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  • @alfredthevarajah1344
    @alfredthevarajah1344 5 місяців тому +50

    A man who remains calm when he is provoked, is a dangerous man.

  • @Chou005
    @Chou005 11 місяців тому +224

    Being calm in every situation was a dangerous weapon

    • @louiscolborn6715
      @louiscolborn6715 7 місяців тому +2

      Fruitbeast? Is that a gay pun? Sounds kinda gay.

  • @mightyobserver12
    @mightyobserver12 Рік тому +107

    1. Stay Calm.
    2. Look them in the Eye.
    3. Team up with Allies
    4. Build yourself up. Living best life. Self care.
    5.

    • @rajarsi6438
      @rajarsi6438 6 місяців тому +4

      The actual enemy in the material world is your own mind ...

    • @SadafShafiq11
      @SadafShafiq11 6 місяців тому +8

      ​@@karlriegler1704animals aren't our enemy

    • @lonerhappy
      @lonerhappy 5 місяців тому +5

      @@karlriegler1704-people who are jealous.

  • @pandaman1677
    @pandaman1677 Рік тому +23

    Karma wins last and Karma is on my side

    • @justme-cj7rs
      @justme-cj7rs 11 місяців тому +5

      God wins. Get God on your side, as it is written, if God is for us, who could be against us. God bless!

  • @barbiebrowny7003
    @barbiebrowny7003 Рік тому +268

    When facing an enemy show them that you are confident about the situation Silence is the best remedy 👍just ignore and continue your Life ❣️

    • @LuckiestStarByFar
      @LuckiestStarByFar 9 місяців тому +7

      Good advice. 👍

    • @quilldev6280
      @quilldev6280 7 місяців тому

      ​@@ravenone6255lol

    • @SadafShafiq11
      @SadafShafiq11 6 місяців тому +5

      But internally we are triggered

    • @barbiebrowny7003
      @barbiebrowny7003 6 місяців тому +5

      @@SadafShafiq11 Your enemy wants you to get triggered that's their plans RESILIENCE COURAGE is the REMEDY Let them see their own IGNORANCE 👍

    • @tonyphills6075
      @tonyphills6075 5 місяців тому +2

      Evidently you've never been in a situation because ignoring is the last thing that you could possibly do. I was just in a situation And honestly I don't know how I end up getting out of it because this guy had put on gloves and everything. But I already know if something like this happens again i'm going to start carrying for sure

  • @lornahaynes7886
    @lornahaynes7886 Рік тому +272

    I surround myself with lots of prayers and calmness and they disappear from my life eventually the enemy can be the person closest to you the one that you love and care for ❤

    • @Louis13-eb4rt
      @Louis13-eb4rt Рік тому +8

      I dun have enemies it's their own thinking which I can't change

    • @abedmugabe4794
      @abedmugabe4794 Рік тому +1

      Actually that's the only way tho he didn't mention it

    • @rosewint7203
      @rosewint7203 11 місяців тому +4

      This message is very true

    • @sonalikalita8797
      @sonalikalita8797 11 місяців тому +2

      Fully correct

    • @sean-ivan-wells.El33
      @sean-ivan-wells.El33 11 місяців тому +2

      Prayers come from the root word to prey, ask yourself what preys? Hunters prey on the weak.

  • @User_idk_uhmm
    @User_idk_uhmm 4 місяці тому +18

    This helped me alot my enemy is crying right now

  • @charmainemiles4089
    @charmainemiles4089 6 місяців тому +8

    I'm am fearce I am unstoppable, with the truth and facts, nothing else compares

  • @neliaquail693
    @neliaquail693 Рік тому +83

    Enemies around me are those jealous people. I passed them though I am their junior. They tried to bully me but I am very thankful of my seniors who supported me in any way and in anytime. ❤❤❤

  • @quartytypo
    @quartytypo 9 місяців тому +10

    Don't waste time and effort making enemies. Make money, instead.

  • @Freedom-dx7kq
    @Freedom-dx7kq 9 місяців тому +14

    You let God take care of them. Vengeance. Is mine saith the Lord.

