What are some other friendship dilemmas you guys have faced? Share with us in the comments! And if you have any confession stories to share, feel free to send them here: bit.ly/ZULAAnswers
The last question you guys didn’t really focus on the fact that they have GIRLFRIENDS. Do their girlfriends know what their boyfriends are doing? If no then it’s considered cheating! And obviously they are in denial of their sexual orientation.
honestly they might be bicurios but doing this while still having a relationship with a person is so wrong..... even I'm gay and feel bad for their gf ngl
Last one is real. There are guys who do that. And I say f em! I hope they get their comeuponce. They want to be validated but the truth is they hurt their "girlfriends" and "wives" with their secret. It is cheating, it is infedility. Unless they are honest about it to the women they supposedly love and the women accept it wholeheartedly, IT IS NOT OK. Cheaters and liars.
I would like to present an alternative for the first case of 'princess illness', from personal experience. It could be that the person may have some family commitment that he/she is unwilling to share and the simple 'bo jio' can be his/her cry for help. Like having to take care of someone full time, or even something like having a 'Tiger Mom' who demanded absolute control and making him/her stay at home. So lets not be too quick to judge such people, because they may well be someone who needs help the most
Just came from other tsl episodes where bolin has his ah beng persona and can I just say I really like how he articulates his opinions here? So different I love it keep it up! am really impressed with these eps with Brenda (& the ones with Fauzi too!)
As a representative of the queer community, I can sense the sussyness from the last confession and is too confused about how their relationship works. 👁️👄👁️💧
Wah.. so long no see Bolin, his English is so powderful now and he seems so man and mature in this video lei..😁. He is behaving so differently with Brenda as compared to when he was with Sew, why ah😅😂🤣? Welcome back Bolin, always love seeing you💗🥰.
With Sew, both like close friends/bros. Can sohai together mah. Of course, not bro until jerk each other off but ya, I think they bros so sohai. With Brenda, just bringing different side of himself out.
Bolin, i love your reactions it is AWESOME. And your advises are so real. Brenda, you are so pretty! And i love you! I love watching interactions between you two. Keep up the videos!
I'm actually a bit skeptical about some of these so-called "confessions". I hope people dont simply believe whatever they hear on the internet. I've personally seen similar "confessions" simply made up by people and sensationalised by editors for interesting content, thus making it seem more "common" than it really is. Social media can be dangerous in that way peeps, stay safe.
For the first qn I used to have someone who was like this always want meetups to be on Fridays and if it is ever on Saturdays this person will never reply and always complain why we never jio. Hmmmm
Aiya! Break up with your girlfriends first lah. It's not about if you guys are gay, straight or bi. It's about you guys engage in sexual conduct while having girlfriends. That's cheating!
Have to say this. Brenda look different from this video to other videos. Is it that she put on more makeup or what that make her look more Chio on this video 🤔🤔🤔
That last one is more common than people think. A lot of “straight” people are actually bi or bi-curious (or have those tendencies), and most of the time they are just in denial cos it’s easier.
This happens a lot in china. My husband and his friends would do this a lot. It’s actually pretty common but many people just don’t talk about it lol because it sounds gay lol
Omg your reaction to the last and bonus confession is…. not very nice to some extend . Even though you are all straight I guess, the way you read the confession and your facial expression is very offensive to the LBGTQ+ community. I get it not everyone is interested in same sex behavior off course, but to show how disgusted you feel isn’t a good way to react in the public. I see why same sex behavior is still illegal in Singapore and there’s still no room for LGBTQ+ in the society. The conservative and discriminative attitude and mindset toward the gay community is still extremely deep rooted in SG peoples mind and that is just…. Not okay. Be more liberal and progressive man…. Aiyo…. So bad la
Maybe Because they both have girlfriends and they are performing sexual acts with each other ? Nothing about being homophobic but rather being downright unfaithful with their significant others
I don't think it is about being homophobic. What they did was completely cheating. It is morally wrong and absolutely disgusting from that aspect. Plus they did mention that they are both straight. It is wrong (straight or otherwise) You just don't do these things behind your partners back UNLESS y'all have open relationships and are fine having multiple sexual partners.
What are some other friendship dilemmas you guys have faced? Share with us in the comments! And if you have any confession stories to share, feel free to send them here: bit.ly/ZULAAnswers
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I love how they handled the last question. They got shooketh, but they gave their answers well. Good job guys.
