How to treat your maid

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  • Опубліковано 8 тра 2018
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  • @malaanand7229
    @malaanand7229 4 роки тому +109

    My experience is that generally, most of the maids r selfish...no matter how much ever you treat them well ...be polite, be considerate and kind during their difficult times, give them gifts and bonus etc...still most of the time they r non cooperative and sooner or later show their true colors..which is not only disappointing but also frustrating.

    • @mayankm3157
      @mayankm3157 4 роки тому

      Hum Full day servvent ka kaam dhundh rhe hn hume jharu pocha brtn saaf sfai driving sb aata hai sirf bina salry bhi kr lnge

    • @moonchild6952
      @moonchild6952 2 роки тому +9

      Seriously such a pain they are.. We know our maid since childhood.. So we treat her very gently. She does the work too.. But then she has started changing her own rules.. Take leave etc, comes and goes as she plses. If we say something.. She is taking advantage of our friendliness and back answers.. 😒😫😡🤬🤬🤬

    • @shareandcare7880
      @shareandcare7880 2 роки тому +3

      Sach kha ye log kbi bhi aapka saath nhi de skte jo karlo jitna politeholo help krdo upar se inke nakhre saho

    • @sgowdavani9600
      @sgowdavani9600 2 роки тому

      @@moonchild6952 true 🥺

    • @parleywithme9823
      @parleywithme9823 2 роки тому

      yes u r right

  • @somyamishra5185
    @somyamishra5185 Рік тому +6

    Very well explained.. Also if we get friendly with them they start taking us for granted plus become careless at work.. So very important to be a bit strict with them and talk limited only

  • @rituparna8877
    @rituparna8877 3 роки тому +17

    Thank you so much for sharing. We are young and have taken our first house and had a maid. We made the mistake of being considerate, friendly, and gave her extra money for work and also for 2 pooja. But I could never imagine what was going to happen!! She started treating the house like it's hers! Started relocating objects in the house according to her wish. Once she put a bunch of stuff that was kept outside to be sanitized, including cleaning liquid, in the fridge. Once she soaped up the microwave as if it was a kadhai!! Broke an expensive stoneware plate we purchased newly. I didn't scold her at all, just politely asked to clean carefully. And she would NOT listen to any instructions. Didn't even put carpet in place after floor cleaning. Also, would look at pillows and bedsheets and ask to take it. It got really awkward after we gave her 2 pillows and 2 bedsheets after she asked. On top of that asked for a separate gift on Diwali after we made her work only 10 days this month due to travel and work, with full salary. Had to fire her as It was too much. Watching your video I can see I have made some mistakes. But won't make it again.

    • @ankitapandey5809
      @ankitapandey5809 2 роки тому +1

      Yes....we just " accha nahi lagta..insan hai vo bhi " k chakkar me they start dominating us jese vo hume pese de rahe ho kam karwane ke......& sometimes she even tries to order me that makes me really furious that fir apko kyu rakha he.....but i just couldn't speak at time......The worst thing about my maid is that if even politely i tell her that she should do any work in this way her face becomes like I've slapped her & her tone gets low....... I haven't changed her still thinking accha nahi lagta garib he.........but deep inside she's into my nerves.

    • @Kush868
      @Kush868 2 роки тому +1

      @@ankitapandey5809 isi liye nokar ko nokar ki trah rkhnq chie yrr frank hona nhi chiye

    • @kiranlatif1249
      @kiranlatif1249 4 дні тому

      Same happened to me and she became like my adopted child.😢 I am too frustrated bcz of this now

  • @vallr-humans9121
    @vallr-humans9121 8 місяців тому +4

    Narsistic maids are always jealous of their bosses. They are jealous of bosses' luxurious life and assets. My maid when ever I talk to her friendly she expects me to give her some goodies to eat, which I most of the time give her. To avoid balcony or garden work in evening she started coming late because in late evening I would not ask her to clean garden or balcony. She also shared secret afair story of another house and also told me how that owner gave her diwali gifts and my maid was expecting same from me. In starting they like everything we give but then later they start sharing their opinions. She sweeps floor as if she is dusting floor. Sometimes they remove other house's frustration. I never give her extra work.

