta alaihim gairil magdubi alaihim waladwalllin aameen
the things is i've met tons of judgy muslims or rude muslims but when i go home and its time to pray am i like i dont want to believe in Allah bc some people are rude? we are jot muslims for the sake of other muslims we are muslims bc of Allah. u see what i'm getting at? when people say n they love saying this that ur rudeness is going to turn me away from islam then the problem is within those people that a few rude words will turn them away from Allah or jannah. they havent grasped the concepts properly. may Allah guide us all and may we never stop giving each other sincere naseeha and let fitna and ignorance spread for the sake of preserving fickle hearts.
Don't be like that. They're literally discovering a new world. If you tried to learn about another faith, but everyone acts like a jerk towards you just for not doing everything perfectly, if course you will start doubting. They're barely discovering islam. The least we can do is be welcoming first and foremost
The beginning is tender and new and fragile. The people who talk to them are showing them what muslims are like. The person can get the wrong lesson by someone who hasn't taken time to connect with them first and show kindness. They can learn that muslims are all talk, or they are rude or scary, or not friendly, welcoming, or kind. Get to know the person so you know what approach hits best.
Or make a sandwich - the bread is positive words about them and what they are doing right, the filling is the correction or hard message.
I see where you're coming from, but it isn't just that. It's something that happened over a period of time because of negative comments made towards her. If the only muslims she knows are online, and majority of them are being mean to her she will obviously get the thoughts "im such a bad muslim, Allah wont accept me" and slowly and slowly drive away
Yeah I agree the dawah needs to still be given. What would be best though is someone like the Muslim Lantern or experienced helps explain things rather than a comment section. I read in a comment that she rejects the hadith and is praying salah in English. Salah needs to be prayed in Arabic but she can say dua in sujood in a way she understands the words. The problem is, when things are public, they also have to be dealt with publicly. For example, we shouldn't encourage her to pray her salah in English because salah is prayed in Arabic, so people have to warn her. If she is coming from a distrusting Christian background of priests/scholars, it would make sense why restricting her to recite the surah Fatiha (a personal dua with Allah) and stuff can be an emotional challenge for her (the rabbis used to keep scripture to themselves and the Church historically held control of an illiterate society in the middle ages). If anyone has a way to reach her, we should recommend The Muslim Lantern.
that is true but you have to understand that us Muslims represent Islam in a way. when someone new only sees bad attitudes and forceful people, don't you think that'll affect the way they think of Islam? we learn from the people around us. people shape the way we think about things. it can be very discouraging to only see negativity in the muslim community, it makes you start seeing everything related to Islam in a bad light. which is why it's our duty to be kind and represent Islam peacefully
So true, my dad became such an extremist to the point my brother pushed away and became an athiest and now my heart cries for him…it is overwhelming pls be kind, Allah is the kindest of all
My dad is such an extremist too, didn't even sent us to school because we'll get corrupted, made me wear niqab at 10, kept us locked up... I lost my faith, became atheist for around 2 years... I found my way back to Islam now alhamdulillah, learning philosophy, the academic kind really helped me, also reconciling evolution with Islam like Adamaic Exceptionalism model and also realising exmuslims are just like salafis, they both have this extreme version of Islam when in reality it's not like that, also delving into secular scholarship on Islam and Quran studies also helped me, as in looking at things from a critical perspective rather than accepting everything at face value, early scholars didn't do that, people like imam Abu haneefa for example... Salafis/extremists make religion way too hard for people that it ends up being nonsensical, for example calling everything shirk when even Allah didn't do that in the Quran, they say they're following the ways of salafs but they're just Saudi puppets lol, Islamophobs latch onto that and think that's Islam.. In reality, Islam isn't like that, religion is not supposed to be so difficult, Allah is forgiving too and Islam allows for critical thinking unlike what these people claim, philosophy is okay, it can help you see the rationale and logic behind religion too... I'm sorry your dad's like that, hope your brother finds his way back just like I did
@@kenzahcarstairs5417homeschooling is much better now, public schools are absolutely corrupted to the max with you know what. And islam doesn't go hand in hand with darwinian evolution, we didn't come from apes, the first 'human skeleton' is incomplete and called Lucy....Lucifer.
@@kenzahcarstairs5417 you went from kufr to kufr? secularism is kufr, philosophy that goes against quran and hadith and tafseer leads to kufr, your father have rights to cover you as you r his daughter and wants to protect you from the gazes of wolves and him to not be a dayouth, you accuse him of being extreme and mention him badly while he wanted only good for u in dunya and akhera, what a loss
@@чернить-б5п 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@чернить-б5п so you want me to stay in the kufr that is atheism? Lol. I never said anything about philosophy that goes against Quran lol, philosophy doesn't always have to do that. I never said anything about secularism either. Making your 10 year old daughter wear niqab is not protecting from wolves, it's a messed up thing to do lol, I didn't say we should throw away hijab. Extremism is subjective anyway, what's extreme to me, might not be extreme to you but most people agree with me that my dad is very extreme
The thing is….
