I just wanna add!! My mum is making a quick recovery - she's gone from wheelchair to walking stick, and her aim is to be able to dance at our wedding :)
Thinking about my "potential" gives me axienty. I don't want to think about huge goals, I want to feel rested for once. I want to learn how to rest without feeling guilty about not doing something "productive". I want to learn how to enjoy life. I don't want to base my selfworth on how much I produce or achived. Ex-gifted kid.
If on your death bed you would regret all those things and not resting more then this is all still applies. We are all in a different situation, so take the advice in a way that's most beneficial to you and your wellbeing
In that case you better get to posting videos so future you can exist, and later reminisce on how old you was inspired by a doppelgänger future you who reminded you of yourself.
1 thing i will add. Do not fall into toxic productivity. Pay attention to the people and pets that matter to you. it's not a task, there is nothing to improve, no goal or end. Just turn off for at least an hour a day and LOVE FEEL!
No. Offer your life to our capitalist overlords. Hate your neighbors. Ignore the environment. Stay uncomfortable. You are both the producer and the product. Your worth is at the bottom of their pockets. Blind yourself and keep grinding. The machine never stops.
I think it's also important to recognize that sometimes what is considered "full potential" is what society normalizes as being what everyone should want. For example, complacency about the wedding could also be a sign you want a smaller, more intimate, wedding. But it's often hard to draw strict lines between these two notions. Trust me, I had a smaller wedding and it turned out to have all the problems of a big wedding!
@@zeyneplucy9250 I don't think I have any real tips, I guess it's just a process of sometimes buying in the story of "full potential" and going for it full on (in the sense of what society says) and sometimes resting and thinking again about what feels right and what doesn't and taking that knowledge to redefine what "full potential" means to you. It also changes during your life, as your priorities shift. I guess the key is to continue questioning the mainstream ideas, but still take from them whatever works for you. Hope that helps!
“I don’t have a chronic illness” THANK YOU SO IMPORTANT. The Casey heist at lifestyle made me feel so bad about myself. This disclaimer means a lot more than you might think
I agree! Cam, you truly are so insightful & have a rare ability to capture what it is to be able to connect with everyone on any level to deal with issues that are wide ranging. 💜
This honestly could be a TED talk. I like the “easy path = hard life, hard path = easy life” part. That really is making me think about where I’m taking the easy path too much in my own life (staying at my boring job, not working hard enough to get in shape, etc.)
yess and this reminds me of a great quote that goes like “do the easy things, and your life will be hard. do the hard things, and your life will be easy”.✨💯
I love your disclaimer about the fact that you don't have kids, or a chronic illness or aren't taking care of someone. So many people give generalised solutions forgetting all the different struggles and issues people could be dealing with and making them feel even worse for not being able to reach that one-size-fits-all solution. 👏
I really love how you mention other life circumstances like chronic illness. As a lifetime chronic ill person, I really appreciate you taking the time to mention that. We are all able to achieve things, we just take a bit longer and might require more help or flexibility, depending on our particular situation. Awesome work on the channel.
Just want to say thank you, Amanda. I am a lifer now... and I am having trouble coming to terms with all these limitations. I honestly kept holding out for a cure. Finally at the point where I realize this is just it for me (unless there's a miracle, who knows). I keep feeling like I can't do anything I wanted to... so thanks for saying we can still do, just slower, or with help...
The best part of the video for me was the disclaimer. I think that it is one of the most important parts! It takes into account the situation someone is in.
Yes!!!! It shows how compassionate and understanding he is. When he said if you’re dealing with disabilities or chronic illness that’s obviously different, it took a huge weight off instead of giving me a horrible feeling. 💚
Agreed! As someone with chronic illness that impacts everything I do, it can be hard to watch these things. But with that disclaimer I am able to put it down to my level and see what is actually possible instead of feeling like shit.
I feel like I'm actually working on living up to my potential and it feels great. I meditate and journal, and I've started exercising. I'm sober now. I'm a cartoonist, and I'm working on a comic that's actually being published. I'm in school. I have plans for the future. I'm disabled and have mental health problems so it's been an uphill battle and I know it's not always gonna be easy, but I feel like I'm actually working on things in a way that will make future me happy.
Sounds like it! This totally random stranger from the internet is happy for you and proud of you. Congratulations on your publication and your overall growth ✨
I’m not sure achievements mean that much on your deathbed. Most of the time people regret not doing things that are comfortable or spending time with people they care about. I know of a miserable heart surgeon whose the head of an entire ICU and he could care less about anyone dying anymore. I bet he’s going to the grave with regret. It is meaningless until you find self love. Achieving goals doesn’t always equal self love. Accept yourself now and you will die fulfilled. Much love and wishes of healing to those who need it.
I definitely agree with that! Still I think the video is a really great way of determining if your life can improve in ways that you have direct control over
There's an interview with William Shatner in the Briddish newspaper The Grauniad where he basically says 'take it easy, nothing matters' but also says if he'd have known that when he was young he wouldn't have gotten anything done. I think Mr Struthless is just using these images as a way to get viewers to think about our priorities more than being literally true. PS love the video, it really helped me as I struggle with being a young Shatner who learned nothing matters too early (metaphorically. Literally I am actually a young Dave who needs occasional reminders that I can do more with my life).
