Thank you I'm dealing with a narcissist and I'm telling you it's hard especially when you're dependent on them cause you lost your job putting everyone before yourself
@@cerinaflemister absolutely sorry for the delay. The book is called Forgiving What You Can't Forget: Discover How to Move On, Make Peace with Painful Memories, and Create a Life That’s Beautiful Again.
What's most BEAUTIFUL about Eva is how she is overcoming depression looking more radiant than ever! Prayers to Eva on this new journey she is embarking on. 🙏🏾❤
Yesss!!! I said the same thing to my family and friends. It was all a shock to them, but I told them that I mourned my marriage while I was still in it, so when I finally let it go, it felt like a ton of bricks off of my shoulders. This was 21 years ago, and I have no regrets on doing it. My ex-husband and I are in a much better place right now, thank goodness. 🥹🙏🏾💙
Even separation from a long term relationship is like divorce can be depressing and stressful smh. You have to find a new glow about yourself and know that you are great and you are worthy and a beautiful person and disregard the naysayers period!
FR we never get married to get divorced We get married to be married So its devastating when divorce is what we're looking at And the one we are divorcing isn't the person we married. She looking so much better. I felt bad for her. She's GORGEOUS 😍
I just went through it almost 3 years ago and it’s awfully hard for real I understand what your saying But we still standing, I literally thought I was gonna die when we were back and forth in court
It's how you look at it. You should be whole with God as an individual. A person shouldn't make nor break you. If you identify and find your being in that person then you set yourself to fail during and after if it happens.
Yes ma'am say it again I went through a divorce and I was a hot mess myself so I know how she feels it's not easy but they're not actually dead they walking around but it is like a death
I used to work at Phipps Plaza Mall....I worked as a Assistant Security Director. During my time there I stood in front of Saks...greeting people as they entered the Saks store. I was known for how I dressed...I knew how to wear a suit. Eva would stopped and give me the most warm greeting...one day she told me that I may best the best dressed man in Atlanta....I have never forgotten that. A compliment coming from her was extremely amazing....I thank God she endured those tough times with her husband. I'm married and its something I don't want to ever experience. May God bless her....
People were vile about her weight , and forgot that she was going through a tough time. So glad she addressed it, although she shouldn't have had to. Wishing you all the best Eva. Your future is bright
Exactly people are always ready to cut down a person without knowing what’s the reason behind certain things. This is precisely why we need to not be so judgmental about everything we see.
I love how many of you are validating what she’s saying with your own experiences. Life be life-ing and it gets hard sometimes. Wishing healing, growth, restoration, joy, and love for us all ❤
@@donttrymetryjesus4566exactly that’s why I believe she was naturally losing weight because of what she went through, unlike these other celebs taking different medications to lose weight making them look like addicts🤮
Man, Eva isn't lying! I'm currently going through a divorce. We called it quits 5 months ago and I've already lost 20+ pounds and I'm taking MUCH better care of myself physically, mentally, and emotionally. It is a healing and learning process, but overall I'm doing alright and navigating through it all.
Yep me too… however my ex does not want to give it up.. he wants to be married but live separately and do whatever and whenever he feels like it. And because I am setting boundaries with him continuing with life without his assistance consent need he gets upset…
@@jaykisuke3397 That's the dumbest thing I've heard lol! I'm much happier now and it's wonderful getting myself back out there. A lot of people are interested in used cars with high mileage. It's a better deal financially 😉😁!
@@crowder807right, no one fully knows what went on in their home but them. To tell someone, especially someone they don't know, "she should have never left her husband" is absurd to say the least.
@@kenyafromcali Yes, that's part for course, stats reflect that more women file for divorce than men. I believe that's due to men's willingness to deal with a bad marriage more than women, and often that means men withdraw. But I don't know them so 🤷🏾♂️
You definitely will pull through. God's got you. Jeremiah 31:3 ...“I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness. @@christinagoins2012
Not everyone some get fatter. I sure didn’t lose or gain weight. I will not let another human dictate if I eat or not eat if I can’t sleep or sleep to much. Especially I know my ex not even thinking about how I’m living . Why give him the satisfaction. And I’m not beautiful and I don’t have money. But I love me more than any other human can love me.
@@LivingMyBestAlways you are very fortunate but a lot of people don't have your kind of strength and they have to fight to get to your level. So let's send some encouraging words to those who need help finding their way out of that dark place.❤
It can go either way....some folks are emotional eaters and will eat when depressed. Happy she got ahead of the story and addressed the weight loss herself.
I lost 125lbs. My skin broke out. My hair fell out. Couldn't control my blood pressure. Blew out my kidneys. Now on dialysis. But.... God. Im still here. Thriving. Happy in my new life, new relationship. Not at all looking like what is going on.
