My biological mother who is Filipina did this to my dad and he went through the same thing and even put me and sisters through turmoil with her selfish living. Took all of his money and spent it on herself and cheated on him multiple times, went to the club all hours of the night once she got to America while me and my sisters would be home alone. He told me how it was when they first started dating and it was like she was a completely different person, sweet, polite caring. I support American men going abroad and finding traditional women, especially considering how shit American women have become, but just find the right one and keep your guard up until you KNOW KNOW that she’s the one and won’t screw you over.
Wow. This was an interesting read. I'm sure you and your sister are doing great now. Also sorry to hear that you had to deal with that. Looks like you gained some wisdom and are sharing your wisdom
I agree with this. I also had a humble, cute, innocent, sweet filipina gf. I lifted her up thinking she’ll be more loyal and thankful to me. I thought she would appreciate it. But no. She started cheating after I lifted her up. It felt like everything I have given and taught to her, she used against me. We probably would still be together and she probably would still be the same old cute, innocent, and simple loving feminine pretty filipina if I did not lift her up. Lift her up, and you pay the price! Its so true.
you guys are sick. if a woman truly loves a man, none of this lifting up money shit makes a difference. This happens when romantic feelings were faked. Come on man
💡That's the BIGGEST simpmatic mistake that men make is lifting a woman up and propping her ass up on a pedestal, THINKING that she's gonna be loyal to his dumb ass because he put her there! MEN are 100% responsible for making a woman a monster by making her think she deserves EVERYTHING without working for it!💥😔
exactly correct !! simps are clueless as to how attraction works .. a woman has to EARN a man's adoration .. sad and pathetic thing is that probably 90% of men are simps
Exactly. It makes life much harder for guys like us because I will never give in to any of these girls. If it means I never get pussy again than so be it.
I've learned that province girls aren't necessarily better than city girls in the Philippines. I didn't expect that would be the case, but I think that a city girl with a job who knows the value of money from working for it often gives better results in a relationship than a province girl who gets everything handed to her. Get a humble city girl with her own job and let her keep working while you're together. Don't fall for the urge to have her quit her job so you can spend more time with her. Don't become the sugar daddy. Maybe following my advice is harder if you're very old and unattractive or disabled, so I understand if you gotta do what you gotta do, but that's just my two cents.
City/province/anything in between doesn't matter. If a person doesn't know the value of money and what it takes to earn it, manage it and hold onto it and you shower them with everything, well what do you expect?
Exactly my thinking, find someone who's as equal to you in income, intellect, communication skills etc as possible. Everything won't be equal of course, but at least there should be an understanding by both of how to grow closer.
Good advice, and moving far away form her family is smart too.Especially being old and unattractive, we have to play our cards exactly right, or we set ourselves up for being scammed.A younger rich Filipino, is usually what these girls really want, and we are second pick.
@Calslooking, I wasn't clear, she should ideally not be very pooor but have enough income to live ok by Ph standards. That would lessen dependency on you.
I watched this last night and thought about it a little while. While I pretty much agree with your sentiments and your storytelling and ideas quite entertaining as always, there are a couple things to consider from the Filipina's side. One, just being seen with a foreigner may lower her value among her compatriots, and spending nights with us is a positive only if her family and community do not know about it or she gains considerably in terms of money or marriage. If she is known to be spending nights with one of us, and she returns without the foreigner, she suffers considerable loss of face, i.e., humiliation. Two, she may have quit a job or lost a job to take off with one of us on a jaunt she hopes will lead to marriage. Three, if the foreign guy is no fun in bed or generally, plus ugly, it's an even bigger sacrifice she's making. Four, what are the chances you've given her an STD? There are some that may not show symptoms but can affect her health down the road. (Get yourself thoroughly tested and examined before you go there, and not a bad idea to pay for her to get tested before you have sex.) Five, and the worst, did you leave her heartbroken? To what extent was she played? Day, months, YEARS? That's time wasted for her. No matter how good of a time she had with you, the memories just might be painful or like eating dust to her. So she takes a huge risk being with one of us. If she gets dumped, same thing. So leaving them "better" than we found them is only fair. "Better" in the sense that she is left with something to balance what she has given up to be with one of us. I know, we all seek to justify our actions to ourselves, but the points I've mentioned are real for the Filipina.
Wow I like your comment. Like my LDR story before , he left me heartbroken to the very extent though we never met in person but we are talking 8hrs a day via videocall and chats for 2 years, the memories is just so painful. But I believe he’s a good guy and a responsible Dad to his stepchildren, it’s just later he confessed to me that he’s living with a woman with kids while we are on a LDR.
@@KATHERINE-so5di what the pinay i date was marry to her brother but not her brother had 1 year old kid she used American men her lazy hubby. for 9 months pay everything found she was marry. thats ok for her ?
I lived in The Philippines between 2010-2015 before Social Media and the Internet really empowered province girls . I knew this province girl who started off innocent until multiple men from all over the world started sending her money. I saw the gradual change. She started wearing designer clothes and bags and moved to Makati in a Condo. She thinks she’s the shit now.
Doing great with my girl. She isn’t a streamers, she isn’t a sex worker. Shes a hard working woman that makes enough to take care of herself. Not all filipinas are the same.
Totally agree. Men are too "Thirsty". Relax. I am going there because of the blue water, white sand beaches and beautiful kind people. When I meet a girl I like naturally, great. I will be kind but not give her "Everything" and make her an American. That's what I am leaving. Why create more? I already know where to go if I need some companionship. I am going there to live my dream of being on/or/near the beach. Not thirsty. To have a happy life and feel better. That's the dream. And creating another crazy woke feminist is a nightmare. Stop doing it guys. Don't try and "Change them for the better" they were already fantastic just the way they were. Humble.
I will 100% agree that many fhilpinas just expect foreigners to take them out to buy things all the time but I personally believe that you will automatically increase a fhilpinas lifestyle just by being together such in my case I always have the aircon on and always have food without any concern financially for myself I have been with the same fhilpina for almost 4 years and to this day she still doesn't want to spend money and luckly her family (who doesn't have much) never asked us for anything she still sends the same 5k she sent to her parents for many years before we ever met
40 years ago my dad gave me the only advice he ever gave about women. He said if you find a woman in poverty and lift her up she will never be satisfied no matter how much you do for her.
I think it depends on the girl and if you are actually in love with her or not. My girl loves being at home but also loves our trips when I visit. She isn't afraid to hold hands in public and also isn't afraid to kiss. I wasn't after just somebody to 'bang', but to also be a companion. Maybe it also depends on where she is from. My girl (fiancee) is from Northern Samar and is the sweetest thing.....
when you visit ?😊. and when your not there that money you send is a great time for her and local bf .want me to list the pinay i know that got pregnant while mr white guy was way ?
I think I hit the jackpot with my Filipina wife. She was dating a much older man. She was 23 and he was in his late 60's. He went to the phils and they got married and he had to go back to the U.S. for medical reasons. She was working on the visa paperwork while he was gone. Because she was a province girl from a very poor family, her birth certificate and other vital documents were messed up making it a very long process for her to get the documents fixed and do all the visa paperwork yada yada. This took 3 years. He came back to see her I think twice in that span. He sent her money but he was on a fixed income so she still worked. Finally she flew to the U.S. to be with him. 6 months later he dies from kidney failure. She was stuck with no money, family and very few friends. I met her about 2 months later. She was living in the worst apartment I have ever seen. (America) But, she was working and scraping by. We talked on the phone and text for a bit and then I went to see her. The rest is history. We have been together for 10 years. She is now 38 and I am 50. The point I am making is, she was still untainted by America and very humble. Considering what happened so fast. She never had time to jump on the Americanized train yet. She is humble and thankful to this day. We spend 6 months a year in the province and the other 6 months at our house in Florida. Bonus! I did not have to pay for all the costs associated with her green card. Moral is, sometimes you find someone who is worth your time and sometimes you need to cut your line a fish in another spot.
BS , only way get into usa need a sponsor need 2,400 usd a month min. place her to live , food, medical.has marry in 90 days she deported. if he dies boom your visa over. usa one the hardest place get a visa even if your marry.
A Pinay I used to date once told me Philippines is the hell on earth. Their family members even backstab each other out of jealousy. Don't expect them to think the way you do. Humans are more different from each other than we wish. Respect and keep distance.
I like living alone but don’t want to die alone. Life after 50 years old can change a person’s perspective. Just make it your plans all the time. If the gf doesn’t want to come along, so be it. Good video.
I met a beautiful American girl in Angeles who was touring the PI. We talked over a beer and she said she was frustrated that the foreigner guys do not pay attention to her. Inside I felt sorry for her but I had no interest either.
Quite happy with my pinay gf. We both don't work, she is a homebody and if she wants entertainment she goes over to a neighbour's house for chika chika. She is already happy when i get her an icecream when we get groceries. I do my own stuff and when i come home she is always happy to see me
I'm married to a wonderful Filipina now. We've been married and back in the US for 9 years. But my time as a single man in Cebu was an awesome experience.
67, married twice and no gf since. I love the freedom. Going to bed when I'm tired, waking when I'm ready. Doing what ever moves me. I'm no social butterfly and sometimes, most times, I dont want to talk, especially about someone elses crap. My dog is perfect for that. He listens, is always intent to hang with me and loves me unconditionally. Sex is overrated and not worth the price they put on it.
I am 67 also but hey if you are the man of the house then you decide when to go to sleep, get up, talk, etc. That is the beauty of not being a simp amd if your woman can´t handle that then NEXT. I also have a faithful dog (well not so much now as a new neighbor moved next door - a retired gringo (damn) who spoils him with food and letting him climb on the furniture so I see him less and less, except at food time when he rushes over!) but I still love that sex, i just don´t overpay for it in any way, shape or manner. Lots of nice women around here (Costa Rica) that appreciate a good loving man. I do have a weakness for Asian women though, so I believe the best of all worlds would be having a nice Filipina here in Costa Rica where I have 1st world medical care, I can own property and don´t have to run the A/C all the time plus potable water everywhere and reliable power and wi fi, plus only 2.5 hours to fly to Florida!
@@costaricasbestguide9906 Where do you live in Costa Rica? I have a Filipina wife, married 30 years and we will retire to Costa Rica in about 2 years. We will live above San Rafeal de Heredia. I'm 64 but feel younger. Currently live in Virginia.
I met my then gf pinay 8 yrs ago online,met her in person that yr 2016 ,the age gap was 13 yrs and we married this yr having a beautiful daughter of 6 yrs of age...my wife never has asked for money and willing to show receipts if i want to see such..im grateful for her and how honest,caring,and loving she is and i wish that for the rest of my life, so ty Philippines 🇵🇭 one could not be happier in life...
Scott, your point is well taken. However, if I am an older guy and I get a girl fresh, say at 20 years old, with minimal experience, and enjoy a close relationship w her til she reaches her mid-20s, I've enjoyed her best years. If I didn't lift her up somehow, she would get nothing in return for those years she spent on a guy far from his prime. Relationships are supposed to be give and take. Yes, if someone wanted to, he could manage to just take. In fact, I think that is what you blamed Geo for doing to that 18-year-old virgin. I don't think decent guys aspire to this behavior while at the same time, we don't wanna simp either. So important to weigh everything from all sides and keep it balanced.
