You seem so much happier. You also seem to speak more Korean to your girls which is amazing. I had been wondering if they still were fluent. Best wishes
I remember when marwa met the lillys family in Diani Kenya arguing about Kenyan american korean kids but James dismissed that their kids are Americans. Awkward moment for James now and then.
한국사람이 이혼을 결정하기까지 얼마나 고민을 많이 했을까,아이들양육은 어떻게 잟해야되지? 다시 독립을 해야되는데, 잘 헤쳐나갈수 있을까? 이모든걸 감수하고 이혼이란 결론을 내린이유는 충분히 알수있고 이해갑니다.힘내시고 한국에 있는 부모님 걱정안되게씩씩하게 잘 살아내주세요.힘내고 사랑합니다 .한국에 오시면 연락주세요 ,맛있는 식사라도 대접할게요~~그리고 악플 신경쓰지마세요.아무리잘해도 억울한 상황도 많이생길수도있고 ..오픈되다보니 그런악플들 감수하셔야해요,릴리님이랑 상관없다 생각하고 힘들땐 내가 힘들구나 그렇게 생각하고 인정하고.. 잘 해쳐나갈겁니다.화이팅
오오오 다음 브이로그 기다리고 있었어요!! 언니 그래도 조금 표정 밝아보여서 제가 기분이 좋아요ㅎㅎ 유리 다솜이 다 예쁘고 건강하게 자신의 자리에서 최선을 다하고 있네요:) 어쩌면 나중에 유리를 올림픽에서 볼 수 있겠는걸요!? 정말 항상 응원하고 있어요😆 계속 좋은 영상 많이 올려주세요!! 바로바로 보러 오겠습니당😉
@aaa bbb Why you assuming that James had cheated on Lily? Maybe They couldn't get along or possibly James got homesick & wanted to go home to His Country of Afrika!
@@찹쌀떡-l4s lol tell me WHICH 5 YEARS OLD KID ever said "mom i want to dance, do gymnastics and study spanish until 10pm" Hhahahahahaha child labor as it best
@@arncoo63 Africa isn’t a country it’s a continent and plus they even mentioned that he came from Kenya and obviously the country is located in Africa but Africa isn’t a country it’s like your saying that Europe an entire continent is one country thats just dumb and ignorant
Hi Lily, Love the Honesty you display in your videos, always have. While on the subject of Honesty, Im just finding out about you and James getting divorced, sooo sorry you're having to deal with these life issues, sending ALL OF YOU Tons of Prayers & will watch more frequently in support. The girls have grown so much, I think last videos I saw of yours was around the time of the passing of your father, which I was really able to relate to having lost both my parents myself 11 months apart back in 2007. You are A Strong Young Beautiful Soul, I feel these experiences will definitely only make you a Better Human Being in the long run, plus your Beautiful Daughters have Loving Role Models and will benefit from your strengths and Can Do attitudes. I Only Wish You All The Best Life Has To Offer, I look forward to your next video! Thank you for sharing and God Bless You All!
05:14 릴리님의 큰 사랑, 여기 눈물 버튼이네요 ㅜㅜ... 저도 두 아이의 엄마이지만 늘 항상 릴리님의 태도에 동기 부여를 받는답니다. 다솜이와 유리 정말 잘 하네요, 아이들이 잘 하는걸 발견해서 서포트 해주시고 믿어주시고 전적으로 사랑해주는 릴리님~ 릴리님의 모성애에서 진짜 한국인의 긍지와 자긍심이 저까지 막 느껴져요 ㅠㅠ 유리~~다솜이~~릴리님 모두 화이팅!!
I am a divorced man and I fully understand what you mean by you weren't compatible. I got married at a young age 19 because I found myself with 2 daughters by age 19. I had to grow up to do the right thing. As I grew older to become the man I would be today my ex wife grew up to become the woman she is today. This means we grew apart because we are different people as adults than when we met as kids. I divorced 2006. My kids are all adults now and I am happy I made the decision to divorce. It didn't stop me from being a father to my children. I moved less than a mile away and was just as active in their lives after the divorce. Stay strong.
I just thought, it sounded like they grew apart. Then read your comment. That is a very insightful viewpoint because you went through it. It's encouraging because it means it can still work out for them to be a family, just a bit different.
Nice to read about your experience. You got any words of advice for young unmarried guys who are scared of divorce? (I don't know whether I asked this question right but I hope you understand my point of view)
한동안 영상속의 릴리님의 모습이..무거운 돌덩이를 힘겹게 계속 들고 있고.. 그게 너무 무겁지만 내려놓지 못하는 모습이었다면 이혼발표후의 모습은 그 무거운 돌덩이를 내려놓고 한결 가벼워하는 모습이예요.(예전보다 더 좋아보여요) 지금은 분명 힘든 시기이겠지만..릴리님과 너무너무 예쁜 유리.다솜이 다 너무 잘 이겨내고 있는듯해서 감사해요! 영상 광고 앞.뒤.중간 다!!! 안끊고 끝~~~~까지 다 보면서 완전 완전 화이팅! 응원해요..ㅎㅎ
제임스가 커튼을 가져가버려서 보이는 창문으로 밝게 빛이 들어오네요 감히 단편만보는 구독자들이 어찌 다 알겠어요 큰일을 이겨내고 계시지만 언니가 강해서 유리랑 다솜이, 또 제가 구독하는 이유인 언니를 계속 볼 수 있다는것 만으로도 감사해요 타국에서 아이둘을 케어하며 힘드신일 분명 많으시겠지만 마지막 모습처럼 앞으로 언니가 더 밝게 웃고 행복한 날들이 많아지길 조심히 기도합니다 항상 응원해요 릴리 화이팅💖
Can i just say how much we appreciate your rawness and authenticity.. it takes an incredibly strong person to be open about the recent changes in your life. Sending hugs to you and the girls!!!
I have am in that situation too, seeing myself back as a single man yet with children. I don’t like it when people pick sides when something like that happens but they do, especially since it take two to marry and two to destroy a relationship. The best thing you said is for people to pray for both parties because both have to be healed and restored to find themselves again. Not to mention that the kids need that too. Life is a journey that is filled with ups and downs for everyone and the degrees of it varies. No one escapes these things, the best weapon we have in standing firm through it all is to know that the one who holds the universe understands what we go through, joy and pain. Therefore we can choose to stand and move forward, yes life hurts, yes life is not easy, but we can move on from joy to joy too. Focus on what is true in your heart and what brings you joy. Love seeing your posts. You and James can and will get stronger in this.💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
the breakdown of a marriage is devastating to children. married people should put God first. I know how it hurts. even if they are divorced, they should all strive to show love to their children. the father should take his place as the father or the children will be hurt later. I went through that.
just wanted to stop in and say - no matter what - you need to be healthy and happy too - your happiness matters too (not just for the girls or James). You need to set an example of how you value yourself to your daughters too. It's a confusing time for any child to have their parents separate - but if both parents are willing to be mature and put the kids needs first; you guys will all be ok. But never think that putting your happiness and mental/emotional well being last is the answer. The internet can be a terrible place; but know so many people out here who are not as loud nor vocal are rooting for you and the entire family to be happier and healthier in 2022. Keep your chin up~ Fighting~
@aaa bbb u keep leaving the same comment everywhere, how was she promoting to the world? So every couple on instagram and you tube are promoting their man or woman to the world? You need to sit down, take a big breath and relax coz your head is not right darling not right at all
People change over time sometimes not together that's life you grow so be happy you understood being parents doesn't always means being together. I'm proud of you both you understood that in order to be better people and parents you had to do it separately, trust it's better for everyone especially the girls. Always wishing you the best.
