Moving to Norway Episode 4 - Flying Solo

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  • Опубліковано 26 гру 2024

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  • @gautejohannessen9070
    @gautejohannessen9070 2 роки тому +16

    As a Bergen native, I can say that you most certainly do not wait for the light to turn green when crossing a street. Especially if there are no cars

  • @kathy2910
    @kathy2910 3 роки тому +56

    I cried at the end. I'm in my sixties and about to make a big change and I get so much inspiration from your videos. Adventure doesn't have to end. Learning either. Thanks and so glad the band is back together!

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +10

      I keep telling myself that making a big life change, even when that adventure happens later in life, helps me to exercise my brain. It is difficult. Honestly, far more difficult than I expected, but the rewards are insane. My perspective gradually expands and the world begins to feel a little more in balance. I love learning and I have tried to grow and learn each day. I am not always successful, but I concentrate on the big picture and savor each minute of the journey. Best of luck and great to hear you have the courage to make a leap.

    • @DivineFalcon
      @DivineFalcon 3 роки тому +3

      The pursuit of knowledge and adventure in your golden years is admirable.

  • @le_th_
    @le_th_ 3 роки тому +5

    I'm so glad your dogs were ok. As a former international flight attendant for American Airlines for 15 years, I never put my dog in a cargo hold. One time a passenger's dog was in such distress, that most everyone in the business class cabin were upset and worried about the dog. To calm the owner's nerves, and relieve the dogs (very clear) terror, I asked the owner to take off her socks so I could squirm into the cargo hold with my flash light, check on the dog (with the Captain's permission), and give her socks to the dog so it would help calm the dog's tremendous fear being down there is the pitch black not knowing what was happening to them.
    I took off my high heels and put on my layover tennis shoes from my bag, removed the panel, and with my flashlight being the only source of light in the pitch black, surrounded by tremendous noise that I could only imagine was deafening for a dog's sensitive hearing, I made my way past the strapped down cargo to where th terrified pup's kennel was. The dog was so excited to see a human. Worried that the dog might try and escape when I opened the carrier door, I let the pup sniff his mistress' socks through the wire door of the kennel, and the dog finally stopped barking, even though he was still trembling terribly. I felt absolutely horrible for the poor dear, who was so tremendously stressed. It was so loud, that I almost had to yell in order to hear my own voice, but I made it very high pitched so the pup would know I was friendly, and I unlocked the kennel door and opened it just enough to get the socks inside. It didn't stop the pup from trembling (they keep the temperature at 55 degrees F when there is a live animal in the cargo hold, but the dog finally did lay down, and then I gently stroked it's fur to reassure it.
    I ended up tearing my uniform dress, destroying my pantyhose, and getting mechanical grease all over my white tennis shoes, but I was glad I went down to soothe this poor pup's terror. Once he had his human's socks with her scent on them, it seemed to calm the pup down. However, after seeing the terrified pup in pitch black, with uncomfortably loud noise surrounding him, I vowed to never, ever put an animals in the cargo hold of a plane. That was only a transcon from LAX-JFK, which is 5.5 hours with headwinds. I'm glad I learned that early in my flight attendant career.
    Over the many years that I worked for American Airlines, I heard many a dog-lovers' horror stories. One time, LAX had to be shut down because a Labrador Retriever's kennel came open in flight, and when they opened the cargo hold door, the dog bolted out onto the tarmac. They had to shut LAX down and, very unfortunately, the morons who opened the cargo hold door then jumped into their little vehicles and CHASED the poor, terrified animal around the runways until it collapsed and died. There have been many other incidents of other pet deaths in the cargo hold at many airports and on many different carriers. Then there are the traumatizing things pets do to themselves trying to get out of the carriers, and after seeing what environment they are in down there, I can certainly understand why they kill themselves trying to escape.
    Please, never put your pet in the cargo hold again. You have no idea what they go through down there. If you love your pets, please drive them to the nearest coastal city, fly a private plane across the ocean to the closest/cheapest major coast city on the other side with your pets in the cabin with you, and then drive the rest of the way. No beloved pet deserves that trauma, and especially not after the years of unconditional love they give you and your wife.

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +3

      What a horror story. But, I am impressed with your courage and your intellect. The socks were a brilliant solution to the problem and I love how you not only knew the right thing to do but had the courage to put the animal's welfare first. I don't think we will ever fly the dogs again. It took nearly a month for them to purge the trauma of the event out of their systems. And the guilt we felt before, during and after weighed heavily on us. Thank you for sharing this cautionary tale.

    • @le_th_
      @le_th_ 3 роки тому +1

      @@TheStoryGuide Please remember that your intent was to remain the forever family for your beloved pups, and that will hopefully help with any residual guilty you may have leftover. Most people have no idea what animals experience in that environment, just like I didn't until I got down there to see it for myself, and then I went a few steps further, later on, and spoke to several pilots for further information on what they do on their end (most cargo holds are not heated to 55 degrees unless live cargo is present, so they have to remember to turn the heat on for pets before take off).
      Please remember that it likely would have been far more traumatizing and confusing, for your pups, to give them up to a rescue or find a new (unknown, to them) family to take them in for a year or two, especially for your oldest dog. Dogs are resilient and they can recover from psychological trauma they experience in adulthood (when their neurodevelopment is complete, unlike in a puppy where their brain is still developing), but older dogs cannot always recover from the heartbreak and abandonment confusion when they are given up so late in their life. Some can never attach again after that kind of confusing heartbreak of abandonment in their senior years.
      It is so clear how much you were willing to go through to make sure you entire family, pet members included, were able to remain together, and in a dog's mind, "the pack" is everything. Keep loving them, keep them calm and reassure them that they are safe (by your own emotions, calmness, and confidence as pack leader), and they will be okay.
      Thank you for being so committed to your furry family members! Too few people in the world would jump through all the hoops that you and your wife did to keep "the pack" together.

