Should I talk to my dog? Dog Training
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- Опубліковано 17 жов 2024
- How to talk to your dog or should you talk to your dog at all when training your new dog or when training your puppy? Dog trainer Tom Davis goes over why you should stop talking to your dog.
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Thank you, Tom!~ I had already reduced my words to the dogs recently, but paid more attention after watching this video, and It's amazing how many words i still use! My dogs thank you for my continued human training :)
Huge improvement in just 24 hours. I talk to my boy waaaay to much and the more I do, the more disconnected he becomes. I just wasn't making the connection. Today I kept it to communication he needed and he was checking in more, was faster to respond. Really big improvement. Thanks for this.
I talk to my dogs but never during training or when crating . Then it's clear commands. I believe its tone that makes the difference. They know when its relax time and when its training time.
But I live alone!!! Who am I supposed to talk to? LOL!!
My three dogs' commands(15 or so) are in Gaelic. I speak to them in English every day all day just BSing. When I speak Gaelic, they do what I ask and there's no confusion.
I’ve never heard this before & have to admit I’m guilty of talking too much. Nothing crazy but more than I should. Your explanation makes sense and I really appreciate the info as I just adopted a 6 month old pittie and want to do right by him.
Your advice thru all ur videos have helped me train my rottie. I was very scared of big dogs when younger and I fell in love with the rottie when older but didn't want to do things wrong and have a misbehaving dog especially one so large. I used your training tips and have him fully trained ofcourse there's always more for him to learn. But thank you.
I’m guilty ❤ I’m working on it. It’s hard because it makes me feel good, but I understand the ramifications and how confusing it must be for her and I don’t want that. Thanks Tom!
Great "explainer" video, Tom. Your perspective, insights, and metaphors are PRICELESS!
...and you make me laugh, too. Please, keep 'em coming.
This video is very helpful. I actually thought I wasn’t talking to my dog enough. I will try to speak to her with more direction and commands instead of yapping
It is amazing how pure logic has such a profound impact on the brain! Excellent teaching moment for humans. As a horse owner confusing commands even verbal doesn't work well. I tried Whoa for Stay when having a bad day, words matter!
Mr. Davis, please keep educating us!!
This was fascinating! Thanks for all your FREE videos, Tom! I like these “mini studio chats”, because I can listen to them like podcasts, and wash dishes while you talk! I have purchased two of your courses and your dog collar. Thank you for your knowledge!
Thank You, Thank You , Thank you 💙🐾💕🐾💙
I'm a dog trainer with over 40 years of experience. My dog is fluid in both English and German in commands that also include hand signals. Moreso when there name precedes further communications. When your dog heals on a suspended bridge while it's swinging unnaturally & still ready for the heavy, human varmit to spring from concealment, let me know. If I happen to clear my throat my dog looks to me to verify all is ok, tail wagging to proceed. I rarely need to say NO to my dog bc ah ah identities I know what your thinking and check your doggie self or I can help you understand with the leash that's always on you.
Rip Master Trainer Bill Howard Rountree of Bakersfield CA.
I love, love, love your approach! I have a 6 year old nervous, reactive dog and a recently adopted puppy. I'm doing my best to make their lives happy and healthy and your videos have made a difference. I need more time and practice, but I've seen more progress in 2 weeks of implementing your approach than I've seen in years of trying different things to deal with my reactive dog. Soon I think I'll be ready for the reactive to neutral course. I need more practice in not talking to the dogs...simple commands, not complete sentences, and no explanations. I don't need to explain my actions, right? I'm in charge! I feel empowered with this approach and that's not been the case with anything else I've tried.
I've had to explain to "dog people" that my dog is "not a conversational dog" 😂
Like, if you want him not to beg, say "leave it," don't give him a 5 paragraph essay on why he shouldn't be begging because he gets 2 healthy square meals a day and that he would be so privileged to have such a life.
I even have one that I use that's just "ah-ah" or I'll clear my throat and he gets it immediately 😂
I knew this before I watched this video, I literally just watched the video to reaffirm this for my self.
I do well in all other areas of dogtraining but THIS is really hard for me. I love talking to dogs 😬
❤I do too !!!!!!
There has got to be a different way !!!
I love talking to her
:( but it’s wrong and I’m confusing to her I guess !
I only WANT VELVET TO HAVE HER BEST LIFE A HAPPY HEALTHY LIFE! THATS all I want for her ! I love her very much!! She will be my last dog !!
