It's just another manifestation of suffering. (Subconciously being attached to particular experiences) its just a deeper craving, the grass always looks greener on the other side. We can easily go our whole life's chasing that gold at the end of the rainbow. Trying to figure out what identity to have, it's just more attachment, trying to find something solid and unchanging. When we observe our mind/body seriously, eventually we experience deeper, subtler aspects of our minds. And we know through real experience that everything is constantly changing, nothing is permanent. But it's seeing it for yourself that allows the suffering to dissolve.
Weird how not knowing what to wear makes you want to have different pronouns... how does that relate? Back in the day she would've just called herself a tomboy and wore whatever she felt like.
im so happy that shayne was the first person courtney told about their gender fluidity and queerness. they’re so powerful and courtney’s trust and bond with shayne is so unbelievably healthy and im glad they can talk about their gender identity to the public like this
@@TheProxy2they/them/theirs has been used as a singular pronoun for decades. I'm assuming you're being genuine so i'll explain a little. They/them/theirs is generally used when you don't know the gender of a person you're talking about but some people don't quite feel entirely like a man or a woman and choose to use they instead of he or she. It can be a confusing switch if you're not used to it but once you get the nag of it it's easy. It's like learning someone's name. Examples of ways people use they/them: Someone lost their wallet. I hope they find it. I really like their hair! They went to Paris for vacation. (Name) Is really nice, have you met them?
This is the only person I’ve ever heard actually say what I’m feeling edit: i did NOT expect my comment to turn into a battleground lmao, some mfs need to calm down and mind their own damn business tbh
Live your life as a human being, stop being so focused on your "gender", if you want to be an orb then maybe it's time to be body positive and gain self esteem
@@DevicCypher yeah, you're right, it would probably help to have a professional to talk to about gender identity struggles if you're having a hard time with them. they can help you accept & live your life to the fullest in your gender. good luck OP, i hope you figure things out for yourself!
@@ghfudrs93uuu any "professional" who disregards the negative impact of not being able to live your life in your own body freely as yourself or having distress about your identity simply as self-esteem issues is no professional at all. they'd be missing the point completely. true, being treated so badly by others, the society and your own internalized phobias will have an effect on your self-esteem, but you're not addressing the real cause of these issues: other judgemental people and society. that is the true cause of mental anguish.
Its weird from an outside perspective. I dont feel my gender at all so I just cant wrap my head around what feeling a certain gender means. Im just myself in my eyes.
@SlightlyTerrified Not feeling your gender and agender are not the same thing. There is such a concept as being so non-consequential that it just never reaches conscious thought. I don't need to think about digesting food, but I'm doing it all the time.
@@Ziggopotamus I'm not following trends?? So kindly back off, I can express the way I feel however I want and I don't really care much about opinion of someone I've never met
Feel the same but not for gender fluid reasons. Just because I hate being perceived and trying to find clothes that fit. It’s hard being short but also having a large chest smh. 1/100 shirts and pants fit me
🤣 yes??? people use she and they pronouns for Courtney, Courtney's social media has she/they on it, and Courtney's talked about Alex Tran giving them "gender envy".
courtney’s twitter account says she/any and they’ve stated in past that dominic as a character has helped with how they feel about her gender identity ^^
@@hua5442maybe they only watch smosh on UA-cam and didn't know. Don't need to hit them with a million question marks. You can explain without being condescending. Odd to be accepting of they/them, and gender fluidity but then also judgemental that someone don't know something lmao.
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but, how you dress and your style is not indicative of your gender. I’m a dude and sometimes I wear makeup and paint my nails and that has nothing to do with my gender, sex, or identity. It just means I like eyeliner and nail polish, and that’s all it means.
For you, sure. But for others, clothing and outward appearance are a form of gender expression. I hope everyone keeps in mind that your perspective is not the only perspective.
Genderfluid person here. You're absolutely right. I know which gender I feel that I am, regardless of the amount of work I want to put into displaying it, and that goes all ways equally. I could feel masculine and walk out of the house looking like a homeless bumb just as easily as if I was feeling feminine. How you LOOK, does not change how you feel when you're genderfluid, and every person has the right to use makeup regardless of their gender or sex or anything like that if that's what makes them feel comfortable!
@@doid4354 I understand that that's not the point they were making, that's the point I'M making. If they wanna put down an entire community of people, but they leave their words up for interpretation, you best believe I'm going to twist them into a positive message weather they like it or not.
Thanks for providing educational content on stuff that is hard to understand. Like gender fluidity I’m sure can be confusing for the person but also confusing for those around them. I think educational content like this is helpful to understanding something murky.
Where's the educational part tho? This is just exposure to how some people might feel, nonetheless confusing still. I'd like to know if it can be a sort of diagnosis, like autism, which we normalized, but is not "normal" for an average person.
@@Hamhockss this is because they want to turn on all genders. As described in the video the person wanted to be a sexual energy thing or whatever that turns everyone on. So they sometimes may want to attract all genders but have to pick between which for a day.
@@HamhockssI have never called myself this or that but I think I know that feeling and I can understand Courtney. It is like once you feel like you wear something masculine that day you feel like you had that energy and people around you also feel that energy. Why don't I making myself feel the same by wearing feminen clothes all day everyday? Idk sometimes it is hard to act like a person wears floral dresses and bubbly and happy but orther times that floral dress makes me feel confident and my true self.
I wonder how Shayne identifies his sexuality, he doesn't have to share in anyway but it does warm my heart when he uses they/them for Court and how in love they are, and I wonder if he's the kind to say he doesn't need a label which honestly is representation I think I need
@@noiregrimoire Yeah I don't really know how to express my sexuality either. NB spouse. I think "straight", but technically I'd fit the label of Queer. I tell my spouse "You did this to me! You made me queer!".
@@ShawnMihalekimo SEXuality is attraction to a specific SEX (or sexes) so gender identity doesn't really matter. People will disagree with that, but whatever.
@@noiregrimoire ummm that’s. Transphobic rhetoric I’m afraid. Because trans lesbians exist and so do cis lesbians who are attracted to them?? Sexuality is the gender/s one is attracted to, not always or just the genitalia attached to the person.