@@Underratedcommentator @kuehsalak yea , I was thinking lol what blessing was in disguise? but nothing wrong with a single mother but choice to do it and get a divorce because ur not working out I don't think that's ok . I think they should be working it out it takes time and its not easy I think divorce is just a easy way to just give up if there's no actual reasoning when u can work it out.i also don't like when she said she will cut James out of the video if its for the girls then should be able to see the memories with their father as well. God bless them both and their children I do wish them the best I hope they can seek truth
오랫 구독자요. 악성댓글 절대 무시하세요. 각자의 삶이 있는거죠! 어느 누군가가 내 자신의 삶을 함부로 판단할 순 없는거잖아요. 마냥 응원합니다♡ 그리고.. 아이들 짐네스틱, 댄스하면서 느껴지는 뿜뿜 자신감이 참 부럽네요. 릴리님의 적극적인 지지도요. 중학생딸은 제 잔소리에.. 수학, 과학, 영어 다니느라 우울..바뻐서 괜히 미안해집니다.
@@malenomadiclion2030 Thank you! I'm not a great parent like Lily, but I'm doing my best too! My UA-cam has English subtitles, so please watch it if you like😊
Lilly, as a black mother of biracial girls I really admire and support your confidence, faith and strength in your daughters. It’s so wonderful to see them grow into confident girls with feelings that they can do anything they want to get ahead in life. Their involvement in activities come at a crucial time in their lives with the effects of your divorce. You have been celebrating your daughters talents and beauty way before you got divorced. I remember the time you introduced them to famous black women and the genuine efforts you put into cultivating self love and celebration of who they are. Thank you for not allowing your relationship with James distract or discourage you from doing what it takes to give your daughters the best opportunity life affords them to be well balanced successful ladies. You show such strength. Thank you for sharing. God Bless you and your family.
Black, biracial, interracial, whatever. I don't know what all these racial oriented qualifications have to do with her mother duties. She could be from any race and be able to that. I don't know why some people like to "racialize" everything. This is a matter of divorce. Mostly in those cases, it's wiser to listen to both sides. Her husband version is that she was cheating on him on several occasions, she was unfaithful to her husband. Even the law allows you to divorce in that case. Comparing to her vague reason of divorce.
@@dske-chopper2809 That wasn't even the point of OP comments. Race is bought up because racism exist and self love is a really problem with people who look black because of said racism. Especially in countries where being black is the minority. And since she isn't black, it is impressive that she is trying to learn black culture and teach her daughter self love without personally experiencing it. And not have her image of black people clouded by her husband which would affect the elf love she is cultivating in her children. And before you go kumbaya and talk about how we all have "human" issues. So? How does talking about black issues invalidate issues of others? It doesn't. Lily is commendable in that aspect. Nothing to do with her divorce but as a mother.
Thought about you & how you & the girls have been coping. Do you plan or want to move back to Korea now that your single? What did your family say when you told them about the divorce? Please tell me that you're (& possibly the girls)are a part of a support group in dealing with this new situation. Again, coming from a divorcee, I know how painful this can be. Some days you'll be UP 😀 then some days you'll be down😭. And that's ok, because it's part of the healing process which is going to take time. And, also because you have to be strong for you & the girls right now. Sending healing hugs & prayers to you three little ladies!🥰🥰*P.S. I just went to his page & saw the video of him at his new job on a boat in Kenya. Um, wtf was he going to school for all the time you all were together, having the family roaming across the U.S. like nomads?? Or if he was home, he was always on his bicycle somewhere, away from the home. When he did that, I always used to think: when does LILY get a break & some time for herself?? Sorry for the rant. But his latest, immature post (since he alleges you're using the girls for views to make money off them)irked my nerves.😡🤬😠
Since Lily doesn’t want us to say bad things about James, I will refrain from doing so, but I agree with you about James acting immature. And it’s not just a recent thing either. He has had some very questionable behavior. Although this divorce made me sad as I’ve been watching this channel for years, I think this was a good decision and I wish Lily and the girls the best and hope James can become a more mature and thoughtful person.
You are not magistrate court you are judging here! You not marriage lawyer on James! There is law that everyman should fullfil their duties!...YOU CARRY YOUR BAD WORDS AGAINST JAMES! LAST TIME LILY SAID I DON'T WANT TO TAKES KIDS FROM THE FATHER LIFE NEITHER CHILDREN FROM THE FATHER LIFES! IF U HAVE NOTHING GOOD JUST KEEP QUEITY.
I agree, I always thought it was odd that he kept moving them around and didn't seem to engage in many domestic duties. He was like a fun neighbor in the videos, instead of dad. I chalked it up to him not wanting to be on camera. Who knows.
You're so mature and kind hearted that you NEVER insult or say any negative things about your children's father! Now that's maturity! Great job mama! They'll both excel in all they do.. with a supportive mama like you, they will!
@aaa bbb Sorry that you are so arrogant to think someone owes you anything. It's none of your business. It's not her duty to do a damn thing. The nerve of you to think so.
Unfortunately the internet can be a cruel place. … Please do not let a few random nobodies steal your joy from you. Best wishes and hope all the best . It make take awhile….lBut you will find your joy again👍🏽💡
It was very bad during their early years when Lily & James were dating, she received lots of hatefully comments from racists upset over her "chocolate boyfriend"- her words, not mine. Thankfully, they largely disappeared over time.
I love hearing you speak to the girls in your 1st language. I know so many 1st generation folks that don't speak the 1st language of their parents since they parents chose not to teach it to them. It's unfortunate; but, also the parents choice. Keep up the great work with your content. Blessings to you and the girls.
안녕하세요 수년간 눈팅으로만 시청했는데 오늘은 댓글 하나만 달게요~ㅎ 아주 현명하신분 같아요^^ 서로에게 맞지 않는 사람이란말..젤 좋은 답변으로 들렸어요 아이들도 있어서 부부가 함께 오래 오래~ 는 다들 생각하고 바라는거죠 그러나 어쩔수없는 선택을 해야하는 시기가 오기도 하는건 막을수가 없는것 같아요 무엇보다도 아직 어려서 상황을 받아들이는 아이들의 마음이 당연히 힘들거라고 생각해요 추억도 기억도 참 많겠지요~ "이땐..그땐 ..이랬었지 " 하면서 또 다른 내일의 멋진꿈을 꾸고 만들어 가시길 응원합니다^^ 시간은 멈춰있는게 아니란거 아시죠~^^
한국인의 모성을 여실이 보여주시는 훌륭한 모습에 찬사를 보냅니다 다솜이와 유리 대단한 실력에 미래 촉망받는 훌륭한 선수로 자랄거라 믿습니다 개인적인 소견 이지만 한국에서 올림픽 국가대표선수로 키워도 좋을듯 합니다 릴리님 편에서 고국에서 항상 응원합니다 늘 밝게 웃는모습 보여주시고 행복한 나날들 되시기바래요~^^
My opinion doesn't count, what I say means nothing...But in case you guys decide to get back or whatever. Here's what I observed and you can do with this information what you want: 1. Lily, sometimes your honesty cuts in the heart. You always speak your truth which is great but in times where your gentleness is required, please express that. Like when James surprised you with the new house...you would have been a bit more considerate with your words and "complaints". Small things like that really cut at someone's confidence and reduce the likelihood of them trying to impress you. Be kinder Lily...kindness expressed through affirmative words can be a game changer for a partner like James. James made the house "overly African" because he wanted to finally feel at home too. I agree he would have asked you and decorated with you. 2. James usually bottles up emotions. He is a poor communicator and when pushed in a corner he let's his "teenage alter ego" take over. He says very MEAN things, careless things and utterly unacceptable things. I don't think he means it...but he's communication is quite poor and he can stand to work on it. Also he has a whole "ego" thing going on and it just makes a bad situation. Act mature James... act grown and take responsibility for your words. 3. Kids are amazing yes. But you guys were always arguing about how to raise them. See a counselor and find middle ground around your parenting. Each of you should stop trying to outdo the other person's culture... you can't win a marriage that way. James simply wanted you to embrace his culture like he has embraced your culture all these 13+ years. Stuff like that makes one feel loved 4. African culture is pretty laid back and chill. We are happy people who don't enjoy pushing too hard(I say politely). We enjoy dancing for fun not to compete. We don't push our kids to be best or learn a gazillion languages and have busy schedules especially at the expense of their childhood and happiness. Korean/Asian culture seem the exact opposite and they are very invested in extra curriculars, competitive activities and being the best. I feel those two ideologies are why you mostly clashed. You both mean well, just learn the art of compromise You guys were amazing. Wishing you well on individual journeys or whatever you decide to do with life. Love you both and appreciate you for the community you created and bringing us along your journey.