Man that’s pretty scarry because I’m 63 almost and I know my life well realistically I won’t be here forever ♾️
Man that’s sad really :(((
@@randykoeller5256 Yes it is important (and sad) to be realistic about those kinds of things. I am only in the mid40s, but I just had a disc slip in my back. That was a harsh reminder that I am not young anymore. And it actually has an effect on wich kind of dog I will get next, because it cannot be a big strong one.
I think an English Staffordshire would be okay, even though they are strong simply because they are very small and relatively light. But it definitely won't be a rottweiler like I was considering.
I was laughing through this video saying to myself, "yep, I just did that. Yep, did that yesterday"... ok. I am going to make some adjustments.
This was a great reminder, thanks! My dog isnt a "behavioral case," so some of this probably doesnt apply to me. I definitely talk to the dog too much, but its background noise thats for me, not for him. I have a different tone when im giving him information he needs.
Hope this is taken seriously by your followers. I’m a dog groomer of 30 yrs. A big part of that is training clients to train their dogs to be groomed at home. I no longer bring clients into the shop. I go to the car and pick up their dog at the car. It decreases the owners anxiety of leaving their dog. No more them saying “it’s OK,” 20 times as they walk out the door with their voices getting high each time. No more fast petting their dogs and no more saying “. I’ll be back, she’s your friend”. Dogs are calmer, I’m calmer. Thanks for this video
I read the title, and instantly like I know the answer!!
So helpful.
Thank you very much!
I do the same with people who talk ALL the time. After awhile it truly is just annoying background noise. I can sit with my dogs for hours and only say “you’re a good boy” a couple of times, or, of course, “you need to go potty?”
I mean, when training I cut out superfluous words, but when we're chilling, I talk to him. He's picked up words that have turned into commands, just completely by accident. I have a great relationship with my dog, he knows that I'm in charge. He just has one specific environmental trigger/fear, at which point I drop communication straight down to leash pressure, because at that point he's not listening anyway because he's too scared.
WOOF, which is dog for - Melbourne, Australia contingent represent in the group photo!
Love the wisdom and the information breakdown, keep up the awesome work.
Tom dosen't say that talking to your dog is a bad thing if you have a 'healthy relationship' between you and your dog.
I noticed that some of my friends who had dogs with behavioural problems talked to their dogs a lot. And both dogs and the owners were not basically STABLE.
It seemed to me that either they got satisfaction from talking to their dogs or they were really talking to themselves.
Having a ‘conversation’ with a dog doesn't result in the dog understanding your intended ‘message’. ‘Conversation’ only confuses dogs and makes them anxious.
I have lived with LGD breeds such as Kangal and Tornjaks.
I feel that LGD breeds have a tendency to gain insight into people's feelings, emotions and behaviour and sense the circumstances with and without talking.
However, I believe as Tom says, having a good relationship with your dogs comes first, and talking less helps your dog relax around you.
What about a Husky?? My dog talks all the time. Even when I deliberately to ignore it.
How do you know who to believe? I just saw a whole article From a scientist that did research about how humans and animals communicate and they said that dogs actually understand a lot more than we think they do. In fact, I know a guy in Canada, who is a huge TikTok Star who talks to his dog in this dog, understands everything this guy says, and they have a fantastic relationship. I talk to my dog all day long and my dog, and I have a great relationship. He understands the majority of what I say.
A scientist who likely hasn't ever trained a dog or a guy who spends 10 hours a day fixing relationships with dogs internationally?
Makes sense
I only talk to my dog when he starts asking me questions.... Then we both get into a heated conversation.
Another aspect of people talking to their dogs is that it tends to make us the humans have a sense of that we ARE telling the dog what we want, that we ARE communicating to them. And we therefore end up never making the effort to really explore all the real possibilities - what really works - in communicating with our dogs.
I agree that chit chat is meaningless to a dog. If you have a dog for a board and train for a month or more he will not learn English. BUT I talk to my dogs. . . Like I might talk to a two year old. I have had two dogs that easily had a vocabulary. My neighbors’ kids could tell my 12 yr old exactly what to do. Another dog we had knew “do you want to watch TV?”but if we said “we’re playin scrabble”he was bummed out. Not all dogs learn English , although two of mine were somewhat fluent by the time they were 10. Our Aussie never quite caught on. He had much more drive and he had his own agenda. But if you speak consistently, many dogs - like mine - learn phrases like “We’ll be back” “I’m working now” “hit the rack” “Let’s wipe feet”. The Aussie had his own agenda but my literate pups liked to know what was on my agenda.
So true!!!