@@noiregrimoire It's called sexuality because it's who you want to have sex with, not what sex they are. You can feel differently on a personal level, you do you, but the reason it's SEXuality is because it's who you want to have sex with. There are plenty of people who are attracted to only one gender, but would be attracted to someone with that gender who is any sex, because their sexuality is gender based rather that sex based
I relate to the wanting to be a floating orb, but for different reasons. I've had chronic pain (due to two chronic illnesses) for about 15 years, and i have a lot of days i wish i could be noncorporeal. Like, i want to keep being alive, but having a body is just too much sometimes lol
No, the aspect of not knowing whether you want to present as female or male or neither on a given day, depending on how you’re feeling gender wise. The way she worded it was confusing though, so I get why you didn’t understand!
@@marvinmiller2983 "not knowing what to wear" on a fashion or social level is different from "I don't know what to wear to satisfy my gender feels, I'm feeling like 67% fem 98% masc and 132% amorphous blob and don't check my math" (example)
@@averagecupofcoffee If you people had enough self-esteem not to care what other people thought, how you "present" wouldn't matter to you. I don't care what I wear, and I don't care what people see me as, because I know who I am and don't need others to validate my existence through superficial displays.
@@Zachary- I’m glad you’re confident in how you present to others! That’s awesome and I’m happy for you. For many gender diverse people though, that’s not the case. They want to be seen as who they are, because that’s how they truly feel- and expression is often a big part of that. I, for example, do not enjoy wearing feminine clothing (as a girl) at least not currently. Not wearing feminine clothing is a big part of how I view myself and it makes me feel comfortable in my own skin. Many others are doing the same thing.
Wrap yourself in clear plastic wrapping, add glitter, slutty flats or heels, gotta have sparkle fishnets. Slap a price on it and sell it at Spirit Halloween.
It is a natural human desire to be seen as attractive or wanted, you shouldnt make that the sole goal of your life, no; but that's not what they're saying anyway
@@Wavezzzz601 she literally said that she wishes for a formless body without identity, with the only qualities being the affect it has on other people. The goal is “oh you’re so funny” and “wow you’re so hot”. Not a mention of self-integrity, a personal dream, a place in the world, a real relationship, responsibility, achievement of any kind, personal growth. None of that. Just social approval at the most remedial level. Gender fluidity should not be motivated by the internal desire to *find* acceptance. Self acceptance is the goal. SELF. Chronic anxiety about how other people view you is the antithesis of self acceptance. The fact that you can’t recognize this is unreal to me.
Everything Courtney says about her feelings towards sexuality and gender is so relatable and I really appreciate her strength in being so honest about it.
I wrestle with what to wear to work a lot because most of my business-casual clothing is very feminine and sometimes I just want people to look at me and wonder ✨
One of the top reasons I despise business casual is how hard it is to find gender-neutral clothes. So glad I can just wear jeans and a t-shirt to work finally
Try up-sizing and layering to fill out your form. If that's not comfortable, look for thicker fabrics that hang and drape rather than flow. There's lots of "male" shirts that are pretty thick and stiff that might help anything going on in the front.
People need to understand dressing a certain way, ie portraying qualities of the opposite sex, does not mean you are a different gender. You a woman who doesn't always like to dress "girly".
Still, dressing in a traditionally masculine, feminine, or other way can help people feel more comfortable with their gender. It really comes down to an individual basis I suppose
That's not what gender fluidity is No genderfluid person thinks clothes = gender. All it means is that your gender changes from time to time. Some people want to wear certain clothes to express that, some don't, but no trans/non binary person thinks that gender identity and gender expression are the same thing.
So just...don't. We spent half a billion years constructing language so you could express how you're feeling in exact terms. Or better yet, keep your feelings to yourself, because why are you so important that your feelings are anyone's business?
I throughly do not understand genderfluid/non binary as a identity. Many people describe it as being fluid in there style of dress, such as dressing stairotypically feminine sometime, dressing stairotypically masculine other times, or even a mixture of the two. Other people or even the same people describe genderfluid/non binary as a feeling that is constantly changing throughout their life. As it regards to clothing why is it in 2024 that people feel like they are genderfluid, non binary, or a trans man if they dress more masculine as a biological woman or dress more feminine as a biological man? Why are people not allowed to wear what they want and not be persuaded into thinking they have to change how they identify? In regards to the changing feelings, why base your identity on feelings when feelings and emotions themselves are so fleeting. Why aren't people able to just be the sex they were born as and express themselves through style, attitude, knowledge, experience, etc. without being brought into thinking that they way the express themselves means they have to be genderfluid, non binary, or trans and not just a man or woman that expresses themselves in a certain way. This is in no way directed towards people who have been diagnosed gender dysphoria and have suffered with that their whole lives, and I hope the medical industry get better in that regard so people with gender dysphoria and all other disorders are able to live in this world without suffering as much as they do.
Well said, everyone in the comments has clearly lost the plot. From what I can tell, this girl is nothing more than someone with an imagination who sometimes doesn’t know what to wear.
Trans people aren't a new fad. Pre-war Germany had the largest institute for trans and queer studies in Europe, but it was the first thing the Nazis attacked when they took power.
Ah, I think you’re a bit confused. You can of course not dress according to gender norms and still have the same gender you were assigned at birth. In Courtney’s case, it’s BECAUSE of her genderfluidity that she expresses herself differently, if that makes sense. I hope this helps! You can also always do research- there’s plenty out there, and modern science has been accepting of gender variance for a while now.
As a genderfluid I cannot express how much I relate to Courtney. It’s a struggle when I wanna be masculine and feminine at the same time, just feminine, or so nonbinary I’m an enigma.
It's heartbreaking that no one taught you this, but everyone is masculine and feminine at the same time...all the time. Those are human traits that everyone has, it's not about gender, it's about personality. Men have feminine traits and characteristics, and women have masculine traits and characteristics. And feeling more masculine or feminine at different moments doesn't mean anything other than that you're human.
@@Zachary- …… what? I am well aware of the fact all humans have masculine and feminine energy. It is part of my spiritual beliefs. I am speaking about presenting as masculine or feminine. I am well in tune with spirituality of gender, just the physical appearance aspect is difficult.
I feel you. I identify as “straight,” but I’ve got my own personal style. Mainly tomboy, but I occasionally want to wear a dress/skirt depending on where I’m going or what mood I’m in. I’m not sure if that’s exactly the same for you but, I get what you mean.
