Missing father faked death, left country to meet with another woman: Wisconsin sheriff

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  • Опубліковано 21 лис 2024
  • Streaming now at abc7chicago.co....
    Ryan Borgwardt of Watertown went missing on August 12 after going on a kayaking trip in Green Lake.
    Crews recovered his capsized kayak, his car, a fishing pole, wallet, keys and his license.
    The sheriff said they became suspicious after Borgwardt's name was checked by law enforcement one day after he disappeared.
    "We don't know where he is, but he is not in our lake," said Green Lake Sheriff Mark Podoll said.
    An investigation found Borgwardt had a second passport, replaced a hard drive on his laptop, cleared browsers on the day of his disappearance, had inquiries about moving funds to foreign banks, purchased airline gift cards, took out a $375,000 life insurance policy.
    Read more: abc7chicago.co...

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  • @issmo9122
    @issmo9122 9 днів тому +1330

    “Our whole thing is to get Ryan back with his family…” REALLY?? If I was the wife or kids I wouldn’t what this rat bastard back!

    • @phillipbenoit5179
      @phillipbenoit5179 9 днів тому +23

      hehehahahaha!😆😆😆

    • @tiffanymarie9750
      @tiffanymarie9750 9 днів тому +93

      Gotta get him to sign the divorce papers he was obviously trying to dodge.

    • @Odell1988
      @Odell1988 9 днів тому +56

      Well spoken, he obviously doesn’t want anything to do with his family. He busy chasing strange wet wet.

    • @donaldjohnson-e8f
      @donaldjohnson-e8f 9 днів тому +26

      He doesn't want to be with them, either. So there is that.

    • @donaldjohnson-e8f
      @donaldjohnson-e8f 9 днів тому

      @@tiffanymarie9750 Indeed. She just wants child support and alimony. That is all.

  • @same5952
    @same5952 9 днів тому +606

    When they find him, they need to give him the bill for 55 days of search and rescue.

    • @HeidiWillToWin
      @HeidiWillToWin 7 днів тому +32

      And jail time

    • @terrymurphy7790
      @terrymurphy7790 6 днів тому +23

      For insurance scam

    • @Kellz58
      @Kellz58 3 дні тому

      In Wisconsin here they typically have been doing that now, this wasn't the 1st time ppl pulled this crap.

    • @patriciamitchell9365
      @patriciamitchell9365 2 дні тому

      Girlfriend has that money now.

    • @patriciamitchell9365
      @patriciamitchell9365 2 дні тому +1

      ​@@terrymurphy7790If no money was given to the family - scam averted.

  • @ItsMeHello555
    @ItsMeHello555 9 днів тому +795

    I would never let this man back in my life.

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому +11

      He left first. She lost. Get over it,

    • @Goldieslaxx9
      @Goldieslaxx9 9 днів тому +6

      He doesn't want to though he didn't just leave he left all the way to Uzbekistan 😅 Runaway Ryan run Ryan run ⛵🏃

    • @ItsMeHello555
      @ItsMeHello555 9 днів тому +19

      @@jadar9356 , oh, I don’t have a problem with it. I’m thinking of the poor children. I hope they find a good father figure down the road.

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому

      @@ItsMeHello555yall usually do though. Lmao

    • @ItsMeHello555
      @ItsMeHello555 9 днів тому +12

      @@jadar9356 , that would only be damaged or needy women. Healthy women will help you pack, baby.

  • @joi5787
    @joi5787 9 днів тому +719

    Just disgusting!!!! The kids are grieving his death and he’s out here living a new life with a new woman😥imagine the conversation with his children!?!? Just disgraceful! A real 💩 bag!!!!

    • @jhowardsupporter
      @jhowardsupporter 9 днів тому +22

      and they want him to come back? It might be a bit awkward I think.

    • @FANKANable
      @FANKANable 9 днів тому +6

      He's a brave man, leave him be.

    • @johnnytran800
      @johnnytran800 9 днів тому +7

      And if it was a women, youd sympathize and claim she was getting abused.

    • @Spencerlayne
      @Spencerlayne 9 днів тому

      ​@@johnnytran800how do you just jump to that conclusion 😂. The fuq does it matter if it was a man or a women. The facts are, he isn't. And so he done a runner on his kids. The man's a loser.

    • @icyunvme2400
      @icyunvme2400 9 днів тому +22

      @@johnnytran800no we wouldn’t. It’s horrible to abandon and traumatize your kids no matter the gender

  • @gdan9923
    @gdan9923 7 днів тому +238

    If you do that to your kids, you don’t need to be anywhere near them ever again. What a jerk.

  • @kanejakejimmy
    @kanejakejimmy 9 днів тому +349

    Nobody in that family wants that guy back. Just stay away.

    • @harvardarchaeologydept3799
      @harvardarchaeologydept3799 9 днів тому +2

      It’s the american woman dangit. Help us. Please help for gods sake.

    • @SherriWarden-zl9eq
      @SherriWarden-zl9eq 6 днів тому +3

      I think there is a Lifetime movie very similar to this situation....really.

    • @harvardarchaeologydept3799
      @harvardarchaeologydept3799 6 днів тому

      @@SherriWarden-zl9eq heck yeah it is.smdh.

    • @PoolsideData
      @PoolsideData 5 днів тому +1

      at least he is free to live his life -- women and the laws that protect them make men do extreme things to flee.