The last question you guys didn’t really focus on the fact that they have GIRLFRIENDS. Do their girlfriends know what their boyfriends are doing? If no then it’s considered cheating! And obviously they are in denial of their sexual orientation.
honestly they might be bicurios but doing this while still having a relationship with a person is so wrong..... even I'm gay and feel bad for their gf ngl
@@thomasyoong3525 mad respect to u
Bruh nus confessions is a troll cesspool.. are you really that gullible to believe the post
@@Nerdywr Are you that gullible to the fact that there are people who do that? 😂
@@accountantthe3394 Imagine not thinking that it might be true for other people.
I never realised how intelligent Bolin is until now. A lot of those thoughts were deep, but impressive.
Love how B&B discussed and handled such topics.
The first experience is literally so relatable to so many people haha
agree +1
You dont know how long I’ve waited for new episodes of ZULA answers
I wish the ZULA confessions were longer, they're always so good and I love watching their reactions and advice 💕💕💕
Last one is real. There are guys who do that. And I say f em! I hope they get their comeuponce.
They want to be validated but the truth is they hurt their "girlfriends" and "wives" with their secret. It is cheating, it is infedility. Unless they are honest about it to the women they supposedly love and the women accept it wholeheartedly, IT IS NOT OK. Cheaters and liars.
Yes if they are monogamous that should be and is considered cheating. Them bi or not.
Brokeback mountain 🤣
I would like to present an alternative for the first case of 'princess illness', from personal experience. It could be that the person may have some family commitment that he/she is unwilling to share and the simple 'bo jio' can be his/her cry for help. Like having to take care of someone full time, or even something like having a 'Tiger Mom' who demanded absolute control and making him/her stay at home. So lets not be too quick to judge such people, because they may well be someone who needs help the most
yes, did yall try to dm her when she doesn't reply, show some care before getting annoyed by her. princess herself (may be) feeling worse about it.
Just came from other tsl episodes where bolin has his ah beng persona and can I just say I really like how he articulates his opinions here? So different I love it keep it up! am really impressed with these eps with Brenda (& the ones with Fauzi too!)
As a representative of the queer community, I can sense the sussyness from the last confession and is too confused about how their relationship works. 👁️👄👁️💧
its Homiesexual
They're not gay because they don't like guys; They only like 1 guy
@@niBBunn that’s just pansexual
Bolin is so funny hahahah his expression. glad hes back on the show!
I miss this pair! This should be a weekly vid thingy.
Wah.. so long no see Bolin, his English is so powderful now and he seems so man and mature in this video lei..😁. He is behaving so differently with Brenda as compared to when he was with Sew, why ah😅😂🤣? Welcome back Bolin, always love seeing you💗🥰.
With Sew, both like close friends/bros. Can sohai together mah. Of course, not bro until jerk each other off but ya, I think they bros so sohai. With Brenda, just bringing different side of himself out.
I really love this seriesss, please continueee thisss. Sending lots of loveee!
Brenda & Bolin - Can imagine them calling each other B😂
Imagine Bolin just cannot tahan anymore and lunged forward to kiss Brenda. "The BB Reality squid show"
@@mackovo6 that’s super creepy
I love to see Brenda and Bolin in ZULA Answers ~
Human! I learnt this from a video. 朋友希望你过得好, 可是不希望你过得比他好. I personally have not encounter a friend truly wish you well and better.
Bolin, i love your reactions it is AWESOME. And your advises are so real. Brenda, you are so pretty! And i love you! I love watching interactions between you two. Keep up the videos!
This duo have some chemistry
Bolin is actually so wise. Enjoyed hearing both their views outside of the “fun videos”
Brenda & Bolin combination is really good! Brenda looks kinda cute btww :)
She's from my secondary sch lol
Very unique friendship
Wow Ray mak everywhere lah 😂
Why the fuck are you here
wow you're here too
16:10 that look of genuine worry in Bolin's eyes
5:50 Maybe can warn her something like: "Don't say we _bojio_ ah" &/or hint to her e.g. "Haven't seen you for quite long"
People don't realise how common that last situation is 👀
Hi Zula, i am wondering if i can submit to the URL form as i just stumbled upon this videos
I'm actually a bit skeptical about some of these so-called "confessions". I hope people dont simply believe whatever they hear on the internet. I've personally seen similar "confessions" simply made up by people and sensationalised by editors for interesting content, thus making it seem more "common" than it really is. Social media can be dangerous in that way peeps, stay safe.