I just wanted to say, I found your videos after typing in "how to stop self sabotaging." Firstly, your energy and personality is incredibly relatable and comforting. Secondly, Your content is refreshingly valuable and helpful. I literally found you like an hour ago and already watched several of your videos. I was experiencing a moment of complete frustration and dissatisfaction of my life that made me feel like I was in a deep dark hole. Your videos are like the rope being thrown down to help me climb out. I know, corny. But thank you. Keep doing what you're doing.
I have a small trick to help overcome that initial bump a lot of us experience when overcoming complacency. I call it "No Option." When you find it hard to do that thing you want or need to do, imagine a worst case scenario of you not doing that thing. Once you have the worst case scenario, tell yourself that "this is not an option" and immediately do it. I've been doing it for a couple of months now and it has been a lot easier to get things done. Give it a try!
SAME! I totally have ADHD too and pretty sure Struth does also hehe. We need that motivation like pain to get things done to get that dopamine to our brains. I relate so hard to all his videos!
Me too!! I am constantly looking up ways to “hack” my ADHD mindset… but this was the only thing that has truly made sense to me! I wish you all the best luck on your new goals ❤️❤️
I love all this advice but what I love even more is that you started out acknowledging that some people will have different barriers/obstacles to action and that's okay! So much "live your best life" advice is given in the tone of "all those things stopping you are just excuses!!" Which is so tone-deaf to anyone with differing life circumstances that it just sours the whole concept. I like how you said "there's nothing wrong with you" because little things like that really do make the difference.
Really good steps to overcome complacency. Sometimes you just need to take small steps. I decided to sell my art online and dedicated a few days to setting up my online store. It's taken my way longer than I expected to list everything but love how it's turned out. I also started a UA-cam channel to motivate me to make more art.
The fact that you make the disclaimer about your capacity and that we might not all be able to do this is so self-aware and just shows how much you understand how human beings work. Thank you so much for your content.
I actually avoided watching this video for ages because I KNEW it would be about me and I didn't want to deal... It wasn't as bad as I thought. It was helpful. Thank you.
Having watched (and hugely enjoyed) many of your videos it seems you are almost always addressing ADHD without ever mentioning it. At first I was wondering why, but I now see that by not using medical terms you are giving a chance for everyone with related or overlapping issues (anxiety, procrastination, self-sabotage...) an equal chance at receiving the message fully regardless of their condition. Props to you.
I’m terrified of regret, and I’ve found that imagined deathbed regrets are so helpful in getting me to get crackin on being confident, taking leaps, and truly expressing my wants and desires
Your videos genuinely make me so happy. You have such an impact on people, I really hope you never stop being you and never stop uploading Thank you for such awesome videos
I really appreciate your disclaimer. I love your attitude in general. It's healing and constructive compared to all of the toxic positivity I feel bombarded by. I was homeless a few years ago after escaping domestic violence and I'll never see anything about "potential" the same again. I don't feel judged when I watch your videos, just inspired. Thank you
Loved this video. Thanks for giving actionable steps. Didn't feel like I was "advised". This is what I would like productivity videos to be like. Hope all your dreams come true for real!
I needed this! I’ve recently resigned from a job I’ve been at for 11 years, it was definitely the easy road but I feel like it would be a hard and boring life if I stayed. This has inspired me to stop being complacent about more things in my life. So thanks for sharing :)
Aaahhh this video is SO GOOD!! I’ve been watching authors give “writing motivation” talks fruitlessly and I enthusiastically all week hoping to find the inspiration to get back to my novel, when this video was actually what I really needed. Thank you so much as always, Struthless-you are so clear-eyed and full of helpful tools for putting your good advice into action!
It was interesting doing the thought experiment while listening to you. I have a chronic illness and I found that my pain actually lessened, because I can literally Not Do It. And I am already taking the steps - they just happen to be tiny. Turns out I'm not really complacent about many things at all, I constantly strive to do it all, big and small, I just have to practice a lot of acceptance over the fact that I often Can't. But it did give me perspective on some unnecessary fears holding me back, which I think this really helped me let go of. Thank you for that! 😊
after finding this channel, I've realized I've led a long path of doing what I thought I should be doing and making people "proud" instead of going for the path I truly desired. This video has helped in giving me the motivation to stop being complacent in my life and actually move towards whats fulfilling for me, not what makes me comfortable. thanks
That's probably the best advices you can hear on youtube ever. Thank you so much for your videos! The way you deliver and present such sour topics is amazing!
Well done brother, at 45 I STILL suffer from complacency, however, there is another side of being comfortable. It is not always so bad. Took my wife 10 YEARS to get married after we got engaged :) You're all good
I love the visual representations they make everything that much easier to understand for me, I love your channel every video has inspired and related to me. I’ve always struggled to take action in my life and you’ve helped more than you know. I also love your vibe and lighthearted energy, you make the videos truly enjoyable to watch. Thank youuuu🥺🥰
After having a wedding i can say it’s overrated! A year of planning for a few hours that go by way too fast! That being said try to make the planning part fun and memorable!