    • @emilyfreeman6159
      @emilyfreeman6159 2 дні тому

      @@harvardarchaeologydept3799

  • @GypsyRose5273
    @GypsyRose5273 9 днів тому +333

    He should be arrested and charged like others have been. He should also have to pay for any costs to law enforcement etc for their wasted time and resources. Disgusting and pathetic that people just can't be honest with their spouses and say they want a divorce. A divorce is much easier and cheaper, and you don't get a criminal record for it either.

    • @SirNic4180
      @SirNic4180 9 днів тому

      Why? Are you going to do is give him probation😮 😅 You got some hold each other accountable

    • @lunamequa
      @lunamequa 9 днів тому +18

      He is a coward and didn’t want to live with his responsibilities. Discarding his family like that is evil. The new woman shouldn’t want him either.

    • @same5952
      @same5952 9 днів тому

      @@lunamequa There's no new woman. He'd been catfished and instead, somewhere there's a Nigerian male scammer who drained his bank accounts.

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому

      Na he didnt cause a scene and lie, he just disappeared. Not Karli….

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому

      @@lunamequayou only care about that…… the other woman……. When there’s no evidence of that….. why do ysll care so much about that part. Lmso.

  • @user-rc2ym5tr3v
    @user-rc2ym5tr3v 9 днів тому +288

    Bro got catfished. What an idiot.

    • @dth3252
      @dth3252 9 днів тому +15

      You get what you get.

    • @justmeagain7
      @justmeagain7 9 днів тому +52

      I hope we'll have the whole story soon: guy arrives to Europe only to realize that he was catfished. The "woman" never appeared. In fact, it was a Nigerian team of scammers trying to get as much money from him as possible.
      He comes back to the USA totally defeated and embarrassed. He spends time in prison and the rest of his life paying alimony to his wife and children.

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 6 днів тому +4

      NOTHING in this story says that he got catfished. He cashed out then went about his business. 😂

    • @justmeagain7
      @justmeagain7 6 днів тому +10

      @@TomikaKelly he was catfished, you'll see.

    • @wvp07
      @wvp07 6 днів тому +7

      @@TomikaKellyExactly. They’re trying to give him an “out” and dismiss the fact he’s a garbage husband, father, and human.

  • @McrChemical
    @McrChemical 9 днів тому +266

    Silver lining is he didn't forcibly send his entire family to the afterlife (which is fairly common). What i can't wrap my head around is how he decided to uproot his life just so he could be with a woman in a sh*tty foreign country which in all honesty could very well be a dude running a love scam. Humans never fail to amaze me.

    • @laurie1536
      @laurie1536 9 днів тому

      " shitty foreign country"? Well, you've outed yourself quite splendidly! I'd wager that America is about as shitty as it can get right about now, What a rude & bigoted thing to say.

    • @moniqueloomis9772
      @moniqueloomis9772 9 днів тому +7

      This is the silver lining you're tracing? 😞

    • @kvol1668
      @kvol1668 9 днів тому +1

      @@moniqueloomis9772That he ran off like a dummy and distressed people rather than executing his entire family as most do in this circumstance? Yes, we're all thankful for that.

    • @Rebecca-n7n
      @Rebecca-n7n 9 днів тому

      ​@@moniqueloomis9772the silver lining is he didn't k*ll the wifeand kids so he could disappear. Did you even read the comment?

    • @kellileaneriley4263
      @kellileaneriley4263 9 днів тому

      ​​@@moniqueloomis9772considering they just found a woman and her son unalived by the husband who also took his bc she left.... Pocahontas Arkansas if you want to look that story up. They most likely aren't even looking for him for the family.. the insurance company more than likely is throwing a fit, saying the kids and wife want him back is just to get other ppl involved to help with the search 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @gloriabrown6403
    @gloriabrown6403 9 днів тому +246

    Why would they want him back?

    • @melindaunknown6411
      @melindaunknown6411 9 днів тому +10

      They don’t.

    • @garymcconnell8045
      @garymcconnell8045 9 днів тому +20

      Hell, 8 years ago, my ex gave me custody of both my kids and moved her happy ass to Alabama she didn't fake her death to get out of being a mom or a parent so I say to hell with him and my ex😂😂

    • @fritz_von_steiner5544
      @fritz_von_steiner5544 9 днів тому +1

      Sentimental talk from the News! 😉

    • @lynnetmb4706
      @lynnetmb4706 9 днів тому +5

      MONEY N CHILD SUPPORT

    • @moddie6783
      @moddie6783 9 днів тому +4

      ​@@garymcconnell8045 Wow. I know that could not have been easy for you or the children. Hope all is well. Blessings.

  • @WakkasLove
    @WakkasLove 9 днів тому +368

    What an absolute evil, cowardly, selfish, horrible man.

    • @davidgray1515
      @davidgray1515 9 днів тому

      Magat

    • @mickeydooley2230
      @mickeydooley2230 9 днів тому +6

      The wife must have been awful, to drive a man to do this.

    • @dalelydiard4307
      @dalelydiard4307 9 днів тому +27

      ​@mickeydooley2230 you're awful for assuming that. He's a grown man he should get a divorce and shouldn't have traumatized his family

    • @langston3286
      @langston3286 9 днів тому +9

      It could've been worse. He could have been absolutely evil, cowardly, selfish, and horrible by offing his entire family.. Then fleeing the country..