Unimaginable happiness in paradise for eternity is for people who are willing to submit to allah regardless of the circumstances
Yes but you as a Muslim you have to be kind and patient towards especially new reverts instead of telling them everything they are doing is haram, let them learn steadily and increasingly, no one can be perfect from day one. This is one of the problems. I remember some hadith about the prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was more patient with new reverts and he said that the faith hasn't fully settled in their hearts, so he was patient with them etc.... I don't remember the exact hadith number but if you ask i will look it up and confirm it.
Yes it OK to advise new Muslims to stop all shirks major sins at the start but to quit all minor sins too is literally impossible, secondly when giving advice to new Muslims be known kind about it instead of being judgemental and harsh, this will just push them away as the faith isn't strong in their hearts yet.
Yes it is bad that some left Islam but it is also bad if you are the reason they left, basically the devil's job is to lead people of the truth no matter which way let's make our selves better by helping our brothers and sisters and making things easy for them to stay.
@@Fx_Explainsyes it’s good to be kind and patient with new muslims. but allah won’t ask “did this man hurt your feelings when conveying islam?”
he’ll ask, “we gave you the message from one of our believers and yet you still refused to believe, why?”
understand that feelings are not important when you are involved with the truth
May Allah make us and our families among those people, Ameen.
@@ibrahim_-_-_ I don't know exactly what/how Allah is going to ask his questions. Indeed Allah knows the intention of All.
So by mercy from Allāh, [O Muḥammad], you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude [in speech] and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you. So pardon them and ask forgiveness for them and consult them in the matter. And when you have decided, then rely upon Allāh. Indeed, Allāh loves those who rely [upon Him].
- Saheeh International
The most important thing is to make non-believers to accept that Allah is the only God and Muhammad pbuh is His messenger.
It's still better being a bad muslim than being a kafir. Bad muslims will go to hell indeed, but at least they wont be there forever.
Be a muslim for God not for the people. Who cares if people leaves you or belittle you or abandoned you or tell you you dont deserve to be a muslim? In the end, it's between you and God only. Seek advice and self-study, but if you feel you are being treated unfairly, pray. Allah is the best teacher.
As a revert Allah is also testing you.
I speak from experience
I had a very good Mualimah when Allah granted me Islam Alhamdullillah
You going to come across very kind & not so kind muslims. Everything is a test. from Allah. Islam is a very expensive gift Alhamdullillah
Always pray for guidance even when you are granted islam because you going to come across a lot of muslims that make too much noise & it becomes unbearable.
Always do things for Allah & only Allah & may Allah become your companion Ameen
Allah doesn't give up on us we give up on Him.
So please persevere don't let shaytan win.
And whatever we do we do it to the benefit of our own souls.
Please reverts baby steps & please born muslims patience & kindness goes a long way.
Remember Allah is Miost Gracious Most Merciful.
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Masha Allah sister, you're Muslim
Enjoining (what is) right and forbidding (what is) evil (Arabic: ٱلْأَمْرْ بِٱلْمَعْرُوفْ وَٱلنَّهْيْ عَنِ ٱلْمُنْكَرْ, romanized: al-amr bi-l-maʿrūf wa-n-nahy ʿani-l-munkar) are two important duties imposed by God in Islam, as revealed in the Quran and hadith.
This “only allah can judge” is a modernised cop out for people to do what ever sin they want and never be called out on it. But as Muslims it is our duty to call out and forbid evil acts, so that people have “SHAME” once again, which is completely lacking in modern society.
I get that. All I'm saying. Yes wrong is wrong. And we shouldn't make excuses when it comes to what Allah wants however only speaking from my experience as a revert. Just have patience & don't judge harshly. The Prophet peace & blessings came as a mercy to mankind. The Prophet Peace & blessings upon him was not harsh. May Allah grant us soft hearts & may Allah guide us & grant us Steadfastness & may we never give up. This journey is not easy. This life is a test. May Allah grant us wisdom & compassion Ameen Ameen Ameen
Free Free Palestine 🇵🇸 🇵🇸🎁🌍🍉🇿🇦
@@maryamsebastian7295 امين
Those who're interested in Islam keep on asking Allah for guidance and don't ask online people for advice, they're not scholars! So perhaps they will give good advice but for a beginner to Islam it may be too overwhelming. Please keep in mind that the Holy Quran was revealed for 23 years and that the people also learnt it gradually. So if you want to turn to Allah read the Quran in Your language, find out if there's a mosque, otherwise learn how to pray with interactive prayer mats & online videos. Start with the intention of wanting to get close to Allah and He will help you with the rest inshAllah. Don't forget 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸
I feel so bad for her. Watching her first videos gave me hope for Palestine. People bullying reverts are not only scaring them away from islam, but are also risking deleting the sacrifice of the people of Palestine and their impact on the world
Why did she give you hope for Palestine?