Your videos are genuinely such a source of inspiration bro, keep up the good work and do some different style videos (maybe a fred durst one because why not)
i love this channel! recently found myself watching informative yet fun and entertaining vids from time to time whenever i start to feel lost and this channel always understands my feelings and guides me to a certain mindset that is helpful for me. thank you
The first video I watched from you is probably the one when you made a video instead of doing drugs. I’m so happy to see you thriving, you seem genuinely so happy and excited for what’s to come. This content is one of the best on youtube. As an artist I’m so lost at the moment if I picked the right career path and all of your self-help tricks have made such a difference for me comparing to all of the others. It’s super relatable. The pressure I feel is significantly smaller after I watch one of your videos and implement the actions you suggest. Journaling is so important, just putting your thoughts on a paper is half of it. I feel like I’m not so lost anymore and even thought I have such vague goals, I know that I will find my way and that everybody has their tempo. Wish you the best and thank you. You are doing something very meaningful and important! ❤️
Currently binging all of your videos in a “time to get most of my sh*t together before I’m 30 so I can thank myself” spiral. Maybe I’ll meander back to this video in 5 years for an update lol - good stuff man.
As a girl named Jessi who is definitely living in her cave of comfort: Thank you :D I only found your channel a week or so ago when Sydney went into lockdown again, but your advice is already helping me get my shit together mentally. Next step: crawling toward the light of that rugged wilderness, and sprinting 20 miles to my new cave :D Cheers~~
dude you are brilliant. seriously every video you put out is so thoughtful and concrete and simple. thank you so much for everything you do, subscribing to your channel is one of the best decisions I've made in years
Man you have no idea how much you help me. Whenever I'm stuck I'm like, yeah for sure there's a Struthless video for this. Plus you're exciting to watch and I laugh in the process. thank YOU
Thanks for making these. They kind of make me sad but I feel they’re the push I need to do something productive with my life and step out of my comfort zone
thank you for giving advice that relates to the average human experience instead of making every one of your viewers feel as if they're underperforming. It's crazy to me that up until this point i haven't found someone explain the step-by-step process of self improvement in a way that doesn't make me feel like i'm not trying hard enough, even when it feels like i'm doing everything i can.
I really appreciate that little disclaimer, as someone with chronic health conditions and a shitty life, it can be disheartening to receive advice from someone with a more privileged perspective. "Just backpack around the world/ find a guru/ just hop in your private jet and spend a weekend in Paris with your imaginary boyfriend/ just hang out with the friends and family you don't have/ just get therapy even if you can't afford it/ just leave the house even though you're crippled with anxiety" Thanks Karen...
Everything in life is hard, finding your soulmate and working on that relationship is hard, divorce is also hard, being alone is hard being successful is hard, not having what you've always wished for is hard. We just need to pick wisely and think long term
really great relatable video. most videos will string you to the next and without answering key questions, or answering them clear enough. this reminds me of a teacher breaking down something seemingly complicated into smaller easier to comprehend steps that make you think duh I can do anything after learning how obvious this is.
Oh man- my wedding got canceled because of the quarantine and I was relieved as well- looking to plan something very simple for the second go around especially considering the money we lost from planning the first one
I made some steps today to start the process of developing new heirloom tomato varieties. This is likely an 8 year process or so, but I’ll be growing tomatoes anyway, might as well start this experiment. I see myself as a seed saver/protector and developer and new and wonderful heirloom tomato varieties.
GREAT video! Literally living a life of complacency recently. So many dreams/desires but stuck in major what if (not)/procrastination fear loop! Great perspective! Thanks for sharing 🙏🏻
This is my favorite video of yours yet! I was just earlier today reading about some bullet journaling stuff along these lines that you really nicely encapsulated here. Thanks for this man
@@krisellee2606 Hahah true. It was 1am when I was aimlessly browsing youtube instead of sleeping. So the starting minutes of this kicked my butt into realizing I was stupid and should sleep.
okay but this channel is something else entirely. i can't stop watching, taking notes, laughing and crying all at the same time bc of how relatable and kind and inspiring you are. you're a genius, man.. thanks so much
I don´t think I´ve ever seen anyone creating videos like you do. How you explain everything from your own experience, how you always break it down in specific points/parts/steps, how you always incorporate journaling and motivate us to do the same (cuz it really is on of the best tools seeing your thoughts/feelings in front of you on a piece of paper, and then analyzing them). I am just amazed by your videos. They lift me up, makes me feel motivated and most importatntly they make me feel not alone with these kind of problems. And the fact that with these 10 minutes you literally give us a toolkit for our brain, which is really useful I think. So yeah, basically thank you so so much for being here and sharing your life advices :)
Yooooooooooooooooo... "The cup list" sounds revolutionary. Because the bucket list would be the "ideal" life, but the cup list would be a BETTER life :O Like holy shit I am making one rn... tnx!