My name is Eva too, and I have been separated for 6 months from my husband. I was treated so poorly prior to the separation that I lost 30 pounds. I have gained every pound back, and I am trying to adjust to being single.
Praying 🙏 for God to give you strength, comfort, and peace!! Trust God !! he will never leave you or forsake you!! You will get through this!! Sending love and hugs to you!!❤️❤️❤️
When I got a divorce I lost a lot of weight I got down to 90 pounds and people don’t make it No better for me! They talk about me said I look horrible I lost my long hair and had to cut it all off. I’m ok now I don’t wish stress on Nobody.
Depression can take you to a place that no matter how strong you think you are Babe 😒 you go under sometimes without any return 😢 However, through the grace of Christ you get pulled up and you become stronger and snap back, new and improved 🫶🏾 ready for that new Journey. New heart, beautiful soul and an Thankful Spirit
She is one of the most strikingly, beautiful women I have ever seen... I hope that speaks to the women out there that have divorced to know that you are not alone. It doesn't matter what you look like, we all go through it… God bless her and everyone out there who has, is or will experience this… Divorce is not fun, but there is life afterwards… So much life! #prayerworks!
This is absolutely true. I remember going through my divorce it was so devastating and I had to rediscover who I was. I now teach women how to heal and rediscover themselves after divorce. 💖
Wow this was a eye opener because i feel like that and I’ve never gone through a divorce but trying to rediscover who you are outside of a relationship that was strong , meaningful and gave me a deeper meaning of who I was. It’s hard. Thank you for sharing ❤😊🙏🏼🕊️
Once I found out about a situation in my marriage I suffered in my mental stage: I lived as a non functional woman, wife, and lover : I became numb, depressed, isolated, misery, delusional, and lived a life of lies: I was deceived. When it finally came to the divorced end I was deserted and went into. Stage of loneliness: I lost weight and lost my appetite: I truly appreciate Eve sharing this moment
I lost 35+ pounds after a 5 year marriage. I missed my ex-wife and kids so much that I didn't realize I had stopped eating. A few years later, I got into a 2 year relationship with another woman, and we broke it off, and I ended up gaining some weight back from that break up. The difference was that I was broken from the 1st one and relieved from the 2nd. 🤕
Shes right losing someone you love will change you..hiding your depression, not eating trying to find your place after this loss. isent easy, I totally get it ❤
Love Eva's honesty.. remember rooting for her when she became America Top Model!!,,love her in her element being Madam and other roles she played in!!♥️💙💜💛💚
Here she is telling her story!!! And yet ppl knew this and ridiculed her online and shamed her for weight loss like they didn’t know she was going through a divorce. Remember ppl pain shows in a variety of ways. Have compassion & understanding.🌸
Wow. I had no idea she went through a divorce. I feel so bad. I’m glad she made it through that rough time though fr. She literally came through that unscathed. It’s amazing. Such a strong, powerful woman!
Eva you said that!!! Women need to rediscover who they really are at all stages of life,with or without marriage. We need to never lose our true selves. We can be everything that others need us to be but we need to hold on to ourselves thru it all. That's how we stay sane and strong as leather that is well together.
"...strong as leather." I love that comparison. People usually say strong as hell, as steel, as an ox, etc. Never heard strong as leather. I love it. That's what I aspire 2 b. Thanx 4 that, albertabrown2126.
She’s so freaking beautiful omg! I get what she’s saying. When I’m stressed or depressed I lose weight and I’m already slim. Everyone deals with situations like that differently.
Me too. It can be very devastating at times. But I always end up eating my pain away so I gain weight instead of losing it. Occasionally I have no appetite and don't want to eat but not eating seems to make it worse for me. So on those days I always have to force myself to eat something. I don't want to sink any deeper into depression.
Eva I was in the same situation so I feel your pain. When my husband and I divorced many moons ago, I was so depressed and devastated I lost so much weight I looked like a zombie . Like you said I was not the wife anymore & didn’t know how I was going to survive. I was still a mum and that was my driving force to survive although I felt like giving up at times. I’m glad I didn’t give up with the help of family, friends and God, after 3 + years I started to heal. Unless you’ve gone through it, people won’t understand. It’s like death and you have to grieve.
Divorce is actually like a death and some of us take it harder than others but at the end of the day it’s painful for everyone involved. Especially when you have children watching while you trying to cope and adjust from the mess the parents have created in their lives so everyone suffers. I hope and pray Eva is able to pull it all together and heal from depression as well as the loss. Not to mention being a mother helping devastated children to find their footing while getting on track with the new direction their life is taking them. Hoping Eva the best with all her future endeavors.
So true. I lost so much weight when I was going through my separation, but the come back is going to be amazing. I had to find me again and love me again.
Both are very pretty, but her facial features are different from Vanessa's. Vanessa's features are fuller and rounder. Eva's features are more aquiline. No shade, just different.