  • @HackFo
    @HackFo 2 роки тому +19

    I wish you a warm welcome to Norway! I hope you have a great time here, although I know how incredibly difficult the social barrier can be in a Nordic country. The culture is so different here in that regard! I'm glad you have your wife and your dogs, that's really going to help a lot. People here don't have the veneer of friendliness that so many other countries do, here, as you rightly have pointed out, it's actually considered friendly to just not approach people at all. What I would say is that as an american you have a bit of an opportunity here; just pretend that you don't realize you're not supposed to interrupt people, do it anyways! Once the other party realizes you are both american and a student in Norway they will most likely become very interested and also forgive you on the spot for having breached the protocol. Americans are known for being loud and oblivious in northern europe, so just exploit that fact. Because the benefit of the nordic social fabric is that while it is difficult to break through, once you do, you can know for sure that the companionship is legitimate and not put on or superficial like friendships can tend to be more often in other countries.
    A small cheat code though, it is considered acceptable to talk to strangers in just three settings, one is if you both have a shared problem, like the train or a flight is canceled, then you can talk with each other, or if you've both witnessed something like an accident or other unusual event. Now I admit, that's all pretty circumstantial, and it's not something you can really plan for, but if you do spot the chance, remember to take it. But the last two aren't, because there's two other settingis where Norwegians will even approach you or greet you first, and those two are while you are on a hike, out in nature and when you are on a boat or an island you can only get to by boat. People you pass on hikes will regularly say hello and greet you, and people you drive past in a boat will often wave to you. And once docked on an island, it's pretty customary that the boats close by gather on the rock (svaberget, in norwegian) to grill food and eat dinner together, even if complete strangers.
    Take any and all chances you get to talk, to say hello, to introduce yourself, to remark on something or to ask a question. Just abuse your status as an american to the fullest. Praise the country a bit, that always goes down well, Norwegians are remarkably nationalistic and romantic about their own country, despite the lack of more isolationist or patriotic tendencies. Norwegians have a tendency to be very frosty, stand-offish and difficult to approach, but remember, this isn't because they don't want to talk to you, most Norwegians are very eager to socialize. It's just that they don't want to be rejected, impose on you or get taken advantage of themselves or be sold to. So find ways to allay their fears or invent exuses to talk to them and you will be accepted.
    Lastly I would also say that this applies for your co-students as well. Don't isolate yourself from them because you think you should. There are probably a number of them who aren't just there to party but would be interested in talking to you and finding out about you. One of my best friends when I went to university was 63 years old. Even though it's difficult to maintain relationships across generational divides like that when you are at such different stages in life, that doesn't mean you can't be friends now, because you do have something in common, you're both students!
    Maybe I don't need to say any of this and you have already figured all this out or you are already happy with where you're at when it comes to socializing with Norwegians, in that case just disregard my comment and carry on as usual, hahahah. But this is the most common pitfall I see when people move to Norway to work or study or live here or all three. Most cultures that aren't similar haven't really equipped you with the necessary fear of rejection and persistence needed to succeed socially in nordic cultures. Hell, even most nordics circumvent the need to do this song-and-dance more than once by simply keeping a single group of friends their entire lives. Another big shift is that you need to avoid your instinct to keep the interactions superficial. Try to be more direct, be more open and talk about things that are closer to your heart. Americans can often come across as inauthentic to europeans in general because they tend to not really say anything of importance, mostly fluff. If someone you're talking to opens up about something, don't get uncomfortable, instead reciprocate, tell them about something similar you've experienced.
    So, to summarize; put your foot forward, brush off rejections, be open and keep trying! You only need to succeed once, and you will have friends for life. (also experience the boating culture further south in Norway at least once before you leave, it's simply majestic, you need to sit on a sun-warmed svaberg in the evening, feeling it radiate heat across your back as you watch the sun set into the sea at least once in your life)
    Good luck! Best regards,
    from a hopeful Norwegian

    • @cjreynolds3013
      @cjreynolds3013 2 роки тому

      SINCE YOU ARE A HOPEFUL NORWEGIAN 🇳🇴 I TELL YOU THAT I PLAN TO VISIT NORWAY 🇳🇴 IN OCTOBER OF THIS YEAR 2022 TO TAKE A BREAK FROM (BABYLON) AMERICA. BECAUSE I SAW THAT NORWAY 🇳🇴 IS ONE OF THE MOST HAPPIEST AND SAFEST COUNTRIES IN THE WORLD, AND THAT IS LIKE GOOD MUSIC TO MY EARS!!!!