@@sparklemotion8377 Sometimes its like the whole world is against muslims but when we see a non muslim defending us and our religion it makes us not make dua against them
@@IBN_IDREES Quran 04:97
I am not impressed by lions at home and kittens outside begging for crumbs and think abuse will get them sympathy.
I'm beyond heartbroken and i feel sad, all the comment section sheikhs don't even have islam going for themselves but they're soo good at commenting and they say they're just advising, the toxic and harsh and vulgar language they use wallahi it's heartbreaking, go seek knowledge on how to advise reverts then share your knowledge, i saw a guy doing dawah in the comments and his own profile was filled with filthy language rap music voiceovers and there are many more like these people
It is allah who guides
If islam is taken away from her , she deserves it
The grave will reject her
The shiekh online who commits sin is still muslim
Regardless of sins
She is a Hadith rejector
@@xinobieewho is she?
I have seen her talk about islam like it's some DIY craft. I'm sorry why would you as a revert go out of your way telling people about Islam when you know nothing about the religion. Let's be honest, just study the religion, focus on your relationship with Allah and then you can talk. You are a newbie don't give fatwas.
That's the whole point! She's a newbie, she's not trying to teach anyone, she's showing her learning process. The fact that it's so hard for you people to get that just makes me sad . How on earth did you learn about Islam when you were a kid. Did your parents lock you in a room with the Quran and just told you that it's between you and Allah and not to come out until you become a scholar?
Some muslims are more strict than Allah himself.
He past away between two cities and the angels we’re confused on where to take him I learned as a revert Allah knows best
yes that's correct and ((correct me if i am wrong)) i believe he was said by some people to go to makkah or madina (i am not sure), so what happeened is that he passed away in beteween of the two cities there was a small argument between the the angels of hell and paradise as they were deciding where to take the person so Allah odered the land to shift to the good city (makkah or madina) so because of that he went to paradise....
⚠ I don't fully remember the story so i might have made some mistakes please do correct me if i am wrong i will happily edit the comment :) ⚠
@@Pakistani890 your correct but your summarizing it.
Here's the detailed version:
The story of 'The man who committed 99 murderers '
There was a man who had committed numerous sins, including murder. He felt remorse for his actions and desired to repent and seek forgiveness from Allah. Seeking guidance, he approached a worshipper and asked if there was any chance for his repentance to be accepted. The worshipper, shocked by the man's sins, replied negatively, saying that there was no way he could be forgiven.
Feeling hopeless, the man became enraged and killed the worshipper as well. Despite this grave sin, his heart still yearned for repentance. He then sought out a scholar and asked the same question about repentance. The scholar, being more knowledgeable, told him that there was always a chance for repentance and forgiveness from Allah.
The scholar advised him to leave his sinful environment and migrate to a distant land where righteous people lived. The man heeded the advice and began his journey. However, before he could reach his destination, death overtook him. The angels of mercy and punishment descended to take his soul, and they disputed over his fate.
Allah, in His infinite wisdom, intervened to resolve the dispute. It was decreed that the man's fate would be determined by his proximity to his intended destination. If he was closer to the city of sin, he would be doomed, but if he was closer to the city of righteousness, he would be forgiven.
Allah caused the earth to shrink, bringing him closer to the city of righteousness, and his soul was taken by the angels of mercy, signifying his forgiveness and acceptance of repentance.
Sadly, another attention seeker. Why would people be on social media? Allah SWT guides whom he wills.
Ok why are you on social media then?
Why not cover women if you are usin them in your videos? Could be done in editing too
Stop simping
Nobody pushes anyone away GOD gave everyone a free will to decide for themselves it will be up Allah to decide who enters heaven the Muslims are more Christian then the Christians themselves
how can u be more christian when u dont even believe that Jesus died for our sins ? satan did a good job at degrading the highness of the Christ in your book
Sorry but you're wrong. People can do things which push people away from Islam.
@@twitteringothers5059sorry but your wrong kiddo
Jesus, peace be upon him, does not deserve to be worshiped, even according to the understanding of the Gospel itself. he did not say, “Worship me,” nor did he say, “I am a god.”
@@david_ace Christian = follower of Christ, not pagan Paul. Why are you talking about pagan Paul's teaching?
May I ask why you are showing Haram content in your video? She is clearly not sticking to Islamic dress code here.
she just became muslim dude, it isnt always easy to give everything up all at once.
May I ask you why are you going outside unless you know there aint a single thing that you see is Haram?
Bruh! Use some commonsense.
@@virtualAviator159 The brother could've blurred her image, that's what he's saying...
Do you close your eyes when you walk outside?
@@Krkak4985 Ikr 😆
I have also come across keyboard sheikhs and sheikhas on youtube comment sections who give fatwas without any citation from the Quran and Sunnah. And when I pressured them to provide evidence, they keep coming up with excuses. This goes for all muslims who actually want to be muslims, do not seek knowledge from random people please. Always refer back and validate what you learn to the Quran and Hadith.