  • @heartstrings7814
    @heartstrings7814 Рік тому +120

    This can especially apply with a hater at work who is threatened by you.
    If there is someone at work who treats you unkind and with hate for no purpose of your own, doing these things and more can shift things in your favor. I am personally applying these tactics now and they work.
    Here's more of what I do and have learned that works:
    Always smile. No matter the circumstances, the hater need to see that you are unbothered even if inside you are.
    The hater need to get out of your way. You do not get out of their way. In other words, don't shrink down to a mere version of yourself in their presence. They need to see your head held high and you functioning as your usual high level engaging self
    Speak to them say hello. Then ignore them for the rest of the day. They do not exist outside of a formal greeting--- and you don't ever greet them by name. Not ever. They mean nothing to you and nor does their name.
    These tactics beat them at their hate of you for no reason.
    This happens alot at work, especially among women, regardless of age or education.

    • @hivicar
      @hivicar Рік тому +8

      Smile mostly when your heart is actually open.

    • @akanisilikucali1718
      @akanisilikucali1718 Рік тому +11

      Very true indeed, have been experiencing these kind of problems at work

    • @misterjahbless
      @misterjahbless 11 місяців тому +9

      Man you are on point! Face this every day!

    • @heartstrings7814
      @heartstrings7814 11 місяців тому +10

      @@misterjahbless Apply them to your situation and see it it helps. Many times when these haters are defeated by your strength and strong work ethic they usually resort in slandering you throughout the workplace and even going to other staff speaking negatively about you to isolate you. These are clear signs of jealousy if this occur. There are a whole set of circumstances and tactics if it has reached this far.

    • @heartstrings7814
      @heartstrings7814 11 місяців тому +8

      @@akanisilikucali1718 So many of us do. Its a shame people do this to one another, especially at work. Hopefully, these tips can help you? 🙏

  • @cathywood6837
    @cathywood6837 8 місяців тому +14

    God is the weapon against an enemy and silence which is Gold.

  • @tracyarnett1279
    @tracyarnett1279 Рік тому +18

    No time for bullies keep walking let them move along elsewhere

  • @LesegoMakwela-sd4hq
    @LesegoMakwela-sd4hq Рік тому +22

    Lot of them their jealous of me because God bless me every day ❤

  • @jaimapulmano9505
    @jaimapulmano9505 8 місяців тому +5

    Silent people you can teach them BUT YOU CANNOT MANIPULATE THEM NOR DECEIVING 😢

  • @brettriverboat9920
    @brettriverboat9920 6 місяців тому +4

    Looking people in the eye is the main one

  • @libertadbansag9229
    @libertadbansag9229 Рік тому +66

    "PRAYER ... IS THE BEST ABOVE ALL!"♡

    • @paulleckner8235
      @paulleckner8235 11 місяців тому +6

      I pray and God leads me into the successful happy life that He wants for me. A life without those jealous angry family members who want me to fail.

    • @leonardcann6645
      @leonardcann6645 10 місяців тому

      Prayer is a waste of fkn time.

    • @welovephilippineswithmylov5419
      @welovephilippineswithmylov5419 10 місяців тому +1

      ​@@paulleckner8235Tskkk Tskkk Sad Reality 😢. Sometimes friend or other is more better than hmmm tskkk tskkk..

    • @welovephilippineswithmylov5419
      @welovephilippineswithmylov5419 10 місяців тому

      Anyway Good luck to you. Godspeed.

    • @louiscolborn6715
      @louiscolborn6715 7 місяців тому +2

      Prayer and action prayer alone is only talking to yourself.

  • @Erik-Vadee-Veechee
    @Erik-Vadee-Veechee 9 місяців тому +24

    Don't thrive off of the acceptance of others. Be strong and find that inner strength. When you rely on others to lift you up you'll be disappointed every time. That's why step 2 or whatever one that this video said to do is a BUST! Don't ever rely on others in any situation. Being silent is important but for the best results be content with yourself and give it to God. You got this. YOU alone got this!