She got spending time with yoh and probably enjoying nice perks like free meals and plane tickets to cool places. Since when are relationships lotteries where a person should get something whe it is done?
@@johngiraltbedford If she's young and trim and you are old and fat then pay up. You just have to take your clothes off and stand in front of a mirror and ask yourself..."If I was a girl would I fu*k that?" If the answer is 'no' then cough up 😆😆 let's not get delusional people 😆😆😆
I'm not disagreeing with Scottie Boy, I think he's right. But let's see what happens with our boy when we fast forward 2 years from now, where he's at and what kind of content he's putting out on YT. Will he be married living in the province with a few children still doing YT? Or will he be in a city married with children teaching English at a school because being married to a filipina gives him citizenship? Only time will tell.
That's why these days I "date" only "pros". Everything is clear, both sides exchange exactly what each needs with no unrealistic expectations placed on either side and no hurt feelings for any party. And you usually will get much more kindness, respect from them than from "amateur" gfs.
@@MikeRotchich lol regular stirring the pot. He’s looking for the right one ..in reality he wants the “ right one” . He’s pandering to a certain section …suffice to say ..GLTA ..
You are so right about everything In this video. I just broke up with a woman in terasa rizal who's ex from Australia bought her a brand new never been lived in town house in a nice gated community then he cheated on her many times and finally left her for another woman and moved back to Australia. I am the first boyfriend she has had since their break up a couple years ago and I am definitely paying for how he spoiled and intiteled her attitude has become. There was no way that I could keep her happy no matter what I did or said and I told her many times that the reason that most men come to the Philippines is to get away from that kind of attitude but nothing I said or did for her could snap her out of the since of incitement that he has instilled in her so I had to end it. But what sucks is that I know she was a good woman before he turned her into a spoiled brat little princess and it hurt very much to leave her because I truly care deeply for her but as you said once a foreigner spoiled them to much they become a poison pill for the rest of us. The kicker in all of this is that I'm in my fiftys and so is she. I really did just want a mature woman my age to settle down with and spend the rest of my life with not once did I consider that a woman in the Philippines who was in their mid fiftys could be capable of such cruelty and deceit. She was so cold towards me at the end that it actually broke my heart. So keep up the good work spreading the truth and maybe do a Podcast about older phillippinas because they are quickly catching up with the younger ones when it comes to feeling entitled to any man's wealth. Thank you
the problem is probably you as much as it is her. "the truth will set you free, but first it's gonna piss you off". you picked the wrong person, not a match for your personality, if you even have a personality. don't blame her for your mistakes and/or expectations to be someone she isn't
I appreciate this video. Makes a lot of sense. I’m 41 and I just decided this year that I’m going to get my passport and travel to Thailand and Philippines. (Passport bros) I started watching all these videos of tourist tipping girls so little. Now I see that’s little in MY eyes. I had it in my mind that I’m going to tip a lot more. I see now that I’ll be creating what I’m running from. Good video man.
follow your heart not the advice of a random youtuber. don't fall for the garbage these guys put out they're all trying to make money with clicks... he's wrong on many points and probably painting the picture he only wishes he could really live, but can't. it's about you and what you feel, not this guy. point is in the real world you should be a man and come here with a man's mindset. that means carry your own and give the woman what she needs, which is a man to look up to. you don't have to play games to do that, you can have one girl or many, a man is a man and leads as he chooses to lead. a woman will follow a good man, facts. have the guts to do what you feel is right, follow your heart and use common sense. btw putang is going to cost you no matter where you're at, whether it's a girlfriend or a bargirl it's gonna cost 15 to 80 we pay for that in one form or another. enjoy it
I’m doing the same thing brother, I’m 36 and heading off to check out the Philippines, Thailand and Vietnam this upcoming summer. See you over there haha.
The draw of the Philippines is the Filipina Sugar babies are WAY CHEAPER and far more readily available then the US, UK and Aus girls. One of my childhood friends is a multi-millionaire living here in southern California and he has a gorgeous sugar baby blonde. He's 59, she's 23. All I can say is lucky bastard, but at least I have the option of going to the Phil's and finding a sugar baby as any man who is a multi-millionaire in peso's will be enough for a Filipina sugar baby. I saw you live in Des Moines, Iowa, my mom's family has lived there since the 1860's on 3,000 acre farm.
@Regular Guy what kind of financial commitment is required? Here in Canada the going rate for a SB even outside of Toronto is $100 for a coffee, up to $400 for dinner, $600 to $1000 for private time, I have been told on chat boards.
Hi Scotty. I may be pushing 70, but I believe in finding the right one. I found love and religion . It was a bit late in life, but better late than never . I will never stray from my gorgeous, young Filipina wife of over 2 years now. Well , I can't anyway, because I can't walk very far .
Filipinas will soon get to know you by word of mouth which spreads like wildfire and you’ll end up doing your vlogs in the Arctic….. One thing about Pinays: They’ll make sacrifices to give you everything until they discover your true intentions are only self-serving!
There are definitely some rough sides to this, but compared to the US it's gotta be better. These western girls are insane. I'd rather go down there and actually get some (it's been sixteen years for me) than to have to go through all these hoops and deal with really awful women. Not only that, here in the US messing around with ladies of the night can land you with sex offender charges. The same as if you were to harm a child. That's how messed up the legal system is here. So no, it's not a good idea to take that risk and pay a worker until it's decriminalized. I was thinking about waiting until I'm around 45-50 before heading that way, but I don't know what the dating scene will even be like down there by that time. Who knows, they might even get as bad as the American women and the best option I have would be like an AI or a VR thing or something, lol!
I have to say i have not been to the Philippines yet, but soon. I have been in LDR relationships and know many there in the last 3 years. I have friends locally here in America that have traveled there and have Filipina wives here now. I watch many vloggers there and seen many situations both foreigners and Filipina, I currently have online workers for business I started to help some there . They help me I help them it's positive win win situation. But i will say there is both good and bad foreigners and Filipina. But the main fact is whatever the situation or outcome it is all because the foreigner wanted to take their chance on travel, relationship or adventure. Usually because they were unhappy or couldn't make it work in America to be happy. So assume responsibility. I've seen many foreigners go to Philippines with a good attitude and find what they were searching and do well. Being kind , considerate, understanding and not selfish. Before traveling i understand that there may be a few scammers, many poor and needy and many who will ask for anything im willing to give. Thats no surprise for that emerging country. Sad to see so many foreigner men travel there and not understand or respect the Filipino people and their situation. Many Americans lost values and are spoiled rotten. I see men travel there and complain about it. Men going there and only looking for sex with various girls and many times leaving them heartbroken, pregnant or in a worse situation after having them quit a job for them. I see men who go there with a bad city boy attitude and change the modest Filipina into a sexy dressed ho like many foreign girls they couldn't get or despised. Why go there and disrespect another culture, and try to convert like disrespectful American women then leave them or complain about it to make yourself feel good and raise up your own ego or feel good about yourself. If you cant help or make something better than it was it shows poor character and principal. Remember they did not ask you to come without you searching it out. So take responsibility and make it a good and positive experience for both. A real good man will help or commit to what he searched and agreed to. Unfortunately i think many Filipina dont benefit themselves many times when meeting the wrong foreigners who only want sex and then leave them. Or filipinas committing to foreigner with bad attitude, too old or even alcoholic or drug use. I personally know a couple here and she didn't know she married an alcoholic and heavy smoker who probably soon have poor health because of drinking. But too late she already married. Please be real men and stand up and responsible for your decision to involve yourself in others lives and travel and relationship. I had a couple ldr and helped with many health and finances to improve for them and was my choice. And even my decision not to continue if it wasn't the relationship for me, i wished them happiness and success in their later relationship. If you put yourself in a Filipina life, then yes you should be responsible if you leave, to leave her same or better. Its only a good conscience. But the American ego attitude in the phils is only self serving, self expecting and greedy. God bless all and sana all.
Thank you! Men like this UA-camr are why middle-class and well-off Filipinas would never go for a foreigner. Also, from where I'm from, being with a foreigner will make you look bad.
Go on a date with girl #1, then the next day go out with girl #2, then the next day girl #3. Only meet them once per week. It's none of their business what you are doing when you are not with them. If the don't like it they can kick rocks. Only commit to one girl if she earns it and proves herself to be a good partner over time.
I love the channel and I told my wife about your view on women. "If he's happy alone, why interact with women at all." Well, I think he has a biological need which all men do. "Okay, then he should get a doll. Just like some women who don't need a man. They get a dog or a cat." Obviously not for the same purpose as the doll of course. :) Love your content and storytelling.
If you want happiness in a romantic relationship, be a Christian. Not an attender of some religious building whenever you feel guilty, but truly be born again. Then seek only women who are also sold out for Christ. Treat her righteously and then honor her and her family and marry her. Have this integrity. Anything less than this is just man's idea of how to find happiness and fulfillment and will not lead to the greatest life.
i do not recommend this, especially if you found a virgin girl, they are protected by the family and that betraying her can get u in jail or killed(gun for hire in ph). U can leave a relationship first so u can be free
Such a great talk on this video. I totally agree with your analysis about the lifting process. Western educated men still don’t get it about their own deep reason to go east and they keep creating monsters like they are spreading the plague. Are you preparing walking stock for your own stick figures videos ?
That's the problem with so many westerners hitting the Phillies now. Many babe-a-roonies now expect to be 'lifted up' by a foreigner and they have plenty of gullible Americans/Europeans to choose from. The dating scene in the cities has already changed dramatically since the country opened back up and foreigners showing up in droves.
Im a filipino girl myself and honestly just watching this video makes me feel embarrassed about half of the filipina girls..sure some Filipina girls are from a poor family some from a rich family watching this in a filipina view is funny but also has your whole world collapsing because if your filipina gf is loyal to you and you see this video and you decided to break up with her cause of the title "BREAK UP WITH YOUR FILIPINA GIRLFRIEND NOW" just proves that some people may not like us cause we get it Philippines is a rich but poor country nothing to be ashamed about but not all of us are cheating shits -_-
i've never been to the phils or SE asia, but being from the US and having had my fill of Asians of all sizes, types, and ages I got to tell you I'm starting to dig the cute chubby 40 something working pinay owns her own home, is submissive and says I can move in and live for free and is still 15 years younger than me! 🙂
How to succeed in the philipines- watch what Gio does and do the opposite. He;s basically made every mistake in the book and gone through the trouble of putting it all on display!!!
After many years spent on dating Gio got single mother it is warning to other people do not belive you tube videos ... situation is getting harder every day
@@doctorinvizible2077 Wow, harder every day??? Is it really that bad? Aren't there still parts of the philipines where the women are much more traditional?
