TAMAR : The Most TRAGIC Story Of Lust And Revenge (Biblical Stories Explained)

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 975

  • @besthillsongworshipsongs48
    @besthillsongworshipsongs48 Рік тому +1335

    To the person reading this, You're going to be telling a different story very soon. A story of how miracles have found you. A success story filled with so much inspiration. You'll give so much hope to so many people when they see how much you overcome nd still came out on top. Amen ❣

  • @Mailyfe
    @Mailyfe Рік тому +265

    My heart goes out to Tamar 😢 hope she was healed & find comfort & peace with God.

    • @cortezconquistador
      @cortezconquistador Рік тому

      I’m sure she has once in glory she all the pain of her rape went away she will never remember it again. That part of her life is erased once she got to Heaven.

    • @user-hx7mi7ml8u
      @user-hx7mi7ml8u Рік тому

      She didn’t. 😥

    • @teacherrea5319
      @teacherrea5319 Рік тому

      God is the one who let adulterer murderer David off the hook in he first place. He's to blame for ALL of this and god left her alone, no husband, no children....a betrayed withered branch of a family tree. So typical of Abrahamics who let men do anything while women have to suck it up. Disgusting. Abrahamism is the THREE BLIND MICE. Jesus said Abrahamics are slaves to a lie and their father (Jehovah) is. not his father in the book of John. But they all ignore it. BLIND, willfully, as Jesus said they are and if they read this FACT....they will willfully ignore that too. Evil.

    • @judithnmor877
      @judithnmor877 Рік тому +1

      Why?

    • @rosesmith3971
      @rosesmith3971 Рік тому +1

      ​@@user-hx7mi7ml8u how do you know

  • @ihnmefgfu16428
    @ihnmefgfu16428 Рік тому +47

    Lord, forgive me for all my sexual sins and deliver me from it. Protect me all the days of my life. Amen.

  • @danielfredericks5087
    @danielfredericks5087 Рік тому +119

    David always inqiured God for guidance to defeat his enemies. He should have sought our Lord's guidance in dealing with Amnon, Absalom and his family affairs with as much zeal as he did when he faced his enemies.
    There's a lesson for us fathers to learn from this story.

    • @IsraelCountryCube
      @IsraelCountryCube Рік тому

      Since it was the times back then Tamar should have slept with Amnon and married. Because at lest they could both enjoy each other so it would be as great of a sin and at least wilfullyby both to enjoy one anothers bodys in marriage would be less worse than withought.

    • @unknown-sj1bi
      @unknown-sj1bi Рік тому +4

      Easier said than done. It’s David’s sins that fogs his own judgement. & He is fully aware of it… waiting for all their demise.

    • @ivankarose3085
      @ivankarose3085 Рік тому

      @@IsraelCountryCube So why are you defending men, do you think you have it harder than women, I see you throughout this comment section saying people should feel sorry for rapists because they are under a curse, do you understand that rape is an unforgivable sin. No rapist will be in heaven, even Islamic religion is aware of this but Christians are soft on sin because they worship lifestyle sin and praise and pardon backslidders. In Islam all rapists should be killed, because rape kills the soul of the person raped. I understand feeling pity for anyother crime, especially when a hard childhood is the cause, but his soul is not redeemable and is terribly wicked and he won't be saved. I guarantee he's burning in hell.

    • @psychedelicpayroll5412
      @psychedelicpayroll5412 11 місяців тому +4

      @@IsraelCountryCubeGod told the Israelites no more incest because the population was big enough. So that’s not a option in Gods word.

    • @Peace2all4vr
      @Peace2all4vr 8 місяців тому

      ​@psychedelicpayroll5412 ... Yes, He said no more incest, but He didn't dial down their horny, lustful nature. You cannot create an entity to mate like a bunch of rabbits, and then when the population gets big enough, just say stop.

  • @chryssesandchaos
    @chryssesandchaos Рік тому +34

    When I first read this story, I was baffled as to why Ammon ended up hating the sister he supposedly "love", it is indeed a tragic story for everyone involved, all because one man couldn't control his libido, then there's David, who can't discipline his son! 😮‍💨

  • @jewelselle_ginger4642
    @jewelselle_ginger4642 9 місяців тому +24

    It’s sad they didn’t grieve for Tamar as they did for Amnon. When I first read this story, I cried.

    • @momof1576
      @momof1576 7 місяців тому

      No one really cared about women back then. They were property.

    • @seedofbrandsug4660
      @seedofbrandsug4660 10 днів тому

      😢 I am crying now

  • @debragreer8210
    @debragreer8210 Рік тому +188

    Shocking truth, what a web we weave when we deceive, the story of Tamar is so disturbing, her right to be love by a honorable man was taken away from her, her right to become a mother was taken away from her, by her half brother with a callous heart, King David couldn't properly address this issue because of his sin with Bathsheba, whatever is done in the darkness will always be exposed in the light 🙌❤️🕊️

    • @GoodWillEverLastingFaith
      @GoodWillEverLastingFaith Рік тому +14

      It is like give evil an inch and it will take a foot. Nothing is as simple as it seem. Always seek the LORD for wisdom and advice never resort anything on your own, for the satan will scheme to lead your heart astray from G-D.

    • @tracysharp1361
      @tracysharp1361 Рік тому +13

      David could have addressed the problem the problem was David was not a disciplinarySolomon often talked about the lack of discipline in the house David should have been a man and discipline his son instead he did nothing about it and that's what led of his other son killing killing him because the father did not discipline his son! Yes the same does indeed have send does have its own price!

    • @leslievasquez2645
      @leslievasquez2645 Рік тому +1

      @@GoodWillEverLastingFaith why do you say G-D? I’m genuinely curious. You have a very nice message ❤

    • @ellenreyes7874
      @ellenreyes7874 Рік тому

      Debra Greer. That was exactly what that video was supposed to depict. I have not heard from one person answer me from Hill Song explain to me what their response meant. Thank you so much for confirming to me that the video was about Tamor, Daughter of King David.

    • @vonn2221
      @vonn2221 Рік тому +5

      May i know what you mean about King David couldnt properly address that issue? I do kind of think David is not really a great dad in a way, eventhough he follow God faithfully
      I remember how he treat his son that rebel toward him and kind of give cold treatment to him
      But i also interest to know new idea frok other people about David
      Not in mean David is bad, he just like us, a human, with both potential to be good and bad

  • @americapatton9266
    @americapatton9266 Рік тому +298

    Was listening to this for my morning devotional before head out to do field work. This is a powerful reminder of the long term consequences of sin. Although sin feels great for the moment, the long-term consequences of sin can destroy my credibility, testimony, and life. In the past when l first go saved, l commits many sins out of survival, pride, peer pressure, and the need to be accepted, but as l grew up spiritually, and move into adulthood the power of God gave me the strength to break generation strongholds that had been passed down multi-generationally. I remember went l entered my early teen years, a pornography magazines, and films where being passed around the inner city neighborhood where we were living. This was around the time that a first got saved. Shortly after l started to watch them when nobody was around, and l would have conversations about them with my male friends. I remember during a summer of my middle school years, my former pastor was taking about destroying sin completely, or it will grow, and cause me to go to hell. After the sermon, l was convicted so much to the point that l took the pornographic film clips, and broke the VHS video tape up in the streets. I did not want to be rules by sexual sin, and am thankful for that day, because the pornography industry is destroying our world, families, and the minds of children who are searching for the meaning of the true love that Jesus Christ modeled. For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God. Roman 3:23
    God is searching for transformed hearts, and if one continues to ignore the warnings in God's Holy word, the consequences of sin can result in spiritual death, and many times physical death. 🙏🏾😇

  • @danae5578
    @danae5578 Рік тому +88

    Man, poor Tamar.

  • @evelyncameros1236
    @evelyncameros1236 Рік тому +55

    David was a terrible father! I only feel bad for Tamar. What a terrible life she had

  • @8888-9
    @8888-9 Рік тому +359

    Tamar never recovered. She did not marry. No children. I still grapple with David’s lack of action and apparent lack of care towards Tamar after she suffered such humiliation, and violation.

    • @twostep9393
      @twostep9393 Рік тому +18

      @ymarrero23 woah woah ...it's not that he didn't care , it was still his son that's a hard decision

    • @traceyanderson4563
      @traceyanderson4563 Рік тому +133

      @@twostep9393 that’s sad…his sinful son had more value than his innocent, righteous, obedient daughter…

    • @kristinadospoy7347
      @kristinadospoy7347 Рік тому +12

      She may have committed suicide several years after Amnon's murder. That's just my theory though

    • @tp1201
      @tp1201 Рік тому +21

      @@kristinadospoy7347 Dang. Suicide??
      I Pray she had more faith in God! Than to do something demonic like that.

    • @kristinadospoy7347
      @kristinadospoy7347 Рік тому

      @@tp1201 I'm hoping she didn't take her life, but to live a long life alone would send any woman to an early grave

  • @gabrielile2044
    @gabrielile2044 Рік тому +36

    All of this started with David sexual sins really have bad consequences we should be very careful and pray to God that we don’t fall into temptation

  • @ruthprophete5566
    @ruthprophete5566 Рік тому +154

    I always have related with Tamar. I was abused by my older brother too. And then he hated me after that. My abuse was downplayed as well.