@@NJ.Magpietotally agree! I'm a straight woman and I wear men's clothes all the time. Children's clothes, too, bc sometimes they fit better. I just hate wearing certain things on certain days. Overly feminine, overly masculine, or somewhere in the middle. I choose what I want based on the day, and how I'm feeling. 💜 So they must feel something similar but to the nth degree? (Sorry just trying to understand)
@@cv6442 Gender identity and expression is different for everyone and that makes it confusing at times, but do whatever makes you feel comfortable. Wanting to wear clothes of a different gender does not make you trans in the slightest, what makes you trans is if you want to be a another gender than your assigned gender at birth. Clothes don't have gender, just be you 🩷
@@NJ.Magpie I totally agree! I was more so saying it so others know they aren't alone, and dressing like another gender "typically" does, doesn't have anything to do with our gender. Just how we express ourselves as individuals. 😊💜
I’ve never heard anyone else say they want to be an orb lol, bc same. Tho for me it’s more bc I’m depressed so I just wish I wasn’t a fully sentient being and I wish I didn’t exist to others, but besides that yes I want to be a silly orb, just a goofy guy
These comments are incredibly disappointing and even somewhat scary. But I need to say something. Even if Courtney never sees it. I've grown up with you, Courtney. You've been the representation I needed. The only validation I personally encounter is here at Smosh. Everytime Courtney's identity is brought up, I CHEER 🎉 for them. I cheer for all of us that don't fall on the binary and instead want to fall on the floor! And I can finally, truly, ignore the haters and cheer for myself. Because we ARE valid. Thank you, Courtney, for consistently putting the "them" in Theminine.
Just because someone has different views than you and disagrees with your choice on how to view gender doesn’t make them a hater. In fact, most of the people I see spreading hate are the lgbt/non binary community, but you don’t see it as hate because you agree with the opinions they try to force on others.
@@ChrisJones-pi5mhDifferent views and opinions shouldn't be publicly commented on a video with a person in it, about the person, when they're just discriminative against something the person can't control or just is. They really don't have to comment it, they can just keep it to themselves because it's doing no good.
I have a tom boy side and a girlie girl side, but I just felt like it was always me. I wonder if this is what she is explaining, but in different words. I never questioned it too much. I guess having to have a label doesn't matter to me so much. I am simply me. And I like that Courtney is simply Courtney.
You might be looking at it in the wrong direction. The stuff they said doesn’t dictate anyone’s gender, but _for them_ having a constantly fluctuating gender causes the feelings they describe here. I know a person who would have preferred to be perceived in a nonbinary way out of frustration with how people treated her based on her gender. I know that I would like to be perceived in a nonbinary way because neither gender feels entirely correct regardless of how people would treat me. Same desire for different reasons.
@@Null-value ok but not knowing what to wear is something anyone experiences at times (not to mention a 1st world problem), it's not a symptom of being "gender fluid" or anything. And there are women who dress masculine, men who dress feminine, or people who dress masculine one day and feminine the next. None of those people are a different gender because of it, they just break norms and express themselves differently.
@@marvinmiller2983 you are correct. There are many people whose identity matches with their birth gender who choose to present themselves without following norms and honestly? All the power to them! Society has had that particular stick up its butt for far too long. But gender nonconformity is at the end of the day a choice. Being genderfluid is not a choice. I don’t have any control over what gender I feel like today. It’s a thing that just happens and I try to deal with the issues it brings. It’s worth mentioning that non binary and genderfluid people can experience dysphoria. But most of the transition therapies are slow acting and permanent changes, meaning that full transition would ALSO cause dysphoria. So alleviating temporary dysphoria requires temporary changes, which is why genderfluid people focus so much on clothing. It’s a practical means of managing dysphoria.
I suppose I didn’t explain the not knowing what to wear thing did I? I can only speak for my experience, but there is a really annoying thing about being genderfluid. Most of the day I am trying to do the rest of my life. But I have to get dressed at o’ dark thirty in the morning. So I have to figure out what my gender before I’ve even had coffee and I am not awake enough for introspection. If I get it wrong then I get to feel cruddy. Having to do that introspection is frustrating, hence the desire to be able to just go around as a bare soul and not have to deal with all of that at 5 am.
I understand not wanting to be seen as girly or masculine. However I think these people are too obsessed with how others see them; “do I look too feminine today” etc.. It’s fine to feel neutrally about your gender; why does others’ perception have to dictate that? Imo it’s not factual to believe you can change your genes or that you do not fall into the male and female dichotomy. you are either male or female even though you don’t have to wear dresses or pants. not to mention, all of this extremely first world problem and privileged.
"I struggle with what i'm feeling..." Interesting. I always remember Bruce Lee's iconic line, "Be like water, my friend." Allowing your mood, feelings, & perception to shape your presentation to the world is what everyone does. It might be a leap but Bruce Lee tells us how water in a cup becomes a cup and so on. If you wake up aggressive, annoyed, and all around not likable, then, do you want to present as gender male? If you wake up feeling like you are pretty, caring, and supportive, then, do you want to present as gender female? Mood is fluid. Feelings are fluid. Does how you respond to your feelings make you "fluid?" Everyone is fluid. Be like water. But take care not to become so formless that you lose your grasp on who you are, as for so many that lose something in change that a part of them is gone. Will changing so many times shave off a piece of yourself to where no one can recognize "you." All they will see is the shapeless and unrecognizable.
The people who believe in gender fluidity are dimwitted enough to think that men are simply aggressive, and women are simply pretty, and feeling's normal human emotions that everyone feels somehow dictates which gender you are. They don't need validation, they need medication.
I love the water quote but as someone who is genderfluid I have a very different interpretation of it than I think you might. For me, sometimes I feel like a boy, sometimes a woman, and sometimes just like an amorphus blob just chugging along in life - but regardless I am still me. Water in a babling brook is still water, waves and swells in the raging ocean are still water, water that is completely still and placid in a lake is still water. It doesn't transform into Soda or dilute into cordial. It can be calm or distructive and can behave or look so different from one day to another... but at its core it's still water. Similarly, I take on different "forms" that are often called different things by people, but I'm still me. Sometimes I'm an enraged woman, a sheepish dude, a caring brother, or a loving aunt/uncle. At the core of it though, I'm still just me. The form I take on might change, but I'm no less "me" regardless of which form I'm in at the time.
@@zaykay5462I have one question. On the last part of your answer you said "i can be an enraged woman", " sheepish dude", "caring uncle", etc. My question is, what makes you feel either like a female or a male? Why don't you just feel like an "enraged person", "sheepish person", "caring person"? I struggle to understand what makes one feel the need to switch to another gender. If you're still you, why aren't you just you, but have to change between a "woman you" or "male you"? What are the characteristics of woman and man? I'm genuinely curious, but don't answer if not comfortable.