Traditional Filipina don't like limelight or spotlight. Those are pretty, educated and totally single Filipina I've know where to find them. But foriegner from west love single mom.😅
@@thaimayoree1494 Oh, I have a strict rule, no single mom's allowed, only single dads should go for single momsbut for me it's not Ok. Where can we look for more traditional Filipinas???
2 points to make, includes why I will NEVER Patreon a Filipina again. 1st in Ging's defense...what is she supposed to say or do when called out about a donation? I blame the man for thinking he should get anything other than putting money in her pocket. One has to be stupid to think she'll just fall to her knees and think he's the only one donating. My experience was with Jenn "Your Little Pinay." I decided a year ago to Patreon her just 5 bucks a month, and with no expectations...just help a small channel grow. And what happened? She was on a SE Asia tour uploading. Her last video she was in Thailand. Then...she suddenly stopped uploading. Not even a hint she would stop or pause in anyway. WTF! She couldn't make a very short video that she will stop? She didn't care enough to have people think something awful could have happened to her? So she recently uploaded, after 9 months, explaining why 😂. And the said part was all the SIMPS saying " no need to apologize"...! If there is any Filipina that would be considered innocent, it would be her. But just look what happened...just as selfish as they all become as they get in alot of cash. This experience is exactly why I laugh my ass off at those who Patreon/donate to vloggers like pea who thinks she'll notice. Jenn has the fraction of subs pea has, but managed to build her grandparents a home and travel... again like I say all the time imagine how much pea makes, and stupid men on her channel donate with expectations 😂😂
you've described in perfect detail the stereotypical 'pathetic SIMP ' it's THEIR fault the woman becomes that way yes .. simps THINK that by giving things/$$$/lifting up etc to a woman WITHOUT her having to EARN it will make the woman like him/be attracted to him .. when the exact OPPOSITE is the case .. clueless pathetic idiots smh
I think the Pea is by far the best female vlogger with help of course . She is not attractive to me however but again her content is excellent and all that matters .
@@angry_Australia again, I had no expectations other than just to help growth...even saw the 2 videos of her bragging about 2 subs sending her 1000s worth of video equipment before I joined. Besides what's 5 a month? What got me was how she stopped uploading, not even a hint that she would stop. Just shows the kind of person she really is. Also she admitted to having her fiance doing all the camera work, so I can imagine how those 2 feel about sending all that equipment and finding out she's engaged 🤣🤣
@@usaalways The mental gymnastics.. First you correctly observe that 'One has to be stupid to think she'll just fall to her knees and think he's the only one donating.' Then you go on telling us you are upset because 'What got me was how she stopped uploading'. Look, you volunteered to become her monthly sponsor, and there is no difference between having a big 1-hit wonder or paying every month. You both "lifted her up", you both contributed to her becoming "strong and independent" woman, needing no man.. You can try to justify this as much as you want, telling there is a difference between one big $300 vs a monthly small $5 monthly sponsor. The fact is, they are both women, and they both behave the same, and you should know this. I do not see any difference between your response and the $300 dude response. Just have a look if we change the statement a little: 'One has to be stupid to think she'll just fall to her knees and think he's the only one donating $5 a month' ??
Wow, quite a rant, Scottyboi! A tip, find a mature lady who's more emotionally stable and has a decent income who only wants you for love and companionship. She will not be spoiled, and will truly appreciate what you can give. May seem hard to find, but there are some jewels.
@yngvesognen1092 Did we watch the same vlog? I saw a rant about simps/uplifters spoiling PH. I didn't see anything about Scotty having problems. As the matter of fact, @12:05 Scotty specificly mention that he and his generation are ok, but simping will make it different for the next generation if simps do not stop..
@@harryeisermann2784, so all of a sudden it's gone from finding the right lady to leave me alone and let me do what I want to do? Between those two extremes there are many shades. It may take some time, but it is possible to find something that works.
I have been with my filipino girlfriend for over six years. In the beginning of our relationship I have had her investigated...twice. When I visited her in her province, I tested her again. Well, all those tests thrown at her provided consistent results. I no longer test her, as doing so would just be outright mean. She is the best thing to happen to me. Mahal na mahal, Rosalia.
Excellent! Good to question ideas from UA-cam. Some Men move too fast and then complain. There are consequences to not fully knowing and understanding who one is involved with romantically.
Actually Ging is pregnant from a filipino that she lives with, not some foreign subscriber, and she's living in a little village in Bayawan, doing fb selling of clothes. And i fully understand drama gets views, but i highly doubt anyone gets with someone with the sole purpose of leaving them later. So in that case i see nothing wrong with wanting to make your partners life better. Ya, some things dont work out, but that wasnt thw goal, was it. Seems your rhetoric is based on your limited local experience with the girls here, all of which are probably.... lets say... less than innocent, to sat the least. Let me know if youd like some facts about certain people youre bashing here, as most all of what you just said was either false, oppinion or just conjecture. Believe me though, the truth is more boring and wont get you views, so never mind.
I typically just say "Keep Change", I find that people are grateful even if it's only 20 PHP. I prefer not having change in my pocket, and I do not understand the centavo coins. I also never give to beggars, didn't do it when I lived in Canada, didn't do it when I lived in the States, won't do it here. I will buy water from a vendor at a stop light, or whatever they're selling. I prefer to buy local as I feel it better helps the local economy instead of some corporation.
I came here with very little and earn only a tiny pension. My Filipina wife, little boy am I have our own little block house jammed in between family houses here in a fishing village in the province. She raises about 15 pigs and about 100 chickens. She does it all herself, plus a Sari Sari store, does all of the shopping, cooking, cleaning, washing, etc., etc. She feels the sun shines out of me, even though I am a grumpy old grouch. I am her King. She gave me that vow in marriage and I gave her the same vow. I guess we are simply blessed. Glad I didn't "lift her up" 🙏
The Philippine government discourages foreigners from lifting Filipinas up and just leaving ti ur home country. They don’t want these folks to go back to poverty and it’s better for them to attempt to lift themselves up from poverty.
b.s. the goverenment helps pinay extort money from foreigners . i have horrible true storys . its no different than the usa divorce courts . they reward pinay who have stolen and sold property and issues arrest warrants against the foreigner
Awesome video Scotty boy!! I really love the way you drop the chismes on other philly willy vloggers...thats the way to capture our attention and increase your views...you do it like noone else can! As for lifting up the girls, I agree with you to a certain extent...its like anything else...like drinking or partying...it should be done in moderation, not to excess..otherwise that thing you are enjoying will be ruined...same goes for your Filipina gf...all in moderation. As for tipping....gawwdd that is a subject that I am furious about...to begin with ...I am one that hates the whole byzantine antiquated concept of tipping the poor slave or servant because we are so rich and they are so poor....that was an ancient custom that we humans have been too stupid to get rid of. It is the employers responsibility to pay their employees an appropriate wage and then tell us what their price is for their service, that way we are not stuck with the awkward second calculation (and second cost!) of how much to tip....its absolutely ridiculous! Just look at what occurs in the US, being a waiter or bartender at a good restaurant is a prized job because with tips they can make a hell of a lot of money...more than someone that has a regular 9 to 5 job! In the US...it is now a common occurrence that the customer doing the tipping earns less money at his/her job than the person they are giving the tip to!! How stupid and upside down is that?!
There is NO TIPPING in Australia................just as there is NO TIPPING in Philippine law whatsoever!.....I blame Americans for ruining that for everyone!
Loved your take on this. And it's very true where can a guy with really little cash be a big roller? And then you find out exactly what you said. You have created a monster. Great video
I hope guys will listen to you on this subject. Another thing is freely paying the foreigner price and giving supper big tips. This has already screwed things up for us and now we are thought of as ATMs . The whole point of going to some of these places is the cost is cheap. But tourists go and teach the localsn to jack the price up 5 times they don't mind it still cheap for them.
YT vloggers have helped to lure a ton of western men to the Phillies...The result is disastrous and is changing the dating scene rapidly. Wherever you see a bunch of foreigners, expect higher prices and picky women!
lol "the whole point". what a joke. as a traveler i don't give a shit what's left behind for other foreigners. i'm gonna spend what i like, to my wallet, and enjoy it. why should i care about broke dick expats coming over looking for cheap putang? they can have what they can afford, if they can't afford, stay home
Scotty boy, you are leading innovators towards an important direction many people do not yet have the capacity to understand or appreciate. Please keep it going and im going to try to continue after your work with technological innovation. YOU ARE CORRECT ☑️
@@paulonunes7584Finally someone with some sense. It amazes seeing the mentality of some dudes. Their “logic” is to stay away from 304s from their home country only to make more 304s in another?
Look up AV in the Philippians, his wife/girlfriend is dumping him after buying land and he is currently building a house. The poor guy is in for a world of hurt while his woman looks for a richer man
She actually told him that he's not good enough for her and she deserves better. Can you imagine? This is why you don't lift women up. They're all the same in the end.
A Filipina is not a slam dunk in the relationship game--you run the same risks as with any woman. Filipinas do tend or trend towards the more traditional roles so that can be a good thing for any relationship and will prove less combative, feisty, etc.
I saw your recent short, and I love to have that experience there! That being said, there's "another" filipina that said go to Philippines 🇵🇭 for relationships and go to Thailand 🇹🇭 for anything else! I Great story tho
Man, big and excellent topic!! Why I'm thinking that the main reason foreigners visiting there is exactly this? Lifting up, not exactly lifting up, mostly to feel themselves fulfilled. I'm thinking, once you are surrounded there by an "army" of poor women, that the only thing they can offer to you, best case scenario, is accommodation, guidance and most probably companion for whatever amount, somehow you have to lift them up. 90% of women there seeing other girls being lifted, they imitate one each other. Even the recent video with the " OLD DOG " he stated for his wife: " If I die tomorrow, I am sure that she will have a land and a house on top of her head. " Without meaning anything bad about that. She is his wife, and it is normal, but it is still a lifting. Somehow, foreigners lifting up the women there with one or other way. It is not possible for a turi$t visiting there and just accompanied from a poor roonie to not lift her. Touri$t want to eat, travel, and chill with a girl that she earns no more than $200 per month. How is it possible to follow him, even if she is attracted by him, if she will not be lifted by the touri$t? I know you are mentioning the nonsense gift$ to "one moment " girls. It is stupidity. But, if you noticed, even in the SLUM areas, one out of two ronies they got smart phones, and even they don't know what's next happening, but they know others "successful" stories from companion with foreigner touri$ts... Great topic
Hilarious video. Interesting about Steve at PI info, I've heard he's already had several failed relationships over there yet has the nerve to give out advice about women. Seems to be a lot of naïve and inexperienced men going over there being played for fools. I believe in treating a woman right, but at the first sign of her playing games I'd immediately dump her. Some guys just don't have any sense.
Steve, a nice man, is learning hard lessons in the Phillies for sure. He's competing with the passport bros now. He's been bringing lots of westerners to his "paradise".
@@garyzies3486 Well you have to wonder why a woman he's been with for a number of years would just get up and leave him like that. It's not like she was some young hottie who was likely to attract much male attention. Perhaps he wasn't so much the "nice" family man he presented himself as being.
