Lol. Its funny how this video experience could actually be the reason you may never get a husband anymore because of how much it has awakened your spirit. You may become over sensitive and that's how you ruin whst you thought you were protecting
My dear don't even do it for someone U legally married am a full experiment We are legally married I gave birth and we are separated are still married now but separated they almost ruin me he will make sure nothing is with me
Give us the guys name,let online searchlight fish him out. Stay strong baby girl,you still have a beautiful life ahead, you're just 30 o, not 55, you will still find a good husband, just be patient. And for now, focus on loving yourself, and don't be desperate,men can smell desperation in women, and most of them will take advantage.
The lesson for being a neighbors keeper... Always have a good relationship with your neighbors because they are always/mostly your first contact during difficulties
Her big red flag was not having a good relationship with her neighbor like don't be doing this I like just being on my own Omo even if na greetings get with your neighbor ooooo
this is the reality of most ladies that you think you are 25 years or going to 30, you are desperate for love & relationship, this exact same thing will happen to you and you will not realize until you are broken, don't allow society pressure you, when it's your turn to find love, you will find it. This story is very common trust me, I saw 5% of what she saw few years ago when I was desperate and think I'm getting old, and I can count more than 5 women too that experience more 50% of this and they are already married and will go through this maybe for life, you think they care about you when they pressure you for marriage abi, until you start suffering, only you will go through it.
I came from Tiktok. One thing I can say about this is " Do not drop your standard for anyone and give no ear to family pressure about relationships and marriage because when the ships are down, family won't be sharing the trauma with you. Be ready mentally and emotionally before venturing into any of those. Ijoya darling you are a strong queen, you will come out of this stronger 💪 hugs 🫂 ❤
Girl u are beautiful ❤️ n u need to leave that environment coz ur metal health is really important, God will punish that guy where ever he is 🙏fear men ooooo women,so emotional 😢😢 trust nobody my dear
All the way from Tiktok to Learn More. Father God i pray this young Lady. Father Please show her mercy and Favor with peace she Needs and the right Love..❤❤
I’m glad she learn her lesson of not lowering her standards for anything 😢 You’re gonna bouns back Queen 👸 and found a man who’ll love you genuinely and care for you sweetheart 🫂
Thank you for encouraging me too. Some men are so evil. My igbo "husband" of 12 years with our 4 children...lied from jump. I'm just now finding out. I feel so stupid, but I thank God for opening my eyes after I asked for clarity.
I am 30 plus ad my daddy Always tell me I should never lower my standard for anyone….sorry dear u really pass through alot. Pls forget abt relationship for now n luv urself d more
Something like this happened to a friend but we later got him arrested the judge adjourned the case till 6weeks time before the judgement but he later died in at kirikiri when he spent 3weeks it was later we now got to know tht he has been doing it for years before my frnd own na so adeyemi lost his life
I almost got scammed the same way…but the inability of giving a man money while I’m only getting to know you …made me wrote him off. The moment a man is comfortable coming to pass the night at my place ..I am not seeing you the same again
Dat's how I once mistakenly lowered my standard 2date one broke guy lik dat. He was ok, all round xcept dat he was broke. So I looked beyond d present, I felt money can b made so long as a man is hard working. So I decided not look at his current situation. I was doing evrytin 4him. Upkeep, food, trans, evn helped him wt his mom's burial. Dis fool had d guts 2 start acting as if he's a god. He began feeling entitled. D moment I don't hv him money 4a particular demand, he will talk & act rudely. I abandoned him so fast he didn't believe his eyes.
This is really sad and i can feel every pain this lady is feeling and because am a guy who had also been in similar situation is very heartbreaking please sis just be happy and live for you.
I swear many men have wasted what I have been looking for all my life...this your show have really convinced me that there are still many good ladies in Nigeria...DONT LET YOUR PAST CHANGE HOW YOU WERE RAISED
Ijoya, am sorry for the experience, but trust me you are close to the best part of your life. I went through similar experience before I met my wife and now I am happy. God knows what you have been through and He will satisfy you. I hear you talk about revenge, trust me you can't do it the way God will. Just try to relegate all that concerns him and God will surprise you with His blessings.
Change environment? Owo da? Dear, you know what you will do? Pray out loud and praise God, let your neighbors hear. Then, forget the past, be happy and greet everybody no matter what they say about you.
