I suffer with mental health problems and this talk has really helped me. Especially the part about identifying with the Knower and not the known. My thoughts, memories and delusions are just that and periferal. It has stopped me identifying myself with my diagnosis which is a relief as it is not all. Thank you. Peace, love and joy.
The reality is that for hundreds of thousands of years of human history (that has been forgotten because it was before history was recorded), women ran communities, society, families and were the spiritual upkeepers for us all being priestesses, oracles, shamans etc. The evidence for this are the talismans, deities, objects etc that have been dug up from megalithic/stone age populations and beyond. I saw something which said, if the whole of human history was the length of a year, the stone age lasted until 31 Dec @ 1600. In hunter gatherer societies, the men did not run the communities, women did. All men did was go out every few weeks, drunk/high, and come back, if lucky, with some meat. Often, they didn't and communities survived on the berries etc that the women had picked. Children just would not have survived without the love, care, support and devotion of women. Look at your typical mother with children and see how hard she works, selflessly. Most men do not have the capacity to just work that hard in the same way. At some point, men (who were largely useless, lets be honest!), supressed women through strength, violence and cemented themselves in culture via religion and the birth of civilisation (i.e. cities). We have (and still are) supressed the feminine, because men are highly insecure and actually, humanity does not need men, only their sperm to procreate. Many females animals eat their mates after mating because they serve no further purpose. Their job is done and they must now sacrifice themselves for the future spawn. I am speaking as a cis gendered man and gained this wisdom from having watched many ancient history documentaries and visiting museums with ancient objects. Through this, it became very clear to me the injustice the egos of men have subjected women to.
There is no word in this teaching about feminine vs masculine path, about leadership or other artificial concepts created by our minds. This is about discovering our true nature and the infinite paths you can take to achieve enlightenment.
I watch this at least once or twice a year. Just to check in just to see where I’m at what I’m missing where I need to go. It really is a remarkable dharma talk. ❤❤❤
Incredible; Her teaching ranges from Samatha, Vipassana (including cognitive behavior theory/therapy principles) through identity clinging/disturbance all the way to pure vision teachings, the most down to earth and stripped down, accurate teachings on pure vision and tantra I remember ever hearing. Bless you, Jetsunma Tenzin Palmo, and thank you for your life, your attainment and your generosity.
yes i like it alot. she doesnt speak in riddles. very easy to follow. alot of other teachers make it more complicated than it needs to be to get the point across
Thank you for posting this . I heard Jetsuma Tenzin Palmo on The Lion’s Roar . Podcast . Very interesting interview . I’m learning about her . I already feel a open heart and calm mind listening to her . 🌟🙏🏻✨
Thank you Michael for the tape. Thank you Tenzin Palmo for your heart opening talk. I understand, Buddhism is practice of compassion, mindfulness in our heart and mind. Very inspiring, I have alot to learn from you.
Listened to many lectures on inner awareness, but this is the v first time I can feel that u hv really really exper it & showing us this truth so vividly. My utmost gratitude to u coz I really needed to feel this truth in me & my determination to walk on this path is getting stronger with ur each word🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Michael - somehow she speaks in a manner that works for me. "If we know ourselves, we are always home..." (- Glinda, played by Lena Horne from "The Wiz") The Wisdom Mind that she speaks of is our own Inner Guru, and with this we can turn the world into our teacher - even the people that are awful to us - they in particular can be our teachers.
formless truth and divine pride are very high values for a seed of "Buddhahood", I'm watching and getting her suggestions about Buddha's teaching in Oct.2024. However being a female and western native, the way she speaks and expresses her feelings about buddha nature are easily understandable and meaningful, she has potential and cultivated a lot.
while watching this last night, i resolved to live my life in a more mindful and compassionate way. as i said this, the room suddenly filled with a STRONG smell of roses. like, intoxicatingly strong. from nowhere. it only lasted maybe half a minute, but it was so strong. not sure what it means... probably a sign
There is a nice informative documentary of Venerable Palmo’s journey. Meetings filmed with His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama, and her other teachers as well as what she is doing to help women monastics get better access to scripture education including debate practices to sharpen understanding of the teachings. Jetsumma Tenzin Palmo is pretty impressive as a teacher and communicator of the practice. Documentary is called “cave in the snow”
Women have the best hearts because they know more keenly what it means to be oppressed and downtrodden. Namo Buddhaya, love to all beloved sisters of the Sangha.
