‘7 Little Johnstons’: Amber Reflects On Her Fight With Anna

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  • Опубліковано 6 чер 2021
  • In this exclusive sneak peek at the new episode of “7 Little Johnstons,” Amber talks with Trent the morning after she stormed out of a fight with Anna about moving out. “7 Little Johnstons” airs Tuesdays at 8/7c on TLC.
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  • @anaidkc
    @anaidkc 3 роки тому +176

    Amber knows all the right words to say to cover up and excuse her bad behavior as a mom. She knows exactly what Anna is asking for and what she needs and she acts like she doesn’t understand Anna’s communication.

    • @Andrew-wy1gg
      @Andrew-wy1gg 2 роки тому +1

      I know it's such bullshit she knows damn well that girl is not asking for a "party" she's asking her just to be happy for her this lady is so manipulative that she actually believes the shit that comes out of her mouth and it's sad

  • @marielaausher
    @marielaausher 3 роки тому +66

    She didn't want a party, she just wanted her mom to support her.
    Anna was ready to leave, confident on her ability to make it on her own but Amber just busted in to destroy all that confidence.
    Of course they treat her differently. I don't see them being this picky about Elizabeth despite the fact that she's younger.

  • @emmylou-y4b
    @emmylou-y4b 3 роки тому +246

    Anna's tears and frustration were heartbreaking to watch. This was no reality show setup. Anna has, at times, been disobedient but not in any scary way. When they were in therapy, didn't the therapist ask them if they were trying to get rid of Anna by forcing her to live away from home when she went to college? They've always treated her like a problem child.
    Does anyone know if Anna finished college? The timeline is a bit confusing. It seems like the kids are still in school and they're being pushed out. Crazy.

    • @coollollipop1
      @coollollipop1 3 роки тому +15

      Anna is still in school but not living at the college due to pandemic.

    • @rosegroshek1218
      @rosegroshek1218 3 роки тому +3

      It is a reality show. Plain and simple

    • @angeleyes7417
      @angeleyes7417 3 роки тому +9

      Sad. She should have still been able to do school at home in peace and comfort. Why didnt they allow her too. Only way to be on own is quit and get fulltime job. A shame these kids cant finish college at home. Stop and hear your children. I think their setting anna up to fell.

  • @lynnemacfadzean4855
    @lynnemacfadzean4855 3 роки тому +90

    my heart goes out to Anna She needs to get away from the TOXIC relationship with mama

  • @christinacarr8971
    @christinacarr8971 3 роки тому +215

    I can't handle mommy dearest anymore. She claims to love her adopted child but her behavior, tone, and attitude certainly don't back that claim up. Says she cares but her actions and tone say otherwise. Yes, all kids mature at different rates regardless of their physical age. That, I could understand if it was actually was true. Sadly, since their series started I've noticed a huge discrepancy between mom's words and actions when compared to her reactions with other children in the same scenario. Mom's behavior does not pass the BS sniff test.

    • @donniebrowder9070
      @donniebrowder9070 3 роки тому +10

      Christina, you're absolutely correct about Amber!!

    • @wilmawraight9682
      @wilmawraight9682 3 роки тому +4

      True

    • @auti34
      @auti34 3 роки тому +2

      I feel.Ike Anna have some iusse they are not dealing with

    • @anaidkc
      @anaidkc 3 роки тому +5

      Same!!! Amber knows all the right words to say to cover up and excuse her bad behavior as a mom. She knows exactly what Anna is asking for and what she needs and she acts like she doesn’t understand Anna’s communication.

    • @wilmawraight9682
      @wilmawraight9682 3 роки тому +3

      She’s cruel

  • @chaeryeong7029
    @chaeryeong7029 3 роки тому +237

    She didnt want a party or anything like that she wanted her mom to be proud of her for the hard works shes done to move out??? How hard is that for her to understand ahhhh i can’t watch this without getting upset poor anna you can definitely tell they are pulling a favorite card on their kids

    • @michellejones4110
      @michellejones4110 2 роки тому +4

      EXACTLY!!! just acknowledge her happiness. Not great parenting I'm afraid

    • @skiilady
      @skiilady Рік тому +1

      @@michellejones4110 But all the ppl commenting says they are great parents. I bag the difference, Just to much against Anna, and she needs support just like the rest of your kids. Amber your excuse for not giving Anna a going away party pretty much summed that up. I will add, I do not think they are bad parents, I'm just saying they do not treat all their kids the same4.

  • @Cecethegreat425
    @Cecethegreat425 3 роки тому +69

    Don’t worry Anna. Those who are “different” esp in the family unit are the ones who change the world. Remember that ….

  • @jamesdscott203
    @jamesdscott203 3 роки тому +74

    No Trent, you do not parent your 5 kids the same, come on now. Amber says I care, not I love you to Anna. The last episode she had her back to Anna while talking to Emma and Alex re their chinese New years, i did not see her engage with her at all. And when Elizabeth grabbed Anna's keys to move Annas car so Amber could leave, Elizabeth gave Anna a nasty hate stare, she too acts like her mother. What is it about Anna that Amber dislikes so much?