Sister, I know that what you went through is painful, and I've had my share of it. This will only strengthen you. Your finances will get better. God will provide you with your own husband. Believe me, there are good men. The guy will pay for what he did to you because "karma" is real
We ladies need to understand that no matter how much u love someone there should be boundaries there are some things that are suppose to be private all dis lazy men are always going for d independent lady
Dear Mr Israel, if you could reach out to Ms Ijoya i think you should advise her to press charges against the stupid boy, everything he did is punishable, he's not invincible and would be tracked easily tbh , Nobody deserves to be punished like this all cos they genuinely loved someone . That rabid dog needs to be put behind bars tbh
You never know how strong you are until things happen. At least drop her social media handle lets follow her. I really feel her pain. She needs to leave that area ASAP. Surely she will bounce back stronger and her critics will hide their faces.
My dear you will be fine I pick myself up after I was defrauded I told myself I will never fall victim ever again You will be fine I am fine now and you just need to heal and put this behind you I am married now to the best man in the world I was skeptical at first but I had to learn to trust again
This story is touching! I almost experienced this but Gid saved me. Met this guy and he is always lamenting about money, telling me to borrow him money , saying we should join money together to rent an apartment , omo I stopped communicating with him ohh when I see that he wants to use me. Sisters let’s be careful
This is almost what happened to me last year, with prophecies from some church people , after one year, i lost half of my savings and im in debts of what im not using, ladies be alert this days , some men dont know what they realy want these days, let this Interview go rival to help good hard working ladies out there.
That was how one guy played with my emotions and also took away my 300k. After all I did for him, he had changed my mentality about love. The pain was so much that I had to wake up at night and the morning to laid curse on him.
I ve similar story 😢 if not that she said the guy is a Nigerian, I would have said he is the one, because this story looks so familiar with mine 😓😓😓. I can feel the emotional trauma she is going through now
I think she should go to her bank to report the issues so that all her account can be blocked to avoid the bastard having access to her money again ,he must be arrested no matter how long
Thank you very much for sharing your story. Make I relax 30years is not the end of life, if I see husband fine if I no see we move ✌️ sending lot of love sis ❤❤❤
Happy Sunday. This is a very sad story. You know those of us from the Caribbean, And Americans . We believe that they're so discipline. And helpful towards each other, but these stories not only the stories. I have recognized in the last 6 years that Africans are not what they themselves say they're , And it's sad society wise women should always hold each other up. But what they're doing to this lady. Wow we all make mistakes. She needs support , the mother of the man was involved too? Always know what goes around comes around.
Ladies Learn ooo, this happened so fast, in relationship there are bridges. Don't climb up to step 10, when you haven't taken step 1. You were so fast, am sorry you called it LOVE. Thank God you're alive.
Please report that guy to human rights activist or oriyomi hamzat, the guy the need to be taught a lesson. That's aside, you look so beautiful, and pls don't lower your standard for any guy.
Forgive yourself Involve the police Move out of the neighborhood Meet a therapist or you may look for a support group that can help. Connect more with you family if they are supportive It’s well with you!
Nobody is too wise for this to happen to them but possible everyone should pray for discernment and also love with yor brain 1 month is too short for you to give someone access to you like this Am so sorry about everything
Even men who are scamming you for love..act love..but don't hide for long...Any man asking you for money..that's a scammer!..If he never gave you money..where does he expect give him money from
This lady went through all these this year and she can talk about it on camera, for youtube? Omo you are strong o. You will get over it with time but, NEVER FORGET
Do not trust the humility of a broke man , especially when you have what they are looking for .
You said it all
God bless you 🙏
God bless you
Gbam😂
@@oravbierejessica5768 what about the humility of a woman that is desperate to be a wife😏
I’m 30+ a hardworking lady! But will never house any man that’s not legally married to me. And after watching this video, I’m never settling for less…
Lol. Its funny how this video experience could actually be the reason you may never get a husband anymore because of how much it has awakened your spirit. You may become over sensitive and that's how you ruin whst you thought you were protecting
Everyone can't be the same
Excertly
See your face 😅😅
My dear don't even do it for someone U legally married am a full experiment
We are legally married I gave birth and we are separated are still married now but separated they almost ruin me he will make sure nothing is with me
Once a man ask you for money… it’s a big red flag
Same with a lady... Biggest red flag ever
@@dollarman2302stingy man be capping nonsense 😅
Yes yes
@@miraclekk4288 stingy and wicked woman capping nonsense ✌️
A mighty one pls cos I don't know
The Guy’s picture and full name needs to be posted. So that justice can prevail on the Bastard Man .
Yes dear 😢
Post your own first
Coming from TikTok 👋
Honestly,she needs to relocate from that environment for the sake of her mental health
I feel sorry for her 😢🤦♀️
@@AbigailOgburie what if na she no get better attitude?