@@collectivesoulify We don't know all the details for sure. What we do know is that Steve brought a bunch of foreigners to his area and that his girl left him for one of them.
@@garyzies3486 True, maybe she's just a bad woman. Steve was not only supporting her but her kid too, just seems odd she would throw that away and take up with someone else unless there were serious issues in their relationship. And any guy that would put the moves on another man's woman after Steve welcomed him into their little club is a major sleazeball. My guess is Steve is a major cheapskate. Doesn't he get like $1800 in SS plus a bunch more in UA-cam revenue yet lives in a tiny modest apt and doesn't seem to go anywhere or do much. Seems he's always counting his pennies and living well below what his finances would allow.
@@collectivesoulify It's well known that he lives a frugal lifestyle because he's planning years ahead and is concerned about unpredictable inflation and medical costs. Under normal circumstances, a Filipina would be happy to find a man who is able to support her and accept her kid....unless somebody else come around with a bigger wallet and better promises. I don't know all that happened there but one thing I know for sure....people are unpredictable and it's best to always have plan B and plan C in the drawer. At least he wasn't so gullible to buy land and build a house, cuz that would've been the first thing to lose along with his gf. Currently, he's having serious mobility issues, at a time when he'd need the help and comfort of his gf most. That tells me something about her character.
I've learned never change a person from who they are to what you want them to be. If you show a woman that is timid how to grow a pair.. she will use that same pair on you, everytime. I had a gf that loved to jump on my back. I would only subdue her till she calmed down. Thought that shit was cute until the day she learned to subdue me! Wasn't cute anymore when ur pinned down by a female and having to tap her like pls let me go. Moral of the story dont show women anything you want used against you.
Scotty boy, you're a cool guy and you should be really in demand there, so do yourself a huge favor, look for a girlfriend but tell her up front, hey I'm Scotty boy, I'm hear to live life on my terms, your welcome to come along for the ride but i call the shots, I think you're cute and your a ncie girl but I'm not gonna deal with a girl who's gonna try to call the shots or tell me how to spend my weekends. I think you'd be shocked that there are a surpirsing amount of girls who will respect you more for doing that then they will if you try to please them and compromise.
Really? 45 year old boy who can't sit still goes around spreading Chismas. There's a saying, upper class talk ideas, middle class talk about things and lower class talk about other people. Grow up.
Off topic, just wanted to comment regarding your live chat on walking st. 2days ago , It was an lost opportunity to make money, the live chat dropped and it was buffering a lot,. I saw you in the Russian live chat a few days ago and his connection was crystal clear. Probably a good idea to get a better phone or whatever the Russian has coz u rely on superchats and members, if u serious should plan live chats so followers can tune in. Hope u succeed, enjoying ur material
I dont know anything about the Gio/ging relationship. I just went to her channel and looks like she doesn't upload anymore. I guess Gio lifted her up as far as she needed?
Ging has so many guys sending her monthly support dollars she no longer needs to post video's. All she needs to do now is stay home and video chat them to make sure the cash keeps coming in every month. Boy sometimes I wish I was a Filipina with a job like that. It's EASY money brother and Ging living on easy street by Filipino standards.
1:06 Hi! Regular Guy. I've been following your channel. You're amazing! - in that you have been "exploring" around the Philippines, and telling about the truth in life, where one can also learn from your own experiences! For example: You mentioned how foreigner with low pension can live in Philippines. Then, about "choosing" the right "dream woman", which not necessarily based on their social status, but based on their "INNER HEART, & though poor but with "brain & talents." It's just they happened to be in a "wrong place at a wrong time." But some are truly industrious! - not after money, but "real life". I think, your thoughts exactly what a proverbs says: "Charm may be false, and beauty may be fleeting, But the woman who...will be praised." ( proverbs 31:30) Yes, it's nice to continue searching, not from outwardly appearance, which may be "tricky", but what counts in long run term is inside her inner heart & genuine personality.
Thanks for sharing . I would like to comment about the leaving a big tip in the restaurant. The local poeple in S.E.Asia dont tip, its not in there culture. So come on! When in Rome. 😊 cheers, Fox1
I love the way you trash Gio. What do you know about his new girl, Maya? She’s another Ging and started her new channel. Has the same attitude as Ging.
I've dated an expat just once and I’ve learned my lesson. He is a good man but we ended up being good friends because we have different culture, beliefs and he really don't know what he really want in life 😅. So I set him free. I am a filipina and having a foreign man in my life for the first time is so overwhelmed. But I don't know why I still miss him 😅. It's not about his generosity, because I have a job that can support my needs but maybe because of how he treated me and respect me as a woman. 🥹
I've a fillipino girlfriend she is the best she never tried to take advantages of me she lovese for who i am but after seeing this video and the comments i am having shitty thoughts now
Another masterpiece Scotty Boy, I really appreciate what you do. Truer words have never been spoken and I agree with you completely about Gio. The guy is a slimeball and not worthy of any truly decent Filipina. Karma will get him in the end. I have un subscribed from his channel and don't want anything more to do with him.
Gio has been a slimeball from the beginning and has been exposed on channels such as Myk's Philippine Journey. Unfortunately, many "dreamers" have gotten sucked into his charade....
FYI boys... Decades ago. Tom Leykis taught this in Leykis 101. Do not get married. He taught all the tricks and hard truth of relationships. You've been warned.
I recently met a Filipina online and until now all seems good but I know what you mean. I‘m not sure what I should do. Should i try it and keep on taking to hear and stuff or should I stop it? I really don’t wanna to be cheated on and only taken for money. We are both in our mid-20s
I've been with a Filipina for 3 years now, the only advice I can give is be cautious but don't throw it away right now. Keep talking to get and follow your heart and gut feeling. Not all Filipinas are the same, there's a lot of humble and genuine girls. Yes there's some golddiggers but let's be honest, aren't they everywhere? If you want I can talk more to you about it.
Both right and wrong, do you say that we need to keep them poor and stupid ? Just keep them in the bedroom and use them ?. Of cause there is a risk by learning them to stand on own feet, earning money or take education, Just make sure you control your money(Dont buy a house/land/car/investment) in her name. I agree its just plain stupid to give 500 php tip or done 300$ and exspect something special, just a stupid as go in a bar with stuffed wallet and show around. We cant fight against it, Prices go up and service down, before you could "live like a king" for 1000$ a month, now its more 2 or 3 times that. Girls in the Philippines is still way better than in the West, but its slowly change. We are lucky to still have this chance, in 20 years time ? it would likely be gone.
My biological mother who is Filipina did this to my dad and he went through the same thing and even put me and sisters through turmoil with her selfish living. Took all of his money and spent it on herself and cheated on him multiple times, went to the club all hours of the night once she got to America while me and my sisters would be home alone. He told me how it was when they first started dating and it was like she was a completely different person, sweet, polite caring. I support American men going abroad and finding traditional women, especially considering how shit American women have become, but just find the right one and keep your guard up until you KNOW KNOW that she’s the one and won’t screw you over.
Better yet--keep them in their home country. Don't take them to the West.
The reason was he took her to America. That's the problem
Wow. This was an interesting read. I'm sure you and your sister are doing great now. Also sorry to hear that you had to deal with that. Looks like you gained some wisdom and are sharing your wisdom
I agree with this. I also had a humble, cute, innocent, sweet filipina gf. I lifted her up thinking she’ll be more loyal and thankful to me. I thought she would appreciate it. But no. She started cheating after I lifted her up. It felt like everything I have given and taught to her, she used against me. We probably would still be together and she probably would still be the same old cute, innocent, and simple loving feminine pretty filipina if I did not lift her up. Lift her up, and you pay the price! Its so true.
At least you will know in the future
You have to leave them wanting friend.........always leave them wanting and don't give them
you guys are sick. if a woman truly loves a man, none of this lifting up money shit makes a difference. This happens when romantic feelings were faked. Come on man
What do you mean lift her up?
@@puertoricanpapi1356by augmenting her quality of life on a long term by money most likely
I just dumped her. And I haven’t even watched the whole video
lmao 🤣
I don't even have a GF yet & I'm dumping her
Yeah, and if I ever will get a gf, I will straight dump her.
😂😂😂💥👍
There’s another around the corner 😂
💡That's the BIGGEST simpmatic mistake that men make is lifting a woman up and propping her ass up on a pedestal, THINKING that she's gonna be loyal to his dumb ass because he put her there! MEN are 100% responsible for making a woman a monster by making her think she deserves EVERYTHING without working for it!💥😔
exactly correct !! simps are clueless as to how attraction works .. a woman has to EARN a man's adoration .. sad and pathetic thing is that probably 90% of men are simps
😛...did someone mention ass....You have to make them work for it otherwise how are they ever going to appreciate it...😂😂 so true.
Exactly. It makes life much harder for guys like us because I will never give in to any of these girls. If it means I never get pussy again than so be it.
It’s amazingly glorious being single, working only for me, myself and I without any complications!
Spot on. It’s a hard truth men must learn and realize. Great comment.
I've learned that province girls aren't necessarily better than city girls in the Philippines. I didn't expect that would be the case, but I think that a city girl with a job who knows the value of money from working for it often gives better results in a relationship than a province girl who gets everything handed to her. Get a humble city girl with her own job and let her keep working while you're together. Don't fall for the urge to have her quit her job so you can spend more time with her. Don't become the sugar daddy. Maybe following my advice is harder if you're very old and unattractive or disabled, so I understand if you gotta do what you gotta do, but that's just my two cents.
City/province/anything in between doesn't matter. If a person doesn't know the value of money and what it takes to earn it, manage it and hold onto it and you shower them with everything, well what do you expect?
@@Gurkha9 S.I.M.P.S
Exactly my thinking, find someone who's as equal to you in income, intellect, communication skills etc as possible. Everything won't be equal of course, but at least there should be an understanding by both of how to grow closer.
Good advice, and moving far away form her family is smart too.Especially being old and unattractive, we have to play our cards exactly right, or we set ourselves up for being scammed.A younger rich Filipino, is usually what these girls really want, and we are second pick.
@Calslooking, I wasn't clear, she should ideally not be very pooor but have enough income to live ok by Ph standards. That would lessen dependency on you.
I watched this last night and thought about it a little while. While I pretty much agree with your sentiments and your storytelling and ideas quite entertaining as always, there are a couple things to consider from the Filipina's side. One, just being seen with a foreigner may lower her value among her compatriots, and spending nights with us is a positive only if her family and community do not know about it or she gains considerably in terms of money or marriage. If she is known to be spending nights with one of us, and she returns without the foreigner, she suffers considerable loss of face, i.e., humiliation. Two, she may have quit a job or lost a job to take off with one of us on a jaunt she hopes will lead to marriage. Three, if the foreign guy is no fun in bed or generally, plus ugly, it's an even bigger sacrifice she's making. Four, what are the chances you've given her an STD? There are some that may not show symptoms but can affect her health down the road. (Get yourself thoroughly tested and examined before you go there, and not a bad idea to pay for her to get tested before you have sex.) Five, and the worst, did you leave her heartbroken? To what extent was she played? Day, months, YEARS? That's time wasted for her. No matter how good of a time she had with you, the memories just might be painful or like eating dust to her. So she takes a huge risk being with one of us. If she gets dumped, same thing. So leaving them "better" than we found them is only fair. "Better" in the sense that she is left with something to balance what she has given up to be with one of us. I know, we all seek to justify our actions to ourselves, but the points I've mentioned are real for the Filipina.
