His mistake was running out on her without saying anything. When he left her on that mountain, he could've turned to her & ask what SHE thought. As HIS wife, he should've put her safety, opinion, & feelings above the psycho ex. But leaving without even glancing at her, despite her knowing & fearing his relationship with his ex. Was beyond stupid, insensitive, & a betrayal. There isn't anything wrong with saving a life, but he did it without thinking about his wife's opinion & safety. He says the signs were there, he just didn't connect them. That's because no matter how much he wants to lie to himself, he still had feelings for his psycho ex. Otherwise he would've been hyper aware of his wife's behavior, actions & words, & deduced by himself that she was pregnant. I don't particularly hate the ML, he's just a dummy😑
Yup; when a husband has a wife, that said husband's top priority is his wife no questions ask; like you said, a husbands very important and number one thing is about his wife's opinions, ideas, thoughts etc. yet he didn't even thought about his wife to begin with so that disqualifies him from being a decent husband.
Good story❤ ML's choices took him to divorce FL took good decision to divorce him its better to live the husband who is always running to his ex to whatever reason.
Yeah and now again he calling his ex wife like crazy .....now he is free just go and help his ex gf as much he wants now no-one is waiting for him at home
I'm literally crying 😢 It hurts me that this happened to her and the only thing that guy can do and say is writing a letter and saying sorry. I know that there's always a second chance but from my experience, nothing hurts more than loosing your own child whether born or not. 😭😭🥺 I just hope that she no longer hears about him. And I just hope for myself that I can let go and have peace in my heart. ❤
It seems like people forgot he stayed out all night and came home with melted ice cream. Then he locked himself in a bathroom for hours. He messed up. If she would have stayed, she would constantly deal with that other woman. Non stop messages, calls, and other crazy stunts. I'm happy she walked away before wasting more years.
You are wrong about it every person needs privacy.at that time He needed time to cope with the fact of his ex harrsment/came back. He chose to close of sometime rather than doing regretful (verbal abuse etc)/diverting his attention, tension on his wife. If the roles was reverse if the same thing done by us female you guys use it as a self love, femenism... Etc & he left bcz she needed blood transfusion (almost death bed) which every human in right mind do either it's male/female. Just like if someone had an accident (it's known or unknown person) call ambulance not just watch the person to die with blood loss & pain on the road (even now a days ppl became so insensitive they are so busy to record someone's final destination just for some likes, comments & fame).
@@Myworld-b2l2g bro ..... First thing how his ex gf knew his current location!?? Did her sister just came many km far away to find same blood group+ its real nobody had same bloof like her!?! If she that serious wht is not de@d ...!?? He chooses his ex not his wife.... Even role reverse i still hate the person who goes after his or her ex. ...... Okk u made mistake in past fine but in present you give your time to yout ex no forgiveness
It's not about privacy and negligence. He was not able to give her the sense of security. He ignored the fear that was depressing his wife about the other women.
Regardless of what choice he made, they would have still broken up. If he chose to ignore the dying ex, then they would have had so much guilt that would have driven them apart. He left without a word, knowing that if she said he couldn't go and the ex died, she would have blamed herself. The better choice would have been for them to go to the hospital together - but its just a story, and that would not have been dramatic enough.
The ex husband isn't the worst but I understand you can't stop what you feel and since she is likely to have trouble having a baby for the rest of her life it is a resentment difficult to let go of
This couple broke up not because of cheating but because of the husband's past relationship haunted him and his marriage. This is like destined to meet but not fated to be together.
I find ML weak and gross.. He didn't actively try to clear up when his wife got slandered as a mistress and even harassed by some stranger teen. Call me heartless but he's not obligated to save the ex so why purposefully get entangled? It's not like he's the one who told her to jump off the building. Why create ambiguity with the ex? It'll just cause more problems later on. FL is really kind to maintain her rationality and console the ML even while hating him. She knows it's the earthquake that caused the casualty but regardless whether there was and earthquake or not ML really should've stayed and join his wife. Sure he didn't cheat but that's a given in any relationship; as in it's not even the bare minimum. Good on FL for not compromising her pain for his sake. I'm really happy she has a supportive social circle. I hope she finds happiness and don't have to hear about him again.