@sandraatkins2539 You must be very analytical 🙂 I didn't say she looks just like Vanessa Williams , only reminds me of her, remind can mean lots of things, not only appearance.I Agree that both are very beautiful women 😍 I am analytical too !! Lol..😅 Thanks for your reply!!
Divorce within its self is hard..let alone with children everything in life changes and we as women must continue to keep going praying and being safe. She is GORGEOUS..SHALOM
I’m currently going through a separation leading to a divorce and I’m going through all the stages of grief like it’s a death. Because it is a death of my marriage and friendship. 14 years is a long time to invest yourself. I’ve been with him for so long that I’m relearning myself everyday but the memories of us still fresh in my mind.
I’m sending you all kinds of good, healing vibes during this tough time! Please don’t use your precious energy on “could’ve, would’ve or should’ve”. Allow yourself time (possibly 2-5 years) to heal and mourn. I promise you the light is BRIGHTER at the end of the tunnel!!!
What Eva is saying is true. When you are hurt, you will lose weight or gain weight. It is possible that you can lose your hair, etc. Eva is still beautiful I prayed that she was not sick I thank God she is address the weight loss and she is coming out of that mean old depression.
She is so gorgeous! And yes divorce is like death, I lost so much weight so fast, I eat with normal stress, but learned REAL stress has me losing weight like crazy, wishing her the best ❤
I hear you and feel you! Same here! Divorce is tough but God gives us strength, peace and joy in the storm. He provides us with the peace that surpasses all understanding 🙌🏽🙌🏽 We Still look good and feel good by Gods grace & mercy.
I over understand, same here. When I’m depressed the last thing I’m thinking V about is good. She’s still beautiful and I know without a doubt she’ll gain it back & will overcome it all. 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
This is so true. I lost over 20 pounds and didn’t have the weight to loose so I looked emaciated. It is like going through a death. You are literally shedding what you’ve known for how many years to now rediscovering what is. I must say God Bless her because it takes a long time without therapy to move forward into the person you have now become, but anything is possible with God 🙏🏾❤️. May she lean on him and therapy to navigate this new normal for her and her children ❤️🙏🏾
She’s absolutely right after I lost my husband I lost 40lbs didn’t even realize I lost weight until other people pointed it out I was so grief stricken
Same here for me. When the Lord called .y beloved husband Gerald home, I was 310 and a year and a half later I'm 240. Grief is real and that bitch don't play 😢❤
@@missjoy6685A Divorce is still like a death between the two families, that have been bonded together for a certain amount of time. I rmmbr when my Parents split, it definitely got dark for about 3yrs., and felt like a death to our family. And it took me to become an adult to realize, that my Parents were HUMAN having human experiences.
@@demetriusjames9535No it didn't.. Her comment is trying to dissect WHY Eva filed for Divorce, or saying that her reasoning wasn't good enough. Eva's decision to Divorce was HER decision to make, and not meant to be dissected by strangers. It's still a Divorce, a seperation which is like a death.
Talk sista! Who am I ? Because we as women forget about ourselves in relationships. God made us naturally nurturers and we embrace that role but we seem to always forget about ourselves.
I think most women that has gone thru a divorce can relate to Eva I also lost weight experienced depression. I had to rediscover who I was again. I’m grateful for my lesson and now have a great testimony of how I overcame my divorce.
@@ewayniabrown5778 I was a mess too dear I talked about him to anyone that would listen. Until I realized I was keeping the pain alive that way. I just started getting busy doing things for myself and acknowledging my self worth now building solo feeling empowered you will too refocus and rebuild your confidence back! You got this🌹
Preach!🎉 Life be lifing, as it goes. Thanks for sharing your world with us, Eva. Indeed, you are an inspiration. Also, thank you Tamron for interviewing this phenomenal woman.
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Thank you I'm dealing with a narcissist and I'm telling you it's hard especially when you're dependent on them cause you lost your job putting everyone before yourself
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Yes, Lord
@@cerinaflemister absolutely sorry for the delay. The book is called Forgiving What You Can't Forget: Discover How to Move On, Make Peace with Painful Memories, and Create a Life That’s Beautiful Again.
@@venascott1111 you’re welcome. I’m praying everything gets better 🙏🏽🙏🏽
This woman is beyond gorgeous. So many black women get prettier with age
I'm a male Virgin, but I must say that she is very very special ❤
@@GANGSTER-TRUMP2024 bruh 💀
What's most BEAUTIFUL about Eva is how she is overcoming depression looking more radiant than ever! Prayers to Eva on this new journey she is embarking on. 🙏🏾❤
@@stigmatamartyr4223🤣 😂
Most don't
I already grieved throughout the marriage so when I finally seperated I was happy and relieved.
