This Trip ELEVATED Mikko's Stress Level!!!

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  • @vonnievee
    @vonnievee 4 місяці тому +173

    Since it happened on both the elevator & the stairs, she may have just been worried her Dad wasn't coming & didn't have the words to express that. Everything is not a reflection on parenting skills folks. Developmental age comes into play too. Sometimes a kid is just being a kid.
    For everyone passing judgement, please look at how great the other kids are behaving. Here's a newsflash for you- they are all being raised by the exact same wonderful parents!

    • @sarahbyrd772
      @sarahbyrd772 4 місяці тому +10

      Well said. ❤

    • @mj4lu5hffg
      @mj4lu5hffg 4 місяці тому +12

      Mikko gets different treatment and is being raised differently. Stevie Wonder can see that

    • @iseashia
      @iseashia 4 місяці тому +11

      My daughter is 12, Nonverbal Autism. We cannot split up if we leave out as a family. If we all leave the house together, she expects us all to stay together so that could be VERY possible. The beauty in recording is they can go back to see exactly what was Mikko’s Antecedent to this behavior. Then they can work on it from there.

    • @naylabyxbe3411
      @naylabyxbe3411 4 місяці тому +1

      Great observation….I missed that one! So happy to have read this…!

    • @vonnievee
      @vonnievee 4 місяці тому +10

      ​@@mj4lu5hffgOf course she gets different treatment. She's younger right now & has her own strengths & weaknesses. People are not all the same. Were you there to see how she took care of the other two when they were Miko's age? My point was that if you look at the other two children, it's obvious that the parents know what they're doing. I also don't know any parents who treat each of their children the same. What's the point of making a comparison?

  • @angelalivingston511
    @angelalivingston511 4 місяці тому +101

    Wow she was afraid the first time in the elevator but the second with Dad she felt safe.. y'all are such good parents..May OUR LORD and SAVIOR BLESS your beautiful family..❤️

    • @princenesantos6500
      @princenesantos6500 Місяць тому

      My daughter grandbaby and myself had jolobee chicken and its delicious the peach pie I didn't like

  • @GOGITTA101
    @GOGITTA101 4 місяці тому +66

    You all deserve a vacation. Keep going Mikko is going to be fine

  • @HRstar1078
    @HRstar1078 4 місяці тому +33

    It was refreshing to see the twins interact with Mikko and to see MaKenzie get special treatment. Her hair turned out beautifully.

  • @cynthia8517
    @cynthia8517 4 місяці тому +77

    I’m super proud to have dad and the other kids in the video! You and hubby both seems so happy! I love that! Keep God first in your life and relationship no matter what! Such a beautiful family 🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️👍🏽

  • @SolunaV
    @SolunaV 4 місяці тому +42

    Your children are all beautiful, well-behaved and very smart! Good job parents, and wish you all the best weekend🩷

  • @user-iq2jq4zr9o
    @user-iq2jq4zr9o 4 місяці тому +79

    Mikko is the spitting image of her dad. I like your braids MaKenzie.😊

  • @jazzglennis2334
    @jazzglennis2334 4 місяці тому +40

    Dad's are so important. Happy Father's Day weekend!

  • @dahby2724
    @dahby2724 4 місяці тому +24

    The Twins are so adorable.

  • @2percent153
    @2percent153 4 місяці тому +196

    Another reason why dads are important. With him she gave no fuss on the elevator. The power of the real daddy's.

    • @Digital_demon460
      @Digital_demon460 4 місяці тому +9

      Perfectly put anHappy Father's Day to all the dads out there who are present involved with there kids an the dads who are in kids life to🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @sduolcepoh7502
      @sduolcepoh7502 4 місяці тому +1

      Exactly 💯

    • @sketch735
      @sketch735 Місяць тому

      Yep, mom causes the tension due to her worry

  • @celi9133
    @celi9133 4 місяці тому +35

    Praying for you and your family. These trips will become easier! Mikko loves her Mama!