So good
But it almost impossible not to repeat to my little papillon girl how pretty she is and how I love her all day - and I bet she understands 😁
This makes perfect sense im going to stop talking to my dog but now i just have a question… have a tarnished his ability to learn from here on out or has the last 6 months of me talking to him been enough to destroy that understanding 😢
Nope. Not too late. I’m practicing this myself because this account has mentioned it easily 4 other times and now I’m keeping it in mind. I promise your dog will always enjoy more clarity and clearer direction.
IT'S ME IM SO SORRY T_T I quit talking to my dog everytime I get out of the house I just say bye, one word but I have all these problems of reactivity and fearful reactions more specifically only outside and with the leash, inside the house he's perfect it's so difficult :(
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Unfortunately… this makes absolute sense. She’s not fearful/reactive but becoming defiant, pulling like a freight train, and yet still timid with people. No more non stop chatter with pooch 😢😂
Is it bad for dogs to overhear us talking while working from home? I work from home and my dog hears me talking on zoom all day long (not to him). She definitely is tuning out my voice but it’s not directed to her.
My opinion. Our Dogs hear us speaking all day. The specific difference, is when you're speaking to your dog speak their language. In your reference to someone speaking another language, they may be easily able to break it down for you, turn to their cousin and speak for another 45 minutes, and your lost. However, You are still involved, not completely left to your own devices. Same concept.
I've done the reactive to neutral course, I've had bad trainers, somewhat good trainers and other online courses. I've spent about 4000 dollars on training.
I have an e-collar and a prong collar.
He will heel, sit, wait and place (thanks to you) but he is still having a shit show when hee smells or sees another animal. HELP
It depends. I did a lot of testing with word comprehension especially with dobies when I was doing rescue and rehab, and I was amazed at how many words they did actually understand. But…I was linking the word to whatever it referred to, and practising regularly, and I speak clearly to them, getting their attention before saying the thing, etc etc. I don’t just woffle at them. My current little dog knows 25 to 30 at least, I haven’t really worked consciously to check, poor guy is going deaf and that doesn’t help!
But yes…I used to be constantly saying to people, be quiet…say the command once, then wait. And don’t keep yelling their name 😂 Most humans are annoying background noise to a dog.
I need you to help me, help my dog. Unfortunately I live in Yuma AZ.
Video lessons are not an option either, as the situation with her, and my limited experience, make it not a DIY fix.
Hoping that a local trainer, with behavioral experience will be able to help.
My pup is my journal! So?? Dnt talk to my dog? We will be sitting at night in the bad n he’s laying beside me n I vent to him??? N he might not have a clue but he knows I’m sharing n we r bonding. He also knows when I cry! 😢 n I watch foreign movies all the time. Captions on.
I get what you r saying about commands but I do not talk as far as that. Hand gestures n a lip smack n he knows sit n lay down etc.
It's sad, but I applied this video to my wife.
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That doesn't work either.😂
If it was that easy! 😂
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Lmao
I thought this was going to be about, not talking to your dog. It's more don't give soliloquies as commands. Keep commands simple. Since I just lost a dog to a car, and his sister of nearly (just a day shy) of two years hasn't been doing so well. So I've been talking to her and soothing her. That's fine, but I give simple commands.
OKAY, as a man who loves foreign films, and being humans, you can understand a lot of foreign films due to our SOCIAL NATURE, that the language barrier doesn't matter as much. Also, as a MAJOR COUNTER ARGUMENT, TONE is more the thing here. Like if you're leaving, you know the dog can't understand, but getting them in the right head space and trying to pacify them may or may not help. They can still pick up tone. Like with my girl and the loss of her brother, I'm more trying to create a soothing tone as I pet her. I know she can't understand everything I say, but she feels confused, so I try to reassure her, and pet her. Also, another MAJOR COUNTER to your take, HUNGER4WORDS kind of proves your theory wrong. That catahoula can string together rather complex, and more complex thoughts than we previously gave dogs credit for.
This day and age I still think humans in public are talking to me a lot. Then I see the device in the human s ear. I'm about as confused at times as my dogs.
I bought the dogtra e collar but my golden retriever doesn't seem to feel it no matter how tight I make it unless it's in the perfect spot. Do you have any tips for making contact with skin on dogs with lots of fur?
Did it come with longer electrodes? Most do.
@@armandhammer2235 it did not
That's strange. My dogs are short hair, I've never seen an E collars that don't come with longer electrodes for long hair dogs. Ask Tom again, he uses that brand.
@@armandhammer2235 it was the Tom Davis edition so hoping he has a recommendation
Absolutely. Sorry I jumped in.