Wow I like your comment. Like my LDR story before , he left me heartbroken to the very extent though we never met in person but we are talking 8hrs a day via videocall and chats for 2 years, the memories is just so painful. But I believe he’s a good guy and a responsible Dad to his stepchildren, it’s just later he confessed to me that he’s living with a woman with kids while we are on a LDR.
@@KATHERINE-so5di sorry to hear he was dishonest :(
@@waltgreen8759 he was yes but I appreciate his courage to tell me the truth. After a decade I reached him out again and he told me everything.
be a man not a simp!
@@KATHERINE-so5di what the pinay i date was marry to her brother but not her brother had 1 year old kid she used American men her lazy hubby. for 9 months pay everything found she was marry. thats ok for her ?
I lived in The Philippines between 2010-2015 before Social Media and the Internet really empowered province girls . I knew this province girl who started off innocent until multiple men from all over the world started sending her money. I saw the gradual change. She started wearing designer clothes and bags and moved to Makati in a Condo. She thinks she’s the shit now.
She was a goldigger to begin with that was her motive
Filipinas are gold diggers !
Doing great with my girl. She isn’t a streamers, she isn’t a sex worker. Shes a hard working woman that makes enough to take care of herself. Not all filipinas are the same.
Mine to bro
Mine too bro
Mine to :)
Same here with mine
Certainly! And vice versa.
Totally agree. Men are too "Thirsty". Relax. I am going there because of the blue water, white sand beaches and beautiful kind people. When I meet a girl I like naturally, great. I will be kind but not give her "Everything" and make her an American. That's what I am leaving. Why create more? I already know where to go if I need some companionship. I am going there to live my dream of being on/or/near the beach. Not thirsty. To have a happy life and feel better. That's the dream. And creating another crazy woke feminist is a nightmare. Stop doing it guys. Don't try and "Change them for the better" they were already fantastic just the way they were. Humble.
couldnt of said it anybetter myself
Scotty, I think you are learning from what you said about Filipinas. "You are never Mr. Right but Mr. Right now". Great advice bro.
First come, first served
This is all women….why single out filipinas?
The are not yours, it's just your turn!
Two marriages taught me that woman can be extremely frugal until they are spending someone else’s money. Then it’s the sky’s the limit.
Two marriages. Slow learner huh?
@@bluedouchemark4685 Believed the Disney Fairy Tales that were fed to us all.
@@donmcdonald4874 better late than never! Some guys take 3 or 4😂
@@bluedouchemark4685 lol
I will 100% agree that many fhilpinas just expect foreigners to take them out to buy things all the time but I personally believe that you will automatically increase a fhilpinas lifestyle just by being together such in my case I always have the aircon on and always have food without any concern financially for myself I have been with the same fhilpina for almost 4 years and to this day she still doesn't want to spend money and luckly her family (who doesn't have much) never asked us for anything she still sends the same 5k she sent to her parents for many years before we ever met
Nice. Congratulations, brother!
Just be on your Ps and Qs and watch out for any red flags. I hope y’all live happily ever after frfr!
40 years ago my dad gave me the only advice he ever gave about women. He said if you find a woman in poverty and lift her up she will never be satisfied no matter how much you do for her.
Yes it's true and unfortunate
Why?
I think it depends on the girl and if you are actually in love with her or not. My girl loves being at home but also loves our trips when I visit. She isn't afraid to hold hands in public and also isn't afraid to kiss. I wasn't after just somebody to 'bang', but to also be a companion. Maybe it also depends on where she is from. My girl (fiancee) is from Northern Samar and is the sweetest thing.....
when you visit ?😊. and when your not there that money you send is a great time for her and local bf .want me to list the pinay i know that got pregnant while mr white guy was way ?
She's fucking a local pinoy guy, your just her sponser..grow up, and stop being so naive..
I think I hit the jackpot with my Filipina wife. She was dating a much older man. She was 23 and he was in his late 60's. He went to the phils and they got married and he had to go back to the U.S. for medical reasons. She was working on the visa paperwork while he was gone. Because she was a province girl from a very poor family, her birth certificate and other vital documents were messed up making it a very long process for her to get the documents fixed and do all the visa paperwork yada yada. This took 3 years. He came back to see her I think twice in that span. He sent her money but he was on a fixed income so she still worked. Finally she flew to the U.S. to be with him. 6 months later he dies from kidney failure. She was stuck with no money, family and very few friends. I met her about 2 months later. She was living in the worst apartment I have ever seen. (America) But, she was working and scraping by. We talked on the phone and text for a bit and then I went to see her. The rest is history. We have been together for 10 years. She is now 38 and I am 50. The point I am making is, she was still untainted by America and very humble. Considering what happened so fast. She never had time to jump on the Americanized train yet. She is humble and thankful to this day. We spend 6 months a year in the province and the other 6 months at our house in Florida. Bonus! I did not have to pay for all the costs associated with her green card. Moral is, sometimes you find someone who is worth your time and sometimes you need to cut your line a fish in another spot.
BS , only way get into usa need a sponsor need 2,400 usd a month min. place her to live , food, medical.has marry in 90 days she deported. if he dies boom your visa over. usa one the hardest place get a visa even if your marry.
@@hillbillyintheasia6122 If your replying to my comment, they were already married and she had a green card when she arrived into the U.S.
Yes, and the bedroom experience is exquisite. They look so great newd.
That’s lovely
@@bunso726 that's absolute correct, many people don't know anything about it, they just Love to talk lost of bvllshit.
A Pinay I used to date once told me Philippines is the hell on earth. Their family members even backstab each other out of jealousy. Don't expect them to think the way you do. Humans are more different from each other than we wish. Respect and keep distance.
& the middle east is the same that`s why filipinos likes going there.
I like living alone but don’t want to die alone. Life after 50 years old can change a person’s perspective. Just make it your plans all the time. If the gf doesn’t want to come along, so be it. Good video.
maybe hire a hot caretaker for $200 a month
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I have had a few situations where I live alone but have a fwb situation. I could never live with a woman 24/7. Maybe 24/2 or 3 days per week at most.
I met a beautiful American girl in Angeles who was touring the PI. We talked over a beer and she said she was frustrated that the foreigner guys do not pay attention to her. Inside I felt sorry for her but I had no interest either.
Quite happy with my pinay gf. We both don't work, she is a homebody and if she wants entertainment she goes over to a neighbour's house for chika chika. She is already happy when i get her an icecream when we get groceries. I do my own stuff and when i come home she is always happy to see me
I'm married to a wonderful Filipina now. We've been married and back in the US for 9 years. But my time as a single man in Cebu was an awesome experience.
Really? So it does happen? Do you have a large age gap?
how long were you single there for
@@buyerofsorts It happens, there are plenty of success stories out there. We are 8 years apart.
@@allanwatts8361 I went there 3 times, my first two trips I was single. So about 6 months total.
@@Wheelman1966 Thanks for the answer.
67, married twice and no gf since. I love the freedom. Going to bed when I'm tired, waking when I'm ready. Doing what ever moves me.
I'm no social butterfly and sometimes, most times, I dont want to talk, especially about someone elses crap.
My dog is perfect for that. He listens, is always intent to hang with me and loves me unconditionally.
Sex is overrated and not worth the price they put on it.
I am 67 also but hey if you are the man of the house then you decide when to go to sleep, get up, talk, etc. That is the beauty of not being a simp amd if your woman can´t handle that then NEXT. I also have a faithful dog (well not so much now as a new neighbor moved next door - a retired gringo (damn) who spoils him with food and letting him climb on the furniture so I see him less and less, except at food time when he rushes over!) but I still love that sex, i just don´t overpay for it in any way, shape or manner. Lots of nice women around here (Costa Rica) that appreciate a good loving man. I do have a weakness for Asian women though, so I believe the best of all worlds would be having a nice Filipina here in Costa Rica where I have 1st world medical care, I can own property and don´t have to run the A/C all the time plus potable water everywhere and reliable power and wi fi, plus only 2.5 hours to fly to Florida!
@@costaricasbestguide9906 Where do you live in Costa Rica? I have a Filipina wife, married 30 years and we will retire to Costa Rica in about 2 years. We will live above San Rafeal de Heredia. I'm 64 but feel younger. Currently live in Virginia.
I met my then gf pinay 8 yrs ago online,met her in person that yr 2016 ,the age gap was 13 yrs and we married this yr having a beautiful daughter of 6 yrs of age...my wife never has asked for money and willing to show receipts if i want to see such..im grateful for her and how honest,caring,and loving she is and i wish that for the rest of my life, so ty Philippines 🇵🇭 one could not be happier in life...
Scott, your point is well taken. However, if I am an older guy and I get a girl fresh, say at 20 years old, with minimal experience, and enjoy a close relationship w her til she reaches her mid-20s, I've enjoyed her best years. If I didn't lift her up somehow, she would get nothing in return for those years she spent on a guy far from his prime. Relationships are supposed to be give and take. Yes, if someone wanted to, he could manage to just take. In fact, I think that is what you blamed Geo for doing to that 18-year-old virgin. I don't think decent guys aspire to this behavior while at the same time, we don't wanna simp either. So important to weigh everything from all sides and keep it balanced.
She got spending time with yoh and probably enjoying nice perks like free meals and plane tickets to cool places. Since when are relationships lotteries where a person should get something whe it is done?
@@johngiraltbedford If she's young and trim and you are old and fat then pay up. You just have to take your clothes off and stand in front of a mirror and ask yourself..."If I was a girl would I fu*k that?" If the answer is 'no' then cough up 😆😆 let's not get delusional people 😆😆😆
Nothing turns a progressive, independent, liberated women into a conservative, traditional, frail woman faster than a waiter leaving the bill.
LMAO Absolute truth!
I'm not disagreeing with Scottie Boy, I think he's right. But let's see what happens with our boy when we fast forward 2 years from now, where he's at and what kind of content he's putting out on YT. Will he be married living in the province with a few children still doing YT? Or will he be in a city married with children teaching English at a school because being married to a filipina gives him citizenship? Only time will tell.
A bunch of Little Scotty boy's running around.
That's why these days I "date" only "pros". Everything is clear, both sides exchange exactly what each needs with no unrealistic expectations placed on either side and no hurt feelings for any party.
And you usually will get much more kindness, respect from them than from "amateur" gfs.
Lol could ya taste the cum from the last bf 😂…with kindness.
#metoo 😂 I got bigger fish to fry. Getting fit, buying myself nice things, riding my motorbike, going fishing 🎣 etc...