@@saramonteiro4922 I can’t speak for anyone else, but for me it is like this: It’s not that I feel a need to switch to a a different gender, but rather that my gender changes of its own accord by some unseen internal mechanism. As for characteristics, my own experience is that my comfort with body parts, my internal voice, and my self-reference change with my gender. If we want to continue the water analogy, I would say it is like a river. Rivers are constantly changing, their banks reshaped by their own existence. But the river cannot choose to stay the same, and trying to force a river to stay the same shape comes with a host of problems. Much like a river, my gender changes over time, trying to stop it from changing causes problems, and having a beaver gets awkward sometimes.
@@Null-value thank you for answering! I think I was interpreting the "not identifying as a gender" as not identifying with what society, and ourselves even, interpret and expect of each gender, and when our internal sensations don't relate to that, and relate more to another gender's , we feel that we are in the wrong gender. But your experience seems to be more related to an internal discomfort. Like trying to find what best matches your self Identity. I like the water analogies going on in here 🧘♀️
you know, when I found out courtney also used they/them pronouns, but always looks the way they do, I had a feeling that we felt similarly about our genders and honestly...I was right and I love/hate that for us, because it IS a struggle, even if we can joke about it.
@@kordeliiius9821 fair enough, lol. I started watching smosh in 2015 but I've technically only been watching for 7 years because have had long periods of not watching them and then coming back to watching again
Courtney's gender: orb of energy Courtney's aesthetic: put-together and rocks absolutely whatever the heck they wanna wear My gender: amorphous gender blob My aesthetic: chronically ill perpetually pajama'd chaos gremlin
I'm not genderfluid but I do feel so upset sometimes that shape shifting isnt an option 😅 not even just style or gender wise, I just think it would be nice to go creature mode sometimes.
Maybe the real gender fluid is the puddles we made along the way
My brain made a horrible connection with this comment 😭
@@delainarios5287💀 same and now I can't stop laughing
I hate that you made me think of what the fluids in the puddles are...
YUCK
BROTHER I AM CRYING 😂
“at the end of the day, i wish i could be a floating orb of energy.” literally how i feel everyday
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so you fell dumb?
i concur
Like, absolutely vibes
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Always remember to top off your gender fluid before going on a long road trip.
👀
Thank you, I would've forgotten 😝🤣
Always remember to give your gender fluid top before going on a long road trip
Thanks Man! I always run out like mid trip
Do we use unleaded or premium gender fluid?
“Don’t clip this” :
Hmm
Welp
Anthony: "I'm gonna do what's called a pro gamer move."
This is a short, completely different from a clip. /s
Hahaha
Gender fluid? Nah I wanna be gender solid. I want to be a rock.
You would be a fabulous rock
I support your rigidity
Gender paper beats your gender rock.
This now implies gender gas, and gender plasma
@@LaroonDynasty gender Einstein-Bose condensate
"i want to be an orb" is so fuckin relatable
@@ville__curse? nice try, that’s a blessing and you can’t have it back
I'm pondering the orb
It's just another manifestation of suffering. (Subconciously being attached to particular experiences) its just a deeper craving, the grass always looks greener on the other side. We can easily go our whole life's chasing that gold at the end of the rainbow. Trying to figure out what identity to have, it's just more attachment, trying to find something solid and unchanging. When we observe our mind/body seriously, eventually we experience deeper, subtler aspects of our minds. And we know through real experience that everything is constantly changing, nothing is permanent. But it's seeing it for yourself that allows the suffering to dissolve.
is it
It's revolting quite frankly
He clipped it
Yeah but he kept the context part so it doesn't seem that bad
HE CLIPPED
@@ville__ YAAAY, finally! ❤
There were puddles
@@ville__ man i wish
The wardrobe thing is TOO RELATABLE!! 😭
Memento mori my friend
@@ville__ jokes on you, I want to die
Just wear clothes, it's not that hard
Weird how not knowing what to wear makes you want to have different pronouns... how does that relate? Back in the day she would've just called herself a tomboy and wore whatever she felt like.
@@WaaDokuits more than just clothes lmao
im so happy that shayne was the first person courtney told about their gender fluidity and queerness. they’re so powerful and courtney’s trust and bond with shayne is so unbelievably healthy and im glad they can talk about their gender identity to the public like this
It's actually very nice of despite he may not be able to relate,
He can simply listen,
It's that psychology stuff man, works wonder
Im confused with english pronouns now
@@TheProxy2they/them/theirs has been used as a singular pronoun for decades. I'm assuming you're being genuine so i'll explain a little.
They/them/theirs is generally used when you don't know the gender of a person you're talking about but some people don't quite feel entirely like a man or a woman and choose to use they instead of he or she. It can be a confusing switch if you're not used to it but once you get the nag of it it's easy. It's like learning someone's name.
Examples of ways people use they/them:
Someone lost their wallet. I hope they find it.
I really like their hair!
They went to Paris for vacation.
(Name) Is really nice, have you met them?
@@unholierthanthou7748 nah i just prefer languages that doesnt have gendered pronouns like mine. less confusion
@@TheProxy2what language do you speak?
Can't wait to see the Fanart of Courtney being a literal sparkling puddle
if i could draw i would do this
@@SM0SHTASTICI don't think you need to be an expert artist to draw a puddle.
@@cynister7384I don’t know, I think to do justice to the sexiness of such a puddle would take a certain level of skill 😂
This is the only person I’ve ever heard actually say what I’m feeling
edit: i did NOT expect my comment to turn into a battleground lmao, some mfs need to calm down and mind their own damn business tbh
You need mental help apparently
Live your life as a human being, stop being so focused on your "gender", if you want to be an orb then maybe it's time to be body positive and gain self esteem
@@DevicCypher yeah, you're right, it would probably help to have a professional to talk to about gender identity struggles if you're having a hard time with them. they can help you accept & live your life to the fullest in your gender. good luck OP, i hope you figure things out for yourself!
@@shadow_song
we can only hope it is a professional who can properly diagnose you problems with self-image instead of feeding the gender-nonsense.
@@ghfudrs93uuu any "professional" who disregards the negative impact of not being able to live your life in your own body freely as yourself or having distress about your identity simply as self-esteem issues is no professional at all. they'd be missing the point completely. true, being treated so badly by others, the society and your own internalized phobias will have an effect on your self-esteem, but you're not addressing the real cause of these issues: other judgemental people and society. that is the true cause of mental anguish.
“You’re so hot, too 🫦”
I’m cackling
Its weird from an outside perspective. I dont feel my gender at all so I just cant wrap my head around what feeling a certain gender means. Im just myself in my eyes.