Because, how can the people in the area bully her despite knowing what she is going through
When you tell a guy what happened to your previous relationship you’re definitely giving him a heads up on our to treat you! He’s gonna be worst!
Not all
Lesson.......
Exactly, that's what happened to me
Exactly, that's what happened to me
I am a firm believer that your past stays in your past especially if it involves your vulnerabilities.
Give us the guys name,let online searchlight fish him out.
Stay strong baby girl,you still have a beautiful life ahead, you're just 30 o, not 55, you will still find a good husband, just be patient.
And for now, focus on loving yourself, and don't be desperate,men can smell desperation in women, and most of them will take advantage.
The lesson for being a neighbors keeper... Always have a good relationship with your neighbors because they are always/mostly your first contact during difficulties
@@bimmer1988 exactly ooo
For them to still bully her,
Despite her predicament..
She sef no really be better person.
Abba
Exactly
No be lie
Her big red flag was not having a good relationship with her neighbor like don't be doing this I like just being on my own Omo even if na greetings get with your neighbor ooooo
Thank God for your life sis, a man that could do that could have killed you without blinking. Let's not invite strangers into our home PLEASE.
this is the reality of most ladies that you think you are 25 years or going to 30, you are desperate for love & relationship, this exact same thing will happen to you and you will not realize until you are broken, don't allow society pressure you, when it's your turn to find love, you will find it. This story is very common trust me, I saw 5% of what she saw few years ago when I was desperate and think I'm getting old, and I can count more than 5 women too that experience more 50% of this and they are already married and will go through this maybe for life, you think they care about you when they pressure you for marriage abi, until you start suffering, only you will go through it.
He needs to be reported and arrested. We have laws use it
Can't you arrest him???
Start with women because women have been getting away with this 😂😂😂😂
She needs to leave her environment for the sake of her mental health💔…sending her love and light❤️
If u are coming from Tiktok pls Hug my comment 😂
Am just coming from tiktok
🤗
Am coming from tiktok 😜
@Mercyshort5 I am coming from tiktok
Coming from tiktok..I had to come listen to the full story
I came from Tiktok. One thing I can say about this is " Do not drop your standard for anyone and give no ear to family pressure about relationships and marriage because when the ships are down, family won't be sharing the trauma with you. Be ready mentally and emotionally before venturing into any of those. Ijoya darling you are a strong queen, you will come out of this stronger 💪 hugs 🫂 ❤
Once you realize that your relationship is perfect just know something is wrong somewhere
I think I supported you
Coming from TikTok
Thanks for joining in
Even me too
Same here lol
Me too
Me too ooh
Girl u are beautiful ❤️ n u need to leave that environment coz ur metal health is really important, God will punish that guy where ever he is 🙏fear men ooooo women,so emotional 😢😢 trust nobody my dear
Omo! Once a guy starts asking me for money, my fraud alert antenna goes wild.
No be only you my sister 😂😂😂😂 never 👎
Same here
I wish i knew this 6 months ago
Honestly
A huge deterrent for me. The love will just fly out the window! A real man, even if you offer him, will turn it down.
All the way from Tiktok to Learn More.
Father God i pray this young Lady. Father Please show her mercy and Favor with peace she Needs and the right Love..❤❤
I’m glad she learn her lesson of not lowering her standards for anything 😢 You’re gonna bouns back Queen 👸 and found a man who’ll love you genuinely and care for you sweetheart 🫂
Amen 🙏 ijn
Thank you for encouraging me too. Some men are so evil. My igbo "husband" of 12 years with our 4 children...lied from jump. I'm just now finding out. I feel so stupid, but I thank God for opening my eyes after I asked for clarity.
I am 30 plus ad my daddy Always tell me I should never lower my standard for anyone….sorry dear u really pass through alot. Pls forget abt relationship for now n luv urself d more
I’m glad for you that he didn’t leave you with a child
Very true
Isreal's composure and body language are giving the vibes of not believing her storyline
You just said my mind , she’s lucky he didn’t got her pregnant else her story will be a different one
Never trust the loyalty of a broke guy
Something like this happened to a friend but we later got him arrested the judge adjourned the case till 6weeks time before the judgement but he later died in at kirikiri when he spent 3weeks it was later we now got to know tht he has been doing it for years before my frnd own na so adeyemi lost his life
The mistake Ladies make is telling guys about ur ex. U re just telling them how to stab u at ur back
💔💔💔💔
She is not stupid; society pressured her into being desperate.
I almost got scammed the same way…but the inability of giving a man money while I’m only getting to know you …made me wrote him off.
