How To Deal With Toxic People? Gaur Gopal Das
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
- A young employee once approached the HR Head to discuss his decision to quit because of toxic people, politics and negative talks in the organization. Would a change of job or change of situation help? The HR Head asked him to do one last thing before he would quit, which changed his decision.
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When this toxic is within family, it's very difficult to ignore.
True
I watched video for the very same reason
Yes.. me too..
True
It's damn difficult because you never expect your family to betray you , the betrayal hurts a lot!
Toxic people are everywhere even in family. This formula can be applied there also.
But what if a toxic member of your family put their nose in your every work and you can't stop them and Their behavior's effects on your life
Yes I have one in my family. I ruined my life bcoz of her
@@aishwaryadharmik9873 yes people have become so dangerous they use their brain too much to bring you down
@@sweetydal3723 whole family has to suffer because of this 😑😑😑
The sad truth is every one believe toxic people rather honest people
Toxic people support you when you do things according to their likes, they start criticizing you when you don't
Well said
Yes,, exactly Vaibhav
Exactly
Exactly I want to get rid of them...They are trying to make me miserable 😑😑
Absolutely
Point to remember - " When you focus on your priorities
You dont Have the time to see all the dramas around you,
the mistakes of other, gossip and the negativity "
Agree
True
Ya I agree to some extent but what if they target you , bully you and makes fun of you due to jealousy or envy or hatred whatever so you name it 😬
@@shivangisharma8410 if you are being targeted bullied and harassed you should immediately report this to human resources and make police reports if at home if at school see the school Dean or Principal because this act of bullying and targeting is illegal and no matter what your age is a crime and should be reported and documented to hold accountable and to list clearly the event and persons committing such a disgusting attention seeking game played by the mentally deficient and insecure jealous individuals if on the internet that is called cyber bullying and should be screenshots and report to local authorities who also will take report and get you in touch with the federal telecommunications and global internet department and they will make reports investigate and possibly prosecute depending on all the facts MOST IMPORTANTLY REMEMBER THIS IS ABOUT THEM BEING INSECURE JEALOUS OR ATTENTION SEEKING TO GAIN APPROVAL OF PEERS AND TRUTH IS THEY ARE TERRIFIED NO ONE WILL ACCEPT THEM SO THEY DO EVERYTHING THEY CAN TO FIND SOMEONE THEY CAN MAKE THE TARGET SO IT ISNT THEM. REPORT THIS THEY ARE UNSTABLE MENTALLY AND YOU DONT HAVE TIME OR THE EXTENSIVE PSYCHIATRY EXPERIENCE TO SORT OUT THEIR PLETHERA OF MENTAL ISSUES AND INNER CONFLICTS JUST DONT EVEN LOOK AT THEM OR IF U DO SAY LOOK I DONT EVEN KNOW YOU AND YOU ARE OBSESSED WITH ME EVERY DAY YOU STARE AT ME ALL DAY LONG AND BECAUSE I DONT ENJOY YOU CONSTANTLY WATCHING ME EVERY MINUTE EVERY DAY YOU GET ANGRY AND DO THE SAME THING START SAYING INSULTING THINGS TO ME BECUZ U HAVE BEEN REJECTED IM NOT INTERESTED IN ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP WITH U SO PLEASE STOP STALKING ME IVE ALREADY MADE A POLICE REPORT OR IVE ALREADY REPORTED THIS TO HUMAN TESOURCES OR IVE ALREADY REPORTED THIS TO THE SCHOOL DEAN OF DISCIPLINE AND THE SCHOOL DISTRICT ..AND remember they are trying to make u feel as bad as they feel about themselves it's a pity feel sorry for their mental deficiencies get counseling and never keep it to yourself
See those toxic people even bully me every time but I remember that this is just a part of life not the whole people will let u down until u down yourself work on yourself leave them or just I can say ignore
Maybe keep a little distance
Because I hear somewhere that krishna said
Jo accha lagta hai usse karo aur no nahi usse bhool jayo chahe vo thinking , Karma , people
I have one more thing to add here; make sure you are not that toxic person for others.