    • @jebablessysalomi3451
      @jebablessysalomi3451 Рік тому +11

      So what happened now? ...did you forgive him? Please forgive him. Don't try to be close with him. Let your path be parted from your brother. Please pray for him to forget his sin. And you too. So then he treat his future wife good. God said He forgive and forget the sin if we sincerely apologise. Please pray for everyone around you everytime. Not all men's eyes are normal. Only God can protect you. May God bless you.

    • @katlemarie
      @katlemarie Рік тому +42

      @@jebablessysalomi3451 He needs to repent and come to the Lord for salvation, deliverance and healing. You can't just "forget your sin" Sexual sins have a big price.

    • @nancyelmon4544
      @nancyelmon4544 Рік тому +24

      I am so sorry to hear that. Hope you a have a great life regardless of what happens to you .May the Lord be with you always to protect and guide you.

    • @ivankarose3085
      @ivankarose3085 Рік тому

      @@jebablessysalomi3451 Burn in hell, you think rape can be forgiven and to ask her to pray that he forgets his sin you are surely and enabling woman who supports only men, you would rather cover a man's sin and hide a child's grief in order to uphold images. Stupid man or woman whatever you are may god depart from you. May every rapist sins be troubled, their is no salvation for a rapist, because sex by force destroys & kills the soul so every rapist most be put to death!

    • @GoodWillEverLastingFaith
      @GoodWillEverLastingFaith Рік тому +3

      My point is forgive him. It is hard to do but try,,,,,the only way for you to go forward and free yourself from this circle of darkness is by forgive the evil doer and pray for his conversation only then can your brother change with G-D help.

  • @alizaseichiro6909
    @alizaseichiro6909 Рік тому +159

    As a brother he was right. I always feel sad for Absalom & his sister Tamar. David should’ve step as a father as well. Amnon was sick

    • @IsraelCountryCube
      @IsraelCountryCube Рік тому

      Amnon is sick. but why not feel bad for the violater? I need not say more. Too many supposed Righteous people when they need to also condemn Amnon who isnt all to blame for his violation of his half sister. I dont think killing him is the best answer as the generational curse will simply have kept going you fools.

    • @ellis1469
      @ellis1469 Рік тому +3

      Are you saying it was right for absalom to assassinate his brother?

    • @vonn2221
      @vonn2221 Рік тому +12

      @@ellis1469 not right in regard we shouldn't take the live that God give, because we dont own it
      But in here we talk about human heart, and this is hard. You sister being raped, your father is a king but cant punish your step brother, and slowly the anger became hatred and resentment
      To be able to forgive after betrayal is actually very hard and only Jesus able made us to do it, to have the heart to forgive other eventhough they dont deserve it

    • @ellis1469
      @ellis1469 Рік тому +1

      @@vonn2221 very valid

    • @brendamaharaj9463
      @brendamaharaj9463 10 місяців тому +4

      LIKE FATHER LIKE SON SIN AND LUST WAA IN THEIR CA,MP,

  • @sophiawilson3723
    @sophiawilson3723 Рік тому +157

    Some said in Ezekiel, "the Lord's ways are not equal." But when our lustful desires cause us to fall into sin we blame everyone and everything but ourselves.
    Very well-explained.
    Thank you.

    • @ellenreyes7874
      @ellenreyes7874 Рік тому +2

      Exactly. Well said. God Bless You

    • @vongi678
      @vongi678 Рік тому

      That is true. Amen

    • @KatsIsWeird24
      @KatsIsWeird24 Рік тому +2

      I blame myself because I too went through the same thing as Tamar, my lil brother tried to take revenge and kill my older half brother, my dad found out what happened and took my older half brother to jail, my family broke down after that, I’m filled with so much hate and sorrow and pain, I blame myself so much cuz I feel like the cause of my family’s fall, my lil brother has learned to forgive my older brother and goes to visit our older brother to read the Bible to him and to preach to him, we are a Christian family and still don’t understand why my older brother did that to me, but he did, he knew about me having to be a virgin so he did other things to me, I still feel dirty and I reek of sin even more and each day my hate grows, my family fell apart but we struggle to keep it all together, my mother called me a devil and him her son, my other sister said “so what, move on, get over it” after I told everyone what happened a minute ago, only my dad and my lil brother stood by my side, my lil brother almost killed my older half brother but I stopped him in time and my dad stepped in and took my older brother to jail, he didn’t fight it, he keeps asking for my forgiveness, I know he’s changed a lot, even physically, I feel bad but I just can’t, it’s too hard, psalms 13 and it’s been helping but I still blame myself

    • @christinevankammen6109
      @christinevankammen6109 Рік тому +5

      @@KatsIsWeird24 often the victim feels guilty. It is time to let go of the guilt and heal. That is the will of God, i believe. Love others as you love yourself, which indicates that you must love yourself.

    • @KatsIsWeird24
      @KatsIsWeird24 Рік тому +1

      @@christinevankammen6109 I don’t see a reason to even love or care about myself, my birthday is coming up and every year it’s just a reminder of how disgusting I feel and how my family is not the same anymore, bad things have been happening to only me one after another, to the point here I just been wanting to end it so many times, I sit in the bathroom floor and just cry in silent when my family is asleep, they ask why I’ve been getting bags under my eyes but I don’t say anything, the last time I said anything about how I was feeling someone told me “so what, so if he did that to you, move on already” this was right after I told everyone what happened

  • @cw4608
    @cw4608 Рік тому +123

    I don’t understand how some human men cannot contain their sexual urges. I have seen stallions at horse shows and male dogs at dog shows with more restraint than some men. It makes me angry it is the woman whose life is ruined because of an evil man.

    • @devionewilkins8903
      @devionewilkins8903 Рік тому +13

      That’s because man’s hearts are wicked. We’re different from animals too. Animals don’t really have a moral compass, but they do listen to instinct.

    • @ellis1469
      @ellis1469 Рік тому +4

      Very sad indeed

    • @leslievasquez2645
      @leslievasquez2645 Рік тому +8

      I spent a lot of time in Brazil several years ago. I don’t know if their way of thinking is the same now, but then it was the general consensus that if a man fell and committed sexual sins, it was always the woman’s fault. I was only 18 years old and I would sit and listen to this nonsense, completely dumbfounded. That was in 1996

    • @vonn2221
      @vonn2221 Рік тому +2

      Sometimes the spirit of Lust come to their life too early, and nobody protect them. So slowly they become attach to it
      Sex is very powerful because it could control a person, that why demons like use that

    • @childofgod9648
      @childofgod9648 Рік тому

      @@leslievasquez2645 it’s like that in Saudi Arabia, if the man raped a woman it’s always the woman’s fault. What a sick world we live in. I can’t wait for God to destroy this evil world.

  • @lt7378
    @lt7378 Рік тому +191

    Why did Amnon hate her SO much after this horrendous act? Was it because he actually realized the atrocity of his crime and really hated himself so projected his hatred on Tamar?

    • @Lara_Larimar
      @Lara_Larimar Рік тому +59

      Its similar to narcissistic disorder, when someone gets jealous and want total control over one's life

    • @kirstycraig6308
      @kirstycraig6308 Рік тому +51

      It's an evil generational thing.
      My unsaved ex told me I was the "love of his life", he got me pregnant straight away, then left me as soon as he got me pregnant and hated me.
      Even though previous to that he was "sick with love" for me.
      He went out with some other woman.
      But no one is ever good enough for him, so now he wants me back and to get me pregnant again and leave me again, like he has some sort of sick fantasy to have a secret family with me that no one knows about.
      I also found out he was actually still married while all this went on.
      Because I hired a private investigator to find him because I found out how whole life was a lie, right down to where he lived even to his phone number. It was all pretend.
      Maybe people like that are descendents of that family curse, because God said that curse will NEVER depart from that family line.
      They can't be normal because they are under a curse.
      That is why you have to be careful who you hang around and believe.
      Don't listen to their or promises and sweet nothings.
      They prey on vunrable people.
      And yes don't worry I got punished for what I did, I had my car stolen, the angel of death stalked me and I'd wake up with with the angel of death standing over my bed watching me, I had terrifying demonic attacks and dreams, everyone turned on me for no reason, I spent my pregnancy completely alone, had to walk everywhere with morning sickness and no car, and was abandoned and was in and out of hospital and had all kinds of demonic torment come on me because I slept with him out of wedlock.
      I also gave birth to a 9.2 pound baby on 3 days of no sleep by myself with absolutely no pain relief and nobody there to comfort me (I'm stick thin by the way). And got an infection.
      Then I had all other kinds of horrible stuff happen.
      So I 100% got punished for it.
      10/10 wouldn't recommend.

    • @jebablessysalomi3451
      @jebablessysalomi3451 Рік тому +9

      @@kirstycraig6308 i wish God will forgive you. Please surrender yourself to God and including your child too. That child may remove the curse.amnon and absalom didn't talk to God much. But if your child have the habit of talking to God, definitely You with be saved with your child. Jesus is coming soon.

    • @cellylozwe4853
      @cellylozwe4853 Рік тому +5

      @@kirstycraig6308 Hi, I just wanted to say, I am sorry for what you went through. I know words don't have the power to change situations but it still is important how and what you feel or are telling yourself in your mind. It's not easy as a human being to self introspect and realise what you did wrong and take accountability so I really commend you for that. Like I said, it's honestly easier said than done but be hopeful. As long as you are still breathing and waking up to see another day, let that give you hope. The day may not shower you with sunshine and rainbows but one day, it surely will.
      I encourage fasting, its such a powerful tool and learning your authority in Christ.
      I wish you nothing but Blessings.

