I did my first post msf ride today (mainly in a parking lot). I can’t speak for everyone but I find that my biggest “fear” is just embarrassment. I worry about stalling in an intersection and dropping the bike, stalling with 20 cars behind me at a stop sign/light, terrified of losing control and hitting into another car, etc. it’s day 1 so I’m trying not to beat myself up about it and hoping it’s something that just passes with time and experience.
I didn't even make it out my driveway. stopped at the road, looked down, killed the bike and rolled it back up the driveway. Gonna do that at least until I'm comfortable to roll down my slight hill.
First ride outside of my neighborhood today... Just went a couple miles away to an empty parking lot. First time above 30mph though and it had my heart racing. I found myself stalling less and shifting smoother after I stopped rushing and being worried about looking stupid.
That was a great question. I got back into motorcycling after a break of 25 years, and I definitely felt a "fear factor" both doing my MSF, and getting on my own bike for the first time. I used a lot of mindfulness to stay within my limits, and rode like a newbie (focused on smoothness, not speed) and didn't care if I looked "boring" - I was doing this for me.
Same here, car got totalled and bought a bike after not riding for a couple decades and I've developed an inexplicable fear and can't get over it. Trying to find a refresher intermediate class but hard to find nowadays
This was a very good video and no, the question is not stupid. I have a very high fear factor. I have been to Iraq and Afghanistan a combined six times; I have been shot at; and I have been part of recovering fallen soldiers. For some reason, riding a motorcycle in traffic was terrifying to me. I saw people do it and was always amazed at how relaxed and free they seem to accomplish the task. It made me want to do it and experience their joy. When I taught my daughter to drive a car, it was practice, practice, practice. Your idea of practicing in a parking lot is spot on. Go somewhere where you can make mistakes and not be judged. The motorcycling community is one of the most understanding and nonjudgmental groups of people I have ever met. There is no competition and everyone wants you to succeed in riding and staying safe.
I didn’t start riding until 30, and it came natural. The only way I think one can elevate above fear is to not think about the possibilities of disaster. Rather, live in the moment and stay aware of your surroundings.
I’ve been riding for thirty six years and I have always treated riding as a permanent learning experience. I constantly try to improve my skills. Every mistake, every incident is an opportunity for growth and in the early days fields and parking lots were my best friend. Also mastering each skill (I don’t mean stunts) in different weather conditions will pay huge dividends in the long run. Every bike I’ve owned has, at that time, been my soul form of transport. Thirteen years ago I thought my riding days were over when I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. But that changed five months ago when I bought my current machine. She’s a CanAm Ryker 900. My first time on three wheels. I’m now transferring old and mastering new skills and I’m having a blast! Fear is actually healthy as it keeps you grounded and can remind you not to do stupid sh#t. But don’t ever let it stop you. Ride Safe. Namaste 🙏🏻 P.S. There were no riding courses available when I was starting out but a few years later I was able to do an advanced riding skills course and it was probably my best decision ever. By the way. You’re channel rocks. Keep it up young ‘un 👌🏻
After passing my car test, (in the UK), I would avoid all sorts of junctions that I didn't like the look of, which was kind of a pain in the ass as I'd end up going the long way round, and it took a few years to just go anywhere directly. At the grand old age of 43 I decided to start motorcycling, passed the CBT and bought a 125cc Yamaha YBR. I then rode for around 3,000 miles before passing the full test. In that time I actively sought out the most awkward junctions in town, and any road that I felt apprehensive about. I was determined not to avoid the 'difficult' roads and go through all that again on a bike. I remember feeling rushed turning right at junctions because of all of the steps involved, so one night I went out and did about 20 laps of a block in town just turning right, and it went from being rushed and awkward to relaxed and comfortable as I had so much more time to observe the situation and think, because I was starting to do most of it without consciously thinking. As for riding fear itself. It's a bit like the how to draw an owl meme... 'draw 2 circles... draw the rest of the owl'. You can read, watch videos, listen to experienced riders, but the only way you're going to get comfortable is by going out and riding. Anything you don't like the look of, wind, rain, high speed corners, traffic... as long as you've got to a good level of control over the bike, (which is just a matter of time), just get stuck in and build up confidence. Keep riding, keep reading, and watching videos, and talking to experienced riders and it falls into place. Fear is a funny thing. I definitely find it's controlled with avoidance and confrontation. Every time you avoid a situation it grows, every time you confront it it fades. So, learn how to ride safely, and get out there and practice! I now ride a Ducati Scrambler, which is how I found this channel 👍. Confidently heading out into the countryside with no real idea of where you're going is the best thing ever!!
My first bike was a Ducati Monster 796. I settled on this bike because it spoke to me and I really wanted this one. I took the two day riding course and one question that was asked during the course was, "what should we start out on"? The instructor said any bike you want. We were all like, WHAT?!?! Then he proceeded to tell us why. First of all, there's nothing wrong with any bike out there, it's going to do what it's rider tells it to do. If you're going to get on a bike and be an idiot, ride above your skill level then you're going to get hurt or worse. But if you ride to your skill level and apply what we teach you in this course to the road then you're going to be fine. So I chose the Ducati. The emergency braking saved my ass a couple of times now. Just assume no one else sees you on the road and everyone's an idiot.
I was the fearless 7 year old hooligan on a pull start minibike terrorizing the gravel alleys throughout the neighborhood. Skill, experience, road strategy, awareness, evasive maneuvers and a bit of cager fear have kept me alive so far on the street.
I didn’t start riding till I was 42 (2022). Practice practice practice until you are comfortable shifting gears, utilizing the clutch, braking, etc. it’s really not as bad as some think but you have to practice sufficiently to build up the muscle memory and learn your bike. once you are comfortable doing those things you can focus on the other factors worthy of attention. Take your time get comfortable. Getting out into traffic at first is a bit nerve racking but start riding at times with less traffic and gradually start riding in more traffic. Interstate riding is not bad just be careful exiting on the cloverleaf ramps and make sure you slow down enough before hand. It’s easy to get complacent riding at high speeds and overrun a circular ramp and wipe out so just be careful the first couple of times you do it. The other thing that threw me for a loop is the mirrors. Unlike a car the difference in positioning I found quite disorienting and I found myself looking over my shoulder far too much. Practice that skill as well.
I started riding many, many years ago off road on a Honda 50. It was a great way to get familiar with a motorcycle in a low pressure way. I wish everyone interested in riding could start this way.
I think anything with fear and risk is what makes an activity exciting and to an extend worth doing. Anxiety leading up to an activity I don’t enjoy so much, but generally when I shut out the anxiety and only allow myself to fear the moment I generally find there’s nothing to worry about. It’s obvious, but worth keep reminding yourself.
After the equivalent MSF course here in Canada, I had a boost of confidence, than I dropped my own bike a week later, today was the first day on the road after the repairs, I can't see the bike the same way. I'll be practicing around the neighborhood for another week, really hope I am more comfortable with the bike and clutch by end of next week Edit A little update, dropped my bike 2 more times after that, got a smaller bike and it the best decision ever, fit me well, and they are extremely forgiving to learn on. Best decision ever.
Education, practice in a safe environment, and then accept the risk...."Fear is the Mind-Killer"....Acknowledge your fear, and then, with intent, decide to carry on, or better prepare...Excellent vid!!...thanks for the content...👍
Turned 18 this year, my dad and uncle are both avid motorcyclists so even I relate to the "Having no two ways about it" mentality of riding a motorcycle. I really wanted this to be part of my life moving on. Unfortunately there is no MSF course in my country and I didn't have a beginner bike. Ive been learning on an Interceptor 650 since 4 months and Ive been doing okay so far. Still have some anxiety every now and then but vids like this make me feel less bad about myself for the occasional screw up or mistake I make on the road 😃
Didn't really have a fear to ride, my first general fear was riding in the city, lane splitting during rush hours. But I did feel the fear after my accident when I broke my knee(riding a 100cc moped). So after 6-7 months of healing. Got myself a 250 ninja and did a 300km ride. Scared but needed.
