Ive got 12 years of long distance under my belt. Nowadays, I end the call with a smile, sigh, and a long look to the distance while feeling blessed. The love never leaves even if you do. You'll get there 👍
I'm going through this now. My parents live close by but over the years they visit less and less and phone calls are mostly about urgent things rather than fun topics. This would be normal and ok but for the fact that my mom really pushed me to stay single because supposedly marriage was awful. Now my dad is her best friend in the world and I'm the one she complains about. 🙄
Oh please 🥲 I literally just came back. On one side my soul feels better now, on the other end I feel like being a selfish daughter for leaving them, especially around Xmas time. And no one ever thinks of how I feel 🙃
I moved continents. Most of my friends kinda just ghosted me, except for one and I’d like to believe that we’re best friends. But she’s my best friend yet I don’t think I am hers. I feel this way every time I end a call with her.
i’m moving to a different continent next year, and i’m sure that will happen to me too. but honestly, i’m not even that sad about it because i don’t feel like i have any strong relationships worth holding onto here anyway. i hope i’ll be able to build some kind of community where i’m going
I felt this in every fiber of my being. My best friend moved away this past year and I miss her so much. We always joke about me just moving all the way out there and I swear one of these days I'm gonna do it. 😂
My best friend of 9 years just moved 6 months ago. And they is not a day, where I don’t think about the gaping space next to me. Miss her very much. I can totally relate to you!
I had to move out of my home state away from my family, I’m only 15 and I’ve missed many important family events and my family’s birthdays. I’m miss them and I’m so angry about how much I’ve missed because I’ll never get the time back
@pyperlillie9380 Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) is a commonly experienced trait for people with ADHD. It's the strong feeling of sadness or anger when rejection is perceived, such as somone who is normally ok with you being off, or changing plans to see you, or being blanked in the street.
@kairon156 yeah i think I get you. Like I'll go to cafe regularly for months, then if one of the staff are a bit off, I'll never go back and stay at home for weeks avoiding all contact. On the plus side I've saved quite a lot of money making coffee at home.
@@neilbrewster24 Oh yeah as someone who has ADHD and possible AuDHD, this resonates a fuck ton for me aswell. Makes people pleasing so much worse in my experience. Do you know if there's any psychological changes in the brain when this happens? Or like why it happens spefically to ADHD inviduals, what things like tendencies and mental illness can interfere with it? Or maybe even what can make it more commonly happen? No pressure to awnser! I'm just nerding out and if you happen to not know the awnsers, thats completely okay! I can do the research myself./lh
Oh my god. You couldn’t have posted this at a more relevant time for me. I see my friends once a year, twice if I’m lucky, but we have video calls almost every week. The thing is, I’m the only one who is remote, and they’re all in the same living room together. I was supposed to go back and see them on my yearly trip today, but it got delayed extremely last minute. So now it’s video calls only for another year 😢
I miss Oakville. I miss Sheridan. I miss the pocket of the world where it was okay to not know myself, but rather to find out. I know it's not the same as what you're saying, but the ache is still felt. Wishing you well Olivia.
Yeah. And at least she has good relationships that makes her feel this way. Bad relationships doesn't. Yet I understand. It's an aweful feeling. Had it once, as a child.
one of my best friends from childhood moved back to Spain and we fell out of contact for years. earlier this year we reconnected and we havent met up yet but she's by far my best friend and is the only person who really understands me (luckily im still surrounded by lovely ppl irl) but i still miss her.
I feel this all the time I am from a small town in Michigan but when I was five my parents moved me away from all my family I live in Tennessee where I have no family some friends but most are still in Michigan
Two of my closest friends moved away three years ago. Sometimes, I wonder if they feel this way. I miss them. We haven’t all been together since they moved 😕
Ugh me, I live in Washington, but my parents are in El Paso, in-laws in Arkansas, best friends in Indiana. I'm moving to Arkansas next year to be more in the middle of everyone and I cannot wait to go
Oh my gosh, I I understand that so much live so far away from my friends and I only saw them last year in like seven years and oh my gosh I missed them so much when I left😊 I just feel like I’m never really seen them every day going wrong to the house saying hi going to school or sending secret letters like it’s not gonna be that anymore and trying to convince our parents to stay over saying hi let’s have the girls have a sleepover
I am about 7 hours from my family. Found out that I have to work the day before and the days after Christmas so I can't go home and had to make new plans this year.
Yeah, this is me to a “T.” I have a niece, we were complete “besties,” until I moved for work and she hit 16. I know it’s her growing up and all, but I miss the daily texting so much.
I`m afraid that all that I can do is offer a long distance hug. Here 🤗. (Also, BTW, if I may say, if you`ll pardon me, that`s a very nice shoulder that you have there.).
Imagine coming home to no one, no one to ask you how your day was, no one longing to see you once you get home, no embrace. you could die and no one would really notice you left the chat. Welcome to being a man in the modern era.
