Ballum Part 5 - Ben Can’t Cope With The New Mechanic..

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  • Опубліковано 21 гру 2024

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  • @chenzhou7288
    @chenzhou7288 2 роки тому +16

    OMG!!! Max Bowden!!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏wow!! Watching this actually makes me tearing up in my eyes, I’m trying so hard to not to cry, wow!! I don’t know what else is there to say, just really difficult and challenging for the viewers! But the acting, it is believable!!
    🥺😭💔, BTW, Callum and Lewis!! Hell no!!! If Lewis even comes near Callum, like today like that in the pub, just 😣🤢
    Ok, now I don’t know if we can trust good looking soap characters anymore, this Dave guy, seems nice and don’t have a care in the world, but I don’t know can we trust him? He doesn’t seem bad, but again, Lewis didn’t seem bad at first when we first met him so…. They destroyed our trust to the characters!💔😓

  • @arbsan8366
    @arbsan8366 2 роки тому +41

    My goodness Ben is going down a bad spiral and he won’t tell anyone what is bothering him. I really hope he is able to pull through this because it’s just looking worst and worst for him.

  • @lucypreece7581
    @lucypreece7581 2 роки тому +82

    Like are people blind. He's jumpy, he hunches over when he is standing and walking, he flinches and physically retreats whenever people come near him, he hates people touching him, he is withdrawn and neglecting his self care. Are they being this stupid on purpose? At least his mum has somewhat noticed. Mum's always know.

    • @jameliakingstom1190
      @jameliakingstom1190 2 роки тому +4

      No they don’t always know

    • @daanroelofs119
      @daanroelofs119 2 роки тому +3

      I think many people are catching on that things are wrong, his mum, business partner, jay, Lola, the new mechanic, Frankie. they all are concerned but Ben is pushing everyone away, YET AGAIN, unless he opens up or someone managed to find out what happened I dont see this going well

    • @lucypreece7581
      @lucypreece7581 2 роки тому

      @@jameliakingstom1190 some mums do. And Infeel like Kathy would go full protective mama bear once she knows.

  • @lucypreece7581
    @lucypreece7581 2 роки тому +10

    Ben my dude that's 2 panic attacks in the same day. You need to tell someone pronto.

  • @GuinnessT
    @GuinnessT 2 роки тому +10

    I think it shows how we all go through our own lives, and miss seeing the signs of someone going through hell since we see them for moments and just think they’re having a bad day or a rough patch.

  • @Hotspot87
    @Hotspot87 2 роки тому +31

    Everyone keeps asking where's Ben, but they should be asking, how's Ben?

  • @MiiiSMS
    @MiiiSMS 2 роки тому +9

    Max is so amazing ❤️ this storyline is so heart breaking 💔

  • @jk-gx6nc
    @jk-gx6nc 2 роки тому +43

    Watching Ben's scenes is so hard. It's really sad and heartbreaking

  • @allimac3187
    @allimac3187 2 роки тому +4

    Max really is perfect for this storyline, what an awsome job Max is doing telling Ben's story. Hope he wins awards for this. He really deserve it.

  • @helenadams6625
    @helenadams6625 2 роки тому +7

    What the hell has Lewis done to my boy. Has soon has Callum finds out the truth the better.

  • @Mast3rH3r0
    @Mast3rH3r0 2 роки тому +49

    I like Dave and everything but mate you chose the worst timing to appear 😂

  • @thegirlrotter
    @thegirlrotter 2 роки тому +24

    Whatever Ben may have done , I feel so bad watching him suffer 🥺❤️

  • @sbaker8787
    @sbaker8787 2 роки тому +6

    I think the writers always forget Jay, Jay knows Ben the most and frankly it is alarming that they do not have Jay clocking that there is something wrong.

  • @theresabruebaker1030
    @theresabruebaker1030 2 роки тому +13

    He's barely hanging on

  • @pinkplum3379
    @pinkplum3379 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you. Ben get yourself some help, now. The fear is only gonna get bigger, if you don’t.

  • @chesterdikkie7231
    @chesterdikkie7231 2 роки тому +7

    Waw, they are really piling up the trauma. He has soo much to get over. PTSD way before the Rape and now the STI... OMG

  • @mjstwilight
    @mjstwilight 2 роки тому +6

    I like the new mechanic

  • @lamariposa5558
    @lamariposa5558 2 роки тому +8

    Taking the last seconds into account, I've got the odd feeling that we're gonna be confronted with a suicide attempt at some point throughout the next weeks.

  • @MerimaTropoja
    @MerimaTropoja 2 роки тому +36

    Ok people around Ben really need to open there eyes and see that smth is horribly wrong, his friends and family are really failing him, Frankie and Shanon are the only ones who have really noticed how bad off Ben is.

    • @Camz3r
      @Camz3r 2 роки тому +2

      they know somethings wrong but he wont tell them so they dont know!

  • @lexi219
    @lexi219 2 роки тому +17

    Ridiculous how most of the characters on this show are completely incapable of picking up on social cues. Ben is sweaty, twitchy, forgetful, avoiding eye contact, shrugging away from physical contact, etc. but this guy is all "let's go for a pint!" Most of his friends and family are straight up ignoring his behavior. What's in the water in this neighborhood?