The moment a man is comfortable coming to pass the night at my place ..I am not seeing you the same again
I'm happy God saved you
Dat's how I once mistakenly lowered my standard 2date one broke guy lik dat. He was ok, all round xcept dat he was broke. So I looked beyond d present, I felt money can b made so long as a man is hard working.
So I decided not look at his current situation. I was doing evrytin 4him. Upkeep, food, trans, evn helped him wt his mom's burial. Dis fool had d guts 2 start acting as if he's a god.
He began feeling entitled. D moment I don't hv him money 4a particular demand, he will talk & act rudely. I abandoned him so fast he didn't believe his eyes.
@@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 Those set of humans make you feel like they are doing you a favor by staying with them 😂
I have trust issues
I don’t reveal my weakness
You can’t know when I’m vulnerable
I don’t play my emotions out
😢😢😢😢
I learnt the hard way
Dey play 🙄
This is really sad and i can feel every pain this lady is feeling and because am a guy who had also been in similar situation is very heartbreaking please sis just be happy and live for you.
If you are coming from Facebook hit the love button
I pray this video go viral so u will meet people that will help get justice
Straight away from tiktok....the interviewer looks like ebuka of bigbrother...much love from uganda
This is really sad 😢, the guy will never know peace.
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen
Be nice and friendly to your neighbours, saying you don't talk to them is not a flex. So sorry you experienced this, turn your pain to power.
I swear many men have wasted what I have been looking for all my life...this your show have really convinced me that there are still many good ladies in Nigeria...DONT LET YOUR PAST CHANGE HOW YOU WERE RAISED
Ijoya, am sorry for the experience, but trust me you are close to the best part of your life. I went through similar experience before I met my wife and now I am happy.
God knows what you have been through and He will satisfy you.
I hear you talk about revenge, trust me you can't do it the way God will. Just try to relegate all that concerns him and God will surprise you with His blessings.
Whew, thank you for this!
Can't believe this story ended without telling us how he was arrested
I can feel her pain surely. Ooh God there is no lady who deserves this pain. Get well soon my dear.
Change environment? Owo da? Dear, you know what you will do? Pray out loud and praise God, let your neighbors hear. Then, forget the past, be happy and greet everybody no matter what they say about you.
Sister, I know that what you went through is painful, and I've had my share of it. This will only strengthen you. Your finances will get better. God will provide you with your own husband. Believe me, there are good men. The guy will pay for what he did to you because "karma" is real
We ladies need to understand that no matter how much u love someone there should be boundaries there are some things that are suppose to be private all dis lazy men are always going for d independent lady
Ladies do this more than men.... Men are learning from you ladies.... I hope she heals quickly
Always
She needs to leave her environment ASAP. Her mental health is at stake . I pray you get all the help you need.
Dear Mr Israel, if you could reach out to Ms Ijoya i think you should advise her to press charges against the stupid boy, everything he did is punishable, he's not invincible and would be tracked easily tbh , Nobody deserves to be punished like this all cos they genuinely loved someone . That rabid dog needs to be put behind bars tbh
You are really strong. It takes only a strong person to love unconditionally.
Be strong sis.
This story will go a very long way, God bless you for sharing 🙏
I don’t know why I always cry for people I don’t even know 😢 we all have a sad story to tell ❤
You never know how strong you are until things happen. At least drop her social media handle lets follow her. I really feel her pain. She needs to leave that area ASAP. Surely she will bounce back stronger and her critics will hide their faces.
This is heartbreaking 💔 No one deserves to go through this 😢 I wish you come out stronger soon but that guy will never see any good thing in his life.
My dear you will be fine
I pick myself up after I was defrauded
I told myself I will never fall victim ever again
You will be fine
I am fine now and you just need to heal and put this behind you
I am married now to the best man in the world
I was skeptical at first but I had to learn to trust again
this is a lesson for all singles 😭😭
Serious lesson
Big lesson
Sorry baby girl the lord is ur strength 😢coming from TikTok
This story is touching!
I almost experienced this but Gid saved me.
Met this guy and he is always lamenting about money, telling me to borrow him money , saying we should join money together to rent an apartment , omo I stopped communicating with him ohh when I see that he wants to use me. Sisters let’s be careful
This is sad
The guy should be arrested
.that's robbery
Track that phone and get that idiot arrested
All the way from TikTok I pray u find help and stand on your feet back
His picture needs to be posted, and he needs to be dealt with
She cannot see his pictures, bcos she no get phone
Yes all the social media
My thought
@@rosayasmine😂😂
This is almost what happened to me last year, with prophecies from some church people , after one year, i lost half of my savings and im in debts of what im not using, ladies be alert this days , some men dont know what they realy want these days, let this Interview go rival to help good hard working ladies out there.