For me it’s the struggle of balancing and being really short, like 4’8. It got lowered 8cm in total and 6cm boots. It’s still not enough to reach the ground on both feet. So I get really shaky and scared because I’m scared of dropping it bc I had to get a new bike for the driving school. I live in Germany where traffic and vehicle laws are really really really strict
Great video. I think another way to learn to ride and take away some of the anxiety is to look for motorcycles with clutchless shifters or electric motorcycles (or even twist and go scooters). Especially for beginners they reduce the multi-tasking challenges and allow focus on traffic and surroundings and make it a lot easier to stop and go (without stalling), similar to what most people probably remember from when they first started driving.
Great advice Meghan! My story is similar. I also started out off road when I was 9 years old. Growing up had various dirt bikes and quads and was lucky enough to live where there were miles and miles of trails, pits with rediculous hill climbs and jumps etc. And a group of friends who had dirt bikes/quads as well. I definitely had a few wrecks and near misses where you pat your body down and go holy shit how am I alive....lol. Bumps, cuts, bruises, sprains but nothing serious thankfully. I agree taking a class is one of the best things you can do especially if you are new to motorcycles in general. My girlfriend had never ridden before when she got her bike and I would ride it to a big empty parking lot and she would follow in the car. At first she would just put around in first gear to get the feel of the bike. Then she started shifting once she felt comfortable which came easy because she only drives manual transmission cars. After a few times she was ready to take short trips around town with me and turned out to be a natural. We also took a safety class together and believe me I learned alot more than I thought I would especially when it comes to making yourself visible to other drivers and the class gave us both more confidence. As far as fear goes I think that with any skilled activity that involves risk, you have to have a healthy respect for it. My motto is always account for stupid. Instead of being nervous about someone pulling out in front of you etc. Expect it, make a just in case plan, and adjust yourself accordingly. Basically always be alert, scan ahead and expect that everyone is trying to kill you...lol. Seriously though if it's something you really want to do, the fun factor definitely outweighs the fear. You just always have to have that healthy respect for it IMHO. BTW some states offer a free safety class where you test for your endorsement at the end like Pennsylvania. I'm in NJ and had to pay for the class but they have the bikes there so you don't even have to own a bike to take the class. Check in your state and you may be able to try your hand at it without spending a dime. Good luck to you!
I've been riding ever since the first day I could get a license in my hands but seeing people die every few days to a motorcycle accident kind of makes me a bit.... worried if I'm next anytime soon.. 5 months ago I saw a 19 year old kid on the highway, being put in a bag by the medics, he was riding an electric bicycle but it had the same effect on me, that same highway I ride through every single day for the last 712 days and here's a kid who's never going to be able to wake up in his bed again and go do whatever the hell he wants to do, that feeling terrified me and it's still a feeling I have when I'm home laying in bed, the feeling naturally disappears when I'm riding but these thoughts during sleep make the thought of riding again a bit terrifying.
I have been riding for about 6 or 7 years altogether and I just hopped on my first bike and just started riding. A couple years ago I did take a course from Harper college where I live. Its a class for people to learn the basic skills on how to ride on smaller bikes and at the end of the class they will test your skills. If you don't have your M sponsor on your license yet and you pass the class they give you a certificate to go get it without having to ride at the DMV course. I highly recommend this class or anything like it to new riders to get the hang of controls and balance.
Great video and great tips. :). For people trying to get past fear, I recommend taking a training/intro course to get the necessary knowledge, technique and initial practice in controlled situations. I also recommend starting on a small low CC bike and start very slow to gain confidence and skill. As confidence and skill increases, upgrade to a bigger motorcycle and repeat.
Just take your time and set goals. When I first got my motorbike, I literally had to psych myself up every time I was going to go out. At first I was afraid to go above 30, so I tackled that. Then I realised I was afraid to ride in the wet, so I chose an ideal time for that when it was less busy, you get the idea
I’m a returning rider after 25 years. My biggest fear factor is freeway riding. I’ve stuck my foot in the water a couple of times during low traffic periods and everything was fine. Then a couple of weeks ago I went on a 25 mile ride with a group that was mostly very busy urban freeways. I felt better riding in a group, but I didn’t enjoy it. I live in an area that has a lot of aggressive drivers and excessive speeding on the freeways, and I have a big problem with that.
Thanks for this video. I’m new new to riding. As in 3 hours on a bike at best. I bought a Yamaha Bolt, was supposed to do the MSF course but they kept cancelling. As of now, I’m going the end of Sept. So a buddy is showing me a few things in a parking lot until then. Anyway, I’m scared. Lots of power, out of my comfort zone, zero experience. I keep thinking that maybe the Bolt is just too much power, but having zero experience riding and zero experience feeling the power of ANY bike... I should prob just cut myself a little break. Sorry for the novel. Thanks for the video.
I hear you on this one. I did the MSF course on a 500cc Harley but I was fortunate enough to purchase a 1200cc Harley really cheap prior to riding for the first time. A friend of mine who grew up riding bikes said that I will grow into it. I’m scared to even roll it down my driveway because of the power difference. I feel like I just need to get over it but to even practice I have to leave my street and go two blocks before even getting to a big parking lot! It’s a bit nerve racking. Trying to work up the courage.
@@allisonkkreiss9658 you WILL get used to it! I did a lot of practice just with clutch and first gear for a while. Get used to the power and then just go from there. I did that up/down the alley and then just did around the block for a weeks until I went out on the street. You’ll be ok! Small steps first
Being introduced to driving and riding as a kid on a farm was paramount in learning skills before drivers ed courses were taken. I learned on riding mowers, go-carts, mini bikes, mopeds, and my father let me drive the car and truck on the farm roads. Boy i miss those day's. Love your channel. ❤
For years I am afraid any time when I get on my 1000 cc and I always tell her not to cripple me or kill me. But after a couple of minutes I am confident and happy.
Meghan! I’m so glad you made this video, I posted on one of your vids a few months ago when I found your channel that I just got a Honda rebel 450, I’ve thought about messaging you some of my beginner questions! Love your content ❤️
I had 50cc mini bikes & 175cc off road bikes which I practiced on before hitting the street. I also did all the road basic and advanced courses to get really confident which helped me later with heavy cruisers when doing u-turns in tight streets and reefing the crusing around sharp bends at high speed etc. You definitely need guts to ride motorcycles on the road and I have had my fair share of serious crashes from people in cars who ran into me. But you just get back on again 👍
Im 34, and got my first street and trail last year, and I have yet to ride it on the road. My husband has rode it more than i have , but this is the year i take a class, get licensed, and learn
Thank you for sharing, I just got a bike after 24 years (hard fall) and I’m having a hard time getting on it and it’s only a little HondaTr 125! Lack of clutch is throwing me off too, but all the sudden I feel unstable. So thanks I’m gonna take my time and get back on it!
I'm so glad I could help! I highly recommend taking a course, you get the feel for a bike before buying and they even have frame sliders/protection in case the bike gets tipped over.
I learn how to ride just like you on a small bike off road. When I decided I would like a street bike I bought my first bike 1200 sportster the day I got it I went to the motor vehicle department did the written exam got my Temporary license in Wisconsin means you can only ride during the day with a helmet and no passengers I practice for a month or two signed up for the drivers test and passed. I have wondered if I would have learned anything by taking a course . I have thought about taking one of those advanced courses but never seem to get around to it. My biggest fear when riding is that the cars don’t see me so when I approach an intersection I’m always prepared for a quick stop or take some action. I have to admit I am extra careful when I ride in Milwaukee people do not seem to stop at intersections as you well know they’re been a bunch of hit-and-run accidents lately. They said on the news they have some ideas on how to improve this I hope they do as it seems like we have a lot of careless people out there with no regard for other peoples . And it seems like there’s a lot of people with no insurance. I am a believer and loud pipes save lives. Knock on wood I’ve been riding 20Years on the street and I have never gone down.