  • @ccarr0712
    @ccarr0712 4 місяці тому +53

    Daddy's arms will ALWAYS equal safety 🤗🥰😍

  • @nancygreen1655
    @nancygreen1655 3 місяці тому +8

    She even smiled going down in the elevator in dad’s arms! 🥰. She looked so proud of herself! ❤

  • @harvestmoon_autumnsky
    @harvestmoon_autumnsky 4 місяці тому +10

    OH I felt so much compassion for you. I've had so many similar moments with my son, wanting to do something "fun" only for it to turn into a nightmare because he was unable to process too many new experiences at once. And the frustration when the same behaviors aren't always triggered with a different person. My son would have a full on melt down getting his hair cut with me at home or at the barber, screaming, failing, hyperventilating, throwing up, but his babysitter could do it for him and he sat beautifully without any issues. While I was grateful, it also secretly made me feel like a failure.

  • @Blueivy115
    @Blueivy115 4 місяці тому +13

    Wat a BIG difference 👍 Daddy to the rescue . I just want to mention the your other two children are so well behaved and they also are so sweet 💖🩵💕💖🩵💕

  • @lorac4126
    @lorac4126 3 місяці тому +3

    What an amazing family. Autism is a journey, but this mom has worked hard to bring Miko to this level. Keep up the good work. Im glad you and hubby are doing better, because it takes a team. Sometimes, it takes men a little longer to accept the struggle and express what they are feeding and what their needs are.

  • @melvinamatthews8437
    @melvinamatthews8437 4 місяці тому +12

    You’re a Great mom, you are so patient ❤

  • @naylabyxbe3411
    @naylabyxbe3411 4 місяці тому +22

    @ the 13 minute mark you can see the effects of over stimulation….all the flashing lights, rapid movement and loud unfamiliar sounds tip her equilibrium ….. only the opposite will correct that problem… she needs restful and peaceful place and plenty of time to restore her capacity. I really loved seeing the things that she was taking in….I think you guys are doing a great job in helping her to grow up and you are definitely adding value to the community. Your older children, no doubt are being molded into pretty awesome humans. ❤❤❤

  • @leticiasmith226
    @leticiasmith226 4 місяці тому +25

    Watching you and your family is giving me hope for my grandbaby

  • @Trinity25Apr
    @Trinity25Apr 4 місяці тому +17

    Maybe there was a scent or sound connected to the elevator that was unfamiliar and unsettling to her. Having gone up initially with mum and surviving, she felt reassured going down with the whole family. Shared family experiences are always better than being separated, and this time with all of you together is priceless.

    • @sketch735
      @sketch735 Місяць тому

      No, Mikko can pick up on mom's energy. Dad just doesn't hesitate. That's the difference. Gentle isn't best in all situations. Autistic or not, kids can't always dictate the way things are gonna happen. Autistic kids know how to manipulate the situation too 😅

  • @DsweetestDoll
    @DsweetestDoll 4 місяці тому +19

    The family is gorgeous as per usual. Hoping that mikko becomes more comfortable with elevator and stairs. Enjoy your trip

  • @glennfields8121
    @glennfields8121 4 місяці тому +30

    It is very traumatizing for both Mikko and Precious when Mikko is afraid or nervous to get on the elevator. The stairs seemed like a possible alternative until you begin to realize how many stairs you will have to climb to get to your floor. A shout out to Matthew for the smile and showing his small toy. That was adorable. Ma'kenzie is also adorable when she offers her hug to Mikko but sadly she was rejected by Mikko. Precious, I loved the way that you took control of the camera for a shot behind the door and for being 'playful' with Chris. Precious, I admire you because you try your best to divide your time between all of the kids and husband Chris and I can't help but wonder if you occasionally need 'me' time and also 'alone time' as in alone with Chris or alone with Mikko, alone with Matthew, alone with Ma'kenzie? It seems that time keeps creeping away as all of the children grow. Ma'kenzie and Matthew will be teenagers before you know it which come with a new set of challenges, doesn't it? I pray for the entire family every day. They need our help even if it is only be a UA-cam subscriber to the channel and watching their videos. This family is without question one of the best, if not the best family channel on UA-cam!!