True !
Definitely I won't ☺️
@@yugabharathi6447 If every person makes sure of that then there are no toxic people but unfortunately, the human world is always toxic if we look back 6000 years it is the same.
@@menonksa Just got bullied in college 1st day ,tats y came here tho
@@yugabharathi6447 Oh! - we are born into a toxic world but you seem to be a positive person so no worries I'm sure you will overcome it!
today i realised why guru is necessary in life
👍
🙏
Yes😊
What?
Since childhood I know why a teacher/guru is necessary
Guru govind doo khare, jake lagu paye
Balihari guru aapne, jinne govind dio milae☺️🤍💫
" If you keep your attention focussed on your goal , you will never notice the obstacles and pitfalls along the way . "
U re great Sir 🙏
Well some ppl are determined to put obstacles and snub u down. I think it's not that easy as the video mentions. There is one solution u run away. But if u r inside their toxic approval cycle only God can save u. Easier said than done.
@@user-uq6ic8pw8x yes I agree 👍
@@user-uq6ic8pw8x yes ignoring is not any solution.
I agree, not easy to ignore .What if that person is taking credibility of your work , taking up your work and doing them .Then what is it that you wanna focus now ? Are you going to focus on the toxic guy because that person is eating all your work.Easy to say , difficult to follow. Best is to move out of such situations , run away as quickly as possible .
Yes in my office lot of politics is there
Every one is pulling other legs and lots of other things then how can i focus
It’s a beautiful lesson. It is also advisable to just get tf out of the toxicity and find better people instead of putting unrealistic pressure on yourself. There are better people, trust me. Choose your peace ☮️
I think this is the best and only solution
So well said. I think this is the best solution for people who JUST REFUSE to change even after repeated attempts. Putting undue pressure on ourselves to act correctly even when others around us are acting wrong, and to react properly even when others around us are giving us constant negativity, is EXTREMELY difficult and maybe.. might even affect our health in the long run.
Most of the time, people who think others as toxic are toxic themselves. Learn to be self satisfied and calm even in solitude, others' opinions wont matter anymore
I learned how to deal with TOXIC PEOPLE, I don't deal with them. I say a prayer and keep it moving. The best remedy for them is to leave them alone. run
The best way to deal with toxic people is to leave their play ground,don't play.
This is impractical and doesn't look at any effects a toxic workplace can do to a very intelligent and focus oriented people.
Haven't you come across situations where you were minding your own business but a jealous coworker still tried to ruin it or outsmart you in wrong way?
So in this example, if someone purposely came and hit you to have that glass of water spill on you or even worse push you with that water on your boss.
That's real toxic workplace and the approach he is suggesting here won't work at all. May be only if you are not human but a robot then this approach would work for you.
Think guys! Stay Human!
Corporate toxicity is real
@@Jam.S. true that.
@@Jam.S. happened to me
@@tj-ny4dh what happened?
If toxic people are in family. It affects a lot I mean a lot.
agree with you...me too suffering
Think plus points about every family members. Change your thoughts about them situation will change automatically.
Yes... Agreed
@@sonaligharat2149 this is only possible in talks...
when u r regulary tortured u dont even know how does it feels??;
Same Here.Not A Day Passes When I Don't Feel Lyk Quitting😰😢
Toxic ppl will remain toxic, can't change them, rather we should focus on ourselves
They start putting there nose everywhere like a mosquito then?
My boss is toxic.. stuuiuuuuuuuuuuuipid idiot bosss... very stupid.. i wish him bad things
I totally agree with you.
@@nimsayaniaable i wish you well my friend
Or change the toxic environment....
Don't do good, don't do bad with them, just make some distance from them. Be it someone from family or any friend. If not physically possible then mentally you can make distance from them. This is what I believe.
Most of the time the intolerable toxic people are in the family for whom the utmost goal in their life is to destroy you inner PEACE
Exactly
I found this video while searching for videos on how to deal with toxic parents.