Sometimes your own people can be your biggest critics. There are many "Muslim" channels mostly of guys sitting behind their screen judging and reacting. They do it for the sake of "educating people". Seeing so many guys react to non hijabs who take Islam seriously and calling them "Jahanummis" would turn anyway away from Islam. Those are the same men who use the "F" word and other such profanities. We got double standards. 🤷🏻♀️
it is allah SWT who guides people to islam. not us.
if a couple of bad comments took her out of islam then it was meant to be.
we need islam, islam doesn't need us.
Don't you really mean he ( KILLED THEM ) ! - i'm Personally very happy that this brave woman finerlly come to her sense's and realised that ( islam is just pure Evil ) .
Same people they convert to Islam then they find out too much discipline. you have to pray 5 times a day and a lot more. Then they look for exit,silly comment, they start blaming Muslims there’re mean. Looking for excuses. also the minute they convert they start UA-cam channel that’s where it goes bad.
I have never seen this happen though I have so called Muslims drive away revers by pushing their culture and brand it as Islam.
Still, we should not discourage reverts...
She is learning and nobody has the right to discourage eachother. If there is something wrong, with a nice language, it can be corrected by oyher Muslim brothers and sisters.Jazakallahu khairan ✨
@Binasy712i really wonder how one can come to this conclusion.. are you a shia or just a revert?
@@jxmal Shia do believe that that there are 5 prayers. It's only that they combine which Muslims are not supposed to do everytime.
no one is responsible for her or someone´s faith... everyone is responsible for his own faith! dont blame people or "muslims". and please stop telling people cultureislam of madhabs which is wrong. no one needs actually a madhabislam-teacher because the best teacher is Allah Himself with His own words of the Quran. stop trying to bring people to "authorities" or so called scholars who are telling culture-/madhabislam and not real Islam of Quran!! there is a huge difference between what you learn from madhabs and what you learn directly from Allah through His words by thinking about them and reading them daily!!! There is a huge, very huge difference!!! And i even say that someone who isnt following only Allah´s words isnt rightguided and is in dalal, even if you say that your greatest scholar of your madhab is knowing more and teaching real Islam but you can bring every sentence and scholar of this world infront of the Quran and they will all loose with their arguments build on many fake hadithes. They will all loose before Allah, His verses and a true believer who can bring them all the arguments of reality itself which are Allah´s verses. Islam of Quran is the only real and true Islam. Anything else is only a misleading of shaitan to something you think that it is Islam but instead it is another system build on many fake hadithes, other cultures influences, hurafaa, shirk, .... may Allah lead you people away from madhabs´systems or parallel religions of sunnism, shiism,... back to real pure Islam of Allah. leave falsehood, false idols (e.g. in form of scholars, doctrines, madhab teachings, hadith books, ..) and dalal and embrace Islam of Quran. may Allah help you see reality
those who Allah wants guide no one can stray them and those who Allah wants astray they will never be guided. so you cannot say this and that pushed her away
Salam akhi. It would be better to blur uncovered women on the internet.
100% more Muslim channels need to be careful of this.
Why so afraid of seeing a woman's face?
@@skywalker9770 Who wouldn't be afraid of seeing a witch's face?
@@skywalker9770 I was joking. I'm a woman myself and it's not appropriate that a Muslim woman without hijab displays herself on the internet. I wouldn't want that it happens to me or any of my sisters. The sister, revert I assume, uploaded a video of herself without hijab? Okay. But the brother knows better. He shouldn't have done that. What if, in the future, the sister starts wearing hijab. She can delete the video of herself from her page but what about people who shared her video on their own pages? That would be disastrous.
@@skywalker9770 it isn't about whether we want to look or not. It's about whether islam says we should or not.
Everybody is accountable for their own sins and nobody else will pay for other people's sins. She is accountable for her own sins of apostacy, NOT those who allegedly pushed her away. Nobody is forcing her to apostate anyway, she did that by her own choice so she ALONE should be blamed for that.
She didn't leave Islam she just felt an fluctuation in her faith like all of us do
Her iman is still weak and people are hounding her. She should just stop making videos on social media and not read comments. She'll come back to have more iman then
I think that each Muslim should help other Muslims and those interested instead of trying to save him/her self only. You might be asked on the day of judgement for someone you didn't help.
And those who push people away from Islam should also think about the sin of what they are doing as well. Really? Being horrible to reverts. They are even given zakat just to make them more attracted to the religion and here we are, bullying them left right and centre
@@Ibrahim-zf8qh no as a left-wing Muslim, the bullying only comes from the right wing ones. (yes I know its a figure of speech, I am joking)
It is Allah who guides. Stop taking so much credit.
Unalived? What kind of Newspeak is this?
why r ppl still blaming her y'all need to come down.
A heavy task will be to clean Islam from toxic and entitled people, who wish Islam to be unendurable and then say to people that they have weak Imam and cause sickness in the hearts of those who because of fearing their words, will despairing about Allah and start hate Allahs creation and not seek from it wisdom but tactics to manipulate people into the same sickness, toxicity and entitlement.
who is you? I don't even know who she is...