i took a class and the hardest thing for me was braking lol the front brake was okay but applying both front, rear as well as holding a clutch and shifting down gears REALLY stressed me out and I couldn’t get it so I gave up lol i was having a hard time understanding when to use which brake and how lol but i wanna try again, i think id feel more comfortable practicing by myself in a parking lot than a fast pace class environment however, the class was SUPER helpful. my grandpa got his little ‘89 50cc yamaha running last week and wanted me to ride it. I was able to get on it and ride around fine, I applied all the things I had learned in the class and couldn’t imagine hopping on a bike with ZERO experience or knowledge lol
When I was a newbie I was one of those that waited for freeway & busy streets but I realized sooner or later I gotta I do it. So I did & realized it wasn’t that bad lol 😂
Great subject matter that is never addressed. One thing that riders need to be aware of is that it's NOT about how good a rider you are, because we are dealing with people behind the wheel of automobiles that are driving distracted 75% of the time. I own two very different motorcycles; a Ducati Pannigale and a BMW R1200GS Adventure bike. I have been riding for over 30 years. I am a conscious rider, always mapping out an escape route for whatever danger that may cross my path, but sometimes even the safest rider finds themselves laying flat on the pavement due to the sheer stupidity of people they share the road with. Case in point: a few years back I was hit by a driver that decided to change lanes without noticing that I was riding right along side of his driver's side door. He jerked his car into me without even looking, leaving me no time to react or to find that escape route I mentioned earlier. There was no way possible this idiot couldn't hear my bike riding along side of his car UNLESS his music was playing too loud, which is exactly what he told the police. A shattered collar bone, 12 broken ribs, 3 fractures to my neck later and I still battle memories of that moment every time I mount my bike. When the police visited me in my hospital bed to take my statement they gave me some sobering statistics about life here in Los Angeles... 1 - they guesstimated that at least 35% of the drivers on my city's streets are without drivers licenses and/or insurance. 2. Cell phone usage is the cause of over 70% of the traffic accidents they investigate. And 3 (the most obvious to note) "it's not IF you're going to get hit but WHEN". I encourage anyone who gets the riding bug to take a riding course BEFORE buying a bike. Learn how to handle a bike in a variety of conditions, and to purchase a bike that is suited to their riding experience. A Pannigale 1299 is NOT a very good beginner bike, no matter how cool you look on it. Also protect your body with the best riding gear you can afford, and also purchase a very good insurance policy. Remember most of the time it's not YOU that is at fault, and that having a little bit of fear while riding will keep your senses more aware of your surroundings and dangers that you face. Safe riding my friends.
starting on a dirt bike is an excellent way to begin riding. You get a good introduction to coordinating both hands and feet without worrying about other cars etc...the occasional tree may jump out in front of you, but....anyway, you get used to sliding a motorcycle too, which could come in handy later on the road. The motorcycle safety courses are a really good introduction to riding too, but then riders need to continue to work on those skills. It's all worth it though
you've got to be really careful though, this motorcycle stuff can be really addicting! Got to get the latest helmet, or just one more jacket, maybe another bike....or 5 more. It can get expensive :-) And then the urge to ride all over the country can get to be pretty strong too...:-)
@@michaelcase8574 I'm in Tennessee, and you don't have to here. To my knowledge you don't have to take a class anywhere in the U.S.A. just be able to pass the written and riding parts of the test
Gear Gear Gear it will give you peace of mind and confidence to ride on these streets I didn’t start riding highway until after 1 yr of riding in the streets not saying to do the same but u get my point don’t ride past your limits
I took an MSF course in April this year, got my license in June and hoping to purchase my bike this month! I’ve been researching and saving. It was so nerve wracking during the course. As soon as I felt comfortable it was on to the next step and putting me outside of my comfort zone again. The best part though was the following day: we just hoped on and started without a second thought. The test ended up being a fun challenging, not scary. I’m not saying I’m a great rider and will have to practice in a parking lot after I buy my bike to refresh... but what I will say is that the MSF course set me up with the fundamentals I need to feel safe. I’d recommend it to anyone worried. Also... I think some amount of fear in traffic is essential to understanding the risk. I also am a cosmetic tattooer for example. I’m confident in my craft, but there’s always a moment I take a deep breath. It’s kinda how you know you take what you’re doing seriously and want to execute it with the most professionalism and skill. 💪🏼 I’m a little nervous about getting my bike but more than nervous... excited!! 🤩
I wanted to get a bike for years but it never seemed within reach until a coworker who had one encouraged me. I bought a bike before I had a licence and failed the licensing course the first time but went back and did it again and passed. That was nine years ago and I love riding tho where I live (Toronto area) isn't great for motorcycling (traffic, constant construction, lack of interesting roads close by).
You must trust the bike. I don't trust roads nor other drivers. Going very fast doesn't feel natural on most bikes. Some you really feel speed even 40 mph. Others going 80 doesn't seem fast.
I am MAK. I am from Malaysia. I had a motorcycle accident last December and it tore my right knee ACL. This video is of much helpful to me. Thank you. Greetings from the tropical.
Since most people that pick up bikes do it to be cool, or at least "look" cool, most will never get into dirt riding - the fastest way to learn basics of traction, turning, braking and the dynamics of motorcycles. Training & practice are not seen as cool either, so there are LOTS of bikes with 2k miles on them out there. So sad.
I wrecked on a Suzuki RM80 at age 11 on a dirt road all out. It was a fast little bike and my whole body was a rash. it has never stopped me. I love to ride....but my days of wheelies at 100mph are over (kinda) but always recommend track days. If you can afford it. Ps...I watch your channel because you seem super chill and your voice is relaxing and have good energy.
This is such a great question!! I hadn’t ridden for 16 years so getting back on a bike and riding on the street both made me quite anxious and yeah, it’s scared the crap out of me! Literally I just grabbed a bike and went for a ride! I selected an area that was still busy but it wasn’t “city like busy”. Meghan’s right with training though, just get out there and practice! Get some professional training and just take your time!! Get out there and go riding!
Walk, run, ride a bicycle.. then after you've mastered that, trial by fire, climb aboard a ducati monster. 😲 Depends on your exposure to risk growing up.. younger, no experience, no fear.. older, no experience.. fear! With life experience comes commonsense, to alleviate/rationalize the fear.
I'm 53. Learning to ride my first gas motorbike a 150cc scooter with 10 inch wheels. I previously had ridden a 38 mph 1000watt hub motor ebike on a 26 inch mountain bike frame for 11 years. Comfortable on the ebike but the scooter scares the willies out of me. I seem scared to U turn the bike.
i started with a bicycle when i was a little then suddenly my friends broke it so my father spunk me with his belt then i stop biking hahaha then years past i actually first learn how to drive a jeep because we own one with the help of my father. But when i bought my 1st scooter during my 3rd job i fall in love with it now its been 10 years for me and still in a nice condition.. I LOVE YOU MEGHAN STARK.. RIDE SAFE AND STAY FOCUS
My Add-on here to all readers, Meg.....I want to say that "not enough cold weather riding classes " are set up in the MSF courses in the US or Canada.You may have had "Dirt bike experience and are used to the bike fish-tailing on you and you auto-compensate", but on a big bike you don't expect it. My advice is, in weather that is around 35 F, (2 C), and the bike is still insured :).... go find a parking lot and practice. What's the bike going to do on a straight course if I; give it too much rear, too much front , or too much of both... for a panic stop. And the same for cornering.... Try it at varying speeds, eh. Keep in mind here that the asphalt is cold and sooooo is the rubber on your wheels.It will be a completely different riding dynamic so be aware of that. Stay Safe, Ciao.
I never had the fear of riding in my 20's however now at 60 I always get anxious before I ride. I think it's because it is the first bike I can't flat foot.
I was fearless in my 20s, but hadn't ridden in 15yrs and now I'm trying to get over my anxiety esp with a brand new triumph, and traffic being way worse nowadays and having just been in a hit n run that totalled my car...did fine my first time out but still freaked to get on the bike even just to drive to a parking lot if I can even find an empty one.
@@raynabrand8492 Thanks for your reply, unfortunately some one turned in front of me without warning and short story is, wrote my bike off after only two months of having it which took me months to find what I wanted. She just apologised and walked away. I was lucky to walk away but not without some problems. I'll never ride again. Yes traffic is far worse and so many inexperienced people driving dangerous machines. I wish you all the best and try to enjoy it because there is no better feeling than riding. To be honest if I wasn't married I'd ride again.
