LOL: Woke TikTok Attacks TRAD WIVES | Michael Knowles REACTS

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  • There is a new trend out there in the world TikTok, and that is trashing women who promote tradition gender roles in a marriage. Here is Michael's reaction to a few of the best trad-wife meltdowns on the internet. Enjoy.
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  • @JennFredrickson
    @JennFredrickson Рік тому +4203

    Imagine being so self-centered that the idea of caring for someone else is horrific. I’m a trad wife and I love it. Taking care of someone I love brings me joy. It’s so silly. When you love someone, you want to do kind things for them…I love caring for him and it’s a wonderful way to show him how much I appreciate how hard he works to provide.

    • @shoegal7
      @shoegal7 Рік тому +219

      Traditional wife here, too. I wouldn't want it any other way.

    • @TheUniverseWorksForUsBeings
      @TheUniverseWorksForUsBeings Рік тому +54

      They are giving these "common knowledge kindness" all kinds of names. This is outrageous to me. This I why she will either end up alone, or with someone just as self centered. I'm tired of the attack on childrens innocence, being a born woman, men being the protector/woman the nurturing...fk these people I pray they find their true essence in life, and doesn't keep living in some out there world. I love taking care of my family, cooking ,cleaning, pleasing my partner....I do snap back at times...I'm learning to not come from that place as much.
      I'm not going to pretend that its OK either. Abortion isn't just a women's issue.... it effects many, it's a life that starts at the time of conception. They can make their choices that are available (abortion, being a masculine female, love who they choose as an adult etc etc...but none of this belongs in school..sexualizing children, pushing their ideals on everyone and waving itnin peoples faces everywhere it seems...what ever happened to people minding their own households, keeping your sex life behind closed doors...being a kind human being????

    • @ArchShin
      @ArchShin Рік тому

      Please do not disrespect yourself with the term Trad-Wife.
      You're a virtuous woman not a Trad-Wife.
      The left create names to make it look bad.

    • @Quincy_Morris
      @Quincy_Morris Рік тому +63

      Don’t use their terminology. Talking how they talk is a small victory for them.

    • @MisstyG
      @MisstyG Рік тому

      That is by Jehovah God's design. Those people are FAR from Him, serving Satan, and fully bent on destroying America, for the past 150 years.

  • @dmc8706
    @dmc8706 Рік тому +1193

    As a single man, I say this with some humility.
    It seems obvious to me that it is the role of both the husband and the wife to be in service to each other and to their children.

    • @willworkforyarn4893
      @willworkforyarn4893 Рік тому +52

      And why are you still single?? You could be quite a great spouse!!

    • @barbarabaker1457
      @barbarabaker1457 Рік тому

      ​@@willworkforyarn4893TRUTH. You'd be amazed how many decent people are single though. It splits into thirds. One third marry the right person and it sticks, another third well... The opposite. The last third, life or opportunity issues: Abuse, sickness, slim pickings ect. And for some reason Genuinely awful people love to prey on the good the instant they become vulnerable for any reason.

    • @fraserfir19
      @fraserfir19 Рік тому +12

      As a 34 yr guy of mixed raced White & East Asian descent I've been single for about 17 years now because the women and people in general in my area in Mass are racially prejudiced against me because of my mixed raced back round so I've just decided to never date and stay single, also I fear what their parents and friends would thinks if they knew their daughter or friend was with someone like myself it's pretty terrifying, other than that though I personally don't think I'll ever marry or have my own family and considering the current state of America socio economic, academic and cultural decline that might not be such a bad thing.

    • @be_reselient
      @be_reselient Рік тому +2

      How does a Husband serve his Wife?

    • @dmc8706
      @dmc8706 Рік тому +53

      @Shahn Khan To some extent that depends on the couple. There are multiple versions of relationships that people follow.
      In the case of my parents, my father ran a business and provided the income. He also did a lot of repair work on the cars and fixed the house and helped to plan and lead projects on improving the house and the yard. He also took time with his wife, my mom, and took time with us as well.
      He provided advice. he provided guidance. This is disrespected by many people but it shouldn't be. This is an important service that a father can provide to his family.
      Mom and dad built goals together and worked together to accomplish those goals. They both were and are a team. They function well together.
      My mom is a traditional wife and she is Very happy in that role. She loves my dad immensely.

  • @bananasinpajamasobviously1738
    @bananasinpajamasobviously1738 Рік тому +105

    In collage I took an art class where we were supposed to depict our dream life in the future. The professor went around and asked us what we chose for the assignment. I told him I want to be a wife and stay at home mom. He was visibly grossed out, crumpled up the paper in his hand and threw it at my face... It was humiliating. This was 10 years ago...I'm happy to say I'm married to the most amazing man and a stay at home momma who homeschools my 2 beautiful babies. I AM LIVING MY DREAM!

    • @ellag8068
      @ellag8068 Рік тому +4

      And your family is most likely better off for it! Kudos to you! I like to work, but my hubby would make a great tradhusband. It’s his dream job and I’d love to be able to one day make that happen for him. I’m sure folks will go mad with that one!

    • @rafaelbarbosa7423
      @rafaelbarbosa7423 Рік тому

      Hi, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!

    • @bespokearms
      @bespokearms 4 місяці тому +3

      And that is what Americans call assault. The teacher is lucky you chose not to defend yourself and get him arrested.

  • @Chelbasaur
    @Chelbasaur Рік тому +108

    Seeing my husband's face when he smiles at me when I hand him his lunch before he heads to work in the morning starts my day off so wonderfully.
    Bringing him his dinner and he gives me that smile and says "thank you, Sugar" -is everything.
    True fulfillment is a great feeling.

    • @Magepure6749
      @Magepure6749 Рік тому +4

      Aww, that was so nice and heartwarming to read. Hope the best for both of you, live long and in love!

    • @rafaelbarbosa7423
      @rafaelbarbosa7423 Рік тому +1

      @treespweese That's is so cute, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!

  • @dylanschweitzer18
    @dylanschweitzer18 Рік тому +1242

    "I do not find fulfillment in being a wife or a mother." - A wife and a mother
    I feel so sorry for this family

    • @janicefinch3563
      @janicefinch3563 Рік тому +51

      I think she meant being a wife and mother isn't her single source of fulfillment and that she wouldn't want to only be a wife and mother. Plenty of men would be depressed if they were stay at home dads and didn't get to pursue their professional passions. It doesn't mean they don't love their wives and kids though.