Lily, don't cut james out of the Kenyan vlogs. The girls remember their father in that trip. If they see that dad wasn't in the vlogs, they'll start asking questions and you'll have to explain you cut him out. You are very honest with your children, and I don't see you lying to them. It would be disrespect to them and to their father. It'll be like you're erasing him from their memories. They might end up starting to not trust you. Just my advice. My sons father and I are not together. I deleted him from a lot of things. My son was disappointed with me and it made me feel like a bad mom. Whatever memories he has of his father and the three of us together, I no longer try to curve it to suit me. It's damaging for everyone. Just my advice. It's not about you and James. It's about your daughters. Keep the father in the videos.
You honestly don't owe us or anyone an explanation.....none of our business. You, james and your children know what's going on and that's really all that matters at the end of the day!
@aaa bbb No she doesn't need to explain a thing! And as for "warning" others, she never indicated who's at fault in their divorce...YOU have assumed he is the "bad" one...based on??? Could be his, her or both their faults! Who do you think you are that you feel like YOU are deserving of an explanation and to save the world from "PEOPLE LIKE JAMES"...your little sneaky comment says SO much about you.
Lily I can tell your not stressed anymore because you’re face and skin is beautiful no more breakouts and blemishes like before. Unfortunately, divorce does not just take a toll on the parents but also the children but it is also better to split than have them in an unhealthy environment. Just keep reassuring them how much you guys love them and everything will work itself out for the best. I’m a single parent also you can do it, and keep your head up. We are with you in this change, hang in there. Watching from USA 🇺🇸!
Ohh divorce is very easy thing for you guys and you are being pride for single parent that just great.you will marry a guy and just any problem you just divorce and marry another one and that one fails again you divorce and going on.this is not marriage its is prostituion.in india we marry to one person and live until entire life thats marriage.commitment.what stupid culture are you guys following i don't know
I love how you encourage your daughters to have interests and passions outside of academics. Those will probably be their most cherished experiences and may even draw from them throughout life in good and bad times. When I have kids, I’d like to do the same :) really fun vlog. I’m happy to see Yuri and Dasomi doing so well
I’m glad you’re doing well. Something that I learned from having friends with parents who have divorced is that it’s very damaging when parents talk badly about one another to or around their children. I know you’d like to cut out James’ parts in the vlog, but if you can find a way to not just completely get rid of him from your children’s lives that’s very good for them. My friends had their parents talk badly about each other and try to get rid of them from their lives and that was very hard for them because it’s like “you’re saying that about my dad):”. Just something to consider. I hope everyone finds the happiness they deserve
She can cut him out if she wants. The old vlogs are still there to look back at for the kids. And how is he out of their life when they can go see him anytime
This is extremely good advice. It’s very short sighted to think when you say bad things about the other parent to the kids that those kids won’t grow up and figure out the truth for themselves.
I like your comment and perspective. Something I thought of though is that she may be cutting James out also because he may not want her uploading him onto her channel anymore
I feel the same way I pray & hope that she doesn't turned Western on Our Brother James but I'm praying that both of them will work their issues out for the sakes of Their Children
I love you Lilly! 💞 I sensed problems for a while. Me being a man I can read the heart of another male to a degree. That is to say I disagreed with James even before the divorce. But Lilly what you learned about God through your mom is true. Your mom was so much much like my mom and my aunts that I realized she was for real. Now when I was younger I didn't believe a word of their Godly talk. But as I aged I realized I hit the lottery. I'm not talking about religious fanaticism which I hate. I simply advise you to consider what you were taught.💞
I've heard it said that divorce can be as painful even more than a spouse dying because you wouldn't have to see them after the funeral and constantly having to see or interact with an ex just seeing them alone pulls at your emotions. Especially if you still love and care for that person. It's a painful process but with God's help and a great support system you and James can make it through this. It's not an easy thing to grieve for someone who's still alive. Be encouraged, pray much, trust in God, He will see you and your family through. 🙏🙏
제임스 영상보니 잘 지내고 있더군요(좀 화도 났지만) 저는 릴리님이 걱정되었는데~ 밝은 모습으로 잘 지내려 노력하고 계시니 안심되네요 괜찮은 날도 있고 또 힘든 날도 있을꺼에요 그러다보면 극복해지고 무뎌지겠죠 이또한 지나가리라~~~^^ 릴리님이 한국에서 계속 살았다면 안정된 직업과 자신의 능력을 더 발휘할수 있었을듯한데 제임스가 긴공부를 할동안 타국에서 가정을 위해 내조하였다는걸 그도 알았음 좋겠네요 릴리님은 좋은 엄마이고, 혼자만 육아를 책임지기보단 아이들 아빠가 근처에서 함께 도움을 주었음 좋겠네요
I was having some severe downtime.. Seeing how people my age married.. Have kids and kicking in their life while me still here.. Not really doing anything?!. But then I suppose your video makes me feel better in a way that life hit hard for everyone it might not be today or tomorrow but we can't be sure for years to come. Seeing how well you cope give me strength to keep on striving for life. I'm sorry for your situation but surely it is for the better - you know what's best for you and your kids. Thing is in social media today's just like those insta highlights reels people just to only upload things that are sweet to them and i supposed that's how it has been for a lot of ypuutbers these days.. But thank you lily for being honest with what's going on in your life. Not that we have the right to know but you letting us know surely makes me feel appreciated and involve in a unique ways and surely makes me feel human.
릴리님, 부모님, 조부모님 까지 영상으로만 봐도 다들 성품이 훌륭하시고 똑똑하신 걸 알 수 있었습니다 그러니 너무 슬퍼하지 마시고 커피도 드시고 , 친구들도 만나고 자기 자신을 사랑하는 시간을 가지셨음 좋겠습니다 . 결국엔 선한 사람이 승리하는 거니까 릴리씨랑 가족들은 다 행복해질 거예요
저 멀리 있는 유리에게 하는 말에 괜히 찡해서 눈물이...유리도 다솜이도 본인들이 얼마나 큰 사랑을 받고 있는지 늘 기억했음 좋겠네요! 아이들이 재능도 있고 즐기기도 한다니 정말 부러워요! 둘다 너무너무 잘하는 모습을 보니 자랑스러우실거 같아요. 그리고 맞아요..비운의 주인공도 아니고 그저 업앤다운을 하는 평범한 일상인거죠..물론 조금은 우울할 수 있지만...시간이 해결해줄거라 생각합니다. 이렇게 릴리님 모습을 계속 볼 수 있어서 정말 좋아요! 내일도 좋은 하루 보내시길 바라요.