  • @surbhisharma9396
    @surbhisharma9396 5 років тому +20

    Meri maid kam chori karti hai, aaj use pyar se kam ka kha to jaban ladane lagi. 2 din se meri tbiyat khrab hai to mai ghar pe hun, use aaj kha to khti hai mujhe aur bhi kam hai, aap kar lo ghar pe hi to ho 2 din se. Hmne use ghar me itne ache se rakha jese ghar ki member ho. Ab lag raha hai k hmne galti ki, pyar se rakho to sir pe chad jate hai.

    • @parulpandey4754
      @parulpandey4754 5 років тому +2

      Mere 7 b yhi ho rha hai.
      Mera baby 2 yr ka hai so maine kaam k 7 7 use ghumane k liy b rakha hai pr wo bache ki cizo ko kha leti hai mai baad me dekhti hu to b kuch bol nhi pati pr mujhe pta hota hai ki usk alawa or koi nhi lega qki ghr me bas mai or mere husband or baby hi hai . Mujhe smj nhi aa rha ki kaise handle kru or mujhe maid ki bhot jarurt hai kaam k 7 bache k 7 khel b ske . Isly usse nikal b nhi paa rhi .

    • @roys5464
      @roys5464 3 роки тому

      Mere sath v yahi hua,ab to ksm chorne ka dhamki v deti hain...aur yaha maid milna muskil hain

    • @mayankm3157
      @mayankm3157 2 роки тому

      Hum full day servent ka kaam dhundh rhe hn hume jharu pocha brtn saaf sfai driving cooking sb aata hsirf rhna khana fre chaiye kisi bhi sher m kr kaam ka bhut jrurt h shab

    • @mayankm3157
      @mayankm3157 2 роки тому

      @@roys5464 Hum full day servent ka kaam dhundh rhe hn hume jharu pocha brtn saaf sfai driving cooking sb aata hsirf rhna khana fre chaiye kisi bhi sher m kr kaam ka bhut jrurt h shab

  • @shwetaj5495
    @shwetaj5495 2 роки тому +4

    thank you ....very helpful for new homemakers like me

  • @lifestyles9019
    @lifestyles9019 2 роки тому +1

    Aapko pta hai mujhe apki vedio ki bht jyda jarurat thi mujhe beti hui mujhe bht sari provlems ka samna karna pda,mujhe bht sari difficulties ka samna karna pda maid ke sath bht accha behave bhi rakkha firbhi dusro se meri buraiyan karti hai ab kisi maid ko rakhne ka mann nhi hai pr beti 1 sal ki hai isliye need hoti hai maid ki apki vedio dekhkr mujhe bht help mili really heartly thnks sister 🙂,sayad isbar kuch accha ho

  • @koolkamiya33
    @koolkamiya33 4 роки тому +23

    Thank you so much...it's really so good advice. You are very sweet and your way of explaining is awsum. But I want to share one thing with u..I am also a homemaker and I am very lineant with maids but at the end of the day every maid takes the advantage of my lineant behaviour due to which my cool is lost in the long run. What to do

    • @DiyaLalDileepLal
      @DiyaLalDileepLal 4 роки тому +6

      Kamiya Srivastava very true. Same here. They sit on your head

    • @mayankm3157
      @mayankm3157 4 роки тому

      Hum Full day servvent ka kaam dhundh rhe hn hume jharu pocha brtn saaf sfai driving sb aata hai sirf rhna khana free chaiye ho to btaiye

    • @Govardhan23821
      @Govardhan23821 2 роки тому

      Same here

    • @papalala3099
      @papalala3099 Рік тому

      Aree g phaad do

  • @chayanikaroy9014
    @chayanikaroy9014 Рік тому +4

    Meri Maid jis din nehi ate us din ko mujhe relived lagta hai . Kya mujhe maid ko chor dena cahiye.