That was how one guy played with my emotions and also took away my 300k. After all I did for him, he had changed my mentality about love. The pain was so much that I had to wake up at night and the morning to laid curse on him.
Love is wicked 😢 I pray you find someone who will love you unconditionally
Amen
loving the wrong person is wicked
I ve similar story 😢 if not that she said the guy is a Nigerian, I would have said he is the one, because this story looks so familiar with mine 😓😓😓. I can feel the emotional trauma she is going through now
Track him and get him arrested
That is what most guys do they target ladies above 30+...
Thank you
For being bold and tell your story
I have also learned from your lesson
I think she should go to her bank to report the issues so that all her account can be blocked to avoid the bastard having access to her money again ,he must be arrested no matter how long
Thank you very much for sharing your story. Make I relax 30years is not the end of life, if I see husband fine if I no see we move ✌️ sending lot of love sis ❤❤❤
Israel you are strong, If i was the one talking to this girl, I would have cried more than she did
Happy Sunday. This is a very sad story. You know those of us from the Caribbean, And Americans . We believe that they're so discipline. And helpful towards each other, but these stories not only the stories. I have recognized in the last 6 years that Africans are not what they themselves say they're , And it's sad society wise women should always hold each other up. But what they're doing to this lady. Wow we all make mistakes. She needs support , the mother of the man was involved too? Always know what goes around comes around.
Life always gives us the chance to start all over so dear leave that environment and start your life over again 🙏
Watched part of the video on TikTok and came here
Ladies Learn ooo, this happened so fast, in relationship there are bridges. Don't climb up to step 10, when you haven't taken step 1. You were so fast, am sorry you called it LOVE. Thank God you're alive.
I know what she’s feeling cos my mom was in a situation like this when my stepdad used her 😢💔
This phase shall pass dear. You're not dead so you will come out strong. I can imagine the pain and trauma.
My lovely sister you're not a fool at all. Please stand up again and you will see what God will do. I love you my queen 👑👑👑👑.
This is really sad. Ijoya I pray to God to help u heal from this wickedness from the guy. He will meet his Waterloo.
That's why is good to be in a good terms with your neighbours, but it's soo bad of him.
I felt tears listening to her words .. The power of love got her doomed
Wow! The audacity of that thief! It will never be well with him and his family or those playing his family
hey listen nobody is perfect we all fall in luv at some point..heal and be open d right person will find you🥰🙌🏽
Here from TikTok...... I have been victim to one too but I put an end to it before I lost my mind and all my money
Please report that guy to human rights activist or oriyomi hamzat, the guy the need to be taught a lesson. That's aside, you look so beautiful, and pls don't lower your standard for any guy.
Thank you
Forgive yourself
Involve the police
Move out of the neighborhood
Meet a therapist or you may look for a support group that can help.
Connect more with you family if they are supportive
It’s well with you!
Never trust or buy to the humility of a broke guy, especially when you are far better than him or have all that they are looking for
Ooh sorry😢😢😢my garlies do not be pressurised by society when the right time comes the Lord wil make it happen….
All the way from TikTok God will heal you ma
Following from tik tok,this really touched me
Coming all the way from TikTok
Nobody is too wise for this to happen to them but possible everyone should pray for discernment and also love with yor brain 1 month is too short for you to give someone access to you like this
Am so sorry about everything
Even men who are scamming you for love..act love..but don't hide for long...Any man asking you for money..that's a scammer!..If he never gave you money..where does he expect give him money from
Don't have fears, you will still find love.
This is so heartbreaking , and the environments are not helping at all
Forgive urself n heal sweetheart, alot of guys out there will do anything to have you
This lady went through all these this year and she can talk about it on camera, for youtube? Omo you are strong o.
You will get over it with time but, NEVER FORGET
I really cried watching this 🥺🥺 God help us
That’s why it’s always important to self esteem and know who you are in Christ if not stories like this will not be far from you.
I feel so bad yo.....the neighbors are a heartless bunch💔
I cried , l love you Idera
My same kind of story , I will love to document my story for the world to see
Same!
Kind Send me a message on whatsapp 08069638751
Thank God you didn't end up being one of his baby mama in the process. Stay strong💪
Why didn't she report him to the police?!!
Asin oo😂😂
Dem Dey whine me ser🙃
They always charm you so you can’t understand yourself
Yep, that's how they get you.