*Crap Game* 🎉
@@MikeRotchich lol regular stirring the pot. He’s looking for the right one ..in reality he wants the “ right one” . He’s pandering to a certain section …suffice to say ..GLTA ..
Here we call them the '20 minute girl'! 😅
Preach brothers!👍👍👍
You are so right about everything In this video. I just broke up with a woman in terasa rizal who's ex from Australia bought her a brand new never been lived in town house in a nice gated community then he cheated on her many times and finally left her for another woman and moved back to Australia. I am the first boyfriend she has had since their break up a couple years ago and I am definitely paying for how he spoiled and intiteled her attitude has become. There was no way that I could keep her happy no matter what I did or said and I told her many times that the reason that most men come to the Philippines is to get away from that kind of attitude but nothing I said or did for her could snap her out of the since of incitement that he has instilled in her so I had to end it. But what sucks is that I know she was a good woman before he turned her into a spoiled brat little princess and it hurt very much to leave her because I truly care deeply for her but as you said once a foreigner spoiled them to much they become a poison pill for the rest of us. The kicker in all of this is that I'm in my fiftys and so is she. I really did just want a mature woman my age to settle down with and spend the rest of my life with not once did I consider that a woman in the Philippines who was in their mid fiftys could be capable of such cruelty and deceit. She was so cold towards me at the end that it actually broke my heart. So keep up the good work spreading the truth and maybe do a Podcast about older phillippinas because they are quickly catching up with the younger ones when it comes to feeling entitled to any man's wealth.
Thank you
Wow I enjoyed reading that
the problem is probably you as much as it is her. "the truth will set you free, but first it's gonna piss you off". you picked the wrong person, not a match for your personality, if you even have a personality. don't blame her for your mistakes and/or expectations to be someone she isn't
@@Regular_Guyph You are a pathetic excuse for a man!
@@Regular_Guyph Roxette....It Must Have Been Love (but it's over now)😆😆😆charr..... How do I know it was love....she was 50....😆😆😆joke lang.
I appreciate this video. Makes a lot of sense. I’m 41 and I just decided this year that I’m going to get my passport and travel to Thailand and Philippines. (Passport bros) I started watching all these videos of tourist tipping girls so little. Now I see that’s little in MY eyes. I had it in my mind that I’m going to tip a lot more. I see now that I’ll be creating what I’m running from. Good video man.
follow your heart not the advice of a random youtuber. don't fall for the garbage these guys put out they're all trying to make money with clicks... he's wrong on many points and probably painting the picture he only wishes he could really live, but can't. it's about you and what you feel, not this guy. point is in the real world you should be a man and come here with a man's mindset. that means carry your own and give the woman what she needs, which is a man to look up to. you don't have to play games to do that, you can have one girl or many, a man is a man and leads as he chooses to lead. a woman will follow a good man, facts. have the guts to do what you feel is right, follow your heart and use common sense. btw putang is going to cost you no matter where you're at, whether it's a girlfriend or a bargirl it's gonna cost 15 to 80 we pay for that in one form or another. enjoy it
I’m doing the same thing brother, I’m 36 and heading off to check out the Philippines, Thailand and Vietnam this upcoming summer. See you over there haha.
Are sugar babies a thing in the Ph? They are everywhere in the states, UK, Aus.
oh yeah... the poorer areas the easier to find
The draw of the Philippines is the Filipina Sugar babies are WAY CHEAPER and far more readily available then the US, UK and Aus girls. One of my childhood friends is a multi-millionaire living here in southern California and he has a gorgeous sugar baby blonde. He's 59, she's 23. All I can say is lucky bastard, but at least I have the option of going to the Phil's and finding a sugar baby as any man who is a multi-millionaire in peso's will be enough for a Filipina sugar baby. I saw you live in Des Moines, Iowa, my mom's family has lived there since the 1860's on 3,000 acre farm.
@Regular Guy what kind of financial commitment is required? Here in Canada the going rate for a SB even outside of Toronto is $100 for a coffee, up to $400 for dinner, $600 to $1000 for private time, I have been told on chat boards.
@@danielhackney7806 how is he lucky lmfao
@@conq3097 girl here is maybe between 1500 - 5000 pesos for boomboom
Your #1 video so far Scotty Boy ! 😊. Spot on Buddy !
Great video Scotty. You are becoming my favorite Phils vlogger. The Duma Grandpas are ok, but you take it to the next level.
The Dumaguete Gang has pretty much ruined the dating scene there by bringing in a ton of SIMPS.
Fk the frog Reekay and Gio
Hi Scotty. I may be pushing 70, but I believe in finding the right one. I found love and religion . It was a bit late in life, but better late than never . I will never stray from my gorgeous, young Filipina wife of over 2 years now. Well , I can't anyway, because I can't walk very far .
Haven't you heard of the 4M's? Matandang, Mayaman, Madaling, Mamatay. Ask your wife what that is, she'll know ;-)
@Calslooking Impossible ! I am the love of her life and she is the love of my life . We have the perfect relationship. Go away .
@calslooking It's okay, God is by his side. He will never be lonely now. 😆😆😆charr
Filipinas will soon get to know you by word of mouth which spreads like wildfire and you’ll end up doing your vlogs in the Arctic…..
One thing about Pinays: They’ll make sacrifices to give you everything until they discover your true intentions are only self-serving!
There are definitely some rough sides to this, but compared to the US it's gotta be better. These western girls are insane. I'd rather go down there and actually get some (it's been sixteen years for me) than to have to go through all these hoops and deal with really awful women. Not only that, here in the US messing around with ladies of the night can land you with sex offender charges. The same as if you were to harm a child. That's how messed up the legal system is here. So no, it's not a good idea to take that risk and pay a worker until it's decriminalized.
I was thinking about waiting until I'm around 45-50 before heading that way, but I don't know what the dating scene will even be like down there by that time. Who knows, they might even get as bad as the American women and the best option I have would be like an AI or a VR thing or something, lol!
I have to say i have not been to the Philippines yet, but soon. I have been in LDR relationships and know many there in the last 3 years. I have friends locally here in America that have traveled there and have Filipina wives here now. I watch many vloggers there and seen many situations both foreigners and Filipina, I currently have online workers for business I started to help some there . They help me I help them it's positive win win situation. But i will say there is both good and bad foreigners and Filipina. But the main fact is whatever the situation or outcome it is all because the foreigner wanted to take their chance on travel, relationship or adventure. Usually because they were unhappy or couldn't make it work in America to be happy. So assume responsibility. I've seen many foreigners go to Philippines with a good attitude and find what they were searching and do well. Being kind , considerate, understanding and not selfish. Before traveling i understand that there may be a few scammers, many poor and needy and many who will ask for anything im willing to give. Thats no surprise for that emerging country. Sad to see so many foreigner men travel there and not understand or respect the Filipino people and their situation. Many Americans lost values and are spoiled rotten. I see men travel there and complain about it. Men going there and only looking for sex with various girls and many times leaving them heartbroken, pregnant or in a worse situation after having them quit a job for them. I see men who go there with a bad city boy attitude and change the modest Filipina into a sexy dressed ho like many foreign girls they couldn't get or despised. Why go there and disrespect another culture, and try to convert like disrespectful American women then leave them or complain about it to make yourself feel good and raise up your own ego or feel good about yourself. If you cant help or make something better than it was it shows poor character and principal. Remember they did not ask you to come without you searching it out. So take responsibility and make it a good and positive experience for both. A real good man will help or commit to what he searched and agreed to. Unfortunately i think many Filipina dont benefit themselves many times when meeting the wrong foreigners who only want sex and then leave them. Or filipinas committing to foreigner with bad attitude, too old or even alcoholic or drug use. I personally know a couple here and she didn't know she married an alcoholic and heavy smoker who probably soon have poor health because of drinking. But too late she already married. Please be real men and stand up and responsible for your decision to involve yourself in others lives and travel and relationship. I had a couple ldr and helped with many health and finances to improve for them and was my choice. And even my decision not to continue if it wasn't the relationship for me, i wished them happiness and success in their later relationship. If you put yourself in a Filipina life, then yes you should be responsible if you leave, to leave her same or better. Its only a good conscience. But the American ego attitude in the phils is only self serving, self expecting and greedy. God bless all and sana all.
Thank you! Men like this UA-camr are why middle-class and well-off Filipinas would never go for a foreigner. Also, from where I'm from, being with a foreigner will make you look bad.
Go on a date with girl #1, then the next day go out with girl #2, then the next day girl #3. Only meet them once per week. It's none of their business what you are doing when you are not with them. If the don't like it they can kick rocks. Only commit to one girl if she earns it and proves herself to be a good partner over time.
I love the channel and I told my wife about your view on women. "If he's happy alone, why interact with women at all." Well, I think he has a biological need which all men do. "Okay, then he should get a doll. Just like some women who don't need a man. They get a dog or a cat." Obviously not for the same purpose as the doll of course. :) Love your content and storytelling.
Well sir your wife is dumb 😅😅😅😅😅
Totally agree to get a doll . That doll will not ask you to be an ATM .
If you want happiness in a romantic relationship, be a Christian. Not an attender of some religious building whenever you feel guilty, but truly be born again. Then seek only women who are also sold out for Christ. Treat her righteously and then honor her and her family and marry her. Have this integrity. Anything less than this is just man's idea of how to find happiness and fulfillment and will not lead to the greatest life.
Don't have A girlfriend have girlfriends 😂
Better boyfriends,they will not get pregnant and life expenses will be shared not exclusive!
@@truthhurtsalways4u well said mate. It's a win win for everyone
The more the the more boom boom :)
Having a rotation gives them a performance incentive.
i do not recommend this, especially if you found a virgin girl, they are protected by the family and that betraying her can get u in jail or killed(gun for hire in ph). U can leave a relationship first so u can be free
Such a great talk on this video. I totally agree with your analysis about the lifting process. Western educated men still don’t get it about their own deep reason to go east and they keep creating monsters like they are spreading the plague. Are you preparing walking stock for your own stick figures videos ?
100
Time for men to get it through their dense skulls.
That's the problem with so many westerners hitting the Phillies now. Many babe-a-roonies now expect to be 'lifted up' by a foreigner and they have plenty of gullible Americans/Europeans to choose from. The dating scene in the cities has already changed dramatically since the country opened back up and foreigners showing up in droves.
Passport bros are really gonna learn the hardware that women are women, everywhere.
Im a filipino girl myself and honestly just watching this video makes me feel embarrassed about half of the filipina girls..sure some Filipina girls are from a poor family some from a rich family watching this in a filipina view is funny but also has your whole world collapsing because if your filipina gf is loyal to you and you see this video and you decided to break up with her cause of the title "BREAK UP WITH YOUR FILIPINA GIRLFRIEND NOW" just proves that some people may not like us cause we get it Philippines is a rich but poor country nothing to be ashamed about but not all of us are cheating shits -_-
Finally someone who understands me😁😁👌
We are an odd breed
Get back in the kitchen …ya bit##. 😂..
non simp men are definitely in the minority
@@paulthurson Filipina like strong men …no bs…unless they are bullshit*rs.
i've never been to the phils or SE asia, but being from the US and having had my fill of Asians of all sizes, types, and ages I got to tell you I'm starting to dig the cute chubby 40 something working pinay owns her own home, is submissive and says I can move in and live for free and is still 15 years younger than me! 🙂
Fat chance old timer
She’s gonna be a whale by the time she moves abroad
my 15 year younger pinay is supporting me - i'm not old enough for my pension yet - its awesome
How to succeed in the philipines- watch what Gio does and do the opposite. He;s basically made every mistake in the book and gone through the trouble of putting it all on display!!!