I had my bike slip out from underneath me (and down she went) going about 5mph while on wet leaves. Now I'm afraid the bike is going to slip out from underneath me all too often.
I've done a basic cbt course in England and bought a small engine bike, I've been riding out small journeys and gaining confidence BUT! after my night shift I lost control and freaked out on the way home a 20 minute journey turned into 40 minutes because I had to keep stopping and getting myself together. Going to work was fine? Maybe I was tired or something but I was never this freaked out before
I Went Thru The Harley Rider Academy Here in Southern California(3 Day Course)Was a Great Course and A Lot of Hands On Practice Out on Range....After That Find Quiet Parking Lot Etc For More Practice Because it Gets Crazy Here in L.A. Area LOL.
I think you could be answering a different question. Some people are simply just afraid of falling off, getting hit by a car, dying even. You obviously didn't feel like that so maybe just say "I don't know the answer to this as I never felt it." Practice to have more confidence is a good solution but until then some people are just to scared to cross that line and practice. Another answer is simply don't ride if you don't enjoy it. Not everyone finds they enjoy the experience. I know of some people that just felt scared the whole time while on the bike while learning to ride in a class. While others just feel pure enjoyment while doing it. Simply just take your time and pace yourself to get your confidence to be able to move on to the next level and do harder skills.
I have a huge problem I did my license 3 years ago never had a bike and a few days ago I bought dyna street bob because it was an amazing deal and now it siting in the garage waiting for registration and I wonder If I'm going to be able to get out of the driveway and ride on the street he is so heavy and I'm scared, sometimes I think maybe I should sell him and get something tiny like rebel 500. How I'm going to turn on stop signs without dropping him ...I don't have any big empty parking lot nearby where I could go and practice. I live in the city and traffic is everywhere.
That's me, already got license and bike sitting in garage waiting to fix up some stuff then get it registered. If you feel the bike is too heavy, then it is, go with your gut feeling. Hope it all works out.
@@jahzinho5784 bike is 650lbs so it's heavy for me but now I feel better I got my registration I was riding 2 days ago around the house I did around 3 miles going left and right scouting my neighborhood and it doesn't feel that heavy as it was at the begginig I'm 220lbs guy so I'm not tiny and I think I'm all right just need to practice here close to the house where the traffic is minimal before I go further.
@@Voltomess 650lbs is quite heavy, but im sure with enough practice, you will be able to handle it. At least you finally got it out into the streets...all the best...enjoy!
How do u have balance while riding a motorcycle? Cause i was never taught to balance/ride a regular bike… how do u do it? Is there motorcycles that is for short people?
I’ll never overcome the fear of riding it’s just too much risk. My cousin almost got paralyzed for riding one she end it up under a truck on the road just so you’ll have an idea she never rode again after that experience that I know of
Any tips or advice on how to get over the fear of raising your feet off the ground onto the pegs for a beginner driver? My wife is struggling with that, I got her a little rebel 300 and she is too fearful to get her feet up, until she conquers that she won't be able to ride it or do anything with it, any advice or tips are really appreciated, thanks!
@@garlandhyett1902 unfortunately she never did. We ended up trading it for a bigger bike so she could ride with me as a passenger. Get some beginner classes, bikes are usually 300cc and have protective bars in case you fall they would not fall on you fully. I hope you can overcome this obstacle so you can enjoy your bike, they are good running bikes. Unfortunately not big enough for two people.... best of luck!!
@@efrain9237 thank you so much for your great advice. I’m glad that you and your wife can ride together now. I did not know that about the Rebel’s handle bars. That is good to know. I tried to complete the beginner course but it stormed that weekend bad and along with that and me not having the stamina I unfortunately was unable to complete it. I will not give up until I conquer it and are able to enjoy riding.
Is there a situation that raises you blood pressure the most? I'm, hopefully, getting my bike next week. I've moving beach to Dallas on the summer, but I felt that Lubbock is a good place to learn. I guess traffic is my biggest fear. Maybe I shouldn't watch Dan Dan the Fireman crash videos. How often do you have close calls?
@@MeghanStark I'm 46 now and still remember a point my driver's ed. teacher said: "People don't see motorcycle riders because they don't LOOK for motorcycle riders." I don't ride, don't feel comfortable about it on the street even though I had a dirt bike in my teens. And once I moved to TX, and saw how horribly people drive here, I developed even more fear of riding on the street. The fact that I know people who've been hurt, maimed, and killed on bikes wouldn't itself stop me though. I love Harley's and would love to ride one, and I've considered taking a class. Maybe I'll do that and see how it goes. You made some good points in this video!
What do you do when you hit 50 mph and get terrified. I hit 50 and all of a sudden a level of fear hit me that has never hit me before. How do o get over that?
Anxiety of initial acceleration. How can I get that block out of my head. I'm very frustrated because I can handle holding bike up. I don't want to give up, this is to important to me. I bought my bike harley davidson fatboy. Do you have any ideas on how to break this feeling.
I am terrorified of riging my 125cc scooter i recently bought .AS soon as i get onit ok as soon as i start up the engine ok but with both of my feet stil on the ground as soon as i start to pull away I panic and pull back on the throttle and apply the back brake. i have been doing this for the last month and i still cannot overcome this fear of losing control of my scooter and crashing and in hurting myself badley can you advise me here
Very Comprehensive.! (considering you had no notes) Miss Meghan, did you change your hair... you look different then your videos from a year ago. :-) Are you pranking us viewers... maybe your Twin Beauty & you're taking turns at the camera. hee heee
guys.. my fear is because my cousin and a friend died from motorcycling accidents.. i havent ridden since but appart of me still watn to get back to ridding..
You can absolutely still learn all the skills without having ridden a dirt bike. Taking a class is an excellent first step, and otherwise learning good habits and learning from channels like DanDantheFireman for safety and additional skills. At the end of the day, putting down miles is the best way to gain experience and intuition!
I did my first post msf ride today (mainly in a parking lot). I can’t speak for everyone but I find that my biggest “fear” is just embarrassment. I worry about stalling in an intersection and dropping the bike, stalling with 20 cars behind me at a stop sign/light, terrified of losing control and hitting into another car, etc. it’s day 1 so I’m trying not to beat myself up about it and hoping it’s something that just passes with time and experience.
Me too!! 🙂
Did my first ride a couple days ago, I think I stalled like 3 times trying to pull off from intersections and stop signs 😅
I didn't even make it out my driveway. stopped at the road, looked down, killed the bike and rolled it back up the driveway. Gonna do that at least until I'm comfortable to roll down my slight hill.
First ride outside of my neighborhood today... Just went a couple miles away to an empty parking lot. First time above 30mph though and it had my heart racing. I found myself stalling less and shifting smoother after I stopped rushing and being worried about looking stupid.
Two months later and I'm learning how to wheelie. Bikes are super fun
That was a great question. I got back into motorcycling after a break of 25 years, and I definitely felt a "fear factor" both doing my MSF, and getting on my own bike for the first time. I used a lot of mindfulness to stay within my limits, and rode like a newbie (focused on smoothness, not speed) and didn't care if I looked "boring" - I was doing this for me.
Same here, car got totalled and bought a bike after not riding for a couple decades and I've developed an inexplicable fear and can't get over it. Trying to find a refresher intermediate class but hard to find nowadays
This was a very good video and no, the question is not stupid. I have a very high fear factor. I have been to Iraq and Afghanistan a combined six times; I have been shot at; and I have been part of recovering fallen soldiers. For some reason, riding a motorcycle in traffic was terrifying to me. I saw people do it and was always amazed at how relaxed and free they seem to accomplish the task. It made me want to do it and experience their joy. When I taught my daughter to drive a car, it was practice, practice, practice. Your idea of practicing in a parking lot is spot on. Go somewhere where you can make mistakes and not be judged. The motorcycling community is one of the most understanding and nonjudgmental groups of people I have ever met. There is no competition and everyone wants you to succeed in riding and staying safe.