Stop brother why would she post it tell me?
I do not know who this sister is but many communicate online especially, the younger generations because they grew up communicating online. They may not have anyone in their immediate environment to help and guide them. In certain Masjids when you go seeking help,many are not friendly and some gate keep.
Unfortunately as a revert I find the women can be very unwelcoming and cliquey. This is a very uncomfortable feeling when you truly from your heart are looking for a mentor to help learn Qur’an, speak Arabic etc. Even just asking if anyone knows anyone that can help. People do not want to share the knowledge. You tend to feel left out and awkward.
As a American-born to Caribbean parents, I come from a multiracial and multicultural background, bizzaf. So I’m used to being around family and friends from so many parts of the world. This is how I grew up in America and it was a beautiful way to grow up. I find there is bizzaf racism from a lot of the Arabic women(mostly) in the Masjids I have visited. Why so hateful? We are supposed to greet our sisters with peace but they do not greet back. If another Arabic sister comes in they will greet them. This is so hurtful. Then in Ramadan they will ask for donations for sadaqa😢. It’s astonishing. Astaghfirullah not nice at all. It’s surprising and hurtful because I know this is not what Islam teaches. I did not grow up with this type of racism and I was born and raised in the U.S.
Except for one Masjid I visited, uptown in NYC it was mostly Africans from Morocco, Senegal, Gambia. At this one, the women were so welcoming. I felt so emotional because it was a wonderful experience. That day there was a discussion on racism which I thought was very fitting.
Many of us are forced to learn online. I’m a tactile person, I like to read books and NO way do I want to learn everything online.
Racism has no place in Islam. Racism is like a poison and an ignorance due to lack of knowledge, Astaghfirullah.
This is a massive test for many reverts. I still say Alhamdulilah because even through all the difficulties Allah has brought some BEAUTIFUL sisters into my life, even in passing. And my husbands family is AMAZING especially his mother. She is an AMAZING women. So, I take the positive and the negative and make the best of it.
If other Muslim sisters are hurtful towards me; I am told to pray Allah guides them, and to stay far away.
I want to know though; why the scholars are not addressing this issue more? It’s like we are left hanging. The men have soo much support. What about reverts like me that have been married a second time, or even if they are younger reverts but they have been on their own. We can barely find help and guidance. People say,”just go to your local masjid.” We have tried this. No help. It’s like your hitting a brick wall constantly. This is a different time we are living in. We need support too.
As reverts we choose Islam only by Allah’s Will. Our hearts are open and hungry for knowledge. We want to follow Sunnah in cha Allah but much information is hidden. Sometimes we just need someone non judgmental to speak to.🤦🏽♀️
My heart is open. I was taught to show compassion and love my fellow humans unless the situation calls for something else.
Also, we are one Ummah Alhamdulilah, Free Palestine🇵🇸, Free Congo🇨🇩, Free Sudan🇸🇩 in cha Allah.
Sorry for ur uncomfortable experience...but happy that u remain steadfast...its very overwhelming experience i can guess...born Muslim people have a tendency to act like scholar to reverts & overwhelmed or confused him/her more..happy for u...that make u more strong...in sha allah everything will be fine...go to mosques for any answers rather than to go ordinary muslim people
Are you not allowed to say kill/murder on UA-cam??
She didn’t even finish her point bro. 😂
Then what was it?
Fax, a story in a local masjid of mine is basically the same thing. Its just that people have some sort of superiority complex to reverts or smth
They think it's because they've been Muslims their whole lives that they're better. Such people need to be reminded that every sahabi in existence was a revert so yeah and they spent many DECADES without islam
but if they're telling the sister she has to cover, no blame on them, frankly, we should stop showering and sugar-coating
There's a way to do things, if you are incapable of that you're not someone who should give advice.
Very true. But do consider that for women, we know that women like to show off a bit more. As such it would be tricky coming to terms with covering such a major source of their beauty, if their Imaan is not completely strong as it would be especially for reverts.
Obviously, there is no denying that she must cover herself, but overcoming a strong personal desire takes strong faith. And strengthening your faith takes time. The same way that overcoming a smoking addiction takes time, you know leaving it is bad but it's really hard to overcome any addiction!
I think of it more as "leave the information on the table for them, and it is their choice what to do with it" rather than "try to stuff the information into their heads".
As an example, I've heard of women who just straight up remove their Hijab when their parents aren't around, just because their parents ordered them to wear it without explaining why. Conversely I've seen women who swear by wearing the Hijab at all costs even when wearing a Hijab is dangerous for them, despite no person asking them to do so.