저희 엄마도 저와 동생을 혼자 키우셨거든요 ㅎㅎ 그런데 정말 즐겁고 행복한 기억 뿐이고, 모두가 성장했고 엄마께 늘 너무 감사해요! 아빠하고도 잘 지냈고요 :) 릴리님과 유리 다소미도 너무너무 멋지시고 아름다운 분들이라 앞으로도 쭈욱 행복하실거라는 예감이 마구 느껴져요~! 힘든 때도 있으시겠지만 늘 응원하고있어요 ✨✨
Relationships are work, even the ending of some of them or the transitioning of them to something else and you're doing the best you can, that is evident. Good vibes!☆♡☆💜
유리가 체조할 때 감격스러워서 눈물나네요 언제 이렇게 컸니 애기 유리가.. 자랑스럽고 뿌듯하다 유리야.. 이모가 항상 응원해💗 유리가 체조랑 댄스를 같이 하니 더 시너지가 나는 거 같아보여요. 체조할 때의 유연함과 테크닉이 춤 출 때도 돋보여요. 어느새 정말 정말 멋지게 컸네요 우리 유리가.. 릴리님, 행복만 하셔요..
애기 였던 유리가 저렇게 이쁘게 자랐네요.
정말 대단하다. 저렇게 잘 키운 엄마도 멋지고 !
멀리서 응원 합니다.
@aaa bbb I agree
@aaa bbb why ? do you know him personally??
이혼.. 살다보면 이런일 저런일 생기는것중의 하나일뿐예요. 온가족이 마음의 상처를 받는거라 좀 오래 힘들겠지만 릴리님은 현명하니까 잘 이겨내실꺼예요.
긍정마인드로 밝게 웃으며 버티다보면 진짜 웃음이 찾아올꺼예요.
화이팅!
The Kids will be superstars , All will be well .
You seem so much happier. You also seem to speak more Korean to your girls which is amazing. I had been wondering if they still were fluent. Best wishes
I remember when marwa met the lillys family in Diani Kenya arguing about Kenyan american korean kids but James dismissed that their kids are Americans. Awkward moment for James now and then.
Hope you've learned something even you!!!
I choose kids happiness and well being over being and superstar , because eventually stars fade .
@@seifseifmohamed7118 he said they were American he dismissed they were African
한국사람이 이혼을 결정하기까지 얼마나 고민을 많이 했을까,아이들양육은 어떻게 잟해야되지? 다시 독립을 해야되는데, 잘 헤쳐나갈수 있을까? 이모든걸 감수하고 이혼이란 결론을 내린이유는 충분히 알수있고 이해갑니다.힘내시고 한국에 있는 부모님 걱정안되게씩씩하게 잘 살아내주세요.힘내고 사랑합니다 .한국에 오시면 연락주세요 ,맛있는 식사라도 대접할게요~~그리고 악플 신경쓰지마세요.아무리잘해도 억울한 상황도 많이생길수도있고 ..오픈되다보니 그런악플들 감수하셔야해요,릴리님이랑 상관없다 생각하고 힘들땐 내가 힘들구나 그렇게 생각하고 인정하고.. 잘 해쳐나갈겁니다.화이팅
릴리님이 현명한 사람이라고 늘 생각했지만... 이혼 사유를 듣고 나니....
릴리님은 제가 생각했던 것보다 훨씬 현명하고 지혜롭고 멋진 사람이네요!!!
이혼하고 혈색 돌아옴~ 축하해요^^
와 ㄹㅇ찐으로ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
나두 진짜 그렇게 생각했는데
저도 축하드려요 제2의 인생 살기를...
ㅇㅈㅋㅋㅋㅋ 이제 언니로 돌아옴ㅋㅋㅋ
별로 좋은댓글 아닌것 같은데 ㅡㅡ
Never mind love sometimes we never think things can go horribly wrong when you're in the public's eye
릴리님이 영상 올려줘서 너무 좋아요!
그동안 영상이 잘 안올라와서 아쉬웠어요ㅠㅠ
릴리님 하시는일 무엇이든 잘 되시길 바라고
행복이 가득한 삶이 되길 바랄게요!!♡
유리랑 다솜이 춤추는거 보니까 왜 가슴이 뭉클한지.. 랜선이모가 너무 자랑스러워하고있어!
앞으로 유튜브 더 흥할 것 같아요!! 아이들 영어 학교, 교육, 미국생활 등등 더 재밌는 브이로그 만들어주시면 한국사람 유입도 더 많이 늘어날 것 같은 느낌! 그리고 얼굴에 여유가 느껴져요 ) 앞으로도 항상 그랬던 것 처럼 기대할게요!!릴리언니 퐈이어~~~!!
멋지다...👍🏻🥺 딸들을 사랑하는 현명한 엄마 릴리님 늘 응원합니다 영상 잘 봤어요 감사해요!
힘드신와중에도 구독자 팬분들의 궁금증과 지속적인 소통을 하시는 노고에 리스펙 bb
항상 릴리님을 응원하는 한국구독자들이 많으니 힘내셨으면 하고 릴리님과 유리 그리고 다솜이 세식구의 앞으로의 빛나는 미래를 힘차게 응원합니다!!!
얼굴이 너무 편해보이는게 저만의 생각일까요 뭐든 최선의 선택이었고
앞으로도 가정도 일도사랑도 무탈하고 건강하고 더 성공하시길 빌어요
맞아요 얼굴이 편안해지셨어요 👏🏻 머나 먼 한국에서 릴리님의 새로운 출발을 응원합니다 ♡
아이들에게 하는 말투가 정말 다정해서 보는 내내 기분 좋았어요..🥰 행복한 나날들 보내시길 바라요!
오오오 다음 브이로그 기다리고 있었어요!! 언니 그래도 조금 표정 밝아보여서 제가 기분이 좋아요ㅎㅎ 유리 다솜이 다 예쁘고 건강하게 자신의 자리에서 최선을 다하고 있네요:) 어쩌면 나중에 유리를 올림픽에서 볼 수 있겠는걸요!? 정말 항상 응원하고 있어요😆 계속 좋은 영상 많이 올려주세요!! 바로바로 보러 오겠습니당😉
Your girls are super talented big up to Yuri and Dasomi
@aaa bbb She mentioned they divorced in another video. Lily said she did not want to go into why they divorced.
@aaa bbb Why you assuming that James had cheated on Lily? Maybe They couldn't get along or possibly James got homesick & wanted to go home to His Country of Afrika!
yeah, let's milk and monetize the kids...
make some $$$ on kids work
@@찹쌀떡-l4s lol tell me WHICH 5 YEARS OLD KID ever said "mom i want to dance, do gymnastics and study spanish until 10pm"
Hhahahahahaha child labor as it best
@@arncoo63 Africa isn’t a country it’s a continent and plus they even mentioned that he came from Kenya and obviously the country is located in Africa but Africa isn’t a country it’s like your saying that Europe an entire continent is one country thats just dumb and ignorant
Hi Lily, Love the Honesty you display in your videos, always have. While on the subject of Honesty, Im just finding out about you and James getting divorced, sooo sorry you're having to deal with these life issues, sending ALL OF YOU Tons of Prayers & will watch more frequently in support. The girls have grown so much, I think last videos I saw of yours was around the time of the passing of your father, which I was really able to relate to having lost both my parents myself 11 months apart back in 2007. You are A Strong Young Beautiful Soul, I feel these experiences will definitely only make you a Better Human Being in the long run, plus your Beautiful Daughters have Loving Role Models and will benefit from your strengths and Can Do attitudes. I Only Wish You All The Best Life Has To Offer, I look forward to your next video! Thank you for sharing and God Bless You All!
how do you know she's honest ????
Koreans are very good at acting
05:14 릴리님의 큰 사랑, 여기 눈물 버튼이네요 ㅜㅜ...
저도 두 아이의 엄마이지만 늘 항상 릴리님의 태도에 동기 부여를 받는답니다.
다솜이와 유리 정말 잘 하네요, 아이들이 잘 하는걸 발견해서 서포트 해주시고 믿어주시고 전적으로 사랑해주는 릴리님~
릴리님의 모성애에서 진짜 한국인의 긍지와 자긍심이 저까지 막 느껴져요 ㅠㅠ
유리~~다솜이~~릴리님 모두 화이팅!!