    • @ardellnevels9813
      @ardellnevels9813 3 роки тому +9

      She jealous because the daddy pay more attention to Anna and the mama can't take it that's bad your own daughter you don't like the mama is a mama dearest that's for sure spending them kids money up and now you ready for them to move

    • @Lashamarie22
      @Lashamarie22 2 роки тому +3

      First off y’all judging these folks off little 30 secs clips

    • @MuhammadAhmed-oc6ol
      @MuhammadAhmed-oc6ol 2 роки тому +2

      You don’t know anything about them this is a reality tv show relax

    • @skiilady
      @skiilady Рік тому +2

      Not her biological child, she treats the bio. kids are much different. That is not right, get your cit together, and treat them all the same. Amber and Trent, you know you treat them kids differently. Anna is the sweetest girl, and she tries hard but gets little recognition for her accomplishments. Anna also has a great personality. If we didn't know she was not your biological child she would act just like Trent with all her joking. BE PROUD!

  • @hannahxx17
    @hannahxx17 2 роки тому +36

    All Anna said was that the way Amber treated her in the situation was different than her siblings and she's right. All she wanted was some 'I'm happy for you' before the 'have you thought about....' conversation. Instead it jumped straight to all the reasons why she would fail. Imagine trying to have the confidence to try something if the first people who tell you you're gonna fail are the ones who are meant to support you no matter what. I appreciate that Trent and Amber just want their kids to be okay and to be prepared like any parent naturally does, but sometimes that means supporting failures and giving them confidence even if you're worried it won't work out. Being frank and being unfairly harsh are two different things. They could have expressed their worries for Anna in a different way at a different time. Be excited, ask what her plans are, ask her what shes thinking, then work WITH her to be sure shes prepared instead of tearing apart her plans from the get go and showing her that you think she's going to fail before even trying.

  • @hillarysantos3175
    @hillarysantos3175 3 роки тому +28

    This hits different when you are adopted…
    When you have toxic adoptive parents the minute you try to get away from that situation suddenly you are ungrateful.
    Anna will never be able to say what she needs without sounding ungrateful.
    I've been there 😞
    That is all I have to say 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @user-si4xf3jc4y
    @user-si4xf3jc4y 3 роки тому +52

    Anna wanted to work in the daycare full time, where she is comfortable doing it, but Amber basically ordered her to work as a substitute teacher to work whenever they needed her, and now she is saying that Anna needs a full time job. Who in the world is going to understand her? Wait until she doesn’t have any children at home, and then she is going to say that she misses them. How in the world are they going to keep filming the show?

    • @kathleenhenson5833
      @kathleenhenson5833 3 роки тому +3

      There are other kids. Anna is always in the middle. I wish her luck

    • @skiilady
      @skiilady Рік тому +1

      If she and Trent can treat all the kids the same they need to cancel the show. TLC should not represent the parent's behavior. IT IS A FAMILY CHANNEL, OR SUPPOSE TO BE IF TRENT AND AMBER COULD STOP THE BEDROOM TALK. WHICH IS VERY SICKENING TO ME, AND A LOT OF OTHERS.

  • @addiebbidding28
    @addiebbidding28 3 роки тому +33

    I am DISGUSTED by the way they treat Anna. DISGUSTED. They are showing their true colors and they are NASTY

  • @nicholasgarrick3165
    @nicholasgarrick3165 3 роки тому +190

    They really showed their true colour fast.

    • @Bg12789
      @Bg12789 3 роки тому +5

      Don't you rather see there true colors , how they actually are instead of being fake or putting up and act just for the camaras.

    • @missychase3014
      @missychase3014 3 роки тому +8

      It’s called real parenting 🙄

    • @heather4189
      @heather4189 3 роки тому +1

      @@missychase3014 I agree

    • @nikosoa
      @nikosoa 2 роки тому +1

      @@missychase3014 don’t have kids. You’ll fuck em up

    • @momonohanna9406
      @momonohanna9406 2 роки тому

      @@nikosoa It’s not cool to control someone else’s body. Knock it off!

  • @bernicelopez7804
    @bernicelopez7804 3 роки тому +40

    In reality the kids that 18 and older dont need permission to move out!!! You need to really practice on how you explain things to your kids ...

    • @beautifulwreck7296
      @beautifulwreck7296 3 роки тому +6

      That is what I want to say to Anna....Amber is always micromanaging her kids lives....she said so in this video....I don't know what she is doing...well guess what Amber she doesn't have to tell you her plan if she is over 18 she does not need your permission to do anything. I have read Anna has moved out....I hope she leads a very successful and happy life!!!

  • @lanilexander651
    @lanilexander651 2 роки тому +5

    Amber and Trent needs to realise that nobody is ready to move out of their parents home financially, emotionally and responsible.

