You can't change them
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- Опубліковано 26 жов 2024
- YOU CAN’T CHANGE THEM
The fastest way to frustrate yourself is by giving them more of what they already don’t appreciate 😮💨
The bigger problem is when THE PROBLEM is their normal... Normalized dysfunction programs us to find comfort in strongholds!
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Ooooweeee! I hear this loud and clear my bro. Thank you! God has been teaching me all of this and has sent you to confirm it all.. Praise God ❤
HalleluYAH!
Whew thank you Abba!!!!
This!!!! Thank you for this amazing wisdom. This has truly helped me.🙏🏾❤️
POWERFUL MESSAGE!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I embrace these nuggets of wisdom. Thank you young man. I appreciate you and ur messages.
I NEEDED to hear this! Helper's fatigue was kicking my buttocks 😂
Me too
Powerful Message as always Pastor Jerry 🙏 🙌 Blessings to you and your family always, Keep Me On The Prayer List
Yep! Leave them right where they are!!
Amen to this!!!! This is my confirmation🙏🏽💯
As a believer whose profession is mental health, this message is reassuring to my soul. When you work so close to people as a provider, it can get overwhelming, and the compassion fatigue is real. Messages like this help to realign my perspective so that I can continue to operate with my gift. I thank God for His strength, grace, wisdom, and mercy to help his children in a time of need. Let us keep pressing forward with His truth. In Jesus mighty name! 🙏🏽❤✝️🔥
AMEN 💞🌷🌹💪🙌🙏
Thank you Jesus for my brother in Christ.. I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS.
Powerful Truth 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 💯 💯 💯
💯🗡️🙏🏻💕Pride makes one unteachable and above reproach.
Powerful 💪 Thank you
Helper's fatigue, I'm not a rehabilitation center. All this. Jerry thank you... 🙏
I want my situation to change regarding them and the only way is going to the Lord. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
"YOU CANT CHANGE THEM"💯👌
Timely! Thank you God
You betta SPEAK!!! 🗣️🗣️🗣️ they didn’t hear you in the back!
❤ your messages always hit. I feel so blessed to have found you. You're helping me so much.
Perfectly spoken
Omg u are god sent! I needed these exact words! Thank you 🙏🏼 ❤
Amen that's it!
I love you and I will to change to only serve you my God in Jesus name Amen 🙏❤️❤️🙏🙏❤️
Hallelujah to this message❤
Thos is so eye opening thank you❤❤ may God bless you brother
Yes so good, 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
1. You can’t make them change by giving them more of what they already don’t appreciate it.
2. Stop measuring your strength by how much you can take. Nothing is wrong with you desiring to be poured into the same way you pour.
3. Be aware of helpers fatigue; this is the inward exhaustion we feel when we are treating them like a priority but we’re treated as an option.
4. Change is a matter of a man’s will; you are not a rehabilitation center, but you do know The One who Rehabilitates
Thank you!
Hugs
This is fire 🔥 straight to the point
Stop pouring into ppl and pour into yourself. Amen 🙏🏼 ❤
💯 love his advice.
I needed to hear this 🙏🏽
That last part 🤍
I have a co worker...a young lady whom I believed God sent this way to give seeds too. This fits both her and myself. I was pouring and helping and she did not appreciate it although she has learned a little more respect ...I think it's time for me to remove myself from the position I put myself in....still love on her as a daughter but from a distance...I need my peace back ..its too valuable to keep giving it away
..THANK YOU for your words and obedience!
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I needed to hear this
AMEN AMEN AMEN
😭😭 Oh my goodness. This hits home
That’s the TRUTH‼️💯
Yes yes yes yes thank you 🥰💖
Helper's fatigue here. Thanks for the message.
Thank you for this video amen
Them Gold Nuggets hit💯❤️🔥🙌🙏
I felt that!!!!❤
Well Said Respect 💯
Amen!
Only God.. pray for them and push on
YES & AMEN
Number 2! Wow. People tend to make me feel bad for wanting certain things that are important and aren’t unrealistic.
Especially when you’re dealing with someone’s pathology. It’s ingrained in their personality and will only cause you to lose more time, experience more harm and grief. Let them go! Give yourself to God and embrace your healing and relationship with him 🙏🏼
PREACH!!!!!
The truth in this🙌
This is really great!love it !!!!
Praise God
Good words needed.❤
Amen 🙏 ❤❤
Tbh I’m afraid to let go but I feel like this is something God wants
All 4!! 🙏🏽
Amen amen amen! I touch and agree!
I just let that go. Or addressing weak shit that people do 😊✊🏾💯
Wow😮God really uses you every time I open up UA-cam. I know God speaks through you because your messages always hit me and what I’m going through at this moment I just need to be strong, obey, and listen. With Christ I can do all things AMEN!!!
Normalization of dysfunction that claried alot
Thank you 🩸⭕🔥🪔
So true. My Lord
Thank you 🙏
Amen🙏🏽
Amen amen amen!!!! Facts!!! I appreciate on time measages and how God use you to give life changing messages!! I had tell someone same thing, which was very similar to this powerful message!! I had to recognize this truth!! Call it how it is!! The truth shall set you free!! DO IT GOD!!🙏🏾🙌🏾❤❤
This was FOR ME.
AMEN 🙌
Lord I thank you for a word
Ouch!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Amen❤
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼AWESOME ADVISE
Jerry ! You are a super intelligent guy ! God bless you and your family! I'm so glad to find you!
Wow Amen Thank you 😇🙏🏾💪🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🥰🥰🥰
PREACH
Amen
"AMEN"
The only I want is change myself
You have such a powerful message Pastor. I pray you have 1 million subscribers who also take your message and incorporate it in their life. Not just hearers , but doers.
Especially his hat says a lot:)
Thank you
Teach!!!
Marvelous ❤
Thank you Jesus for this message!!!
Amen 🙏
🙏Amen
❤thank you
That pour into part really hit bro. When you have never been poured into you stop seeking anything even God because why am i here if nothing is here for me,ever. I dont curse GOD but i do question his choice to call me to a miserable existence.
Amen.
Number 3 though!
Facts
You have helped me so much during this breakup! Thank you!
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Change you by removing yourself from their presence.
WOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWW
Wow...helpers fatigue...
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One day they will realise they need a miracle and if they get it, they will understand.
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