    • @tanyamobley2572
      @tanyamobley2572 4 місяці тому +1

      I think I agree with everything you said

    • @ermmabutler2224
      @ermmabutler2224 4 місяці тому +2

      With time and age she will adjust. It's all about being patient and taking one day at a time. But you two as parents are amazing for being there to make sure that your kids have what they need. Men are always the strongest force in any relationship. Mikko is the splitting image of her Dad from head to toe. Such thick beautiful hair. Beautiful kids. ❤

  • @cynthia-iz9ew
    @cynthia-iz9ew 4 місяці тому +14

    I love baby girl's hair❤❤❤❤They did a good job. I just love your family.

  • @2forreal
    @2forreal 6 днів тому

    Mom and Dad many blessings to you and your family. Thank you for sharing the journey. Mom sending you a hug!!

  • @ShayMac311
    @ShayMac311 4 місяці тому +9

    Aww Mom I felt for you guys. I know how frustrating it is to figure out what’s triggering her and then how to proceed. You all are doing great. 💚🙏🏾

  • @ryanmay1754
    @ryanmay1754 4 місяці тому +3

    Your videos are really helpful and encouraging. Its comforting to know there are other parents out there who are going through the same things and just trying to navigate through the day to be the best parents they can be to their child who has special needs.
    Im looking at some of these comments of people behind a screen judging and im just shaking my head. Until they actually experience having a child with special needs they shouldn't judge. Not every situation is the same and i believe you are a blessing to those seeing you go through the same things. May God bless you and your family ❤❤

  • @starietiger9927
    @starietiger9927 4 місяці тому +6

    YES GURL!! ROCK THEM BRAIDS!!💕💕💕
    I legit cheered at my tv when I saw that Mikko found an arcade game she liked and could do mostly herself. That entire time, I was hoping she'd find one she really liked! And I wanna do that one!! I've never done a bowling game like that before, and it looks cute/fun.

  • @glendadavis850
    @glendadavis850 4 місяці тому +9

    Aww, Mackenzie you are rocking those braids. You are beautiful and your brother is so handsome! Mikko, my little trooper. You did good.

  • @Pianopraiser
    @Pianopraiser 4 місяці тому +3

    Such patience is needed. You guys are an amazing family. Praying Milo becomes the greatest version of who the creator made. She has a purpose.

  • @awg7068
    @awg7068 4 місяці тому +2

    Your children are so loved, and it shows on their beautiful faces!

  • @glennfields8121
    @glennfields8121 4 місяці тому +11

    Just one more thing...such a beautiful family. This is what God delights in.

  • @Blueivy115
    @Blueivy115 3 місяці тому +2

    You have the nicest children . Well spoken and well mannered . God Bless you all and keep you safe . From NYC 🍎 xoxoxoxoxo Mucho hugs and kisses 💋

  • @robinjackson7535
    @robinjackson7535 4 місяці тому +4

    This is a wonderful video. So happy that you all were able to take a mini trip. Praying that with each trip Mikko will begin to relax and not be stressed when traveling. McKensie's hair looked beautiful. You have a beautiful family. Wishing Chris a very happy father's day. Enjoy the Father's Day Weekend!!!

  • @lindasanders3010
    @lindasanders3010 4 місяці тому +10

    McKenzie looks beautiful ❤️❤️ I love my baby girl mikko

  • @annasmith9219
    @annasmith9219 21 день тому

    You guys are great parents I really appreciate the fact that you are so patient. God bless you all. Love mikko

  • @blackapples4744
    @blackapples4744 25 днів тому

    Wow…..
    That was a nice outing for the entire family. It gave the children an opportunity to focus on all the different animals.🌱

  • @TamaraFox-vz3wi
    @TamaraFox-vz3wi 4 місяці тому +5

    Vacations are needed and kids know the power of a Dad. ❤❤❤❤

  • @lovinkiah07
    @lovinkiah07 3 місяці тому +1

    All your kids are beautiful!! So glad you are getting the hang of the family vacation!!!!

  • @dahby2724
    @dahby2724 4 місяці тому +6

    Makenzie is a truly stunning young girl along with her brother and sister Mikko..she is a great big sister and loving twin to her brother

  • @tava4599
    @tava4599 4 місяці тому +4

    Yay finally an episode about Kenzie's hair! Looking good baby girl, got that Janet Jackson Poetic Justice going on!😊 Cyber Auntie loves
    you💕

  • @nkyimkyim8734
    @nkyimkyim8734 4 місяці тому +5

    It’s obviously not easy for you, Mikko and the family! God be with you!