    • @ryangreenwood208
      @ryangreenwood208 Рік тому +23

      @@janicefinch3563 that’s probably true. My parents took turns being stay at home mothers. But I think my Dad enjoyed it more. However, my mom is definitely the better cook.

    • @janicefinch3563
      @janicefinch3563 Рік тому +7

      @@ryangreenwood208 That's awesome!

    • @kaugh
      @kaugh Рік тому +12

      Even if it's true, I think the stay at home moms typically have great dads to stay at home for. When a woman is miserable I don't blame her individually, she might have one of those guys guys, that looks good on paper or from the outside but is basically an overgrown child. I've seen too many times, women just staying in awful situations with a false sense of purpose and feeling needed. No honey, you're just being used, and you should leave literally anywhere else.

    • @ryangreenwood208
      @ryangreenwood208 Рік тому +2

      @@kaugh maybe not anywhere else cause there’s always someplace worse.
      But I agree on the whole

  • @reginagilby1101
    @reginagilby1101 Рік тому +1634

    If they were really serious about feminism they would try to stop bio men competing in women’s sports

    • @destined4purgatory643
      @destined4purgatory643 Рік тому

      Too busy attacking real women. Much easier for them.

    • @peepeepoopoostudios3887
      @peepeepoopoostudios3887 Рік тому +11

      Actually that perfectly fits with the feminist worldview

    • @abcdefghij337
      @abcdefghij337 Рік тому

      Methinks they always hated women, and wanted them to become corporate slaves.

    • @ncrob391
      @ncrob391 Рік тому +62

      Agreed. I cannot understand their rationale for accepting "transwomen" as women who are, bottom surgery or not, still biologically male.

    • @kherise
      @kherise Рік тому +49

      Exactly! They keep saying they defend women above all but then they leave women behind in favor of some delusional man. Like what ? That’s why I don’t declare myself part of this movement anymore, it’s just f up

  • @MJ-jw8nb
    @MJ-jw8nb Рік тому +325

    I just "woke up" roughly 2 years ago, and realized 9 years of a high paying career, actually didn't satisfy me in the slightest. Realized I hated my career, even being my own boss, and was "sick of myself" with nothing actually challenging me.
    So a close friend and my incredible hubby worked with me through it, and I realized my actual dream (that I had smothered to death due to cultural expectations) was to be a TRAD wife. 6 months in, expecting our first baby, I've never been this happy!!! I adore my husband, am thrilled when he comes home and I can greet him and enjoy time together! I love having a clean home, cooking delicious meals, making meaningful friendships with other moms/community, and working on self improvement. I look forward to investing fully into my kids, husband, and community.
    I realized it's much more fulfilling to be self-less for the sake of others, than to be self-focused just for the sake of money.

    • @user-erick007
      @user-erick007 Рік тому +5

      ♥️♥️♥️

    • @kristenkane
      @kristenkane Рік тому

      💞💞✨✨✨✨

    • @marymeyer6905
      @marymeyer6905 Рік тому +16

      I have been a traditional wife, mom, ganny and greatganny since I was 17...I'm 75 now.
      Sure we didn’t have many of the 'toys' others NEED to "keep up with the Jonses",
      HOWEVER, we loved, had fun together, homeschooled/Christian schooled, learned to love Jesus together, served others, lived on a budget and learned 'if something is worth having it's worth saving and paying cash for. We've always owned very nice homes and automobiles. Our needs were always met on my husbands salary, which was average blue color, because we didn't chase after the world. Now we are retired and paid cash for our 4 BR
      home on 7 acres with a barn in the country. My wonderful husbands dream. We have future treasures in Heaven
      with our 4 children, 6 grandchildren, and soon to be 11 great grandchildren.
      Life couldn't be more blessed.
      Being a stay-at-home
      wife/mother was the best decision for our family.
      Besides...someone figured how much it would cost to replace a wife for what she does for her family....
      Cook, maid, tutor, doctor mom, seamstress, babysitter,
      driver to sports, protector, the list goes on. It was found cost was higher than a dad could afford. What they didn’t considered was LOVE... you can't put a price on a mothers love for her children...
      We learned if you truly want something you'll figure out a way to do it together.
      Oh...P.S. prayer works
      God bless you all❤

    • @MJ-jw8nb
      @MJ-jw8nb Рік тому +1

      @@marymeyer6905 I love your comment! It sounds like the dream!!!

    • @joshuareagan8819
      @joshuareagan8819 Рік тому +1

      Epic. Thank you for your testimony

  • @chelechele5871
    @chelechele5871 Рік тому +136

    Years ago my 23 year old daughter had an assignment in elementary school where they had to answer the question, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" She was the only one who said she wanted to be a mother. The teacher thought it was funny and the other kids laughed at her. I was so proud of her. She now has a Biology degree and decided to forego medical school because she wants to raise a family someday. She works hard and enjoys her career path, but she still yearns to be a mother. She told me she wants to raise her child and not have someone else raise her child.

    • @lawlietlawliet
      @lawlietlawliet Рік тому +5

      I said the same when I was a kid. That I wanted to be a mother. But I’m sure I meant I wanted to be like my mom.

    • @supersyaz2871
      @supersyaz2871 Рік тому +3

      Congratulations to you for raising a wonderful daughter that values a family and children. Awesome job mom!

    • @karamlevi
      @karamlevi Рік тому

      Nice to see zero energy aimed at husband, father 👨🏽… because statistically they are powerful to keep kids mentally healthy and safer adults…
      But who needs that 😂

    • @chelechele5871
      @chelechele5871 Рік тому +1

      @@karamlevi Since you asked he was involved until he chose heroin over being a husband and father.

    • @isabellaeleina
      @isabellaeleina 2 місяці тому

      The problem is that a lot of those trad influencers are against what your daughter did. They think girls shouldn't go to school, just completely rely on a man, even though he may ruin her. That Estee lady has failed plans time and time again so she decided to just marry rich, she's a failure. Influencers are bad people. Your daughter is amazing though

  • @ahoggan230
    @ahoggan230 Рік тому +594

    I guess now we can accuse them if being tradwifephobic. 🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏

    • @clarkwatson3217
      @clarkwatson3217 Рік тому

      So gay.
      Give them the finger, be happy, and trash the left at every moment.
      Humiliate them, make fun of them. Recover the your American Culture

    • @dianem6951
      @dianem6951 Рік тому +45

      They all ready are Christianphobes.

    • @swagbat5571
      @swagbat5571 Рік тому +5

      ​@Diane M yes they are and its sad :/

    • @perrylc8812
      @perrylc8812 Рік тому +3

      New words that I could have never imagined in my wildest dreams back when I was these people’s age. This totally blows my mind.