    • @Lara_Larimar
      @Lara_Larimar Рік тому +14

      @@kirstycraig6308 Sorry you met such ill-minded evil person, I don't think you got punished, you deserve the best. Evil people know how to implant guilt in others, they project their own mental issues on others and want healthy people to believe their fake" reality". Pray to God and to Virgin Mary, and you will be safe and happy!

  • @hyacinthjadesantos527
    @hyacinthjadesantos527 Рік тому +56

    I don’t understand why tamar had to carry the sin of his brother as well considering that she was the victim who was violated

    • @GoodWillEverLastingFaith
      @GoodWillEverLastingFaith Рік тому +14

      In the old days, unwed young girls does not have a voice not like modern time we are living in.....women are not even allow to eat and sit dining on the same table as the men folks in the family. Women were not allow to speak up,,,,,and all the blames are being put on the women.....

    • @everyone1liesd459
      @everyone1liesd459 Рік тому +2

      @@GoodWillEverLastingFaith unwed non-virgin women
      In the past and now with some people, no one wants to give everything to someone that was already taken
      The demands placed on a man to date or marry is acceptable socially so why should he put in that effort for something which is not pure anymore
      It is messed up that he brother did that to her, but that is why Tamer had to carry the sin because no other man would take that raw deal of giving everything for something that is not pure

    • @jehuhutton937
      @jehuhutton937 Рік тому

      @@everyone1liesd459 That was true to a certain extent, but not necessarily so in every situation,
      Mt 1:5 Salmon the father of Boaz, whose mother was Rahab, Boaz the father of Obed, whose mother was Ruth, Obed the father of Jesse.
      Rahab the prostitute found a husband, there would still be men willing to marry Tamar, but perhaps not royalty.

    • @beema2404
      @beema2404 Рік тому +9

      They didn’t care about women.

    • @childofgod9648
      @childofgod9648 Рік тому

      Because women are treated inferior to men.

  • @hbvamp
    @hbvamp Рік тому +17

    This hurts my heart and makes me feel sick.

  • @STRENGTHFROMABOVE
    @STRENGTHFROMABOVE Рік тому +41

    You can’t be passive and reach your destiny. This is a new day. Whom the Son sets free is free indeed. Start telling the fear, “You’ve got to go back. Anxiety, you’re not welcome here; you’ve got to go back.” Maybe it’s a child that’s off course, instead of complaining about the trouble, you need to start speaking to the trouble. “Father, You said, as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord. My children will be mighty in the land. Lord, I thank You that every force that’s trying to stop them has got to go back.” If you’ll get in agreement with God, start declaring His promises, like the ocean has to recede from the sand even though it’s bigger and more powerful, anything that’s trying to keep you down will only be temporary. It has to go back.
    Thanks for reading this comment, I hope you are blessed and uplifted by it. We are a new and growing channel, your support and blessings is much appreciated. Thanks and God bless you. Amen

  • @Me_839
    @Me_839 Рік тому +18

    This was David’s curse. God said the sword will not leave thy house. David slayed Uriah to take Bathsheba as his wife.

  • @stellakahakinjuguna2974
    @stellakahakinjuguna2974 Рік тому +15

    Considering lust history, David had no moral right to act. What Amnon did to Tamar was heinous and Absolom acted as any other human could have done as revenge for the now outcast sister after an evil step-brother lure

  • @flowerbomb188
    @flowerbomb188 Рік тому +49

    Sad story, things like this still happen today.

    • @kennethbailey6634
      @kennethbailey6634 Рік тому

      Yes it does,and supposedly this was part of the chaos that was put on David from the Bathsheba issue. I believe that this is accurate.The title of the video is stupid. The shame was not on Tamar.She was raped by her half brother. And than the other brother was the nut head Absalom. This is all part of David's punishment from God. Because King David had did something more stupid than evil. He didn't have to take someone's wife.

    • @jennifermorgan1837
      @jennifermorgan1837 Рік тому +9

      It happened to me.

    • @danae5578
      @danae5578 Рік тому +13

      The bible's no joke. Some people act like the bible's got nothing but flowers and cotton candy... when it's legit crazy historic records of people's lives. Amazing people. Tamar was a strong woman. 😔

    • @flowerbomb188
      @flowerbomb188 Рік тому +9

      @@jennifermorgan1837 May God heal you and give back to you what Satan stoled. Its not your fault. ♡

    • @flowerbomb188
      @flowerbomb188 Рік тому +4

      @@danae5578 Its very real stories that do apply to us today in some way shape or form.

  • @thriftytreasure6410
    @thriftytreasure6410 Рік тому +11

    James 1:14-15,"But each one is tempted when by his own evil desires he is lured away and enticed. Then after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death..."

  • @greatgoddess4461
    @greatgoddess4461 Рік тому +49

    This needs to be a major movie 🥺

    • @mzmyself9236
      @mzmyself9236 Рік тому +3

      It would be a good movie but I read that we're not aloud to mimic or impersonate those in the bible

    • @BlessedVivi
      @BlessedVivi Рік тому +1

      @@mzmyself9236 really? From where

    • @Kevin-og9xk
      @Kevin-og9xk Рік тому

      Look up David bible movie they got this story in there

    • @milliesss7020
      @milliesss7020 Рік тому

      I wish they made a movie about King David the cast I would choose:
      David:Oscar Isaac
      Bathsheba:Jessica Chastain
      Absalom:Benjamin Wadsworth
      Amnon:Drew Starkey
      Tamar:Madelyn Cline
      Jonadabe:Dylan Minnette
      Uriah:Paul Rudd Daily

  • @brucestuckey7316
    @brucestuckey7316 Рік тому +23

    It wasn't her fault. Sadly, David began this tragic tale by committing Adultery with Bathsheba.

  • @ramoncarter6585
    @ramoncarter6585 Рік тому +93

    It's my bedtime but lying down listening at this word love these scriptures so much.

  • @mayangirl3757
    @mayangirl3757 Рік тому +16

    its so sad, that these horrible crimes happen so many years ago...and in 2022 woman still being rape, and murder and have no value in so many cultures...is very sad.Thanks for the videos.

  • @lynetterowberry2
    @lynetterowberry2 Рік тому +106

    Amnon carried the seed of the sin of his father. Amnon didn't know how to wrestle the demon, how to lay it to rest. It was his birthright after all. Generational curses are passed down through words, choices and actions, because children learn from what they see and from the behaviour of the adults around them ... and that becomes their "normal/familiar". Who knows Righteousness if they've never seen or experienced it. Perhaps Absalom was spared the seed of lust but carried the seed of revenge and Jonadab the seed of manipulation. Who is justified in Gods sight?
    The word Evolve can be found when we write LoveEvol backwards and forwards. Neither of David's sons in this story had Love in their hearts. That's the real tragedy. 💫❤🙏🌍🕊

    • @corineholtzhausen3792
      @corineholtzhausen3792 Рік тому +1

      Truth

    • @joannagg9707
      @joannagg9707 Рік тому +11

      Although in part that is true as far as the devil lies to us, but we all have a choice at some time at one point to turn the other direction, if we don't have that choice then we can't be punished as its someone else's fault and we were not in control of ourselves. Even if our father's pass on their generational sins, we can choose to go against it. Amnon will not be judged for his father's sin, but his own choices. Absolom will not be judged because of his father's sins, but his own choices. There is a point and a time where we all are faced with a crossroad decision. But it is true that if we don't stop the sins of our father's or generational sins, it will continue. The tragedy of sins is that they can weaken us and guilt can get in the way of proper judgement. David repented before the Lord, but he felt weakened to accuse his first born because he had done a similar sin. This is how the devil lies to us and accuses us weakening that forgiveness and judgement means we can't do the right justice over someone who did the same sin. We really need to think clearly and protect ourselves from the devils lies. But this certainly shows how sin and not dealing with it for whatever reason just continues the sin nature unchecked.

    • @IsraelCountryCube
      @IsraelCountryCube Рік тому

      @@joannagg9707 yes too many women feel ill for tamar but not for Amnon. so i know they are not true forgivers and repenters of sin. I have my mother and fathers generational curse of lust pornography and masturbation. but I decided to stop sinning and action on my own so I be judged by not my sinful and not my parents actions as I do not want either of us to go to hell. Thats what I learned from Amnom who I feel sorry for and Tamar too. I can feel bad for Amnon because I can relate to him they all blame him when he is partly blameless. And Tamar is not all that innocent anymore after being violated. She is not pure so therefore it means she must have resented Her half Brother Amnom and if she did not forgive then i ask who is she to think as anymore Godly than Amnom? Too many dont ask that question but its a trivial one. and the end to all questions on this topic is Theyre all guilty sinners and should repent and forgive one another the end. Amen. Thats all there is to it.

    • @cw4608
      @cw4608 Рік тому +6

      God does not remove free will. Multiple siblings raised in a dysfunctional home will choose different paths. Some will not repeat the sins they were exposed to and others will.