Have you heard of agender? Sounds like something you might want to google.
@@SlightlyTerrified good lord
That's bc the concept doesn't make sense. And you can know this because the people who espouse it can't even adequately explain it.
Same here, agender gang :D
Why must gender be so weird lolz
@SlightlyTerrified Not feeling your gender and agender are not the same thing. There is such a concept as being so non-consequential that it just never reaches conscious thought. I don't need to think about digesting food, but I'm doing it all the time.
Courtney's eyes so pretty. They're giving orb fr
That was the most incoherent thing I’ve ever heard
As a non-binary person I agree I wish I could just be a hot floating orb of energy
maybe you are.
same
You're either man or woman. Anything else is delusion. Unless you're the .01% that's intersex.
Or you could just be normal and stop following trends
@@Ziggopotamus I'm not following trends?? So kindly back off, I can express the way I feel however I want and I don't really care much about opinion of someone I've never met
A puddle that produces puddles (innuendo, Hah!)
Feel the same but not for gender fluid reasons. Just because I hate being perceived and trying to find clothes that fit. It’s hard being short but also having a large chest smh. 1/100 shirts and pants fit me
Anthony with the facial hair goes hard
It was a jumpscare
It actually makes him look even close to his actual age, which is really weird. In my head he's just stuck, perpetually at like 20-something.
Ideal gender neutral forms: floating disco ball, mysterious pool of liquid
Soda can... That's not bullying, I'm genderfluid. I'm adding to the list.
I'll go with "orb"
THEYRE GENDERFLUID????? HOW DID I NOT KNOW THIS SOONER???? THE BEST REPRESENTATION EVER MAN
🤣 yes??? people use she and they pronouns for Courtney, Courtney's social media has she/they on it, and Courtney's talked about Alex Tran giving them "gender envy".
courtney’s twitter account says she/any and they’ve stated in past that dominic as a character has helped with how they feel about her gender identity ^^
@@hua5442maybe they only watch smosh on UA-cam and didn't know. Don't need to hit them with a million question marks. You can explain without being condescending. Odd to be accepting of they/them, and gender fluidity but then also judgemental that someone don't know something lmao.
@@angelic_sun that's so cool I love seeing genderfluid people and how they express themselves
She!
There will be puddles...
I smell a Jamie Foxx song
The weatherman said..
Exactly what I thought.
Ty for clipping this because this is SO FUCKING RELATABLE
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but, how you dress and your style is not indicative of your gender. I’m a dude and sometimes I wear makeup and paint my nails and that has nothing to do with my gender, sex, or identity. It just means I like eyeliner and nail polish, and that’s all it means.
thank you for remaining in reality and not complicating things
For you, sure. But for others, clothing and outward appearance are a form of gender expression. I hope everyone keeps in mind that your perspective is not the only perspective.
Genderfluid person here. You're absolutely right. I know which gender I feel that I am, regardless of the amount of work I want to put into displaying it, and that goes all ways equally. I could feel masculine and walk out of the house looking like a homeless bumb just as easily as if I was feeling feminine. How you LOOK, does not change how you feel when you're genderfluid, and every person has the right to use makeup regardless of their gender or sex or anything like that if that's what makes them feel comfortable!
@@panathentic so close but so far
@@doid4354 I understand that that's not the point they were making, that's the point I'M making. If they wanna put down an entire community of people, but they leave their words up for interpretation, you best believe I'm going to twist them into a positive message weather they like it or not.
“There will be puddles.” 💀 I love Courtney
“Sexy soul” new from software game right there 😂
This is the best way I have ever seen someone else explain how I feel
Thanks for providing educational content on stuff that is hard to understand. Like gender fluidity I’m sure can be confusing for the person but also confusing for those around them. I think educational content like this is helpful to understanding something murky.
Where's the educational part tho? This is just exposure to how some people might feel, nonetheless confusing still.
I'd like to know if it can be a sort of diagnosis, like autism, which we normalized, but is not "normal" for an average person.
@@dizydeusnot a mental disability since it hurts no people or hinders their quality of life + this is probably offensive in some way.
@dizydeus how does one base their gender on what they feel like wearing?
@@Hamhockss this is because they want to turn on all genders. As described in the video the person wanted to be a sexual energy thing or whatever that turns everyone on. So they sometimes may want to attract all genders but have to pick between which for a day.
@@HamhockssI have never called myself this or that but I think I know that feeling and I can understand Courtney. It is like once you feel like you wear something masculine that day you feel like you had that energy and people around you also feel that energy. Why don't I making myself feel the same by wearing feminen clothes all day everyday? Idk sometimes it is hard to act like a person wears floral dresses and bubbly and happy but orther times that floral dress makes me feel confident and my true self.
I wonder how Shayne identifies his sexuality, he doesn't have to share in anyway but it does warm my heart when he uses they/them for Court and how in love they are, and I wonder if he's the kind to say he doesn't need a label which honestly is representation I think I need
He calls himself straight all the time
@@noiregrimoire Yeah I don't really know how to express my sexuality either. NB spouse. I think "straight", but technically I'd fit the label of Queer. I tell my spouse "You did this to me! You made me queer!".
@@ShawnMihalekimo SEXuality is attraction to a specific SEX (or sexes) so gender identity doesn't really matter. People will disagree with that, but whatever.
@@noiregrimoire ummm that’s. Transphobic rhetoric I’m afraid. Because trans lesbians exist and so do cis lesbians who are attracted to them?? Sexuality is the gender/s one is attracted to, not always or just the genitalia attached to the person.
@@noiregrimoire It's called sexuality because it's who you want to have sex with, not what sex they are. You can feel differently on a personal level, you do you, but the reason it's SEXuality is because it's who you want to have sex with. There are plenty of people who are attracted to only one gender, but would be attracted to someone with that gender who is any sex, because their sexuality is gender based rather that sex based
I relate to the wanting to be a floating orb, but for different reasons. I've had chronic pain (due to two chronic illnesses) for about 15 years, and i have a lot of days i wish i could be noncorporeal. Like, i want to keep being alive, but having a body is just too much sometimes lol
I wish you the best! Glad you’re still here today :)
I feel you
Courtney fucking gets it dude
Gender liquid
Never felt more represented
I love how they turned into the chosen at the end lmao
😎there😎will😎be😎puddles😎
Remember to take into account the meniscus when measuring your gender fluid!
“Don’t clip this.”