    • @bushshan122
      @bushshan122 Рік тому +2

      Haha
      If you can manage then do your work urself
      Maids are full sar ka dard

  • @Salmaazay
    @Salmaazay 7 місяців тому

    Very helpful video... I was so frustrated because of my maid. She was jealous of me and started complaining my little things to my husband. She wanted favour of my husband and started to persuade her as she was a young beautiful green eyed but immature girl. Now after watching your video I realize that I have done some mistakes like I became soft, lenient and polite. I call her my adopted daughter and didn't treat her like maid. She came into my nerves. And I have to replace with new maid. Now I am very careful.

  • @alkajethwani6340
    @alkajethwani6340 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for your guidance

  • @dividipu7113
    @dividipu7113 3 роки тому +2

    Bilkul sachhi baat h same here

  • @RishaLand
    @RishaLand 3 роки тому +2

    Nice information please aur maid k upar aur videos banaye

  • @rashmisinha4249
    @rashmisinha4249 Рік тому +3

    Most of the maids steal infact all......even small things like kitchen groceries it is very difficult and if you say something they will deny. It is so difficult to handle then

  • @dividipu7113
    @dividipu7113 3 роки тому +2

    Good advice

  • @ultrawomenentrepreneurs3075
    @ultrawomenentrepreneurs3075 3 роки тому +2

    Very good tips

  • @queensworld2428
    @queensworld2428 3 роки тому +9

    Maid se jitna ache se btt karo... Vo apki batte utni hi nahi manegi.

  • @dividipu7113
    @dividipu7113 3 роки тому +2

    Same experience 👍

  • @asitmitra6276
    @asitmitra6276 3 роки тому +1

    thanks

  • @Ashish-oq8pg
    @Ashish-oq8pg Рік тому

    Thanks

  • @kabitaahmed9062
    @kabitaahmed9062 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much for giving us realistic, helpful guidelines, may Allah gives you in return❤

  • @luhas15
    @luhas15 3 роки тому +5

    Sister,Plz add English subtitles. I too suffered alot worthless,waste maids ...how much I gave them but atlast they are behaving like doing free service,careless attitude etc.

    • @luhas15
      @luhas15 2 роки тому +1

      No added emotions with them, jus u expect work for your money from them by giving periodical incentives and my maintaining smooth tone and necessary talks.

    • @ankitapandey5809
      @ankitapandey5809 2 роки тому

      Exactly.......try cutting their salary for their absents by being nice.....then they'll show their real face......they only work for money nd even with time they start doing dirty work to finish fast..

  • @cocothecoco172
    @cocothecoco172 3 роки тому +1

    Sahi kaha bilkul

  • @jayeetapaul4202
    @jayeetapaul4202 Рік тому +1

    100 pec TRUE.....pereshan hoo ke avi khud Kam Kar late whoo....roj kee problem shee chutti

  • @ShreyaK1506
    @ShreyaK1506 Рік тому +1

    2leaves are paid leaves..anything above should be deducted or compensated with other work.
    But many like me, donot deduct salaries for extra chutti & later these maid keep taking leaves taking advantage.

  • @kritikaabhishekgaur3701
    @kritikaabhishekgaur3701 5 років тому +5

    Yaha itne kharcha lete lekin hum log kuch bolte nai hume suna k jati

  • @Maraklini
    @Maraklini 9 місяців тому

    Sahi bola

  • @thepayalshow2968
    @thepayalshow2968 3 роки тому +1

    Yeah

  • @sometimewithrima6267
    @sometimewithrima6267 3 роки тому +1

    Very helpful

    • @mansingbhilala5800
      @mansingbhilala5800 3 роки тому

      9009238022

    • @mayankm3157
      @mayankm3157 2 роки тому

      Hum full day servent ka kaam dhundh rhe hn hume jharu pocha brtn saaf sfai driving cooking sb aata hsirf rhna khana fre chaiye kisi bhi sher m kr kaam ka bhut jrurt h shab