  • @lulu7777ist
    @lulu7777ist 3 роки тому +78

    Have it ever occurred to them that Anne wants to move out to get away from them...the parents. Trent said they treat their kids equally, no they don’t. Amber comes across so mean when she talking to Anna.

    • @coollollipop1
      @coollollipop1 3 роки тому +5

      They do not treat the adopted children the same as their own children.

    • @Pamela_N
      @Pamela_N 3 роки тому +10

      Yeah Anna is a hurt young lady she needs to approached appropriately. She's definitely not treated with empathy.

    • @coollollipop1
      @coollollipop1 3 роки тому +11

      @@Pamela_N Well in the court of public opinion I see on many sites ppl are in her corner. I hope she knows that. We are cheering for her .

    • @carolinemcclain5233
      @carolinemcclain5233 3 роки тому +2

      @@coollollipop1 😂😆

    • @ant-ekay7215
      @ant-ekay7215 3 роки тому +4

      @@coollollipop1 Yes they do. Anna is immature yet. But I think Anna has emotional problems and wish her the best. She's a beautiful girl. Elizabeth is very mature .

  • @gene5148
    @gene5148 3 роки тому +23

    All Anna wanted was for her to listen and give her some moral support, Amber's attitude stinks, she needs to learn to listen.

    • @brendanalexcurran3429
      @brendanalexcurran3429 3 роки тому +1

      No Anna wants them to hooraying her on moving out, when she has no plan, and no way to financially support herself. If she moves out they will have to do everything for her

    • @gene5148
      @gene5148 3 роки тому +3

      @@brendanalexcurran3429 well she has been on her own for months now and she is doing pretty good.

    • @dimpleboynton5993
      @dimpleboynton5993 3 роки тому

      You talk to your kids, don't belittle them. We were young kids at one time and we made mistakes, but people want their kids to be perfect. It's hard to watch, but kids will learn from their mistakes.

    • @gene5148
      @gene5148 3 роки тому

      @@dimpleboynton5993 exactly even as big hard back adults we still mess up. I think too often we as parents forget what is was like to be young and even though we may not want our children to make the same mistakes we did, there are still times where we have to let go and let them see for themselves, but I have learn as a parent that many times children just need you to hear them out, even if you think within yourselves that they have no idea what they are speaking about, just listen, hear them out and then calmly explain to them your side and work from there.

    • @dimpleboynton5993
      @dimpleboynton5993 3 роки тому

      @@gene5148 I agree with you 100% Roslyn.

  • @timlouden5088
    @timlouden5088 3 роки тому +19

    You know I don’t really make comments about shows but this one’s kind of got to me I’ve been watching the show from the beginning and I truly feel that Anna is treated different then the rest of the kids. This is from an outsider looking in. And they don’t parent all five of them the same and they’re kind of showing the world that and that’s my opinion. Donna

    • @ant-ekay7215
      @ant-ekay7215 3 роки тому +2

      Anna is a beautiful girl but very immature and needs different parenting and I guess you missed them with Jonah.

  • @rglm6423
    @rglm6423 2 роки тому +6

    Watching the video of Elizabeth moving into her new apartment every one of you were excited..
    you need to show the same excitement for all your children.

  • @allysonkathryn5014
    @allysonkathryn5014 3 роки тому +10

    It’s ok for them to say that their daughter isn’t ready to move out it’s been their responsibility since they brought her home to protect her and look out for her

  • @dimpleboynton5993
    @dimpleboynton5993 3 роки тому +49

    Last season and this season Amber is really showing the real her. It's obvious how different she treat Ana. When Amber planned the New Year's celebration tradition in honor of two of her adopted kids, she did not include Ana. That had to hurt Ana a lot. Trent treat Ana with more respect.

  • @sharonpanico4769
    @sharonpanico4769 3 роки тому +10

    I'm watching this again
    Do u all realize Amber says what thier kids want to do with jobs and move out
    Amber says she cares about them
    She wants only wants best for her( Amber )
    Not what the kids want
    I do not agree with Amber
    The kids could do and learn as they go along with thier lives
    The parents should always stand behind them

  • @lifechanges557
    @lifechanges557 Рік тому +1

    I have watched this show for years now, and I do see a difference in how they treat Anna, All Anna wanted from Amber was for her to be happy for her, not a Party, to be happy and proud of her.

  • @niamhyoung7684
    @niamhyoung7684 3 роки тому +10

    The mother has seemed to change a lot from when the show 1st started. Now I haven't watched every episode so no expert at all. From what I've seen the parents are a little too strict especially when it comes to the kids feelings. I'm very curious as to their reasons for adopting

  • @c.c.8058
    @c.c.8058 3 роки тому +10

    I think Anna was asking for a little bit of acceptance not excitement .And when you were reading the Chinese animals about each person you said that your husband said arrogance. It didn't say that but funny how when it came to yours you said oh they got it all wrong. I'm sorry I love you all and like the show so much. But in this case I think the mom needs to take a step back maybe go back and watch the shows and she can see it in her eyes. I think they're a great family but I really do think that that might help.

