'When is this nightmare going to end?': Santulli family tells Danny's story

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  • @TKUA11
    @TKUA11 10 місяців тому +42

    This story haunts me and I come back to it every once in a while

    • @Mary-po4ti
      @Mary-po4ti 3 місяці тому

      You can't believe
      Monsters can do this.
      You are a good person and
      You hurt for Danny and his
      BEAUTIFUL family.

  • @samantharossiter8808
    @samantharossiter8808 Рік тому +39

    I’m a brain injury nurse in the uk and work in a unit where we see acquired brain injury all the time through drugs and alcohol - these patients need round the clock care in the form of medications and feed through a peg - risk of seizures and limb contractures - bed sores and chest infections well as double incontinence!!!!!! I don’t think this young man will get any better; he has no life and will continue to deteriorate!!!!! They bought him back but the “quality” of his life is so poor I don’t think he would want to live like that!!!!!

    • @Ettibridget
      @Ettibridget 10 місяців тому +1

      Like the dutch prince Johan Friso, right?

    • @sharadmohip6536
      @sharadmohip6536 5 місяців тому +1

      We won’t hypoxic brain injury , doesn’t really get better

    • @samantharossiter8808
      @samantharossiter8808 4 місяці тому +1

      @@sharadmohip6536 no it’s progressive - as my previous post said - all the complications that come with it - they love him I know that but sometimes the greatest gift of love is letting them go

    • @TinaRN
      @TinaRN 2 місяці тому

      @@samantharossiter8808there are much worse things than death 😢
      God bless and thank you, my fellow nurse. ♥️

    • @bmcanulla
      @bmcanulla 2 місяці тому

      All life has inherent value and it is not up to us to terminate life before its natural end. This was his fate. If you’re a student of science, then you must believe that methods of care and tech will progress to a better level where his quality of life can improve in the 21st Century. His life is no less valuable because he is disabled.

  • @kelseymathias3881
    @kelseymathias3881 Рік тому +46

    Every high school senior and their parents should watch this video...and Danny wasn't even the first to be hazed to death, or nearly so.

  • @jodeehorst8469
    @jodeehorst8469 Рік тому +25

    Praying for a miracle for Danny. I’m so sad that this happened, I will keep him in my prayers. 🙏🙏

  • @icedwidow
    @icedwidow Рік тому +10

    The first thing I think about when it comes to a frat is hazing, abuse, and general awful things. I think this is portrayed enough in the media to understand that this could happen. I would never let my child anywhere near a fraternity or sorority.

  • @samairaabdo9789
    @samairaabdo9789 Рік тому +15

    I’m so sorry Danny 💔💔💔 Happy Birthday

  • @josephbariteau1225
    @josephbariteau1225 Рік тому +2

    Everytime I think of his name I cry because he was about to have a good life just like his older siblings. And although he maybe unable to walk, talk, or see, it doesn't mean all hope is lost within his family because miracles do happen.

  • @leah6820-y9v
    @leah6820-y9v Рік тому +16

    This was completely preventable. And absolutely disgusting.

    • @Mary-po4ti
      @Mary-po4ti 3 місяці тому +1

      Well said.
      Agree with you 💯

  • @jodeehorst8469
    @jodeehorst8469 Рік тому +16

    What’s the purpose of fraternities? It seems like it’s just for partying & drinking excessively!

    • @Mary-po4ti
      @Mary-po4ti 3 місяці тому +2

      Well said.
      It's all rubbish.
      And these are supposed
      To be intelligent people.

  • @Ettibridget
    @Ettibridget Рік тому +6

    3.50 "I just wish he could see me".
    Oh my goodness. Had Danny ONLY went blind ...

  • @karlb7059
    @karlb7059 3 місяці тому

    I look back on my days as a freshman at university and realize how stupid we all were for drinking so much. Nobody should put their body through that. Wish the best for this kid and his family.