Afghanistan was less scary than the motorcycle I'm trying to learn on! Haha thanks for the service brother!
I didn’t start riding until 30, and it came natural. The only way I think one can elevate above fear is to not think about the possibilities of disaster. Rather, live in the moment and stay aware of your surroundings.
I’ve been riding for thirty six years and I have always treated riding as a permanent learning experience. I constantly try to improve my skills. Every mistake, every incident is an opportunity for growth and in the early days fields and parking lots were my best friend. Also mastering each skill (I don’t mean stunts) in different weather conditions will pay huge dividends in the long run. Every bike I’ve owned has, at that time, been my soul form of transport. Thirteen years ago I thought my riding days were over when I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. But that changed five months ago when I bought my current machine. She’s a CanAm Ryker 900. My first time on three wheels. I’m now transferring old and mastering new skills and I’m having a blast! Fear is actually healthy as it keeps you grounded and can remind you not to do stupid sh#t. But don’t ever let it stop you. Ride Safe. Namaste 🙏🏻
P.S. There were no riding courses available when I was starting out but a few years later I was able to do an advanced riding skills course and it was probably my best decision ever.
By the way. You’re channel rocks. Keep it up young ‘un 👌🏻
After passing my car test, (in the UK), I would avoid all sorts of junctions that I didn't like the look of, which was kind of a pain in the ass as I'd end up going the long way round, and it took a few years to just go anywhere directly. At the grand old age of 43 I decided to start motorcycling, passed the CBT and bought a 125cc Yamaha YBR. I then rode for around 3,000 miles before passing the full test. In that time I actively sought out the most awkward junctions in town, and any road that I felt apprehensive about. I was determined not to avoid the 'difficult' roads and go through all that again on a bike. I remember feeling rushed turning right at junctions because of all of the steps involved, so one night I went out and did about 20 laps of a block in town just turning right, and it went from being rushed and awkward to relaxed and comfortable as I had so much more time to observe the situation and think, because I was starting to do most of it without consciously thinking.
As for riding fear itself. It's a bit like the how to draw an owl meme... 'draw 2 circles... draw the rest of the owl'. You can read, watch videos, listen to experienced riders, but the only way you're going to get comfortable is by going out and riding. Anything you don't like the look of, wind, rain, high speed corners, traffic... as long as you've got to a good level of control over the bike, (which is just a matter of time), just get stuck in and build up confidence. Keep riding, keep reading, and watching videos, and talking to experienced riders and it falls into place.
Fear is a funny thing. I definitely find it's controlled with avoidance and confrontation. Every time you avoid a situation it grows, every time you confront it it fades.
So, learn how to ride safely, and get out there and practice! I now ride a Ducati Scrambler, which is how I found this channel 👍. Confidently heading out into the countryside with no real idea of where you're going is the best thing ever!!
Everytime you avoid it it grows, everytime you face it, it fades. Best advice ever ! Thank you
How got over my fear of slippery conditions/roads was I started riding during winter aka raining season. Now rainy weather is no problems.
My first bike was a Ducati Monster 796. I settled on this bike because it spoke to me and I really wanted this one. I took the two day riding course and one question that was asked during the course was, "what should we start out on"? The instructor said any bike you want. We were all like, WHAT?!?! Then he proceeded to tell us why. First of all, there's nothing wrong with any bike out there, it's going to do what it's rider tells it to do. If you're going to get on a bike and be an idiot, ride above your skill level then you're going to get hurt or worse. But if you ride to your skill level and apply what we teach you in this course to the road then you're going to be fine. So I chose the Ducati. The emergency braking saved my ass a couple of times now. Just assume no one else sees you on the road and everyone's an idiot.
I was the fearless 7 year old hooligan on a pull start minibike terrorizing the gravel alleys throughout the neighborhood.
Skill, experience, road strategy, awareness, evasive maneuvers and a bit of cager fear have kept me alive so far on the street.
Great note on patience. Leave early and take your time! One thing that helped me was wearing gear, and knowing I was protected. ATGATT!
I didn’t start riding till I was 42 (2022). Practice practice practice until you are comfortable shifting gears, utilizing the clutch, braking, etc. it’s really not as bad as some think but you have to practice sufficiently to build up the muscle memory and learn your bike. once you are comfortable doing those things you can focus on the other factors worthy of attention. Take your time get comfortable. Getting out into traffic at first is a bit nerve racking but start riding at times with less traffic and gradually start riding in more traffic. Interstate riding is not bad just be careful exiting on the cloverleaf ramps and make sure you slow down enough before hand. It’s easy to get complacent riding at high speeds and overrun a circular ramp and wipe out so just be careful the first couple of times you do it. The other thing that threw me for a loop is the mirrors. Unlike a car the difference in positioning I found quite disorienting and I found myself looking over my shoulder far too much. Practice that skill as well.
I started riding many, many years ago off road on a Honda 50. It was a great way to get familiar with a motorcycle in a low pressure way. I wish everyone interested in riding could start this way.
I think anything with fear and risk is what makes an activity exciting and to an extend worth doing. Anxiety leading up to an activity I don’t enjoy so much, but generally when I shut out the anxiety and only allow myself to fear the moment I generally find there’s nothing to worry about. It’s obvious, but worth keep reminding yourself.
After the equivalent MSF course here in Canada, I had a boost of confidence, than I dropped my own bike a week later, today was the first day on the road after the repairs, I can't see the bike the same way. I'll be practicing around the neighborhood for another week, really hope I am more comfortable with the bike and clutch by end of next week
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A little update, dropped my bike 2 more times after that, got a smaller bike and it the best decision ever, fit me well, and they are extremely forgiving to learn on. Best decision ever.
Did you get something grom sized? That’s the one I’m looking at.
@@snapchord By smaller I meant power wise, since then I went up a bike again and the more time I spend riding the better I am getting
Knowing and understanding emergency maneuvers....as well continue to improve the manuvers!
Education, practice in a safe environment, and then accept the risk...."Fear is the Mind-Killer"....Acknowledge your fear, and then, with intent, decide to carry on, or better prepare...Excellent vid!!...thanks for the content...👍
I’m afraid of sneezing inside y helmet. Good video def the msf course will help and patience is a virtue, that will keep you alive
Turned 18 this year, my dad and uncle are both avid motorcyclists so even I relate to the "Having no two ways about it" mentality of riding a motorcycle. I really wanted this to be part of my life moving on. Unfortunately there is no MSF course in my country and I didn't have a beginner bike. Ive been learning on an Interceptor 650 since 4 months and Ive been doing okay so far. Still have some anxiety every now and then but vids like this make me feel less bad about myself for the occasional screw up or mistake I make on the road 😃
Didn't really have a fear to ride, my first general fear was riding in the city, lane splitting during rush hours. But I did feel the fear after my accident when I broke my knee(riding a 100cc moped). So after 6-7 months of healing. Got myself a 250 ninja and did a 300km ride. Scared but needed.
For me it’s the struggle of balancing and being really short, like 4’8. It got lowered 8cm in total and 6cm boots. It’s still not enough to reach the ground on both feet. So I get really shaky and scared because I’m scared of dropping it bc I had to get a new bike for the driving school. I live in Germany where traffic and vehicle laws are really really really strict
Great video. I think another way to learn to ride and take away some of the anxiety is to look for motorcycles with clutchless shifters or electric motorcycles (or even twist and go scooters). Especially for beginners they reduce the multi-tasking challenges and allow focus on traffic and surroundings and make it a lot easier to stop and go (without stalling), similar to what most people probably remember from when they first started driving.