  • @buffybot635
    @buffybot635 Рік тому +35

    stay calm is the most importend. Dont just react, think instead.

    • @Bana2bm
      @Bana2bm 7 місяців тому +4

      overthinking is bad for health tho all the time. So react .Sometimes best to react n sometimes best is to say nothing

  • @shajithomasthomas4661
    @shajithomasthomas4661 Рік тому +47

    I don't have enemy's i am loving every one that y i got stuck in my life all ways people are making trouble for me but not going to fight with them always God punish them I saw so many things in my life I have good experience kindness people all ways alone thanks sir 🙏

    • @quettaaseelshaook5839
      @quettaaseelshaook5839 Рік тому

      Then you are hypocrate nodoubt

    • @harshahr2139
      @harshahr2139 Рік тому +6

      If they are doing wrong defeat them or else they will trouble other innocents

    • @dr.pratham4014
      @dr.pratham4014 Рік тому +2

      Its not possible

    • @motetgolamco4036
      @motetgolamco4036 Рік тому +2

      More Blessings for your kindness 😊🙏

    • @MCCNivethaaE
      @MCCNivethaaE Рік тому +2

      Very good ....god will take care of u ur life will good always.

  • @tad1111
    @tad1111 Рік тому +50

    I forgive them and don't hold a grudge against them. However, I learn from what they did or said to me and I don't forget it.

    • @paulleckner8235
      @paulleckner8235 11 місяців тому +6

      You are singing my song! My continued successes while living apart on my own and independently from those who hurt me only proves that I don't need them.

    • @tad1111
      @tad1111 9 місяців тому

      @@paulleckner8235 Good for you. Good luck to you.

    • @m998hmmwv7
      @m998hmmwv7 7 місяців тому +1

      Bingo

  • @Nick_Taylor.
    @Nick_Taylor. 7 місяців тому +19

    0:06 1. Stay calm. Don't let your enemies see you upset.
    0:30 2. Look them in the eye. Do your best to make and hold eye contact.
    1:15 3. Team up with trusted allies. You're more likely to defeat an opponent if you outnumber them.
    1:55 4. Build yourself up instead of bringing them down. Disappoint them by being the bigger person. When you lash out at your enemies, it shows that they've gotten to you--which means they've won.

  • @tanvih41
    @tanvih41 11 місяців тому +12

    No one is my enemy in my life...i forgive everybody in my life.....I'm got no more grudges against anybody in my life....if people think I'm bad they will leave....if they think I'm still lovable they will stay....i cannot compel everyone to be like me.....I'm calm and happy....I'm at peace...god is with me....i trust God 🙏

  • @stephenpadley6684
    @stephenpadley6684 6 місяців тому +2

    When I was a youth growing up, I played the Cornet, & Trumpet, gained grade 5 with distinction. My dad had a short temper, and would belt ne or hit me hard, I said if you hit me again, I will hurt you so much . I think he knocked me out. I didn't, play another Musical note Never spoke to him again. One night I heared such deep sobbing, and crying, asked mom what's going on, she said you have broken your dad's heart❤❤. And you know what. I DID THAT without laying one finger on him.

  • @jr.rasentertainment4074
    @jr.rasentertainment4074 Рік тому +16

    That's basically true. Staying calm is remaining positive. Watching all the way from Vanuatu

  • @stushShulamite
    @stushShulamite Рік тому +18

    The person is not my enemy the devil
    Is my enemy. He’s simply using them to come against me & they don’t realize it. It’s time we go after the puppeteer and not the puppet. If you simply beat up the puppet, the hand will find another puppet. Go after the puppeteer and eliminate the problem.
    This is what I’m trying to do.
    🇨🇦

  • @schoolbadgeschoolboy8745
    @schoolbadgeschoolboy8745 2 місяці тому +1

    Love resist hate. Hate resist love.
    Be friend first , not be enemy first.