Hahaha
After many years spent on dating Gio got single mother it is warning to other people do not belive you tube videos ... situation is getting harder every day
@@doctorinvizible2077 Wow, harder every day???
Is it really that bad?
Aren't there still parts of the philipines where the women are much more traditional?
Traditional Filipina don't like limelight or spotlight. Those are pretty, educated and totally single Filipina
I've know where to find them. But foriegner from west love single mom.😅
@@thaimayoree1494 Oh, I have a strict rule, no single mom's allowed, only single dads should go for single momsbut for me it's not Ok. Where can we look for more traditional Filipinas???
2 points to make, includes why I will NEVER Patreon a Filipina again.
1st in Ging's defense...what is she supposed to say or do when called out about a donation? I blame the man for thinking he should get anything other than putting money in her pocket. One has to be stupid to think she'll just fall to her knees and think he's the only one donating.
My experience was with Jenn "Your Little Pinay." I decided a year ago to Patreon her just 5 bucks a month, and with no expectations...just help a small channel grow.
And what happened? She was on a SE Asia tour uploading. Her last video she was in Thailand. Then...she suddenly stopped uploading. Not even a hint she would stop or pause in anyway.
WTF! She couldn't make a very short video that she will stop? She didn't care enough to have people think something awful could have happened to her? So she recently uploaded, after 9 months, explaining why 😂. And the said part was all the SIMPS saying " no need to apologize"...! If there is any Filipina that would be considered innocent, it would be her. But just look what happened...just as selfish as they all become as they get in alot of cash.
This experience is exactly why I laugh my ass off at those who Patreon/donate to vloggers like pea who thinks she'll notice. Jenn has the fraction of subs pea has, but managed to build her grandparents a home and travel... again like I say all the time imagine how much pea makes, and stupid men on her channel donate with expectations 😂😂
you've described in perfect detail the stereotypical 'pathetic SIMP ' it's THEIR fault the woman becomes that way yes .. simps THINK that by giving things/$$$/lifting up etc to a woman WITHOUT her having to EARN it will make the woman like him/be attracted to him .. when the exact OPPOSITE is the case .. clueless pathetic idiots smh
I think the Pea is by far the best female vlogger with help of course . She is not attractive to me however but again her content is excellent and all that matters .
Haha you were really one of those orbiters huh. I've never been that guy
@@angry_Australia again, I had no expectations other than just to help growth...even saw the 2 videos of her bragging about 2 subs sending her 1000s worth of video equipment before I joined. Besides what's 5 a month? What got me was how she stopped uploading, not even a hint that she would stop. Just shows the kind of person she really is.
Also she admitted to having her fiance doing all the camera work, so I can imagine how those 2 feel about sending all that equipment and finding out she's engaged 🤣🤣
@@usaalways The mental gymnastics..
First you correctly observe that 'One has to be stupid to think she'll just fall to her knees and think he's the only one donating.'
Then you go on telling us you are upset because 'What got me was how she stopped uploading'.
Look, you volunteered to become her monthly sponsor, and there is no difference between having a big 1-hit wonder or paying every month. You both "lifted her up", you both contributed to her becoming "strong and independent" woman, needing no man..
You can try to justify this as much as you want, telling there is a difference between one big $300 vs a monthly small $5 monthly sponsor. The fact is, they are both women, and they both behave the same, and you should know this. I do not see any difference between your response and the $300 dude response. Just have a look if we change the statement a little:
'One has to be stupid to think she'll just fall to her knees and think he's the only one donating $5 a month' ??
Well that is thirteen and a half minutes of my life that I will never get back!
I love this video so much. You hit it right on the nail. Don’t come to the philippines to change there life. No lifting her up
Wow, quite a rant, Scottyboi! A tip, find a mature lady who's more emotionally stable and has a decent income who only wants you for love and companionship. She will not be spoiled, and will truly appreciate what you can give. May seem hard to find, but there are some jewels.
What a load of BS! If she has a cell phone, FB....she is spoiled rotten!
@yngvesognen1092
Did we watch the same vlog? I saw a rant about simps/uplifters spoiling PH. I didn't see anything about Scotty having problems. As the matter of fact, @12:05 Scotty specificly mention that he and his generation are ok, but simping will make it different for the next generation if simps do not stop..
wishful thinking
plenty of good girls. but women like to use men, it's in there genes. sitting on a goldmine, would u too?
oldest prof in the world???
@@harryeisermann2784, so all of a sudden it's gone from finding the right lady to leave me alone and let me do what I want to do?
Between those two extremes there are many shades. It may take some time, but it is possible to find something that works.
"Lift her up, and you pay the price!" . That rant at the end was epic. I hope the guys understand it (doubtful).
When you look for your mistresses in the slums is exactly what you get. LOL. So do not complain -
Great and true vid. Agree 5000 % with u....
I have been with my filipino girlfriend for over six years. In the beginning of our relationship I have had her investigated...twice. When I visited her in her province, I tested her again. Well, all those tests thrown at her provided consistent results. I no longer test her, as doing so would just be outright mean. She is the best thing to happen to me. Mahal na mahal, Rosalia.
you mean std testing?
@@Regular_Guyph I had her investigated.
@@shawnstatzer95 what do you truly mean by investigation bro??
@@vishalrajoria8363 I had her checked to see if she was running scams.
@@vishalrajoria8363 investigation just mean background checks...
Don't be a Simp - Gentleman - YOU ARE THE PRIZE - not the women - Live your life that way.
Above all, peace and self determination are what pleases a man. You do you Scotty!
Excellent! Good to question ideas from UA-cam. Some Men move too fast and then complain. There are consequences to not fully knowing and understanding who one is involved with romantically.
Actually Ging is pregnant from a filipino that she lives with, not some foreign subscriber, and she's living in a little village in Bayawan, doing fb selling of clothes. And i fully understand drama gets views, but i highly doubt anyone gets with someone with the sole purpose of leaving them later. So in that case i see nothing wrong with wanting to make your partners life better. Ya, some things dont work out, but that wasnt thw goal, was it. Seems your rhetoric is based on your limited local experience with the girls here, all of which are probably.... lets say... less than innocent, to sat the least. Let me know if youd like some facts about certain people youre bashing here, as most all of what you just said was either false, oppinion or just conjecture. Believe me though, the truth is more boring and wont get you views, so never mind.
Well said Justin
I typically just say "Keep Change", I find that people are grateful even if it's only 20 PHP.
I prefer not having change in my pocket, and I do not understand the centavo coins.
I also never give to beggars, didn't do it when I lived in Canada, didn't do it when I lived in the States, won't do it here.
I will buy water from a vendor at a stop light, or whatever they're selling.
I prefer to buy local as I feel it better helps the local economy instead of some corporation.
I came here with very little and earn only a tiny pension. My Filipina wife, little boy am I have our own little block house jammed in between family houses here in a fishing village in the province. She raises about 15 pigs and about 100 chickens. She does it all herself, plus a Sari Sari store, does all of the shopping, cooking, cleaning, washing, etc., etc. She feels the sun shines out of me, even though I am a grumpy old grouch. I am her King. She gave me that vow in marriage and I gave her the same vow. I guess we are simply blessed.
Glad I didn't "lift her up" 🙏
The Philippine government discourages foreigners from lifting Filipinas up and just leaving ti ur home country. They don’t want these folks to go back to poverty and it’s better for them to attempt to lift themselves up from poverty.
b.s. the goverenment helps pinay extort money from foreigners . i have horrible true storys . its no different than the usa divorce courts . they reward pinay who have stolen and sold property and issues arrest warrants against the foreigner
Awesome video Scotty boy!! I really love the way you drop the chismes on other philly willy vloggers...thats the way to capture our attention and increase your views...you do it like noone else can! As for lifting up the girls, I agree with you to a certain extent...its like anything else...like drinking or partying...it should be done in moderation, not to excess..otherwise that thing you are enjoying will be ruined...same goes for your Filipina gf...all in moderation.
As for tipping....gawwdd that is a subject that I am furious about...to begin with ...I am one that hates the whole byzantine antiquated concept of tipping the poor slave or servant because we are so rich and they are so poor....that was an ancient custom that we humans have been too stupid to get rid of. It is the employers responsibility to pay their employees an appropriate wage and then tell us what their price is for their service, that way we are not stuck with the awkward second calculation (and second cost!) of how much to tip....its absolutely ridiculous! Just look at what occurs in the US, being a waiter or bartender at a good restaurant is a prized job because with tips they can make a hell of a lot of money...more than someone that has a regular 9 to 5 job! In the US...it is now a common occurrence that the customer doing the tipping earns less money at his/her job than the person they are giving the tip to!! How stupid and upside down is that?!
There is NO TIPPING in Australia................just as there is NO TIPPING in Philippine law whatsoever!.....I blame Americans for ruining that for everyone!
@@jimw7916 I praise any country or culture that does not have tipping. Good job Australia!
@@jimw7916 bro, we blame ourselves. It’s gotten totally out of hand.
@@jasonburrow4551 the thing is they grow to expect it and, being an Australian our dollar costs alot more to keep up with American tips.
After watching this, and reading the comments.... I'm NOT gonna be a lifter upper!!! Thanks, Scotty!!
Loved your take on this. And it's very true where can a guy with really little cash be a big roller? And then you find out exactly what you said. You have created a monster. Great video
The guys with little cash are now competing against guys with more cash.
I couldn’t agree with you more!
We lift them up to feel good about yourself.
Men stroking their own egos that’s all it is. A simping disaster in the making
A recurring theme in Phils vlogs is a lack of finances on the part of the expat
Lack of finances because they lead with their wallets. They are being replaced by a new set of foreign tourists who haven't gotten soaked yet.
The SIMP community is just sickening to watch on youtube (and twitch) and it will surely ruin the girls who are making money doing nothing online.
I hope guys will listen to you on this subject. Another thing is freely paying the foreigner price and giving supper big tips. This has already screwed things up for us and now we are thought of as ATMs
. The whole point of going to some of these places is the cost is cheap. But tourists go and teach the localsn to jack the price up 5 times they don't mind it still cheap for them.
YT vloggers have helped to lure a ton of western men to the Phillies...The result is disastrous and is changing the dating scene rapidly. Wherever you see a bunch of foreigners, expect higher prices and picky women!
lol "the whole point". what a joke. as a traveler i don't give a shit what's left behind for other foreigners. i'm gonna spend what i like, to my wallet, and enjoy it. why should i care about broke dick expats coming over looking for cheap putang? they can have what they can afford, if they can't afford, stay home
That is what has happened in Columbia from what I've read. Especially with apartments.