    • @alenahawke475
      @alenahawke475 Рік тому +3

      Nailed it! 😂!

  • @chrishellize
    @chrishellize Рік тому +457

    I'm a 'trad wife' of twenty years. Not only do I do all the domestic chores (every single one of them) but I also help on the farm. I suppose you could call that being in service to your family, I just think of it as doing what needs to be done. My husband also spends incredibly long hours in all kinds of weather on the farm, doing what needs to be done. As far as I can see, these women are just looking for an ideology that makes them feel morally superior while celebrating LAZINESS.

    • @kherise
      @kherise Рік тому +25

      I was also thinking that laziness is the main reason behind all this whining about traditional roles 🥴😒
      Congratulations for being such a hardworking woman 👏👏👏

    • @abbyxiong3931
      @abbyxiong3931 Рік тому +12

      Facts. They want to say they need to be lazy and unhappy and it's not their fault.

    • @hismajesty6272
      @hismajesty6272 Рік тому +1

      👍

    • @chrishellize
      @chrishellize Рік тому +1

      @@kherise

    • @Fiona2254
      @Fiona2254 Рік тому +7

      Same here. Been married for almost 35 years and the happiest I’ve been is when I retired and realized that house work, cooking and caring for the family wasn’t the awful thing I was taught. I’m happiest now doing the house work and whatever other job needs done at our homestead. He also does what needs done, it’s a partnership. If we don’t do it then what will become of our home? It’s not just him I’m doing stuff for but for us as a couple.
      If that makes me a trae wife then I’m perfectly fine with it.

  • @deep5811
    @deep5811 Рік тому +34

    "Traditional woman are dangerous." She actually said that. 😂 the irony

  • @vinniehuds76
    @vinniehuds76 Рік тому +11

    I was drinking water the moment he said “Hitler drank water, why are you drinking water” I nearly spat it out lmao 2:34

  • @daxisperry7644
    @daxisperry7644 Рік тому +253

    "Feminism is all about giving women the power to do whatever they want!"
    Oh? I really wanna be a mom and housewife.
    "oH mY gOd! YoU aRe So StUpId!"

    • @AA...2000
      @AA...2000 Рік тому +7

      Pretty much 😅

    • @sillygostly
      @sillygostly Рік тому +5

      @@AA...2000 : Minor point, but libs are more likely to say “oH mY gOsH!” 🤪

    • @AA...2000
      @AA...2000 Рік тому +4

      @@sillygostly 🤣

    • @clarkwatson3217
      @clarkwatson3217 Рік тому +1

      Feminism is there to turn you into a Far Left progressive tras

    • @MaratheSamoyed
      @MaratheSamoyed Рік тому +2

      This. It’s so annoying.

  • @mamasgun21
    @mamasgun21 Рік тому +546

    I’m a stay-at-home homeschooling mother. I will be forever grateful for my husband for being our breadwinner so I can do this. I’ve literally never felt more powerful, especially considering the state of American public schools 😉. I tried working for a year during the pandemic and it just meant both of us were coming home exhausted and hungry and with little patience left for the kids or each other.

    • @tracypolselli1464
      @tracypolselli1464 Рік тому +12

      My niece is homeschooling too. I took her place for one week so she and my nephew in-law could go on vacation. I was exhausted. Her husband is the bread winner, gets home from work and jumps right in to run the kids around to their activities and make dinner. I say bravo to all of you.

    • @victoriakarman2091
      @victoriakarman2091 Рік тому +12

      Same! I appreciate the rights I have to stay home to be a woman and service my family. And for those who go out into the world and make that money good on you too. That’s called freedom. You do you I’ll do me and let’s be friends not enemies

    • @AliceinJapanaland
      @AliceinJapanaland Рік тому +11

      Exactly. Being a stay home mom is already 3 jobs in 1: Cook, maid, babysitter. It's so much work - especially with very young kiddos.
      As someone who had fulltime jobs before my baby, I can't imagine trying to work full time and then coming home and doing the cooking, clean up, and trying to be a pleasant mom and wife through all the fatigue, day after day. Just, no, thank you. You can keep it, please.

    • @NyssaOwens
      @NyssaOwens Рік тому +12

      Yay for a homemaking mother! That's me too. Homemaker. Stay at home and homeschooling.

    • @donquijote6030
      @donquijote6030 Рік тому +5

      Well stated and well done! You will find so.much more joy and fulfillment in life in being the most vital part to creating a family that transcends a single lifetime. Your husband and children will forever be in your debt.

  • @thebumblebeemovie3514
    @thebumblebeemovie3514 Рік тому +12

    My mother was criticized for wanting to be a mom when she grew up. She ended up having me early in her adult years and committed to being a mom for me. Now my mother is a happy Christian Trad wife and mother of eight children, all with the same man who is a Trad husband. We live a happy and God blessed life, if she had listened to people tell her “being a mom was not a good job” than we wouldn’t have the life we do now.

  • @ginamccants3557
    @ginamccants3557 Рік тому +23

    I agree so much about how fulfilling and enriching being a traditional wife is. I have 2 degrees, traveled several countries, had lots of experiences but I’ve never been happier than being a SAHMW. There is always plenty to do with running a home, budget, cleaning, meals, maintenance, child and animal care, appointments, etc. I appreciate and respect my husband and all the hard work he does to provide for his family. He’s an amazing, loving, generous and compassionate soul. He has allowed all of us to have a full and blessed life.💜

  • @alpharam1095
    @alpharam1095 Рік тому +544

    Being a Wife and Mother is such an honor. To be the Hearth keeper of your home is a sacred duty.

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 Рік тому

      MISERY NEEDS COMPANY,. IT IS ALWAYS A HONOUR FOR WOMEN, AL YOU HAVE TO DO IS OPEN YOUR VAGINA, WOMEN HATE USING THEIR BRAINS.

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 Рік тому

      iT is only women that do not get education, no job, no life and you get praised for it because men need someone to dominate and control and yet you think you have sense. you have no value without men, now I get why most women get sad when they get pregnant with girls. Walking womb

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 Рік тому

      With how jobless you are , I hope you have money to keep fit and extremely beauty. It is the same career women that your husband will cheat on you with. Men are attracted to intelligence not dull heads.

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 Рік тому +2

      But I guess trad wife, comes with the cheating package.

    • @snowflake2910
      @snowflake2910 Рік тому +13

      ​@@annaolokede4582 Yeah. Men do cheat more, but it's up to you to pick one that has a good moral compass.