    • @harvardarchaeologydept3799
      @harvardarchaeologydept3799 9 днів тому

      He’s a brilliant white man. I’m tired too man.

  • @danaegoddess
    @danaegoddess 9 днів тому +122

    Those poor kids. At least he didn't physically hurt his family like most seem to do

    • @drunkentrain
      @drunkentrain 9 днів тому +14

      I can't believe how far I had to scroll to find someone mention the kids. The marriage is obviously over and the the wife is probably devastated, but that's not what people should be worried about. Those three kids now have to live with the trauma of losing their dad and wondering if his body will ever be found. However, now they have to live with knowing that he didn't die, instead he just intended on leaving the family behind and never speaking to them again in favor of some stranger from Uzbekistan.

    • @utezahn3174
      @utezahn3174 9 днів тому

      @@drunkentrain yes, and on top of that, he was OK with putting them through what they believed to be a bereavement. What a selfish f**ker

  • @Honeymoon1988
    @Honeymoon1988 9 днів тому +105

    The mother is better off without that coward.

    • @kimking5928
      @kimking5928 9 днів тому +4

      Right. Whatever happened to a divorce????

    • @WithoutRemorse12
      @WithoutRemorse12 4 дні тому

      It's better choice than killing her and the kids. He realized his relationship and kids were a mistake. Just decided to bail. He could of just left a note. Decided he wanted to leave them some money. Decided to fake his death.

    • @starlooker6612
      @starlooker6612 2 дні тому

      @@WithoutRemorse12 His kids were a mistake? What a horrible thing to say!

    • @WithoutRemorse12
      @WithoutRemorse12 2 дні тому

      @@starlooker6612 He wanted to leave the whole family behind for an online catfish expedition. He doesn't want to be in his kids lives anymore because that would still keep him connected to the wife.

  • @theskyehiker
    @theskyehiker 9 днів тому +110

    That dad doesn’t deserve to be with his family. And they are better off without him. But he should be brought back to the US and charged with any crimes he committed in this case.

    • @momtrips6783
      @momtrips6783 8 днів тому +7

      and charged for all the search and rescue work done to find the bum

    • @TimNelsonProfessional
      @TimNelsonProfessional 8 днів тому +3

      I agree. I'm surprised the newscasters act like the dad can return to the family and everything would be the same as before lol. What kind of logic is that?

    • @RayraRee
      @RayraRee 8 днів тому

      This dad is a jerk but other than making him repay the cost for the search, there's really nothing they can charge him with. Technically, faking your own death is not illegal.

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 6 днів тому +1

      "Deserve"? For him, it sounds like his family was a prison and a burden.

    • @bonniegropper
      @bonniegropper 6 днів тому +3

      But fraud is.​@@RayraRee

  • @joekev27
    @joekev27 9 днів тому +85

    All I'll say is real men don't pull this kind of crap.

    • @PoolsideData
      @PoolsideData 5 днів тому +3

      but real women do harm to Good Men every day --
      Bottom line -- women have over-played their hand. Men are wising up that they are not worth the effort. His wife OWNS this

    • @sadiestoltzfus9798
      @sadiestoltzfus9798 4 дні тому +2

      @@PoolsideData Will you go to your men's support group already. Lonely Hearts Club.

    • @PoolsideData
      @PoolsideData 2 дні тому

      @@sadiestoltzfus9798 I fine and happy and enjoying life. I was fortunate ... I learned a long time ago that women are ... well, .. what they are ... like dish washers -- when they stop doing it for you, replace them. Bottom line -- they have over-played their hands and Good Men know it.

  • @RiverHaus2001
    @RiverHaus2001 9 днів тому +121

    What the hell are airline "coupons"

    • @msaverielle
      @msaverielle 9 днів тому +12

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @JasonDerek73
      @JasonDerek73 9 днів тому +13

      They downgrade you to Spirit Airlines with a coupon lol

    • @goldenlabelstudio
      @goldenlabelstudio 9 днів тому +15

      😂😂😂😂 I’m glad you said it!

    • @sandirainwater6258
      @sandirainwater6258 9 днів тому +15

      Out of this whole story… That’s what you got from it 😂😂😂

    • @anh1192
      @anh1192 9 днів тому +8

      I questioned that too 😅 I think he meant gift cards? I just saw Costco was having a promotion on southwest gift cards : $500 card for $430

  • @Mimi-qn2px
    @Mimi-qn2px 9 днів тому +67

    Least he didn’t kill his family to be with another woman, but he is in big trouble now! Poor kids!

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 6 днів тому +2

      What big trouble is he in? Does Uzbekistan have an extradition treaty either the States?

    • @PoolsideData
      @PoolsideData 5 днів тому +1

      actually has not committed a single crime .... NONE.
      He did not report himself missing. He just left. More men wish they had the same courage courage to flee women that harm them.

    • @SnowdropDaisy
      @SnowdropDaisy 4 дні тому

      I mean, he did take a life insurance policy out on himself after faking his death...that's definitely a crime. And as of now, there's no evidence nor claims of domestic abuse on the wife 🤔 just sounds like a man wanting something new and shiny so he threw away the life he had...im just glad no one was physically harmed but he definitely caused emotional harm to his kids ​@PoolsideData

    • @PoolsideData
      @PoolsideData 2 дні тому

      @@SnowdropDaisy she still drove him to it. Happens every day.