연인사이의 일은 결코 제3자가 왈가왈부 할 수 없는거더라구요. 릴리님은 더 사랑받고, 존중받을만큼 멋진 사람이에요🥰 그저 이 말만 해드리고 싶었어요. 우리 행복하게 살아보자구용~💕
연인 사이의 일은 딱 둘만 알죠. 어떤 선택이든 그저 그들의 결정을 존중할 뿐
I am a divorced man and I fully understand what you mean by you weren't compatible. I got married at a young age 19 because I found myself with 2 daughters by age 19. I had to grow up to do the right thing. As I grew older to become the man I would be today my ex wife grew up to become the woman she is today. This means we grew apart because we are different people as adults than when we met as kids. I divorced 2006. My kids are all adults now and I am happy I made the decision to divorce. It didn't stop me from being a father to my children. I moved less than a mile away and was just as active in their lives after the divorce. Stay strong.
I just thought, it sounded like they grew apart. Then read your comment. That is a very insightful viewpoint because you went through it. It's encouraging because it means it can still work out for them to be a family, just a bit different.
@@DS-ue5kc Exactly 🎯
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Nice to read about your experience. You got any words of advice for young unmarried guys who are scared of divorce? (I don't know whether I asked this question right but I hope you understand my point of view)
@@FrontlinesWeek1y just don't get married
릴리 당신은 잘될거에요
당신한테는 저력이 있어요
당신 딸들도 모두 너무 예쁘고 댄스도 잘해요
지금은 힘들테지만 모두 행복해지길 기도합니다
응원합니다
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한동안 영상속의 릴리님의 모습이..무거운 돌덩이를 힘겹게 계속 들고 있고..
그게 너무 무겁지만 내려놓지 못하는 모습이었다면
이혼발표후의 모습은 그 무거운 돌덩이를 내려놓고 한결 가벼워하는 모습이예요.(예전보다 더 좋아보여요)
지금은 분명 힘든 시기이겠지만..릴리님과 너무너무 예쁜 유리.다솜이 다 너무 잘 이겨내고 있는듯해서 감사해요!
영상 광고 앞.뒤.중간 다!!! 안끊고 끝~~~~까지 다 보면서 완전 완전 화이팅! 응원해요..ㅎㅎ
It’s okay gorgeous. Ima be here for you every step of the way, forget the negativity and remember it’s a blessing to be alive and healthy nowadays.
Looser
제임스가 커튼을 가져가버려서 보이는 창문으로 밝게 빛이 들어오네요
감히 단편만보는 구독자들이 어찌 다 알겠어요
큰일을 이겨내고 계시지만 언니가 강해서 유리랑 다솜이, 또 제가 구독하는 이유인 언니를 계속 볼 수 있다는것 만으로도 감사해요
타국에서 아이둘을 케어하며 힘드신일 분명 많으시겠지만 마지막 모습처럼 앞으로 언니가 더 밝게 웃고 행복한 날들이 많아지길 조심히 기도합니다
항상 응원해요 릴리 화이팅💖
Can i just say how much we appreciate your rawness and authenticity.. it takes an incredibly strong person to be open about the recent changes in your life. Sending hugs to you and the girls!!!
So true!
@Visna Yerla truee
were you there to support them in the past?
@@peekatooo why does it matter how long they've been a supporter
@@peekatooo what do u exactly mean?
영상 많이 기다렸어요 ! 힘든 시간들이겠지만 그래도 멋진 릴리님이랑 아이들은 잘 이겨낼거라고 믿어요. 새로운 변화로부터의 릴리님을 응원할게요💗
릴리 언니 항상 응원하고 릴리언니 가정을 위해 기도할게요 ! 사랑합니다 ♥
처음부터 맞지 않은 사람과 결혼해서 지금까지 잘 참고 버텨오시느라 고생 많으셨어요
물론 지나온 시간 행복한 때도 분명 있었겠지요
이제 더 자유롭고 더 행복해지시길요^^
유리 재능 진짜 놀랍네요 또 그걸 즐기기까지..기대돼요
I have am in that situation too, seeing myself back as a single man yet with children. I don’t like it when people pick sides when something like that happens but they do, especially since it take two to marry and two to destroy a relationship. The best thing you said is for people to pray for both parties because both have to be healed and restored to find themselves again. Not to mention that the kids need that too. Life is a journey that is filled with ups and downs for everyone and the degrees of it varies. No one escapes these things, the best weapon we have in standing firm through it all is to know that the one who holds the universe understands what we go through, joy and pain. Therefore we can choose to stand and move forward, yes life hurts, yes life is not easy, but we can move on from joy to joy too. Focus on what is true in your heart and what brings you joy. Love seeing your posts. You and James can and will get stronger in this.💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
the breakdown of a marriage is devastating to children. married people should put God first. I know how it hurts. even if they are divorced, they should all strive to show love to their children. the father should take his place as the father or the children will be hurt later. I went through that.
just wanted to stop in and say - no matter what - you need to be healthy and happy too - your happiness matters too (not just for the girls or James). You need to set an example of how you value yourself to your daughters too. It's a confusing time for any child to have their parents separate - but if both parents are willing to be mature and put the kids needs first; you guys will all be ok. But never think that putting your happiness and mental/emotional well being last is the answer. The internet can be a terrible place; but know so many people out here who are not as loud nor vocal are rooting for you and the entire family to be happier and healthier in 2022. Keep your chin up~ Fighting~
@mashinori dohoon thank u for such an uplifting message
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저번 영상보다 훨씬 더 기분이 좋아보여서 안심이 되네요❤️
결혼이란건 쉽진 않죠.서로 다른 둘이 만나서 다르다는걸 인정하기 싫어질때부터 마음이 멀어지는것 같아요.자녀들 문제도 이견차가 생기기도 하고...이겨내실거예요~유리,다솜이랑 멋지게 사는모습 응원합니다!!
저도 유리어릴때부터 쭉 봤어요. 릴리님 정말 배울점 많고, 멋진분이십니다. 브이로그 계속 업데이트해주세요. ❤️❤️❤️
lily has such a good heart. I pray for her hapiness as a person too.. not only as a mom.. i want lily to be happy and contented
I totally agree❤️🌹
@aaa bbb u keep leaving the same comment everywhere, how was she promoting to the world? So every couple on instagram and you tube are promoting their man or woman to the world? You need to sit down, take a big breath and relax coz your head is not right darling not right at all
@aaa bbb lol ok
People change over time sometimes not together that's life you grow so be happy you understood being parents doesn't always means being together. I'm proud of you both you understood that in order to be better people and parents you had to do it separately, trust it's better for everyone especially the girls. Always wishing you the best.
항상 힘든 시간이 지나면 행복한 시간이 오잖아요 💕
잘버텨내실거라 믿고 강한 분이시라는거 알고 있어요 힘내시고 항상 영상 올려주셔서 감사해요 ❤️
처음 댓글 남기는데, 정말 강하고 멋지신 분이세요. 릴리님과 함께 하는 아이들이 얼마나 멋지게 자라날지 늘 기대돼요. 릴리님 가족을 위해서 기도합니다.
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It is a blessing in disguise, take care Lily and kids.
Very true.
No it’s not. Now she’s a single mother. They should have worked it out
@@Underratedcommentator u clearly don't watch her videos , they give it a chance and it didn't work ....
@@Underratedcommentator @kuehsalak yea , I was thinking lol what blessing was in disguise? but nothing wrong with a single mother but choice to do it and get a divorce because ur not working out I don't think that's ok . I think they should be working it out it takes time and its not easy I think divorce is just a easy way to just give up if there's no actual reasoning when u can work it out.i also don't like when she said she will cut James out of the video if its for the girls then should be able to see the memories with their father as well. God bless them both and their children I do wish them the best I hope they can seek truth
이런 날이 있으면 저런 날도 있는 법이죠!!! 릴리님 곧 예쁜 무지개가 뜰거에요🌈 오랜 구독자로서 릴리님을 응원하고 지지합니다🇰🇷✨
오랫 구독자요. 악성댓글 절대 무시하세요. 각자의 삶이 있는거죠! 어느 누군가가 내 자신의 삶을 함부로 판단할 순 없는거잖아요.