    • @lynetterowberry2
      @lynetterowberry2 Рік тому

      @@cw4608 completely agree with you ... some want to be just like dad, but some want to be nothing like him at all. The Freewill is to choose to ascend or descend on our personal evolutionary path.💫🌌💜🌍🕊

  • @mikecook4298
    @mikecook4298 Рік тому +59

    maybe absolom used the crime of amnon to remove him as first heir to king davids throne , since he treated it like it wasnt much when it came to tamars feelings and he waited patiently (2yrs) to exact the revenge (he should have petitioned the king for justice) and absolom did try to later usurp the throne .... man the bible is so deep and this tamar teaching brought out so much

    • @Jesus-ip8be
      @Jesus-ip8be Рік тому

      For real

    • @ericbrower611
      @ericbrower611 Рік тому +18

      Absalom, to his credit, *never* treated it "like it wasn't much". I believe the reason he waited 2 years to enact revenge was two-fold. His first priority was to see to his sister's comfort. The second was waiting to see what David would do. The King knew what had happened. There were too many people involved in the ruse, including he himself, for it not to be common knowledge at the palace. David was furious at Amnon. But his anger was more towards being tricked, rather than the honor of his daughter. So Absalom realized he was going to receive no support from that angle. And decided to take matters into his own hands.

    • @Prophecy7122
      @Prophecy7122 Рік тому

      G i v toa flight down aces get smoked

    • @ericbrower611
      @ericbrower611 Рік тому +4

      @Liberty Loves Jesus But it's because of what David did in the past that he should have taken a stronger stance. "Because of my sin, my family was made to suffer. I *will not* sit by and watch it happen again". This *should* have been David's resolution. Instead we get "I know what Amnon did to Tamar was wrong. But I have no right dealing with it".

    • @janderson947
      @janderson947 Рік тому

      But rmeber before Solomon David took Uriah life remeber God said he forgave him but he did say ur family will FALL that was it absalom satan used him his anger,for his dad and brother to turn him against him and with David's charisma leadership and looks like his dad well David was on the run again except not from saul this time...

  • @KatsIsWeird24
    @KatsIsWeird24 Рік тому +38

    I blame myself because I too went through the same thing as Tamar, my lil brother tried to take revenge and kill my older half brother, my dad found out what happened and took my older half brother to jail, my family broke down after that, I’m filled with so much hate and sorrow and pain, I blame myself so much cuz I feel like the cause of my family’s fall, my lil brother has learned to forgive my older brother and goes to visit our older brother to read the Bible to him and to preach to him, we are a Christian family and still don’t understand why my older brother did that to me, but he did, he knew about me having to be a virgin so he did other things to me, I still feel dirty and I reek of sin even more and each day my hate grows, my family fell apart but we struggle to keep it all together, my mother called me a devil and him her son, my other sister said “so what, move on, get over it” after I told everyone what happened a minute ago, only my dad and my lil brother stood by my side, my lil brother almost killed my older half brother but I stopped him in time and my dad stepped in and took my older brother to jail, he didn’t fight it, he keeps asking for my forgiveness, I know he’s changed a lot, even physically, I feel bad but I just can’t, it’s too hard, psalms 13 and it’s been helping but I still blame myself, there will never be a day I don’t feel sorrow hate and pain

    • @anuoluwaposhotade3439
      @anuoluwaposhotade3439 Рік тому +12

      Please keep praying I know God will give you peace to overcome this

    • @LivingMyBestAlways
      @LivingMyBestAlways Рік тому +8

      I was rape by my own cousin I never told anyone in my family. From time to time it’s plagued my mind. I’m older now I never hate him but I never love him either.
      I find comfort in God for all the things I went through from a little girl from people who are supposed to love me. He died as a young man. T

    • @shantellaing1346
      @shantellaing1346 Рік тому +10

      You are the victim please do not be hard on yourself i pray and know god will comfort you.

    • @mynamestartswithj5415
      @mynamestartswithj5415 Рік тому +8

      I am also from a Christian family. I went through the same thing. It was my oldest maternal cousin who did it. My mom told me to forget about it to save our family. If ever I'll tell dad about it, who knows what he can do. Its pains me to see that they treat that oldest cousin as their own son while I'll just take my secret to the grave.
      I wanted revenge when I was young but I turned away from it. My older cousin is now successful in his life. He is happily married now with two sons.
      I honestly feel bad that everyone seems to move on and even the perpetrator is living a wonderful life while I am stuck here. I had nightmares growing up and I just overcame it. Its just that, that what cousin did too me had affected me so much that I am still bounded by sexual sin for 20+ years. Im trying to break away from it. Its just that whenever I take one step away, it pulls me two steps backward.

    • @sidicniy874
      @sidicniy874 Рік тому

      @@mynamestartswithj5415 Write a book about it print copies only for your family member only and withhold any copies from the world. Send the copies you printed to each of your family that want you to shut up about it, tell them you will print it with all their names and family sins, and make sure you send your cousin and his wife copies so he can beg for his wife forgiveness for the shame of his past that he refused to acknowledge. When you did this all of them will realize your pain and hurt and grovel to ask you not to let the book circulate. You deserve justice. Everybody around you should love and protect you but they don't care about your pain, be a fighter and hold your head high and let all the people know you can fight for yourself even if it takes 20 years for you to do it.

  • @BeamieUpScot
    @BeamieUpScot Рік тому +92

    perhaps the more important issues raised are that Tamar has no agency and no recourse. How is it that Tamar should have shame when her actions do not warrant it? What kind of society allows her to suffer such shame, and further--ostracisation, for being the victim of a violent crime while disallowing her any avenue to seek justice against it's perpetrator?

    • @IsraelCountryCube
      @IsraelCountryCube Рік тому +3

      I dont feel too bad for Tamar. She died withought children because she was raped and couldnt cope with finding no mate to pregnate who anymore as she was violated. But to also think Amnon is completely evil is laughable.

    • @pyronun6000
      @pyronun6000 Рік тому

      Christianity does. Cant expect anything less from that religion....
      If you're a woman in that religion you're better off dead.

    • @palakrawat8630
      @palakrawat8630 Рік тому +26

      We are talking about the Biblical times here. Worst time to be a woman!! Oh sorry, it is always worse to be a woman :/

    • @ufvc306
      @ufvc306 Рік тому +32

      @@IsraelCountryCube
      Why wouldn't you feel too bad for her? Sorry, I just don't really understand your comment.

    • @sabinaester1
      @sabinaester1 Рік тому +7

      Understand that civilizations are different.. that is why when Jesus died the curtain of the temple split into two. The previous civilizations did not have the Savior yet; the old testament is the testimony of proof to us on the difference between mankind without Jesus and civilization after Jesus. This is why John 3:16. We live in an evil world right from when sin entered the world as a result of free will. Thus Jesus said "These things I have spoken unto you, that you might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer: I have overcome the world." John 16:33. May we have the grace to put our steadfast hope in our savior Lord in this evil world. Journey mercies✨

  • @jorgeborrero8862
    @jorgeborrero8862 Рік тому +18

    Psalm 3:5
    I lay down and slept; I woke again, for the Lord sustained me.
    Psalm 139:17-18
    How precious to me are your thoughts, O God! How vast is the sum of them! If I would count them, they are more than the sand. I awake, and I am still with you.
    Psalm 119:24
    Your testimonies are my delight; they are my counselors.
    Proverbs 6:22
    When you walk, they will lead you; when you lie down, they will watch over you; and when you awake, they will talk with you.
    Psalm 19:11
    Moreover, by them is your servant warned; in keeping them there is great reward.
    Psalm 119:11
    I have stored up your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you.
    Isaiah 51:7
    Listen to me, you who know righteousness, the people in whose heart is my law; fear not the reproach of man, nor be dismayed at their revilings.
    1 Peter 2:23
    When he was reviled, he did not revile in return; when he suffered, he did not threaten, but continued entrusting himself to him who judges justly.
    Isaiah 53:7
    He was oppressed, and he was afflicted, yet he opened not his mouth; like a lamb that is led to the slaughter, and like a sheep that before its shearers is silent, so he opened not his mouth.
    1 Peter 4:19
    Therefore let those who suffer according to God's will entrust their souls to a faithful Creator while doing good.
    1 John 2:6
    whoever says he abides in him ought to walk in the same way in which he walked.
    John 13:15
    For I have given you an example, that you also should do just as I have done to you.
    Ezekiel 11:19
    And I will give them one heart, and a new spirit I will put within them. I will remove the heart of stone from their flesh and give them a heart of flesh,
    John 15:4
    Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me.🙏🏼

  • @Arabella--Leigh
    @Arabella--Leigh Рік тому +45

    This Story is Sad & Disturbing the Fact That Her Brother Lied & Tricked to Have her Sent to Him. Then he Violated her & it Made Tamar an Outcast. Could Have Been jealousy Toward Tamar. What Amnon Did to her Destroyed Her Life. it Was More Than Lust or Love. Amnon Plotted so He Could Ruin Tamar's Life.

    • @AirForceFalcons_9922
      @AirForceFalcons_9922 Рік тому +12

      I feel so heartbroken for Tamar.

    • @Lara_Larimar
      @Lara_Larimar Рік тому +12

      You are 100% right! That's what ill, narcissistic minded men do when they see beautiful and righteous woman! Amnon knew he is not worth her and she would never agree to this sin so he decided to take her by force !

    • @IsraelCountryCube
      @IsraelCountryCube Рік тому +2

      It is also sad too many dont learn from this story. instead especially women dont learn from this It was Unrighteous for Abasalom to kill his brother for violating his sister. Mabey the sister is the only one who is pure in this story. But she never forgave so therefore neither of them are now are they not? I ultimately dont feel anything for none of them. its a tragedy when you commit sin but its even a greater tragedy when youre the one not forgiving. So it doesnt matter if Amnon violated his sister. the best Righteous action she could have done is forgive him. because he too suffered from his Fathers generational cursed sin. this whole story is sad and if youre going to feel sad for the supposed only female victim then feel bad for the one who comitted the crime too. otherwise one is indeed playing the massive lack of morals but a hypocrite.