True
It's my mom... I ccant believe
@Neha
Plz speak to yr mom.....keep yr side then decide
Rarely v find toxic mothers dear
Thanks . I was about to quit my job.
Same.
I'm so done with my colleagues.
I work in mnc as software engineer. Here every day people play dirty games. It's difficult to evn get a leave. My team lead treats me as a slave . Sick of this job.
@@Igotmeforlife_ start your own business bro
Me too.
Same here.
Whatever u do, dont take advice from sanyasis. Because you arenot going to be one!
There are toxic people who dont interfere and who do. Not all understand this. Still the best solution is 'To Let go'.
Toxic people will criticize you more when they don't want you to achieve your goals. Some people will demotivate you because they think that you can achieve whatever you want but they can't. So we must take that as a compliment.
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👍
Truee
It's absolutely a test of our patience 👍👍
There is a saying by our Master
If a situation is avoidable -walk out of it
If it is unavoidable-tolerate it
Let's not misinterpret here
This really strengthens us ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Viveka is needed to distinguish these situations and respond accordingly
You are right main to sirf apni criticize hi sunti hun dusre ke muh se
,Sab log mujhme Kamiyan hi nikalte rahte hai ,Aaj v nikala bhut Bura lagta hai dukh is liye nhi hota hai ki wo kamiyan i Nikal rahe hai mujhme balki isliye hota hai kyunki wo log khud Ko secure feel karne ke liye dusro Ko criticize karte hI
By listening to this I actually realised that it happens to everyone, everywhere, every time only if I let it happen..
Yes It is in my mind.. I have to change myself.
I also stay away from toxic people... because I know what I'm doing....I do my work with honesty doesn't matter what people think of me...
Absolutely I too keep myself away as much as possible..but still somewhere somehow I do get disturbed why people behave like this..why can't I be like them..then again I tell myself this is what I am .. unique special in my own way,I don't need anyone's opinions as long as am true to myself.
How about boss believe other peoples gossip about us n blame us n put so much negativity on me n say i am bad... it hurts so bad
ua-cam.com/video/huGMsGGIzBc/v-deo.html best video
@@nimsayaniaable yeah but self love is the best medicine for all these rubbish gossip 🤗
work need to be done with honesty. But such people is really everywhere and hard to manage and they only put you down by complaining about you.
Such *calmness tranquility and wisdom* in his words. I sleep peacefully every night listening to anyone of his videos.
Me too
Ya because he is real saint from iskon
Today onwards i will follow you
@@payyavulabharathkumar2008 thank you kumar
@@smysmile5870 guruji
I seriously don't know how this popped in my recommendation but I just sat furiously thinking about the toxic people I faced just right now. Thank you. A very nice vision.
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Omg this video pop right when I was thinking of quitting a toxic workplace.
Right time I see this video
.Everyday I am thinking about how to escape from my frustrated surrounding And toxic people. I can't concentrate on my studies due to alot of negativities around my home. This video is the most appropriate video I ever seen in UA-cam. Thankuu soomuch
U are telling Sir , that we should focus on our priorities/job/studies/work .............
But what I feel is , after a certain period of time or when the line is crossed there is a need to teach all of them a good lesson because , If we didn't not take action then , they will think/take our calmness as our weaknesses . Like in today's world a innocent person is considered as dumb or weak , but actually it's not like that !
And they form habit to tease us and put there nose in our personal matter , because they know that we are not going to take action .
So what i feel is , we should ignore toxic people , but when the line is crossed then we should must take action !
Well said .
Neeraj.... No. We don't need to take action against toxic people. They are not worth our time and effort. No use to get twined into their drama!
Instead we must focus on us and rise high like an eagle🦅, these cawing crows trying to fly with us, won't be able to catch up with us as we are flying very high like eagles reaching our goals. They will fall out on their own😃 Also time will teach them the lesson they deserve.
Saying:👇🏼
"Being rude is easy, it doesn't take any effort and is a sign of weakness and insecurity. Kindness shows great self discipline and strong self esteem. Being kind is not always easy when dealing with a rude person who destroyed us.