The teacher was very keen on "do you understand ?" Did anyone NOT understand I wonder.?...A very cerebral, conceptual, wordy, lengthy talk with plenty of specific do's and don'ts !
Those final comments about cultural symbols really flipped a switch. I think this is the same idea that Carl jung was exploring but I think he got a bit lost in the weeds along the way.
my answer to the question about Master-Disciple relationships: You will recognize a genuine Master after allowing their ENERGY - Presence to reveal itself to you, to show you, in a little time, or a little more time, what happens to you as a result of their Presence. You will FEEL, SENSE, who & what they are. If they are GENUINE you will feel God-goodness-positive feelings & dreams. This might be immediate, it might take days, weeks, sometimes longer. If the Master is genuine, living or dead, they will grant you answers to prayer or you can ask them questions & they will answer you mentally within a day or more. They will also help you with problems or needs, anything you present to them. A problem that occurs is when a disciple believes in a living person too quickly, & like Her Holiness explains, there are many fakes out there. Some of them have skills & abilities. {Haha, look at the preachers on Trinity Broadcasting, the prosperity preachers, they are sales people looking to make money, very persuasive. Part 2 next post.
Chào bạn! Tôi là 1 nữ tu sĩ việt nam.và rất vui khi được nghe bài pháp ý nghĩa này.Nó đem lại lợi ích cho tôi.và tôi mong có cơ hội liên hệ trực tiếp với Sư.và bạn có biết email của Sư không ạ? Xin hoan hỷ chia sẽ đến tôi.cảm ơn bạn rất nhiều
Tenzin Palmo: Hv you carefully looked at some of the most ancient artistic renderings of Buddah??? Please do. I hvnt looked w any attn for a long while, yet seem to recall some Very Female looking statues of Buddha. I just did a slight search online, to be sure I hadn't recalled incorrectly. I hadn't. " 'Just sayin'."
At 45:44, she says, "Then, we are in a state of total _______?_________ but we are enlightened" Can anyone understand what word she used between 'total' and 'but'? I want to know what state we are totally in at that point. I cannot find any word that fits, but it sounds like she says, 'vrik' which is not a word.
I think she says "Rigpa", which would be Vidya in sanscrit (knowledge). By the way there is no "but", she says "then we are in a state of total rigpa, we're enlightened. (I wanted to point that out to make sure you didn't get it wrong)
Very interesting. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you. Thanks to Xuan Zang, as I located the villages the Buddha was prayed to as a local deity, Xuan Zang also took me to fifty Buddha relic stupas including Ashoka's first Buddha relic stupa and two of his own relic stupas.
I met this woman, didn't know who she was but as she looked familiar I enthusiastically and respectfully asked if she lived at a temple I visited in London. She said no, somewhat puzzled I began to ask where she was based, when she arrogantly dismissed me, as though shooing me away, saying I can't talk I have to go. I didn't act like I was minding my own business going to my car and she came in front of me about to get into her chauffeur driven car. My point is that whilst they put on piety when in an audience with the Dalai Lama or fake wisdom on camera. If you encounter them in person they are worse than ordinary people, who would generally give you the time of day. These supposed religious people have more vices than the rest of us, and gargantuan egos. This happened at a small celebration of select people for the Dalai Lama's birthday. Hence people truly involved with Buddhism, not some random people. People find your own way, don't listen to these charlatans in robes because they're in it only for themselves and will not help you. Once a fishmongers daughter always a....
Do you see that your way of greeting her is all about you...everything in your account is all about you "a temple I visited," "somewhat puzzled," "as though shooing me away," "I was minding my business," "a small celebration of select people....Hence people truly involved with Buddhism," the last being a curious way to describe buddhists. "Select people"? In other words everything in your paragraph is about distinctions with you somehow being excluded from the narrative of people 'deserving attention.' If you had simply asked her name as opposed to where she fit into your life, perhaps you would have gotten a more responsive answer. It may be about you is the point I'm making...and your blanket condemnation of"charlatans in robes" really gives away the game. Yes, there are charlatans, but she is most certainly not one of them. It is really all about your hurt feelings, your bruised ego...she gave you a gift.
I’m not sure how her advice helps the woman who needs help letting go of her lost mother. Letting go of the false self would feel like letting go of her connection to her mother, no?
I suffer with mental health problems and this talk has really helped me. Especially the part about identifying with the Knower and not the known. My thoughts, memories and delusions are just that and periferal. It has stopped me identifying myself with my diagnosis which is a relief as it is not all. Thank you. Peace, love and joy.