Why did the exes not appear before wedding ? 🤔🤔🤔 Why do they appear only after their exes start a new life with another ? 🤔🤔 There should be a penalty too for such delinquents, who deliberately do harm to the partners of their exes and make their lives totally disturbed. 😡😡😡😡 Thanks for the story. 👍👍👍👍❤❤❤❤❤❤
In modern society, running into people with a past is inevitable. The key is to only step into a new situation when you have the conviction that you have processed your past.
Why the heck would you go and leave your wife? If you're going, the least you could do is take your wife with you but instead you just agree and leave her there all alone. He lied when he said he wouldn't save his ex when she asked who he would save. This is probably one of the sadder once I heard with they were really loving each other and he didn't cheat but instead left her to help another person without thinking about his wife. He's decision ruined three lives, at least she managed to start moving.
This is the 1st time where i actually really feel bad for the ML... But He has done only 2 things wrong... 1st without discussing his wife he went to save his ex gf 2nd he didn't even send a single msg saying "don't worry after giving blood i will soon come to you. Coz i love only you. Nd dont you dare to think any negative thoughts about me nd my love... Love you Baby"... This 2 is the only thing ML had done wrong... Nd for FL she is very weak by nature... She easily provoke by that stupid ex md she didn't even have any trust on her husband after living with him for so many month... I mean common have some trust, fight for your men nd for your love till the end...😔
Trust on him? Lol. In order for her to trust him, he should've been opened about all the things. He never did. Not to mention she was pregnant. So her emotions will be like that.
@@antara.dhibar8686 sometime we have to let some things hidden. Coz we feel that if this thing is known by my partner then may be he/she will be upset nd sad nd more over think negative thing about us... So open everything to our partner about our past sometimes no... Nd sometimes we feel really hurt from our past ex or any situation we didn't even want to not only talk but think about them... I think here ML have same thinking...😊 Nd yes she is pregnant nd so do he also went through emotional turmoil... That's why I am saying both of them have faults here... After seen in real life nd heard lots of stories really I feel bad for the ML coz he really loves her not only that he treated her like a child. Like our parents treat nd love us... Sometimes we have to understand the situation and understand our partner also... Coz understanding, trust, little bit of adjustment nd love make there relationship stronger...😊
Sigh. I don't seem to be able to finish this cuz he did nothing wrong but I understand her emotions too. I got his priorities straight. And saving a life is important yes. Maybe he should have brought her with him to have her mind rest easy
I think he didn't want to ask her to go as he feared that it would make his wife feel worse. Also he didn't want to force her away from the trip especially when he could rejoin her later. Plus if ex was dying and desperately needed the blood, time was of the essence. I agree with you though. I can't finish this. He saved a life, he didn't know about baby and he didn't know the earthquake would happen, otherwise he never would have left her. He clearly chose his wife over and over again and she still threw him away over her insecurities.
I'm on husband's side here. I mean even FL admitted that Alex had the rare blood type same as the ex. She'd let someone die because of her insecurities? Even though Alex chose her over and over again? Really? Let's not forget that had he said no in front of everyone then not only would he be looked down on, his wife would too. You're telling me that if you're the only one who could save someone, you'd let them die? Says a lot if you ask me. Edit: Why do people act like their partner should just *know* that a disaster is going to happen in these stories? Circumstances like that happen sometimes and its awful. But to blame him for not being there to save her and never telling him about their baby in the first place? This is on her. Not him. And I'll stand by that.
He was an asshole no matter how you cut it and who you want to blame. A cheater is a cheater, no matter what.so stop standing up like an asshole for an asshole. You personally are a double bag for trying ro cover for a cheater..I take it you're a cheater yourself so trying to lift his blame.
“she’d let someone die for her insecurities” SHE SHOULD cuz it wasn’t even over her insecurities; why are you, a married man, going to save your ex anyway ? why are you prioritising someone else over your partner ? you mean to tell me he couldn’t have found even a single moment to communicate why he left so suddenly ? not a single fucking moment ? bullshit. if you’re on the ml’s side you clearly won’t be able to hold a relationship meaningfully.