  • @irielgordon2693
    @irielgordon2693 9 днів тому +147

    Straight out of a lifetime movie.

  • @redwoods7370
    @redwoods7370 9 днів тому +50

    How in God's name could a person do that to their children, let alone their wife?

    • @catlanguage
      @catlanguage 6 днів тому +2

      Because his marriage life was a pretense all along!So, he got tired of pretending.

    • @parkrein1237
      @parkrein1237 День тому

      he is the son of satan!

  • @Misty-gc6bq
    @Misty-gc6bq 9 днів тому +66

    What some men will do for 💵 and new 🐈. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому

      Yea to get away from manipulative wife.

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому +4

      What some women will do to impress and pathetically compete with other women is unreal . Lmao.

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 6 днів тому +8

      ​​@@jadar9356 What you will do to turn this into a gender war instead of simply condemning bad actions is laughably pathetic. 😂🤡

  • @titusrider7948
    @titusrider7948 9 днів тому +40

    That's really cruel to do to his family. 😥

  • @kalifani6
    @kalifani6 9 днів тому +79

    "Where are the fathers!"
    ...apparently going above and beyond to avoid paying child support.

    • @TimNelsonProfessional
      @TimNelsonProfessional 8 днів тому +3

      this guy is doing "Passport Bros" the wrong way

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 6 днів тому

      This is terrible, bit no one WANTS to pay child support hun. 😂

    • @nightwishisthegreatestband6355
      @nightwishisthegreatestband6355 6 днів тому +6

      ​@@TomikaKellyif they don't want to pay then don't have children or demand custody. Men actually get full custody 60% of the time if they demand it but mist don't want to be a full time parent

    • @PoolsideData
      @PoolsideData 5 днів тому

      well said -- men are sick of losing all they have for such things.
      hide assets man -- and never, ever trust a female ... unless its a lab retriever

    • @YorickReturns
      @YorickReturns 2 дні тому

      @@nightwishisthegreatestband6355 Exactly. And that is why fewer men are choosing to have kids now. I think it's a positive development.

  • @SusanVivian-g3l
    @SusanVivian-g3l 3 дні тому +206

    This intriguing video serves as a poignant reminder of the heartache I've been enduring since my 7 year relationship came to an end 3 months ago. My cherished partner, the love of my life, made the difficult decision to part ways, leaving me consumed by thoughts of him. Despite my earnest attempts to win him back, I find myself facing frustration and an overwhelming sense of emptiness, unable to envision a life without his presence. Despite my efforts to move on , I'm compelled to confess my lingering feelings and longing for him here.

    • @melly-n1w
      @melly-n1w 3 дні тому +1

      The process of releasing a loved one can be an uphill battle. I can relate, having navigated a similar journey when my 4 year relationship dissolved. Despite the heartache, I refused to relinquish hope and embarked on a quest to win her back.

    • @SusanVivian-g3l
      @SusanVivian-g3l 3 дні тому

      How did you manage to connect with a spiritual counselor, and what's the process for me to reach out to her?

    • @melly-n1w
      @melly-n1w 3 дні тому +1

      Allow me to introduce Suzanne Ann Walters, a highly skilled spiritual counselor known for her expertise in rekindling past relationships.

    • @SusanVivian-g3l
      @SusanVivian-g3l 3 дні тому

      Thank you for this invaluable information.

  • @01laJGC
    @01laJGC 9 днів тому +43

    His face in the family photo tells the whole story 😂😂😂

    • @ayelefit
      @ayelefit День тому +1

      Great observation!

  • @ifloatupwards
    @ifloatupwards 9 днів тому +91

    The authorities are propbably going to have to drag him back. He went through the plan of faking his own death instead of choosing to get a divorce and 50/50 custody.

    • @lilamayoral1031
      @lilamayoral1031 9 днів тому

      USA authorities Can't drag him back.. the country he's in extradited him

    • @violette4841
      @violette4841 9 днів тому +10

      No child support to pay. Europe? Mid-life crisis. Won't she want to leave this Eastern Europeastan country at some time? Yes, Lifetime movie here.

    • @lilamayoral1031
      @lilamayoral1031 9 днів тому +10

      @violette4841 after the case of the man who kill his wife and daughters for his mistress in Colorado.. this is the best a woman can hope for

    • @lilamayoral1031
      @lilamayoral1031 9 днів тому +6

      @@violette4841 the biggest looser in this scenario is that woman waiting for him in the other country.. Do you think she knows this dude made his family believe he was Dead to be with her ? And the police saying "he should go back to the family? " Is that a trick?

    • @KellyKelly-qd7my
      @KellyKelly-qd7my 9 днів тому +5

      He'll be charged with insurance fraud.

  • @raymondturpin3265
    @raymondturpin3265 9 днів тому +36

    Make him pay for the search and rescue.

    • @JL-zn7me
      @JL-zn7me 4 дні тому

      I’m sure his new “woman “ is making him pay in the strange country he so happily moved to! This was a scam and he fell for it! He may be unalived at this point. He faked his own death… whoever he’s with isn’t worried anyone is looking for him!

  • @jeskac209
    @jeskac209 9 днів тому +32

    So sickening. I feel so bad for the family!! Hope they can heal in time from this. 🙏

  • @tangojuli209
    @tangojuli209 8 днів тому +14

    Get ryan back with his kids!!???!!! Seriously? Illegalities aside, who tf would want that pos back?