Is it kind of like having a conversation in “commands, praise & training”? Instead of “did you know Boddy cheated on Sue?! You know, Sue from around the block! Crazy huh, what do you think”?! Lol. Not the best analogy, but I’m sure most will get it.
this is akin to parents who are their children's "friends," when the kids need _parents._
I'm sure a dog told him this...
I can't agree completely Tom about talking. If an owner is a stable person with energy and purpose, some talk is meant as expressing INTENT. It's not a command, but intent. Words can't be understood, but the intent can. I learned this incidentally saying to a mama cat who was asking for food for her youngsters: Go, catch mouses and bring them! I put a picture of a mouse in the saying. The cat went and from that day on she brought one mouse per cub daily! It happened also with other animals. Same is with a dog. When I say: listen, now I go, here's your snack, take care of the house and don't overdo it! (it's a LS guardian dog). If relationship is normal, a grown dog can often get your intent. If you don't make just a nervous empty chatter. 🖐️
What is clickbait????
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Omg 😊Hi Tom
My name is Holly I am using my son’s account .
Anyway I am fostering a dog that I am NOT !!! Giving back !!!Id die ?????anyway her name is VELVET AND I LOVE HER SO MUCH IM GOING TO TRY TO KEEP HER ,she is probably 3/5 yrs old !
Idk how to train a dog but I know she’s EXTREAMLY intelligent!!!
I do not know what I’m doing !!!
I was parked at Walgreens waiting for my son to come out of store
This DRUNK GUY came up to the car and started petting her even after she was barking and growling and she was pissed !! But he continued to bla bla bla I wanted to slap this person!!
Anyway velvet did NOT BITE HIM !! But continued to bark at times and growling !’ Why DIDNT SHE BITE ???????
Rubbish, I have had working dogs all my life & talk to them all the time, never had a problem!
Ohh 😮 I thought you were a domestic dog trainer. 😂
Just kidding but it sounds very funny.
Been a dog owner/lover all my 65 years, biggest mistake we all make, trying to “humanize” our four legged companions, their genetically freaking carnivorous wolves. Talking to my dog depends on the situation, on walks out in the public, leash and no leash, ALWAYS involves very simple, the same one, no more than two word commands. Around the house, use the same simple commands, but throw out so many verbs, adjectives, nouns and pronouns I wonder why my very reactive Dutch Shepherd looks at me and implies WTF, yea right😅😅😅
Hey Tom when I'm working with my dogs and training them and everything I normally keep my commands to one word.
Um.....congrats?
OK. If your dog is staring at you while you're talking on the phone is that creating confusion? If so, what do you suggest to solve the problem?
Thanks. Anyone can feel free to comment.
Hi - no, they know very well when you are talking TO THEM, and when you are addressing yourself elsewhere. What you're describing is just a "needy" dog who has learnt to stare you down or bark or paw or something else for attention ;-) .
To solve it you can do different things - tell the dog to go to its place, get up and leave the room or, (if the problem is mild), ignore it and see if the dog gives it up voluntarily. Whichever method you chose must be used consistently, though. :-)
Me too I have no answer but I feel my dog gets really nervous the more I have phone call.
@@lagottessaGood answer. I also have trained a focus heel with my dogs where I'm telling them to stare at me.😂 It's just that device that I speak in to and stare at too much needs to be taught to the dogs. Work in progress.
Seriously I have to tell my to STFU! Far too often😅
Are you telling me i gotta stop using my dogs booty as a drum and not sing him songs about how dumb he is?
Just curious, I am a dog trainer myself and do not understand how anyone can say that they "know" what a animal thinks, cause you simply don't cause you are not inside their brain!!! Animals deserve more credit than they get !!!
I am pretty sure this video needs to be directed at the people that treat dogs like kids and don't understand the fact that a dog will follow you and depends on your leadership and they feed off your emotions, this is for people who don't understand dogs and how to meet their needs 🌹🌹🌹
I don't feel Tom claims to know excactly what the dog thinks. All he's doing is breaking it down in an easy-to-grasp fashion, for anyone to understand why having conversations with your dog don't work. :-)
I feel like you wanted to "ruffle feathers" by just saying dont talk to your dog. Talking is good in some situations because your voice can be a calming thing for them. If your training then short commands are better. Just saying don't talk to your dog , full stop, is just clickbait
Not the impression I got at all. He's telling you how to use your voice more effectively to get a better response from your dog.
Omg! Guilty guilty guilty
You talk too much.
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