After listening and watching so many infidelity stories, I don't think he would have cheated on her. Too many coincidences caused the breakup. Only the 2 people involved are aware of limits.
What's cheating ? Is it just being in an extramarital relationship? If a person chooses another over you, if his first choice isn't you and if you're not the most important person for him anymore, if he leaves you for another without saying anything to you, isn't this the cheating too ? Think for yourself. Because cheating has unlimited possibilities, it is not limited to cheating only with physical relationships with your first love or ex-girlfriend, you see !
This one was toyally unfair to the husband. FL literally dumped him because he wasn't there to save her. He didn't cheat. He told FL not to interact with his psycho ex, but she decided to clip that ball and chain on her ankle. She just gave up the husband who took good care of her because he chose to donate blood to save the ex's life. She let the ex break them up like a damn idiot. Not a love story.
Couldn’t agree with you more. I really feel bad for the ML. I love the fact that he didn’t fall for the fake push act. I hate when FL engage with the conniving ex. She knew that woman was up to no good but still entertained and provoked her. I feel bad for him.
@@nopeninja9765while I agree about the EX part, I don't believe you should feel bad about the husband; he made his choice to leave her to die behind despite the fact that SHE IS PREGNANT.
@@Dante999000 Except he didn't leave her to die nor did he know she was pregnant. So far as he knew, she was going to be safe with friends and co-workers. The earthquake was a sudden event he couldn't predict. A lovely Chinese trope was in play here: Don't reveal vital info. She had PLENTY of time to tell him she was pregnant. She chose not to and decided to go on the hike on her own.
@@Mama_Badazhoh I agree but this simply means that both were at fault; the husband for being intimate with his EX and the wife for not telling the husband about her pregnancy and going on her own without telling the husband. This simply means that both were incompatible from the start if they're going to divorce.
I think the fl is very over sensitive. he is not cheating on her but still got divorced at the end. everyone has their life and also secrets that they want to keep to not spoil their current relationship, like he kept secret about his first love . but he really cherished his wife very much , knew her preferences ,took good care for her etc. even when his ex came infront of his home and made a scene he didnot give a fuck about her and shut door on her face , because he moved on. when his ex sis came for him for blood bec it is rare blood and he also happens to have the same blood group. as a responsible person when it is life or death situation he couldnt help but go to donate blood. but he could just communicate with her which he didnot . also i thing fl is childish because her child dead is not by him but by a earthquake . she is not the only one that lost child it is even him. divorsing him without even communicating to ml was a horrific decision. at the end it is huge loss for fl for divorsing the ml instead of talking about it . any sane person wouldnt do that decision . he is sweet th her till the end also I thing she blamed the ml for her sons child which he probably didnt know at all. maybe if he knew he wouldnt leave her well this is my opinion , share opinion on this through commenting
Just b/c he wasn't having sex with his ex doesn't mean he wasn't cheating. Emotional cheating is still cheating. He put his ex above his wife time and time again. IMO, the FL wasn't overly sensitive, she was tired of being gaslighted into thinking he didn't still have feelings for his ex.
“as a responsible person he shouldn’t have let her die so he went to donate blood” and that’s a form of cheating. if you’re so emotionally attached to someone that you feel responsible for their life just bc you two happen to be exes and also share the same blood type that you’d prioritise that ex over your current wife, that’s emotional cheating.
His mistake was running out on her without saying anything. When he left her on that mountain, he could've turned to her & ask what SHE thought. As HIS wife, he should've put her safety, opinion, & feelings above the psycho ex. But leaving without even glancing at her, despite her knowing & fearing his relationship with his ex. Was beyond stupid, insensitive, & a betrayal. There isn't anything wrong with saving a life, but he did it without thinking about his wife's opinion & safety.
He says the signs were there, he just didn't connect them. That's because no matter how much he wants to lie to himself, he still had feelings for his psycho ex. Otherwise he would've been hyper aware of his wife's behavior, actions & words, & deduced by himself that she was pregnant.
I don't particularly hate the ML, he's just a dummy😑
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Yup; when a husband has a wife, that said husband's top priority is his wife no questions ask; like you said, a husbands very important and number one thing is about his wife's opinions, ideas, thoughts etc. yet he didn't even thought about his wife to begin with so that disqualifies him from being a decent husband.