  • @walkerpatricia3171
    @walkerpatricia3171 9 днів тому +16

    He might be actually dead now, especially if he wired money to some stranger that he met online. Who knows what they did to him.

  • @outofgas5293
    @outofgas5293 9 днів тому +85

    The woman probably turned out to be three big men and drowned him anyway.

    • @moniqueloomis9772
      @moniqueloomis9772 9 днів тому +2

      Hmmm. 🤔 😅😮

    • @gribble2979
      @gribble2979 9 днів тому +6

      That would be sweet justice.

    • @belligerentcuisine
      @belligerentcuisine 9 днів тому +5

      🏆
      you win

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому

      Na. Thats just what you want it to be bc yall women want more than anything to be prettier than other women. You can’t stand for another woman to be chosen while yall aren’t.

    • @TheConorsmithusa
      @TheConorsmithusa 9 днів тому

      @@gribble2979 nah lol

  • @Maravillosa827
    @Maravillosa827 9 днів тому +22

    I can’t think of anything more hurtful to put your family through.

  • @roguered706
    @roguered706 9 днів тому +42

    I think it has less to do with getting him back to his family and more with the insurance company not wanting to pay out a life insurance policy.

    • @same5952
      @same5952 9 днів тому +10

      As long as there's evidence suggesting he'd faked his own death, it's reasonable of insurance company not wanting to pay out the money.

    • @roguered706
      @roguered706 9 днів тому +9

      @same5952 Absolutely. They most definitely should NOT pay it. My point is just that they want him back in the US because he committed fraud, not to "reunite him with his family" who probably do not want to see him again.

    • @TimNelsonProfessional
      @TimNelsonProfessional 8 днів тому

      @@roguered706 what's the charge though? Make him pay for the search and rescue efforts? Pay his wife child support? Abandoning his car and kayak? It's not like he killed someone, but its still deplorable.

    • @roguered706
      @roguered706 8 днів тому +2

      @TimNelsonProfessional Restitution for the search will be huge and in my opinion his family should have the right to do whate er they want to him as punishment. But if set aside what an awful piece of garbage he is, he is also a criminal.
      The fact that he specifically got a life insurance policy shortly before he did it is a pretty clear indicator of insurance fraud in my mind which is a felony.
      It's unclear how he got into Canada so there could be some charges related to that if he crossed illegally.
      Also, yes abandoning a vehicle is a violation of state statute 342.40-punishable by a fine and impoundment. And he's also guilty of a lot of littering (Wis statute 287.81). 😂

    • @Cga-g7i
      @Cga-g7i 4 дні тому +1

      Arrest & Jail time for insurance Freud

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle 9 днів тому +28

    He doesn’t want to be with his family.

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому +1

      With the way marriage laws work against men. I wouldn’t either.

    • @wildheartxxx135
      @wildheartxxx135 7 днів тому +1

      ​@@jadar9356😂

    • @rodneystricker7576
      @rodneystricker7576 7 днів тому

      ​@@jadar9356you're as disgusting as the pos that left his kids

  • @frogkisser
    @frogkisser 9 днів тому +19

    Oh No Sir, You can keep him! No, No, No , No thank you.

  • @Savvy.too.
    @Savvy.too. 9 днів тому +84

    Is it really necessary to show a photo of the whole family? He’s caused them enough harm. I’ve seen this story on several news channels, but this is the first time I’ve seen a pic of the entire family. Shameful.

    • @Spencerlayne
      @Spencerlayne 9 днів тому +10

      It's the media. What do you expect. They don't give a crap about him or the family. It's just something to get views and make money.

    • @Savvy.too.
      @Savvy.too. 9 днів тому +5

      @ My point was that other media sources chose a more ethical approach. Not all media operates the same way.I don’t subscribe to the idea that all media is the same.

    • @LorisBenedict
      @LorisBenedict 9 днів тому +10

      I said the same thing. Those kids are suffering enough. Now, they're being publicly humiliated.

    • @davidgray1515
      @davidgray1515 9 днів тому +1

      why do some that make bad decisions think they should be shielded from the consequences? The only shameful thing is the stupidity of this family.

    • @NKim-gj9vk
      @NKim-gj9vk 9 днів тому +7

      Completely agree. We’ve become too desensitized to making peoples real life pain and trauma entertainment. It’s really getting weird and harmful

  • @donnaholmes2496
    @donnaholmes2496 9 днів тому +16

    Why would any family want their father back if he doesn't want to be with them???

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 6 днів тому

      People reconnect with parents who abandoned them, gave them up for adoption, etc every single day.

  • @Gypsywandering400
    @Gypsywandering400 8 днів тому +10

    This is the most spectacularly ridiculous mid-life crisis. I hope his wife and kids want nothing to do with a man who would abandon them like this

  • @cindythomas5895
    @cindythomas5895 9 днів тому +18

    Omg - to do this to your kids… just disgusting 😡😡😡😡😡

  • @michelleberger7747
    @michelleberger7747 7 днів тому +15

    He thought he would never be caught. Not only was he caught the story unfolded in front of the public.He deserved that double whammy!

  • @MissysDomain
    @MissysDomain 9 днів тому +25

    Can you imagine the worry and heartbreak he put his family through only to find out a few months later he's alive and well, living with another woman abroad? I could never forgive that.

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому

      You had to add the part about another women didn’t you? Lmao bc if he left without another Woman you wouldn’t care right? Lmao .