  • @adaljisaalmonte4042
    @adaljisaalmonte4042 3 роки тому +40

    I have followed the show from the beginning from when the children were younger, I believe Anna feels she doesn’t get enough support from her parents, Anna probably feels a certain type of way and just wants a reaction from her parents , but she needs to understand that being and an adult requires a-lot of responsibilities I think she needs to experience being out in the big world Amber should let her feel it, and just give her moral support and not get into a battle with her

  • @nickhopper193
    @nickhopper193 3 роки тому +4

    “If we didn’t care I would be bringing boxes home for you” cmon Trent your better then that. Just rewatch some clips of 7LJ, Anna has been treated like shit damn near the whole show . As soon as you step foot out Anna fly away an never look back ! Don’t let them take anything else away from you

  • @firefly-fu3ce
    @firefly-fu3ce 3 роки тому +4

    She doesn't like that Anna will need her fair share of the money they've made. Give Anna her share from the show.

  • @rickyssj7695
    @rickyssj7695 2 роки тому

    What season was this so I can watch it

  • @ginaclark3383
    @ginaclark3383 3 роки тому +21

    Amber you are the problem!! Women up and down it!! You treat Anna badly !!

    • @shawntaythetvshowwomenthec9515
      @shawntaythetvshowwomenthec9515 3 роки тому +4

      She do mistreat her daughter wrong that is not right

    • @brendanalexcurran3429
      @brendanalexcurran3429 3 роки тому +1

      She doesn’t treat her badly, Anna doesn’t have a plan, and she can’t afford to support herself financially, Anna wants to move out but couldn’t pay any of her bills, her little part time job doesn’t make that much, if they treated her badly they would let her go, and not care what happened to her

    • @coollollipop1
      @coollollipop1 3 роки тому +7

      @@brendanalexcurran3429 Dont you think that they should have put money in trust from the show for the children. It would not be an issue right now about her moving out if they had. She could buy a home and at least have a place to live and figure out her life. I don't think the best environment for her is to live with them. The mother has said Anna is causing a lot of trouble that is awful to do that and spread it to the sibling.

    • @brendanalexcurran3429
      @brendanalexcurran3429 3 роки тому

      @@coollollipop1 well first Im not sure if you know but they do NOT make that much per episode, the children maybe get 100-200 which they use on their children’s education clothes and livelyhood, on top of fees for Adopting children and taking care of 5!!!! Kids and a husband and a home and giving them EVERYTHING they want. Anna DOESNT have a plan, she seen her sister move and wants to do it too, and as her mother i think she knows that and knows she’s not ready, her parents love her and care for her and knows her child more then we do. To say her parents mistreat her when they went to Russia and adopted her and her siblings and gave them love is disgusting

    • @coollollipop1
      @coollollipop1 3 роки тому +4

      @@brendanalexcurran3429 No if you go to many sites on yt 80 % of the comments are saying they think Anna is mistreated. There is no way that many of the public would think that if there was not some reason to think it. I would have to see facts not just you providing a dollar amount without backing it up. There is no proof they don't make a good amount for the shows. They have been on for 7 years. When they adopted the children of course they are financially responsible duh. If you cannot afford to take care of them financially you have no right to adopt. They did not have to buy that big of a home. Instead would have made more sense to put money in trust from the show to the children for their future. I just assumed they would have put money in trust and now to find out by there lecturing Anna about her income could not support her they did not put money in trust. I think that was wrong and it should have been the priority over buying a big new home. How did Liz possibly move to such an upscale place since she only started working about 1 year ago. Unless she is making a lot of money it does not make sense. I am not going to change my view that money from the show some should have gone into trust funds for the children.

  • @user-rw2dr5my1s
    @user-rw2dr5my1s 3 роки тому +2

    She literally ask her for something so small and she couldn’t even do that. She is still a kid and can’t put into words how she feels, on the other hand she’s an adult with years of experience. Why couldn’t she just say “ well I’m excited for you but I don’t want to show it because I don’t want you to feel like I want you gone” I don’t get parents sometimes?!?!?!

  • @DM-vc5zy
    @DM-vc5zy 3 роки тому +12

    Amber is the problem. Once she accepts her faults things would be a little lighter. She's acting as if she dosent care. Stop pushing them out. Make it a great experience them moving on thier own. Amber needs therapy herself

  • @algerome28
    @algerome28 3 роки тому +2

    Manipulative parents. Theres being worried about your kid and giving advice and then theres her. Putting her down instead of supporting her and trying to show her what could be.

  • @marlye57
    @marlye57 3 роки тому +7

    They should worry more about Jonah instead of Anna. I would kick him out of the house really fast beleive me!

  • @coollollipop1
    @coollollipop1 3 роки тому +2

    this week show was better and less conflict. the siblings are getting along and I feel they have a close bond. I am happy to know that so they will hopefully be close in the future.