Different people need different lengths of time in order to truly embrace something as personal as belief in Islam.
on a side note, you become a muslim for yourself not for people, simply leave social media and you cant make the excuse then that people " push you away " from Allah s.w.t, islam is for everybody, not just for people who dont let others " push " them away, sorry but i cant get the idea that someone can make you not muslim, its your fault as well, you should know better, that he/she doesn't speak for islam or muslims, and that you are a grown adult who make his / her own choices, they " push you away " from islam easily but then nobody can push you away from that pepsi or junk food or concert or whatever party / sin you indulge in huh ? so its always easy to be pushed away from truth and good in islam, but hard to get pushed far from sin ??
btw, they know islam is the truth, they simply cant be asked to hear from non knowledgeable people telling them false or extreme things without knowing, so they leave islam ? is it a game ?? Allah s.w.t knows best, idk but wont they be asked by Allah about that choice of leaving islam even though they know its true, just because people " push them away " ? does it sound like a good reason to risk hellfire ? this just proves you weren't serios about islam in the first place, simply one sneezes and you leave, dont be like that, extremists exist in every religion , just know they're not scholars and go take islam knowledge from scholars end of story. but hey, dont become a loose muslim as well, those who openly support lgbt or are okay with free mixing or talent shows or dancing music in public etc etc, those are not " extreme " views those are real haram topics you cant just support, you can co exist but not participate, advice them, not free mix with them etc, you have your deen and they have theirs , so if anyone tells you dancing in public for woman is haram, dont think thats extreme, thats the truth, women have to cover aurah same as men etc, all im saying is keep in mind what's halal and what's haram, dont just live as a new revert musim and still do the same things.
obviously for a new revert muslim, you give them the knowledge needed , they learn about islam, not bombard them with haram this haram that, but yeah let them know the obvious haram things, like drinking , pork, those sexual activities, dancing in public, i mean those kinds of things, so they wont be doing them thinking its halal to do such actions, and give them time to acclimate, how long ? idk , but also make sure they actively seek knowledge, not just say im a revert and they know the basics and live on, they then keep sinning on small things and slowly shaytan takes them away, and as usual they join the group of muslims by name only, so for muslims, dont feel shy or intimidated to not teach new reverts about islam as best as you can and to direct them to scholars etc, you cant just leave them unless they ask for it, then they are free its thier choice .
and Allah s.w.t knows best, im speaking with what i know, and astaghfer Allah s.w.t if i said something incorrect, correct me and ill delete it.
Jazak ALLAHU Khairan for your lnteresting reminders 🙏
I actually followed her on Tiktok which she documents her journey frequently. however, she is solid stable in her Muslim faith!
JESUS CHRIST JESUS speak TRUTH speak English speak all seeing eye speak tongues speak spirits speak light speak reflection speak TRUTH speak English this is JESUS CHRIST JESUS.
Allah is not JESUS CHRIST JESUS.
20th century Sheik Mohamed Abdo or another scholar , was right when he said Muslims are a wall between non-Muslims and Islam.. he also said (at the time) “i saw islam without muslims (in the west) and i saw Muslims without islam (in arab countries) .. we ofcourse have to know this is pertains to the subject of MANNERS , and not alot of other elements that makes up islam too.. NB: these quotes were transmitted through word of mouth and weren’t written down in a document.. mohamed abdo is a student of Gamal El Din El Afghani which I recommend reading about his fascinating works..
I still don't get these girls, once they revert, instead of immersing yourself in the basics and finding a community of muslims, they spend time posting and drawing unneeded attention and doubts...can some pious sisters make a video against this
They're westerners. They don't have a Muslim community. Many of them get rejected by their own family for reverting.
They're trying to find support. We should be welcoming and show the beauty of Islam, not act like we're better than them
I think the moral of the story here is ppl should stop judging , we all have our sins. And giving an advice is an art and must be from a kind and humble place not feeling superior
Remember God's words
{ فَبِمَا رَحۡمَةࣲ مِّنَ ٱللَّهِ لِنتَ لَهُمۡۖ وَلَوۡ كُنتَ فَظًّا غَلِیظَ ٱلۡقَلۡبِ لَٱنفَضُّوا۟ مِنۡ حَوۡلِكَۖ فَٱعۡفُ عَنۡهُمۡ وَٱسۡتَغۡفِرۡ لَهُمۡ وَشَاوِرۡهُمۡ فِی ٱلۡأَمۡرِۖ فَإِذَا عَزَمۡتَ فَتَوَكَّلۡ عَلَى ٱللَّهِۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ یُحِبُّ ٱلۡمُتَوَكِّلِینَ }
[Surah Āli-ʿImrān: 159]
Born Muslims really do not understand the difficulties that new Reverts experience. There is no real sympathy towards them as they struggle with balancing 'being-Muslim', how their friends/family treat them and the perceptions and misconceptions from increasing toxic work environments.
These three core challenges take their toll on the 'spirit' and well-being of these Blessed Reverts who have chosen Islam as their way-of-life, and finally the "born-Muslim-Community' who are ready to dictate what they MUST do, fault-finding every act/omission, secretly 'back-biting', perhaps hating (for whatever reasons) and simply making life unnecessarily complicated for these Reverts.