  • @Randomhumaan
    @Randomhumaan 3 місяці тому

    I was in the ER one time with a BAC of .480. A little higher than Danny’s. Fortunately, I was taken to the ER in time. Alcohol is so dangerous when consumed in large amounts. Early treatment is what saves lives. I wish Danny could have been as fortunate as I was.

  • @williamwilson7099
    @williamwilson7099 Рік тому +2

    Saddest story ever,xouldnt imagine
    Seen them on doc Phil

  • @Dash120z
    @Dash120z 2 роки тому +12

    something similar happened to me in early 2020 when I went to a nightclub with a friend who then left me alone and I couldn't stop drinking and then collapsed dead on the floor, next thing I know I'm in a hospital bed with no visible bruises or physical injuries but with a breathing mask on my face, I'm just lucky to be alive.

    • @NopeSecret
      @NopeSecret Рік тому +1

      Lol

    • @AtonalApple
      @AtonalApple Рік тому +2

      How is that similar at all? And what do you mean you couldn’t stop drinking? Someone was forcing you?

    • @AymiJ0
      @AymiJ0 7 місяців тому +4

      Sorry, I'm just trying to understand
      how..
      Going clubbing with a friend-who you apparently failed to inform was expected to babysit you, to protect you from?
      The bartender??
      So due to this friend's act of horrible gross negligence when leaving you, an adult, "alone" with yourself, in a nightclub.. you "couldn't stop drinking" to the point of blacking out..
      & to you, that is somehow a similar experience to the tragic loss of this young man's life?

  • @allisonlew4508
    @allisonlew4508 Рік тому +6

    Why is hazing allowed?

    • @arthurgearheard4701
      @arthurgearheard4701 7 місяців тому

      Frats think that their members must go through hell if they want to join badly enough!

  • @Mary-po4ti
    @Mary-po4ti 3 місяці тому +1

    Those creeps who done
    That to Danny are psychopaths.
    So sorry for danny and his family.

  • @EmperorOfTheScrubs
    @EmperorOfTheScrubs 5 місяців тому +1

    Mizzou has taken my sight
    Taken my speech
    Taken my hearing
    Taken my arms
    Taken my legs
    Taken my soul
    Left me with life in hell

  • @lauren9004
    @lauren9004 Рік тому +5

    Poor guy

  • @sewlady33
    @sewlady33 3 місяці тому

    Of all the students involved in this travesty, WHY is there only ONE person who got ANY jail time at all??? This is totally disgusting. Every one of them should be required to visit Danny at least once a year for the next 10 years and see what they caused.

    • @MaxLujan
      @MaxLujan 3 місяці тому

      color of their skin basically

    • @Mary-po4ti
      @Mary-po4ti 3 місяці тому

      Well said.
      Agree with you 💯

  • @beyondthefilms6302
    @beyondthefilms6302 6 місяців тому +2

    It's sad, he's young. But honestly it was his discussion as well. I'm close to his age, i wouldn't have want to be part of those frats. Actions have consciences, my parents taught me that. He doesn't deserve it, not saying that at all, but he had the power to say no. God bless him tho.

    • @Mrs.Currie
      @Mrs.Currie 3 місяці тому

      Agreed... the boys who initiated the hazing were irresponsible (to say the least), and the boys who participated did so of their own free will... just a bunch of bad choices all around. Tragic.

    • @Mary-po4ti
      @Mary-po4ti 3 місяці тому +1

      Unfortunately some
      Youngsters have low
      Self esteem.
      It's sò sad....

  • @kyle6838
    @kyle6838 Рік тому +7

    Demonic bloodlines he had no business around those demons

  • @PrincessofPower84
    @PrincessofPower84 2 місяці тому

    Hazing is so disgusting. A student at my old college died from hazing where he was forced to drink *sewer water.* I admit to being unpopular and whatever, but I'll never get to the point of being subjected to THIS. Poor guy.

  • @kyokomashimoto8584
    @kyokomashimoto8584 Рік тому +2

    Poor angel😢
    😢😢😢

  • @mirG
    @mirG Рік тому +4

    very sad

  • @martylynchian8628
    @martylynchian8628 2 роки тому +9

    Is this a fraternity or Abu Ghraib?