  • @Priska08
    @Priska08 2 роки тому +1

    Amber managed to show all of us how much she doesn't like Ana.

  • @AMANDAinKC
    @AMANDAinKC 2 роки тому +1

    I wish parents would just SHUT UP AND LISTEN to their kids. Don't interrupt. Just listen. Anna was so frustrated. My heart broke.

  • @brendatallmadge9831
    @brendatallmadge9831 3 роки тому +2

    Amber,why don’t you treat Anna like you do the other kids,good god if I was Anna I’d leave home. It’s terrible. Like WTF are you jealous of Anna,makes me sick

  • @anitaolsen743
    @anitaolsen743 3 роки тому +4

    Definitely know who wears the pants in that family!! I feel extra bad for Elizabeth.

  • @6last3d
    @6last3d 2 роки тому +1

    it honestly does seem like they prefer Elizabeth. they were so happy for her but can’t even get a “oh good, i’m proud of you Anna!”. poor girl i hope their relationship changes.

  • @c.c.8058
    @c.c.8058 3 роки тому +6

    I wonder if they do anything for Anna to honor her country. I think was Russia not for sure

  • @celvil1848
    @celvil1848 Рік тому

    Honestly, these parents need a reality check. They are so far detached. The girl wasn’t asking for you to throw a party. She just wanted you to be happy from the inside out and tell her that you’re proud of her.

  • @gracea3643
    @gracea3643 3 роки тому +2

    Wtf that was the worst thing a parent can say to their child.”You can’t expect excitement for you” like wtf is that…she meant be proud and support her decisión yet if it was for Alex or someone else she would do it without a question 0:51😒

  • @HeatherLynseyMusic
    @HeatherLynseyMusic 3 роки тому +13

    Idk why they’re so hateful, no one is asking you to do a fucking cartwheel. Just say “Honey this could go really bad if you’re not as prepared as you are telling me”, that’s it. My momma would tell me to get on with my bad self and hope my plan is as good as I say. All this could be avoided if they let her grow up.

    • @coollollipop1
      @coollollipop1 3 роки тому +2

      They should have put money in a trust fund for each child from money from the show and when they turn 18 could use it to buy a home so they can move out. That they did not is the reason for all the problems. They made money from the show for 7 years so why was not money put in trust for the kids.

    • @jodeedugger7570
      @jodeedugger7570 3 роки тому +4

      How is she not responsible she was 3 jobs and got all A’s and B’s in college they had to move her around due to COVID that wasn’t in her control. Jonah is the one who isn’t responsible not wanting a full time job being a bumb.... Anna wants to move out and I would commend her for that, but I wouldn’t let her move out too quickly because she needs a better plan but she is really working on that so I would be supportive.

    • @coollollipop1
      @coollollipop1 3 роки тому +3

      The father was interviewed and said the kids do get paid for the show. that is good to know and hopefully it can help them buy a house if they want to in future.

    • @hopeeason1774
      @hopeeason1774 3 роки тому +1

      @@coollollipop1 That's a good point, I wonder because they're of age can they have their own contract

    • @coollollipop1
      @coollollipop1 3 роки тому +2

      @@hopeeason1774 I think they do sign a new contract every year and includes all the children living at home. If they chose not to they would not have to be part of the show. If they are getting financial compensation it would be good to stay on the show. It is good to know they do get financial compensation because ppl watch the show because of the children and how they are doing etc.

  • @lolly1405
    @lolly1405 11 місяців тому +1

    I don’t blame Anna for wanting to get away from them. I don’t blame her at all. They treat her so much different than the rest of the kids. She’s like the red headed step child of this family. It’s sad to watch sometimes because she’s just begging for acceptance. She’s literally begging for acceptance and she doesn’t get it.

  • @c.c.8058
    @c.c.8058 3 роки тому +7

    I love watching Jonah and Anna having a conversation last night.

  • @melsattitude8668
    @melsattitude8668 3 роки тому +5

    I don't understand why they put SO much money into that much bigger home to kick all these special kids out. Not all kids are good at moving out. What's their damn rush? They are pushing and it's wrong.

  • @lpetite8636
    @lpetite8636 3 роки тому +1

    Well get the boxes....because you DON'T want her there. Who are you two kidding?

  • @marshamckelvey4848
    @marshamckelvey4848 2 роки тому +1

    Everybody is being too harsh to the Mom. She told Anna she needed a fulltime job. Some kids have to learn the hard way. Little people have to deal with a whole lot of prejudice out there. Amber is telling her the truth. Sometimes the truth hurts.

  • @donnaharling7653
    @donnaharling7653 3 роки тому

    Sometimes being a good parent is allowing ,your grown child to make mistakes . I needed to learn things for myself , but I also had to deal with the consequences.Love her through the good and the bad choices and pray she learns from all of it . Even when your kids are grown or close to it , they still need reassurance that they are loved and supported and to hear ‘l am so proud of you “. Watching your child struggle hurts , but you can love and support them , even if your views are different.