16:30 I was drinking water and I almost either spat it out through my mouth or snorted it out of my nose. Thank God I made through this alive...
The bonus confession 😂 😂😂
Last one is def a troll la XD
Brenda reaction in the intro 😂 🤣
This video ends too soon :( Keep it up guys!
Please make this segment into podcast on spotify so i can listen to it while working instead of opening the video
Hello, we are on Spotify! open.spotify.com/show/7xhKczyclbj9T82Eaac5DZ?si=82e2d95c93224100
THANKSS!! I didnt know u guys are on spotify.
i like bolin's analysis! gained more respect for him
Great, thanks to share
My Brain: Cue "I'm not okay" My Chem.
Yes ..something you ask your friends out in the chat group if never mentions their name they won’t reply. 😂😂
why does the form require an email add? i don't want to put mine in.
BOLIN IS BACK !!! :D
Enough is enough please set them up on a date asap
13:10 how to tell a fake friend
Bahahaha I can affirm that half of the time it's exaggerated or even fake 😂
For the first qn I used to have someone who was like this always want meetups to be on Fridays and if it is ever on Saturdays this person will never reply and always complain why we never jio. Hmmmm
Man, I'd really like to join this show just to read out confessions and give advice as well.
liking the pseudo fu manchu stache bolin rocking
Ahahaha this was a great episode
Feel like the last qn a bit trolling hahaha
is it possible for me to share screenshots in the submission form because idw to share the issue in my pov in a sense? bc i may get subjective>
Aiya! Break up with your girlfriends first lah. It's not about if you guys are gay, straight or bi. It's about you guys engage in sexual conduct while having girlfriends. That's cheating!
Have to say this. Brenda look different from this video to other videos. Is it that she put on more makeup or what that make her look more Chio on this video 🤔🤔🤔
my lord the thumnail caught me offguard hahahahhaa
i think when they say whatsappp status they meant the one that acts like an ig story, right?
That last one is more common than people think. A lot of “straight” people are actually bi or bi-curious (or have those tendencies), and most of the time they are just in denial cos it’s easier.
I wan more relationships/dating advice😩 let me drown in my hopeless romance
The guy looks like Irene Ang
The last one sounds like a troll 🤔
This happens a lot in china. My husband and his friends would do this a lot. It’s actually pretty common but many people just don’t talk about it lol because it sounds gay lol
What happened to Bolin's eyes?
is it just me , or is no one else disturbed by bolin's facial hair ..
Wow bolin is really on point sia….. Hahahah
Brenda have the dewy choo accent HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAH
Huh u tripping sia sis I think u just watch too much dewy and think every female sound like her Lol
@@lolzspadechen811 uh why r u hurt sis?
@@nurelinaxx4144 I am not hurt but Dewy is tho:’(
@@lolzspadechen811 thanks for the concern😋
Sexuality is about attraction, not action ;)
The last one is trolling ?
Brenda ❤️
But did they say #nohomo?
wear socks.
lol i dont celebrate any peoples success gg i have no friends liao. Even though I try to help them succeed, but I am not their true friend sadge
That girl speaks to fast lmao I have to pause and read the subtitles
Bolin are getting cute 🤭😅
bolin i think you look better shaved
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bolin put on some weight after a break eh haha
Dude needs a shaver
cut here cut there dont even know what you all talking
Omg your reaction to the last and bonus confession is…. not very nice to some extend . Even though you are all straight I guess, the way you read the confession and your facial expression is very offensive to the LBGTQ+ community. I get it not everyone is interested in same sex behavior off course, but to show how disgusted you feel isn’t a good way to react in the public. I see why same sex behavior is still illegal in Singapore and there’s still no room for LGBTQ+ in the society. The conservative and discriminative attitude and mindset toward the gay community is still extremely deep rooted in SG peoples mind and that is just…. Not okay. Be more liberal and progressive man…. Aiyo…. So bad la
Maybe Because they both have girlfriends and they are performing sexual acts with each other ? Nothing about being homophobic but rather being downright unfaithful with their significant others
I don't think it is about being homophobic. What they did was completely cheating. It is morally wrong and absolutely disgusting from that aspect. Plus they did mention that they are both straight. It is wrong (straight or otherwise) You just don't do these things behind your partners back UNLESS y'all have open relationships and are fine having multiple sexual partners.
guys chill they just homiesexual😎
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