Yesss!!! I said the same thing to my family and friends. It was all a shock to them, but I told them that I mourned my marriage while I was still in it, so when I finally let it go, it felt like a ton of bricks off of my shoulders. This was 21 years ago, and I have no regrets on doing it. My ex-husband and I are in a much better place right now, thank goodness. 🥹🙏🏾💙
Same. Im already skinny but when I left, I was twenty pounds lighter. 3 years later and I gained the twenty back plus ten more happy pounds lol
😮woa.😊
Me too 😊
You musta been married to a true Narcissist...
She is right when she talk about divorce and I went through it. I lose the weight I was depress. You have to find yourself and who you are today.
Even separation from a long term relationship is like divorce can be depressing and stressful smh. You have to find a new glow about yourself and know that you are great and you are worthy and a beautiful person and disregard the naysayers period!
Breathtaking beauty❤
FR we never get married to get divorced
We get married to be married
So its devastating when divorce is what we're looking at
And the one we are divorcing isn't the person we married.
She looking so much better. I felt bad for her.
She's GORGEOUS 😍
SHE'S SO FREAKIN GORGEOUS!!!!!❤❤❤
Love you 💖 Eva !!!! My prayers 🙏 are with you and its good to see you shining ✨️ 🙏 ❤!!!
So beautiful. Loved Eva since Top Model.
She is still Gorgeous ❤️❤️
I'm glad she's in a better place.❤❤ Man she's Beautiful 😍.
I can relate to that Eva 27 years ago went through a divorce people don’t understand you lose yourself. Thanks for sharing your story.
I just went through it almost 3 years ago and it’s awfully hard for real
I understand what your saying
But we still standing, I literally thought I was gonna die when we were back and forth in court
I think people start losing themselves in the relationship. Then it gets worse when it ends
@@Webb_BK I agree 💯🙏🏾
Divorce is like a death. A loss of hopes, dreams, expectations....but you must heal
It's how you look at it. You should be whole with God as an individual. A person shouldn't make nor break you. If you identify and find your being in that person then you set yourself to fail during and after if it happens.
It's not when you're the one filing.
Yes ma'am say it again I went through a divorce and I was a hot mess myself so I know how she feels it's not easy but they're not actually dead they walking around but it is like a death
Divorce is like going to a funeral every day.
@@Viewpoint1913 I'm living with the person I want to divorce and its like a funeral 😂
Still absolutely beautiful
Yes,yes
She is and will always be beautiful. I love her❤
Indeed.
she is absolutely beautiful ❤❤
She’s been beautiful her whole life 😮💨😍
I used to work at Phipps Plaza Mall....I worked as a Assistant Security Director. During my time there I stood in front of Saks...greeting people as they entered the Saks store. I was known for how I dressed...I knew how to wear a suit. Eva would stopped and give me the most warm greeting...one day she told me that I may best the best dressed man in Atlanta....I have never forgotten that. A compliment coming from her was extremely amazing....I thank God she endured those tough times with her husband. I'm married and its something I don't want to ever experience. May God bless her....
I did the opposite
I gained 50 lbs
I ate my pain😢
It was horrible. But glory be to God who gives us the victory!!
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Me too
Girl, same!
Hallelujah and same 😂😂❤❤❤
Amen
Both of these women are gorgeous
They both are Fine without even trying 😍😍😩
Yesss ❤❤
💯🙌🏾
Beautiful Black Queens ❤️❤️❤️
Facts
People were vile about her weight , and forgot that she was going through a tough time. So glad she addressed it, although she shouldn't have had to. Wishing you all the best Eva. Your future is bright
Exactly people are always ready to cut down a person without knowing what’s the reason behind certain things. This is precisely why we need to not be so judgmental about everything we see.
@@carlenelynch1849 they did this with Chadwick Boseman.
I love how many of you are validating what she’s saying with your own experiences. Life be life-ing and it gets hard sometimes. Wishing healing, growth, restoration, joy, and love for us all ❤
Exactly! Esp a lot of the men, as well in alot of these comments who jumped to assumptions about their divorce, are INSANE to me! Smh 🤦♀️
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AMEN
Amen 🙏❤️
That face card never disappoints...😊
Her is PRETTY PRETTY! 😍
And she doesn’t look sick in the face either
Not ever!
@@donttrymetryjesus4566exactly that’s why I believe she was naturally losing weight because of what she went through, unlike these other celebs taking different medications to lose weight making them look like addicts🤮
Man, Eva isn't lying! I'm currently going through a divorce. We called it quits 5 months ago and I've already lost 20+ pounds and I'm taking MUCH better care of myself physically, mentally, and emotionally. It is a healing and learning process, but overall I'm doing alright and navigating through it all.