  • @DJ-wp2lk
    @DJ-wp2lk 2 роки тому +2

    Amber needs to get her face checked by a dermatologist. She’s got a ton of dark moles that just keep multiplying, could be skin cancer.

  • @maryneering8761
    @maryneering8761 2 роки тому +1

    Amber is such a horrible mother. She treats Anna like crap

  • @chaicrossing4319
    @chaicrossing4319 3 роки тому +7

    I don’t understand why they treat Anna so badly she wants to be a adult and live on her own let her do it they forced her to go to a college a little farther away when she wanted to be closer to her family so why are they upset that she wants to live on her own?

    • @brendanalexcurran3429
      @brendanalexcurran3429 3 роки тому +1

      Do you not realize SHE CANT AFFORD TO LIVE ON HER OWN? If she moves out she’s going to be 100% financially dependent on them; hence why move out? It would be a financial burden on them when they have 3 other kids at home. Anna just wants to be like Elizabeth but Elizabeth has a plan and can support herself without parents help or money

    • @chaicrossing4319
      @chaicrossing4319 3 роки тому +4

      @@brendanalexcurran3429 if she gets a job then she’ll be able to no need to get angry chill tf out.

    • @coollollipop1
      @coollollipop1 3 роки тому +2

      @@brendanalexcurran3429 How do you know they did not help Elizabeth get her home? It looks like a very upscale place from the pics and she has not been working that long so how can she afford such an upscale place? Unless she is making a lot of money from her job. No one knows if they did not help her get the home she is moving to. Just because ppl say something does not mean you should believe it is the truth.

    • @lizschuller6894
      @lizschuller6894 3 роки тому +1

      The rule about "Once you leave, then you leave for good" is wrong. let her try. if she fails then what you are going to leave her homeless? guide her with a little love. goodness

    • @coollollipop1
      @coollollipop1 3 роки тому +2

      @@lizschuller6894 IT is harsh, she should try to manage and I believe she can but she is also trying to finish her degree. Parents should be there in case problems happen.

  • @summerg.2934
    @summerg.2934 3 роки тому +6

    I honestly don't think she knows how condescending she comes off when she's talking to her...there comes a time in a kids life that some of them respond well to counsel and advice, and some just need to learn the hard way...Anna clearly needs to learn the hard way...she would have a much better relationship with her if she accepted that...when they get older you really have to treat your kid based on their personality...they are all different and respond differently...then just be there when and if it all implodes lol

  • @MediocreMedic123
    @MediocreMedic123 2 роки тому

    The dad is always vibing

  • @annetteturner5954
    @annetteturner5954 2 роки тому +1

    Yes it's hard being mom no one can tell anyone else how to raise their child, Ana better off then any Kardashian daughter and more Beautiful.

  • @dariaaria3134
    @dariaaria3134 3 роки тому

    Да где блин чертовы полноценные ролики?

  • @fatimaroveri4686
    @fatimaroveri4686 3 роки тому

    Precisamos de tradução por favor

  • @berniehaughney2906
    @berniehaughney2906 2 роки тому +1

    She picks on Anna

  • @jessicavilt7583
    @jessicavilt7583 3 роки тому +6

    Amber and Trent, u two are bad parents. Why don't u do a trust fund for each kid? Amber u are mean when u talk to Anna. She wants to be happy about her wanting idpenandce. Ur more happy and looking for homes for Elizabeth. U guys do not treat ur kids equally period . U guys are control freaks . Every one wants to move out to get away from u two. Everyone moves out at some point. But one point i do agree with Trent on is now days u do need a full time job but that's all I agree with .

  • @gaylebertinelli3499
    @gaylebertinelli3499 3 роки тому +1

    So you let her try it any way n if she can't do it she moves back home what is the big deal.

  • @annetteturner5954
    @annetteturner5954 2 роки тому

    Mom and dad knows their own child best

  • @Nnnnnnnnnnnnnnsh
    @Nnnnnnnnnnnnnnsh 18 днів тому +1

    Amber is a bully with Anna Amber you are a little bully don't be jealous of Anna

  • @fatimashah5311
    @fatimashah5311 Рік тому

    It’s super clear Amber treats her biological children better than Anna,Emma,and Alex.. But my heart breaks especially for Anna,I think she’d treat a total stranger better than Anna..

  • @c.c.8058
    @c.c.8058 3 роки тому +6

    Anna was four when she was adopted she didn't know any English of course it took some time for her to get adjusted maybe that's where it all stems from I don't know

  • @c.c.8058
    @c.c.8058 3 роки тому +6

    Okay I guess I'm on a rant but it just really makes me concerned about Anna you know I saw her sitting at the table when they were talking about the Chinese New Year it just feels like they didn't even try to include her or I should say the mom I'm not trying to pick on anyone person I just really think they need to step back and look at it the mom goes out in the garage and helps the other Liz with a coffee table and on last night show the son brought in equipment to start a podcast I can only imagine if Anna was to come in and do that and by any means I'm not talking bad about the other two kids their wonderful I just really want the mom to sit back and look at this

    • @StilettoCutsQuick.
      @StilettoCutsQuick. 3 роки тому +3

      I thought the same thing when they were planning the Chinese NY with Anna sitting at the table. It seemed like the mom was throwing it in Anna’s face like see I can still have a good time with my others kids, you don’t bring me down.