  • @turnerbosse2529
    @turnerbosse2529 10 місяців тому +9

    Violence is also a very effective technique

    • @SurvivalGames1
      @SurvivalGames1 6 місяців тому +5

      but you can end up in prison...if you get caught ;-)

    • @betelhembeyene6040
      @betelhembeyene6040 Місяць тому +1

      😂😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @CECE1839
    @CECE1839 10 місяців тому +10

    Stay clam, don’t give them the satisfaction, look them in the eye, Smile..

  • @jacquelineawad2948
    @jacquelineawad2948 Рік тому +11

    All these things work very well. Some people can jate u for no reason

    • @JoDo777
      @JoDo777 Рік тому +5

      Those types of people hate themselves

    • @jacquelineawad2948
      @jacquelineawad2948 Рік тому +1

      Very true. Somehow the state of mind is not ok l giuess😁

  • @juancarrasco104
    @juancarrasco104 Рік тому +9

    Thank you for this important information.

  • @Earthismadeoflayers
    @Earthismadeoflayers 8 місяців тому +10

    It doesn't matter how well it you handle yourself against a bully, when they are a sociopath who turns all the dumb people against you there's nothing you can do.

    • @lindaesmerada
      @lindaesmerada 4 місяці тому +2

      In this case it is only God who sees all things who can rescue you.
      I understand what you said cos I have experienced it before. I suffer!! I survived by the grace of God

    • @SG-pc4sv
      @SG-pc4sv 2 місяці тому

      ​@@lindaesmeradaSame

  • @mosesmwesige-up6ko
    @mosesmwesige-up6ko Рік тому +6

    Very good advice and that's what I have done to my enemies and for if someone comes to me and start telling me about them I just keep quiet

  • @AFMMarcelD
    @AFMMarcelD 10 місяців тому +18

    I’m finally retired now, but I have vivid recollections of the people I’ve encountered through my 43 years in the medical profession, let me be completely frank here folks, medical professionals are the most cuckoo-cuckoo individuals In many ways (not everyone of course)
    Which brings me back to a very favorite quote from Mark Twain...”The better I get to know people, the more I love my dog.” And you know something? he was right there. 🎯
    PS: Tis is directed to all the bullies, the trouble makers, obnoxious Doctors that make nurses cry with their antics, the gossipers and backstabbers. (guess I covered a chunk of traits of the human race there)

  • @jimmyjimmy3425
    @jimmyjimmy3425 Рік тому +7

    Nice tips.. Enemy always negative person till die...so be cool and try the best...

    • @justme-cj7rs
      @justme-cj7rs 11 місяців тому

      It is written, we must endure to the end

  • @SwapanChakraborty
    @SwapanChakraborty Рік тому +12

    A great leader and a great speaker

  • @tarotcardsreadings8281
    @tarotcardsreadings8281 5 місяців тому

    Thanks i really needed these suggestions this moment.

  • @one-stopgodshop2171
    @one-stopgodshop2171 10 місяців тому

    EXCELLENT VIDEO. We need more videos like these. Anything to stop anger, hate, shootings, etc.

  • @Shirley-jx3yy
    @Shirley-jx3yy 14 днів тому

    Thank you so much!

  • @imeldallorera1767
    @imeldallorera1767 Рік тому +8

    Thank you sir for your beautiful advice.. I have learned a lot sir..

  • @happinessibe3318
    @happinessibe3318 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks sir I will definitely use some of this

  • @Eyecandy1
    @Eyecandy1 Рік тому +9

    Thank you! I needed this. I knew that ridiculing myself wasn't the case, and I'm glad I didn't react ❤.

  • @angeltalingting
    @angeltalingting Рік тому +6

    No need for an ally to defeat an enemy! You alone is strong enough to face one. People around you has nothing to do with your own battles. No need to find sanctuary nor find people that will empathized with you. You are not fighting like going into war you are fighting for your truth.