Scotty boy, you are leading innovators towards an important direction many people do not yet have the capacity to understand or appreciate. Please keep it going and im going to try to continue after your work with technological innovation. YOU ARE CORRECT ☑️
This is why renting is better than buying. You keep most of your money and still get to experience all the flavors in the candy store.
Hell yeah!😜😜😜
@Paulo Nunes They're never exclusive to you, it's just your turn.
@Paulo Nunes me too, no less than a virgin...😂 why would I get used?😂
@@paulonunes7584Finally someone with some sense. It amazes seeing the mentality of some dudes. Their “logic” is to stay away from 304s from their home country only to make more 304s in another?
This is one reason why many of my filipina friends afraid to date men from west because most men in west are just playing.
Look up AV in the Philippians, his wife/girlfriend is dumping him after buying land and he is currently building a house. The poor guy is in for a world of hurt while his woman looks for a richer man
She actually told him that he's not good enough for her and she deserves better. Can you imagine? This is why you don't lift women up. They're all the same in the end.
This idiot is doing exactly what we should avoid! He'll pay a heavy price for sure.
You spoke nothing but the truth!
A Filipina is not a slam dunk in the relationship game--you run the same risks as with any woman. Filipinas do tend or trend towards the more traditional roles so that can be a good thing for any relationship and will prove less combative, feisty, etc.
"Epic Rant" that is spot on truth!!! Don't ever change my brother from another mother.
I saw your recent short, and I love to have that experience there! That being said, there's "another" filipina that said go to Philippines 🇵🇭 for relationships and go to Thailand 🇹🇭 for anything else! I Great story tho
I'll go to Phil for everything and relationships
In many areas, Filipinas are becoming picky because there's a ton of foreigners showing up with open wallets!
TIM K LIFTED HERE UP SONE SHE DIVORSE BUT SHE WAITING 4 HIM TO GET MORE MONEY FROM PARENTS FIRST 💯😅😂😅👍👍
Man, big and excellent topic!! Why I'm thinking that the main reason foreigners visiting there is exactly this? Lifting up, not exactly lifting up, mostly to feel themselves fulfilled. I'm thinking, once you are surrounded there by an "army" of poor women, that the only thing they can offer to you, best case scenario, is accommodation, guidance and most probably companion for whatever amount, somehow you have to lift them up. 90% of women there seeing other girls being lifted, they imitate one each other. Even the recent video with the " OLD DOG " he stated for his wife: " If I die tomorrow, I am sure that she will have a land and a house on top of her head. " Without meaning anything bad about that. She is his wife, and it is normal, but it is still a lifting. Somehow, foreigners lifting up the women there with one or other way. It is not possible for a turi$t visiting there and just accompanied from a poor roonie to not lift her. Touri$t want to eat, travel, and chill with a girl that she earns no more than $200 per month. How is it possible to follow him, even if she is attracted by him, if she will not be lifted by the touri$t? I know you are mentioning the nonsense gift$ to "one moment " girls. It is stupidity. But, if you noticed, even in the SLUM areas, one out of two ronies they got smart phones, and even they don't know what's next happening, but they know others "successful" stories from companion with foreigner touri$ts... Great topic
Hilarious video. Interesting about Steve at PI info, I've heard he's already had several failed relationships over there yet has the nerve to give out advice about women. Seems to be a lot of naïve and inexperienced men going over there being played for fools. I believe in treating a woman right, but at the first sign of her playing games I'd immediately dump her. Some guys just don't have any sense.
Steve, a nice man, is learning hard lessons in the Phillies for sure. He's competing with the passport bros now. He's been bringing lots of westerners to his "paradise".
@@garyzies3486 Well you have to wonder why a woman he's been with for a number of years would just get up and leave him like that. It's not like she was some young hottie who was likely to attract much male attention. Perhaps he wasn't so much the "nice" family man he presented himself as being.
@@collectivesoulify We don't know all the details for sure. What we do know is that Steve brought a bunch of foreigners to his area and that his girl left him for one of them.
@@garyzies3486 True, maybe she's just a bad woman. Steve was not only supporting her but her kid too, just seems odd she would throw that away and take up with someone else unless there were serious issues in their relationship. And any guy that would put the moves on another man's woman after Steve welcomed him into their little club is a major sleazeball. My guess is Steve is a major cheapskate. Doesn't he get like $1800 in SS plus a bunch more in UA-cam revenue yet lives in a tiny modest apt and doesn't seem to go anywhere or do much. Seems he's always counting his pennies and living well below what his finances would allow.
@@collectivesoulify It's well known that he lives a frugal lifestyle because he's planning years ahead and is concerned about unpredictable inflation and medical costs. Under normal circumstances, a Filipina would be happy to find a man who is able to support her and accept her kid....unless somebody else come around with a bigger wallet and better promises. I don't know all that happened there but one thing I know for sure....people are unpredictable and it's best to always have plan B and plan C in the drawer. At least he wasn't so gullible to buy land and build a house, cuz that would've been the first thing to lose along with his gf. Currently, he's having serious mobility issues, at a time when he'd need the help and comfort of his gf most. That tells me something about her character.
I've learned never change a person from who they are to what you want them to be. If you show a woman that is timid how to grow a pair.. she will use that same pair on you, everytime. I had a gf that loved to jump on my back. I would only subdue her till she calmed down. Thought that shit was cute until the day she learned to subdue me! Wasn't cute anymore when ur pinned down by a female and having to tap her like pls let me go. Moral of the story dont show women anything you want used against you.
Very true
Scotty boy, you're a cool guy and you should be really in demand there, so do yourself a huge favor, look for a girlfriend but tell her up front, hey I'm Scotty boy, I'm hear to live life on my terms, your welcome to come along for the ride but i call the shots, I think you're cute and your a ncie girl but I'm not gonna deal with a girl who's gonna try to call the shots or tell me how to spend my weekends. I think you'd be shocked that there are a surpirsing amount of girls who will respect you more for doing that then they will if you try to please them and compromise.
Really? 45 year old boy who can't sit still goes around spreading Chismas. There's a saying, upper class talk ideas, middle class talk about things and lower class talk about other people. Grow up.
god you make me laugh !, your very obvious how you feel about Gio lol
Off topic, just wanted to comment regarding your live chat on walking st. 2days ago , It was an lost opportunity to make money, the live chat dropped and it was buffering a lot,. I saw you in the Russian live chat a few days ago and his connection was crystal clear. Probably a good idea to get a better phone or whatever the Russian has coz u rely on superchats and members, if u serious should plan live chats so followers can tune in.
Hope u succeed, enjoying ur material
This is a very thoughtful comment. 👍👍👍
I dont know anything about the Gio/ging relationship. I just went to her channel and looks like she doesn't upload anymore.
I guess Gio lifted her up as far as she needed?
Ging has so many guys sending her monthly support dollars she no longer needs to post video's. All she needs to do now is stay home and video chat them to make sure the cash keeps coming in every month. Boy sometimes I wish I was a Filipina with a job like that. It's EASY money brother and Ging living on easy street by Filipino standards.
@@danielhackney7806 oh I have 2 points to make about that
I guess she is on maternity leave? 😊
Dam..that there was cold bloodied...but 100% the truth...keeping it real ...much respect brother...
1:06 Hi! Regular Guy. I've been following your channel. You're amazing! - in that you have been "exploring" around the Philippines, and telling about the truth in life, where one can also learn from your own experiences! For example: You mentioned how foreigner with low pension can live in Philippines. Then, about "choosing" the right "dream woman", which not necessarily based on their social status, but based on their "INNER HEART, & though poor but with "brain & talents." It's just they happened to be in a "wrong place at a wrong time." But some are truly industrious! - not after money, but "real life". I think, your thoughts exactly what a proverbs says: "Charm may be false, and beauty may be fleeting, But the woman who...will be praised." ( proverbs 31:30) Yes, it's nice to continue searching, not from outwardly appearance, which may be "tricky", but what counts in long run term is inside her inner heart & genuine personality.
Thanks for sharing .
I would like to comment about the leaving a big tip in the restaurant.
The local poeple in S.E.Asia dont tip, its not in there culture.
So come on! When in Rome. 😊 cheers, Fox1
Wow great video I agree with all you said. Keep them coming.
love is overrated, stay single
Very sense able and makes alot of sense alot of dudes should take his advise
Been in RP since 1973. Every word you say is true!
a SPOT ON great video !!! TRUTH 100%
I love the way you trash Gio. What do you know about his new girl, Maya? She’s another Ging and started her new channel. Has the same attitude as Ging.
Yeah, you´d think he would have learned his lesson...
I've dated an expat just once and I’ve learned my lesson. He is a good man but we ended up being good friends because we have different culture, beliefs and he really don't know what he really want in life 😅. So I set him free. I am a filipina and having a foreign man in my life for the first time is so overwhelmed. But I don't know why I still miss him 😅. It's not about his generosity, because I have a job that can support my needs but maybe because of how he treated me and respect me as a woman. 🥹
I've a fillipino girlfriend she is the best she never tried to take advantages of me she lovese for who i am but after seeing this video and the comments i am having shitty thoughts now
Another masterpiece Scotty Boy, I really appreciate what you do. Truer words have never been spoken and I agree with you completely about Gio. The guy is a slimeball and not worthy of any truly decent Filipina. Karma will get him in the end. I have un subscribed from his channel and don't want anything more to do with him.
Gio has been a slimeball from the beginning and has been exposed on channels such as Myk's Philippine Journey. Unfortunately, many "dreamers" have gotten sucked into his charade....
FYI boys... Decades ago. Tom Leykis taught this in Leykis 101. Do not get married. He taught all the tricks and hard truth of relationships. You've been warned.
scotty stingy, or cannot afford buying breakkie in the morning, be honest please...
I recently met a Filipina online and until now all seems good but I know what you mean. I‘m not sure what I should do. Should i try it and keep on taking to hear and stuff or should I stop it? I really don’t wanna to be cheated on and only taken for money. We are both in our mid-20s
I've been with a Filipina for 3 years now, the only advice I can give is be cautious but don't throw it away right now. Keep talking to get and follow your heart and gut feeling. Not all Filipinas are the same, there's a lot of humble and genuine girls. Yes there's some golddiggers but let's be honest, aren't they everywhere? If you want I can talk more to you about it.
Seems like you have a lot of growing and maturing to do.
Both right and wrong, do you say that we need to keep them poor and stupid ? Just keep them in the bedroom and use them ?. Of cause there is a risk by learning them to stand on own feet, earning money or take education, Just make sure you control your money(Dont buy a house/land/car/investment) in her name. I agree its just plain stupid to give 500 php tip or done 300$ and exspect something special, just a stupid as go in a bar with stuffed wallet and show around. We cant fight against it, Prices go up and service down, before you could "live like a king" for 1000$ a month, now its more 2 or 3 times that. Girls in the Philippines is still way better than in the West, but its slowly change. We are lucky to still have this chance, in 20 years time ? it would likely be gone.