  • @AngelsOnScreen
    @AngelsOnScreen 4 місяці тому +2

    Makenzie's braids look great! Mikko looked a bit like she wondered where her braids were when her sisters were finished. I'm glad Mikko was able to conquer the elevator with Dad. Seems like you all had a sweet trip.

  • @allisonmitchell7379
    @allisonmitchell7379 3 місяці тому +1

    I love the way u divide your time btwn all of the kids, giving all of them your love, care, and attention and support. It’s very important when u have more than one child period to spread yourself btwn all of them so that they all feel that equal love from their parents. But it’s even more so important to make sure u do that when one or more of them has a disability and/or is special needs. I have 3 children and my last 2 are 10 and 11yrs apart from my first born but are just 1yr apart from each other. My daughter is the middle child and my 2 boys are the 1st and last born. My youngest is severely autistic and also epileptic. He’s non verbal and not potty trained and is 100% dependent. They are all grown now but he is still like a 2yr old. He’ll be 21 in August and my daughter will be 22 in August. My oldest just turned 32 y’day as a matter of fact. (Happy Birthday son❤🎉🎊) So when my daughter and son were younger children my daughter didn’t fully understand exactly what was wrong with her brother she just knew he was different and required ALOT of my attention. For a long time she felt like I loved him more than her or that I only loved him. She even said one time she wished she had autism and I asked her why she said that and that’s when she told me how she felt and I wasn’t aware of that at all! I had no idea she felt that way. I had to sit her down and really talk to her and let her know I loved her and her brother(s) equally. And that I had to be more attentive to her little brother because he required special attention. I had to be mindful to always make sure from that point on that I let her know I loved her and would start being more attentive to her as well. She loved her brother but felt like he was keeping me from loving her and being there for her as well so I had to straighten that out with her and afterwards she was good and the older she got the more she understood and that made her love and bond with him stronger and I’m glad I was able to get thru to her and reassure her she had nothing to worry about.

    • @allisonmitchell7379
      @allisonmitchell7379 3 місяці тому +1

      @@courtneylucas508 are we watching the same video? Or are u just slow? U didn’t just see her with her daughter talking about getting her hair braided? That’s the ENTIRE reason they went out of town. To get her twin daughter’s hair braided. This channel was primarily created for Mikko. Not because she loves Mikko more or whatever u clearly are trying to insinuate. It’s because she is allowing her followers to join her on her everyday challenges, struggles,and achievements with Mikko and her autism. Her children go to school. Mikko does not. So most of the time when she does these videos with Mikko and things she does with her as far as teaching her colors, shapes, animals, teaching her how to say words, and everything else she does with and for her, they are home and the twins are at school. She does have videos that she makes just for the twins. Unless u are the mother of a special needs child, ESPECIALLY one with autism, u have NO IDEA how hard and overwhelming it can be to raise and care for an autistic or special needs child. So unless u are like myself, having 3 children and my youngest is severely autistic, non verbal, not potty trained and 100% dependent, u can’t relate. Don’t be so quick to judge. She doesn’t neglect her twins. They are always happy, clean, hair done fed good and are always there with them.

    • @m7ssiel
      @m7ssiel 3 місяці тому

      @@courtneylucas508yall judge too quick OMG shut up!!!

  • @tbg733
    @tbg733 4 місяці тому +2

    I love this family. The patience and love you show for one another is amazing. MaKenzie, your hair is so pretty.

  • @andrelwhitnire
    @andrelwhitnire 4 місяці тому +17

    Kenzie is so beautiful ❤

  • @tamarasmi4187
    @tamarasmi4187 2 місяці тому

    So nice to see the whole family have fun together!!!!

  • @Michelle-xc7ch
    @Michelle-xc7ch 4 місяці тому +3

    I enjoy seeing the twins such good kids

  • @anonymous101-sb1bf
    @anonymous101-sb1bf 4 місяці тому +5

    Mikko is a little foodie, beautiful family ❤

  • @reneehubbard9027
    @reneehubbard9027 3 місяці тому

    Mom has amazing patients. The kids are well behaved and Dad is a great Dad. Thanks for sharing your family trip. Love the braids.