  • @sarlatully794
    @sarlatully794 3 роки тому +2

    Useful tips

    • @Beauty9World
      @Beauty9World  3 роки тому

      Thank you

    • @mayankm3157
      @mayankm3157 2 роки тому

      Hum full day servent ka kaam dhundh rhe hn hume jharu pocha brtn saaf sfai driving cooking sb aata hsirf rhna khana fre chaiye kisi bhi sher m kr kaam ka bhut jrurt h shab

  • @kritikaabhishekgaur3701
    @kritikaabhishekgaur3701 5 років тому +4

    Hum log sach me sir pe bhaitha k rkhte

  • @kritikaabhishekgaur3701
    @kritikaabhishekgaur3701 5 років тому +5

    Aap sahi bol rhi

    • @Beauty9World
      @Beauty9World  5 років тому

      Sb Jaga akhi problem he. Me to khudhhi kr leti hu. Agar ap kaam khudh kr sakti he to HI nikaliye. Nehi to ap Maid se clear bat koro

    • @sachinjha2067
      @sachinjha2067 4 роки тому

      @@Beauty9World Aap muje maid dika sakte ho 😅

  • @shaz3shaz327
    @shaz3shaz327 2 роки тому +1

    Bohaaaat kum maids hi achi hoti hain

  • @kritikaabhishekgaur3701
    @kritikaabhishekgaur3701 5 років тому +6

    Maid suna k ja rhi idhar udhar krti baatey sabki burayi Batneez maid ko kaise deal kre

  • @dr.dipikathakre3713
    @dr.dipikathakre3713 Рік тому

    When my boy was 2 years old i had a maid who goes to 1 more home ...she was a poor but nice lady .and also don't deny for any work.but she is more inclined towards other home where she is working.i lay off ger

  • @abyantony5471
    @abyantony5471 Рік тому +1

    A tip for kochi residents: donot hire maids from fort cochin or mattanchery. Highly toxic🥵

  • @anushreesatak930
    @anushreesatak930 Рік тому +1

    I have this maid for 2 years In the beginning she was polite but now she has become so rude I raised her salary twice before she demanded a raise. Recently I bought a new washing machine and exchanged my old one she accused me of why I didn't ask before dispatching my old machine? Because she wanted that machine but she never asked me for that machine. I am flexible with her timings but now she is abusing this flexibility by coming late often she does good work and she is very honest what should I do?

    • @dr.dipikathakre3713
      @dr.dipikathakre3713 Рік тому +2

      Your attitude should be strict again but keep her..all qualities are rare to find

  • @ravishasharma4726
    @ravishasharma4726 2 роки тому +2

    My maid is working for me for last 8 years ...but she keeps asking me for ..say 200 bucks gradually..and I do that..but she denies to deduct from her salary...

    • @mayankm3157
      @mayankm3157 2 роки тому

      Hum full day servent ka kaam dhundh rhe hn hume jharu pocha brtn saaf sfai driving cooking sb aata hsirf rhna khana fre chaiye kisi bhi sher m kr kaam ka bhut jrurt h shab

    • @perryh.5306
      @perryh.5306 2 роки тому

      You have the wrong maid. As a maid, I wouldn't never ask for money.

    • @praveshbist
      @praveshbist Рік тому

      ​@@mayankm3157 mayank mai Dehradun mere pass Kam karoge

  • @prasanthimallidi3561
    @prasanthimallidi3561 3 роки тому +2

    Pls tell in English or Telugu

  • @technicalguruji99
    @technicalguruji99 4 роки тому +3

    Tumi Bangla tei bolo Didi.. valo lagbe...

  • @forandroidbrown
    @forandroidbrown 5 років тому +3

    Thank you very much. I want to ask you some more questions. Please activate your message option on youtube or your email address so that I can connect with you.

  • @grapy83
    @grapy83 2 роки тому +1

    Kuch maids bohat badtmeez Hoti hain,agar bar bar batmeezi sy har bat Ka jawab dy to kya Karen, actually bat ye hai k shuru Main theek rehti Hain bad main apna app dikhati hain,app please koi solutions bata dain

    • @Beauty9World
      @Beauty9World  2 роки тому +1

      Actually maid logo ko pata hota he unk bina hamari chalegi nehi.agar kuch jada misbehavior kore to koi step jarur lena chahiye.suru mehi maid logo ko sab kuch clear kar dena chahiye or maid ko vi bolna he k usko vi shuru me sab kuch clear kar dena he.is tarah se baad me confusion nehi rahegi.