The Muslim Community MUST be patient, show greater understanding, be genuinely inclusive and accepting and importantly they should embrace and support all Reverts through their private and public transition.
Remember, regardless of their race and/or ethnicity - they are now Muslim, and are therefore equal to us in every way!
the girl is mutabarrija brother
So don't put her video in your video
lmao
It took Prophets a lifetime to search, understand and complete their deen and search for their Creator.
We muslims grow a beard, put on a thobe and that is our Identification. Real Muslim, Good muslim.
Muslim ladies put on a headscarf and wrap around in a curtain and think we are the best of best.
And there are extra, extra extra djannat ul firdous pari's who cover their body completely in black even hands and face are covered in black napkins.
Islam is not a piece of CLOTH. Religion is your lifetime search of your CREATOR.
How on earth have we made it this shallow?
Just remember this: to advise is one thing, to scold is another. Many have said she prays in English and rejects the Hadith, which is very wrong. However, everyone has been so harsh you’ve pushed her away! There was a companion who used to drink, and the companions used to get very angry at him when he got drunk. One day, they decided to spit on him as he was drunk and the prophet ﷺ told the companions “leave him be, for that man love Allah and His Messenger ﷺ” instead of scolding the man for drinking, the prophet ﷺ emphasised the importance of not pushing people away from the Deen because of the people. If you were truly sincere in advising her, you could’ve messaged her privately, and been well meaning saying something like “Assalamu alaikum dear sister, I just wanted to let you know that (insert something here) is not correct within Islam. If you need help with learning about it, I’d be more than happy to help/ refer you to someone who can help you” I’m sure she’d appreciate that much more than people harassing her to the point where they pushed her away from Islam. May Allah guide ALL of us, Ameen.
She should not be so heavily reliant on social media of all places ... to get her guidance .. it is her fault ..
She has replaced the strength and wisdom of the quran and sunnah with youtube and tiktok..
She hasn't. She's not waiting for people to teach her stuff in the comments. She's doing her own researched and sharing her experience. Unfortunately some people act as if they were diplomat scholars
The most important thing in Salat is dhikr, yes she prays in English but dhikr is above speaking in Arabic. 107:4-5 speaks about people who are inattentive of their salah, for some reciting in Arabic even if they "know" the meaning cant keep track of what they are saying and it ruins their salah. Keep your opinions to yourself you lack knowledge, Muhammad PBUH nor did his companions and successors ever said it was fardh to pray in Arabic. That being said it only takes common sense to understand that if you sat something in English instead of Arabic it will never be the same, it must be done in Arabic however everyone has their journey.
The problem with this hadith is, you have two instances where men give judgement to the wrongdoer. No one but Allah SWT can do this. The Quran speaks of the Law of Retaliation when someone is murdered. Either it's a man for a man or the victims are compensated. The person in this hadith wouldn't have gotten away with killing 99 people in the dunya, even financially.
No one pushed her away from Islam. None can guide or lead astray EXCEPT Allah. Gosh this is basic stuff guys! Get off the internet! It's bad for your deen!
It doesn't work like that. There have always been two kinds of people. Believers and non-blievers. Sometimes there are non-believers who briefly believe and then there are believers who temporarily loose their faith. But whether or not you are a believer or a non-believer is deeply rooted in your personality and it doesn't simply change. I was born into a religious family and all I ever wanted was to believe. I had a loving father and a loving mother whom gave me nothing but love and appreciation and whom I loved so dearly that words cannot describe it. They were believers - but I wasn't. It just wouldn't start. I didn't tell my parents because I loved them so much. But it didn't matter how hard I tried. I never became a believer.
If you don't believe, you don't believe. It is as simple as that. I would like to go to heaven and live an eternal life of happiness - but just because I want to do that, I don't magically start to believe. I never started to believe in any diety. I really tried. But it never changed. To me it is blatantly obvious that Allah was created by men as millions of other gods were created by men. There is nothing special about that god. It's just what people from the 7th century would believe a god was.They'd project all the insecurities of rulers of that time into that god. That is why this god wants to be worshipped. It is why that god is easily offended etc. It hurts to see - how little confidence that god has. I tried to ignore it - it never worked. The notion that any god should be more real than another god seemed more and more absurd the older I got. When I was old enough, I came to another country. I studied history and then psychology - it didn't exactly helpt. I'm now officially imune against believing in any god. I started working as a therapist and I listened. Many of my patients are muslims - some of them are christians, but more thatn 50% are atheists....at least that's what they say - but it matters littel. Many so called atheists are believers who just haven't found their god yet. Once they do, things can become dangerous, because sometimes their god is going to be some investment guru, a pickup artist or a politicians. It's not always Allah. Others state that they are Muslims, but secretly, they are non-believers - they never believed. They tried to believe. They punished themselves for not believing and they told everybody around them they believed. Some og them seem very devoted on the outside. But just like me, they can't change the fact that they just won't believe. They never have and they never will.