I am just so grateful for the recommendation made by UA-cam a couple days back! Have watched several of your videos and am incredibly inspired by what I am learning here. Thank you so much.
Your videos are so organized, it makes me wanna write all the topics and act like a student. And honestly, I've learnt so much so far. Seriously, this is now my youtube fav.
Please keep producing this fantastic content. Every time I watch there's something else I take away and apply. I have a planning weekend based around your techniques for my personal projects and then am thinking about how I can share this with others in my life who are beginning their life journey. Thank you so much!
This is one of those things you kinda know but could never put words to if someone asked. THANK YOU SO MUCH for such amazing clarity on this! If nothing else out of this vid, I need to make a cup list of all the little things that need to be done before we move at the end of the month.
thankyou so much for these videos, I cannot tell you how much these put into words and perspective the things and concepts I needed to understand. Ive been fighting this unknown problem in my life for so long, a discontent with where I am and where Im going, that I lost sight of where to even begin- overwhelming myself into a constant state of complacency. So thankyou for these videos!! you so wonderfully describe and explain these things in a way that makes sense, and ways that I can directly apply them to myself here and now. I'm really grateful for it and I'm feeling excited to actually have a little cup list to work through and get myself started on that spiral haha one baby step at a time.
i'm going through a rough patch for a couple of years and have never given up on myself, until april when i got quite sick and my happy balance fell to hell. So honestly i've been slacking off even when circumstances were a bit stable. Thank you for sharing your learnings, i'm working to implement them gradually and successfully. 💛
I know this is an older video but I just found you a few weeks ago on UA-cam and you have helped me come to terms with so many things in my life. I travel for work and have a hard time being in a new location ever 2 weeks because it makes it very difficult to work on myself when it comes to hobbies or the gym or at home to do lists. But you helped me realize that it's okay to not always rush to get things done. I'm often someone who works myself until I'm sick, relax to recover from sickness, and then rinse and repeat the process. I'm actively sick right now so go figure haha but you are helping me realize I need to change my life and take better care of myself and specifically take care of my mental health. Thank you for the videos and the actual positivity you put in this world. Thank you
I just wanna add!! My mum is making a quick recovery - she's gone from wheelchair to walking stick, and her aim is to be able to dance at our wedding :)
Thanks! I was actually wondering how she was. Great video! Can’t wait to get the book!
GLAD TO HEAR she's doing so well! And here's to that wedding dance!
♥️♥️♥️
Well, that's just so wholesome. Your mom sounds super similar to my boyfriend's mom (she's a busy but impressive lady).
Great to hear, Campbell! Sending good vibes. Nice video as always ;-)
Thinking about my "potential" gives me axienty. I don't want to think about huge goals, I want to feel rested for once. I want to learn how to rest without feeling guilty about not doing something "productive". I want to learn how to enjoy life. I don't want to base my selfworth on how much I produce or achived.
Ex-gifted kid.
Being rested and at peace can be your goals! There's nothing wrong with that and its totally achievable!
If on your death bed you would regret all those things and not resting more then this is all still applies. We are all in a different situation, so take the advice in a way that's most beneficial to you and your wellbeing
"ex-gifted" is an interesting descriptor though
@@melonlemon1781 I don't know how to phrase it better 😅
Thank you for this comment, this is EXACTLY how I currently feel and been feeling for years
Honestly, I was just getting all comfortable and then this popped up.
Same 😭
Same
i swear to got, he don't miss with those videos and they are always so on tiiiime
LOL
Same
This dude is just so relatable. I feel like hes a male version of future- me explaining how to get my shit together
That's how it feels for me too! It gets funnier when you realize it's true 😂💕 good luck on your journey, friend! 🤗
In that case you better get to posting videos so future you can exist, and later reminisce on how old you was inspired by a doppelgänger future you who reminded you of yourself.
@@orphisv3523 I’m on board with all of you 🥰
@@Vladyyy This was so perfectly put! 👏👏
@@realdavebob 😄 thankssss bro!!
1 thing i will add.
Do not fall into toxic productivity.
Pay attention to the people and pets that matter to you.
it's not a task, there is nothing to improve, no goal or end.
Just turn off for at least an hour a day and LOVE FEEL!
This is why I love this Chanel so much. Productivity content alone made me feel so bad about myself
No.
Offer your life to our capitalist overlords.
Hate your neighbors.
Ignore the environment.
Stay uncomfortable.
You are both the producer and the product.
Your worth is at the bottom of their pockets.
Blind yourself and keep grinding.
The machine never stops.
@@stonecat676 ALL HAIL OUR WORK GODS. MAY OUR BODIES BE SACRIFICED AND OUR SOULS CONSUMED. ALL HAIL OUR WORK GODS.
Then one day you will be forced to work for a person who didnt b!**h out. Dont complain then.
I think it's also important to recognize that sometimes what is considered "full potential" is what society normalizes as being what everyone should want. For example, complacency about the wedding could also be a sign you want a smaller, more intimate, wedding. But it's often hard to draw strict lines between these two notions. Trust me, I had a smaller wedding and it turned out to have all the problems of a big wedding!
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I''m struggling to draw strict lines between those two notions too:/ Any tips?
