Very helpful information. Just a note on the fact that out of community with accrual doesn't become in community when you marry. Even with accrual you are never liable for your partner's debts. This regime only affects the assets during divorce, the fact that you have to share what has been accrued. I guess it becomes a disadvantage if your partner doesn't make anything of themselves after the marriage or you accumulate a much greater net worth than your partner. But in all honesty even the partner with less has probably contributed to their partner's success in non-tangible ways during the marriage.
Personally, I think 50/50 on child support is unfair because it's never 50/50 with emotional presence, cooking and washing for the kid, as well as baby sitting. The woman has much to do for the kid on a daily basis, including helping with homeworks & attending parents' meetings and school sports day, we all know that men mostly never attend. The law is flawed on this one
@@madams___speaker It won't be a challenge for any focused woman. Personally, I wouldn't mind that because it will relieve me of the emotional burden of always having to take care of everything concerning the child, it will also give me time to chase my dreams. My only concern is that we all know for sure that the dad will most probably not be the one taking care of the kid, it will likely be the new woman in his life doing that, and it is my responsibility to ensure that my child is not abused by that woman. Otherwise, I'd be more than happy for him to do all the "taking care"
@@ndiboe_m1496 I don’t see myself letting go of my kids for whatever reason, so for me it would be a big challenge. But I totally agree with you on the relief part if the dad takes the kid. I for one was raised by my dad coz my mom is late, so there are men who are actually hands on when it comes to parenting. They take all the stress that comes with it. Otherwise the safety of the kids come first, as well as the willingness to be the primary caregiver of the child. The issue of him giving the baby to his other woman to raise is inevitable, because some of us are primary caregivers but we have helpers , which is more or less the same as your ex taking the kid and having his new partner help take care of your kid.
Very helpful information. Just a note on the fact that out of community with accrual doesn't become in community when you marry. Even with accrual you are never liable for your partner's debts. This regime only affects the assets during divorce, the fact that you have to share what has been accrued. I guess it becomes a disadvantage if your partner doesn't make anything of themselves after the marriage or you accumulate a much greater net worth than your partner. But in all honesty even the partner with less has probably contributed to their partner's success in non-tangible ways during the marriage.
Thank you so much for this clarity . I’ll pin it to the top ❤️❤️🙏🏿🙏🏿
I'm learning a lot from you. I really appreciate you.
Thank you so much 🙏🏿❤️
What an informative conversation ❤I’m still young but I’m learning a lot here
I’m happy that young people are learning from this so they never have to suffer like us ❤️❤️
We need help on how to get the out of community property contract after the lobola has started.
The first caller, Yoh it's draining hle💔. It's so sad for first the child.
It’s sad 😞 but atleast she can solve it by just approaching the maintenance court
Personally, I think 50/50 on child support is unfair because it's never 50/50 with emotional presence, cooking and washing for the kid, as well as baby sitting. The woman has much to do for the kid on a daily basis, including helping with homeworks & attending parents' meetings and school sports day, we all know that men mostly never attend. The law is flawed on this one
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You have a valid point. Although this can be a bit of a challenge for you If the father then says give me the baby and pay maintenance instead.
@@madams___speaker It won't be a challenge for any focused woman. Personally, I wouldn't mind that because it will relieve me of the emotional burden of always having to take care of everything concerning the child, it will also give me time to chase my dreams. My only concern is that we all know for sure that the dad will most probably not be the one taking care of the kid, it will likely be the new woman in his life doing that, and it is my responsibility to ensure that my child is not abused by that woman. Otherwise, I'd be more than happy for him to do all the "taking care"
@@ndiboe_m1496 I don’t see myself letting go of my kids for whatever reason, so for me it would be a big challenge. But I totally agree with you on the relief part if the dad takes the kid. I for one was raised by my dad coz my mom is late, so there are men who are actually hands on when it comes to parenting. They take all the stress that comes with it. Otherwise the safety of the kids come first, as well as the willingness to be the primary caregiver of the child. The issue of him giving the baby to his other woman to raise is inevitable, because some of us are primary caregivers but we have helpers , which is more or less the same as your ex taking the kid and having his new partner help take care of your kid.
Can I please have info ya Nthabiseng
Im learning thata from you
Can you please tag Nthabi,i need her details
Unfortunately she’s not on UA-cam