John 14:6
New International Version
6 Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
Some Muslims just shouldn't talk or address new Muslims. Reverts should be the one talking to new revert Muslims.
Islam is simple, stop oressuring and making it hard, it drives not only reverts but also born Muslims.
Not everyone wants an i formation dump, nor does everyone want to be constantly bludgeoned with corrections on everything.
Don't know why she listens to negativity.
Devil always wants to keep away from accepting Allah and not enter Heaven. It is Devil putting you in Hell is its purpose. Devil whispering in people's left ear.
Accepting Allah is between You and Allah.
Honestly brother… there’s a lot of fake accounts by people pretending to be Muslims.
Thank God she was pushed away from this description. May she be guided to the truth.
and if they don't want to be muslims, it's not a lose for islam but for them. Someone who change his mind because of people comments should first deal with himself/herself. It's that it was not real faith. People in Palestine are suffering tremendous loss everyday and they don't change their religion.
classic haram police and them thinking shikhs scholars words can be taken with 100% certainty
you present them proof why prohibition on certain matter is grey area but he mocks you says you are straying from path
this is why we went backwards and haven't advanced further i mean didn't some of scholars back then think camera is haram because taswir and living beings or whatever? i was nearly pushed to atheism because of these folks from 5 pillars of islam to extra prohibitions that don't make any sense to rational human being
I really hate it,
When Muslims say, wallahi,...BILLAHI.
Muslims should be Honest, that they would not need to swear on Gods name again and again.
Well half of it has to do with some of the scripture….not because they are scared of being a Muslim….
Brother... understand that Islam means submission! You can't do as you please, there is peace in submission. Don't put everything we do online. Infact I don't have any personal social media...best decision ever for mental peace
The problem is not with Islam, it's with people, humans flayed with flaws, who think they are fit to give advice when THEY need to go back and re-convert to Islam! Don't listen to the haters! Keep off social media, and walk this journey of faith with the guidance of Allah, and kind, loving people...May you find your path...🤲☝️💖
She wasn't a believer in first place . No one can take away your beliefs away from you if you have conviction
The solution is to not expose personal beliefs too much on social media. Because Instagram, Facebook these places are toxic af
I don't get ur point ?
Tell the whole story and let us see if it is related
instead of sewing it to ur topic
If I asked someone to not jump (in a rude way)
And he get offened by my rude way and jumped to his death
It is on him
My rude way is n excuse but not a justification.
If any one getting pushed so easily it's not faith. She does not deserve Islam. She need to look at people of Palestine and see what more could go wrong with her. We'll if their faith remains intact why no hers?
this is why you dont convert muslim based on what you judge from the people and you want to stay doing sin. You should learn definition of iman ( faith ) in Islam first.
I really wanted to find some truth in Islam. But the scientific inaccuracies really turned me away.
This is what happens when you let supremacist hierarchical thinking enter your heart and you forget your relationship with your creator you take something beautiful and make it in to something overwhelming you take something we should all try our best at and make it into a competition
The most important thing in this life that I do not recommend to new Muslims is to learn Islam on social networking sites where anyone writes anything. You will see what is wrong and what is right, and do not forget the method in which it is presented, in addition to the misguided people who do not understand the meanings and interpretations of Qur’anic verses or hadiths. You must learn from someone. He has knowledge and is not an amateur
You could have made your point without posting tabarruj.
No No Noo ✝️
i have no problem with Islam, but may God guide her to the truth of Catholicism
Here's an idea: *let's all mind our own business and live and let live regardless of the beliefs of others.*
Assalamu aalaykum.
Please reach out to her. You are more knowledgeable than me. Let one of the sisters try to help her. And am ready to help and provide if possible.
Jazakumu Allah khayra.
Thanks so much. You helped to understand a bunch. You earned a Sub! MashAllah
I understand the concept criticizing but not ridiculing and sometimes the haram police really wreck the new person learning about deen
You look very much like Sheikh Ali Hammuda Mashallah
keep blaming everyone else
No.
@@abdullahkobir9696 yes
What
Islam isnt for show! Show destroys you as it contains shirk
fr, they are doing this to andrew tate too, may allah make him strong
Sure Brother ' JazakhaAllah Khair for Comments - am a Revert also - so yeah I was one way like 20 years ago and now after more k owledge and all - and I saw many Kufaar who want to turn reverts back to Kufr etc - so Yeah best ti advice with Hikmah or Leave them alone - all.of us need Time to Repent; Ameen
not true, she is still a Muslim, I follow her on instagram
I don't care
Why do you comment if you don't caring person?
Arabs don’t like saying I Don’t Know …
they’re too proud
Arabs are better than Ajmi Muslims.
@@luqmanosman4508 “لا فرق بين عربى و لا أعجمى و لا أبيض و لا أسود إلا بالتقوى" its as if the prophet PBUH said this hadeeth explicitly for you subhanallah
yay we kept her away from being oppressed!
akhi dont include womens awrah youre getting sins
I skip a video when someone starts with Wallahi...
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