마냥 응원합니다♡
그리고.. 아이들 짐네스틱, 댄스하면서 느껴지는 뿜뿜 자신감이 참 부럽네요. 릴리님의 적극적인 지지도요.
중학생딸은 제 잔소리에.. 수학, 과학, 영어 다니느라 우울..바뻐서 괜히 미안해집니다.
이혼이 힘든 일이지만 더 힘든 건 맞지 않는 사람들이 서로 상처주며 살면 아이들이 상처 받고 나중엔 부모를 원망하게 되더군요! 그리고 안 맞으면 헤어지면 되는데 애 때문에 또는 미련 때문에 살다가 인생을 망치는 경우가 많기에 정말 잘한 결정이라고 생각합니다! 박수!
So proud of the girls.
한여자의 인생과 두아이의 엄마로 사는게
쉽지 않다는거 알고있어요!! 그래도 열심히 아가들
케어해주고 지원해주고!! 너무 멋져용♥️♥️
I'm Japanese. I'm a single father. Let's do our best together😊
おい？なに言いてんだ
頑張ってください と伝えました😊
@@戦うシングルファザーUA-cam ああ😆なるほどね👍🏾君のyoutubeを私が見た
@@malenomadiclion2030
Thank you! I'm not a great parent like Lily, but I'm doing my best too! My UA-cam has English subtitles, so please watch it if you like😊
@@戦うシングルファザーUA-cam はい喜んで🇯🇵
Lilly, as a black mother of biracial girls I really admire and support your confidence, faith and strength in your daughters. It’s so wonderful to see them grow into confident girls with feelings that they can do anything they want to get ahead in life. Their involvement in activities come at a crucial time in their lives with the effects of your divorce. You have been celebrating your daughters talents and beauty way before you got divorced. I remember the time you introduced them to famous black women and the genuine efforts you put into cultivating self love and celebration of who they are. Thank you for not allowing your relationship with James distract or discourage you from doing what it takes to give your daughters the best opportunity life affords them to be well balanced successful ladies. You show such strength. Thank you for sharing. God Bless you and your family.
Black mother??? Uh she is asian tho-
@Kenya Kindly ohh now i know why i failed my english test
Black, biracial, interracial, whatever.
I don't know what all these racial oriented qualifications have to do with her mother duties. She could be from any race and be able to that. I don't know why some people like to "racialize" everything. This is a matter of divorce. Mostly in those cases, it's wiser to listen to both sides. Her husband version is that she was cheating on him on several occasions, she was unfaithful to her husband. Even the law allows you to divorce in that case. Comparing to her vague reason of divorce.
@@dske-chopper2809 That wasn't even the point of OP comments. Race is bought up because racism exist and self love is a really problem with people who look black because of said racism. Especially in countries where being black is the minority. And since she isn't black, it is impressive that she is trying to learn black culture and teach her daughter self love without personally experiencing it. And not have her image of black people clouded by her husband which would affect the elf love she is cultivating in her children. And before you go kumbaya and talk about how we all have "human" issues. So? How does talking about black issues invalidate issues of others? It doesn't. Lily is commendable in that aspect. Nothing to do with her divorce but as a mother.
@@meikomegurine4578 reread that respecting the commas!!
Thought about you & how you & the girls have been coping. Do you plan or want to move back to Korea now that your single? What did your family say when you told them about the divorce? Please tell me that you're (& possibly the girls)are a part of a support group in dealing with this new situation. Again, coming from a divorcee, I know how painful this can be. Some days you'll be UP 😀 then some days you'll be down😭. And that's ok, because it's part of the healing process which is going to take time. And, also because you have to be strong for you & the girls right now. Sending healing hugs & prayers to you three little ladies!🥰🥰*P.S. I just went to his page & saw the video of him at his new job on a boat in Kenya. Um, wtf was he going to school for all the time you all were together, having the family roaming across the U.S. like nomads?? Or if he was home, he was always on his bicycle somewhere, away from the home. When he did that, I always used to think: when does LILY get a break & some time for herself?? Sorry for the rant. But his latest, immature post (since he alleges you're using the girls for views to make money off them)irked my nerves.😡🤬😠
Since Lily doesn’t want us to say bad things about James, I will refrain from doing so, but I agree with you about James acting immature. And it’s not just a recent thing either. He has had some very questionable behavior. Although this divorce made me sad as I’ve been watching this channel for years, I think this was a good decision and I wish Lily and the girls the best and hope James can become a more mature and thoughtful person.
You are not magistrate court you are judging here! You not marriage lawyer on James! There is law that everyman should fullfil their duties!...YOU CARRY YOUR BAD WORDS AGAINST JAMES!
LAST TIME LILY SAID I DON'T WANT TO TAKES KIDS FROM THE FATHER LIFE NEITHER CHILDREN FROM THE FATHER LIFES!
IF U HAVE NOTHING GOOD JUST KEEP QUEITY.
She can be a freak now 😈
He’s extremely immature. This is a fact. I never saw him as an adult. Some men NEVER grow up.
I agree, I always thought it was odd that he kept moving them around and didn't seem to engage in many domestic duties. He was like a fun neighbor in the videos, instead of dad. I chalked it up to him not wanting to be on camera. Who knows.
You're so mature and kind hearted that you NEVER insult or say any negative things about your children's father! Now that's maturity! Great job mama! They'll both excel in all they do.. with a supportive mama like you, they will!
❤️
@aaa bbb What do you mean by "his type"? She owes NO ONE ANYTHING.
@aaa bbb Sorry that you are so arrogant to think someone owes you anything. It's none of your business. It's not her duty to do a damn thing. The nerve of you to think so.
@@karinajas Say it girl!!
@aaa bbb Nothing is wrong with my type, sorry that you think that!
You are a great mom. Everything will be okay.
아이들 정말 ㅠㅠ 대박이에요 .저런게 재능인가요 와 ㅠㅠㅠ 진짜 애들 서포트 할 맛 날것같아요.. 이제야 부모님 마음이 좀 느껴지네요
Unfortunately the internet can be a cruel place. … Please do not let a few random nobodies steal your joy from you. Best wishes and hope all the best . It make take awhile….lBut you will find your joy again👍🏽💡
It was very bad during their early years when Lily & James were dating, she received lots of hatefully comments from racists upset over her "chocolate boyfriend"- her words, not mine. Thankfully, they largely disappeared over time.
아가들 예뻐 죽겠다 미래가 너무 기대되는 아카들ㅠ
유리랑 다솜이 멋있다 ㅎㅎㅎ 종합우승 당당하게 1등차지하는 유리 멋지다
이 언니는 할 줄 아는게 딱히 없는데 ..부끄럽구만^^
자식들이 하고싶은 것들 이루면서 할수 있도록 도와주시는 엄마도 최고❤️너무 멋져요 !!!
세분 모두의 앞날 응원해요😊😊
유리가 멋진 재능을 가졌네요. 이렇게 뛰어나려면 얼마나 연습을 많이했을까요! 멋진딸들로 잘 키워내고 계신거같아요 응원합니다🤗🤗
If you don’t want to talk about divorce, that’s totally fine. But why this title?
Right . I loved this family what a shame!
밝아보이셔서 다행이에요!! 이렇게 긍정적이고 밝은 엄마가 있으니 유리랑 다솜이는 잘 클거에요~~
건강조심하시고 자주봐요~^^
I pray that you and James will both find the happiness that you need. I have always enjoyed your content. All the best.