Kindness is a sign of a person who has done lot of personal work and has come to a great self-understanding and wisdom. Choose to be kind over being right and you will be right everytime because kindness is a sign of STRENGTH"
@@AneeshaRao100 You are correct, the video is telling dont let you inner peace be destroyed by such people.You take action when line is crossed but dont let your inner peace of mind be destroyed.
I am agreed with the fact u mentioned there .If we behave in a holistic manner , certain people think that we r fool.
Agree 100%
But unfortunately..it is not that easy as it seems to be...
You are absolutely true.Toxic people have problem with our ability to focus on priorities.They just want drag you down.
Yea agree, but as with every other challenge, not impossible 🙂
Lets change this situation, what if someone tries to hit him so that his water should spill out, then what that guy is supposed to do,
Thing is we know our priority and we are focused, but what if someone is harming us directly and ruining our work, then its difficult to deal with such people.
Should remember that easily said often comes from hard experience s
...the word comes from easy is not be trusted ..but the work you can rely on which comes from the act of hard...😄(correct me where necessary)
It depends on you friend, whether you make it easy or more difficult
2018 is ending with your blessings sir
Thank you a lot
Hi gm happy new year
M
Lovely 💛
For meditation , watch my videos with your closed eyes and with full volume headphone
I gaurentee you your mind will be freshed
You just left me speechless and a sudden smile appeared on my face when i got the moral.. Thank you 💜
As a kid we were taught that "a rotten apple spoils the barrel" and now we also learn that when u r too much concentrated into ur own world, u won't see any disturbances.
Conclusion - life is a puzzle 😓😓
Namaste guruji, when I started my cooking channel on UA-cam, everyone at home made fun of me. Everyone discouraged me. But as I had this passion, I wanted to keep up with it. Somehow got everything done well, though in a small amount. But then, they all started discouraging me, by asking how much I earn on UA-cam and all other sort of things. I tried explaining, I was not here to earn, but to happily share my recipes, have wonderful friends around me. But again, ended up with all negative response from them. I kept on complaining about all this till now, until I saw this video. Now I know what I have to do. How I have to overcome this. Cannot thank you enough for this eye opening video. Koti koti vandhane guruji 🙏🙏🌸🙏🙏, a big thumbs up to this video.
ua-cam.com/video/huGMsGGIzBc/v-deo.html must watch
Keep it up,please ignore all toxic people and all negative people also,to make sure our own life feels happy and feels enjoyable only.
Thanks a lot sir, unfortunately I'm facing this problem, this might be an inspiration to me 🙏😇
Me tooo
Me too
Exactly me too feeling same in my work environment.. but this boosted video make me to choose the right path
God blessss u be happy..... It is very difficult but yu can do it...
listen to sandeep maheshwari..to deal with negative people...
Thank you. Dealing with toxic people is something we all have to confront in our lives at one point or another. Narcissists, manipulators and those wallowing in self pity are just a few examples. Toxic people always find a way of worming their way into people's lives. Often they apply a divide and conquer strategy.
I tried this for years with toxic HR head & authorities. I was costing my health & peace. I finally came out of situation by quitting.
Sometimes, you must know that some situations can be handled but when you can't anymore you better quit. It's not worth of loosing your energy hanging around toxic people., especially when you know you can't anymore!!
What a coincidence Guruji!!! Today some of my toxic relatives have come to our house and tonight I see this video! This must be a cosmic tip for me! 🙏
Edit- didn't expect so many likes!! Thanks everyone 🤣
😂😂😂
@TheChosenOne 😄
I can relate. We just have to make sure that we observe their actions very closely and create boundaries. And when they cross boundaries, we have the right to response.