  • @dwal71461
    @dwal71461 Рік тому +7

    Also can be the drop on his head to the ground brain injury

    • @Mary-po4ti
      @Mary-po4ti 3 місяці тому

      Morons.
      They finished him
      Off with dropping him.
      They should of called
      An ambulance 🚑

  • @arthurgearheard4701
    @arthurgearheard4701 6 місяців тому +1

    WHY DON'T THESE FELLAS LEAVE THE FRAT IF THEIR SAFETY IS BEING THREATENED?

    • @Mrs.Currie
      @Mrs.Currie 3 місяці тому

      I guess it was a bad mix of peer pressure, and impressionable kids who succumb to pressure.

  • @martylynchian8628
    @martylynchian8628 2 роки тому +14

    Did the Frat at least accept him after destroying his life?

    • @kennaluvschu
      @kennaluvschu 2 роки тому +25

      they all lawyered up & had nothing to do with danny as soon as his parents got involved. they ruined his life & im sure they all portray it differently.

    • @jadeanis3794
      @jadeanis3794 Рік тому +5

      They revoked the fraternity in that university

    • @martylynchian8628
      @martylynchian8628 6 місяців тому

      @traybern Brutal

    • @kennaluvschu
      @kennaluvschu 6 місяців тому

      @traybern its been a year you dweeb. stop replying to everyone

    • @emilyhill8598
      @emilyhill8598 6 місяців тому

      @traybernwhat a sick way to think.

  • @lisaerickson6533
    @lisaerickson6533 Рік тому +8

    This is tragic for everyone involved, BUT where is the mention of personal responsibility?

  • @JB-yw9zw
    @JB-yw9zw Рік тому +7

    good looking kid. terrible stuff man

  • @wawaipum
    @wawaipum 6 місяців тому

    😢😢😢😢 Prayers 🥲🥲🥲🥲

  • @lisaerickson6533
    @lisaerickson6533 6 місяців тому

    I'm curious as to what caused his brain injury, the toxic level of alcohol or being dropped on his head??

  • @Hair_guy
    @Hair_guy 11 місяців тому

    And this is why alcohol is the worst poison of them all. Also, I’m not surprised that a bunch of kids didn’t call 911 first thing they’re young probably stupid drunk as well. Thinking that he’ll just sleep it off and I’ll wake up better.

  • @joy9073
    @joy9073 3 місяці тому

    Drunk people don't have common sense.
    The journalist said "no one knows how much time have passed", the time is right there, on the top left of the screen.
    It is very unfortunate for what happened to Danny, but I don't think anyone is to blame, they didn't force him to drink.

  • @cherylbanks7642
    @cherylbanks7642 2 роки тому +3

    Watching now on Dr Phil

  • @k.p3621
    @k.p3621 3 місяці тому

    So, his brother and sister went to that school. Well, at least they had two children with common sense.

  • @DonaldBiden2
    @DonaldBiden2 4 місяці тому

    What ? Hazing makes them more of a man?? Omg...this is insane!! Poor familly...

  • @Ettibridget
    @Ettibridget Рік тому +7

    I mean no disrespect to anyone, but could these accidents have something to do with the american alcohol policy (alcohol consuming not permitted until 21)?
    In my country, kids at twelve-thirteen sometimes drink alcohol and occasionally get drunk. Not that it's okay or acceptable, but at least it keeps these accidents from happening. I have never heard of such hazing accidents elsewhere than the US.

    • @bigboineptune9567
      @bigboineptune9567 Рік тому

      Fraternities are kinda like drug cartels, they’re organizations dedicated to providing an illegal product. If we lower the drinking age to 18, we can end this.