Great advice Meghan! My story is similar. I also started out off road when I was 9 years old. Growing up had various dirt bikes and quads and was lucky enough to live where there were miles and miles of trails, pits with rediculous hill climbs and jumps etc. And a group of friends who had dirt bikes/quads as well. I definitely had a few wrecks and near misses where you pat your body down and go holy shit how am I alive....lol. Bumps, cuts, bruises, sprains but nothing serious thankfully. I agree taking a class is one of the best things you can do especially if you are new to motorcycles in general. My girlfriend had never ridden before when she got her bike and I would ride it to a big empty parking lot and she would follow in the car. At first she would just put around in first gear to get the feel of the bike. Then she started shifting once she felt comfortable which came easy because she only drives manual transmission cars. After a few times she was ready to take short trips around town with me and turned out to be a natural. We also took a safety class together and believe me I learned alot more than I thought I would especially when it comes to making yourself visible to other drivers and the class gave us both more confidence. As far as fear goes I think that with any skilled activity that involves risk, you have to have a healthy respect for it. My motto is always account for stupid. Instead of being nervous about someone pulling out in front of you etc. Expect it, make a just in case plan, and adjust yourself accordingly. Basically always be alert, scan ahead and expect that everyone is trying to kill you...lol. Seriously though if it's something you really want to do, the fun factor definitely outweighs the fear. You just always have to have that healthy respect for it IMHO. BTW some states offer a free safety class where you test for your endorsement at the end like Pennsylvania. I'm in NJ and had to pay for the class but they have the bikes there so you don't even have to own a bike to take the class. Check in your state and you may be able to try your hand at it without spending a dime. Good luck to you!
I've been riding ever since the first day I could get a license in my hands but seeing people die every few days to a motorcycle accident kind of makes me a bit.... worried if I'm next anytime soon..
5 months ago I saw a 19 year old kid on the highway, being put in a bag by the medics, he was riding an electric bicycle but it had the same effect on me, that same highway I ride through every single day for the last 712 days and here's a kid who's never going to be able to wake up in his bed again and go do whatever the hell he wants to do, that feeling terrified me and it's still a feeling I have when I'm home laying in bed, the feeling naturally disappears when I'm riding but these thoughts during sleep make the thought of riding again a bit terrifying.
About to get my first bike and am very nervous. Thank you for this video, it really helps!
I have been riding for about 6 or 7 years altogether and I just hopped on my first bike and just started riding. A couple years ago I did take a course from Harper college where I live. Its a class for people to learn the basic skills on how to ride on smaller bikes and at the end of the class they will test your skills. If you don't have your M sponsor on your license yet and you pass the class they give you a certificate to go get it without having to ride at the DMV course. I highly recommend this class or anything like it to new riders to get the hang of controls and balance.
i started on a small dirt bike helped lots getting to no how it all works .... ❤ it Meghan
Great video and great tips. :). For people trying to get past fear, I recommend taking a training/intro course to get the necessary knowledge, technique and initial practice in controlled situations. I also recommend starting on a small low CC bike and start very slow to gain confidence and skill. As confidence and skill increases, upgrade to a bigger motorcycle and repeat.
Just take your time and set goals. When I first got my motorbike, I literally had to psych myself up every time I was going to go out. At first I was afraid to go above 30, so I tackled that. Then I realised I was afraid to ride in the wet, so I chose an ideal time for that when it was less busy, you get the idea
I’m a returning rider after 25 years. My biggest fear factor is freeway riding. I’ve stuck my foot in the water a couple of times during low traffic periods and everything was fine. Then a couple of weeks ago I went on a 25 mile ride with a group that was mostly very busy urban freeways. I felt better riding in a group, but I didn’t enjoy it. I live in an area that has a lot of aggressive drivers and excessive speeding on the freeways, and I have a big problem with that.
Thanks for this video. I’m new new to riding. As in 3 hours on a bike at best. I bought a Yamaha Bolt, was supposed to do the MSF course but they kept cancelling. As of now, I’m going the end of Sept. So a buddy is showing me a few things in a parking lot until then. Anyway, I’m scared. Lots of power, out of my comfort zone, zero experience.
I keep thinking that maybe the Bolt is just too much power, but having zero experience riding and zero experience feeling the power of ANY bike... I should prob just cut myself a little break. Sorry for the novel. Thanks for the video.
Update? How are you fairing?
I hear you on this one. I did the MSF course on a 500cc Harley but I was fortunate enough to purchase a 1200cc Harley really cheap prior to riding for the first time. A friend of mine who grew up riding bikes said that I will grow into it. I’m scared to even roll it down my driveway because of the power difference. I feel like I just need to get over it but to even practice I have to leave my street and go two blocks before even getting to a big parking lot! It’s a bit nerve racking. Trying to work up the courage.
@@allisonkkreiss9658 you WILL get used to it! I did a lot of practice just with clutch and first gear for a while. Get used to the power and then just go from there. I did that up/down the alley and then just did around the block for a weeks until I went out on the street. You’ll be ok! Small steps first
Being introduced to driving and riding as a kid on a farm was paramount in learning skills before drivers ed courses were taken. I learned on riding mowers, go-carts, mini bikes, mopeds, and my father let me drive the car and truck on the farm roads. Boy i miss those day's. Love your channel. ❤
Good advice. Practice practice practice.
For years I am afraid any time when I get on my 1000 cc and I always tell her not to cripple me or kill me. But after a couple of minutes I am confident and happy.
Meghan! I’m so glad you made this video, I posted on one of your vids a few months ago when I found your channel that I just got a Honda rebel 450, I’ve thought about messaging you some of my beginner questions! Love your content ❤️
Only watched it halfway yet but great video! And it's crazy how photogenic you are haha
I had 50cc mini bikes & 175cc off road bikes which I practiced on before hitting the street. I also did all the road basic and advanced courses to get really confident which helped me later with heavy cruisers when doing u-turns in tight streets and reefing the crusing around sharp bends at high speed etc. You definitely need guts to ride motorcycles on the road and I have had my fair share of serious crashes from people in cars who ran into me. But you just get back on again 👍
Im 34, and got my first street and trail last year, and I have yet to ride it on the road. My husband has rode it more than i have , but this is the year i take a class, get licensed, and learn
Thank you for sharing, I just got a bike after 24 years (hard fall) and I’m having a hard time getting on it and it’s only a little HondaTr 125! Lack of clutch is throwing me off too, but all the sudden I feel unstable. So thanks I’m gonna take my time and get back on it!
Thank you. I am just starting with basically no real on street experience but the desire to ride. Hearing you speak helped.
I'm so glad I could help! I highly recommend taking a course, you get the feel for a bike before buying and they even have frame sliders/protection in case the bike gets tipped over.
@@MeghanStark as soon as the restrictions are lifted, I will be in class. I am already on the waitlist.
I learn how to ride just like you on a small bike off road. When I decided I would like a street bike I bought my first bike 1200 sportster the day I got it I went to the motor vehicle department did the written exam got my Temporary license in Wisconsin means you can only ride during the day with a helmet and no passengers I practice for a month or two signed up for the drivers test and passed. I have wondered if I would have learned anything by taking a course . I have thought about taking one of those advanced courses but never seem to get around to it. My biggest fear when riding is that the cars don’t see me so when I approach an intersection I’m always prepared for a quick stop or take some action. I have to admit I am extra careful when I ride in Milwaukee people do not seem to stop at intersections as you well know they’re been a bunch of hit-and-run accidents lately. They said on the news they have some ideas on how to improve this I hope they do as it seems like we have a lot of careless people out there with no regard for other peoples . And it seems like there’s a lot of people with no insurance. I am a believer and loud pipes save lives. Knock on wood I’ve been riding 20Years on the street and I have never gone down.
i took a class and the hardest thing for me was braking lol the front brake was okay but applying both front, rear as well as holding a clutch and shifting down gears REALLY stressed me out and I couldn’t get it so I gave up lol i was having a hard time understanding when to use which brake and how lol
but i wanna try again, i think id feel more comfortable practicing by myself in a parking lot than a fast pace class environment
however, the class was SUPER helpful. my grandpa got his little ‘89 50cc yamaha running last week and wanted me to ride it. I was able to get on it and ride around fine, I applied all the things I had learned in the class and couldn’t imagine hopping on a bike with ZERO experience or knowledge lol
Most important thing is Knowing your limit , how much you can and can not do.
Adding on other things that has already been said, wearing good quality riding gear gives a bit more of confidence
I wasn’t fearful until I took the MSF course. They drive home the fear of traffic a bit too well.