These 'relatives' are worst kind of humans
Same here Antara
I will always remember about that full glass of water. Thats mind blowing. Thanks Sir
Ya
Great inspirational that glass example only
That glass don't do anything on your life..stop listening these fake emotional videos.. real world is very critical and full of toxic people
@KaNaK you are toxic..it's proved by your word..toxic person spotted👍
@KaNaK i don't need your suggestions..you start it..i don't know you..so don't talk👍
When toxicity is within family, within our team, and mainly within ourself, its really tough to deal with 😢
Most toxic people are surrounded in a family and this words changed my view of observing and facing
Please keep avoid all negative people and all toxic people also because they all same like virus that killing ourselves slowly until we died.
I was about to change my job’
Now I changed my mind
Thank you 😊
I am also thinking same
There is only positive and helping people in my life, especially in my family.I live in joint family and I am very thankful to God for giving me such a amazing family.
U r Lucky
Very lucky indeed
Thanks a lot... God Bless you more and more.
I too live in Joint family and am not thankful to God 🙌
Very Lucky 💖
My mother is toxic like hell... nothing works on her ..you can't ignore things said about you...in improper manner. I have lost my Patience my confidence while handling her...
@@khushijha6665same bro 😂
Holy shit, a big thank you to you Prabhu ji,you know I was thinking to leave my job😲😲😲😲god made this video for me at the right time!!
Same here...
cheng zemin same here brother
Was the reason exactly the same?
Same reason 😦😧😧me too
क्या आपको फ्री "ज्ञान गंगा " पुस्तक चाहिए ?
वो भी फ्री डिलीवरी के साथ।
अगर चाहिए तो अपना नाम, पता और मोबाइल नंबर भेजे ।
हर किसी के मन में एक प्रश्न उठता रहता है और वही प्रश्न बचपन से मेरे मन में उठता रहा कि आखिर इतनी बड़ी इस सृष्टि की रचना करने वाला कौन है जब मुझे ज्ञान गंगा पुस्तक मिली तो मुझे पता चला कि वास्तव में इस सृष्टि की रचना करने वाला ं कबीर साहेब
I wish all youngsters look through this video to have a better life. Thank you Guruji🙏
I am just 12 years old but love your lessons guruji you are awesome......
I am 15 years old 😒
I am 12yrs old and going to be of 13 on March.😊😊😊😊😊
Keep learning and keep growing! You're doing an awesome job! 😊
You guys are future of country keep up the good things in life
Congo that u have access to smart phone I didn't have. I'm 18 now
Everytime i feel triggered by the toxic people around me, i listen to this and i find my peace. 🥺 This is my 12th-15th time here and each time i listen to this it makes my thinking more clear and brings me peace. Reminds me of my actual goals and helps get rid of distractions. Thankyou so much for putting this up♥️
Ya i feel you, why people are interfering in other's life, i have some toxic friends and currently trying to avoiding them, i know it willl not happen suddenly and takes time and the process is hard and it is essential to avoid them to get a good future.
i totally removed toxic people from my life deleted blocked ghosted
Your videos are life changing, whenever I feel upset I prefer to watch your videos and after that I start feeling so good.
Thank you. I was completely affected by the way my brother's wife and her sisters taunting and pulling me down whenever they meet me. When I am doomed, I heard this speech sir. It relieved me from that stress created by them. Thank you
Ohh! Feel the same way- lets talk!
Superbly explained and how easy to understand, each word ☺
🙏Hare Krishna Guru ji!!!
As I student i don't like to go to my school🎒📚 because of Negativity, bad words and gossips 😒and searched🔍 for this really an amazing video🎥 but I will prefer to stay in a good environment❤
I just had a fight with a toxic person and this helped😩🙏💫
I am facing this exact problem. I am thinking to quit my job, despite being one of the top performers in my company. I am fed up of my leader. 😭
100% true,this all happened because devil disturbed at workplace,that not good environment actually.
Please do yourself a favor and quit that damn job. Never take your mental health for granted. If something is really affecting you in a bad way, remove it from your life. You don't deserve to be ill treated like this. There are thousands and thousands of other companies in India. It's all about our mentality. Our mindset and attitude towards life matters a lot. Always be positive and happy.