  • @LV_Shef
    @LV_Shef Рік тому +331

    I love being a young "trad" wife. In August, my husband and I will be celebrating 5 years of marriage. We have two children and it just makes more sense for me to be a stay at home "trad" wife. Women are better at being homemakers and caretakers. I don't care how offensive that may be to hear for someone. It's true. To be a wife, especially a traditional wife, is so demonized in today's world and that blows my mind completely. Why? Let me tell you...
    My husband and I come from broken homes. My father is your stereotypical deadbeat and my mother had no business attempting to play "mother." My husband's father left when he was young. Shortly after, his mother gave up her parental rights because "being a mom to the 3 kids she CHOSE to have was just too hard" so his grandparents stepped in to adopt him along with his siblings.
    We both wish we had a "traditional family" unit. I was raised by my mom but let me emphasize that I NEVER had a mother. I don't wish the absence of family functionality on anyone. I lived with a non traditional mom. I watched her be a "non traditional wife" twice and a "super non trad cool girlfriend" to multiple men. She introduced me to men who played "step dad" year after year. She toted me around state to state. I went from house to house but none ever felt like home. The only siblings I have are half siblings from my deadbeat dad and they are just as punctured as I still am by my childhood chaos at 26.
    In my opinion, the traditional family unit is best. When I think of a traditional wife I think of the ultimate caretaker who prides herself in the art of homemaking. She is consistently present in her children's and husband's life. She believes in social etiquette inside and outside of the home. She has standards. She radiates class. She teaches actual life skills to her children and devotes herself to her family. To me, being a traditional wife is the most rewarding route to take in life.
    I give my biggest applause to the husbands and wives who also come from chaotic backgrounds yet devote themselves daily to creating a traditional family unit. Despite the hurt we carry from our childhoods we strive to be better than what hurt us. We also understand that the best solution to combat that sort of dysfunction from continuing in the world is to practice being a better example for others to gain inspiration from. ❤

    • @publictoilet1970
      @publictoilet1970 Рік тому +26

      Thank you for sharing. After hearing your back story, I applaud you and your husband. God bless you both and your family!!

    • @intoalivinghope
      @intoalivinghope Рік тому +8

      💯

    • @LV_Shef
      @LV_Shef Рік тому +7

      @@publictoilet1970 Thank you for your kind words. ❤

    • @DestionoConfabiloa
      @DestionoConfabiloa Рік тому +14

      @Lv_Shef i congratulate you for being a traditional young wife 🙏🏼 even after the upbringing that you had and congrats to your traditional husband too 🙏🏼🙏🏼 you guys sounds amazing! Because you could have chosen the non traditional way! But since you saw the example of non traditional wife and husband in your parents, you didn’t want to do the same! YOU BROKE THE CHAINS! Now you are starting a brand new tradicional life with your husband and you will give your children a GREAT EXAMPLE OF A TRADITIONAL FAMILY🙏🏼 and they will do the same when they get older 🙏🏼 GOD BLESS YOUR TRADITIONAL FAMILY ❤️🙏🏼.. my parents have been super traditional they have been married for 50 years and all of my siblings have been in traditional marriages too🙏🏼🙏🏼 IT’S TRULY THE BEST WAY FOR US, for the children and our communities🙏🏼

    • @Un1234l
      @Un1234l Рік тому +6

      It is precisely due to that affection for one's family, and the grit and perseverance involved that makes you and your husband rare in modern society.
      Society has rotted. How few people of that calibre are left now? Thoes with love and integrity as their core being?

  • @lisari6246
    @lisari6246 Рік тому +15

    I am very far away from being a trad wife (just learned the term tbh) but I am really glad so many women in the comments here are proud to be one and happily enjoy their life with their husbands. I am not from the US and I wasnt aware it is such a topic for women over there. You make your choices for yourself and your families and I think there is absolutely no need to explain yourself to anybody that makes other choices. Greets from Europe 🙋‍♀️

  • @RainyDayz1991
    @RainyDayz1991 Рік тому +13

    I've been a "traditional wife" to the same man for 28 years. I'm also raising 2 boys. I was told by a feminist a couple years ago, that I am setting a bad example for my sons because I enjoy taking care of my family 😏. I have taught my sons how to take care of themselves, yet because I enjoy taking care of my home, cooking for my family, etc, I am setting a bad example which will lead my sons to expect the same from their future wives. Yep. I can only hope. 👍🏻

    • @lbarton4062
      @lbarton4062 Рік тому +1

      Been a 'traditional wife" for 26 years. Guess I've been setting the "bad example", too. Our son says he wants to find someone more like me! Not having much luck these days...

    • @RainyDayz1991
      @RainyDayz1991 Рік тому

      @L Barton
      It is VERY hard to find young women who think like us. My 18 yr old son told me the other day that he doesn't think a "traditional girl" his age exists. Add on top of that the fact that we are Christians. He said he hasn't met a girl his age yet who is still a virgin and doesn't drink and party. The ones at church are either already taken or have no interest in a relationship. I told him to stop looking and just focus on himself for a while. God will bring him together with someone if it's meant to be. It's easier said than done though when you're an 18 year old boy 💁‍♀️.

  • @amandataylor1843
    @amandataylor1843 Рік тому +246

    Wow, as a stay at home mom who homeschools five children and thinks my role in the home is the highest calling, I didn’t know I was so dangerous! 😂

    • @sdlorah6450
      @sdlorah6450 Рік тому +24

      You are a threat because you show a contented disposition of love and service to others. Your lifestyle is a stark contrast to a life of self-centeredness which feminism encourages. That love and service to your family helps make for a stable home life from which you all benefit.
      But godliness with contentment is great gain (1 Timothy 6:6).

    • @willworkforyarn4893
      @willworkforyarn4893 Рік тому +1

      @@sdlorah6450 Amen!

    • @willworkforyarn4893
      @willworkforyarn4893 Рік тому +1

      @@Charagrin Not sure but I think your message came to me in error. You may want to send it to Amanda or SD.

    • @Charagrin
      @Charagrin Рік тому +1

      If you aren't trying to force it on others, no one was talking to you. Do you find you make up things to defend yourself against like this often?

    • @Charagrin
      @Charagrin Рік тому

      @@willworkforyarn4893 Weird, it definitely had them @'ed. My bad.

  • @LindyLime
    @LindyLime Рік тому +508

    My husband came home from work last night so so tired and sad from the never ending grind of his job. I will never understand how self centered you have to be to not see the sacrifice a working husband makes.

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson Рік тому +16

      For real though!!