    • @iamahorsenut7541
      @iamahorsenut7541 Рік тому

      @@IsraelCountryCube you are clearly a disturbed male and very cruel

    • @lindataylor3834
      @lindataylor3834 Рік тому +24

      ​@@IsraelCountryCube Something seems really off about your reasoning and rationale. To suggest that Tamar was guilty of sin in her unforgiveness that was worse than the sins of incestuous kidnap, rape, and shame that was perpetrated against her is callous and absurd.
      Only a sexual predator would think that way.

  • @ericbrower611
    @ericbrower611 Рік тому +73

    IMHO, it's precisely because of the similarities in the two incidents, that David *should* have taken a stronger stance in his response to Amnon's sin. Not to mention, it was his brother's son who helped plan the rape. It was David's failure to deal harshly with the perpetrators that undoubtedly lead to Absalom's rebellion against his father.

    • @danae5578
      @danae5578 Рік тому +7

      Gotta whip it in gear and stop it in it's tracks. True

    • @ericbrower611
      @ericbrower611 Рік тому +29

      I know this is going to upset many viewers. But this is similar to how the Catholic Church tried to deal with the 'predatory priest's situations in the past. They claimed to want to keep it quiet, so as not to lose the trust of parishioners. But the trust had already been broken. And trying to "sweep it under the rug" only made things worse. They showed more concern towards public opinion, than how God might view a priest who commits such acts against a child. It's the same way with David. He was more concerned with how this made *his* family look, than how his *son* had violated and disgraced his *daughter.*

    • @ronmcclure7136
      @ronmcclure7136 Рік тому

      Interesting thought

    • @Lara_Larimar
      @Lara_Larimar Рік тому +1

      David was a King, famous person, he spent little to no time with his children!!! All kids NEED love and attention, but his kids could only enjoy seeing him at some events, not much tet-a-tet time! All his boys wanted to be like their Father and got very upset when he was distant...

    • @hillario7765
      @hillario7765 Рік тому

      David's justice is patient. Joab and Shimei both eventually paid for their sins, same with the household of Israel that sinned against David. He let Solomon pass the verdict.
      David embodies God's kind of justice. Just and true, never impulsive.

  • @laurinelavaud3370
    @laurinelavaud3370 Рік тому +13

    This was a meaningful lesson and reminder! Thank you for your content ❤️ Amen!

  • @oldtimereligion1stlady22
    @oldtimereligion1stlady22 Рік тому +12

    Sin has devastated our lives

  • @christinabrown7332
    @christinabrown7332 Рік тому +36

    I loved this video and this story is so sad but such a good learning lesson. Thank you for the beautiful prayer at the end.

    • @QuestionThingsUseLogic
      @QuestionThingsUseLogic Рік тому

      IF this story could even be proven to be true! Rome wrote your bible...

    • @createinmeacleanheartohgod6871
      @createinmeacleanheartohgod6871 Рік тому

      @@QuestionThingsUseLogic Romans were the product of this story, the sins of forefathers, until Jesus Christ was preached to them.
      Romans were the first converst to Catholicism.
      Look at the practice to Catholics, pretty much unbiblical.

    • @QuestionThingsUseLogic
      @QuestionThingsUseLogic Рік тому

      @@createinmeacleanheartohgod6871 jesus never existed, a Roman Emporer literally invented jesus based on the Greek demi god Dionysus. This same Emporer also wrote Josephus to support jesus 'existance'. Your NT is FULL of the names of the Piso-Flavian family names and you probably never knew it. Names such as Drusilla, Priscilla, Cornelius, Pliny, Marcus, Lucas, Antipas, Herod (Paul claimed he was related to Herod...) etc. Paul's writings were written long before the gospels, according to biblical scholars. Hmmm....the gospels are not eye witness accounts and were not authored by their name sakes.

    • @createinmeacleanheartohgod6871
      @createinmeacleanheartohgod6871 Рік тому

      @@QuestionThingsUseLogic You don't need to spread lies to me because i myself have experienced God supernaturally.
      So whether you believe or not, it doesn't change the fact that God exist.
      You don't party in hell as you were led to believe, you burn in hell in agonizing pain non stop.

  • @anthonydsouza9219
    @anthonydsouza9219 Рік тому +17

    Praise to our Lord Jesus ✝️🙏Amen

  • @emabelsmithable
    @emabelsmithable 11 місяців тому +4

    Absalom did what their father should have at least considered! No wonder David wept and lamented his oh, so cruel death , crying " Absalom my son, oh my son Absalom...!"

  • @DA-jw4lx
    @DA-jw4lx Рік тому +38

    I'm embarrassed to say I've never heard nor read this story. Thank you!

    • @GraceDigitalnetwork
      @GraceDigitalnetwork  Рік тому +9

      We All Learn Everyday

    • @gotch09
      @gotch09 Рік тому

      I was only slightly aware of it.

    • @davidrossi6255
      @davidrossi6255 Рік тому +1

      you dont mean it

    • @mikew7218
      @mikew7218 Рік тому +2

      I'm right there with you, I'm thankful for this channel 🙏 😊

    • @TriciaRP
      @TriciaRP Рік тому +2

      @@GraceDigitalnetwork is the whole world supposed to abide in the Bible. I was born again and SPIRITUALLY lost my way and did flesh horrible things and got into a mess. I hate I miss my generation and feel the HOLY GHOST GRIEVED and I got tricked. I was not obeying and got worst than the world and Seriously sick. I did horrible and feel I WASN'T Spiritually FULLY converted. i want to Youth Congress and HOLY CONVOCATION and don't remember HOW or why I got this way and feel Spiritually cut. Fornication and ridiculous sins just Beyond normal. I used to run from. Sins
      .I am not right and feel SICK and self destruct. A lot of these sins unnecessary and foolish. Not worth hell
      I am not sure where to go what to do. Feel setup and SPIRITUALLY Deceived.

  • @ANNROSETTE100
    @ANNROSETTE100 Рік тому +5

    Powerful and excellent commentary.. Aligned with the bible

  • @mariakeyvan4789
    @mariakeyvan4789 Рік тому +4

    So beautiful and informative.
    Enjoy it so much

  • @oldtimereligion1stlady22
    @oldtimereligion1stlady22 Рік тому +16

    The instigators like jonadab are still experienced even today, he was one who also have to be punished

    • @sum6903
      @sum6903 Рік тому

      Such people are around those with power, ammon being crown prince

    • @a.k.7341
      @a.k.7341 11 місяців тому

      Punish the rapist too

  • @kevinclint7588
    @kevinclint7588 Рік тому +6

    THANK YOU HEAVENLY FATHER FOR YOUR HOLY PERFECT PRECIOUS WONDERFULL AND RIGHTEOUS WORD,……………AMEN

  • @ickonbeauty9549
    @ickonbeauty9549 Рік тому +17

    Amnon was on lust with her, that wasn’t love. He was obsessed with his lust for her. I’m guessing she was absolutely stunning.

  • @M100Spiral
    @M100Spiral Рік тому +87

    David ordered Tamar to cook pastries for Amnon, not knowing what Amnon was up to. David should have reacted properly for his daughter, Tamar, no matter what his prior sins were. Joab killed Absalom when Absalom tried to take King David's position for himself. David's improper response to Tamar's rape caused Absalom to lose respect for his father, THE KING. Absalom felt his father was not the man to be king, because he was not man enough to deal with his domestic issues. Joab, despite being told by King David to not touch Absalom, did brutally killed him. Again, King David did nothing. However, if I am correct, King David arranged for Joab's murder or assassination. Also, if I am correct, Joab was murdered because King David never "forgave" Joab for killing his son, Absalom. After Absalom's death, Tamar was alone and desolate. She out-lived her brother. A "Tamar" was married in the bible, but I just researched and learned that she was a different Tamar and not King David's Tamar. One would think a King could arrange for a marriage for an extremely innocent, "obedient" daughter and brutally deflowered beautiful princess. One would think a king could find a member in the government to be Tamar's husband and father of her children, whether she is a princess or not.

    • @davidrossi6255
      @davidrossi6255 Рік тому +24

      David ordered Joab to commit the heinous murder on uriah, although rumor spread around ,no one really knew the actual depth of what happened except Joab(the General of the kings army). David in spite of his awful Sin was a wise king and couldn't pronounce any kind of judgement when everyone already knew he committed no less better sin.After Joab fufilled davids murder plot on Uriah,He lost respect for the King and spoke to him any how,even to the extent of rebuke and threathening him when he mourned for Absolam(2 sam 19:5-7).So many lessons to be drawn from the things-All this transpired because of Gods Judgement on David.If we really understand we will do things differently

    • @lindasmith3391
      @lindasmith3391 Рік тому +1

      It would have been wrong for David to encourage a man to marry Tamar. She had been defiled. It is true she was the innocent one. Tamar did right to stay single because that drew her closer to our Heavenly Father. Jesus did not marry. He walked in the spirit. Marriage is not for everyone. A spiritual relationship with our Holy Father is.