But please make sure that you yourself don't end up becoming same as those toxic humans as you have faced. Be happy and kind and full of love towards those who deserve. You may earn less for somedays but you will be peaceful atleast. Struggle always pays off and who knows one day you may have your own company? Never trade your mental peace and health for some bucks because mature and intelligent people NEVER TRADE THEIR FREEDOM AND PEACE FOR MONEY.
I am surrounded with toxic people that is making me toxic as well, sometimes i feel like murdering them but bcoz of jail fear i am not doing it 😔
@KaNaK ofcourse i can't murder them bcoz of jail thing but i feel like doing that🙏
Nt just you ........every one silent ly murders in mind someone else out of anger anxiety and disgust
I can understand you brother. You may ignore them. Because, people are weird.
How to ignore. People
😂😂😂
Thank u so much!! I was really disturbed Because of toxic people and their comments on social medias. You're absolutely right, I should just focus on the things I love without caring about what others think of that thing!!
This made my day.. thank you Sir ❤😘
Mine too😊
Same here..
Yes
U always give very clear explanation to every problem 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😊 Pranam Guruji....Thanks for enlightening our mind.... May ur videos reach to everybody
@Apple. Pineapple what?
Ohhh god I'm feeling u listed my mind today frustrated with nagative people around me ur this speech is peace to my mind thank you guruji 🙏🙏
This is the best lesson bcoz the main reason of failure and negativity is 'log kya kahenge'
Hii everyone... Before meeting him I was addicted to everything except my dreams... After hearing him now I'm addicted to him... But the plus point is, in past I was giving my 20% efforts to my dream and career but now it increased to 60%... Everytime I start wasting time, I remind myself about my goals.. of course I am enjoying with my friends, family... But now I have plan for every section of my day... Thank you so much... Hope I'll continue this till the end.. thank you for keeping motivating us...
Happy New Year,. Going to start a new life for a better life... 🙏
Good..keep it up
How to meet him????
Thanks for sharing this it inspired me I'll do the same 60-40 ❤️
@@balbiryadav1787 I too don't know 🤣🤣
@@smitaranimishra4689 hehehe
plot twist:the HR used to be a monk in his teens😂
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What made him change? Did he deal with toxic people? He should have taken a full glass of water first before quitting his career as a monk😆😆😆
Cut off the toxic people....it feels so great. Just finally aknowledging they're toxic feels amazing.
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Whenever in distress or anxious....
Whenever lose hope, feel tired...
Gaur Gopal Das is the last destination to find solutions ❤️ to heal mental injury, to calm the storm of unrest mind ❤️❤️❤️❤️✨✨✨
We all good people watching this video! ❤️ May all your dreams come true ✨
Well said bro
It's taken from a story of Lord Vishnu, Narad Muni and a Farmer..... Great lesson learnt ❤️
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But how our school can fail to make us learn shits....
@@heliosgaming01 😂
Sir but its so hard to tolerate them when they speak to us and say toxic things.....i couldnt focus on anything else other that my anger
Once you are receptive to them they will taking your piece of mind. How we block some persons on social media. They send msges but we are not receptive to it. So negative people dnt change and problem arises when you try to change them. Gandhi ji said be the change you wants in others.
Toxic people which I have seen in previous organisation where I worked in a team and they all used to say or gossip about me and create a bad image of me. It was a gang of politics and they knows my weak points . Were trying to fire or resign from that company but they could not. This video is helpful.
That's exactly I'm surviving and thriving in my family because I have nowhere else to go.
How are you now.? Stay strong, one day you will be free from them
@@yujibestboi I'm doing good. Thank you for your kind words
Same here bro.... Just keep calm and going 👍👍👍
My parents are very toxic . Especially my mother is very abusive. My father and mother talk always negative things about me in the house , with acquanitances and relatives. I was earning 40k in a reputed private company , they didn't like the job . Always criticizing my job and low salary . So , I left my job and sat at home. Now after 2 years , they got fed up and now telling me to do data entry job of 15k . They don't allow me to learn music , which is my hobby . I seen enough drama . Now decided to live separately from them with my savings and will do some job to support myself . All I want is freedom and peace . I can't survive anymore with my toxic and dominating parents .