Just take it one day at a time. Every day, it’s going to get better and better ♥️
Yep me too… however my ex does not want to give it up.. he wants to be married but live separately and do whatever and whenever he feels like it. And because I am setting boundaries with him continuing with life without his assistance consent need he gets upset…
@antoniavoliton6646 he's selfish and doesn't care about your feelings. Move on..he's manipulating you.
@@queenc8280 He isn't selfish... sometimes people are just better apart. We're much better as friends than partners, and everyone is happy 🙂
@@jaykisuke3397 That's the dumbest thing I've heard lol! I'm much happier now and it's wonderful getting myself back out there. A lot of people are interested in used cars with high mileage. It's a better deal financially 😉😁!
She’s grieving her former life . I pray she’s continues to heal .
Skinny or gain weight...but she never should have left her husband.
@@Maui_Gyrl_ You ain't nobody to tell somebody what they should have done! What the freak? You crazy Azzaro!
@@crowder807right, no one fully knows what went on in their home but them. To tell someone, especially someone they don't know, "she should have never left her husband" is absurd to say the least.
She’s so pretty it’s crazy
She's also bat sh!t crazy...
She looks amazing. Wow!
Her ex-husband still got tf away from her
@@E.P.7131he’s been publicly begging her to come back since she LEFT him and again when SHE filed for divorce!
@@kenyafromcali Yes, that's part for course, stats reflect that more women file for divorce than men. I believe that's due to men's willingness to deal with a bad marriage more than women, and often that means men withdraw.
But I don't know them so 🤷🏾♂️
She looks goodt!!!! Praying for healing and strength 🙏🏾♥️
"I'm not someone's someone". I felt that😢
One month on Monday for me. It's weird not being that any more. Some days, it really sux, haha.. 😔😔😒
@@christinagoins2012 Yrs for me, but it never gets old.
Yes
You definitely will pull through. God's got you.
Jeremiah 31:3 ...“I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness. @@christinagoins2012
You can feel that way even in a marriage
Such a beautiful and talented woman. Praying for her healing after divorce. ❤
She’s absolutely, honest too💯. Depression kills, just like stress🙏🏾😢🙏🏾😢🙏🏾😢🙏🏾. Love you Eva🙏🏾
The locs look AMAZING on her 😍😍🔥!
I can't believe its been 20 years since she Won America's Top Model. She is so talented, and beautiful.❤❤
beauty is not a talent
100% real talk. Hard life transitions will make you lose weight. You just don't feel like eating. ❤
Not everyone some get fatter. I sure didn’t lose or gain weight. I will not let another human dictate if I eat or not eat if I can’t sleep or sleep to much. Especially I know my ex not even thinking about how I’m living . Why give him the satisfaction. And I’m not beautiful and I don’t have money. But I love me more than any other human can love me.
I struggle with this daily 😢
Have been there, both knowing and not knowing. Life is not fair sometimes
@@LivingMyBestAlways you are very fortunate but a lot of people don't have your kind of strength and they have to fight to get to your level. So let's send some encouraging words to those who need help finding their way out of that dark place.❤
It can go either way....some folks are emotional eaters and will eat when depressed.
Happy she got ahead of the story and addressed the weight loss herself.
I lost 125lbs. My skin broke out. My hair fell out. Couldn't control my blood pressure. Blew out my kidneys. Now on dialysis. But.... God. Im still here. Thriving. Happy in my new life, new relationship. Not at all looking like what is going on.
🙏🏽🙌🏽
🙏👏🙌🙏 TO GOD BE ALL OF THE GLORY, AMEN!!!!!!!!
Was all of this due to going through a divorce? 😢
God bless you Queen ❤
Yes it can affect people in different ways some people gain some lose
Grieving from a divorce is devastating.
Especially when she initiated the damn thing
@@PhillyDjHook Thank you! That's the part that most of this comment section fails to realize.
@@PhillyDjHookExactly! 😂
@@adrianferguson4691It’s almost like a lot of men believe that divorce is not an option for any reason, which is ludicrous.
I been there too! I couldn't eat!! I lost so much weight and now I'm healthy and eating everything in sight! I pray for her healing ❤
She’s beautiful. I pray she continues to get better. Divorce is nothing to joke about.
My name is Eva too, and I have been separated for 6 months from my husband. I was treated so poorly prior to the separation that I lost 30 pounds. I have gained every pound back, and I am trying to adjust to being single.
❤I wish you the best! Life is short. Enjoy!!
Thats good you have to get to know you again its not easy you take a 115lb person n lose 15lbs you look sick
My husband suddenly passed away, and I was devastated. I gained 30 pounds. Food began to be my comfort place.
Praying 🙏 for God to give you strength, comfort, and peace!! Trust God !! he will never leave you or forsake you!!
You will get through this!! Sending love and hugs to you!!❤️❤️❤️
Same here 🙏🏽
Your human Eva thank God you found yourself! Keep Evolving ❤
Amen 🙏
Her healing is beautiful.