    • @PropheticCoachTheresa
      @PropheticCoachTheresa 2 роки тому +1

      I was in Toronto Canada a few years ago for a 5 day class. I'm from Michigan in the U.S. and where I live is just about a 3.5 hour drive from Toronto, but the cultures are quite different. On the subway to class every morning at rush hour the trains would back up behind each other and stop for several minutes at a time, sometimes in a totally dark tunnel. The cars were packed, I mean, all seats taken and people standing literally touching each other. Not a single person talked. In a completely packed rail car. No one makes eye contact with each other. I was so taken aback by this, I just said to whoever was pushed right up against me, "Wow, people in this country are very quiet, I can't believe no one on this whole train is talking." Several people looked at me shocked that I spoke to people, a few others looked away and ignored me but one brave woman a little older than myself said, "We are Canadian, we are politely ignoring each other." In the U.S. people do ignore each other, especially the more you are in crowded cities. Outside of cities or in small towns people are typically very friendly. I guess that's similar to what you said about being out in nature, people are more relaxed and open with each other. I'm a really outgoing and friendly person, I would probably be considered obnoxious in Norway! My paternal grandmother was from Norway though. Would love to visit someday! blessings!

  • @jsigur157
    @jsigur157 3 роки тому +3

    I have been eyeing Norway as well but at 72 and little savings, it's basically just a pipe dream; all the Scandinavian countries seem super interesting and none like to obsess on world power visa military occupation, etc.. Norway is my favorite of the four if I could manage it. Low crime, fire arm rights.
    I will follow your progress

  • @rhyacinthlevrini6577
    @rhyacinthlevrini6577 2 роки тому +1

    I have been welcomed to Tromsø with open arms! For a two week visit. Next I will return for a three month stay to talk about continuing logistics. I have commitments in California I need to decide on and my aging canine companion who would not be able to make the transition, and I will not leave him. So it may be another year, but I am determined. Your videos have been a moral support. Tusen takk!

  • @Ellary_Rosewood
    @Ellary_Rosewood 3 роки тому +43

    So good to see another video from you! It also made me so happy to see you reunited with your wife and puppies! I'm invested on this adventure and journey you've been on! I hope you're enjoying your life in Bergen, it looks so beautiful! Can't wait for the next part! ❤️

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +11

      Well thank you Ellary. It feels good to wake up each morning with a hello from the dogs. And life here with Darcy makes the entire experience feel far more balanced. Besides, I can't imagine taking this journey alone. We are a good team and the adventure is a ton more fun with the two of us. I'll do my best to generate episode 5, but I honestly don't know when. Thank you for watching.

  • @sigche
    @sigche 2 роки тому +1

    I am so relieved that yours dogs arrived alive and you are reunited with your wife and pups ❤ - An American expat living in Bergen 12 yrs.

  • @Captnoatp
    @Captnoatp 3 роки тому +28

    Interesting to see Bergen and the immigration process from the "other side". Excellent quality and very interesting content. Glad you finally got your wife and dogs home to you. I’m probably living 15 minutes away from where you are living. I’m sure you’re surrounded with a lot of very competent people, but don’t hesitate to get in touch if I can be of any assistance. (Same age as you:)

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +20

      That is very kind. Your offer is appreciated, especially as I learn the system. So often I bump into a transaction or official interaction where it is just assumed that I already know how the system works. There is a lot of trial and error, and fortunately on every step of this journey folks have been patient with my bumbling and have been willing to take the time to show me how to accomplish a goal. I am flattered that Norwegians recognize that I am doing my best to respect the culture, and to learn how to contribute to the community. You never know, I may reach out for advice. And if you see me on the bus or in town please say hello. I would love to hear about your life in Bergen. Thank you for watching.

  • @FreddaRL
    @FreddaRL 3 роки тому +15

    I've been hyped for this for a while! Glad to see you're settling in

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +1

      It feels good to be building a life here. And thank you for watching.

  • @morten3138
    @morten3138 3 роки тому +1

    I was watching the time bar as the video was getting closer to the end. "No no no, don't go cliffhanger on me... Don't you dare!". And you didn't. That ending was perfect :D

  • @UltimaSRi
    @UltimaSRi 3 роки тому +3

    Finally a new episode!! ..most professional vblog ever.

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      Funny, when I published it I felt the same way... Finally a new episode. It had been on my computer for months and I just wanted to finish it so I could start thinking about the next one. Thank you for the kind words.

  • @OpgevoedeBarbaar
    @OpgevoedeBarbaar 3 роки тому +5

    Started watching this series yesterday, lamenting the fact that there was no episode 4. Lo and behold it drops a day later!

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      Pretty funny. Might be time to buy a lottery ticket to see if your luck holds. :) Glad you have enjoyed the series and thank you for watching.

  • @nancyolesin9389
    @nancyolesin9389 Рік тому +1

    My daughter and her family also moved to Bergen, and lived in Seattle prior, too! She is at the uni as well, getting a PhD. I hope I run into you on one of my visits. I am learning Norwegian so I can understand more on my visits. Thanks for sharing your journey! Love your videos.

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  Рік тому +1

      Thank you Nancy for reaching out. If, by chance, you see me walking by say "hello". I tend to be lost in thought when I walk, and don't make much eye contact, so please feel free to interrupt me. It is always great to meet folks. I love living here and I am certain when you visit you will understand why. And thanks for watching.