  • @rebeccamcintyre6912
    @rebeccamcintyre6912 4 місяці тому +1

    We tried a trip with our little guy buy traveling on an air plane which he did really good on but as soon as we got to the hotel it wasnt home so he stayed up all day and night roaming the room and wouldnt sleep at all until my husband had to take him back home and into his own room and bed. Unfortunately we new it wasnt time to take him on trips yet. He was 5 years old. I think hed still get overwhelmed if we did another trip so we are waiting. But yea its really hard for them to adjust to knew things so we get it. Hang in there hun. You guys are doing great! watching your videos its so awesome to see MIKO talking! Love it. God bless you all

  • @angelalivingston511
    @angelalivingston511 4 місяці тому +15

    Makenzie hair is beautiful

  • @maryroberson7682
    @maryroberson7682 4 місяці тому +1

    This is a beautiful video because the family was so chill and ya'll all were so happy even Mikko enjoyed herself. Ya'll should do this more often ❤🙏

  • @aprill7592
    @aprill7592 4 місяці тому +4

    Heyyy Precious, Chris, and kiddos ❤! It was good seeing the whole gang together. I just enjoy you guys and seeing the lighter moments mixed in, too.

  • @ginagibson407
    @ginagibson407 4 місяці тому

    Being in the arms of her daddy was the magic touch she was calm and laughing that gave mom some peace great parenting team. I live in Dallas Tx I’ve had JollieBees once and it was good you guys reminded me I need to go again. Awww you guys are having so much fun that’s good TYFS and be BLESSED 🤗🌻🦋

  • @natyshaifoster529
    @natyshaifoster529 3 місяці тому +2

    MY BABIES!!!! This was an awesome experience for you guys BUT I can’t wait til you come see me next!!! You guys did so good ❤

  • @KatEyze1015
    @KatEyze1015 4 місяці тому +4

    Such a fun video!! I'm so happy the kids enjoyed themselves. Fun memories were made!

  • @luckylady05be
    @luckylady05be 4 місяці тому +14

    Your older daughter has such a pretty smile and the shape of her eyes are beautiful. Your son's voice sound says he's a smart guy! ❤❤❤ You should smile more Momma, you have a wonderful husband and beautiful family. 🌹

  • @CassandraRaynor-yr1sx
    @CassandraRaynor-yr1sx 4 місяці тому +3

    I like to see your funny side Chris. You guys are making me hungry. I just love your family. God Bless You all.

  • @NicoleTisdale-e1o
    @NicoleTisdale-e1o 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for sharing this wonderful video. You and the Fam rock.

  • @KimberleyCrowe-e9r
    @KimberleyCrowe-e9r 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for the beautiful video the tall father with a fine angles made it feel like I was there with your family at the zoo it was wonderful seeing the animals such a great video

  • @TempChill
    @TempChill 4 місяці тому +3

    Moms legs are toned and summer ready ❤

    • @kkmcknight5463
      @kkmcknight5463 4 місяці тому +1

      I saw that too, she has great legs!

  • @debbiehunt9741
    @debbiehunt9741 3 місяці тому

    I sure enjoyed seeing your family trip! It brought me back to trips with my kids with your excellent videography. Good to see that family life can be so beautiful. So much love in your family, everyone working together. God bless you and thank you for blessing all of us by sharing your story.

  • @sweetiepie4041
    @sweetiepie4041 4 місяці тому +1

    Dad is her super hero ❤❤❤

  • @bosladyspatrice2246
    @bosladyspatrice2246 4 місяці тому +1

    Bless her little heart, you all are doing a great job with mikko. Everyday is a new day, what worked today may not work tomorrow.

  • @barbrichard4454
    @barbrichard4454 4 місяці тому +8

    So glad the older kids had a good time 😂

  • @purplelover4285
    @purplelover4285 3 місяці тому

    I'm so glad she communicated No! I know it made things challenging, but i agree with the poster that says she may have just thought her dad and siblings weren't going to be there. Awesome job, Mom and Dad!!

  • @shawnl8745
    @shawnl8745 4 місяці тому +3

    Her braids look so pretty!!