  • @erickriebel4366
    @erickriebel4366 Рік тому +3

    If you're really want to get them you got to stay calm you got to make a very detailed plan you got to execute your plan with precise timing and then a quick extraction. Anything else is just talk and chatter and yep yep yep yep yep that's all it is

  • @narehkumar1110
    @narehkumar1110 Рік тому +3

    It is so truth my friend you are so smart

  • @marygoodman9530
    @marygoodman9530 Рік тому +1

    Amen 🙏 Thank you 🕊️

  • @anandg5225
    @anandg5225 6 місяців тому

    Thank u so much ❤❤ I find myself following these all rules in the present 😊

  • @tonydavila6594
    @tonydavila6594 10 місяців тому

    Perfectly Said... 👍👍👍👍👍

  • @BulelaniLeleki-dd3mk
    @BulelaniLeleki-dd3mk 6 місяців тому

    This helped me a lot thanks that I am not alone.Carry on bringing more advises Thank yu

  • @sjhaji
    @sjhaji Рік тому +2

    Yes it's true sir.

  • @valbonapupa2387
    @valbonapupa2387 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for your kind words

  • @michaelmooney7341
    @michaelmooney7341 Рік тому +1

    Thank you. Very helpful.

  • @EbaisusanNformoh
    @EbaisusanNformoh 2 місяці тому

    Great, thanks for the marvelous advice or teaching.

  • @agathayou8366
    @agathayou8366 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much

  • @grandocean864
    @grandocean864 Місяць тому

    Thank you ❤

  • @CynthiasLifeinAlpsBavaria
    @CynthiasLifeinAlpsBavaria Рік тому +1

    Thanks for sharing your tips

  • @sandiswaevelyn6507
    @sandiswaevelyn6507 Рік тому +6

    Love this 🙏

  • @Godislove44678
    @Godislove44678 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for the advice

  • @louisamotsepe2828
    @louisamotsepe2828 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for yr video it is helpful.

  • @tashilhamo9807
    @tashilhamo9807 2 місяці тому

    Thank you 🌺🌺

  • @ablessinjordan5830
    @ablessinjordan5830 Рік тому +5

    Pray...And Let The Lord Of Hosts Who Dwells Between The Cherubim handle it. End of story. Period.

  • @franciscaballan1906
    @franciscaballan1906 Рік тому

    oh i love this i learn something thank yuo...

  • @user-zz8iv2qe4u
    @user-zz8iv2qe4u 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you God❤

  • @thomaspaulwurombai3199
    @thomaspaulwurombai3199 2 місяці тому

    Great advice!

  • @caryn9561
    @caryn9561 Рік тому +5

    I moved into a place the neighbors hate us and they are all against us we have no one to help.

    • @justme-cj7rs
      @justme-cj7rs 11 місяців тому +4

      No one to help? Now give God a try. It is written, if God is for us, who could be against us. God is in control of all things. Give God a try. God bless!

    • @gumecindogarcia1070
      @gumecindogarcia1070 7 місяців тому

      God is the God of miracles. When He gives you a plan that works don't say you were lucky, say you got blessed!

  • @KaTakeCare30
    @KaTakeCare30 11 місяців тому

    This is very helpful
    Thank you🙏🙏🙏

  • @justme7132
    @justme7132 11 місяців тому

    Tnk u for this powerful video i did once probably do it again for my new journey

  • @tessiedonguez9386
    @tessiedonguez9386 5 місяців тому

    Thank you so much❤

  • @sibongilemkhwanazi1099
    @sibongilemkhwanazi1099 11 місяців тому

    Thank you ,points taken

  • @warriorwarrior306
    @warriorwarrior306 Рік тому +49

    PUTTING ON THE FULL ARMOUR OF GOD AND KEEPING IT ON 💯 SPEAKING LIFE LIVING THE WORD OF GOD OUT IN MY ACTIONS DAILY IN JESUS NAME AMEN 💯 💛 🙏🏼

    • @paulleckner8235
      @paulleckner8235 11 місяців тому

      The sword of the spirit and the breastplate of righteousness.

  • @bernarditamagat7829
    @bernarditamagat7829 Рік тому +23

    Amen! I am unstopable!

  • @user-bu4qy2ug4v
    @user-bu4qy2ug4v 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for your words

  • @born4gaming345
    @born4gaming345 Рік тому

    thanks for sharing!