When I got a divorce I lost a lot of weight I got down to 90 pounds and people don’t make it No better for me! They talk about me said I look horrible I lost my long hair and had to cut it all off. I’m ok now I don’t wish stress on Nobody.
Hope you are well recovered now gorgeous ❤😂
Depression can take you to a place that no matter how strong you think you are Babe 😒 you go under sometimes without any return 😢 However, through the grace of Christ you get pulled up and you become stronger and snap back, new and improved 🫶🏾 ready for that new Journey. New heart, beautiful soul and an Thankful Spirit
Very well spoken ❤
AMEN
Yes!
Yes, going through this now and I can't wait 4 my comeback I'm ready Lord🙏🏼🤞🏼
She is one of the most strikingly, beautiful women I have ever seen... I hope that speaks to the women out there that have divorced to know that you are not alone. It doesn't matter what you look like, we all go through it… God bless her and everyone out there who has, is or will experience this… Divorce is not fun, but there is life afterwards… So much life! #prayerworks!
This is absolutely true. I remember going through my divorce it was so devastating and I had to rediscover who I was. I now teach women how to heal and rediscover themselves after divorce. 💖
Wow this was a eye opener because i feel like that and I’ve never gone through a divorce but trying to rediscover who you are outside of a relationship that was strong , meaningful and gave me a deeper meaning of who I was. It’s hard. Thank you for sharing ❤😊🙏🏼🕊️
❤❤❤❤ same!
Why? When 80% of divorce is started by women
absolutely true ?..ok 🤔
She's the reason for the divorce in the first place.
I relieved to know she isn’t ill. Depression happens to the best of us. Keep fighting for better days.
Met her. Love her. She’s so sweet. 💕💕💕
Beautiful
She is absolutely stunning, beautiful inside as well as outside. 🎉
BOTH THESE WOMEN ARE FRICKIN GORGEOUS!!!💯👑❤️❤️❤️✨️
Ikr 😅❤😍👏🏽
FACTS
Once I found out about a situation in my marriage I suffered in my mental stage: I lived as a non functional woman, wife, and lover : I became numb, depressed, isolated, misery, delusional, and lived a life of lies: I was deceived.
When it finally came to the divorced end I was deserted and went into. Stage of loneliness:
I lost weight and lost my appetite:
I truly appreciate Eve sharing this moment
I lost 35+ pounds after a 5 year marriage. I missed my ex-wife and kids so much that I didn't realize I had stopped eating. A few years later, I got into a 2 year relationship with another woman, and we broke it off, and I ended up gaining some weight back from that break up. The difference was that I was broken from the 1st one and relieved from the 2nd. 🤕
Dang
Yes I gained weight after my divorce because I was relieved.
@@spugh1606Relieved of what?? Having to fulfill your duties
@@spugh1606Relieved of what?? Having to fulfill your duties?
@@lallen8462 well let that be your reason for me😏
Shes right losing someone you love will change you..hiding your depression, not eating trying to find your place after this loss. isent easy,
I totally get it ❤
Stronger, MORE at peace with yourself,and able to conquer the world! This next chapter,is all about the journey of you. Go girls! Much Respect 💜
Love Eva's honesty.. remember rooting for her when she became America Top Model!!,,love her in her element being Madam and other roles she played in!!♥️💙💜💛💚
We were all rooting for her 😂
She's absolutely true, I went from 140 lbs to 128 lbs going through a divorce. It's hard..
I hope you were able to heal and find happiness again.
@@MsJrzy Thank you
Here she is telling her story!!! And yet ppl knew this and ridiculed her online and shamed her for weight loss like they didn’t know she was going through a divorce. Remember ppl pain shows in a variety of ways. Have compassion & understanding.🌸
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I absolutely understand I'm just glad she's not sick. It's very hard losing what you thought was forever.
Yessss!! I was so worried and afraid for you Eva!! Thank God you are seeing your light!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾💐💐❤️❤️
Wow. I had no idea she went through a divorce. I feel so bad. I’m glad she made it through that rough time though fr. She literally came through that unscathed. It’s amazing. Such a strong, powerful woman!
Eva you said that!!! Women need to rediscover who they really are at all stages of life,with or without marriage. We need to never lose our true selves. We can be everything that others need us to be but we need to hold on to ourselves thru it all. That's how we stay sane and strong as leather that is well together.
Well Said, Well Said 💖💯👏
"...strong as leather." I love that comparison. People usually say strong as hell, as steel, as an ox, etc. Never heard strong as leather. I love it. That's what I aspire 2 b. Thanx 4 that, albertabrown2126.
The day you find out who you are, is the day life opens up to a new reality ❤ trust me
She’s so freaking beautiful omg! I get what she’s saying. When I’m stressed or depressed I lose weight and I’m already slim. Everyone deals with situations like that differently.