  • @helenaduarte9546
    @helenaduarte9546 3 роки тому +7

    This was adorable ! NO more excuses to not make more videos oftenly! All the best

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +5

      There will definitely be more videos. As to oftenly, not sure I can keep that promise but I will do my best. :) Thank you for watching.

  • @yehzay
    @yehzay 2 роки тому

    Hello, I dont why I cried and I can feel your anxiety in that whole journey but at the same time so happy that wife darsy and 2 dogs were safe, and you are now so called complete. I am more inspired to prepare myself in my own journey of maybe transferring to Norway. I got a chance to visit norway and stayed 5 beautiful (rain and shine days) in Bergen I fell in love to it. I hope the God's plan for me will direct me there. I'll keep in touch with your channel as it is so inspiring for growth and development in life's journey. Thank you

  • @atleyri
    @atleyri 3 роки тому +3

    You are an excellent storyteller!

  • @abcabcboy
    @abcabcboy 3 роки тому +4

    Very professional production, deserves more views.

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +4

      Thanks for the support. The funny thing about these videos is they have a very long tail. Three months later they continue to draw an audience and the number of people watching stays pretty consistent over time. I feel very fortunate folks have watched these stories, and I am grateful for every view, every interaction and every comment. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to write down your feedback.

  • @OdaSundquist
    @OdaSundquist 11 місяців тому

    I cant imagine a more stressful thing than to fly with my dogs, so i just cried a little when i saw they were both okey!

  • @GT-gq3zh
    @GT-gq3zh 2 роки тому +1

    Very interesting and a fascinating story. Velkommen til Norge!

  • @Ekinnajay
    @Ekinnajay 3 роки тому +1

    I live in the Seattle area, went to the UW, and was born in Bergen. I am hoping to move back there in the next year or so. Your video made me so homesick. I am so glad you reunited with your wife and that the dogs made it through. Looking forward to the next video.

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +1

      Funny, two planets in opposite orbit. I think if I saw videos of cherry blossoms on the Quad, or heard the sound of the wind in the Cascades, I would be terribly homesick. I completely understand. Best of luck making it back home and thanks for the kind words.

  • @lisesolberg5301
    @lisesolberg5301 3 роки тому +9

    Like others have said, I was so happy to see another episode pop up. I watched the first three some time ago, and was sad that there were no updates, until now! So happy your wife and the doggies made it safely there as well.

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +4

      Thanks for your patience with my infrequent publishing. These take some time to shoot, write and produce. I really do appreciate the feedback. Makes the process feel worthwhile.

  • @TheForceHungerGames
    @TheForceHungerGames 2 роки тому

    When the part of the digs started it got finally personal and close to the hart. Change in music. Good done. I almost gave up.

  • @thinwutyee171
    @thinwutyee171 2 роки тому +1

    Your story is true inspiring! I've been reluctant to make big change till now and seeing this give me courage.

  • @katjakatjabo7022
    @katjakatjabo7022 3 роки тому +3

    Glad to see you again in video. We will move to Norway too.
    I cried at the end, too, seeing your wife and especially your dogs, flying was so hard for them. The problem is, they don‘ t know what’s going on and why they must be alone so long. I had an old dog , too. Greetings from Germany

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +2

      And greeting from Bergen. They were confused with the entire ordeal and it took about two weeks before they had settled down, were no longer anxious and were back to being the sweet centered dogs that we love. As you well know, it is hard for them and it is difficult to shed the guilt you feel for putting them through the ordeal. I am pleased to report they are now happy and healthy and the goofy mutts we adore. Thanks for watching.

  • @mikaelsjodin
    @mikaelsjodin 3 роки тому +3

    No idea how I got here but I'm glad I did. Quality production, great work and good luck here in Norway :). Going straight to watch Part 1.

  • @LivingLifeWithJoJo
    @LivingLifeWithJoJo 3 роки тому +1

    Bergen is my hometown, so fun to see it from your point of view. Also I've lived abroad in Boston for a year so I can relate to some of your feelings. I just wanted to say that you are so welcome and I hope you and your wife have a wonderful time here:))

  • @MarcoNissen
    @MarcoNissen 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing your stories. I wish you posted some new videos but probably you're super busy with studying. Actually, when we watches your videos 6 months ago we planned to do a little round trip in South Norway, which we did in April. That was nice, even off season, and we were very lucky with Bergen. In August we will return again for another trip. So please continue sharing your stories, the way you tell them is exciting and interesting ..

  • @drrhysevans
    @drrhysevans 2 роки тому

    As a Vancouver Islander who moved to Norway from Scotland in 2010, i could relate to so much of what you have depicted in these four videos. I live just south of Stavanger so if you are ever down this way, take contact! I too am older but came here as an Ass Prof. With just as much to learn! Further, we just hired a friend from Vermont in September and so i relived his encounter with 'det er norge' during kovid 'process' (as you say). Thanks for this, it brought so much of it back to me - both my "i knew one person and two words when i came" and his karantene experience until he made it to my house for his first six weeks. Good storytelling!

  • @lindagromkomd
    @lindagromkomd 2 роки тому

    So great to be enjoying your trip, Drew! Love the reunion. Linda

  • @tommerhaugland6990
    @tommerhaugland6990 3 роки тому

    I'm really not sure why this came up in my feed, but boy I'm glad it did! Great video!