  • @glenoneill3950
    @glenoneill3950 Рік тому +22

    THERE ARE NO "ENEMIES "........THERE IS ONLY YOU

    • @SadafShafiq11
      @SadafShafiq11 6 місяців тому

      There's both actually. But dealing with ourselves is harder

    • @glenoneill3950
      @glenoneill3950 6 місяців тому

      @@SadafShafiq11 ONE IS NOT DEALING WITH OTHERS........ONE IS ONLY DEALING WITH ONE'S OWN SELF.....

    • @SadafShafiq11
      @SadafShafiq11 6 місяців тому

      @@glenoneill3950 that is true actually

  • @GenevaReynolds
    @GenevaReynolds Рік тому +1

    ✔️ Exactly 💯🙏🏾

  • @cecilialayer459
    @cecilialayer459 Рік тому

    Much thanks to your Video.

  • @marciaappleton5426
    @marciaappleton5426 Рік тому +1

    Wow love ❤️ love your quote ❤

  • @OchiengGodfrey-do7rz
    @OchiengGodfrey-do7rz 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for such a powerful knowledge 😮

  • @mangeshursal6295
    @mangeshursal6295 Рік тому +3

    Miss you Abdul Kalam😢

  • @mariavaz9054
    @mariavaz9054 7 місяців тому

    Very true good quote. Thank you

  • @sallyadlawan7101
    @sallyadlawan7101 Рік тому +8

    YES I BELIEVE AND I HAVE FAITH IN GOD.

    • @welovephilippineswithmylov5419
      @welovephilippineswithmylov5419 10 місяців тому

      That's The Best thing that we can do specially in the time's of difficulties and troubles. Don't lose Faith.

  • @ardraartsandvlogs2006
    @ardraartsandvlogs2006 9 місяців тому

    thanks for your motivation

  • @bronwynsearle2117
    @bronwynsearle2117 Рік тому

    Awesome words.. thanks 👍

  • @UnexpectedWonder
    @UnexpectedWonder Рік тому +1

    These are true. 👊👊✊✊👏👏👏

  • @glen719
    @glen719 Рік тому

    Very Inspirational & Informative

  • @davisthome289
    @davisthome289 Рік тому +1

    Yes, they would like to make what they wish for.

  • @belovedLion80
    @belovedLion80 Рік тому +23

    “do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?”
    ~ Abraham Lincoln~

    • @Khan21248
      @Khan21248 5 місяців тому

      But some people never change

    • @darrenjohnson7857
      @darrenjohnson7857 13 годин тому +1

      Oh my God *top 10 worst potus ever * Forgave the Confederacy then he is killed *January 1,1866 KKK is born &his VP was an awful guy 😮

  • @64Magick
    @64Magick 2 місяці тому

    *ANGER & NEGATIVITIES HATE BEING DENIED AND LEFT ALONE!!!*
    *THAT'S WHY MEDITATION AND SILENCE IS EXTREMELY POWERFUL!!!*

  • @sophianewell1116
    @sophianewell1116 Рік тому +1

    Thank you.

  • @athenarockett3088
    @athenarockett3088 11 місяців тому

    Thank you very much sir

  • @abdurahmanshamil2428
    @abdurahmanshamil2428 3 місяці тому

    Thank you

  • @florencenamakula8216
    @florencenamakula8216 6 місяців тому

    True thanksmuch darling

  • @achwsorganization5129
    @achwsorganization5129 9 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing

  • @sallyadlawan7101
    @sallyadlawan7101 Рік тому

    THANK YOU

  • @Anikvikram
    @Anikvikram Рік тому +1

    Thanks 😊

  • @kalraj7821
    @kalraj7821 Рік тому

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  • @joannanangle4876
    @joannanangle4876 Рік тому +1

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  • @susanwheatley3326
    @susanwheatley3326 Рік тому +4

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  • @poonamchiudhary9490
    @poonamchiudhary9490 4 місяці тому

    Enemy is most trusted than a friends