  • @kkmcknight5463
    @kkmcknight5463 4 місяці тому

    I love seeing you and Chris smiling & lovin on each other. Really enjoyed the editing in this one too! As always sending my love.

  • @michellegaines3568
    @michellegaines3568 4 місяці тому +2

    I love Miko natural beautiful hair ❤❤❤❤

  • @caligirllvn71
    @caligirllvn71 4 місяці тому +1

    McKenzie looks so beautiful 🤩

  • @DonnaDunlap
    @DonnaDunlap 4 місяці тому +2

    McKenzie is beautiful. It looks like a fun trip.

  • @gloriaking624
    @gloriaking624 4 місяці тому +2

    Oh my adorable Mikko.❤❤❤❤

  • @adambata4667
    @adambata4667 4 місяці тому

    You have a beautiful family. It's nice to see your other children and husband on the channel. I love your content. It'd be nice to see more content every so often with the whole family.

  • @susie934
    @susie934 4 місяці тому +17

    Maybe Mom stresses and Mikko picks up on it

    • @jadet3322
      @jadet3322 4 місяці тому +3

      I know with my son he definitely picks up on my anxiety. I have to remain calm even when I'm not. Teaching moments all the time. #autism boy mom❤

  • @teekey116
    @teekey116 4 місяці тому +1

    McKenzie hair looks beautiful I'm glad y'all had a nice trip

  • @latoniasmith5599
    @latoniasmith5599 4 місяці тому

    She feels safe/more safe with Dad.🤷🏾‍♀️....either way you guys are great with her & makes her feel comforted.......thanks for sharing!!❤🙏🏽

  • @shurondaadkins5944
    @shurondaadkins5944 4 місяці тому

    The kids look great ❤Mackenzie is such a cutie pie her eyes are just magical

  • @michiek8569
    @michiek8569 4 місяці тому

    Good family fun and Mikko really enjoyed herself.♥

  • @alsedarussell42
    @alsedarussell42 4 місяці тому

    Hello family it was wonderful to see your everyone in your vlog with Mikko 😊❤you have a beautiful family 🥰 blessings and all the best on more family trips ❤❤

  • @feleciaa1
    @feleciaa1 4 місяці тому

    You and your Hubby make a wonderful team ❤️ and Kenzie’s hair is super cute. 🥰

  • @grandmaof1172
    @grandmaof1172 4 місяці тому

    Just a beautiful family. Dad has a different energy. I felt she was responding to his calmness. Whatever it was it's just lovely to see tge love.

  • @feleciaredd5625
    @feleciaredd5625 3 місяці тому

    Daddy is the key! She was in her daddy's arms! Love how she felt secure! You get little break mommy, just the elevator ride! Your family is wonderful. I pray for continued strength for your hubby and you as you continue to raise your three beautiful kids! I hope you two get at least monthly dates alone, to nurture your marriage! Your holy matrimony needs that so you can be strong or your three arrows!!! God bless.

  • @KimberleyCrowe-e9r
    @KimberleyCrowe-e9r 2 місяці тому

    Such a beautiful loving family🎉❤

  • @joammami520
    @joammami520 4 місяці тому +5

    Ma’kenzie is wonderful! Pls feature her more

    • @joammami520
      @joammami520 4 місяці тому +3

      Mikko gets too much screen time imo. It’s obvious at 9:05 when Precious almost calls Ma’kenzie Mikko…

    • @divahc1
      @divahc1 4 місяці тому +3

      You're missing the purpose of their channel which is to show the "gentle" alternative to raising your artistic child. @joammami520

    • @tonitwitty9529
      @tonitwitty9529 4 місяці тому

      Exactly ​@@divahc1

    • @andrelwhitnire
      @andrelwhitnire 4 місяці тому +2

      Not in anyway taking away the purpose of the channel but it is nice to see more of the twins as they are intrinsic to their sister’s development and they have been taught by example how to be “gentle” and they are incredible siblings! I truly trust your judgment Mom!

  • @cjrumph16
    @cjrumph16 4 місяці тому +12

    My autistic son hated elevators for the longest & couldn’t always be avoided. I started warning him before hand, letting him press button & trying to wait for empty elevator. Traveling is still iffy & we just do whatever we can.