    • @billsattic
      @billsattic Рік тому +26

      30 years of hard work here. A supportive, loving wife is extremely important in keeping things together.

    • @silviamagda
      @silviamagda Рік тому +10

      Exactly! I am also a "trad wife" and my husband works a lot so that I can stay home with our daughter. In the winter he works 12-14 hours outside.

    • @believestthouthis7
      @believestthouthis7 Рік тому +13

      It truly is something to be appreciated. Husbands, with their sacrifice show how much they love their wives and children. It is a picture of the sacrifice Jesus Christ made for the church, in giving His life.
      Ephesians 5:24-25
      24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
      25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 Рік тому +6

      I do understand. I was a working wife.

  • @mtp0812
    @mtp0812 Рік тому +13

    As a woman, (a real one) I must say I really do not understand this logic. I have never in my life felt that I was pressured or expected to have a family or stay at home. I started out as a working single Mother. Then became a working married Mother. Just a few years ago became a married "trad Mom". I stay home and take care of our family. I did that by choice. I love it. I am grateful to be able to take care of my family and spend time with my kids while they're still at home. I have yet to witness any type of societal pressure to do what I love and am grateful to do.

  • @lindabolique72
    @lindabolique72 Рік тому +17

    I've never heard the term "trad wife" until now. Wow. I'm a traditional wife and mother and feel so fortunate that I was able to be one. I was able to nurture and watch my children as they grew up and I wouldn't have traded that for anything. It wasn't always easy. Most women have to work. Actually I worked part time most of the years so I feel like I had the best of both worlds. When I wasn't working though I was not ashamed of being a trad wife. I felt honored.

  • @MamaHDZ
    @MamaHDZ Рік тому +751

    I’m 26 and when I had my son 7 months ago, I decided to become a so called trad wife. Previously I was an elementary school teacher, but I felt called to stay home and take care of my family. My mother and most everyone else I know keeps asking me when I’m going back to work and what I’m going to do to contribute. My mom literally said to me once “you just stay home all day anyway” As if I don’t contribute. As if taking care of my infant son and my husband and home is not contributing. If you go back to work and send your kids to daycare to be raised by strangers you’re doing a good thing for your family, but if you stay home and raise your children yourself it’s like you’re being “lazy”. I do not understand it. I’m currently pregnant with my 2nd with no plans to go back to work. I love being able to stay home raise my children myself!

    • @ajsouza3720
      @ajsouza3720 Рік тому +27

      Congrats on the little one, boy or girl?

    • @EmeraldVideosNL
      @EmeraldVideosNL Рік тому +19

      Well said!

    • @julietteceku7554
      @julietteceku7554 Рік тому +16

      Good for you! ❤

    • @Elizabeth-qe6lk
      @Elizabeth-qe6lk Рік тому +24

      I wish you every success and blessing in raising your family and being CEO in your home. There are many contributions to society which are unseen but make the world of difference ❤

    • @myfairhousewife
      @myfairhousewife Рік тому +19

      It’s a beautiful thing. A difficult thing too! You are preparing the next generation to go out into a world that has been so warped and changed. And at this point we have to help our kids handle it. But also let them be kids! I homeschool as well. We didn’t just start, been going for 10 years. My husband works and he doesn’t expect me to be a full on trad wife. But I try because I love it. Some days it just doesn’t happen and I’m up to my eyeballs in stuff to be done. But I love cooking for my family, cleaning ( mostly 🤣), and loving on my family all the time. Life is so short. So I’d rather be with the people I love so much instead of out at a job around people I wouldn’t spend my FreeTime with.

  • @wendysimmons5906
    @wendysimmons5906 Рік тому +251

    Been a Christian trad wife all my life. I did not once judge other women/wives/moms who lived their lives different from mine. So grateful not to be a hater.

    • @kaybrown7733
      @kaybrown7733 Рік тому

      Thank you! I've always assumed that a prerequisite for being a conservative Christian was bible thumping judging others and demanding that everyone give up their freedom and believes just because they enjoy forcing their views on others. thanks for not being that person.

    • @p.doetsch6209
      @p.doetsch6209 Рік тому +19

      You don't have to be a hater to realize that God designed womanhood and God designed the tradwife. He didn't design the corporate wife.

    • @lucasdarianschwendlervieir3714
      @lucasdarianschwendlervieir3714 Рік тому +2

      ​@@kaybrown7733 but we must distinguish teaching from judging. Abandoning someone who makes bad choices to their fate is not love. The drug addict may think he has all the freedom in the world, but in truth he is enslaved to his vices.

    • @kaybrown7733
      @kaybrown7733 Рік тому

      @@lucasdarianschwendlervieir3714 It's not abandonment because we're not responsable for other people. Also judging never helps anyone it only makes them want to avoid you like the plague. The person on drugs has to.make the choice everyday to get and stay clean. It has nothing to do with your feelings on the matter. if it did no parent would be an addict because kids don't want addict parents. You can support their recovery but that's about it. I know that's a hard pill to swallow but its the truth.

    • @silviamagda
      @silviamagda Рік тому +1

      Yes, me neither.

  • @brookelefors9613
    @brookelefors9613 Рік тому +4

    Happy trad wife here! Love it! Have two beautiful babies that I get to take care of and not send them to a daycare or someone else to raise. My hubby provides for us so I do my part around the house and with the children. We were at a family get together recently and all the men were talking about their responsibilities around the house like dishes and laundry and my hubby was just quiet because he doesn’t have to do that lol I was so proud. Of course he is a kind human so if ever I need help he jumps right in. He’s also an amazing dad ❤ and of course he fixes anything that needs fixing. I love our life and I’m all about it ❤

  • @jenniferschroeder3086
    @jenniferschroeder3086 Рік тому +10

    I absolutely love being a Traditional Wife. My husband is my very best friend, and taking care of him, our Triplets, our 10 and 13 yr olds, is what brings me joy. It is also part of how I show him how much I appreciate him for taking care of all of us.
    What the hell makes these people think that women, or people in general, are trying to push the traditional roles on anyone? I don't give a shit what they do with their life. I don't even raise my own daughters to live the same way as me. Although they have an amazing role model in me, and my triplets DO want to "be a mommy", they also want to be a Doctor, a Firefighter, and an EMT. My oldest has always wanted to be in the military. She lives her everyday life preparing to be a Soldier. I'm proud of each of them, as well as my son, who wants to be a UA-camr.

  • @HughJorgan1
    @HughJorgan1 Рік тому +348

    Love the term “trad wife”! It should be mainstream along with “trad husband”.