I like the way she pauses and really looks at the students between what she says x
If someone still has doubts about feminine spiritual leadership, should listen to this woman.
I listened and I still have doubts
@@haggishead7558 that's very sad. She speaks great wisdom with great clarity.
The reality is that for hundreds of thousands of years of human history (that has been forgotten because it was before history was recorded), women ran communities, society, families and were the spiritual upkeepers for us all being priestesses, oracles, shamans etc. The evidence for this are the talismans, deities, objects etc that have been dug up from megalithic/stone age populations and beyond. I saw something which said, if the whole of human history was the length of a year, the stone age lasted until 31 Dec @ 1600.
In hunter gatherer societies, the men did not run the communities, women did. All men did was go out every few weeks, drunk/high, and come back, if lucky, with some meat. Often, they didn't and communities survived on the berries etc that the women had picked. Children just would not have survived without the love, care, support and devotion of women. Look at your typical mother with children and see how hard she works, selflessly. Most men do not have the capacity to just work that hard in the same way.
At some point, men (who were largely useless, lets be honest!), supressed women through strength, violence and cemented themselves in culture via religion and the birth of civilisation (i.e. cities). We have (and still are) supressed the feminine, because men are highly insecure and actually, humanity does not need men, only their sperm to procreate. Many females animals eat their mates after mating because they serve no further purpose. Their job is done and they must now sacrifice themselves for the future spawn.
I am speaking as a cis gendered man and gained this wisdom from having watched many ancient history documentaries and visiting museums with ancient objects. Through this, it became very clear to me the injustice the egos of men have subjected women to.
There is no word in this teaching about feminine vs masculine path, about leadership or other artificial concepts created by our minds. This is about discovering our true nature and the infinite paths you can take to achieve enlightenment.
Emaho! Amazing teaching! Amazing teacher! So clear! On point! Supreme! ✨🙏✨
I am blessed to have met this amazing woman. It’s is remarkable to be in her physical presence🙏🏼
Amazing teaching from Ven.Tenzin Palmo! Thank you for uploading it! I can listen to her anytime...Rejoice!!!
We're lucky to have this teaching from this very wise Ani who really knows how to communicate the Dharma.
We are very lucky to be able to listen to your Satsang. Thankyou
I watch this at least once or twice a year. Just to check in just to see where I’m at what I’m missing where I need to go. It really is a remarkable dharma talk. ❤❤❤
Ani Tenzi's teach are so inspirational. My heart feels open been in the moment with her.
Thanks for this video.
Dear Jetsunma... Thank you so much For the wonderful teachings...
Her presence is really miracle!
As is yours
Incredible; Her teaching ranges from Samatha, Vipassana (including cognitive behavior theory/therapy principles) through identity clinging/disturbance all the way to pure vision teachings, the most down to earth and stripped down, accurate teachings on pure vision and tantra I remember ever hearing. Bless you, Jetsunma Tenzin Palmo, and thank you for your life, your attainment and your generosity.
yes i like it alot. she doesnt speak in riddles. very easy to follow. alot of other teachers make it more complicated than it needs to be to get the point across
Thank you for posting this . I heard Jetsuma Tenzin Palmo on The Lion’s Roar . Podcast . Very interesting interview . I’m learning about her . I already feel a open heart and calm mind listening to her . 🌟🙏🏻✨
It's a beautiful gift. Thankyou.
So deep! So clear! Thank you for sharing this gem. “Priceless!”
Thank you Michael for the tape. Thank you Tenzin Palmo for your heart opening talk.
I understand, Buddhism is practice of compassion, mindfulness in our heart and mind.
Very inspiring, I have alot to learn from you.
clarity, wisdom, simplicity, profundity. What else to ask for?
I'm happy to have shared this video, which I had for many years (got it in India), but unfortunately it's the only one I have, sorry
Michael Scalet Thankyou.
Thank you 😊
thanks for sharing!
Thank you. X
Thank you really much. This video is very interesting. Could you advice me a good book on paramita? I'm a newly interested in buddhism.
Wow I was so stuck and then found this video. It totally changed my perspective. Thanks you so much.
Thanks so much for sharing. What a master piece of wisdom
Listened to many lectures on inner awareness, but this is the v first time I can feel that u hv really really exper it & showing us this truth so vividly. My utmost gratitude to u coz I really needed to feel this truth in me & my determination to walk on this path is getting stronger with ur each word🙏🙏🙏
This is absolutely breathtaking.... Thank you so much for sharing.