Traffic is definitely the riskiest part! Some people drive like lunatics
I was riding when I was 11 year's old. 100cc moped bike yamaha. 2stroke. Good old days back then👍👍👍
When I was a newbie I was one of those that waited for freeway & busy streets but I realized sooner or later I gotta I do it. So I did & realized it wasn’t that bad lol 😂
Great subject matter that is never addressed. One thing that riders need to be aware of is that it's NOT about how good a rider you are, because we are dealing with people behind the wheel of automobiles that are driving distracted 75% of the time. I own two very different motorcycles; a Ducati Pannigale and a BMW R1200GS Adventure bike. I have been riding for over 30 years. I am a conscious rider, always mapping out an escape route for whatever danger that may cross my path, but sometimes even the safest rider finds themselves laying flat on the pavement due to the sheer stupidity of people they share the road with. Case in point: a few years back I was hit by a driver that decided to change lanes without noticing that I was riding right along side of his driver's side door. He jerked his car into me without even looking, leaving me no time to react or to find that escape route I mentioned earlier. There was no way possible this idiot couldn't hear my bike riding along side of his car UNLESS his music was playing too loud, which is exactly what he told the police. A shattered collar bone, 12 broken ribs, 3 fractures to my neck later and I still battle memories of that moment every time I mount my bike. When the police visited me in my hospital bed to take my statement they gave me some sobering statistics about life here in Los Angeles... 1 - they guesstimated that at least 35% of the drivers on my city's streets are without drivers licenses and/or insurance. 2. Cell phone usage is the cause of over 70% of the traffic accidents they investigate. And 3 (the most obvious to note) "it's not IF you're going to get hit but WHEN". I encourage anyone who gets the riding bug to take a riding course BEFORE buying a bike. Learn how to handle a bike in a variety of conditions, and to purchase a bike that is suited to their riding experience. A Pannigale 1299 is NOT a very good beginner bike, no matter how cool you look on it. Also protect your body with the best riding gear you can afford, and also purchase a very good insurance policy. Remember most of the time it's not YOU that is at fault, and that having a little bit of fear while riding will keep your senses more aware of your surroundings and dangers that you face.
Safe riding my friends.
Very nice video specially for beginners 😊
starting on a dirt bike is an excellent way to begin riding. You get a good introduction to coordinating both hands and feet without worrying about other cars etc...the occasional tree may jump out in front of you, but....anyway, you get used to sliding a motorcycle too, which could come in handy later on the road. The motorcycle safety courses are a really good introduction to riding too, but then riders need to continue to work on those skills. It's all worth it though
you've got to be really careful though, this motorcycle stuff can be really addicting! Got to get the latest helmet, or just one more jacket, maybe another bike....or 5 more. It can get expensive :-) And then the urge to ride all over the country can get to be pretty strong too...:-)
Curious. Do you not need to take a class to get your motorcycle endorsement in Wisconsin?
@@michaelcase8574 I'm in Tennessee, and you don't have to here. To my knowledge you don't have to take a class anywhere in the U.S.A. just be able to pass the written and riding parts of the test
I’m always scared of being in an accident.Its really scary riding a bike in London.
Gear Gear Gear it will give you peace of mind and confidence to ride on these streets I didn’t start riding highway until after 1 yr of riding in the streets not saying to do the same but u get my point don’t ride past your limits
I took an MSF course in April this year, got my license in June and hoping to purchase my bike this month! I’ve been researching and saving.
It was so nerve wracking during the course. As soon as I felt comfortable it was on to the next step and putting me outside of my comfort zone again. The best part though was the following day: we just hoped on and started without a second thought. The test ended up being a fun challenging, not scary. I’m not saying I’m a great rider and will have to practice in a parking lot after I buy my bike to refresh... but what I will say is that the MSF course set me up with the fundamentals I need to feel safe. I’d recommend it to anyone worried. Also... I think some amount of fear in traffic is essential to understanding the risk. I also am a cosmetic tattooer for example. I’m confident in my craft, but there’s always a moment I take a deep breath. It’s kinda how you know you take what you’re doing seriously and want to execute it with the most professionalism and skill. 💪🏼
I’m a little nervous about getting my bike but more than nervous... excited!! 🤩
Wow super Inspiring! Can we get an update? 1 year later, how’s the bike! Are you more confident? 😁
I wanted to get a bike for years but it never seemed within reach until a coworker who had one encouraged me. I bought a bike before I had a licence and failed the licensing course the first time but went back and did it again and passed. That was nine years ago and I love riding tho where I live (Toronto area) isn't great for motorcycling (traffic, constant construction, lack of interesting roads close by).
You must trust the bike. I don't trust roads nor other drivers. Going very fast doesn't feel natural on most bikes. Some you really feel speed even 40 mph. Others going 80 doesn't seem fast.
I am MAK. I am from Malaysia. I had a motorcycle accident last December and it tore my right knee ACL. This video is of much helpful to me. Thank you. Greetings from the tropical.
Since most people that pick up bikes do it to be cool, or at least "look" cool, most will never get into dirt riding - the fastest way to learn basics of traction, turning, braking and the dynamics of motorcycles. Training & practice are not seen as cool either, so there are LOTS of bikes with 2k miles on them out there. So sad.
I wrecked on a Suzuki RM80 at age 11 on a dirt road all out. It was a fast little bike and my whole body was a rash. it has never stopped me. I love to ride....but my days of wheelies at 100mph are over (kinda) but always recommend track days. If you can afford it.
Ps...I watch your channel because you seem super chill and your voice is relaxing and have good energy.
Must take the riding class to get your endorsement here in oregon
I used to ride dirt bikes, and was never scared. I bought a heavy cruiser (harley sportster), I dropped it and haven't been back on it due to fear. 😔
This is such a great question!! I hadn’t ridden for 16 years so getting back on a bike and riding on the street both made me quite anxious and yeah, it’s scared the crap out of me!
Literally I just grabbed a bike and went for a ride! I selected an area that was still busy but it wasn’t “city like busy”.
Meghan’s right with training though, just get out there and practice! Get some professional training and just take your time!!
Get out there and go riding!
Walk, run, ride a bicycle.. then after you've mastered that, trial by fire, climb aboard a ducati monster. 😲
Depends on your exposure to risk growing up.. younger, no experience, no fear.. older, no experience.. fear! With life experience comes commonsense, to alleviate/rationalize the fear.
Hi ms. Meghan' greetings from Philippines' 👋, always watch your videos.
I'm so affraid when riding a bike
Thank the universe for this video! Ugh i needed to see this!
I'm 53. Learning to ride my first gas motorbike a 150cc scooter with 10 inch wheels. I previously had ridden a 38 mph 1000watt hub motor ebike on a 26 inch mountain bike frame for 11 years. Comfortable on the ebike but the scooter scares the willies out of me. I seem scared to U turn the bike.
i started with a bicycle when i was a little then suddenly my friends broke it so my father spunk me with his belt then i stop biking hahaha then years past i actually first learn how to drive a jeep because we own one with the help of my father. But when i bought my 1st scooter during my 3rd job i fall in love with it now its been 10 years for me and still in a nice condition.. I LOVE YOU MEGHAN STARK.. RIDE SAFE AND STAY FOCUS
Great comment!
Kind of how I learned at 10 years old. Start small.
"Doll's Eyes"... thanks for the tips!
My Add-on here to all readers, Meg.....I want to say that "not enough cold weather riding classes " are set up in the MSF courses in the US or Canada.You may have had "Dirt bike experience and are used to the bike fish-tailing on you and you auto-compensate", but on a big bike you don't expect it. My advice is, in weather that is around 35 F, (2 C), and the bike is still insured :).... go find a parking lot and practice. What's the bike going to do on a straight course if I; give it too much rear, too much front , or too much of both... for a panic stop. And the same for cornering.... Try it at varying speeds, eh. Keep in mind here that the asphalt is cold and sooooo is the rubber on your wheels.It will be a completely different riding dynamic so be aware of that.
Stay Safe, Ciao.
Self conscious as fuck I love riding I hate when people be looking at me
I never had the fear of riding in my 20's however now at 60 I always get anxious before I ride. I think it's because it is the first bike I can't flat foot.