    • @MandyAliens
      @MandyAliens 9 днів тому +8

      @@jadar9356wtf is actually wrong with you ?

    • @MissysDomain
      @MissysDomain 9 днів тому +4

      @jadar9356 I'd care, but the fact he was cheating to leave his family like that makes it way worse. It's the layering of lies for me.

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому

      @@MandyAliensit’s the truth isn’t it…

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому

      ⁠@@MissysDomain no it isn’t…. The part where he finds another woman is what bothers you the most…

  • @hudsondonnell444
    @hudsondonnell444 9 днів тому +11

    Uzbekistan! He'll disappear permanently.

  • @2nd_of_3
    @2nd_of_3 9 днів тому +19

    Just suppose this woman is part of something bigger.. what happened to him on arrival??? Real possibility he fell for a scam.. How appropriate would that be 😂

  • @metaphoricheart
    @metaphoricheart 9 днів тому +12

    What a jerk

  • @trueloveingod2691
    @trueloveingod2691 9 днів тому +21

    Imagine doing that to your family who loves and looks up to you. I’m wondering if he was catfished by a dude pretending to be a woman.

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому

      That’s just what yall wish to happen. Yall ONLY care about other women……………

  • @Shynestarlight2013
    @Shynestarlight2013 8 днів тому +16

    Get him back to his family??!! Umm I’d be like “you can have him”

  • @2nd_of_3
    @2nd_of_3 9 днів тому +18

    THERE Is no getting back with his family. There’s a lot of things you can say I’m sorry for and come back from. This is not one of those things.

    • @Zombie_boy86
      @Zombie_boy86 9 днів тому

      You don’t know that. For all we know he’ll call them and they’ll welcome him back

  • @Smiley-fv8zi
    @Smiley-fv8zi 9 днів тому +14

    I doubt that the wife wants him back!!

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 6 днів тому

      The wife, no. The kids, maybe.

    • @PoolsideData
      @PoolsideData 5 днів тому

      she drove him this do all this -- women harm men every day

  • @DrTHC
    @DrTHC 9 днів тому +14

    Idk which is more disgusting... The guy who did it or the cop who said that they want to get him back to his family. Seems to me the only thing more traumatic than believing your husband is dead would be knowing he abandoned you and your children. Encouraging familial reconciliation is a disgusting move, and shouldn't even be on the agenda of the police... It is a personal matter, and he's basically setting up the mom to look bad when she says hell no.

  • @Girlofpages
    @Girlofpages 9 днів тому +9

    How could you do something like this to your kids? They thought he was dead. Imagine the grief and pain they felt. Imagine how betrayed they feel now.

  • @PamComorski
    @PamComorski 7 днів тому +8

    Get him back? The family better off without this triator.

  • @Preedism
    @Preedism 9 днів тому +8

    Hate to say it, but this is better than what Scott Peterson and others did. Sieze the monies and charge him for searches. The rest can go to his family.

  • @nirv
    @nirv 7 днів тому +7

    The family is lucky that he only left and didn't pull a Chris Watts.

    • @wildheartxxx135
      @wildheartxxx135 7 днів тому

      Who knows what's behind closed doors, maybe his wife was annoying too so he had to run 🤷‍♀️😂

  • @rhighan4357
    @rhighan4357 9 днів тому +7

    please do not call him a father or man - what a pos

  • @loloca
    @loloca 9 днів тому +12

    What a loser! I hope the family can find closure!

  • @thegreencouchshow4029
    @thegreencouchshow4029 9 днів тому +14

    What a waste of resources and people’s time 😢

  • @MONKMIKE
    @MONKMIKE 9 днів тому +9

    He's No Father, but a Coward !!
    Smdh.. 😞

  • @heeeeyjai
    @heeeeyjai 9 днів тому +17

    What a joke of a man

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому

      What a manipulative wife

  • @tdhtran
    @tdhtran 9 днів тому +15

    He has such a lovely family.
    I don't understand this man.

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому +6

      Just bc the pic shows them smiling together? Lmao…. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

  • @northerniltree
    @northerniltree 9 днів тому +27

    No charges yet? How about attempted insurance fraud, and general douchebaggery?

    • @utezahn3174
      @utezahn3174 9 днів тому +7

      If only people could be charged for douchebaggery

    • @momtrips6783
      @momtrips6783 8 днів тому +1

      and add to that turdlike behavior

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 6 днів тому

      How do you charge someone who isn't "alive"?

    • @staypositive950
      @staypositive950 5 днів тому +1

      His wife did not make a claim on the insurance and he did not attempt to cash it out. There is no fraud to charge. He should be sued for the Search and Rescue and his family should sue him for Infliction of Emotional Distress.

    • @northerniltree
      @northerniltree 5 днів тому

      @@staypositive950 He recently took out a life insurance policy, and then faked his own death. Of course he wouldn't try to collect himself. His wife at some point would/should have tried to file a claim.

  • @MrsClean1
    @MrsClean1 9 днів тому +7

    Ryan DOESN'T want to be back with his family 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ACEDIAMOND666
    @ACEDIAMOND666 7 днів тому +3

    She should file for divorce and custody.

  • @aaronwilson1022
    @aaronwilson1022 9 днів тому +26

    This is just as bad as Sherry Papini's case.