  • @vivianopoku1976
    @vivianopoku1976 2 роки тому +2

    This is so heartbreaking to watch 😭😭😭

  • @homunculi0408
    @homunculi0408 2 роки тому +7

    Who is the actor playing Dave? I know Ben's distraught and my heart breaks for him but Dave's gunshow is taking my concentration from my poor baby.

  • @dogepin1640
    @dogepin1640 2 роки тому

    I like the new mechanic he reminds me of minty to a degree

  • @mohmodmohmod9905
    @mohmodmohmod9905 2 роки тому

    Thank you for uploading

  • @tracymcardle1236
    @tracymcardle1236 2 роки тому +3

    I really like Dave, hope he comes back, also why are people not taking notice of Ben's behaviour are they brain dead or somthing, its stupid👎👎

  • @chenzhou7288
    @chenzhou7288 2 роки тому +8

    Ben is still wearing his wedding ring, and unless the divorce paper comes in officially and legally that Callum and him are divorced, but until then, or even if that would happen before maybe they are back together already, but anyway, unless the legal paper comes through, Ben and Callum are still legally married, so technically not quite “single” like Dave asked?? Maybe? Maybe not?? I don’t know how to clarify this status technically

    • @MerimaTropoja
      @MerimaTropoja 2 роки тому +4

      Separated.

    • @chenzhou7288
      @chenzhou7288 2 роки тому +1

      @@MerimaTropoja oh yeah, that!! Thank you! I guess the legal status on the document would write separated I guess?

  • @winbright217
    @winbright217 2 роки тому +6

    Is it bad da I see Dave there for Ben and they become something

    • @jk-gx6nc
      @jk-gx6nc 2 роки тому +1

      Kinda

    • @winbright217
      @winbright217 2 роки тому +2

      @@jk-gx6nc not together just like friendship grows quickly

    • @jk-gx6nc
      @jk-gx6nc 2 роки тому +3

      @@winbright217 oh ok. Its just you said something so I assumed relationship

  • @Tad1945
    @Tad1945 2 роки тому

    Do you have the chip with Ben finally kathy what happened between him Lewis ?

    • @meradceu
      @meradceu 2 роки тому

      It says bbc blocked the video in my country which is weird because this video and others are not blocked... a lot of scenes these past weeks have not been posted

  • @craigwaters1508
    @craigwaters1508 2 роки тому +1

    🤯🤯🤯😱

  • @haleytuttle4497
    @haleytuttle4497 2 роки тому +2

    Caption English

  • @dmitrikuznetsov7963
    @dmitrikuznetsov7963 2 роки тому +12

    i feel bad for ben. But in reality, he did place himself in this position. He pushed Callum on the edge. TBH Callum deserves better. Maybe it is Dave :P the new hottie mechanic

    • @tedthepup641
      @tedthepup641 2 роки тому +6

      Didn’t Dave say he liked girls and blondes

    • @taylornoel8891
      @taylornoel8891 2 роки тому

      @@tedthepup641 yeah but how he started talking about guys right after that kind of makes me think Dave is bisexual…

    • @jk-gx6nc
      @jk-gx6nc 2 роки тому +5

      @@tedthepup641 yeah but he also implied liking guys. "There's somethings that you can say to a bloke that you can't to a bird" are the words he used

    • @torilove4868
      @torilove4868 2 роки тому +17

      Do you say the same thing about all rape victims or just the one near Callum 😍?😡 There are no excuses for rape. Nobody puts themself into that position.

    • @tedthepup641
      @tedthepup641 2 роки тому +3

      @@jk-gx6nc which doesn’t really sound like he likes guys just that you can say some stuff to your mates which you can’t to a girl, plus his type is blonde and petite, I don’t see him and Callum together plus the last thing Ben needs is to feel jealous with everything he is already going through

  • @jennifer5512
    @jennifer5512 2 роки тому +3

    It's Ben's fault for not telling anyone.

    • @leonidasrising5998
      @leonidasrising5998 2 роки тому +5

      You try going down that emotional spiral and telling everyone of what happened without being scared of them not believing you or leaving you for good and to rot.

    • @jordans2729
      @jordans2729 2 роки тому +3

      Fear is very powerful and sometimes can keep a person silent forever

  • @fightorflight2279
    @fightorflight2279 2 роки тому +2

    I feel bad for him but it's his fault he's going through this by himself. He can just tell anyone he trusts but he's not so...🤷‍♂️

    • @jk-gx6nc
      @jk-gx6nc 2 роки тому +10

      It's not his fault, do you not know how hard it is to tell someone about sexual assault. It doesn't matter if he trusts someone or not it's a difficult thing to say/talk about

    • @lexi219
      @lexi219 2 роки тому +8

      What a ridiculously callous and ignorant thing to say.

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 2 роки тому +5

      It's definitely not Ben's fault what happened to him he said no to Lewis when someone says no it means no

    • @theresabruebaker1030
      @theresabruebaker1030 2 роки тому +7

      It's not that easy

    • @JordanjamesX
      @JordanjamesX 2 роки тому

      Is indeed Ben fault people want audience to have amnesia that Ben went on the gay app messaged Lewis and dry humped on the sofa. To try to guilt trip people to not point out put himself in the position etting raped is ridiculous. Ben was planning to cheat on Callum people cannot ignore that point.