  • @jamiefooddreamer6381
    @jamiefooddreamer6381 3 роки тому +3

    What a journey. Wish you all the best in your studies and new home. It makes sense now that you are a producer, since these videos really feel like a documentary series. Loving it !!

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +2

      I have had the good fortune to practice this sort of storytelling for a very long time. I don't exactly know what prompted me to start the series because it is a million miles from the content I have published for the last 10 years on UA-cam. But I can't imagine telling these stories without approaching them with the same lens that I use every day in my profession. Thank you for reaching out and most of all, thank you for watching.

  • @vk8202
    @vk8202 3 роки тому +2

    So excited to see another video, watched first 3 one after the other.

  • @mightandbelightnr2290
    @mightandbelightnr2290 3 роки тому +2

    Hello from Sweden! I'm so happy for you and your wife's new life in Norway. I'm sure u will love your new life there.

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      Thanks for watching and thanks the feedback. We do love our new life here.

  • @ajiarae6815
    @ajiarae6815 3 роки тому +1

    So cool to see your adventure unfolding!! I moved to Norway about 6 years ago from Oregon to go to school as well, and currently taking my masters at UiB. Welcome!!

  • @cdowns63
    @cdowns63 3 роки тому +4

    That train trip looks amazing in itself! Glad the wife and doggos made it out OK. Thanks for the update!

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +4

      Aw shucks, Chris. Thanks for watching. I feel as if you have had to live this story for the last three months as I grouse about the lack of internet and my frustrations with the "process" in every meeting. As to the train trip... I have traveled that route a number of times the last few years and it amazes me each time with something new. I could fly to Oslo, but that route over the mountains and along the Fjords is so compelling makes me choose the train trip every time. Catch up with you soon.

    • @OliaMadeThis
      @OliaMadeThis 3 роки тому +1

      Watch the entire trip with Bergensbanen here, minute by minute - made by NRK (Norway's main channel) ua-cam.com/video/udF0IXB2FZA/v-deo.html

  • @Abbadonhades
    @Abbadonhades 3 роки тому

    You and your wife are impressive human beings. The level of courage, openness and curiosity that you display is an inspiration.

  • @sk_abstract_art
    @sk_abstract_art 3 роки тому +3

    I cried at the end too, so glad you are all reunited and the dogs are ok through that trip. Can't wait to follow your adventures together in Norway!💖🇳🇴

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      Honestly, I teared up in editing when I dropped in the music track. Suddenly the story made sense to me. Thank you very much for watching and letting me know the story resonated with you.

  • @changelingpovs
    @changelingpovs 3 роки тому +3

    i've been wondering when the next one would show up!

  • @bar10dr
    @bar10dr 3 роки тому +1

    Been waiting for a new video, your editing is so good. Be careful btw. you showed your pin code when logging in! So happy the dogs made it okay and your wife is finally with you again.

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      My wife noticed that so I changed it. Good catch and thanks for the heads up. Also, thanks for watching. I appreciate the feedback.

  • @RunarNyrud
    @RunarNyrud 3 роки тому +6

    You guys are so brave! So happy to see you are together again.
    I am Norwegian, in fact I live 10 minutes from Hokksund, a place you went through on your train trip.
    I have taken the same trip 80 times as I was in the Navy at Haakonsvern, Bergen. It is a nice trip I think....
    Norwegians might seem a little "private", espesially now in these dark corona times, but I think you will find out that it is mostly that they are "afraid" to bother you... We are like an egg, when you get trough the hard bit, you will find the nice soft stuff 😎.
    My guess is that you will find friends for life here...
    I hope you show your fellow students you channel, it will help understand, as grown up students are few.
    The music scene in Bergen are fantastic when it is not covid. Hope you will experience it one day.
    I am 51, and I am a big fan of Bergen "connected" artists like Kurt, Iris, Silja Sol, Skaar, Sigrid and Aurora.
    Aurora is a very uniq artist.... Wierd, fantastic and higly intiligent....
    She fights for the right to just be yourself. That it is fantastic to be different, that different are good!
    Here is a consert from Nidarosdomen, Trondheim: ua-cam.com/video/XXVwFvkNTEg/v-deo.html
    God Jul og godt nyttår!

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for the recommendations on Bergen artists. We have really enjoyed (at least until recently) exploring the local music and visual arts. And thank you for watching.

  • @JAK3THETUB3
    @JAK3THETUB3 3 роки тому +1

    Must have been so exciting to see her round that corner with the dogs!

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      I think you can tell from my body language as I pace around that I was jumping out of my skin. I was so relieved and insanely grateful they had made the journey safely.

  • @Digg311
    @Digg311 3 роки тому

    Another excellent glimpse into your adventure. Looking forward to the next one already!

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      Thanks Rich! I so appreciate the kind words. This is a loooooong way from Seattle, but what an adventure. These sorts of challenges really help me as a filmmaker. After all, a huge percentage was shot with my iPhone 11 and getting a decent image out of that footage is a chore. I hope all is well with you and yours. Thank you very much for watching and commenting, it means a lot.

  • @crashalot63
    @crashalot63 3 роки тому +4

    Such a fantastic video. And so interesting how you meet and deal with Scandinavian life and society. Hope you guys had a nice Christmas.

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      Great to hear from you. I hope all is well with you and yours in Sweden. Christmas was good this year, although far quieter with our kids still in the states and only the two of us (and Alki and Ruby, but they only wag when we talk to them.) Thanks for checking in and I hope you have a great 2022.