  • @Galaxys_Edits
    @Galaxys_Edits 2 роки тому +2

    my maid is so rude she doesnt even pass me something and dont do something and i said her today that can u give me the glass and she didnt even respond

  • @kanchanb1111
    @kanchanb1111 2 роки тому +1

    Ha hota he to nashta deti hu par nai dete he to hak se puchhti he khana milega ki nahi. Roj kaha se nashta sirf 3 ghnta kam krti hain

  • @IkbalKhan-es8jl
    @IkbalKhan-es8jl Рік тому

    What,, job

  • @stellamarowa5980
    @stellamarowa5980 Рік тому +3

    I'm a maid in Africa but our bosses treat us like we are not humans, l think they believe a maid don't get tired and sleepy at all, you are the first to work up and last to sleep

    • @jfyt2114
      @jfyt2114 11 місяців тому +3

      Yes because you are being paid for that work only. If you desire to wake up late and sleep early then better not work. As in corporate offices also bosses come late and leave early whole the employees come early and leave late. So it's not something new that's happening with you . Don't try to be an employee and compare yourself with your boss..

  • @sadhanabahuguna1340
    @sadhanabahuguna1340 2 роки тому +1

    Maid ke liye Bartan mai food clean karke saaf karne ke liye rakhne chahiye

  • @KhalidKhan-zp5rj
    @KhalidKhan-zp5rj 2 роки тому +1

    Intresting informative video thank you girl is also attractive

  • @satyamevsingh1501
    @satyamevsingh1501 5 років тому +1

    nice

  • @kritikaabhishekgaur3701
    @kritikaabhishekgaur3701 5 років тому +2

    Today she will be fire by meh raat tak hubby ka wait kr rhi bus hoti kon hai yeah aise bole

  • @poojachetry7659
    @poojachetry7659 Рік тому +2

    We cannot blame only maids sometimes there is fault of owners they dont treat them well they think that maids are not humans they are robots which are made only for work they dont give rest nor leave anybody who are at work cannot work regularly without leave or rest giving them salary doesn't mean that only you can do whatever you can and if maid wants leave or something then blame that she is rude irritating etc if you don't like maids then do 1 day of work yourself then you will know how does it feel to be working full day and hear annoying things from owners first of all if you will be kind loving everyone you will find the way you are and if you are rude then don't think another person will be good to you

    • @yugaraniarivalagan8801
      @yugaraniarivalagan8801 Рік тому +4

      I have been very good to my maid, i always made sure she has enough rest and eats on time. I always make sure she’s comfortable and treat her more of my friend, but yet she steps on my head by not doing the chores I assigned to her .