  • @mabell2285
    @mabell2285 3 роки тому +1

    Amber, Anna is an adult why are you controlling her and treating her like she's dumb talking about her to her siblings, Elizabeth is moving out because she doesn't want you going to her about Anna she loves her sister she don't you gossiping to her about Anna. I'm sorry but Treit is a hen pick husband

  • @thebeautywriter244
    @thebeautywriter244 2 роки тому +1

    *there's something off with the real relationship the older kids have with the parents* if you look back at other episodes Trent yelled at Elizabeth while "teaching" how to drive and Jonah has communication issues with his gf, Anna seems to get pushed away and they seem to exclude her from certain things and same with the other daughter when she couldnt speak ... The mom seems like a Controling witch she controls everything trent does . she wants them to do exactly everything to be at the very top but they are their own individual selfs She Needs To Stop Trying To Control them All .

  • @anyahmichelle3132
    @anyahmichelle3132 2 роки тому

    Y’all do not treat anna like the rest or the other daughter . Then for y’all to say she basically won’t make it on her own with out y’all it’s just negative and putting her down . They just acting nonchalant about they actions I see why Anna broke down and was frustrated . This just pissed me off watching it .

  • @susanwinter2896
    @susanwinter2896 2 роки тому

    She should be financially ready if she was paid for being in the show that made these parents rich!!!! These people are disgusting parents! Poor Anna, all she wanted was someone to be on her side or to explain nicely why it's not a great idea right now! The tone the mother uses to speak to her children is disturbing. All the parents are interested in is being on TV and tiktok and being famous.

  • @starstruck3206
    @starstruck3206 2 роки тому

    I don’t understand what the push is?? Who wants to move out?

  • @judithryle2113
    @judithryle2113 3 роки тому +14

    They are just trying to cover their mean streaks

  • @ardellnevels9813
    @ardellnevels9813 3 роки тому +2

    She so low down and dirty the mama do not like j and Anna either I believe she jealous of her own kids you can tell she spending up the money to but the baby boy is good to give her a run for her money watch because Emma is sneaky

  • @joycehicks611
    @joycehicks611 2 роки тому

    I love Anna and I understand what Anna is saying, but Amber treats Anna differently from Elisabeth. She always tries to act as if it is Anna's fault,but she isn't an understanding mother when it comes to Anna. She could be more understanding and caring towards Anna. Amber needs to deal with her self, and examine herself because she isn't perfect at all.

  • @dimpleboynton5993
    @dimpleboynton5993 3 роки тому +10

    Jonah is very disrespectful to his parents, but nothing is said to him.

    • @hlobisiledlamini881
      @hlobisiledlamini881 3 роки тому

      Have they not talk to Jonah for three weeks bcz he is disrespectful?no,only Anna.

  • @antoninatiangco3764
    @antoninatiangco3764 2 роки тому

    They are good parents to their children

  • @zoeantoinette8641
    @zoeantoinette8641 2 роки тому

    She’s totally not looking at Anna’s side she’s only looking at her side . It’s the most frustrating I wish she could take a step back try to look from her side but for some reason it’s so hard for moms to do . (I have the same dynamic) but it will help anna grow more then she knows !

  • @purrplehatsociety
    @purrplehatsociety 3 роки тому

    I mean you dont have to push her out the door but jesus christ you could show some type of happiness towards her trying to take that step

  • @angelhayes9342
    @angelhayes9342 2 роки тому

    The way that they act like Anna’s mentally challenged Or like they don’t support her or tell her that she can do something on her own and they just act like because there of been times that she has asked for help and couldn’t do something on her own she’ll never be able to do anything on her own

  • @arianaacosta2451
    @arianaacosta2451 2 роки тому

    they doubt her so quick. all Anna wants is support and for them to beleive in her. but doubt doubt doubt ~ I get the moms mentality. she just doesn't want her daughter to fail and is hard on her for that. Anna should lay out her plan to her parents to prove she has a plan and isn't what they think of her (Unprepared naive daughter) buttttt it's hard to stand up for yourself when you FEEL like your parents are judges who won't approve of you🤔
    She should kindly be reminded not by her parents that they do lovee her & want the best for her. they just tough & narcissistic.....

  • @shellygrubbs465
    @shellygrubbs465 3 роки тому +3

    I see the parents side of things, but I also see Anna's side she feels like she can't talk to her mom with out conflict but it comes from both of them not just one. But I really do think that Anna's parents do love and care about her and won't the best for her.