This is a sad story. Husband made a choice which ended up disastrous. No chance for reconciliation.
Good story❤
ML's choices took him to divorce
FL took good decision to divorce him its better to live the husband who is always running to his ex to whatever reason.
Yeah and now again he calling his ex wife like crazy .....now he is free just go and help his ex gf as much he wants now no-one is waiting for him at home
I'm literally crying 😢 It hurts me that this happened to her and the only thing that guy can do and say is writing a letter and saying sorry. I know that there's always a second chance but from my experience, nothing hurts more than loosing your own child whether born or not. 😭😭🥺 I just hope that she no longer hears about him. And I just hope for myself that I can let go and have peace in my heart. ❤
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@@kalenagy 🤗🤗 hugs.
It seems like people forgot he stayed out all night and came home with melted ice cream. Then he locked himself in a bathroom for hours. He messed up. If she would have stayed, she would constantly deal with that other woman. Non stop messages, calls, and other crazy stunts. I'm happy she walked away before wasting more years.
One more reason/excuse to never date and stay single; cause once in love, you might wrecked your life instead of improving yourself.
Yeah that nice otherwise most of Chinese Indian drama shows wife forgive her husband
You are wrong about it every person needs privacy.at that time He needed time to cope with the fact of his ex harrsment/came back.
He chose to close of sometime rather than doing regretful (verbal abuse etc)/diverting his attention, tension on his wife.
If the roles was reverse if the same thing done by us female you guys use it as a self love, femenism... Etc
& he left bcz she needed blood transfusion (almost death bed) which every human in right mind do either it's male/female.
Just like if someone had an accident (it's known or unknown person) call ambulance not just watch the person to die with blood loss & pain on the road (even now a days ppl became so insensitive they are so busy to record someone's final destination just for some likes, comments & fame).
@@Myworld-b2l2g bro ..... First thing how his ex gf knew his current location!?? Did her sister just came many km far away to find same blood group+ its real nobody had same bloof like her!?! If she that serious wht is not de@d ...!?? He chooses his ex not his wife.... Even role reverse i still hate the person who goes after his or her ex. ...... Okk u made mistake in past fine but in present you give your time to yout ex no forgiveness
It's not about privacy and negligence. He was not able to give her the sense of security. He ignored the fear that was depressing his wife about the other women.
Regardless of what choice he made, they would have still broken up. If he chose to ignore the dying ex, then they would have had so much guilt that would have driven them apart. He left without a word, knowing that if she said he couldn't go and the ex died, she would have blamed herself. The better choice would have been for them to go to the hospital together - but its just a story, and that would not have been dramatic enough.
She is decisive. Good ending.
There's no place for a 3rd party in a Relationship/Marriage..... It's better to Give up on this type of Failed relationship.
The ex husband isn't the worst but I understand you can't stop what you feel and since she is likely to have trouble having a baby for the rest of her life it is a resentment difficult to let go of
This couple broke up not because of cheating but because of the husband's past relationship haunted him and his marriage. This is like destined to meet but not fated to be together.
I find ML weak and gross.. He didn't actively try to clear up when his wife got slandered as a mistress and even harassed by some stranger teen. Call me heartless but he's not obligated to save the ex so why purposefully get entangled? It's not like he's the one who told her to jump off the building. Why create ambiguity with the ex? It'll just cause more problems later on. FL is really kind to maintain her rationality and console the ML even while hating him. She knows it's the earthquake that caused the casualty but regardless whether there was and earthquake or not ML really should've stayed and join his wife. Sure he didn't cheat but that's a given in any relationship; as in it's not even the bare minimum. Good on FL for not compromising her pain for his sake. I'm really happy she has a supportive social circle. I hope she finds happiness and don't have to hear about him again.
Why did the exes not appear before wedding ? 🤔🤔🤔 Why do they appear only after their exes start a new life with another ? 🤔🤔 There should be a penalty too for such delinquents, who deliberately do harm to the partners of their exes and make their lives totally disturbed. 😡😡😡😡 Thanks for the story. 👍👍👍👍❤❤❤❤❤❤
No one questions how that other woman's sister knew where he was? Kinnna creepy.