    • @jakesully2868
      @jakesully2868 Рік тому +38

      We shortened that to Chad.

    • @TedEhioghae
      @TedEhioghae Рік тому +12

      No.
      Housewife is better.

    • @Emily-me
      @Emily-me Рік тому +24

      @@TedEhioghae I agree it tradwife kinda feels like “cis woman” to me. Like it’s a made up term meant to be insulting.

    • @Mob-es9jm
      @Mob-es9jm Рік тому +8

      Just say traditional ffs

    • @kherise
      @kherise Рік тому +4

      Yeah but the abreviation comes from the mob people so I’ll skip on that. Just say traditional pls

  • @kimberlycakes7236
    @kimberlycakes7236 Рік тому +589

    Proud trad wife here. My teachers and others use to criticize me when I was younger for not choosing a "career path" I wanted to be a mom. It's what I've always wanted and my phrase was always "I didn't have kids for someone else to raise them"
    I'm sure we coulda had more "material things" if I hadda worked but my kids were always my priority. My kids are grown and to this day I enjoy taking care of my husband and likewise he takes care of me.

    • @BrutePowerPunk95
      @BrutePowerPunk95 Рік тому +36

      Same. I had an English teacher who would get, quite literally, upset when my answer was that I wanted to be a mom. She's barrage me with questions like what if you're working, what if your bf/husband leaves you, who's going to pay your bills, etc etc. I'd be like, well first of all I'd be married and it's called the old fashioned idea of marrying for life not just because and second I wasn't looking for someone who I didn't feel would be a good partner especially with children. She never got it. I have my husband and kids and she's (last I knew) a miserable English teacher living alone.

    • @tjrrind1452
      @tjrrind1452 Рік тому +2

      You are a unicorn!

    • @greysfreak1992
      @greysfreak1992 Рік тому +2

      I am as well the only thing I wish school did was instead of college or career path they did a family path (sewing cooking child care stuff)

    • @randomfemaleopinion3167
      @randomfemaleopinion3167 Рік тому +6

      I'm a first time mom and want to take care of my kids but what do you do after they grow up and leave the house? Do you then go work? I want to go to college once my baby is old enough but should I do it now or later in life?

    • @kimberlycakes7236
      @kimberlycakes7236 Рік тому +3

      @Random Female Opinion That's your decision. If you have the income and choose to be a housewife then by all means do that. If you'd rather go to work or school or whatever you can do that too? I was in an accident and I'm disabled now so I can't go back to work but I'm okay with that. Now I'm a house wife with a disability check. 🤷‍♀️

  • @coloraturaMusic
    @coloraturaMusic Рік тому +3

    My husband works far away and we have to live apart for some time. But every time he messages me that he misses my cooking or wish he had a nice meal cooked by me, it warms my heart. And he actually loves to cook!!

    • @rafaelbarbosa7423
      @rafaelbarbosa7423 Рік тому

      Hi, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!

    • @coloraturaMusic
      @coloraturaMusic Рік тому

      @@rafaelbarbosa7423 Thank you dear.
      To answer your question, my husband is the first and only person I've ever been intimate with. Although my husband had been intimate with some of his exes, I have been able to fully trust his love for me as he shows me everyday how I'm the only one that counts in his life. He actually hates remembering his exes. I do feel blessed that we share a very special bond that allow us to forget and forgive the past, but I don't know how this can be for other couples. What I can say though is that as of today my husband and I agree that you shouldn't be involved in any type of sexual activity outside marriage. True marriage is indeed sacred including the intimacy that comes with it. You understand all this better as you grow together.

  • @BayShore2001
    @BayShore2001 Рік тому +5

    Proud traditional wife here. I love to cook for my husband and spend time with him. They can say they're happy all day long but the truth is they're miserable and deep down they wish they had the marriage I have. I don't care what others want to do with their lives, but don't put me down for mine. God created us for different roles and we should embrace it.

  • @ahoggan230
    @ahoggan230 Рік тому +190

    Jealousy can cause meltdowns of the mind, body, and soul.

    • @athenapoe3377
      @athenapoe3377 Рік тому +14

      Notice that tradwives aren't the ones complaining. Could it be because they are happy?! 😀

    • @annjames1837
      @annjames1837 Рік тому +4

      Envy steals ones joy

    • @DekkarJr
      @DekkarJr Рік тому +3

      @@athenapoe3377 happy- and busy! lol XD
      idle hands are the devil's plaything.
      There's a psychological reason why feminists are known cat hoarders. Cus they never have any kids. It's a really sad existence tbh.

    • @believestthouthis7
      @believestthouthis7 Рік тому +1

      @@DekkarJr
      Proverbs 31:27-28
      27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
      28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
      It's pretty sad how most of the childless women seem to want to keep "fur babies". That's a deep level of idleness.

    • @DekkarJr
      @DekkarJr Рік тому +1

      @@believestthouthis7 Yeah. So idle you let your eggs expire... I just had my first at 35 thankfully. Made it in before the window lol XD

  • @nvtruant5994
    @nvtruant5994 Рік тому +587

    I was and am a trad wife for the past 42 years, however I can tell you on 2 fingers the times that my husband complimented me and showed pride in my role. He commented to other men how lucky they were to have a wife that brought home a wage. I had to grow a thick skin because I knew that staying home raising our 3 sons, homeschooling for 10 years and cooking, cleaning and doing all domestic work to make a strong home would pay off. Today my son’s and their wives tell me how much they appreciated my work and love. It means so much to know they appreciate me. And now they appreciate their Trad wives!

    • @Jaster_Mereel
      @Jaster_Mereel Рік тому +90

      Thumbs up to you, thumbs down to that ingrate.

    • @scottjames1401
      @scottjames1401 Рік тому +92

      On behalf of traditional men, bravo to you for staying solid in your values in spite of not gaining the appreciation and cherished status you earned.
      It's always principles over feelings. Tough road, well done.

    • @LindyLime
      @LindyLime Рік тому +80

      Wow, your husband couldn't see the treasure he had.

    • @meghan8020
      @meghan8020 Рік тому +21

      Bless you.

    • @freerangecitizen
      @freerangecitizen Рік тому +12

      I appreciate you! I wish our situation could hold with just my income. Hope your children have lots of happy respectful grandbabies for you!