  • @BarbGlasg
    @BarbGlasg 4 місяці тому

    Great family outing, everyone looked relaxed, I'm glad you all had a good time, keep up the awesomeness.

  • @amandaholliday863
    @amandaholliday863 2 місяці тому +1

    What I have realized after watching this video and knowing how kids react to our emotions is that knowing mom has stated she has had some sort of sensory issues with the way things feel to her means there are some heighten emotions and mom knows how to not let them show. I can see that Miko picks up on a lot of her emotions, for instance the elevator situation mom got a little frustrated or flustered on the inside and Miko picked up on that and it was all hell from there trying to get her onto the elevator. As we can see when dad got her they got right on and off without any issues that were shown. I said this to say that when we think we are being calm and patient but on the inside we are an emotional wreck our kids pick up on this and because sweet babygirl has autism she feels it but can't control it without showing it.
    When mom was calm inside and out which was in the arcade, they both did the racing game together and the bowling game and Mikko was just fine. Most kids that have issues with loud noises cannot and will not go in a arcade. Mikko was just fine with it and loved it. So it's a lot that she is picking up from mom getting nervous because she starts thinking about how Mikko is going to respond to something because the last time she had to fight with her and that starts to bring up tention in the air. Mikko is picking up all of this and it starts to make her anxious and also she is a very smart girl and understands a lot. But when its behavior and not something else you have to have positive consequences for her.

  • @eileenbryant646
    @eileenbryant646 3 місяці тому

    Elevators, escalators and garage doors. It took a couple years but my son found them to be fun eventually. It took us a long time to figure out the garage door issue because he was always in the car when we would go in and out of the garage. When we would walk through my sisters garage, he would have a melt down.

  • @kellivega28
    @kellivega28 4 місяці тому

    Your whole family is beautiful! And Chis couldn't deny Mikko if he tried! I love Mackenzie's hair! Sorry if I spelled that wrong! You guys are blessed!❤❤

  • @nenenene9744
    @nenenene9744 4 місяці тому +22

    She's never been in a clingy sed box before. She needed to see an opening, space. She feels very safe with her dad. His deep voice and strong grasp. It's order. Family order is her dad's arms.

  • @rosecollins5824
    @rosecollins5824 4 місяці тому

    ❤BEAUTIFUL FAMILY TIME❤️ Thank y’all for sharing. Keep it coming.😊

  • @LynelleL-c2y
    @LynelleL-c2y 4 місяці тому

    It's so cute to see her smile when in dad's arms on the elevator...no issue at all! Praise God

  • @shannonhatton6321
    @shannonhatton6321 2 місяці тому

    Love Parent Trap playing in the background!

  • @MT-tx7bu
    @MT-tx7bu 4 місяці тому

    Cute family! Mikko is figuring it out.

  • @jackiebrenon219
    @jackiebrenon219 4 місяці тому

    So happy for you and the family you all had a great time

  • @myrthasmascary4086
    @myrthasmascary4086 3 місяці тому

    Mom goes by her comfort level and not pushing her to do what she comfortable with meeting her where she at . Dad has a different relationship with Mikko so she might more focused on her dad then what she afraid of. Both r great parents

  • @natashadonegan3143
    @natashadonegan3143 6 днів тому

    It’s not on commen for kids to be afraid it was sad to see but I love how ye handle every situation with mikko she a lovely kid and ye are great parents who support and just have the patients to help anything she faces my daughter is the same but going out now is a huge problem as we can’t she freaks out where she hadn’t before she it’s difficult it’s hard to raise a child who’s Austic but it’s a huge achievement to see the changes and things they can do they are very clever

  • @elainecox1200
    @elainecox1200 4 місяці тому +1

    I never heard of Jollibee restaurant i love how you and dad are so patient with miko

  • @erikaswofford885
    @erikaswofford885 3 місяці тому

    Awwe she need her whole crew brother, sister, and daddy and mommie

  • @SamiiGHasQuestions
    @SamiiGHasQuestions 4 місяці тому +6

    Everything requires a warning and a song for my similiarly situated daughter. "Were going to get on the elevator now in 1, 2, 3" ... (She wouldve already seen Ms. Rachels elevator song video, and as we get on we sing " take the elevator up, take the elevator down..."