*proceeds to clip exactly that*
But Fr, Court just described my entire being. 100% accurate ❤
Bruh they described the Genderfluid experience so perfectly like this is IT. THIS IS THE FEELING.
Not knowing what to wear makes you a gender fluid? I’m pretty sure that’s just a feeling most people experience, bud.
No, the aspect of not knowing whether you want to present as female or male or neither on a given day, depending on how you’re feeling gender wise. The way she worded it was confusing though, so I get why you didn’t understand!
@@marvinmiller2983 "not knowing what to wear" on a fashion or social level is different from "I don't know what to wear to satisfy my gender feels, I'm feeling like 67% fem 98% masc and 132% amorphous blob and don't check my math" (example)
@@averagecupofcoffee If you people had enough self-esteem not to care what other people thought, how you "present" wouldn't matter to you.
I don't care what I wear, and I don't care what people see me as, because I know who I am and don't need others to validate my existence through superficial displays.
@@Zachary- I’m glad you’re confident in how you present to others! That’s awesome and I’m happy for you. For many gender diverse people though, that’s not the case. They want to be seen as who they are, because that’s how they truly feel- and expression is often a big part of that. I, for example, do not enjoy wearing feminine clothing (as a girl) at least not currently. Not wearing feminine clothing is a big part of how I view myself and it makes me feel comfortable in my own skin. Many others are doing the same thing.
We're all spiritual beings. The physical matter that we interact through is only a medium.
Agreed 👍
Jesus you’re lost, thats not reality
@@benacewoofstormLike 85% of humans believe in spiritual bullshit, they are sadly the norm.
This is a cool outlook, haha. The comment above me probably forgot about the possibility of souls.
@@benacewoofstorm Jesus wouldn't judge he would listen and smile.
“Genderfluid: There will be puddles” slap that on a T-shirt
My favorite compliment to this day is "heckin cute amorphous blob" for this exact reason 😂❤
*proceeds to clip this*
new Halloween costume just dropped: sexy puddle
Wrap yourself in clear plastic wrapping, add glitter, slutty flats or heels, gotta have sparkle fishnets. Slap a price on it and sell it at Spirit Halloween.
Courtney: "Don't clip this."
Anthony: *clips this*
As a genderfluid person, this is EXACTLY how I feel
Ik I feel the same
As a genderfluid person, I say all the genderfluid people should come together at a pool party and meld into one singular gender fluid.
Courtney: “Don’t clip this…”
Anthony’s team:…😶
Keeping "Don't clip this" IN THE VIDEO TOO
You really don’t need other people’s approval. How has society become to shallow.
It is a natural human desire to be seen as attractive or wanted, you shouldnt make that the sole goal of your life, no; but that's not what they're saying anyway
@@Wavezzzz601 she literally said that she wishes for a formless body without identity, with the only qualities being the affect it has on other people. The goal is “oh you’re so funny” and “wow you’re so hot”. Not a mention of self-integrity, a personal dream, a place in the world, a real relationship, responsibility, achievement of any kind, personal growth. None of that. Just social approval at the most remedial level. Gender fluidity should not be motivated by the internal desire to *find* acceptance. Self acceptance is the goal. SELF. Chronic anxiety about how other people view you is the antithesis of self acceptance. The fact that you can’t recognize this is unreal to me.
Everything Courtney says about her feelings towards sexuality and gender is so relatable and I really appreciate her strength in being so honest about it.
Well as far as I'm concerned she's succeeded in that tremendously.
I wrestle with what to wear to work a lot because most of my business-casual clothing is very feminine and sometimes I just want people to look at me and wonder ✨
One of the top reasons I despise business casual is how hard it is to find gender-neutral clothes. So glad I can just wear jeans and a t-shirt to work finally
Try up-sizing and layering to fill out your form. If that's not comfortable, look for thicker fabrics that hang and drape rather than flow. There's lots of "male" shirts that are pretty thick and stiff that might help anything going on in the front.
I love Courtney. They're amazing. 💜
Courtney is such a mood and a vibe and I love them sm lol
People need to understand dressing a certain way, ie portraying qualities of the opposite sex, does not mean you are a different gender.
You a woman who doesn't always like to dress "girly".
Still, dressing in a traditionally masculine, feminine, or other way can help people feel more comfortable with their gender. It really comes down to an individual basis I suppose
That's not what gender fluidity is
No genderfluid person thinks clothes = gender. All it means is that your gender changes from time to time. Some people want to wear certain clothes to express that, some don't, but no trans/non binary person thinks that gender identity and gender expression are the same thing.
Damn, figuring out what to wear to express how your feeling, now that’s a real struggle
So just...don't. We spent half a billion years constructing language so you could express how you're feeling in exact terms.
Or better yet, keep your feelings to yourself, because why are you so important that your feelings are anyone's business?
You can wear anything you want. Clothes don't change your sex or gender.
i can’t tell whether ur making a pro or anti trans argument
@@allymofo2332 I'm making an anti-sexism argument.
It's kinda funny you're wondering if it's anti-trans or pro-trans.
@@JR-qt8qb uhh, this video is about being trans so ya i assumed. and u literally mention gender and changing it so…
@@allymofo2332 How? It sounds like they just want to wear sexy clothes and make people horny.
Nope, but gender or sex might make you change the clothes you choose to wear.
The gender fluid.
EXACTLY she explained it so well
I throughly do not understand genderfluid/non binary as a identity. Many people describe it as being fluid in there style of dress, such as dressing stairotypically feminine sometime, dressing stairotypically masculine other times, or even a mixture of the two. Other people or even the same people describe genderfluid/non binary as a feeling that is constantly changing throughout their life. As it regards to clothing why is it in 2024 that people feel like they are genderfluid, non binary, or a trans man if they dress more masculine as a biological woman or dress more feminine as a biological man? Why are people not allowed to wear what they want and not be persuaded into thinking they have to change how they identify? In regards to the changing feelings, why base your identity on feelings when feelings and emotions themselves are so fleeting. Why aren't people able to just be the sex they were born as and express themselves through style, attitude, knowledge, experience, etc. without being brought into thinking that they way the express themselves means they have to be genderfluid, non binary, or trans and not just a man or woman that expresses themselves in a certain way. This is in no way directed towards people who have been diagnosed gender dysphoria and have suffered with that their whole lives, and I hope the medical industry get better in that regard so people with gender dysphoria and all other disorders are able to live in this world without suffering as much as they do.
Well said, everyone in the comments has clearly lost the plot. From what I can tell, this girl is nothing more than someone with an imagination who sometimes doesn’t know what to wear.