It's a different ball game on a tall bike! I was pretty anxious when I rented a Multistrada for two days, I was on my tip toes 😬
I was fearless in my 20s, but hadn't ridden in 15yrs and now I'm trying to get over my anxiety esp with a brand new triumph, and traffic being way worse nowadays and having just been in a hit n run that totalled my car...did fine my first time out but still freaked to get on the bike even just to drive to a parking lot if I can even find an empty one.
@@raynabrand8492 Thanks for your reply, unfortunately some one turned in front of me without warning and short story is, wrote my bike off after only two months of having it which took me months to find what I wanted. She just apologised and walked away. I was lucky to walk away but not without some problems. I'll never ride again. Yes traffic is far worse and so many inexperienced people driving dangerous machines. I wish you all the best and try to enjoy it because there is no better feeling than riding. To be honest if I wasn't married I'd ride again.
When my dad saw that my bff has a motorbike then looks at me like, you're gonna regret it one day.
I had my bike slip out from underneath me (and down she went) going about 5mph while on wet leaves. Now I'm afraid the bike is going to slip out from underneath me all too often.
I've done a basic cbt course in England and bought a small engine bike, I've been riding out small journeys and gaining confidence BUT! after my night shift I lost control and freaked out on the way home a 20 minute journey turned into 40 minutes because I had to keep stopping and getting myself together. Going to work was fine? Maybe I was tired or something but I was never this freaked out before
I need 2 more years to apply for license I've been drooling over motorcycles for years now but i would be really anxious to hop on one
Riding isn't a fear, it's the people in cars that get me. I'm fine until then.
I Went Thru The Harley Rider Academy Here in Southern California(3 Day Course)Was a Great Course and A Lot of Hands On Practice Out on Range....After That Find Quiet Parking Lot Etc For More Practice Because it Gets Crazy Here in L.A. Area LOL.
I don't have a fear of riding , but I do have a fear of dropping my new bike 😂😂
I think you could be answering a different question. Some people are simply just afraid of falling off, getting hit by a car, dying even. You obviously didn't feel like that so maybe just say "I don't know the answer to this as I never felt it." Practice to have more confidence is a good solution but until then some people are just to scared to cross that line and practice. Another answer is simply don't ride if you don't enjoy it. Not everyone finds they enjoy the experience. I know of some people that just felt scared the whole time while on the bike while learning to ride in a class. While others just feel pure enjoyment while doing it. Simply just take your time and pace yourself to get your confidence to be able to move on to the next level and do harder skills.
I have a huge problem I did my license 3 years ago never had a bike and a few days ago I bought dyna street bob because it was an amazing deal and now it siting in the garage waiting for registration and I wonder If I'm going to be able to get out of the driveway and ride on the street he is so heavy and I'm scared, sometimes I think maybe I should sell him and get something tiny like rebel 500. How I'm going to turn on stop signs without dropping him ...I don't have any big empty parking lot nearby where I could go and practice. I live in the city and traffic is everywhere.
That's me, already got license and bike sitting in garage waiting to fix up some stuff then get it registered. If you feel the bike is too heavy, then it is, go with your gut feeling. Hope it all works out.
@@jahzinho5784 bike is 650lbs so it's heavy for me but now I feel better I got my registration I was riding 2 days ago around the house I did around 3 miles going left and right scouting my neighborhood and it doesn't feel that heavy as it was at the begginig I'm 220lbs guy so I'm not tiny and I think I'm all right just need to practice here close to the house where the traffic is minimal before I go further.
@@Voltomess 650lbs is quite heavy, but im sure with enough practice, you will be able to handle it. At least you finally got it out into the streets...all the best...enjoy!
Is having my mom hold the bike upright from the back like I'm a little kid again a feasible option?
First have no fear just ride
I got hit of anxiety when I saw car's light in my mirrors... also stalling is fucking awful
I never rode before and bought a bike not sure if it's gonna be a waist of time because I'm just a tad too short
Very nice video 👍👌😊
How do u have balance while riding a motorcycle? Cause i was never taught to balance/ride a regular bike… how do u do it?
Is there motorcycles that is for short people?
I’ll never overcome the fear of riding it’s just too much risk. My cousin almost got paralyzed for riding one she end it up under a truck on the road just so you’ll have an idea she never rode again after that experience that I know of
Any tips or advice on how to get over the fear of raising your feet off the ground onto the pegs for a beginner driver? My wife is struggling with that, I got her a little rebel 300 and she is too fearful to get her feet up, until she conquers that she won't be able to ride it or do anything with it, any advice or tips are really appreciated, thanks!
I got a Rebel 300 too and Im having the same fear of pulling my feet up. How did your wife overcome this?
@@garlandhyett1902 unfortunately she never did. We ended up trading it for a bigger bike so she could ride with me as a passenger. Get some beginner classes, bikes are usually 300cc and have protective bars in case you fall they would not fall on you fully. I hope you can overcome this obstacle so you can enjoy your bike, they are good running bikes. Unfortunately not big enough for two people.... best of luck!!
@@efrain9237 thank you so much for your great advice. I’m glad that you and your wife can ride together now. I did not know that about the Rebel’s handle bars. That is good to know. I tried to complete the beginner course but it stormed that weekend bad and along with that and me not having the stamina I unfortunately was unable to complete it. I will not give up until I conquer it and are able to enjoy riding.
Is there a situation that raises you blood pressure the most?
I'm, hopefully, getting my bike next week. I've moving beach to Dallas on the summer, but I felt that Lubbock is a good place to learn. I guess traffic is my biggest fear. Maybe I shouldn't watch Dan Dan the Fireman crash videos.
How often do you have close calls?
My only fear is other drivers that don’t pay attention to the road & people on cell phones!
That's certainly a valid concern. Distracted drivers are a huge problem. And in Wisconsin, drunk driving is a big issue too
@@MeghanStark I'm 46 now and still remember a point my driver's ed. teacher said: "People don't see motorcycle riders because they don't LOOK for motorcycle riders." I don't ride, don't feel comfortable about it on the street even though I had a dirt bike in my teens. And once I moved to TX, and saw how horribly people drive here, I developed even more fear of riding on the street. The fact that I know people who've been hurt, maimed, and killed on bikes wouldn't itself stop me though. I love Harley's and would love to ride one, and I've considered taking a class. Maybe I'll do that and see how it goes. You made some good points in this video!
What do you do when you hit 50 mph and get terrified. I hit 50 and all of a sudden a level of fear hit me that has never hit me before. How do o get over that?
Anxiety of initial acceleration. How can I get that block out of my head. I'm very frustrated because I can handle holding bike up. I don't want to give up, this is to important to me. I bought my bike harley davidson fatboy. Do you have any ideas on how to break this feeling.
I am terrorified of riging my 125cc scooter i recently bought .AS soon as i get onit ok as soon as i start up the engine ok but with both of my feet stil on the ground as soon as i start to pull away I panic and pull back on the throttle and apply the back brake. i have been doing this for the last month and i still cannot overcome this fear of losing control of my scooter and crashing and in hurting myself badley can you advise me here
What kind of fear TF i dont get it
I ride four wheelers and I ran over my neighbors mailbox and I have really bad anxiety trying to drive pls help!!
grrreat vid!!
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Very Comprehensive.! (considering you had no notes)
Miss Meghan, did you change your hair... you look different then your videos from a year ago. :-)
Are you pranking us viewers... maybe your Twin Beauty & you're taking turns at the camera. hee heee
guys.. my fear is because my cousin and a friend died from motorcycling accidents.. i havent ridden since but appart of me still watn to get back to ridding..
That's really tough, I'm sorry to hear that.
I never road a dirt bike. Does that mean I can’t be a good motorcycle driver? I really want to learn and to be a safe/skilled driver
You can absolutely still learn all the skills without having ridden a dirt bike. Taking a class is an excellent first step, and otherwise learning good habits and learning from channels like DanDantheFireman for safety and additional skills. At the end of the day, putting down miles is the best way to gain experience and intuition!
@@MeghanStark thanks :D!!!
Your beauty is hypnotic 😍😍
Aren’t all moments spontaneous by definition
Some moments are very planned out!