    • @M100Spiral
      @M100Spiral Рік тому +41

      @@davidrossi6255 I sincerely have my moments of disappointment when thinking of how David was "the apple of God's eye." David made a lot of mistakes. However, when reading his Psalms, one realizes King David repented A LOT to God. God felt he was "a righteous man." I am realizing a righteous man to God is not a man who does not sin, but a man who sins and can still repent!!! In Romans Chapter 1, the Apostle Paul writes about sinners, who sin so much, that God hands them over to "a reprobate mind." They were handed over to that state of mind, because they felt no shame and refused to repent. Those type of people also take please in seeing others committing the same sins. So, I have concluded that "a righteous man" to God is a man who can repent and fears losing the Holy Spirit. I guess it is truly human nature to sin intentionally and unintentionally. However, it is spiritual to apologize when one faces he or she has sinned!!! Also, David called out to God A LOT. He also cleaved to God A Lot. And, he also thanked and praised God A lot. One can get the impression that God loves to be needed by humanity. In one of the Psalms, God implies "because you know my name, I will help you!" Have a very nice weekend!

    • @M100Spiral
      @M100Spiral Рік тому +4

      @@kinglistosas5010 Yes, you are 100% correct!!! Somewhere in Proverbs, one of the verses mentions that the wicked or the sinner are receptive to lies, whereas the righteous or those who sin less are receptive to truth! By this spiritual formula, the wicked are caught in their own net, whereas the righteous survive and come out of situations unscathed!

    • @M100Spiral
      @M100Spiral Рік тому +10

      @@lindasmith3391 I see your point. However, the trauma was so severe. Many people, meaning scholars, feel or fear Tamar never quite recovered psychology and emotionally. She was possibly trapped in confusion and shame. As some might say, "She was drunk with pain." Remember Dinah? Jacob did not mind having the man, who deflowered her, marrying her after he was circumcised. As a matter of fact, most of that man's culture was circumcised as well. Remember, that man truly loved Dinah!!! However, the twelve--I believe all twelve--sons refused to allow Dinah to marry the man, and they killed the man and most of his culture when they were healing from the mass circumcision. Remember, how Jacob was SCARED to have that sin and blood on his sons. What the sons did honestly did not sit right with Jacob. He was afraid of the repercussions. I really feel Tamar live an isolated or alienated life. That complicated, multi-level trauma is truly hard to heal and overcome, especially alone without a support group.

  • @DNAATWINS17
    @DNAATWINS17 Рік тому +35

    May the Good Lord Bless this ministry. Thank you for helping me out with my walk with Christ. New subscriber!

  • @reinab8168
    @reinab8168 Рік тому +4

    Well done! I really learned alot. God bless!

  • @glendibben2381
    @glendibben2381 9 місяців тому +2

    Shalom Elecheim chaverims.
    The Book of Gad the Seer, not long returned to our Hebrew Sacred Scrolls. One of the forgotten Books.
    This Great Cepher gives real insight into Tamar's Terrible Predicament, Her Salvation by the Hands of King Solomon, and Her Betrothal to her New Husband.
    Awesome reading, so Supernatural and a Great Blessing to all who have the Intestinal Fortune to Obey Our precious Risen Jewish Saviour.
    Ya'sh'u'ah Ha Mashiach.
    Mazal Tov
    Bro Emek Tomas D'hiban.
    Australia.

  • @brendamaharaj9463
    @brendamaharaj9463 10 місяців тому

    Im thankful for the scriptures being unraveling to us ❤

  • @jasonvazquez7061
    @jasonvazquez7061 Рік тому +14

    I always assumed that after he murdered Amnon, Absolom took her with him when he fled.

  • @jessicadodd240
    @jessicadodd240 Рік тому +12

    I know my half brother wouldn't sleep with me but he did under the control of his son and his son's brothers and sisters to go with his son. This story makes me sad, my ex boyfriend Sam once said to i heard in a conversation "it skips a generation" knowing i came from a devout Christian mother he was warning me with the word of the Lord

  • @marymaina8060
    @marymaina8060 Рік тому +2

    Most educative video. Glory to God.

  • @natashamcdavid91
    @natashamcdavid91 Рік тому +1

    Absolutely Awesome....

  • @chidinmaokpokiri5205
    @chidinmaokpokiri5205 Рік тому +22

    I support Absalom for killing Ammon. Ammon is more wicked than everyone in Davids House

    • @tomboyraider1015
      @tomboyraider1015 Рік тому +10

      Same. Absalom simply avenged Tamar.

    • @wenduamadi998
      @wenduamadi998 Рік тому

      He is wicked

    • @hillario7765
      @hillario7765 Рік тому

      No, Absalom is more wicked than everyone else, more wicked than even Amnon. Read your bible and you'll know this.

    • @woodrowpowell4441
      @woodrowpowell4441 Рік тому

      I am not pro death: but Amnon needed to be punished for what he did.

    • @tonyebiere551
      @tonyebiere551 Рік тому +3

      but why dint they also kill the guy who advised Amnon to pretend to be sick so he can have access to his sister

  • @777thprecinctvaaltriangle5
    @777thprecinctvaaltriangle5 Рік тому +5

    What is very incredible of David is that God never reminded about David's sin because his repentance was sincere. We know that Absalom wants to take over David's by turn the nations heart from David.

  • @monaoconnell5650
    @monaoconnell5650 Рік тому

    This is an excellent presentation!

  • @sunalineemoore906
    @sunalineemoore906 10 місяців тому

    Thank be to God, from your bright knowledges from Torah , each person that you chose so good in much details thank so much and blessings to your team work for all of us ❤🙏⚘😇👍🏻

  • @tonyalafayette144
    @tonyalafayette144 Рік тому +4

    A story we should take to heart

  • @LouisianaBaby83
    @LouisianaBaby83 Рік тому +5

    My mom named me after her and and I'm always proud to tell the story behind my name even though it's tragedy behind it

  • @brendamonrreal7887
    @brendamonrreal7887 Рік тому

    Love the way this was explain. thanks so much

  • @danielnjovu3652
    @danielnjovu3652 Рік тому +1

    Blessed is you for reading this comment and blessed is everyone you know.

  • @albertaatieno
    @albertaatieno Рік тому +145

    I'll put in my 2 cents.... "That his father cried for his rapist son and that the only person to give his sister justice would be condemned..." is diabolical. Rape takes pieces of the victims soul. It's a pain that burns and a shame that never ever leaves. To be raped by someone you should have trusted is a mental paradox that puts the mind in a constant loop of devastation and even that is an understatement. The whole bible is a trigger for me.

    • @sublimin4l
      @sublimin4l Рік тому +24

      Yeah cause it’s real life.

    • @Lara_Larimar
      @Lara_Larimar Рік тому +6

      It was very painful for Famar to see that her Father, David did not support her neither he brought to justice Amnon. She was heavily bullied in David's palace, other David's wives hated her as she was beautiful, also jewish pharisees approved Amnon's crime because Famar's mother was not jewish! It felt like whole world turned back on her! Bathsheba was not that innocent woman, she had ties to black magicians! Her goal was to remove/ destroy all David's kids so no one but HER son/kids can claim the throne! Evil people followed Famar to ensure she doesn't have kids! When Famar got old they finally left her alone, she lived for about 1000 years. She was close to Ioakim and Anna, when Virgin Marry was born Famar died in piece and happiness!
      After Famar's r%pe black magicians later ma$onic cult started practicing adultery on other kids - it is still widely practiced by this evil cult! That was they are trying to get child's soul.

    • @Narwhy
      @Narwhy Рік тому +49

      @@Lara_Larimar where do you get this information because it's not biblical.

    • @aleathacoleman6413
      @aleathacoleman6413 Рік тому

      Even though his son raped his daughter he is still his son. He grieved that his son committed this act. He saw the consequences of his son actions as recompense for his son.

    • @IsraelCountryCube
      @IsraelCountryCube Рік тому

      If you cant feel sorry for His Rapist son what does that say about you? It is obvious to me you wouldnt condemn a rapist female. Because your whole being is flawed as female and biased with emotions. SO what? THats his son. Not a stranger. What good would it do if he killed his son? Because youre impliying Great harm to Amnom. Yes feel sorry for his rapist son hes not to blame only. Why not feel sorry both? If you think youre on a higher moral virtue ground that says alot about you which is the opposite of good. and also would it have been better if A female is raped by a female and would that happen? So therefore no this isnt the worst that can happen to a woman by a man. YOU need to calm down and shut up and forgive. You cant even come to repentance of your sins. If youve learned nothing.

  • @somileisan3960
    @somileisan3960 Рік тому +8

    David failed to protect his daughter and Absalom was a good brother who is worthy of taking ove the throne. David destroyed many lives because of his sexual sins not sure why God chose him as his favorite.

    • @psychedelicpayroll5412
      @psychedelicpayroll5412 11 місяців тому

      God chose him because he was always repenting of his most shameful sins and pouring his heart out to him. Like how he serenaded him in the book of psalms. It is weird isn’t it but we are not meant to truly understand God. I can relate though to David pouring his heart to God and being a completely different person in his presence. But still the Lord did give him the consequence of having his family eventually have the throne taken from them.

  • @shirleyharold3213
    @shirleyharold3213 4 місяці тому +1

    I just revisited this story and it’s sad that a woman has to be ashamed of what was done to her body and to not get support. Thank god for her brother it couldn’t have been an easy decision but he stood his ground.

  • @idafernandez7229
    @idafernandez7229 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @ahnobiahnobitok9057
    @ahnobiahnobitok9057 Рік тому +4

    That Jonadab🤬And Amnon was absolute trash. Absalom came through and did what needed to be done, for his sister. He has my support. And what happened to David?? He used to be mighty now he reads as pathetic.