@aaa bbb where’s his channel?
@aaa bbb how do you know he is cheating ?
유리랑 다솜이랑 한국어로만 대화하는 영상도 보고싶어요!! 한국어로 얘기할 때 너무 귀여운데 짧게짧게 나와서 아쉬워요ㅠㅠ
긍정적인 모습 씩씩한모습 보기좋아요!! 항상건강하고 행복하세요 ^^🥰🥰🥰
I love hearing you speak to the girls in your 1st language. I know so many 1st generation folks that don't speak the 1st language of their parents since they parents chose not to teach it to them. It's unfortunate; but, also the parents choice. Keep up the great work with your content. Blessings to you and the girls.
Yes, I agree please continue as it will give them a advantage in the work field when they are older.
와 유리랑 다솜이 너무 잘키웠다 슈퍼스타네 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 역시 한국엄마 짱 !!!!
안녕하세요
수년간 눈팅으로만 시청했는데 오늘은 댓글 하나만 달게요~ㅎ
아주 현명하신분 같아요^^
서로에게 맞지 않는 사람이란말..젤 좋은 답변으로 들렸어요
아이들도 있어서 부부가 함께 오래 오래~ 는 다들 생각하고 바라는거죠
그러나 어쩔수없는 선택을 해야하는 시기가 오기도 하는건 막을수가 없는것 같아요
무엇보다도 아직 어려서 상황을 받아들이는 아이들의 마음이 당연히 힘들거라고 생각해요
추억도 기억도 참 많겠지요~
"이땐..그땐 ..이랬었지 " 하면서 또 다른 내일의 멋진꿈을 꾸고 만들어 가시길 응원합니다^^
시간은 멈춰있는게 아니란거 아시죠~^^
릴리언니는 얼굴만 봐도 사람 좋은 게 묻어나옴 ㅠㅠㅠㅠ 그래서 그런지 유리랑 다솜이도 너무 착하고 예뻐😭♥️♥️♥️♥️
한국인의 모성을 여실이 보여주시는 훌륭한 모습에 찬사를 보냅니다 다솜이와 유리 대단한 실력에 미래 촉망받는 훌륭한 선수로 자랄거라 믿습니다 개인적인 소견 이지만 한국에서 올림픽 국가대표선수로 키워도 좋을듯 합니다 릴리님 편에서 고국에서 항상 응원합니다 늘 밝게 웃는모습 보여주시고 행복한 나날들 되시기바래요~^^
James is very immature I think he’s going through a midlife crisis.
Some men just never grow up unfortunately.
My opinion doesn't count, what I say means nothing...But in case you guys decide to get back or whatever. Here's what I observed and you can do with this information what you want:
1. Lily, sometimes your honesty cuts in the heart. You always speak your truth which is great but in times where your gentleness is required, please express that. Like when James surprised you with the new house...you would have been a bit more considerate with your words and "complaints". Small things like that really cut at someone's confidence and reduce the likelihood of them trying to impress you. Be kinder Lily...kindness expressed through affirmative words can be a game changer for a partner like James. James made the house "overly African" because he wanted to finally feel at home too. I agree he would have asked you and decorated with you.
2. James usually bottles up emotions. He is a poor communicator and when pushed in a corner he let's his "teenage alter ego" take over. He says very MEAN things, careless things and utterly unacceptable things. I don't think he means it...but he's communication is quite poor and he can stand to work on it. Also he has a whole "ego" thing going on and it just makes a bad situation. Act mature James... act grown and take responsibility for your words.
3. Kids are amazing yes. But you guys were always arguing about how to raise them. See a counselor and find middle ground around your parenting. Each of you should stop trying to outdo the other person's culture... you can't win a marriage that way. James simply wanted you to embrace his culture like he has embraced your culture all these 13+ years. Stuff like that makes one feel loved
4. African culture is pretty laid back and chill. We are happy people who don't enjoy pushing too hard(I say politely). We enjoy dancing for fun not to compete. We don't push our kids to be best or learn a gazillion languages and have busy schedules especially at the expense of their childhood and happiness. Korean/Asian culture seem the exact opposite and they are very invested in extra curriculars, competitive activities and being the best. I feel those two ideologies are why you mostly clashed. You both mean well, just learn the art of compromise
You guys were amazing. Wishing you well on individual journeys or whatever you decide to do with life. Love you both and appreciate you for the community you created and bringing us along your journey.
Lily, don't cut james out of the Kenyan vlogs. The girls remember their father in that trip. If they see that dad wasn't in the vlogs, they'll start asking questions and you'll have to explain you cut him out. You are very honest with your children, and I don't see you lying to them. It would be disrespect to them and to their father. It'll be like you're erasing him from their memories. They might end up starting to not trust you. Just my advice. My sons father and I are not together. I deleted him from a lot of things. My son was disappointed with me and it made me feel like a bad mom. Whatever memories he has of his father and the three of us together, I no longer try to curve it to suit me. It's damaging for everyone.
Just my advice.
It's not about you and James. It's about your daughters. Keep the father in the videos.
You honestly don't owe us or anyone an explanation.....none of our business. You, james and your children know what's going on and that's really all that matters at the end of the day!
So true
Well said
❤️
@aaa bbb
No she doesn't need to explain a thing! And as for "warning" others, she never indicated who's at fault in their divorce...YOU have assumed he is the "bad" one...based on??? Could be his, her or both their faults!
Who do you think you are that you feel like YOU are deserving of an explanation and to save the world from "PEOPLE LIKE JAMES"...your little sneaky comment says SO much about you.
Lily I can tell your not stressed anymore because you’re face and skin is beautiful no more breakouts and blemishes like before. Unfortunately, divorce does not just take a toll on the parents but also the children but it is also better to split than have them in an unhealthy environment. Just keep reassuring them how much you guys love them and everything will work itself out for the best. I’m a single parent also you can do it, and keep your head up. We are with you in this change, hang in there. Watching from USA 🇺🇸!
Ohh divorce is very easy thing for you guys and you are being pride for single parent that just great.you will marry a guy and just any problem you just divorce and marry another one and that one fails again you divorce and going on.this is not marriage its is prostituion.in india we marry to one person and live until entire life thats marriage.commitment.what stupid culture are you guys following i don't know
홧팅!! 유리가 아주 체조를 잘 하네요 대회에서 우승도 자주 하고 재능이 출중해요!!
한국은 체조가 자주 볼 수 있는 종목은 아니잖아요 주변에도 없고
우리나라도 체조 할 수 있는 곳이 있으면 좋을 듯!
유리가 춤이든 체조든 신나게 즐기기를!!
다가올 미래의 국대유망주내요.멋지고 엄마의 헌신이 느껴집니다. 주님의 축복과 사랑이 넘치길 기원합니다.
거의 2년만에 보는 릴리씨인데... 굉장한 쇼킹 뉴스네요..
유리 다솜이 아기일때 자주 보았는데...
다 지나가는 일 이엿길 바래요
요전의 영상보다는 조금 나아지신것 같아 다행이네요...릴리님 영상 접한지 얼마 안됐는데, 이혼소식 듣고는 제가 다 생각이 많아지더라고요...좋은 컨디션 유지하셔서 즐거운 마음으로 아이들 케어하시고 행복하시길 바라겠습니다!!
I love how you encourage your daughters to have interests and passions outside of academics. Those will probably be their most cherished experiences and may even draw from them throughout life in good and bad times. When I have kids, I’d like to do the same :) really fun vlog. I’m happy to see Yuri and Dasomi doing so well
I’m glad you’re doing well. Something that I learned from having friends with parents who have divorced is that it’s very damaging when parents talk badly about one another to or around their children. I know you’d like to cut out James’ parts in the vlog, but if you can find a way to not just completely get rid of him from your children’s lives that’s very good for them. My friends had their parents talk badly about each other and try to get rid of them from their lives and that was very hard for them because it’s like “you’re saying that about my dad):”. Just something to consider. I hope everyone finds the happiness they deserve
She could cut him out of the vlogs for uploading to her channel. She has the originals that the kids can view at any time.