  • @mickhannett5858
    @mickhannett5858 9 днів тому +22

    Why would you want the grub back

    • @annabrahamson4320
      @annabrahamson4320 9 днів тому

      He is still their dad, selfish jerk

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому

      @@annabrahamson4320you don’t know what happened. The wife could have been manipulative as h. Watch snapped.

    • @mickhannett5858
      @mickhannett5858 7 днів тому

      @@annabrahamson4320 so you stay in the relationship for the sake of the children then . Are you ok ? I am here if you want to talk about your problems.

  • @Cxn213
    @Cxn213 9 днів тому +5

    Phone home for what? If faking a death isn't a sign that he doesn't want them, then idk what is. Dude ran off & didn't want to be found obviously 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @JohnnyEla
    @JohnnyEla 9 днів тому +14

    That’s some bs! The wife needs to get that money and help pay them dang bills with all 3 of those kids. Put the dad in jail because he wants to abandon his whole family. Coward! To be a little ho ho ho

    • @maciejguzek3442
      @maciejguzek3442 9 днів тому +2

      Abandoning the family isn't a punishable offence, unless security of minors was threatened because of his actions. To get child support from him, his wife should go to court. If it can be proven that he intentionally faked his disappearance, Im convinced there are some paragraphs to get him.

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому

      Wife was probably manipulating him.

  • @owencrutcher493
    @owencrutcher493 9 днів тому +8

    Despicable

  • @KennethGreenCMP
    @KennethGreenCMP 9 днів тому +6

    CLEARLY he does not want to be with his family. He had over a year to think about this.

  • @Cucumberflavoredmustard
    @Cucumberflavoredmustard 8 днів тому +10

    Throw your life away for an Uzbek catfish. Next level stupid. Bill him for the entire search effort.

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 6 днів тому +1

      They never said he was catfished tho. 😂 For all we know, that is someone who is paid to help him "disappear."

  • @JRspeaking
    @JRspeaking 9 днів тому +4

    No, no, no. Do NOT get him back. He's an adult and made his choice.

  • @IDBTitanosaurus
    @IDBTitanosaurus 9 днів тому +20

    at least he didn't murder them...

    • @jdsjstudio
      @jdsjstudio 9 днів тому +3

      Exactly what I said...

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому

      At least SHE didn’t put anti freeze in his drink.

  • @debriggida
    @debriggida 7 днів тому +5

    At least he didn’t kill his wife.

  • @Zizana
    @Zizana 9 днів тому +6

    The authorities think saying they want to bring him back to his family is going to work? 1: The authorities want him back so they can arrest him, not reunite him with his family 2: He left his family, so he obviously doesn't want to be reunited with them 3: Does his family even want him back? Guy faked his death to rid himself of them! I wouldn't want him back!!!

    • @tinacatharinaeden2711
      @tinacatharinaeden2711 8 днів тому +1

      I hope his wife by now has: Thrown out all his stuff, filed for divorce and sued him for the house and everything else he owns. Besides that, he's probably no longer with the living.

  • @orangepurple8546
    @orangepurple8546 9 днів тому +6

    What a scumbag... How could he do that to his family?!

  • @j.g.2561
    @j.g.2561 7 днів тому +4

    Lock him up

  • @verleguntrumjr.2787
    @verleguntrumjr.2787 9 днів тому +10

    The waste of time and resources really pisses me off.

  • @me21464
    @me21464 4 дні тому +3

    Don’t bring that mess back to my house!! Stay away!!

  • @shannonperry9530
    @shannonperry9530 9 днів тому +6

    And of course he did this, too scared to just say he wasn’t happy and wanted a divorce…. So sad for his wife and kids…

  • @vickiesorenson2383
    @vickiesorenson2383 9 днів тому +9

    I doubt this guy will come home nor does he care about his existing family or others.

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 9 днів тому

      He cares about his kids. Just not wife or divorce system.

  • @Th3Think3r
    @Th3Think3r 9 днів тому +7

    Not sure about that "sophisticated" part. If he knew what he was doing law enforcement would still be looking for a victim and not a criminal.

    • @TimNelsonProfessional
      @TimNelsonProfessional 8 днів тому

      getting a 50+ day head start on authorities, crossing the border, and catching a flight overseas is pretty involved, to me at least

  • @cyndiwikstrom7314
    @cyndiwikstrom7314 8 днів тому +5

    In our town, a very similar situation happened. Everyone was devastated….search parties, fundraising for the family, etc. …..then they found out he’d been embezzling funds, had multiple girlfriends and most likely fled to Mexico. He has never been found and his family had a rough road but turned out just fine without him.

    • @msr1116
      @msr1116 3 дні тому

      In the early eighties, a guy in the next neighborhood to my east, set his own house on fire and tried to make it look like an accident to collect the insurance. Everybody contributed food, water, clothes, household items to restart his life....until his scam was revealed and he suddenly disappeared. Idk if he was ever caught.

  • @victoriaschell2225
    @victoriaschell2225 9 днів тому +6

    What a horrible selfish and evil thing to do. What he put his family thru is horrible. I hope he spends the rest of his life in prison..

  • @christyb7455
    @christyb7455 7 днів тому +5

    Disgusting coward!!