Thank you for your generosity of shearing this jewel!
Thank you Michael for your sharing with a good talk of Ven. Jetsunma Tenzin Palmo. Very inspiring...
🙏 v v grateful to MS for sharing this excellent, insightful video.
This changed my life.
Namasté Michael. Quelle lumière ! J'ai pris refuge avec Tenzin en 2011 à Tashi Jong, dans sa nonnerie, un souvenir merveilleux et immuable.
Beautiful talk. Immense gratitude.
On Mani Padmi Hu, blessed me and all the santient being who are in depth suffering due to their ignorance .
My beloved one shared this video with me. It’s the treasury he offered me
Thank you for uploading this video. I am so happy to watch it
I love your talk. You are amazing
So many ways of saying the truth. Wonderful teaching. I keep returning to zenmind beginners mind. The teaching is the same. Hail Amitabha butsu.
Thank you from the heart. We never meet in this life, but you have become, nevertheless, one of my most helpful dharma friends.
We are truly blessed to have the opportunity to listen to venerable s teachings
Amazing talk! Thank you :)
Thank you Michael - somehow she speaks in a manner that works for me. "If we know ourselves, we are always home..." (- Glinda, played by Lena Horne from "The Wiz") The Wisdom Mind that she speaks of is our own Inner Guru, and with this we can turn the world into our teacher - even the people that are awful to us - they in particular can be our teachers.
thank you Michael Scalet, for uploading this video. If you have any such video, please make them available for us))
thankyou for the video.... greeting from bali island😇
I had to watch that 5 times. I'm so glad I did.
IM GOING TO download this and listen everytime i can
Thank you for posting. Deeply appreciated!
🙏🏽🙇🏽🙏🏽🙇🏽🙏🏽🙇🏽 thank you so much!!!
formless truth and divine pride are very high values for a seed of "Buddhahood",
I'm watching and getting her suggestions about Buddha's teaching in Oct.2024.
However being a female and western native, the way she speaks and expresses her feelings about buddha nature are easily understandable and meaningful, she has potential and cultivated a lot.
Thank you very much for sharing this video... This is really an eye opener....
Thank you for sharing! It really inspiring.
Such admiration for this lady
I like the bird sounds in the background.
Thank you for sharing this with us.🙏
thanks for posting!
Thanks for sharing, Michael!
Kyabsu che Jetsun Tenzin Palmo 🙏
thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏
Beautiful ❤️❤️
Thank you for downloading these precious teachings.
Thanks for sharing this video
Thank you ! 🙏🏻
Thank you
absolutely beautiful!
Great teacher.....and a woman....
Thank you for sharing!!!!
I wish I had more, thank you!
while watching this last night, i resolved to live my life in a more mindful and compassionate way. as i said this, the room suddenly filled with a STRONG smell of roses. like, intoxicatingly strong. from nowhere. it only lasted maybe half a minute, but it was so strong. not sure what it means... probably a sign
Brilliant Teacher!
There is a nice informative documentary of Venerable Palmo’s journey. Meetings filmed with His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama, and her other teachers as well as what she is doing to help women monastics get better access to scripture education including debate practices to sharpen understanding of the teachings. Jetsumma Tenzin Palmo is pretty impressive as a teacher and communicator of the practice. Documentary is called “cave in the snow”
Women have the best hearts because they know more keenly what it means to be oppressed and downtrodden. Namo Buddhaya, love to all beloved sisters of the Sangha.
Wow!!!❤️♥️❤️♥️♥️❤️🙏🏼♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️
Magnificent power and strength
The teacher was very keen on "do you understand ?" Did anyone NOT understand I wonder.?...A very cerebral, conceptual, wordy, lengthy talk with plenty of specific do's and don'ts !
Admirable woman
Those final comments about cultural symbols really flipped a switch.
I think this is the same idea that Carl jung was exploring but I think he got a bit lost in the weeds along the way.
my answer to the question about Master-Disciple relationships: You will recognize a genuine Master after allowing their ENERGY - Presence to reveal itself to you, to show you, in a little time, or a little more time, what happens to you as a result of their Presence. You will FEEL, SENSE, who & what they are. If they are GENUINE you will feel God-goodness-positive feelings & dreams. This might be immediate, it might take days, weeks, sometimes longer. If the Master is genuine, living or dead, they will grant you answers to prayer or you can ask them questions & they will answer you mentally within a day or more. They will also help you with problems or needs, anything you present to them. A problem that occurs is when a disciple believes in a living person too quickly, & like Her Holiness explains, there are many fakes out there. Some of them have skills & abilities. {Haha, look at the preachers on Trinity Broadcasting, the prosperity preachers, they are sales people looking to make money, very persuasive. Part 2 next post.