  • @mai5151
    @mai5151 11 місяців тому +3

    I’m a young SAHM, I’ve become one recently after working consistently for 5 years and I can say without a doubt I feel like I was made to do this, it’s so rewarding and I’m so happy. Idc if other women don’t want that but why put us down? Not very feminist of them

  • @calciumkid1995
    @calciumkid1995 Рік тому +3

    My wife and I recently had our first child. She is a woman that has always needed to work, and has worked full time since she was 18.
    She cries tears of joy when holding our child. In the 5 years we've been together, ive never seen happy tears from that sale she made, that appointment she arranged, that file she filed.

  • @nonamesplease6288
    @nonamesplease6288 Рік тому +466

    I lost my beloved "trad wife" a year ago, November. I refuse to jump back into the dating pool for many reasons, but the fact that there are packs of this type of woman running around out there is enough reason to deter me from seeking companionship ever again.

    • @velvetturtles
      @velvetturtles Рік тому +70

      Sorry for your loss
      🕯️☦️🕯️

    • @BPond7
      @BPond7 Рік тому +57

      That’s terrible, man. I’m sorry she’s gone. 🙁

    • @machwal4464
      @machwal4464 Рік тому +26

      Sorry dude that's rough. I don't blame you

    • @Adam2050
      @Adam2050 Рік тому +35

      A rose grows amongst shit. Stay strong brother.

    • @Geritabos
      @Geritabos Рік тому +20

      she is watching and protecting you from heaven, my brother.

  • @tashacooper1753
    @tashacooper1753 Рік тому +220

    It’s very wild seeing them act like we are evil for wanting to be happy wife’s

    • @PaulStringini
      @PaulStringini Рік тому

      They want all women to be miserable and unpalatable, like them.

    • @randyjones3050
      @randyjones3050 Рік тому

      Feminism was inspired by the demonic to encourage abortion and destroy the natural family order instituted by God. Demons hate humans since we were created in the image of God. Since these feminist women are unwittingly channeling diabolic forces it is only natural that they would have wild revulsive reactions to seeing naturally ordered happy families.

    • @raimeyewens7518
      @raimeyewens7518 Рік тому +13

      Right? Why does someone else care that I stay home and actually raise and take care of my own children? My husband has a excellent job and I don’t need to work. I don’t want to drop my kids off at a daycare all day. What’s wrong with that? I enjoy taking care of my husband and kids. No one is forcing me. And that one girl even said guys are “spanking it” to the thought of a traditional wife lol. Sounds like a wife that cooks, cleans, and etc is something some guys have to now fantasize about. That’s a bit sad lol.

    • @teresayeates3437
      @teresayeates3437 Рік тому +1

      Wives, but yes, I agree.

    • @frdsg8350
      @frdsg8350 Рік тому +3

      Because it holds a mirror up to them and they hate it. Much easier if they can drag other women down.

  • @nnnnopeitsmelori3073
    @nnnnopeitsmelori3073 Рік тому +6

    I’ve been a traditional wife for 38 years. I wouldn’t want it any other way. 👩‍❤️‍👨

  • @rachelmariasnow88
    @rachelmariasnow88 Рік тому +4

    I love being a traditional wife. I get to stay at home, homeschool my children and love on my family. What a blessing

    • @rafaelbarbosa7423
      @rafaelbarbosa7423 Рік тому

      Hi, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!

  • @ColonelBased
    @ColonelBased Рік тому +399

    I’m 17 but was raised left wing. I had a transgender phase and thought I was bisexual at one point. But now I’m no longer bi and embracing femininity. However I really want to be a tradwife. The other week, I spent an entire day living like that (besides taking care of children), and I hadn’t been happier. I can’t wait to have my own family and serve my man until the day I die

    • @Barbara-fp4zl
      @Barbara-fp4zl Рік тому +22

      That is so refreshing to hear...best wishes for your future🥰

    • @bobtheball5384
      @bobtheball5384 Рік тому +14

      Right..."Colonel Based" who makes a large amount of RDR2 videos is a 17 year old girl who wants to be a trad wife after spending an entire *day* "traditionally". Right.

    • @MethSloth
      @MethSloth Рік тому

      @@bobtheball5384 oh, Colonel Based is 100% a middle-aged conservative dude typing out his pedo fantasy.

    • @UrbanBodhi
      @UrbanBodhi Рік тому +23

      @@bobtheball5384 Bro... If you actually took the time to listen to some of the videos on her channel and notice some of the comments. It checks out. She's been consistent in what she's expressing. Mentions her age, her prior identification as a trans boy, and so on... All it took was a quick 2 minute glance to get all of that. Guess you spent less time before you jumped to conclusions?
      Not sure why you're out here being an armchair skeptic. Like at least dig a little deeper rather than prematurely judge based off your assumptions on what someone should sound or look like in order to align with what they're expressing....Even then why bother? Sometimes I do wonder why people get off on casting doubt and skepticism on the experiences of strangers they barely know on the internet.
      The name is probably a remnant of how she used to identify or it just still feels like a cool name to have lol. Also, kids are playing all kinds of games nowadays regardless of age or gender...
      Sometimes it doesn't take much more than the seeds being planted in your past and them being watered by a momentary experience to realize you might want a different kind of life. Extraordinary changes are often preceded by a journey that slowly builds and culminates in a very interesting experience that marks a transition from one chapter of your life to another.

    • @jillybelphegor4819
      @jillybelphegor4819 Рік тому +11

      My mom was a stay-at-home-mom. She wasn’t a trad wife. My dad worked while I was in school (and for school-like hours during the summer). So both my mom and dad raised me. My mom was also president of an art club (unpaid position) and she’d take me with her to its meetings. My mom cooks dishes of a variety of nationalities and she makes up recipes. She also does desserts. My dad cooks traditional dishes. He also cooks seafood. Oh, and he bakes the same select desserts over and over again. And he bakes bread. My parents share cleaning chores. We’re a happy family.

  • @dearestdarling9467
    @dearestdarling9467 Рік тому +172

    Current status: corporate career
    Dream job: traditional housewife
    Oh how feminism turned the tables! 😂 As a woman I just laugh at this point.

    • @MBJK_baby
      @MBJK_baby Рік тому +17

      LMAO you’re like me 😭 leftists and mainstream media want me to go into stem meanwhile I just wanna volunteer and nurture kids and animals 🥹

    • @brittanyhayes1043
      @brittanyhayes1043 Рік тому +6

      My type of feminism is just being like Joan of Arc in the battle field.

    • @lucifernazaedi
      @lucifernazaedi Рік тому +2

      @Brittany Hayes Let’s just make sure the women don’t die horrifically in their teenage years. That’d be disastrous.

    • @dal7143
      @dal7143 Рік тому +5

      I became a Tradwife post-Covid. Best career there is, and now I find out I’m part of a movement 😉!