  • @souravmukherjee4770
    @souravmukherjee4770 Рік тому

    Apni je bangali seta apnar kotha te puropuri bhoja jacche

  • @anitaaitwade2869
    @anitaaitwade2869 2 роки тому +1

    मुझे.आप से.बात.करनी .है.फोन..नंबर. चाहिऐ. Plzzx

  • @mintchocochips8667
    @mintchocochips8667 3 роки тому +1

    Madam humlogke ghrme ek characterless ldki kaam krti hai us ldkika charitra bht ganda hai wo sara din darwaza dekar rakhti hai jaise ki mera ghr uska ho aur mai kuch lebhi nhi skti har baar darwaza khatkhataanese wo gussa hojaati hai aur mujhse zaban ladaati hai mai bhi usko do baatein suna deti hun maine khud use ganda conversation krte hua suna hai room ke andar maine kuch bola nhi tha isiko kyunki wo uska personal matter hai magar wo ldkine hadh hi kr diya hai ab toh wo pichhle 6 mahinese yumlogke ghrme 24 hrs k liye kaam krti hai humloge ghrme 2 dogs hai unhe sambhalneka aur mere papa tender k kaamse bhr jaate hai toh mummy akeli pd jaati hai unko akela soneki aadat nhi hai dar lgta hai toh mummy uske sath soti hai jab jab papa out of station jaate hai aur mai bhi nhi rehti ghrme aajkal mai college hostel me rehti hun janha mai padhai krti hun jis college me wanha par hi mai hostel me rehti hun lekin mai jabbhi ghar aati hun waapas 1-2 weeks ke liye wo mujhe dekhkar muh latka leti hai muh banati hai chhidti hai mujhse aur jalti hai mujhse aur toh aur yanhaka baat wanha krti hai for suppose maine mummy k fridge se fruits liya toh wo jaakar mummy ko batati hai jis wjhse mummy mujhe bht ulta sidha sunaati hai meri mummy thodi narcisist type ki bhi hai unka ek aadat hai ghrki baatein kaam walise share krti rehti hai harwakt isiliye usko bhi achha mauka mil jata hai gharme aag laganeka wo kaam wali ldki aisa krti hai jaiseki ye usika ghar ho jab mai hostel waapas jaati hun toh mai usko notice krti hun wo bht khush hoti hai yesab mujhse aur bardaasht nhi horha hai man toh krta hai aatmahatya karlun mai nhi jeeni aisi zindagi aur toh aur ye kaam wali ldki 25-26 saalki hai aur mai 21 saalki aur wo koshish krti hai mera carrier khtm krneka wo jaakar ghrme aag lagati hai har baatpe taaki mai apne studies me na concentrate kar paun aur meri carrier barbaad ho mai toh sochti hun kbhi kbhi ki mai hostel mehi reh jaun ghrhi waapas na aaun kbhi jab mujhe Dubai me job milega tab toh waisebhi ghr chhodna padega mai bht pareshan hochuki hun apne zindagi se

    • @kanchanb1111
      @kanchanb1111 2 роки тому +1

      Tum itna chinta kyun karti ho wo kamvali he tum us ghar ki beti ho apna hak jamana sikho tum ek kamvali se kaise har skti ho wo kamvali he tum malkin ho apni ma ko smjhao batao sab thik ho jaega

    • @mintchocochips8667
      @mintchocochips8667 2 роки тому +1

      @@kanchanb1111 Han

    • @mintchocochips8667
      @mintchocochips8667 2 роки тому

      @@arunwazir6667 nhi yaar

  • @kritikaabhishekgaur3701
    @kritikaabhishekgaur3701 5 років тому +2

    Kal paani ki all balti bhar rhi thi isne dekha room me bhar rahi jake band nahi kia boli kab se paani beh rha maine kaha poocha lga rhi thi tere samane bhari tune band nahi kiya mujhe aake bol rhi 12bje paani khtm hohata chaiemen hume bolta chairmen jo hum bank valo se fayda le rha sbi k flats hai almost kharcha bank uthata maid tak ko paisa deta rakh vali k liyw paani k lie maintanace ka khud vo bank ka nai uska khud ka 2flat hai sara kaam krvata isey pause bhi bank jo deti vo kaat k deta itna kam paise me kaam krva rhe inlogo se uska hi durr hai inlogo ko

  • @rupesharya4051
    @rupesharya4051 2 роки тому +2

    "How to treat your old in-laws"? Kabhi ye bhi video bana lo. Kaamwali zyada important ho gayi he aaj kal. Husband, child aur parents se zyada, Maid hi important hein. Pata nahi aise log Shadi bhi kyon karte he.

    • @Beauty9World
      @Beauty9World  2 роки тому

      Video me kahi nehi bataya geya he ki Maid hi important hein Family nehi.Family family hoti he.pahele Video ka title dekhiye fir comments ki jiye.After 14 of Married women hoke achhi tarah janti hoon Family keya hoti he.Thank u.

  • @stellamarowa5980
    @stellamarowa5980 Рік тому

    I'm a maid in Africa but our bosses treat us like we are not humans, l think they believe a maid don't get tired and sleepy at all, you are the first to work up and last to sleep