In modern society, running into people with a past is inevitable. The key is to only step into a new situation when you have the conviction that you have processed your past.
Why the heck would you go and leave your wife? If you're going, the least you could do is take your wife with you but instead you just agree and leave her there all alone. He lied when he said he wouldn't save his ex when she asked who he would save.
This is probably one of the sadder once I heard with they were really loving each other and he didn't cheat but instead left her to help another person without thinking about his wife. He's decision ruined three lives, at least she managed to start moving.
This is the 1st time where i actually really feel bad for the ML... But He has done only 2 things wrong...
1st without discussing his wife he went to save his ex gf
2nd he didn't even send a single msg saying "don't worry after giving blood i will soon come to you. Coz i love only you. Nd dont you dare to think any negative thoughts about me nd my love... Love you Baby"...
This 2 is the only thing ML had done wrong...
Nd for FL she is very weak by nature... She easily provoke by that stupid ex md she didn't even have any trust on her husband after living with him for so many month... I mean common have some trust, fight for your men nd for your love till the end...😔
Trust on him? Lol. In order for her to trust him, he should've been opened about all the things. He never did. Not to mention she was pregnant. So her emotions will be like that.
@@antara.dhibar8686 sometime we have to let some things hidden. Coz we feel that if this thing is known by my partner then may be he/she will be upset nd sad nd more over think negative thing about us... So open everything to our partner about our past sometimes no... Nd sometimes we feel really hurt from our past ex or any situation we didn't even want to not only talk but think about them... I think here ML have same thinking...😊
Nd yes she is pregnant nd so do he also went through emotional turmoil...
That's why I am saying both of them have faults here...
After seen in real life nd heard lots of stories really I feel bad for the ML coz he really loves her not only that he treated her like a child. Like our parents treat nd love us...
Sometimes we have to understand the situation and understand our partner also... Coz understanding, trust, little bit of adjustment nd love make there relationship stronger...😊
Damn! I thought this would be a happy ending but Alexander just had to go mess up 🙄 what an ass
Sigh. I don't seem to be able to finish this cuz he did nothing wrong but I understand her emotions too. I got his priorities straight. And saving a life is important yes. Maybe he should have brought her with him to have her mind rest easy
I think he didn't want to ask her to go as he feared that it would make his wife feel worse. Also he didn't want to force her away from the trip especially when he could rejoin her later. Plus if ex was dying and desperately needed the blood, time was of the essence. I agree with you though. I can't finish this. He saved a life, he didn't know about baby and he didn't know the earthquake would happen, otherwise he never would have left her. He clearly chose his wife over and over again and she still threw him away over her insecurities.
I'm on husband's side here. I mean even FL admitted that Alex had the rare blood type same as the ex. She'd let someone die because of her insecurities? Even though Alex chose her over and over again? Really? Let's not forget that had he said no in front of everyone then not only would he be looked down on, his wife would too. You're telling me that if you're the only one who could save someone, you'd let them die? Says a lot if you ask me.
Edit: Why do people act like their partner should just *know* that a disaster is going to happen in these stories? Circumstances like that happen sometimes and its awful. But to blame him for not being there to save her and never telling him about their baby in the first place? This is on her. Not him. And I'll stand by that.
He came late with melted icecream and stayed in bathroom for 2 hours. He avoided talking about his ex. This was more than enough to tore anyone.
He was an asshole no matter how you cut it and who you want to blame. A cheater is a cheater, no matter what.so stop standing up like an asshole for an asshole. You personally are a double bag for trying ro cover for a cheater..I take it you're a cheater yourself so trying to lift his blame.
So what if the ex died? She jumped off a building, nobody forced her to do it.
“she’d let someone die for her insecurities” SHE SHOULD cuz it wasn’t even over her insecurities; why are you, a married man, going to save your ex anyway ? why are you prioritising someone else over your partner ? you mean to tell me he couldn’t have found even a single moment to communicate why he left so suddenly ? not a single fucking moment ? bullshit. if you’re on the ml’s side you clearly won’t be able to hold a relationship meaningfully.
After listening and watching so many infidelity stories, I don't think he would have cheated on her. Too many coincidences caused the breakup.