Everyone deals with separation differently. In the end I'm glad she concentrated on knowing and building herself. ❤🎉🎉🎉
Eva is STUNNING....She's human. People need to leave her alone.
I hadn’t heard of her till this video. She is exquisitely beautiful! 🤩
So beautiful. I'm so sorry if I said anything negative about her wt loss. Sometimes we talk too much. May God continue to bless her.
I appreciate your honesty.
Thank you Tamron for this interview. I love Eva and I too suffer from anxiety and depression (they go together). Bless you Eva and Tamron!🎉
I as well. It's absolutely nothing to play with.
Me too. It can be very devastating at times. But I always end up eating my pain away so I gain weight instead of losing it. Occasionally I have no appetite and don't want to eat but not eating seems to make it worse for me. So on those days I always have to force myself to eat something. I don't want to sink any deeper into depression.
She's beautiful on the outside; now she's working on her inner beauty that is very beautiful. Good for her 🥰🥰🥰.
Yes that is incredible!
Eva, you are looking wonderful!! May God keep blessing you. Lots of love!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
Eva, you spoke the truth, definitely lost 30 pounds, and was depressed. Thank God for Jesus and friends who are prayer warriors and my kids ❤
Eva I was in the same situation so I feel your pain. When my husband and I divorced many moons ago, I was so depressed and devastated I lost so much weight I looked like a zombie . Like you said I was not the wife anymore & didn’t know how I was going to survive. I was still a mum and that was my driving force to survive although I felt like giving up at times. I’m glad I didn’t give up with the help of family, friends and God, after 3 + years I started to heal. Unless you’ve gone through it, people won’t understand. It’s like death and you have to grieve.
Me too … I lost about 40 pounds I looked good but was depressed 😢
I lost weight too after the divorce it's the stress your body goes thru
Me too.!!! Almost LOST MY MIND..!! But GOD..!!!
Same smh and after that I vowed to never let another man put me in that negative space again.
@@kakerhiso sorry you had to endure a little heartbreak, but I know you can make it now,that but GOD , let the church say Amen.
Divorce is THE BEST thing that ever happened to me cuz it made me find my current hubby who is just an absolute angel❤
Pray healing 🙏 for her soul and future happiness in whatever she chooses to do!! She is beautiful inside and out!! Love her ❤❤❤
Her hair is EVERYTHINGGGGGGG!!!!!!
She is❤beautiful....love her hayirr
Divorce is actually like a death and some of us take it harder than others but at the end of the day it’s painful for everyone involved. Especially when you have children watching while you trying to cope and adjust from the mess the parents have created in their lives so everyone suffers. I hope and pray Eva is able to pull it all together and heal from depression as well as the loss. Not to mention being a mother helping devastated children to find their footing while getting on track with the new direction their life is taking them. Hoping Eva the best with all her future endeavors.
So true. I lost so much weight when I was going through my separation, but the come back is going to be amazing. I had to find me again and love me again.
I'm glad you made it through!
@@TheSicarahShow Thank you
Me too! People were like you look great. But I was about to cry every 2 minutes.
Amen!!!!! ❤
@@rasmine2 Awww I hope you are better
Thank you. It’s not easy to talk about. She did great in this segment
She’s healing, that's why she can talk about it.
Man! It’s rough out here, stay safe and stress free as much as possible 🙏🏼❤️
I always loved her mind. Her honesty. The kind of person that when they speak you listen.She just happens to be outwardly beautiful also.❤
Yes I love how honest she is!
Blessings To You❤
She reminds me of Vanessa Williams!! Natural Beauty!! To much is given much is required!! Praying for her strength and self 🙏 love ❤️!!!
So true!
WOW!!!! I was literally thinking they could be sisters....both beautiful and stunning!!!!💯🌹❤️
You are so right, similar beauty
Both are very pretty, but her facial features are different from Vanessa's. Vanessa's features are fuller and rounder. Eva's features are more aquiline. No shade, just different.
@sandraatkins2539 You must be very analytical 🙂 I didn't say she looks just like Vanessa Williams , only reminds me of her, remind can mean lots of things, not only appearance.I Agree that both are very beautiful women 😍 I am analytical too !! Lol..😅
Thanks for your reply!!
Amen may God continue to carry you each day you and your children. God bless Eva.
Divorce within its self is hard..let alone with children everything in life changes and we as women must continue to keep going praying and being safe. She is GORGEOUS..SHALOM
I’m currently going through a separation leading to a divorce and I’m going through all the stages of grief like it’s a death. Because it is a death of my marriage and friendship. 14 years is a long time to invest yourself. I’ve been with him for so long that I’m relearning myself everyday but the memories of us still fresh in my mind.