Turn to Jesus Christ. Trust in him as you Lord and saviour. Trust in him with all your heart, mind and soul. It doesn't fix everything but guidance from our creator is the best thing.
going through this right now. i moved away for nursing school from california to wisconsin, it makes me so sad when the call ends. my mom sobs almost everytime after we call, things have been hard since moving away from everyone. but i hope when i’m finally a nurse, get two years of experience, i can finally move back home and take care of her financially!!!! 😞💖
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I felt every one of those facial transitions as the realization set in
Ive got 12 years of long distance under my belt. Nowadays, I end the call with a smile, sigh, and a long look to the distance while feeling blessed. The love never leaves even if you do. You'll get there 👍
😢 I am terribly homesick too!! ❤🙏
Some of the many reasons why I have limited to no close friendships with anyone.
I'm going through this now. My parents live close by but over the years they visit less and less and phone calls are mostly about urgent things rather than fun topics. This would be normal and ok but for the fact that my mom really pushed me to stay single because supposedly marriage was awful. Now my dad is her best friend in the world and I'm the one she complains about. 🙄
Oh man that sounds very toxic. 😕 I hope you can get out of this.
moving back home was the best decision I made
Oh please 🥲 I literally just came back. On one side my soul feels better now, on the other end I feel like being a selfish daughter for leaving them, especially around Xmas time. And no one ever thinks of how I feel 🙃
That went from Superman to Clark Kent in no time.
You really captured that feeling.
Moving far away was the best decision for me. Freedom and non judgment is the best.
I don’t feel this, I don’t have a good relationship with most of the people in my close area. ESPECIALLY not my family
It's like the equivalent of bro'ing your last pizza.
Same here. Relationships are never easy. I don't why so many people write here "oh that's so me!" 🙄
I'm in Sweden and my girlfriend is in Colombia, the pain is real. :( But she is so worth it but I just want to hold her 24/7 you know?
Perfect timing 🥹 just spoke to mine in Ohio
As the long distance sister, I can confirm
I moved continents. Most of my friends kinda just ghosted me, except for one and I’d like to believe that we’re best friends. But she’s my best friend yet I don’t think I am hers. I feel this way every time I end a call with her.
i’m moving to a different continent next year, and i’m sure that will happen to me too. but honestly, i’m not even that sad about it because i don’t feel like i have any strong relationships worth holding onto here anyway. i hope i’ll be able to build some kind of community where i’m going
That’s the perfect distance for a black sheep like me
I felt this in every fiber of my being. My best friend moved away this past year and I miss her so much. We always joke about me just moving all the way out there and I swear one of these days I'm gonna do it. 😂
My best friend of 9 years just moved 6 months ago. And they is not a day, where I don’t think about the gaping space next to me. Miss her very much. I can totally relate to you!
I had to move out of my home state away from my family, I’m only 15 and I’ve missed many important family events and my family’s birthdays. I’m miss them and I’m so angry about how much I’ve missed because I’ll never get the time back
Oh wow, 15 is young..must be hard.
Totally resonates. Been learning a lot about RSD and this tracks
If you don't mind ranting to me I'd love to hear what RSD is in all the possible details you can give! Nerds connecting with nerds, right?/np
@pyperlillie9380 Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) is a commonly experienced trait for people with ADHD. It's the strong feeling of sadness or anger when rejection is perceived, such as somone who is normally ok with you being off, or changing plans to see you, or being blanked in the street.
@@neilbrewster24 This must be the mirror opposite to social avoidance.
And in my expierence the two dan clash quite roughly.
@kairon156 yeah i think I get you. Like I'll go to cafe regularly for months, then if one of the staff are a bit off, I'll never go back and stay at home for weeks avoiding all contact. On the plus side I've saved quite a lot of money making coffee at home.
@@neilbrewster24 Oh yeah as someone who has ADHD and possible AuDHD, this resonates a fuck ton for me aswell. Makes people pleasing so much worse in my experience.
Do you know if there's any psychological changes in the brain when this happens? Or like why it happens spefically to ADHD inviduals, what things like tendencies and mental illness can interfere with it? Or maybe even what can make it more commonly happen? No pressure to awnser! I'm just nerding out and if you happen to not know the awnsers, thats completely okay! I can do the research myself./lh
I don’t know what it is your videos hit home so much at the right time. I was feeling pretty homesick this week.
Oh my god. You couldn’t have posted this at a more relevant time for me. I see my friends once a year, twice if I’m lucky, but we have video calls almost every week. The thing is, I’m the only one who is remote, and they’re all in the same living room together.
I was supposed to go back and see them on my yearly trip today, but it got delayed extremely last minute. So now it’s video calls only for another year 😢
Nooooo! 😢😢
I grew up in Alaska and now I live in Texas, moving away from all my friends really sucked, I only have contact information for my childhood bsf
Our son lives in London. It's always tough, and doesn't get better.