Only the 2 people involved are aware of limits.
I agree I think more then anything losing the baby is just hard and even more if she might not be able to conceive again
What's cheating ? Is it just being in an extramarital relationship? If a person chooses another over you, if his first choice isn't you and if you're not the most important person for him anymore, if he leaves you for another without saying anything to you, isn't this the cheating too ? Think for yourself. Because cheating has unlimited possibilities, it is not limited to cheating only with physical relationships with your first love or ex-girlfriend, you see !
I don't understand, if you really love someone why would you lock dissapear and lock ur self for other woman?
Why she wd affect you?
ML should take FL with him rather than leave her alone in a trip, a wise person insured his & his family safety first before helping others.
This one was toyally unfair to the husband. FL literally dumped him because he wasn't there to save her. He didn't cheat. He told FL not to interact with his psycho ex, but she decided to clip that ball and chain on her ankle.
She just gave up the husband who took good care of her because he chose to donate blood to save the ex's life. She let the ex break them up like a damn idiot. Not a love story.
Couldn’t agree with you more. I really feel bad for the ML. I love the fact that he didn’t fall for the fake push act. I hate when FL engage with the conniving ex. She knew that woman was up to no good but still entertained and provoked her. I feel bad for him.
So you're saying that ML leaving the FL to die while pregnant is a good thing??
@@nopeninja9765while I agree about the EX part, I don't believe you should feel bad about the husband; he made his choice to leave her to die behind despite the fact that SHE IS PREGNANT.
@@Dante999000 Except he didn't leave her to die nor did he know she was pregnant. So far as he knew, she was going to be safe with friends and co-workers. The earthquake was a sudden event he couldn't predict. A lovely Chinese trope was in play here: Don't reveal vital info. She had PLENTY of time to tell him she was pregnant. She chose not to and decided to go on the hike on her own.
@@Mama_Badazhoh I agree but this simply means that both were at fault; the husband for being intimate with his EX and the wife for not telling the husband about her pregnancy and going on her own without telling the husband. This simply means that both were incompatible from the start if they're going to divorce.
Again and again same sad stories
Thank-You for the good story ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Title is wrong, no such scene
Eh, only thing ML did wrong was not taking FL with him when he was honna donate his blood
Wow, this is 1st time I really dislike this story. Yeah, too selfish. Way too hasty, both sides. ML bashing. Highly traumatized FM.
Nah , this was Totally unfair for ML .....
Ya it was a tough situation, the other woman was crazy. He did really try, this is one of the stories where a reconciliation part was needed
I think the fl is very over sensitive. he is not cheating on her but still got divorced at the end. everyone has their life and also secrets that they want to keep to not spoil their current relationship, like he kept secret about his first love . but he really cherished his wife very much , knew her preferences ,took good care for her etc.
even when his ex came infront of his home and made a scene he didnot give a fuck about her and shut door on her face , because he moved on. when his ex sis came for him for blood bec it is rare blood and he also happens to have the same blood group. as a responsible person when it is life or death situation he couldnt help but go to donate blood. but he could just communicate with her which he didnot .
also i thing fl is childish because her child dead is not by him but by a earthquake . she is not the only one that lost child it is even him. divorsing him without even communicating to ml was a horrific decision.
at the end it is huge loss for fl for divorsing the ml instead of talking about it . any sane person wouldnt do that decision . he is sweet th her till the end
also I thing she blamed the ml for her sons child which he probably didnt know at all. maybe if he knew he wouldnt leave her
well this is my opinion , share opinion on this through commenting
Just b/c he wasn't having sex with his ex doesn't mean he wasn't cheating. Emotional cheating is still cheating. He put his ex above his wife time and time again. IMO, the FL wasn't overly sensitive, she was tired of being gaslighted into thinking he didn't still have feelings for his ex.
There is more than physical cheating , emotional cheating is worse.
“as a responsible person he shouldn’t have let her die so he went to donate blood” and that’s a form of cheating. if you’re so emotionally attached to someone that you feel responsible for their life just bc you two happen to be exes and also share the same blood type that you’d prioritise that ex over your current wife, that’s emotional cheating.