@@zeyneplucy9250 I don't think I have any real tips, I guess it's just a process of sometimes buying in the story of "full potential" and going for it full on (in the sense of what society says) and sometimes resting and thinking again about what feels right and what doesn't and taking that knowledge to redefine what "full potential" means to you. It also changes during your life, as your priorities shift. I guess the key is to continue questioning the mainstream ideas, but still take from them whatever works for you. Hope that helps!
this channel is god tier
Naaah, it's struthless tier
100%
literally
I've watched so many videos but he... He is smart. Man, there are people like Jeff Bezos but they can't explain our nature and what to do with it
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“I don’t have a chronic illness” THANK YOU SO IMPORTANT. The Casey heist at lifestyle made me feel so bad about myself. This disclaimer means a lot more than you might think
I agree! Cam, you truly are so insightful & have a rare ability to capture what it is to be able to connect with everyone on any level to deal with issues that are wide ranging. 💜
This honestly could be a TED talk. I like the “easy path = hard life, hard path = easy life” part. That really is making me think about where I’m taking the easy path too much in my own life (staying at my boring job, not working hard enough to get in shape, etc.)
@@vincnt1 wtf😂😂
yess and this reminds me of a great quote that goes like “do the easy things, and your life will be hard. do the hard things, and your life will be easy”.✨💯
I love your disclaimer about the fact that you don't have kids, or a chronic illness or aren't taking care of someone. So many people give generalised solutions forgetting all the different struggles and issues people could be dealing with and making them feel even worse for not being able to reach that one-size-fits-all solution. 👏
I really love how you mention other life circumstances like chronic illness. As a lifetime chronic ill person, I really appreciate you taking the time to mention that. We are all able to achieve things, we just take a bit longer and might require more help or flexibility, depending on our particular situation. Awesome work on the channel.
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Absolutely.
@@vincnt1 Don't know what I was expecting LUL
Just want to say thank you, Amanda. I am a lifer now... and I am having trouble coming to terms with all these limitations. I honestly kept holding out for a cure. Finally at the point where I realize this is just it for me (unless there's a miracle, who knows). I keep feeling like I can't do anything I wanted to... so thanks for saying we can still do, just slower, or with help...
The best part of the video for me was the disclaimer. I think that it is one of the most important parts! It takes into account the situation someone is in.
Yes!!!! It shows how compassionate and understanding he is. When he said if you’re dealing with disabilities or chronic illness that’s obviously different, it took a huge weight off instead of giving me a horrible feeling. 💚
Agreed! As someone with chronic illness that impacts everything I do, it can be hard to watch these things. But with that disclaimer I am able to put it down to my level and see what is actually possible instead of feeling like shit.
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I feel like I'm actually working on living up to my potential and it feels great. I meditate and journal, and I've started exercising. I'm sober now. I'm a cartoonist, and I'm working on a comic that's actually being published. I'm in school. I have plans for the future. I'm disabled and have mental health problems so it's been an uphill battle and I know it's not always gonna be easy, but I feel like I'm actually working on things in a way that will make future me happy.
Sounds like it! This totally random stranger from the internet is happy for you and proud of you. Congratulations on your publication and your overall growth ✨
@@wynthehuman Thank you so much!!
Sounds like your doing pretty well😊🤟 Congrats and you can definitely be proud of you👏👏👏👏👯♂️🎉 have a nice evening😊
@@LoLa-uv8hc Thank you that's very kind!!
Good for you! I'm still in school too and I have no idea what I wanna do with my life.
I’m not sure achievements mean that much on your deathbed. Most of the time people regret not doing things that are comfortable or spending time with people they care about. I know of a miserable heart surgeon whose the head of an entire ICU and he could care less about anyone dying anymore. I bet he’s going to the grave with regret. It is meaningless until you find self love. Achieving goals doesn’t always equal self love. Accept yourself now and you will die fulfilled. Much love and wishes of healing to those who need it.
I definitely agree with that! Still I think the video is a really great way of determining if your life can improve in ways that you have direct control over
It's literally just about balance. Have enough time for yourself and time for your goals.
@@nuljeon Thank you for your insight. I really appreciate it.
@@iliveinsideyourhouse3943 I agree that we need to focus on ourselves more and specifically carve out that time. Thank you for your insight. :)
There's an interview with William Shatner in the Briddish newspaper The Grauniad where he basically says 'take it easy, nothing matters' but also says if he'd have known that when he was young he wouldn't have gotten anything done. I think Mr Struthless is just using these images as a way to get viewers to think about our priorities more than being literally true.
PS love the video, it really helped me as I struggle with being a young Shatner who learned nothing matters too early (metaphorically. Literally I am actually a young Dave who needs occasional reminders that I can do more with my life).
I just wanted to say, I found your videos after typing in "how to stop self sabotaging." Firstly, your energy and personality is incredibly relatable and comforting. Secondly, Your content is refreshingly valuable and helpful. I literally found you like an hour ago and already watched several of your videos. I was experiencing a moment of complete frustration and dissatisfaction of my life that made me feel like I was in a deep dark hole. Your videos are like the rope being thrown down to help me climb out. I know, corny. But thank you. Keep doing what you're doing.