    • @gmansard641
      @gmansard641 Рік тому +3

      I very much agree. A few years ago there was such a death at my old university (where I was 40 years ago). In those days we could drink at 18, and while many people over-indulged, I don't remember anything as extreme as this. It was in the late 1980s that the age went to 21 nationwide.
      Drinking was nothing serious in my family. I can't remember when I first drank alcohol, I must have been 6 or 7. Very little, it was perhaps twice a year, but it was no big deal. I did over-indulge at my sister's wedding when I was 13. The result was that alcohol held no allure for me. When I got to university my drinking was quite moderate, which it remains today.
      American puritanism makes people think that they can control something by making laws against it. They approach so many things like that. . . don't teach about sex and teenage kids won't get pregnant, ban abortion and it will go away. Moderation is something so many Americans can't grasp.

  • @EmperorOfTheScrubs
    @EmperorOfTheScrubs 5 місяців тому

    He wanted his life to be like a rock song

  • @kyokomashimoto8584
    @kyokomashimoto8584 Рік тому

    😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢💔

  • @lukewarme9121
    @lukewarme9121 2 роки тому +18

    Good Lord, at what age are people considered adults and responsible for their own actions?

    • @lukewarme9121
      @lukewarme9121 2 роки тому

      @Dee Santer
      They can’t legally drink. They can’t legally smoke, or chew. But, they’re allowed to VOTE. Liberal logic for political control of the country.

    • @sp123
      @sp123 2 роки тому +17

      Kids want to fit in, peer pressure is real. He didn't decide to drink on his own

    • @gemsbyjackie5479
      @gemsbyjackie5479 2 роки тому +9

      I understand your point. But i believe it gets criminal when they left him alone.

    • @lukewarme9121
      @lukewarme9121 2 роки тому +2

      @@sp123
      So you’re saying this “kid” is NOT a legal adult? Should “kids” be allowed to vote?

    • @lukewarme9121
      @lukewarme9121 2 роки тому +1

      @@gemsbyjackie5479
      So believing that somebody is “passed-out” from alcohol is criminal in your world? God help us.

  • @Glowbabe_Era
    @Glowbabe_Era 3 місяці тому

    I don't know why they still do that crap in America etc frat crap

  • @EmperorOfTheScrubs
    @EmperorOfTheScrubs 5 місяців тому

    Natural selection

  • @destinomura6193
    @destinomura6193 2 роки тому +7

    Sad but it's his own damn fault

  • @natsusatsujinki8342
    @natsusatsujinki8342 2 роки тому +9

    1. Know YOUR PERSONAL limits. It's not anyone's fault but his own for drinking that much.
    2. Parents teach your child the acceptable dos and don'ts. My parents told me never accept unopened drinks. Never leave my drink unattended. Take it to the restroom if need be.
    3. Dude should have been a leader instead of a follower.

    • @kennaluvschu
      @kennaluvschu 2 роки тому +35

      do not be tone deaf. the older members of the frat forced the newbies into it by making threats & blackmailing them. they made up false criteria & lied to their new house members- lets also not forget how after danny was passed out, these house “leaders” made the decision to pick him up & continuously dropped him on his head as if it was funny. how are they going to fumble his body around like a rag doll & not even call for campus aid? its not just his fault.

    • @natsusatsujinki8342
      @natsusatsujinki8342 2 роки тому +1

      @@kennaluvschu it was kinda funny 😂

    • @alexg5107
      @alexg5107 2 роки тому +11

      Man grow up and learn some empathy.

    • @ryanjessen9181
      @ryanjessen9181 2 роки тому +3

      @@natsusatsujinki8342 due why are you laughing about how they did Danny it is not funny your insensitive you said it was Danny fault that he did drink that much dont put the blame on Danny thats not his fault dont blame him dont put the blame on him blame those other guys who made him drink that vodka and they also made him drink beer too you don't have no sensitivity

    • @ryanjessen9181
      @ryanjessen9181 2 роки тому

      @@natsusatsujinki8342 you a punk you know that right you know that right you a punk

  • @clairecummins3172
    @clairecummins3172 Рік тому

    WP problems! few blacks make it to college