    • @psychedelicpayroll5412
      @psychedelicpayroll5412 11 місяців тому

      The ones who never read their Bible only see David in his younger years when God helped him beat Goliath. A story that they love to tell children. I used to see that too until I actually got close to God and he told me to read the Bible and see the reality for myself that humans never changed even if they were blessed by God.

  • @jehc898
    @jehc898 Рік тому +4

    1. Search me, O God!
    Psalm 139:23 - Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts!
    “Father, I desire to be the best in what I do today. So I ask You to investigate my life and examine my deepest motives. Cross-examine my thoughts and give me a clearer picture of myself according to Your truth. May Your glory be revealed in me and shine through me this day. Amen”
    2. Teach me Your way, O LORD!
    Psalm 86:11 - Teach me your way, O LORD, that I may walk in your truth; unite my heart to fear your name.
    “Teach me Your ways, O LORD. Train me to walk on Your path of truth, so that my heart will be united with Your heart. I worship You in awe and wonder.”
    3. O God, fulfill Your purposes in me! Psalm 57:2 - I cry out to God Most High, to God who fulfills his purpose for me.
    “O God of greatness and goodness, grant me the courage to see everything in my life as a means of fulfilling Your purposes-and not simply my desires.”
    4. Examine me, O LORD!
    Psalm 26:2 - Prove me, O LORD, and try me; test my heart and my mind.
    “O God, let my motives pass your smell test. Examine my life from head to toe and test the purity of my life through Your fire. Amen.”
    5. Teach me to do Your will, O God! Psalm 143:10 - Teach me to do your will, for you are my God! Let your good Spirit lead me on level ground!
    “God of all goodness, teach me how to walk in obedience with Your Word and how to be led by Your Spirit so I may find the clear and level path of pleasing You.”
    6. Yes, LORD, I am available and ready to listen! Exodus 3:4 - When the LORD saw that he turned aside to see, God called to him out of the bush, “Moses, Moses!” And he said, “Here I am.”
    “Father, I am here today, experiencing the wonder of Your presence. I am listening to Your voice and doubting my abilities, but ready to be used for Your glory and the advancement of Your mission.”
    7. Restore my joy and grant me a willing spirit, O LORD!
    Psalm 51:12 - Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and uphold me with a willing spirit.
    “Father in Heaven, overwhelm my soul with the wonder of Your great salvation. Keep my spirit soft, tender, and willing to do Your will this day. Amen!”
    8. Search my heart for that which offends You, O God!
    Psalm 139:24 - And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting!
    “Show me, O LORD, my blind spots! Reveal to me, O God, any unknown areas of my life that make me vulnerable. Lead my life on Your right path, Your path of eternal life and infinite blessing.”
    9. O LORD, save me from whining! Psalm 55:2 - Attend to me, and answer me; I am restless in my complaint and I moan.
    “O God, come quickly. Save me from embarrassing myself. Bring peace to my restlessness and perspective to my pain. Break me of a whiny spirit! Teach me to trust You- and not my circumstances.”
    10. O my God, may my work leave a lasting legacy.
    Nehemiah 13:14 - Remember me, O my God, concerning this, and do not wipe out my good deeds that I have done for the house of my God and for his service.
    “Father in Heaven, be intimately aware of my motives for serving You so that You will not wipe out my efforts or let others harm the work done in Your name. Father, may You judge my motives and bless the work of my hands for Your honor and glory. Amen.”
    11. Let Your light of truth shine deep within my heart, O LORD! Psalm 43:3 - Send out your light and your truth; let them lead me; let them bring me to your holy hill and to your dwelling!
    “O LORD, light up my life with Your truth! Shine Your light into the dark places of my soul. Overwhelm me by the warmth of Your loving kindness and draw me into Your holy presence, for You are my joy. Amen.”
    12. Teach me to number my days, O LORD. Psalms 39:4-5 - O LORD, make me know my end and what is the measure of my days; let me know how fleeting I am! Behold, you have made my days a few handbreadths, and my lifetime is as nothing before you. Surely all mankind stands as a mere breath! Selah.
    “O LORD, You are my hope! Save me from trusting in my health and my wealth. Keep me centered on You moment- by-moment and day-by-day, for Your glory and the advancement of Your mission. Amen.”
    13. Here I am. Send me, O LORD!
    Isaiah 6:8 - And I heard the voice of the Lord saying, “Whom shall I send, and who will go for us?” Then I said, “Here I am! Send me.”
    “Holy, Holy, Holy is the LORD God Almighty! Show me the hidden needs of my heart and the brokenness of Your people. Cleanse me, renew me, and strengthen me with the power of Your presence, for I am ready and willing to be used by You for Your great purposes! Amen.”
    14. Make Your face shine upon me, O LORD!
    Psalm 119:135 - Make your face shine upon your servant, and teach me your statutes.
    “Father in Heaven, I live for an audience of one and that is You! Father, I want Your face to shine on my life. May my life be so aligned with Your Word that I will experience Your smiling approval and hear these words from Your heart, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant.’”
    15. Have mercy on me, O God!
    Psalm 51:1 - Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love; according to your abundant mercy blot out my transgressions.
    “O LORD, You know the depth of my guilt! Have mercy on me! Out of Your loving kindness and abundance of mercy, remove from me the stain of my sin, through the precious blood of Jesus my Savior.”
    16. Father, shape me and mold me. Isaiah 64:8 - But now, O LORD, you are our Father; we are the clay, and you are our potter; we are all the work of your hand.
    Take my life, shape it, mold it and conform it. I yield my life to Your Potter’s Hands. Take my life, use me, lead me and guide me. I submit my life into Your hands Loving Father.”
    17. Help me finish well, O LORD!
    Psalm 71:9 - Do not cast me off in the time of old age; forsake me not when my strength is spent.
    “Father, as I grow older, may my devotion grow stronger. As my body grows weaker, may Your Spirit strengthen my inner being. Father, grant me the grace to finish well and to continue to be useful in Your service. Amen”
    18. O LORD, teach me how to treat those who oppose me.
    Psalm 27:11 - Teach me your way, O LORD, and lead me on a level path because of my enemies.
    “O LORD, show me the courageous path to the high road in my difficult relationships! Grant me the strength not to react by taking matters in my own hands, but to courageously wait on You to show me the level path.”
    19. O LORD, grant me truthful lips and a contented heart.
    Proverbs 30:7-9 - “Two things I ask of you; deny them not to me before I die: Remove far from me falsehood and lying; give me neither poverty nor riches; feed me with the food that is needful for me, lest I be full and deny you and say, ‘Who is the Lord?’ or lest I be poor and steal and profane the name of my God.”
    “O God, I beg two favors from you; let me have them before I die. First, help me never to tell a lie. Second, give me neither poverty nor riches! Give me just enough to satisfy my needs. For if I grow rich, I may deny you and say, ‘Who is the Lord?’ And if I am too poor, I may steal and thus insult God’s holy name” (Proverbs 30:7-9, NLT)
    20. Yes, Lord, I am listening!
    Acts 9:10 - Now there was a disciple at Damascus named Ananias. The Lord said to him in a vision, “Ananias.” And he said, “Here I am, Lord.”
    “Here I am, Lord. I am open, ready, and willing to do what You ask of me. Grant me the courage and conviction to see beyond the obstacles, to rest in Your promises, and to see Your mission fulfilled through me. Amen.”
    21. Lord, increase my faith!
    Luke 17:5 - The apostles said to the Lord, “Increase our faith!”
    “Father, I’m at my wits’ end! I can’t do what You are asking in my own strength! I need You. I need Your strength
    and I need You to increase my faith to see You work supernaturally in my life and ministry. Father, I believe, but help me overcome my unbelief. Amen.” Comment, if you received these prayers. 😇❤️💫

  • @jesuslovesyou1
    @jesuslovesyou1 Рік тому

    Thank you for explaining

  • @christiedecker2724
    @christiedecker2724 Рік тому +9

    @Grace Digital Network - You said that Jonadab urged him not to act on his thoughts toward Tamar, that is not correct. He is the one that planned the whole scheme. Other than that, an excellent video. Blessings!

  • @oldtimereligion1stlady22
    @oldtimereligion1stlady22 Рік тому +11

    Only the fear of the Lord restrain us all from taking revenge bcs we are instructed to leave vengeance for the Lord bcs even if Ammon was forced to marry Tamar he was still going to abuse her emotionally

    • @melissa-jadewilliams8136
      @melissa-jadewilliams8136 Рік тому +5

      God has a lot to do. You should not let people walk all over you. God would not want that and he gave you the power to fight.

    • @a.k.7341
      @a.k.7341 11 місяців тому

      If God doesn't do justice, people should take revenge

  • @scharles991
    @scharles991 Рік тому +1

    Amazing story!!

  • @reynaldobabatuan1039
    @reynaldobabatuan1039 10 місяців тому

    Very informative. The storyteller has a very distinct voice. EXCELLENT presentation👍😃

  • @Sunshine-lo6vd
    @Sunshine-lo6vd Рік тому +3

    Absalom, you are my man !!

  • @sum6903
    @sum6903 Рік тому +4

    When David married Abigail, Nabal's widow, why can't he arrange for Tamar to get married ??? ... David didn't care for Tamar's future ☹.. he should have banished ammon also

  • @rickyt3961
    @rickyt3961 Рік тому

    thank you!

  • @johnsonricardo98
    @johnsonricardo98 Рік тому

    Thus was a great video

  • @oldtimereligion1stlady22
    @oldtimereligion1stlady22 Рік тому +22

    What absub request, you can see what the curse can do😭We all suffer from dysfunctional families from witchcraft and we wonder why the world is in turmoil

    • @Strega4646
      @Strega4646 Місяць тому

      Huh? Suffer from witchcraft?