  • @lakshmewsical3254
    @lakshmewsical3254 3 роки тому +2

    It was emotional to watch you all reunite..kudos to all the efforts

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      Thank you very much. It has been a lot of work but I think the rewards far outweigh the challenges. It feels good to have us all back together on this adventure.

  • @laurac7289
    @laurac7289 Рік тому

    Drew, I'm late to the party here but I wanted to let you know that I thoroughly enjoyed this series, especially as someone 50 plus contemplating a solo move to Norway myself. My only disappointment is that there aren't more videos. Please consider giving us an update. I'd love to see how your Bergen story has unfolded.

  • @ib8401
    @ib8401 3 роки тому +1

    I really enjoy your videos. Please make more to educate and entertain us.

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      I'll do my best, but with school and work the videos end up on the back burner. The holiday break afforded the time to finally cobble it together. I'll do my best to not wait 3 months before positing the next one. Thanks for watching!

  • @duanpenjones4952
    @duanpenjones4952 3 роки тому

    Welcome to Norway my husband and i migrated here from asia nearly 2 year ago my husband lived PA before but we love norway …this our home now …maybe we can share story in Bergen one day ,…best wishes for your studies…and you braveness

  • @amalie3549
    @amalie3549 3 роки тому

    This was so comforting, moving and captivating to watch.

  • @MariusSeim
    @MariusSeim 2 роки тому

    Don't know why this was recommended to me, probably because I live in Bergen. This was really fun to watch. I hope you enjoy your time here, and that you manage to break through the social barriers. Hot tip: 4-5 beers will do the trick.

  • @hellofriend4220
    @hellofriend4220 3 роки тому +1

    Very lovely of you for sharing your Norway experience. When I finish school next spring I will be making my move to start a new life with my love one from Norway. Vlogs is something I'm considering in doing for my family back home. Your work is inspiring!

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      Mostly I make these for my family and friends. I am touched that others have connected to the story. I am not wrapped up in views and subscribers, I choose not to monetize them because that feels crass, and I try and tell stories that feel genuine to me. That would be my advice, find you voice as a storyteller and just practice the craft. Some stories will suck, some you will love but others will go "meh" and most will be something you feel presents a genuine point of view. Best of luck with the move. It will change you in ways you would never imagine.

  • @loliaxezmy
    @loliaxezmy 3 роки тому

    What a great story 👍👍👍👍👍 and without a happy end 🍀🍀🍀 but with a happy start 🎼🎵🎶 all the best for you

  • @sarahinscotland
    @sarahinscotland 3 роки тому

    I don’t know you, but I totally teared up when I saw your reunion!! What a rollercoaster journey!

  • @KindaSassy1
    @KindaSassy1 3 роки тому +1

    so happy for this update. please dont take too long for the next one!

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      I'll do my best. This story made sense because there was a definite and well defined goal... Still mulling what the point will be for episode five. But for sure the series will continue. Thank you very much for the feedback and for watching.

  • @Vaaluin
    @Vaaluin 3 роки тому +1

    I just found your videos about an hour ago and watched through these four "Moving to Norway" episodes. I'm so glad it has worked out for you so far. Looks like things are really coming together and I'm just stoked for you and your wife. I'm also moving to Bergen, Norway later this year from Washington state but luckily, I have German citizenship to get me into the country with far less paperwork, and stress. My only concern being finding work asap after I get my new German passport. One step at a time! I wish ya the best of luck with your adventure in a new home. :)

  • @Gary-gv8je
    @Gary-gv8je 2 роки тому

    I moved to Norway 9 years ago, was amazing to watch, nice to see how the process has changed in this time

  • @Panzerlynx
    @Panzerlynx 2 роки тому

    Love your vlog. I hope it will come some follow ups soon. I also hope you love Norway and enjoy your time there

  • @mariaberg442
    @mariaberg442 3 роки тому +1

    I’m so happy you maid a new video!Keep up the good work!😊👍Hope you,your wife and the two «kids» will feel at home here.Wish you all the best.😊

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +3

      Yes, Alki and Ruby are our kids... but don't tell the other four grown up ones still living in the states. It feels good to have everyone "home".

  • @Real-Grandpa
    @Real-Grandpa 3 роки тому

    welcome to our country, happy to see everything working out and i hope you have the best of times onward : )

  • @Tenshivoodoo
    @Tenshivoodoo 2 роки тому

    Such a beautiful story, my partner and I are also keen to move to Norway. We also have a dog and pc etc. So I guess a lot will be similar. It feels like a mountain atm looking at the challenge to get there. But I'm sure it will be worth the journey. Thank you for sharing your story with us, and I'm so glad to see your wife and the dogs made it just fine!

  • @kjs999912
    @kjs999912 3 роки тому +1

    What a beautifull video! Looking forward to part five.

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      I wish I could say it is coming soon, but I fear work and school may get in the way. Thanks for watching and thanks for the kind words.

  • @trondemor
    @trondemor 2 роки тому

    What an amazing storyteller you are! Welcome to my country! We do have a lot of things you should see and experience!