  • @user-gb2ts5wz9n
    @user-gb2ts5wz9n 2 роки тому

    Anna is a smart nice and lovely girl. Mom should stop picking on her, pick on Jonah & Elizabeth

  • @tasiamurbano7283
    @tasiamurbano7283 Рік тому

    I call bs Anna is their first non biological child and it shows. Amber has no natural connection to her and she cannot control everything. Who said she knew everything about life when her ass just got a job smh. Dealing you g adult kids is a challenge but we gotta listen to them

  • @trinatrina2129
    @trinatrina2129 3 роки тому

    I can’t believe they adopted kids to treat them like this the mom hates her child

  • @jerrilehane7815
    @jerrilehane7815 3 роки тому

    I can put myself in Anna's place as having severe abandonment issues.Maybe she needs a BOYFRIEND/Daddy image to grab onto for dear life,but she's scared to leave,and confused on what she wants.She's no angel or devil,but feels isolated IMO.Friends would help,but a boyfriend who is a good guy is the deal maker IMO.I'm a 63 single guy(by choice).She probably feels upset & overwhelmed/fearful.Too much responsibility.I felt great uncertainty at her age.

  • @patriciacrugnale8891
    @patriciacrugnale8891 3 роки тому

    Why do you want kick your kids out you let them go . when theyfail then you help them you can not tell them what you want them to do. they have to grow up

  • @pearlcotton2770
    @pearlcotton2770 3 роки тому +2

    I understand both sides. I'm a parent and grandparent let her go. Give her that support she needs. She may surprise you. You will get along with her better if she's gone.

  • @swimandracquet
    @swimandracquet 3 роки тому

    I will never understand parents forcing kids to do what they don’t want to do the girl does not want to substitute teach and do you blame her? Just be happy she’s going to school and has dreams not to mention she has her own jewelry line or something. Anna isn’t even disrespectful and then the mother gives her silent treatment?she is a terrible mom

  • @ddx690
    @ddx690 2 роки тому

    Lets face it!! Every parents has favoritism.. But sometime parents knows best whats good for their children. Sorry but im with amber side this time.

  • @madgen85
    @madgen85 2 роки тому

    She is a damn lie. Anna told her that she wanted to move out. She was being a terrible mother, as per usual. All she had to do was be supportive and help her make the steps towards that goal.

  • @rebeccawilliams8800
    @rebeccawilliams8800 3 роки тому

    She was never shown love. She is a witch that wants them out! Period!

  • @pamelalavigne1935
    @pamelalavigne1935 3 роки тому

    "bringing home boxes" comment and negitive talk is why your in the situation with her. she is a teen and we all know what thats like. More positive input

  • @TheMachannah
    @TheMachannah 2 роки тому

    Amber is becoming a real Wicked Witch. Her past halloween costume sure matches her perfectly. I can see there is no love for Anna anymore with her, I guess just another mouth to feed and an obligation to accomplish. I feel bad for Anna. She’s not even a rebellious child, she’s just happy-go-lucky type of person. #badmom

  • @margerymanukau3821
    @margerymanukau3821 3 роки тому +3

    Words from a loving mama's mouth,your the bomb Amber,love and admire you and your family 100% your parenting strategies work guys!! Thanks for your openness,honesty,pure love and logic!👌Aroha from New Zealand ❤💜💙

  • @melinehhacopians1184
    @melinehhacopians1184 2 роки тому

    Amber it's your delivery. You have no tact

  • @tanyaradzwatigere1840
    @tanyaradzwatigere1840 2 роки тому

    Moving out is a big deal I think she just wanted her parents to be happy that she is starting a new chapter that’s all

  • @helenlewis9666
    @helenlewis9666 2 роки тому

    Amber give her a break, you need to remember that you had the first years of your life with a loving family she didn’t, why are you so hard on her, maybe you should be harder on Jonah for the way he speaks to you & Alex for the way he always gets out of jobs & wants eat food all the time. Anna speaks to you well “yes mame” has 2 little jobs & seems to eat healthy most of the time, don’t be so hard on her, you are going to lose her.

  • @gg3457
    @gg3457 2 роки тому

    I totally see their concern but at the same time they seem very controlling. Anna wants to move out so bad for a reason. As parents they should let her try, and if she succeeds than great but if she fails that’s still ok. Because that’s part of growing up and being an adult.

  • @fallonparks1883
    @fallonparks1883 3 роки тому +4

    You could have just gone to your bed room you didn't have to leve the house y'all need to just stop trying to talk to each other just give up not worth the drama just let it do what's she wants she just not going to agree she just don't care what y'all think she doesn't care to grow up

    • @dimpleboynton5993
      @dimpleboynton5993 3 роки тому

      Amber storming out the house was very immature on her part, now who was being disrespectful. Trust me, Amber's attitude is a whole lot worst off camera.

  • @FlaGrown1955
    @FlaGrown1955 3 роки тому

    I really hope Amber takes these comments seriously. Sometimes we can't see what we're really doing to our children and others do. I think some family therapy is in order here