Loved this so much. Anyone know where I can find the nature of mind video, shot at Tashin Jong in 1999 by Tenzin Palmo?
Lovely.
Yes
I do understand
Love her
I love you Tenzin
“Humility means no I”
We must all learn this sacred lesson...that Shangri-la,s only exist in the imagination.
Superb
on her website you can buy other teachings shop.tenzinpalmo.com/collections/jetsunma-tenzin-palmo-teachings-collection-and-biography
Chào bạn! Tôi là 1 nữ tu sĩ việt nam.và rất vui khi được nghe bài pháp ý nghĩa này.Nó đem lại lợi ích cho tôi.và tôi mong có cơ hội liên hệ trực tiếp với Sư.và bạn có biết email của Sư không ạ? Xin hoan hỷ chia sẽ đến tôi.cảm ơn bạn rất nhiều
WOOOOHOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! yes
from 1:01:01 to 1:08:05 This is just priceless.
🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏👏
I like her sharp eyes!!!
🙏
Abandon hope when you lend anyone a book - true that
THXaLOT
Will English subtitle available please? Thank you so much 🙏
Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu!
👍💖
❤❤
Her book tho... 👀
Namo Amitabhaya
Tenzin Palmo: Hv you carefully looked at some of the most ancient artistic renderings of Buddah??? Please do. I hvnt looked w any attn for a long while, yet seem to recall some Very Female looking statues of Buddha. I just did a slight search online, to be sure I hadn't recalled incorrectly. I hadn't.
" 'Just sayin'."
m watching this...instead of naked women on internet....this is a huge step towards nirvana.
At 45:44, she says, "Then, we are in a state of total _______?_________ but we are enlightened" Can anyone understand what word she used between 'total' and 'but'? I want to know what state we are totally in at that point. I cannot find any word that fits, but it sounds like she says, 'vrik' which is not a word.
I think she says "Rigpa", which would be Vidya in sanscrit (knowledge).
By the way there is no "but", she says "then we are in a state of total rigpa, we're enlightened. (I wanted to point that out to make sure you didn't get it wrong)
Very interesting. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you. Thanks to Xuan Zang, as I located the villages the Buddha was prayed to as a local deity, Xuan Zang also took me to fifty Buddha relic stupas including Ashoka's first Buddha relic stupa and two of his own relic stupas.
Oh you again?
@@misanthropelife Don't worry. I have done my job of sharing my findings. I won't disturb you or anyone again. I apologize for inconvenience caused.
13:40 🙏
I met this woman, didn't know who she was but as she looked familiar I enthusiastically and respectfully asked if she lived at a temple I visited in London. She said no, somewhat puzzled I began to ask where she was based, when she arrogantly dismissed me, as though shooing me away, saying I can't talk I have to go. I didn't act like I was minding my own business going to my car and she came in front of me about to get into her chauffeur driven car.
My point is that whilst they put on piety when in an audience with the Dalai Lama or fake wisdom on camera. If you encounter them in person they are worse than ordinary people, who would generally give you the time of day. These supposed religious people have more vices than the rest of us, and gargantuan egos. This happened at a small celebration of select people for the Dalai Lama's birthday. Hence people truly involved with Buddhism, not some random people.
People find your own way, don't listen to these charlatans in robes because they're in it only for themselves and will not help you.
Once a fishmongers daughter always a....
Do you see that your way of greeting her is all about you...everything in your account is all about you "a temple I visited," "somewhat puzzled," "as though shooing me away," "I was minding my business," "a small celebration of select people....Hence people truly involved with Buddhism," the last being a curious way to describe buddhists. "Select people"? In other words everything in your paragraph is about distinctions with you somehow being excluded from the narrative of people 'deserving attention.' If you had simply asked her name as opposed to where she fit into your life, perhaps you would have gotten a more responsive answer. It may be about you is the point I'm making...and your blanket condemnation of"charlatans in robes" really gives away the game. Yes, there are charlatans, but she is most certainly not one of them. It is really all about your hurt feelings, your bruised ego...she gave you a gift.
@@davidherz9968 Sermon over, oh enlightened one?
I’m not sure how her advice helps the woman who needs help letting go of her lost mother. Letting go of the false self would feel like letting go of her connection to her mother, no?