She can cut him out if she wants. The old vlogs are still there to look back at for the kids. And how is he out of their life when they can go see him anytime
This is extremely good advice. It’s very short sighted to think when you say bad things about the other parent to the kids that those kids won’t grow up and figure out the truth for themselves.
I like your comment and perspective. Something I thought of though is that she may be cutting James out also because he may not want her uploading him onto her channel anymore
I feel the same way I pray & hope that she doesn't turned Western on Our Brother James but I'm praying that both of them will work their issues out for the sakes of Their Children
가르친다로 다되는것 아닌데
두딸이 체조에 재능을 보이며, 즈들이
잘해서 골몰할수 있다는게 다행입니다.
생계형 유투버시잖아요? 부디 대박나셔요.
I love you Lilly! 💞
I sensed problems for a while. Me being a man I can read the heart of another male to a degree. That is to say I disagreed with James even before the divorce.
But Lilly what you learned about God through your mom is true.
Your mom was so much much like my mom and my aunts that I realized she was for real.
Now when I was younger I didn't believe a word of their Godly talk. But as I aged I realized I hit the lottery.
I'm not talking about religious fanaticism which I hate. I simply advise you to consider what you were taught.💞
더 이뻐졌네요.아무리 힘든일든간에 마음먹기 달렸나봐요.두 이쁜공주도 참 예쁘네요.
you are raising the girls so well Lily! they are sooo talented. congrats to Yuri on her win!
커튼..ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅠ 애들이 점점 커가는게 느껴져서 뭔가 저도 신기하네요 재능까지 넘치고
릴리 구독자 분들은 마음이 따뜻한 분들이 많네요 댓글 읽어보면서 오히려 제가 위안받고갑니다🥲😍
저 거의 시작하실 때 부터 봐왔어요.. 이따금씩 와서 봤지만 이런 소식이있었군요 ㅠ 언제나 영상속의 릴리님처럼 현명하고 밝게 이겨내실거에요~~~ 이름다운 사는모습 계속 보여주세요 ㅎㅎ 멋져요!
I've heard it said that divorce can be as painful even more than a spouse dying because you wouldn't have to see them after the funeral and constantly having to see or interact with an ex just seeing them alone pulls at your emotions. Especially if you still love and care for that person.
It's a painful process but with God's help and a great support system you and James can make it through this. It's not an easy thing to grieve for someone who's still alive.
Be encouraged, pray much, trust in God, He will see you and your family through. 🙏🙏
제임스 영상보니 잘 지내고 있더군요(좀 화도 났지만) 저는 릴리님이 걱정되었는데~ 밝은 모습으로 잘 지내려 노력하고 계시니
안심되네요
괜찮은 날도 있고 또 힘든 날도 있을꺼에요
그러다보면 극복해지고 무뎌지겠죠
이또한 지나가리라~~~^^
릴리님이 한국에서 계속 살았다면 안정된
직업과 자신의 능력을 더 발휘할수 있었을듯한데
제임스가 긴공부를 할동안 타국에서 가정을
위해 내조하였다는걸 그도 알았음 좋겠네요
릴리님은 좋은 엄마이고, 혼자만 육아를
책임지기보단 아이들 아빠가 근처에서 함께
도움을 주었음 좋겠네요
엄마는 강하다!!!!!!!!!!!!!!파이팅 릴리 언니
너무 착하신거 같아요.
잘은 모르지만 참고 견디신거 다 복이되어 돌아올거에요.
두 딸내미들하고 행복하게 잘 지내길 바라고
기도하겠습니다.영어를 너무 잘하셔서
부럽네요.또 올게요~♡
I just love how mature you are and how great you are handling this situation . Sending love to all of you 💘.
I was having some severe downtime.. Seeing how people my age married.. Have kids and kicking in their life while me still here.. Not really doing anything?!.
But then I suppose your video makes me feel better in a way that life hit hard for everyone it might not be today or tomorrow but we can't be sure for years to come. Seeing how well you cope give me strength to keep on striving for life.
I'm sorry for your situation but surely it is for the better - you know what's best for you and your kids.
Thing is in social media today's just like those insta highlights reels people just to only upload things that are sweet to them and i supposed that's how it has been for a lot of ypuutbers these days.. But thank you lily for being honest with what's going on in your life. Not that we have the right to know but you letting us know surely makes me feel appreciated and involve in a unique ways and surely makes me feel human.
They're growing up so fast! They're so beautiful and I'm so proud of them both! You all stay strong 💪🏾!
릴리님, 부모님, 조부모님 까지
영상으로만 봐도 다들 성품이 훌륭하시고 똑똑하신 걸 알 수 있었습니다
그러니 너무 슬퍼하지 마시고 커피도 드시고 , 친구들도 만나고 자기 자신을 사랑하는 시간을 가지셨음 좋겠습니다 .
결국엔 선한 사람이 승리하는 거니까
릴리씨랑 가족들은 다 행복해질 거예요
유리 다솜이 너무 예뻐요. 애기들 예쁘게 잘 키우시는 멋진 엄마 응원해요!!
영어를 또박또박 말씀해주셔서 영어공부하기도 좋은거 같아요. 고마워요 최근일은 유감입니다. ㅠ
Stay strong mama! You got this! You’re beautiful and smart - not only that, you’re an amazing mother. Sending you and the girls positive vibes ♥️
저 멀리 있는 유리에게 하는 말에 괜히 찡해서 눈물이...유리도 다솜이도 본인들이 얼마나 큰 사랑을 받고 있는지 늘 기억했음 좋겠네요! 아이들이 재능도 있고 즐기기도 한다니 정말 부러워요! 둘다 너무너무 잘하는 모습을 보니 자랑스러우실거 같아요. 그리고 맞아요..비운의 주인공도 아니고 그저 업앤다운을 하는 평범한 일상인거죠..물론 조금은 우울할 수 있지만...시간이 해결해줄거라 생각합니다. 이렇게 릴리님 모습을 계속 볼 수 있어서 정말 좋아요! 내일도 좋은 하루 보내시길 바라요.
저희 엄마도 저와 동생을 혼자 키우셨거든요 ㅎㅎ 그런데 정말 즐겁고 행복한 기억 뿐이고, 모두가 성장했고 엄마께 늘 너무 감사해요! 아빠하고도 잘 지냈고요 :) 릴리님과 유리 다소미도 너무너무 멋지시고 아름다운 분들이라 앞으로도 쭈욱 행복하실거라는 예감이 마구 느껴져요~! 힘든 때도 있으시겠지만 늘 응원하고있어요 ✨✨
구독과 좋아요로 응원합니다. 먼 타지에서 힘든 마음 두따님과 이겨내신다는 생각에 마음이 아프면서도 존경스럽습니다!! 슈퍼맘 화이팅!!
Relationships are work, even the ending of some of them or the transitioning of them to something else and you're doing the best you can, that is evident. Good vibes!☆♡☆💜
잘하고 있네!!~~~
안맞을 수는 있지.
영특한 머리로 멋지게 실아내길!!!
엄마 말씀처럼 ...
유리가 체조할 때 감격스러워서 눈물나네요 언제 이렇게 컸니 애기 유리가.. 자랑스럽고 뿌듯하다 유리야.. 이모가 항상 응원해💗 유리가 체조랑 댄스를 같이 하니 더 시너지가 나는 거 같아보여요. 체조할 때의 유연함과 테크닉이 춤 출 때도 돋보여요. 어느새 정말 정말 멋지게 컸네요 우리 유리가..
릴리님, 행복만 하셔요..
우연히 릴리 유튭 보게되었는데 정주행 했습니다
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