  • @deneenogbeide5087
    @deneenogbeide5087 7 днів тому +3

    He has disgraced his entire family. The kids idolized their father and this has traumatized them for life. He should be forced to pay the tax payers back for the search and rescue.What a piece of work. He should pray for forgiveness. He definitely should get therapy in prison. Why was his life so bad with a lovely family. He can think about that in prison…

  • @brendamartin7280
    @brendamartin7280 9 днів тому +10

    I was in Alaska years ago and many men went there to avoid paying child support!!

    • @MiniM69
      @MiniM69 9 днів тому

      Why Alaska? It’s still in the U.S…was it just a layover before trekking into Canada?

    • @brendamartin7280
      @brendamartin7280 9 днів тому +3

      @MiniM69 No, i had a friend there. I just asked people why they came to Alaska and that was one of the reasons. I hated it there Sun for 24 hours a day... season affect disorder. I had to leave even though it was the most beautiful place I had ever been.

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 6 днів тому +1

      Alaska is still in the U.S., so how would that even work? Do Alaska not have family court?
      (Depending on how much the child support is, I'd do it too.)

    • @msr1116
      @msr1116 3 дні тому +1

      It's still a massive wilderness with a very low population, making it easy to disappear there. It was once said about the large number of seemingly available men in Alaska: The odds are good, but the goods are odd.
      And running from all sorts of situations.

  • @blahblah8372
    @blahblah8372 7 днів тому +4

    At least he tried. Cheaper than divorce, but high risk. 😂

  • @alison9642
    @alison9642 8 днів тому +4

    I would not want him back. Once a cheater always a cheater.

  • @misswinter3361
    @misswinter3361 9 днів тому +5

    All of that for someone who's probably at catfish? If they choose to extradite him, hopefully he'll be charged for his crimes.

  • @gisellepelletier56
    @gisellepelletier56 9 днів тому +21

    I get the feeling he was also catfish!? He is probably dead!

    • @autumnsummers6599
      @autumnsummers6599 9 днів тому +9

      Well then his family wouldn't have grieved in vain

    • @gisellepelletier56
      @gisellepelletier56 9 днів тому +9

      @autumnsummers6599
      Many years ago I had a friend who quit her job and gave all her savings to some guy she met online in Iran and was planning to move there and he ghosted her after she sent money to him..just gave me that vibe..he definitely got what he deserves! I can't imagine the pain the family went through, disgusting!

    • @jamecia90s
      @jamecia90s 9 днів тому +3

      ​@@autumnsummers6599😂

  • @davidmcguerty8405
    @davidmcguerty8405 9 днів тому +5

    "Goal is to get Ryan back with his wife and three kids." Such a clueless guy.

    • @tinacatharinaeden2711
      @tinacatharinaeden2711 8 днів тому

      That reporter made a stupid and insensitive remark. I hope the guy will never see his wife and family again.

  • @simplesimon755
    @simplesimon755 9 днів тому +4

    He harmed a lot of people and wasted a lot of resources. I don't think he should be allowed to get away with it. I hope his family won't have to suffer financially for his selfish behavior.

  • @J-q1x8p
    @J-q1x8p 9 днів тому +13

    If he was worried about divorcing he could've told his family he's moving to Canada for a few months and share kids with his wife. I don't understand why he didn't choose this over his crazy idea!!

  • @nichole771
    @nichole771 7 днів тому +3

    I don’t think his family wants him back!

  • @melindaunknown6411
    @melindaunknown6411 9 днів тому +6

    Well, his family will not get any life insurance now.

    • @darkviolet69
      @darkviolet69 9 днів тому +3

      And that's a shame because the money would take care of them better than he ever would

  • @julsonnicolas192
    @julsonnicolas192 7 днів тому +3

    He really got tired of the constant nagging damn this guy is cold.

    • @sariunan
      @sariunan 7 днів тому +2

      imagine shifting all blame on his poor wife. damn, y'all are l0sers 🧐

    • @julsonnicolas192
      @julsonnicolas192 7 днів тому

      @sariunan hey I got a divorce from my wife like a normal person would. I wouldn't go to this degree. Us Men lose everything in a divorce and he wasn't having it.

    • @msr1116
      @msr1116 3 дні тому

      If the worry is about losing everything in a divorce, then he's a total doofus beyond salvaging. He already gave up everything for a longshot online "woman" ....and in Uzbekistan ? Come on already ! I'll bet he wound up jumping out of the frying pan and into a blazing fire. You NEVER give up your current life for somebody you met on a computer, especially from some country tough to locate on a map. I mean , it takes a special kind of stoopid to agree to such a blatant scam.

  • @MoxyVerve
    @MoxyVerve 4 дні тому +2

    Why is it important to get this pathetic “father”back?
    He purposely abandoned his family while simultaneously & callously taking away precious resources from our emergency response system!

  • @umama5531
    @umama5531 9 днів тому +4

    Poor kids what a coward.

  • @darkviolet69
    @darkviolet69 9 днів тому +8

    ...and that other woman would have most likely dumped him before this news broke, now she definitely will. guy's a loser all the way around, wife should be filing for divorce right now.

  • @Softtearsofwisdom...
    @Softtearsofwisdom... 9 днів тому +9

    💔I find the body language in the photograph of the family very sad.

  • @alluringintrovert2036
    @alluringintrovert2036 7 днів тому +2

    Shameful. He should be ashamed of himself. I hope its a fake woman!!

  • @TheHouseofcoolstuff
    @TheHouseofcoolstuff 9 днів тому +4

    The poor kids! What kind of a father does such a cruel thing to his kids.