  • @stianskjelbred
    @stianskjelbred 2 роки тому

    Great story! And welcome to Norway 😃

  • @Arteefact
    @Arteefact 3 роки тому +1

    Love seeing your story of moving to Norway :) I hope you like it here, i am norwegian, born in "Viken, Fredrikstad (close to Oslo)" and moved just 1 hour away from Bergen, about 9 years ago. :)

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      If you are still there after 9 years it must the perfect place for you. We do like our lives here. And while I will never be Norwegian, being here certainly feels like "home".

    • @_Viking
      @_Viking 3 роки тому

      Fredrikstad is my hometown. Beautiful place. Especially in the summer 🌞

  • @abbibrophy7671
    @abbibrophy7671 3 роки тому

    you are awesome!! Love that you are doing this.

  • @buss8009
    @buss8009 3 роки тому +1

    I got tears in my eyes when you saw your wife and your dogs again... I vent to Bergen on October the 12th. with my wife and my daughter. Just a couple of days away from home in Skien. We drove to Oslo Airport Gardermoen and flew to Bergen. When I was there, I actually thought of you being there too, kinda haveing an eye open to see if I could see you. Of course, we were there on a getaway, not to see if I could see you, but nevertheless, the thought struck my mind. Since we have been to Seattle many times, I kinda thought that it would be nice if we happen to see you walk nearby... Hope you and your wife, and dogs are having a good time in Norway. Happy New Year!

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +1

      Oh my goodness. That is such a funny story. I had to read it out loud to my wife. Next time you are here please reach out and perhaps we can grab a cup of coffee and say hello. Have a great new year.

  • @TurboD-vn5ve
    @TurboD-vn5ve 2 роки тому

    Please make more of these!
    Super duper good 👌🏼👌🏼

  • @sheiken9754
    @sheiken9754 2 роки тому

    What a wonderful video! Welcome to Norway mate

  • @mikenixon4637
    @mikenixon4637 3 роки тому

    Wow. I thought we lost you. Glad to see you back.

  • @kjetilv
    @kjetilv 3 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing, great way to tell the story about your journey here 😊I enjoyed all the four episodes so far

  • @VIDEOSASDE
    @VIDEOSASDE 3 роки тому

    I am hooked! I want to see what comes next...

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      Funny thing is... so do I. Thanks for watching these. I am glad you have enjoyed my little stories about our life in Norway.

  • @atluxity
    @atluxity 3 роки тому

    Welcome to Norway! Hope you will enjoy it.

  • @Hermans86
    @Hermans86 2 роки тому

    As I watched through these 4 episodes I was thinking about how well paced and beatiful the editing was. Your career made so much sense when you revealed it :)
    Love your personalities, you seem like lovely people! Welcome to Norway, I hope Norway lives up to your expectations

  • @einarbolstad8150
    @einarbolstad8150 3 роки тому

    Thanks for these excellently made glimpses into your journey, a journey on so many levels. You do seem to have the right mindset to make it work. The photo of your wife and the dogs in Trandumskogen, 20 minutes away from where I live, gave the "happy ending" away, not that it in any way diminished my enjoyment of your video. I wish you all luck and happiness in Norway, I'm looking forward to the next episode!

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +1

      I was waiting for someone to spot that. Well done. Thanks for watching and thanks for the kind words.

  • @raymondcarlow9360
    @raymondcarlow9360 2 роки тому

    Im really enjoying this series. Looking forward to the next one.

  • @BastianWorrmann
    @BastianWorrmann 3 роки тому +1

    I really like your videos. Thank you for all the work you put into them.

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for noticing. There is a lot of set-up for each shot and being on my own means I get curious looks from the strangers around me as I place my camera. But I put in the effort because these are a labor of love. And honestly, it is fun. I appreciate the comment and thanks for watching.

  • @funshizzmayne
    @funshizzmayne 3 роки тому

    Found your channel today and just binge-watched all four episodes as I am from Norway. Great story-telling and inspiring to watch. Can't wait for episode five, I haven't been to Bergen that much myself, even though my sister moved there a few years ago. Cheers from Trondheim.

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +1

      Wait... your sister moved to Bergen and you don't visit her? Pretty funny. Definitely love Trondheim and besides Bergen we were really interested in living there. Something about college towns and the broad spectrum of folks that thrive in those communities is very appealing to us. Thank you for watching and taking the time to drop a comment. I do appreciate it.

    • @funshizzmayne
      @funshizzmayne 3 роки тому

      @@TheStoryGuide My whole family is from Trøndelag (Namsos), she visits us but I will make a trip there this year :)

  • @isakjohnsen1982
    @isakjohnsen1982 3 роки тому +1

    I've really been waiting for a new episode lately! Glad to see you're all doing good! Hope you both enjoy Bergen and are having a great time!
    Looking forward to the next update! 😁

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for watching Isak. Life is good here. Not sure when the next one drops. I am still recovering from building this one. 🙂

    • @isakjohnsen1982
      @isakjohnsen1982 3 роки тому +1

      My girlfriend lives not too far from you guys! I visit Bergen from time to time, so if you guys ever wanna grab a coffee we will absolutly be up for it! :)

  • @_Viking
    @_Viking 3 роки тому

    One (of many) advantages as an english speaker in Norway is that english is widely spoken and that almost every website is in english (as an option) and that very much can be done online. No need for appointments and queing (exept for the immigration interview). Cash is also not nesessary as almost every transaction is done by card (credit or debet).
    As an immigrant you need a DUF number (as mentioned initally in this film). That's essentially similar to a social sequrity number.