Holy cow, same! I made the same search and subscribed right after seeing the self sabotage video (though this is only the second video i'm watching)
true that! kind of same ,just that he was on my recommend haha.
I have a small trick to help overcome that initial bump a lot of us experience when overcoming complacency. I call it "No Option." When you find it hard to do that thing you want or need to do, imagine a worst case scenario of you not doing that thing. Once you have the worst case scenario, tell yourself that "this is not an option" and immediately do it. I've been doing it for a couple of months now and it has been a lot easier to get things done. Give it a try!
Honestly, If you wrote a self help book I’d live by it
He has, it's on preorder
@@lawrencewallace4462 What's it called and where can it be pre ordered from?
Ahah, as someone with ADHD I’m constantly looking for tutorials on life, this is in my top 3 and I’ve been seeking life tutorials for almost a decade!
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yesss literally
SAME! I totally have ADHD too and pretty sure Struth does also hehe. We need that motivation like pain to get things done to get that dopamine to our brains. I relate so hard to all his videos!
Me too!! I am constantly looking up ways to “hack” my ADHD mindset… but this was the only thing that has truly made sense to me! I wish you all the best luck on your new goals ❤️❤️
umm, what does it feel to have an adhd?
I love all this advice but what I love even more is that you started out acknowledging that some people will have different barriers/obstacles to action and that's okay! So much "live your best life" advice is given in the tone of "all those things stopping you are just excuses!!" Which is so tone-deaf to anyone with differing life circumstances that it just sours the whole concept. I like how you said "there's nothing wrong with you" because little things like that really do make the difference.
Really good steps to overcome complacency. Sometimes you just need to take small steps. I decided to sell my art online and dedicated a few days to setting up my online store. It's taken my way longer than I expected to list everything but love how it's turned out. I also started a UA-cam channel to motivate me to make more art.
Struthless: "I'm not your dad"
Thomas Frank: *shuffles legal papers menacingly*
The fact that you make the disclaimer about your capacity and that we might not all be able to do this is so self-aware and just shows how much you understand how human beings work. Thank you so much for your content.
This channel was an awful lot of help to me during quarantine being an artist and all
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I actually avoided watching this video for ages because I KNEW it would be about me and I didn't want to deal...
It wasn't as bad as I thought. It was helpful. Thank you.
I've been so complacent here lately that it's actually making me anxious. This video came at the right time.
Having watched (and hugely enjoyed) many of your videos it seems you are almost always addressing ADHD without ever mentioning it. At first I was wondering why, but I now see that by not using medical terms you are giving a chance for everyone with related or overlapping issues (anxiety, procrastination, self-sabotage...) an equal chance at receiving the message fully regardless of their condition. Props to you.
This is basically free therapy, thanks man.
I’m terrified of regret, and I’ve found that imagined deathbed regrets are so helpful in getting me to get crackin on being confident, taking leaps, and truly expressing my wants and desires
I just want to thank you for your videos; they seem to come up in my feed when I need them the most. You rock!
Your videos genuinely make me so happy. You have such an impact on people, I really hope you never stop being you and never stop uploading
Thank you for such awesome videos
I really appreciate the frequent uploads! They way you talk about this stuff is extremely relatable.
thank you man for all your support and encouragement you're my inspiration.
I really appreciate your disclaimer. I love your attitude in general. It's healing and constructive compared to all of the toxic positivity I feel bombarded by. I was homeless a few years ago after escaping domestic violence and I'll never see anything about "potential" the same again. I don't feel judged when I watch your videos, just inspired. Thank you
Loved this video. Thanks for giving actionable steps. Didn't feel like I was "advised". This is what I would like productivity videos to be like. Hope all your dreams come true for real!
Man, you're so helpful and you always come right on time, God bless you!
This channel deserves way more recognition. I can't explain how helpful and inspiring are his insights to me !!!
I needed this! I’ve recently resigned from a job I’ve been at for 11 years, it was definitely the easy road but I feel like it would be a hard and boring life if I stayed. This has inspired me to stop being complacent about more things in my life. So thanks for sharing :)
Most relevant topic in today’s time.Appreciate your knowledge and techniques to tackle it.
Aaahhh this video is SO GOOD!! I’ve been watching authors give “writing motivation” talks fruitlessly and I enthusiastically all week hoping to find the inspiration to get back to my novel, when this video was actually what I really needed. Thank you so much as always, Struthless-you are so clear-eyed and full of helpful tools for putting your good advice into action!
It was interesting doing the thought experiment while listening to you. I have a chronic illness and I found that my pain actually lessened, because I can literally Not Do It. And I am already taking the steps - they just happen to be tiny. Turns out I'm not really complacent about many things at all, I constantly strive to do it all, big and small, I just have to practice a lot of acceptance over the fact that I often Can't. But it did give me perspective on some unnecessary fears holding me back, which I think this really helped me let go of. Thank you for that! 😊
after finding this channel, I've realized I've led a long path of doing what I thought I should be doing and making people "proud" instead of going for the path I truly desired. This video has helped in giving me the motivation to stop being complacent in my life and actually move towards whats fulfilling for me, not what makes me comfortable. thanks
Man, this Channel has been so great for me. Thank you for everything that you do and good luck on the wedding!