If it was your fault then you should be upset. If she f*cked up, be happy and move forward.
Yet you divorce cause “your bored” 😂🤦🏼♂️
I’m sending you all kinds of good, healing vibes during this tough time! Please don’t use your precious energy on “could’ve, would’ve or should’ve”. Allow yourself time (possibly 2-5 years) to heal and mourn. I promise you the light is BRIGHTER at the end of the tunnel!!!
Thank you
Black women really do have some of the nicest skin I've ever seen.
What Eva is saying is true. When you are hurt, you will lose weight or gain weight.
It is possible that you can lose your hair, etc.
Eva is still beautiful
I prayed that she was not sick
I thank God she is address the weight loss and she is coming out of that mean old depression.
I think she did lose a little hair😢 Happens to me too when I'm stressed
Im happy to see she's feeling and looking better.
She is so gorgeous! And yes divorce is like death, I lost so much weight so fast, I eat with normal stress, but learned REAL stress has me losing weight like crazy, wishing her the best ❤
💯 understand..My Divorce almost took Me out! Praying She rebuilds and really Heals to a Very Happy Healthy place
Extremely beautiful
She's looking like herself again! Absolutely gorgeous 🥰
Soooo pretty 😍
Love u Eva, I left my husband last year, lost weight, I still look good, feel good and I'M HERE!!!!
Amen 🙏🏾🤗💐👑
You couldn’t handle the challenges of marriage and decided to chicken out huh?!
@@nickmendy2503Ugh! Be quiet
@@nickmendy2503lol exactly!
I hear you and feel you! Same here! Divorce is tough but God gives us strength, peace and joy in the storm. He provides us with the peace that surpasses all understanding 🙌🏽🙌🏽 We Still look good and feel good by Gods grace & mercy.
She’s so pretty
I over understand, same here. When I’m depressed the last thing I’m thinking V about is good. She’s still beautiful and I know without a doubt she’ll gain it back & will overcome it all. 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
This is so true. I lost over 20 pounds and didn’t have the weight to loose so I looked emaciated. It is like going through a death. You are literally shedding what you’ve known for how many years to now rediscovering what is. I must say God Bless her because it takes a long time without therapy to move forward into the person you have now become, but anything is possible with God 🙏🏾❤️. May she lean on him and therapy to navigate this new normal for her and her children ❤️🙏🏾
Yes, but it was still a CHOICE you made to take THAT risk.
@@1w598you missed the point on purpose, grow up!
God Bless Her Honesty and God Bless Anyone Who has to go through a divorce they don't want
That's true just being separated from my husband I lost 30 lbs so fast .😊 Eva u still look good ,Ur a Beautiful person.
She’s absolutely right after I lost my husband I lost 40lbs didn’t even realize I lost weight until other people pointed it out I was so grief stricken
Same here for me. When the Lord called .y beloved husband Gerald home, I was 310 and a year and a half later I'm 240. Grief is real and that bitch don't play 😢❤
Your spouse passing versus filing for divorce from your young kids dad because “you’re not happy” isn’t the same as mourning a death.
@@missjoy6685A Divorce is still like a death between the two families, that have been bonded together for a certain amount of time.
I rmmbr when my Parents split, it definitely got dark for about 3yrs., and felt like a death to our family. And it took me to become an adult to realize, that my Parents were HUMAN having human experiences.
@@l.boogie878Seems that the point she's making is lost on you...
@@demetriusjames9535No it didn't.. Her comment is trying to dissect WHY Eva filed for Divorce, or saying that her reasoning wasn't good enough.
Eva's decision to Divorce was HER decision to make, and not meant to be dissected by strangers. It's still a Divorce, a seperation which is like a death.
Talk sista! Who am I ? Because we as women forget about ourselves in relationships. God made us naturally nurturers and we embrace that role but we seem to always forget about ourselves.
So true
This lady is absolutely BEAUTIFUL!
wishing her well.❤️
She has only gotten more beautiful with time 😍 wow. She is GORGEOUS 😍😍😍
Eva is such a stunning beauty! Her face structure is out of this world and the eyes to set it off.
I think most women that has gone thru a divorce can relate to Eva I also lost weight experienced depression. I had to rediscover who I was again. I’m grateful for my lesson and now have a great testimony of how I overcame my divorce.
How??? I’m a mental and emotional mess! 😢
@@ewayniabrown5778 I was a mess too dear I talked about him to anyone that would listen. Until I realized I was keeping the pain alive that way. I just started getting busy doing things for myself and acknowledging my self worth now building solo feeling empowered you will too refocus and rebuild your confidence back! You got this🌹
Preach!🎉 Life be lifing, as it goes. Thanks for sharing your world with us, Eva. Indeed, you are an inspiration. Also, thank you Tamron for interviewing this phenomenal woman.
Yes this was a much needed interview!