  • @mortenBP
    @mortenBP 3 роки тому

    WELCOME back, Drew. Missed you! So happy to see you are united with your "band". :D
    Here's for a great 2022 for you in Bergen and Norway!

  • @dipendrapant2718
    @dipendrapant2718 2 роки тому

    Enjoyed watching your videos.

  • @oxlundguy1
    @oxlundguy1 3 роки тому

    finally a new video! Been looking forward to it. I'm so invested in this adventure haha

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      Funny thing is, I'm really invested in this adventure, too! :) Thanks for watching.

  • @curtislemay7776
    @curtislemay7776 3 роки тому +1

    Awesome series Drew and what a great adventure.

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому

      I am glad you like the series. It is still fun to do and I think that shows in the final product. But most of all, it is one heck of an adventure. Thanks!

  • @ronnyskaar3737
    @ronnyskaar3737 3 роки тому

    Great fun to watch. Been living in Bergen all my life, education and all. Nice to see my hometown through your view. Looks great. Would love to live there. 😂

  • @elainemalcolm8349
    @elainemalcolm8349 3 роки тому

    I love love your story it touch my ♥, I am glad to hear /see that the 🐶 🐶 are OK thank God. Last but not least is the way that you said the kids was wondering what grandpa was doing in the class 😀😀😀😀.

  • @m4rt_
    @m4rt_ Рік тому

    10:45 you could talk with someone on your laptop while you are eating... though the time zones might be an issue, but if you time your lunch or dinner correctly you might have been able to time it with someone back in the US

  • @bloodcards3084
    @bloodcards3084 2 роки тому

    is that the gskill km780? nice! glad to see another IT guy going on this journey!

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  2 роки тому

      That is the first time someone has ever commented on my keyboard. I really like it. I tend to type pretty hard and the response is smooth and predictable. I also like that it clatters the way a mechanical keyboard should. Thanks for noticing and thanks for watching.

  • @fjesarn
    @fjesarn 2 роки тому

    It's fun watching your journey, and welcome to arguably the best country in the world (I might be a bit biased tho ;) ) We as everyone else have our issues, but in the grand scheme of things we have it very good.

  • @TheYopeydopeY
    @TheYopeydopeY 2 роки тому

    Thank you for these videos! I think what you are doing is amazing, and very brave and adventurous. Very inspiring! And also, on behalf of Bergen, I apologize for the weather here haha

  • @CaptureWithChris
    @CaptureWithChris 3 роки тому

    Nice videos and welcome to Norway i come from Bergen myself and making videos and mixing photography in and around Bergen🙂 Your storytelling skills is 10/10

  • @deniselane2500
    @deniselane2500 2 роки тому

    when I heard how excited your doggos were #happy

  • @joffe1983
    @joffe1983 2 роки тому

    Great content. Originally from Lillehammer, live in Chehalis WA. Hope to bring my American wife back to live in Norway some time in the future.

  • @m4rt_
    @m4rt_ Рік тому

    12:40 eyy I was at that train station not so song ago.
    While me, my brother, my two cousins, and some friends were waiting on the train we played UNO at a table. (right in front of the Deli de Luca)
    While we were playing some french girl walked up to us and asked if she could join. so she joined in for a round before she had to go catch her train.

  • @TheModestMama
    @TheModestMama 3 роки тому

    Just watched all 4 parts and wow what a rollercoaster! Glad you both are together and the pups made it safe!

  • @KarlMathiasMoberg
    @KarlMathiasMoberg 3 роки тому

    What an incredibly fascinating and powerful story to see for someone who has grown up in Norway. I've heard the same thing from others that have immigrated to Norway as well that things can be confusing, and hard to figure out who is responsible for what in the public sector, so even though this might sound strange coming from a stranger on the internet, please - if there is anything I can do to help, feel free to reach out to me, I'd be glad to help in whatever way I can!

  • @wsucougarx
    @wsucougarx 2 роки тому

    Wow, outstanding work on your videos!!!

  • @min47pgl
    @min47pgl 3 роки тому

    This is a fantastic story, thank you for sharing it. It's fantastic that your family is reunited once more. It was wonderful to see your journey to Bergen and to hear about your first experiences as a mature student. I look forward to seeing more of your adventure.
    -Mark

  • @Rabbagazten
    @Rabbagazten 3 роки тому

    Lovely story! Interesting to see you view of our hometown. You are really starting to fit in and use the language also. Keep´em coming

  • @ArcticNorthAdventures
    @ArcticNorthAdventures 3 роки тому

    Nice happy ending finally she made it to norway, that's great, hope u enjoy your time here.

    • @TheStoryGuide
      @TheStoryGuide  3 роки тому +1

      It has been a wild ride but it feels great to have my best friend here. Not to mention the process of learning how to navigate the systems is much easier with two heads. Thanks for watching.

    • @ArcticNorthAdventures
      @ArcticNorthAdventures 3 роки тому

      @@TheStoryGuide The system is not always easy but actually everything is explained online just need to know where to look if u have any questions just ask me :) I live here since 2013 ☺️

  • @iamthouth
    @iamthouth 3 роки тому

    This is really lovely, thank you for making this great series. It deserves many more views and subscribers! I look forward to the next episode.