Trans people aren't a new fad. Pre-war Germany had the largest institute for trans and queer studies in Europe, but it was the first thing the Nazis attacked when they took power.
Ah, I think you’re a bit confused. You can of course not dress according to gender norms and still have the same gender you were assigned at birth. In Courtney’s case, it’s BECAUSE of her genderfluidity that she expresses herself differently, if that makes sense. I hope this helps! You can also always do research- there’s plenty out there, and modern science has been accepting of gender variance for a while now.
most of these comments are NOT passing the vibe check.
@@lastryyyko true. It’s still 10x better than reels but still sh*tty
@@ville__The first fifteen or so comments are atrocious. Why do all these conservatives get recommended smosh related clips?
@@ville__I see a lot in replies mostly
You can check the replies in some of the top comments
@@ville__"finally someone said how I feel"
Negative comment: "you need mental help apparently"
@@fulicious2991 because you people have lost the plot , there is not esoteric fluidity crap, there is only male and female period .
this is how i feel :( courtney just explained it in less than a minute. ilysm court.
As a genderfluid I cannot express how much I relate to Courtney. It’s a struggle when I wanna be masculine and feminine at the same time, just feminine, or so nonbinary I’m an enigma.
It's heartbreaking that no one taught you this, but everyone is masculine and feminine at the same time...all the time. Those are human traits that everyone has, it's not about gender, it's about personality.
Men have feminine traits and characteristics, and women have masculine traits and characteristics.
And feeling more masculine or feminine at different moments doesn't mean anything other than that you're human.
@@Zachary- …… what? I am well aware of the fact all humans have masculine and feminine energy. It is part of my spiritual beliefs. I am speaking about presenting as masculine or feminine. I am well in tune with spirituality of gender, just the physical appearance aspect is difficult.
I feel you. I identify as “straight,” but I’ve got my own personal style. Mainly tomboy, but I occasionally want to wear a dress/skirt depending on where I’m going or what mood I’m in. I’m not sure if that’s exactly the same for you but, I get what you mean.
You don't have to be a certain gender for different things to feel right ❤
@@NJ.Magpietotally agree! I'm a straight woman and I wear men's clothes all the time. Children's clothes, too, bc sometimes they fit better.
I just hate wearing certain things on certain days.
Overly feminine, overly masculine, or somewhere in the middle. I choose what I want based on the day, and how I'm feeling. 💜
So they must feel something similar but to the nth degree? (Sorry just trying to understand)
@@cv6442 Gender identity and expression is different for everyone and that makes it confusing at times, but do whatever makes you feel comfortable. Wanting to wear clothes of a different gender does not make you trans in the slightest, what makes you trans is if you want to be a another gender than your assigned gender at birth. Clothes don't have gender, just be you 🩷
@@NJ.Magpie I totally agree! I was more so saying it so others know they aren't alone, and dressing like another gender "typically" does, doesn't have anything to do with our gender. Just how we express ourselves as individuals. 😊💜
I’ve never heard anyone else say they want to be an orb lol, bc same. Tho for me it’s more bc I’m depressed so I just wish I wasn’t a fully sentient being and I wish I didn’t exist to others, but besides that yes I want to be a silly orb, just a goofy guy
“Don’t clip this” *immediately clips it*
They put it into words!!!
These comments are incredibly disappointing and even somewhat scary. But I need to say something. Even if Courtney never sees it.
I've grown up with you, Courtney. You've been the representation I needed. The only validation I personally encounter is here at Smosh. Everytime Courtney's identity is brought up, I CHEER 🎉 for them. I cheer for all of us that don't fall on the binary and instead want to fall on the floor! And I can finally, truly, ignore the haters and cheer for myself. Because we ARE valid. Thank you, Courtney, for consistently putting the "them" in Theminine.
Welcome to the internet and the real world people have opinions
Courtney made me feel comfortable to express myself differently and i think that’s a beautiful thing.
Just because someone has different views than you and disagrees with your choice on how to view gender doesn’t make them a hater. In fact, most of the people I see spreading hate are the lgbt/non binary community, but you don’t see it as hate because you agree with the opinions they try to force on others.
@@ChrisJones-pi5mh i don't think I ever said it was only straight peeps being mean
@@ChrisJones-pi5mhDifferent views and opinions shouldn't be publicly commented on a video with a person in it, about the person, when they're just discriminative against something the person can't control or just is. They really don't have to comment it, they can just keep it to themselves because it's doing no good.
I have a tom boy side and a girlie girl side, but I just felt like it was always me.
I wonder if this is what she is explaining, but in different words. I never questioned it too much. I guess having to have a label doesn't matter to me so much. I am simply me. And I like that Courtney is simply Courtney.
“Don’t clip this.”
*proceeds to clip it*
oh my fucking god the floating orb thing is something ive felt for as long as i can remember
GENDERFLUID GANG LET'S GOOOOO
ME 🙋
ME 😋
There will be clips
Courtney is so real for that
She just articulated the genderfluid experience better than anyone.
Just a quick psa to remember to change your gender fluid every 6 months ✌️
That's a magnificent way of describing it 😁❤️❤️❤️!!!
this is so fucking real 😭😭
This makes sense somehow
No cause this is the perfect description, like I've always struggled to describe it, but the glowy orb is perfect
it’s weird
No offence but how does literally any of what she said there dictate anyone’s gender? Those are personality traits.
You might be looking at it in the wrong direction. The stuff they said doesn’t dictate anyone’s gender, but _for them_ having a constantly fluctuating gender causes the feelings they describe here.
I know a person who would have preferred to be perceived in a nonbinary way out of frustration with how people treated her based on her gender.
I know that I would like to be perceived in a nonbinary way because neither gender feels entirely correct regardless of how people would treat me.
Same desire for different reasons.
@@Null-value ok but not knowing what to wear is something anyone experiences at times (not to mention a 1st world problem), it's not a symptom of being "gender fluid" or anything. And there are women who dress masculine, men who dress feminine, or people who dress masculine one day and feminine the next. None of those people are a different gender because of it, they just break norms and express themselves differently.
@@marvinmiller2983 you are correct. There are many people whose identity matches with their birth gender who choose to present themselves without following norms and honestly? All the power to them! Society has had that particular stick up its butt for far too long.
But gender nonconformity is at the end of the day a choice. Being genderfluid is not a choice. I don’t have any control over what gender I feel like today. It’s a thing that just happens and I try to deal with the issues it brings.