You Better stay away from your parents for a while and do what you think is correct, but take care of your parents .
Your parents are good , they really have concern on you ... but due to lack of practical knowledge , giving you Wrong advice . We can live with bad advice .
But if forcing you criticizing, pulling you down, creating inferiority complex and depression. Then you must stay(live) away from them and just give care to them
Damn, i wish u good look on your endeavours, whenever i will feel down, i will remember your struggle and then get back up
Don't leave your parents ...they must be seen afterall they are your parents
I have same problem. Shake hands!
Sometimes I also hate my parents but when I think about them sometimes they are right
I think you should talk to your parents about them and clear things. You are mature enough to handle things wisely.
And always remember everything happens for a reason, God has a plan for you.
All the best for your journey ahead 😊
Nowadays this decade, even parents are more toxic when they don't hear their words after child's wedding life.. they become as if they are third person
Such parents should be left in peace, better to talk to third persons for help
I mean They do love you. It's just wrong ideology. So you should try and forgive them especially if you have been raised for 18 years by them
I am in such a situation and my parents are same like toxic.i think leaving them completely is not possible in india because i tried this but i am not successful.
Umm..I seriously don't kno wat situation you are into but I can assure you one thing that sometimes the decisions or words of the parents might be wrong but their intentions are ALWAYS right...they never want to hurt you...and if you feel that they are being toxic...don't so things which will make them more toxic or annoy them...instead of leaving them...you should have taken a positive approach by talking it out or trying to spend some time with your family together...meaning with your parents, siblings, spouse, children...They might be feeling left out or they just want to spend some good time with you guys...be postive and deal with them positively rather than harshly...their ideologies may not be right but always remember that their intentions towards you will NEVER be wrong....They just don't want to lose you...I hope u understand
@@karishmakarel4126 yea but I know most of parents aren't bad but some of them might be like example some people's father who has addiction to alcohol.Few of them might be wrong but overall you should try and respect them,I agree with that
I am suffering the negative behavior from my cousins and could not focus on my study due to their harsh behavior to me. I am getting distracted again and again by thinking about their behavior and words the harsh ones. But now after watching your video I am relaxed now. I know I have to focus on my priority to achieve my goal. Let the things go with the flow. Thank you so much Respected Sir. ❤️💞🤠
Sir I was totally demotivated ..after listening to this I feel motivated .. thanks to you sir🙂
Don't change negative situation on your surroundings, change our focus from them to another meaningful direction...💙💙
But at times, the toxic people affect you in a harmful way. What if someone pushed him while he was carrying the glass. He couldn't have completed his job then
"re-start"
Well said. Toxic ppl just don't mind themselves they go out and sabotage others especially ones who are more intelligent and empathetic. Toxic ppl just depend on someone else empathetic nature. Very hard to overcome. Have to run away. It's very narcissistic abuse.
Moral of the story👉👉 : you can change the world, just by changing your mindset. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Dear employee we both sailing in the same boat!
Too good
Sir really I was in this situation, God Damn I wanted this vedio.Everything matched with my life.Thanks a lot teacher.Your way of speaking is something that no one can byepass listening.Do continue with these sort of videos.
If such toxic people are in our family...how can v even shift our view..I cant even concentrate on my children
While you focus on the glass your HR manager possibly will be smiling that he could stop one person from attrition without giving him a promotion or a hike. That's not advice that's a plot, for organization you are just a resource, a number. Talents should leave toxic environment. Keep moving unattached if your talent has no taker in the existing organization. One more suggestion: Take time to decide and if you decide to move do not wait for a counter offer, just leave. Remember this is not actually a negative approach to leave an organization, it is your conscious decision to go for a new opportunity. Listen to your inner call. It doesn't lie. Best of luck. Stay happy and blessed as always.