That's probably the best advices you can hear on youtube ever. Thank you so much for your videos! The way you deliver and present such sour topics is amazing!
I'm glad you're mom is doing well!
Well done brother, at 45 I STILL suffer from complacency, however, there is another side of being comfortable. It is not always so bad.
Took my wife 10 YEARS to get married after we got engaged :)
You're all good
Discovering struthless last week was the best thing happened to me. I just love his videos so much. Thank you for being .
I love the visual representations they make everything that much easier to understand for me, I love your channel every video has inspired and related to me. I’ve always struggled to take action in my life and you’ve helped more than you know. I also love your vibe and lighthearted energy, you make the videos truly enjoyable to watch. Thank youuuu🥺🥰
After having a wedding i can say it’s overrated! A year of planning for a few hours that go by way too fast! That being said try to make the planning part fun and memorable!
I hear what you're saying, but after 10 years of being married I still think of those couple of hours of pure joy very often.
Your videos are genuinely such a source of inspiration bro, keep up the good work and do some different style videos (maybe a fred durst one because why not)
i love this channel! recently found myself watching informative yet fun and entertaining vids from time to time whenever i start to feel lost and this channel always understands my feelings and guides me to a certain mindset that is helpful for me. thank you
The first video I watched from you is probably the one when you made a video instead of doing drugs. I’m so happy to see you thriving, you seem genuinely so happy and excited for what’s to come. This content is one of the best on youtube. As an artist I’m so lost at the moment if I picked the right career path and all of your self-help tricks have made such a difference for me comparing to all of the others. It’s super relatable. The pressure I feel is significantly smaller after I watch one of your videos and implement the actions you suggest. Journaling is so important, just putting your thoughts on a paper is half of it. I feel like I’m not so lost anymore and even thought I have such vague goals, I know that I will find my way and that everybody has their tempo. Wish you the best and thank you. You are doing something very meaningful and important! ❤️
Currently binging all of your videos in a “time to get most of my sh*t together before I’m 30 so I can thank myself” spiral. Maybe I’ll meander back to this video in 5 years for an update lol - good stuff man.
As a girl named Jessi who is definitely living in her cave of comfort: Thank you :D I only found your channel a week or so ago when Sydney went into lockdown again, but your advice is already helping me get my shit together mentally. Next step: crawling toward the light of that rugged wilderness, and sprinting 20 miles to my new cave :D Cheers~~
dude you are brilliant. seriously every video you put out is so thoughtful and concrete and simple. thank you so much for everything you do, subscribing to your channel is one of the best decisions I've made in years
Man you have no idea how much you help me. Whenever I'm stuck I'm like, yeah for sure there's a Struthless video for this. Plus you're exciting to watch and I laugh in the process. thank YOU
So good as always! I will probably listen to this one 25 more times.
Your videos are amazing, I love how I'm over here taking notes, excited about it hahahaha
Same. So much value in his storytelling.
Thanks for making these. They kind of make me sad but I feel they’re the push I need to do something productive with my life and step out of my comfort zone
thank you for giving advice that relates to the average human experience instead of making every one of your viewers feel as if they're underperforming. It's crazy to me that up until this point i haven't found someone explain the step-by-step process of self improvement in a way that doesn't make me feel like i'm not trying hard enough, even when it feels like i'm doing everything i can.
I really appreciate that little disclaimer, as someone with chronic health conditions and a shitty life, it can be disheartening to receive advice from someone with a more privileged perspective.
"Just backpack around the world/ find a guru/ just hop in your private jet and spend a weekend in Paris with your imaginary boyfriend/ just hang out with the friends and family you don't have/ just get therapy even if you can't afford it/ just leave the house even though you're crippled with anxiety"
Thanks Karen...
Everything in life is hard, finding your soulmate and working on that relationship is hard, divorce is also hard, being alone is hard
being successful is hard, not having what you've always wished for is hard. We just need to pick wisely and think long term
My day starts with watching one of your videos i haven't seen before and then throttling through life. Grateful for you!
really great relatable video. most videos will string you to the next and without answering key questions, or answering them clear enough. this reminds me of a teacher breaking down something seemingly complicated into smaller easier to comprehend steps that make you think duh I can do anything after learning how obvious this is.
Oh man- my wedding got canceled because of the quarantine and I was relieved as well- looking to plan something very simple for the second go around especially considering the money we lost from planning the first one
I made some steps today to start the process of developing new heirloom tomato varieties. This is likely an 8 year process or so, but I’ll be growing tomatoes anyway, might as well start this experiment. I see myself as a seed saver/protector and developer and new and wonderful heirloom tomato varieties.