  • @umakumar3901
    @umakumar3901 Рік тому +10

    PRAISE GOD .my dear sister LORI I’m writing this for you.when any one hurts us .we are Spose to forgive them not to CURSE them.that’s the only way GOD will FORGIVE us.If you truly know the LORD .God Bless.♥️ Uma from Vancouver.🙏👏🙌🔥🌹🌺✝️💕💜💓🌹🔥🌺🙏👏🙌🌺

  • @srjshapthnktl4978
    @srjshapthnktl4978 Рік тому +1

    Great lessons

  • @sandraseifert8393
    @sandraseifert8393 Рік тому +1

    so good! keep it up :)

  • @philippinestroppoholic7996
    @philippinestroppoholic7996 Рік тому +4

    Amnon should have known nothing good would come from his actions. Justice prevailed.

  • @magdalinenjambi9047
    @magdalinenjambi9047 Рік тому +8

    Great narration. Please improve on not being repetitive as you narrate. Be direct and straight to the point moving on to the next,otherwise it can be boring and confusing

  • @barbaraallen8439
    @barbaraallen8439 Рік тому

    Lord thank you for keeping us 😌🙏🏽

  • @febaroypt6706
    @febaroypt6706 Рік тому

    Very well explained 😇

  • @forg7588
    @forg7588 Рік тому +14

    This is so sad. :( Do we get a story about how Tamar fared after all this happened? Was she able to heal?

    • @Prophecy7122
      @Prophecy7122 Рік тому +5

      No she never returned to her self gone forever the spirit in her is gone dead to her

    • @karmenmayaguerra9534
      @karmenmayaguerra9534 Рік тому +7

      No, it destroys yourself worth when you have been taught the importance of getting married a virgin.

    • @a.k.7341
      @a.k.7341 11 місяців тому +2

      Sexual abuse is not something you ever heal from

    • @nicoobrowner59
      @nicoobrowner59 10 місяців тому

      The bible says she lived indoors in her brother's (Absolom) house for years. She never recovered. She hid herself and grieved the tragedy that befell her 😢

  • @michellearcilla5135
    @michellearcilla5135 Рік тому +3

    @Grace Digital Network Absalom did not die as a maverick leader. He was killed by Joab, in spite of David's instruction to be gentle with his son for his sake (2 Samuel 18:5). Joab took 3 javelins in his hand and plunge them into Absalom's heart while he was still alive, hanging in the oak tree (2 Samuel 18:14-15).

  • @sunshinelindsey8845
    @sunshinelindsey8845 Рік тому

    May God bless you and I love your videos

  • @fightthegoodfightoffaithmi8676

    Joel 2:28
    And it shall come to pass afterward, that I will pour out my spirit upon all flesh; and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy, your old men shall dream dreams, your young men shall see visions:
    1 Corinthians 15:10
    But by the grace of God I am what I am: and his grace which was bestowed upon me was not in vain; but I laboured more abundantly than they all: yet not I, but the grace of God which was with me.

  • @dollytan1729
    @dollytan1729 Рік тому +16

    Don’t name your daughter Tamar,don’t seem to hv good ending.The other Tamar(Judah’s daughter-in-law) who became his wife thru trickery.

    • @Catalyna
      @Catalyna Рік тому +4

      There is a famous Tamar Braxton, her life is bad.

    • @dollytan1729
      @dollytan1729 Рік тому +2

      Thank u for info,sorry I’m not aware of this Tamar Braxton can u expand on this?thanks

    • @Catalyna
      @Catalyna Рік тому +1

      @@dollytan1729 her family made lot of money from singing,
      They kicked her sister out, her and 3 other sisters kicked the 4th sister out of the music group, because the 4th sister was pregnant and wanted to have a baby, she was b only 23 or so , not too young.
      They forced the sister to abort the baby or get kicked out, the sister kept the baby thankfully. That's just the beginning of the story that was 20 years ago.. so many bad things involving this Tamar Braxton I don't know where to begin,
      anyway this sister just passed from cancer*(the sister that they wanted her to have abortion to stay in the band even though they were in there mid to late 20's) and more Bad things happening,
      Tamar also almost died from a stroke when she was on a dancing with stars tv show.
      She also has a child from whom she divorced the husband few years ago, the husband (and father of the child but who Tamar never lets see or visit) is the music producer for the very evil one Lady Gaga, theres just so much more I could write a book on this Tamar Braxton.
      Oh and she is very vulgar, the way she speaks to everyone in her family very vulgar. (she uses God's name in vain in almost every sentence she can , and curses worse than a Sailor, to her mom, sisters, father, everyone even when they tell her to stop and she is 40 years old still)
      She is in her 40's, millionaire, has a son, and a tv show and still very vulgar to everyone around her,
      she was going to be married last year to a man of God named David (he was very religious and had her pray before any meal and to read the bible and have it in her house, somethng her family did not do, did not like to do)and
      she left him for another womans (an affair she had with her husband) man, she is just so bad in her decisions. She is a homewrecker now, with a broken family, and a child whos father is connected to satanist Lady Gaga, and has a love for money and cursing and fightning no matter if it's her family or not.
      Oh and I forgot to mention she does witchcraft, when she was with her man of God that was named David, it was on a new tv show so we saw many things,
      one of the things David argued with her was she kept inviting a witch over and paying the witch money to do "rituals" and he did not like this he told her that God is the only one she should listen to and not to what the witch tells her or what the witch made her have dreams of,
      she had to Fire (to not pay her anymore or see her) the witch on TV to stay with him,
      but she kept visiting the witch outside the house , we think this may be why she left David but many do not know the reason why they broke up it was not filmed.
      After she left him which was last year, she found another woman's husband and she took him from her and now they are "engaged", it is tragic for that woman's family that why I called her a homewrecker, she knew what she was doing, this Tamar Braxton

    • @steventroyer5801
      @steventroyer5801 Рік тому +5

      Both Tamars were honorable in their time. But the connotation of what they experienced would make me hesitant to use the name.
      Another name that is rarely used is Judah. The patriarch was an outstanding example of repentance and redemption, but the association of Iscariot eclipses that for most people.

    • @Dizzydollie7
      @Dizzydollie7 Рік тому +3

      Lots of Tamar’s have happy lives. It’s a very common Jewish name. 🙄 superstition isn’t healthy

  • @randyovercash8234
    @randyovercash8234 Рік тому +8

    Lust incest and rape by force. Is all sin. !

  • @ginasmith5464
    @ginasmith5464 Рік тому +2

    I pray that whoever is reading this may God bless you and your path in life may you be strengthen in faith and drenched in Gods love may your house and all whom enter be blessed , God bless you with prosperity, love and abundance of all your heart desires a according to his law may you live your life full of happiness and joy ! God sustains is it is who who holds us up . Always stayed in prayer be thankful and grateful for God and all he does for us . May his will be done not ours amen glory be to God may your name be praised forever AMEN

  • @jimmycosse289
    @jimmycosse289 8 місяців тому

    Powerful story

  • @melissa-jadewilliams8136
    @melissa-jadewilliams8136 Рік тому +4

    Absalom is a hero.

  • @9845800735
    @9845800735 Рік тому +3

    King David life 50% Hero and 50% Villan, one sin sanked him completely he lost his Blessing forever... Thank you for beautiful video...

  • @joellukeovercomingvictoryt8183

    I am from the tribe of Judah, and I have real bad lust problems, but with fasting it can and will be overcome. God bless you brothers and sisters

  • @remio1377
    @remio1377 Рік тому

    Amen!

  • @ginahochstein3716
    @ginahochstein3716 10 місяців тому +1

    I remember that Amnon had been told, that he could ask David to marry Tamar. But he did not want that: he wanted to rape and discard her, he was perverse, he was violent. By all means David needed to punish him, by doing nothing, he went along with the evil doings of that perverse Narcissist.
    All the careful wording can distract us from what went on.
    Amnons desires were outside of the Jewish law clearly. He would have been obliged to marry any woman he had touched. Again: the 'love' of a Narcissist is hatred all the same.

  • @ericbrower611
    @ericbrower611 Рік тому +35

    I'm sorry, but why do you say that Jonadab tried to urge Amnon not to commit his crime? The scheme to trick Tamar into Amnon's room was *HIS IDEA!* You don't get to say Jonadab helped Amnon, and then say he tried to dissuade him.
    Actually, I'm surprised Jonadab was still a royal councilor. After what happened, i would have at *least* presumed he would be thrown out.

    • @M100Spiral
      @M100Spiral Рік тому +4

      I agree!!!👏

    • @yolandamenendez9783
      @yolandamenendez9783 Рік тому +15

      True, Jonadab made things worst. He was like a snake in the Kingdom of David and planted an evil seed. I can only imagine what else Jonadab did. Amnon was already thinking like a sexual predator but Jonadab fuel the fire. There is so much to unravel from this story. This is a terrible thing to do.

    • @Jesus-ip8be
      @Jesus-ip8be Рік тому +7

      I think that’s why at the end he said don’t be surrounded by negative people or be careful who you listen to for an advice.

    • @zepkauvaka8316
      @zepkauvaka8316 Рік тому +6

      we can't ignore what God said, the sword will NOT depart from your household. That's why Jonadab remained lol

    • @Lara_Larimar
      @Lara_Larimar Рік тому

      Agree!