This was very much needed. thank you guru ji. 🙏🙏
256 dislikes the real toxic peoples 😑
They r not Toxic people I to have one doubt ok if we don't bother others we will do our own work eventhough the people will surround us then....how can we get in....
Now it's 396 always toxic creaters raises
@@prashanthireddy9694 just concentrate on urself sis why u bother
yusuf jamadar 😂😂
@VK get the Fuck outta here
i have heard this story in the form of Narad and the greatest devotee to Lord Vishnu
A big THANKYOU GURUJI . I was really affected by the negative behaviour of my colleagues .This video made me cry. My work is my focus and my worship too. Thanks again for this great help.
Whoever watching this video,, can we all Join together and Make our own Toxic free Society?🙃
I am ready man 😭
Ready
I am ready. Its very painful to live around toxic people.
Atleast, we can create a whatsapp group to support each other.
Why not....
lol
Thanks Guruji for the advice!
I was dealing with the trauma of being around too many dramatic situations and toxic people and was getting demotivated. Thanks for uplifting me!!
This video helps me all the time whenever I'm surrounded by toxicity
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The only way to deal with toxic people is to stop talking to them even if they are standing in front of us we have to ignore them, this has worked like a charm for me and in my case it was my sister. Whenever my mum or family members had a party, I just didn't go cause I knew she would be there. I just went the next day, sure there was no party the next day but at least I didn't have to meet with little miss toxic.
❤ADDICTED he's speech❤
I needed this so badly... showed the best solution in the most simple way. Thank you
He explains very well.. Thumbs up
Thanks Guru for the great lessons.
@Abhinandan Zambare hey! Why everyone is not like you in our country?
My Holly Goodness. I fell into this same situation. I submitted my resignation being fully fed up with some toxic colleagues and the HR Head counselled me. I am still working there. But recently things have gone bad and beyond my capacity to handle. I need a change. I am an HSP. Please pray for me. Thanks for your tips.
sometimes we have toxic people in our homes as well,
the same formula works with them as well, I am highly thankful for this thought
Focus on your work and ignore the toxic people.🙏🏻❤️
Oh my god..... Seriously u changed my mind and attitude thanks a million sir..... Nice to listen u. 😊😊😊😊😊
I just know I can't changed everyone's mentality , process of thought and nature of people but I can work myself and perhaps skip from the situation when it's gone out of control .
Everyone can get a better way to live life by following these thoughts nd stories 🙏.... thankyou 😇
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I don't know how and why it came to my recommendations .... I don't really watch these kinda videos, but honestly this was much needed ❤️
After watching this video, Now I decided what to matter to change in our life for a longevity....
One should focus on his goals and the purpose of life is to live life with full of joy and happiness and love; love yourself instead of focusing on toxic human; no doubt there are many poissonous people around u but we should focus on what is good around u😀😀❤️❤️If u find my comment a little bit good pls like it
U r such an amazing person Guruji.
Every time I see ur videos, I've learn something.thank u so much Guruji
Hare Krishna Guruji... 🙏🙏
Good morning. 💝💝
ypur inspiration!
This is such an eye opener! It’s a question of priorities. Shifting my focus on the glass of water to ensure it doesn’t spill
I focus on my work and ignore the people around me is how I should deal with toxic people especially family members 🥃😌
Thanks guruji . मला असाच स्वतःला बनवायचं आहे प्रयात पण करतोय पण पुन्हा तिथेच जातोय.
Thank you so much for this words of wisdom and encouragement. I really am like the employee's situation now and I feel enlightened when I watched this video. Happy New Year 2019 to all of us. For a brighter and prosperous New Year to come.
Thnx prabhuji 🙏🏽 , in families if the same things are going on as " toxic " then I think , it's time to read & understand the Gita❤️ & so the iskcon as well 🙂🙌🏼
Lots of love n health to you sir, live long
Even I couldn't bear this colleagues frustration... Planning to leave my job as soon as possible... Couldn't focus.. Add one more thing they aren't a person who's gossiping behind others. No humanity at all.. Very worst....🥺