GREAT video! Literally living a life of complacency recently. So many dreams/desires but stuck in major what if (not)/procrastination fear loop! Great perspective! Thanks for sharing 🙏🏻
This is my favorite video of yours yet! I was just earlier today reading about some bullet journaling stuff along these lines that you really nicely encapsulated here. Thanks for this man
man your kid would be so lucky to have you for a father
Awesome video! I’m gonna finish watching it later.
I innitially thought of replying with wtf, but realized I was about to do the same thing😦
@@krisellee2606 Hahah true. It was 1am when I was aimlessly browsing youtube instead of sleeping. So the starting minutes of this kicked my butt into realizing I was stupid and should sleep.
Dude I am loving all of these educational videos. That font video was SO good and I feel like you really do your research. Much appreciated!
okay but this channel is something else entirely. i can't stop watching, taking notes, laughing and crying all at the same time bc of how relatable and kind and inspiring you are. you're a genius, man.. thanks so much
I want to go to this coffee shop haha
japan's got you covered
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I've been getting all comfortable since the last 3 months and tbh its completely killing my creativity.
Your videos always hit the spot, thank you Campbell for your efforts!
I don´t think I´ve ever seen anyone creating videos like you do. How you explain everything from your own experience, how you always break it down in specific points/parts/steps, how you always incorporate journaling and motivate us to do the same (cuz it really is on of the best tools seeing your thoughts/feelings in front of you on a piece of paper, and then analyzing them). I am just amazed by your videos. They lift me up, makes me feel motivated and most importatntly they make me feel not alone with these kind of problems. And the fact that with these 10 minutes you literally give us a toolkit for our brain, which is really useful I think. So yeah, basically thank you so so much for being here and sharing your life advices :)
Yooooooooooooooooo... "The cup list" sounds revolutionary. Because the bucket list would be the "ideal" life, but the cup list would be a BETTER life :O
Like holy shit I am making one rn... tnx!
Great videos man!
I am just so grateful for the recommendation made by UA-cam a couple days back! Have watched several of your videos and am incredibly inspired by what I am learning here. Thank you so much.
You are like the older brother everbody needs.Honest and real people are rare these days.
The only thing I’d like to add is: make your bed in the morning (honestly makes or breaks my day, kinda like the one minute rule thing)
I need a bigger cup!!!!
Or am I missing the point ;-)
Yes.
I'll start with a teaspoon.
All the best everbodypeeps.
Just wanna put it out there that your channel gives me hope around these bad times. It's a breath of fresh air watching your videos.
I love how you combine analogies with animation.
And thank you peering into my soul dude.
Advice I would give to my unsuccessful future self: get a ballon :')
Somehow I can see you accidentally saying "I'm not your dad" to your kids once you have them lol
Your videos are so organized, it makes me wanna write all the topics and act like a student. And honestly, I've learnt so much so far. Seriously, this is now my youtube fav.
Please keep producing this fantastic content. Every time I watch there's something else I take away and apply. I have a planning weekend based around your techniques for my personal projects and then am thinking about how I can share this with others in my life who are beginning their life journey. Thank you so much!
No, it's the depression.
This is one of those things you kinda know but could never put words to if someone asked. THANK YOU SO MUCH for such amazing clarity on this! If nothing else out of this vid, I need to make a cup list of all the little things that need to be done before we move at the end of the month.
your videos have been helping me navigate my life for years now thanks!
Yes, please do a breakdown series. Much appreciated Mark, great video!
You are truly amazing at condencing and communicating these types of concepts.
I don’t know how but there have been so many videos suggested for me that relate to my current state of life. I love your videos
your videos are so top tier thank you so much. i was having such a crisis today and this was much needed
thankyou so much for these videos, I cannot tell you how much these put into words and perspective the things and concepts I needed to understand. Ive been fighting this unknown problem in my life for so long, a discontent with where I am and where Im going, that I lost sight of where to even begin- overwhelming myself into a constant state of complacency.
So thankyou for these videos!! you so wonderfully describe and explain these things in a way that makes sense, and ways that I can directly apply them to myself here and now. I'm really grateful for it and I'm feeling excited to actually have a little cup list to work through and get myself started on that spiral haha one baby step at a time.
can i say that just about every time i feel like i need advice, your videos pop up in my feed and it makes my day!
his self-help videos are the only ones i can watch without feeling drained. truly a great guy doing great things.
i'm going through a rough patch for a couple of years and have never given up on myself, until april when i got quite sick and my happy balance fell to hell. So honestly i've been slacking off even when circumstances were a bit stable. Thank you for sharing your learnings, i'm working to implement them gradually and successfully. 💛
I know this is an older video but I just found you a few weeks ago on UA-cam and you have helped me come to terms with so many things in my life. I travel for work and have a hard time being in a new location ever 2 weeks because it makes it very difficult to work on myself when it comes to hobbies or the gym or at home to do lists. But you helped me realize that it's okay to not always rush to get things done. I'm often someone who works myself until I'm sick, relax to recover from sickness, and then rinse and repeat the process. I'm actively sick right now so go figure haha but you are helping me realize I need to change my life and take better care of myself and specifically take care of my mental health. Thank you for the videos and the actual positivity you put in this world. Thank you
You are contributing SO much to other people’s lives man. Including my own.