It’s worth mentioning that non binary and genderfluid people can experience dysphoria. But most of the transition therapies are slow acting and permanent changes, meaning that full transition would ALSO cause dysphoria. So alleviating temporary dysphoria requires temporary changes, which is why genderfluid people focus so much on clothing. It’s a practical means of managing dysphoria.
I suppose I didn’t explain the not knowing what to wear thing did I? I can only speak for my experience, but there is a really annoying thing about being genderfluid.
Most of the day I am trying to do the rest of my life. But I have to get dressed at o’ dark thirty in the morning. So I have to figure out what my gender before I’ve even had coffee and I am not awake enough for introspection. If I get it wrong then I get to feel cruddy.
Having to do that introspection is frustrating, hence the desire to be able to just go around as a bare soul and not have to deal with all of that at 5 am.
I understand not wanting to be seen as girly or masculine. However I think these people are too obsessed with how others see them; “do I look too feminine today” etc.. It’s fine to feel neutrally about your gender; why does others’ perception have to dictate that? Imo it’s not factual to believe you can change your genes or that you do not fall into the male and female dichotomy. you are either male or female even though you don’t have to wear dresses or pants. not to mention, all of this extremely first world problem and privileged.
I just wish I could magically decide whether I'm going to be a guy or a girl at any given moment of the day. Y'know?
Don't clip this... gets clipped 😂
as a more feminine presenting non binary person having Courtney as a great representation on youtube is so cool and so important
pov: you're a extremly hairy 6'4" blad dude writing this on youtube
@@ghfudrs93uuu describing yourself?
@@demon-goat sure, I'm a handsome man. No problem with that.
@@ghfudrs93uuu I wish
Representation of what exactly? A woman with an imagination who sometimes doesn’t know what to wear?
"I struggle with what i'm feeling..." Interesting. I always remember Bruce Lee's iconic line, "Be like water, my friend." Allowing your mood, feelings, & perception to shape your presentation to the world is what everyone does. It might be a leap but Bruce Lee tells us how water in a cup becomes a cup and so on. If you wake up aggressive, annoyed, and all around not likable, then, do you want to present as gender male? If you wake up feeling like you are pretty, caring, and supportive, then, do you want to present as gender female? Mood is fluid. Feelings are fluid. Does how you respond to your feelings make you "fluid?" Everyone is fluid. Be like water. But take care not to become so formless that you lose your grasp on who you are, as for so many that lose something in change that a part of them is gone. Will changing so many times shave off a piece of yourself to where no one can recognize "you." All they will see is the shapeless and unrecognizable.
The people who believe in gender fluidity are dimwitted enough to think that men are simply aggressive, and women are simply pretty, and feeling's normal human emotions that everyone feels somehow dictates which gender you are.
They don't need validation, they need medication.
I love the water quote but as someone who is genderfluid I have a very different interpretation of it than I think you might.
For me, sometimes I feel like a boy, sometimes a woman, and sometimes just like an amorphus blob just chugging along in life - but regardless I am still me.
Water in a babling brook is still water, waves and swells in the raging ocean are still water, water that is completely still and placid in a lake is still water. It doesn't transform into Soda or dilute into cordial. It can be calm or distructive and can behave or look so different from one day to another... but at its core it's still water.
Similarly, I take on different "forms" that are often called different things by people, but I'm still me.
Sometimes I'm an enraged woman, a sheepish dude, a caring brother, or a loving aunt/uncle. At the core of it though, I'm still just me.
The form I take on might change, but I'm no less "me" regardless of which form I'm in at the time.
@@zaykay5462I have one question. On the last part of your answer you said "i can be an enraged woman", " sheepish dude", "caring uncle", etc. My question is, what makes you feel either like a female or a male? Why don't you just feel like an "enraged person", "sheepish person", "caring person"? I struggle to understand what makes one feel the need to switch to another gender. If you're still you, why aren't you just you, but have to change between a "woman you" or "male you"? What are the characteristics of woman and man? I'm genuinely curious, but don't answer if not comfortable.
@@saramonteiro4922 I can’t speak for anyone else, but for me it is like this:
It’s not that I feel a need to switch to a a different gender, but rather that my gender changes of its own accord by some unseen internal mechanism. As for characteristics, my own experience is that my comfort with body parts, my internal voice, and my self-reference change with my gender.
If we want to continue the water analogy, I would say it is like a river. Rivers are constantly changing, their banks reshaped by their own existence. But the river cannot choose to stay the same, and trying to force a river to stay the same shape comes with a host of problems.
Much like a river, my gender changes over time, trying to stop it from changing causes problems, and having a beaver gets awkward sometimes.
@@Null-value thank you for answering! I think I was interpreting the "not identifying as a gender" as not identifying with what society, and ourselves even, interpret and expect of each gender, and when our internal sensations don't relate to that, and relate more to another gender's , we feel that we are in the wrong gender. But your experience seems to be more related to an internal discomfort. Like trying to find what best matches your self Identity.
I like the water analogies going on in here 🧘♀️
i was gender fluid...
now i am gender free ❤
Enbys 🔛🔝
As a fellow gender-fluid, there in fact are puddles.
it's just clothes lady, grow up.
Cry harder
The fluidity hits hard
He did, in fact, clip this
She is so beat now
you know, when I found out courtney also used they/them pronouns, but always looks the way they do, I had a feeling that we felt similarly about our genders and honestly...I was right and I love/hate that for us, because it IS a struggle, even if we can joke about it.
She/they
never seen a better description for this feeling of wanting to be a floating orb of energy
haven’t watched smosh in years, this is the plot twist I wasn’t expecting
You legit skipped chapters, go back and read
I believe they came out around 2019
@@cleversmoshso CLEARLY I’ve been gone a long time 😂
@@kordeliiius9821 fair enough, lol. I started watching smosh in 2015 but I've technically only been watching for 7 years because have had long periods of not watching them and then coming back to watching again
Courtney's gender: orb of energy
Courtney's aesthetic: put-together and rocks absolutely whatever the heck they wanna wear
My gender: amorphous gender blob
My aesthetic: chronically ill perpetually pajama'd chaos gremlin
As a genderfluid person, this is relatable
needed to be clipped because this is so real
Never in my life did I agree with someone or something this hard
I'm not genderfluid but I do feel so upset sometimes that shape shifting isnt an option 😅 not even just style or gender wise, I just think it would be nice to go creature mode sometimes.
they’re so real
They look so cool though i love their outfit
PLSSS THIS IS SOOO RELATABLE
I never have related to something more