I miss Oakville. I miss Sheridan. I miss the pocket of the world where it was okay to not know myself, but rather to find out.
I know it's not the same as what you're saying, but the ache is still felt. Wishing you well Olivia.
At least you have family and friends
Yeah. And at least she has good relationships that makes her feel this way. Bad relationships doesn't. Yet I understand. It's an aweful feeling. Had it once, as a child.
I feel the same way, even though I still live with my parents and my friends are in the same town as me I still feel alone.
real
This girl is one of the best on this app. I wish she knew.
This is so relatable!! 😂
one of my best friends from childhood moved back to Spain and we fell out of contact for years. earlier this year we reconnected and we havent met up yet but she's by far my best friend and is the only person who really understands me (luckily im still surrounded by lovely ppl irl) but i still miss her.
Your timing is amazing. I was feeling homesick❤❤❤
Your face drop makes my heart hurt
..I want to hug you ❤
I feel this all the time I am from a small town in Michigan but when I was five my parents moved me away from all my family I live in Tennessee where I have no family some friends but most are still in Michigan
Two of my closest friends moved away three years ago. Sometimes, I wonder if they feel this way.
I miss them. We haven’t all been together since they moved 😕
It’s definitely hard ☹️
@ mhm 😔
I felt that one
Being the relative that lives far is the perfect excuse to not see toxic family lol like “sorry it’s just too far and can’t fly out cus of work”😂
You’re so real for this😂
@ love your vids! So relatable
True! Did not think about the relation to RSD yet!
Aw, I'm sorry you are long distance and going through those feelings.
I got off a call not to long ago just for my mom to yell at me, it's fine though
So true. My sisters in Dublin 🇮🇪😌
Only gets worse was you age, you have fewer freinds, and family pass.
I feel this because everyone I grew up with, is on one side of europe and I am on the other side of the continent.
Ugh me, I live in Washington, but my parents are in El Paso, in-laws in Arkansas, best friends in Indiana. I'm moving to Arkansas next year to be more in the middle of everyone and I cannot wait to go
this hits so hard i go into nap mode after every video call with my therapist
Oh my gosh, I I understand that so much live so far away from my friends and I only saw them last year in like seven years and oh my gosh I missed them so much when I left😊 I just feel like I’m never really seen them every day going wrong to the house saying hi going to school or sending secret letters like it’s not gonna be that anymore and trying to convince our parents to stay over saying hi let’s have the girls have a sleepover
I used to now I get "kid sovk"
They miss u too😢❤
I am about 7 hours from my family. Found out that I have to work the day before and the days after Christmas so I can't go home and had to make new plans this year.
I just moved back to where I grew up from the Bay Area and I'm enjoying the opposite. Way too much time with my sisters and family😂
The Canadian smokeshow 🫡
My daughter has the same issue with friends
Yeah, this is me to a “T.” I have a niece, we were complete “besties,” until I moved for work and she hit 16. I know it’s her growing up and all, but I miss the daily texting so much.
I`m afraid that all that I can do is offer a long distance hug. Here 🤗. (Also, BTW, if I may say, if you`ll pardon me, that`s a very nice shoulder that you have there.).
Yes, but....at least you have that much. At least they're alive, healthy *AND* not in jail or prison. Some aren't so fortunate, right? ❤
Oh god, they picked up...? Um- uh- *hangs up* that was too close for comfort. 🙈
Dude! This is real.
This is the one of the worst feelings gahhhh…..
Imagine coming home to no one, no one to ask you how your day was, no one longing to see you once you get home, no embrace. you could die and no one would really notice you left the chat.
Welcome to being a man in the modern era.
that’s not a man issue, that’s a you issue.
Yeah I enlisted, 3000 miles from home. To stop this I just work to death lol
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Can u please give me some advice as I was diagnosed autistic today and I struggle with life and school I’m 12
Turn to Jesus Christ. Trust in him as you Lord and saviour. Trust in him with all your heart, mind and soul. It doesn't fix everything but guidance from our creator is the best thing.
You have a superpower and it will become clear how you can use it in time. There will be people who will help you and care.
@@Axx-u3gstfu honestly I'm so tired of yall.
Under a minute gang
Omgz you’re EARLY early
@ ya
You want a hug?
Or parent. Sadly relatable.
Same 🫤
💯 facts
Wow same!!
I get that.
Call? What call?
I feel that
Yeah 😥
And then try not to just go lay down
😭😭
indeed
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going through this right now. i moved away for nursing school from california to wisconsin, it makes me so sad when the call ends. my mom sobs almost everytime after we call, things have been hard since moving away from everyone. but i hope when i’m finally a nurse, get two years of experience, i can finally move back home and take care of her financially!!!! 😞💖
I also really want to have long hair