    • @user-lt1jd1ye3v
      @user-lt1jd1ye3v Рік тому +4

      Same here!!! Except I am a teacher but exactly, same thing. Dream job: stay at home mom and part-time gardener 👌🏽👌🏽

  • @coffeeblack1797
    @coffeeblack1797 Рік тому +2

    Being a stay at home mom expose the woman to be stuck in a horrible marriage. Growing up, I’ve seen many abuses in marriage and the wife can’t leave the marriage due to her inability to become financially independent.
    Serving to the family is a beautiful thing, it’s the exposer of being stuck in a relationship that’s toxic is something you don’t want to live with .

    • @el_killorcure
      @el_killorcure Рік тому +1

      And being an independent strong girl boss exposes women to not only a lonely life of cats/wine cartons once their youth and looks run out (most rich powerful men always go for younger women), but also submitting to and depending on a boss instead of a husband.
      My solution: get a career, get married, stay employed part time (so you can stay at home and raise the kids) thus you can not only exit if really needed, but also chip in if tragedy strikes.

  • @sneakyhomecook233
    @sneakyhomecook233 Рік тому +4

    Stay at home mom here. I love it I’m glad I’m there for my kids. And I can watch them grow up and we have that limited time together

  • @papabird4425
    @papabird4425 Рік тому +127

    I married a trad wife from the Phillipines.
    The mistake a lot of detractors make is thinking that the wife is in service to the husband, and that's that. It's only half true.
    We are in service to EACH OTHER. We are successful because we love, support, and care for one another.

    • @MDen69
      @MDen69 Рік тому +2

      Exactly. I'm so happy to hear from someone who gets it. I wish you a long happy marriage.

    • @miming6377
      @miming6377 Рік тому +1

      Dear, the very definition of these Trad Wives is that they're advocating for a Patriarchal marriage which most of these content creators do. It is an aesthetic lifestyle of married women mostly from US, without kids whose sole purpose is to be a continuous eye candy to their working husbands. Their Trad Wife role is different from our modern home makers.
      It is the opposite of what you genuine home makers do. Housewives like you delegate yourselves to the domestic role because you genuinely care for your family, not to display a romanticised 1950s housewife who has all the time of the day on her own (because most of them don't have kids yet). Their lifestyle are far from the genuine homemakers who sacrifice or choose to care of their home and be with their kids most of the time.

    • @papabird4425
      @papabird4425 Рік тому +8

      @@miming6377 who cares what they choose to portray. Don't like it? Don't live it. Don't be pissed at them because you don't want to live up to the standards they set for THEMSELVES. Let's call it what it really is. Jealousy.

    • @papabird4425
      @papabird4425 Рік тому +5

      @@miming6377 stop obsessing over their style. Feminism means personal choice.

    • @miming6377
      @miming6377 Рік тому +1

      @@papabird4425 I'm not obsessing with their style. I'm correcting your misconception of the Traditional Wife trend on tiktok versus your house wife.
      You said it yourself, "you are in service to each other". But the Trad Wife trend does not do that, they advocate that it is wife's duty to be of service to her husband since he is feeding her. It is not a reciprocating relationship.o

  • @mrsdudeandkids
    @mrsdudeandkids Рік тому +126

    People have been going after the traditional wife since the 60's. If you can afford to stay home, raise your family, and take care of your husband - DO IT! I have mostly been a Homemaker (work part time now) and it's fulfilling and worthwhile work.

    • @ari3lz3pp
      @ari3lz3pp Рік тому +12

      Being a trad wife is what saved my family from going under financially. Honestly the fact that people argue "if you can afford it" frustrates me a bit.
      Most women I know ask their families to sacrifice time and money to raise their kids, to care for the house...they say they "need" to work but it actually is only ever to have the newest expensive tech gadgets etc. It's never actual need. It's want I just wish they would be honest. (They must have never passed pre-K social studies...).
      It's not a woman's job to mother a man. I take care of my husband in the same ways he takes care of me, or similar. It takes effort to balance it, but if you care about one another and about family.. especially as a Christian we are to serve one another (Christians, people, not just husband and wife).
      We each have our jobs, mine is in the home, but he still respects me. I have the job of chef, maid, teacher (homeschool), and obviously other wifely duties besides being a mother. He has husbandly duties, supports me (similar to how I support him), father duties, more maintenance/handyman tasks, and his career outside the home.
      I wanted to get my PhD when I found out I was pregnant. I also had apathy for the father of the child. Instead of being selfish I knew I had to be responsible, to buckle down and make the best out of it. We got married. I didn't return to school because it was going to COST my family too much. It would not pay off.
      IMO nothing can make up for missing out on raising your children. Especially considering the let down and abuse of the public school system. It's one way my husband misses out sometimes. But he gets to actually miss out less because he doesn't have to pick up slack from me working outside the home, from me being late because I have a meeting....etc. No extra income twords commute and suits and lunches etc. I have more time to be smart about budgeting, etc. It's efficient.
      The families I've seen that have two parents working, have more issues with their kid's attitude problems, academic "don't have any idea" why or how it's happening, they barely know their kids, they never have time to clean properly, to be healthy......somehow never have enough money yet we do.....and my husband is not in a high paying job.
      So I agree with your overall sentiment, but it's actually more cost effective most times for a woman to stay home. Also beneficial for the children of the woman is healthy (naturally balanced in estrogen etc). My husband and I have a good hormonal balance and he isn't as capable of handling the day-to-day emotional growth and challenges as I am. Once again- it's more efficient for me to teach my child since I know them and understand what will work best and bypass most pointless methods.
      I had to sacrifice, as did my husband...he can't just sit back and play video games and stay in minimum wage work. Being married and becoming parents we agreed to GROW together and to push one another to be better. I think that's what TRAD wives/husband's; MARRIAGE is about and how it should be.
      Once I am older and if my special needs child is independent enough, I will be starting my own business. That's when I think it's sensible for a mother/wife to have a career.
      Thanks for reading. 🩷✨😆

    • @channell11
      @channell11 Рік тому +4

      My wife and I both work. But just as I feel it's my duty to be the primary breadwinner, be supportive and protective, fix things around the house, be the voice of direction and logic, etc; she takes great pride in being my biggest champion, elevating my life, and doing those things that make my life easier and more enjoyable. When she cooks dinner or brings me a drink, she doesn't look at it as demeaning or as servitude-she looks at it as doing her part to maintain the relationship. It's a shame that so many of these feminist women think that doing anything for or even being nice to a man is somehow subservient or "old-fashioned". Then they wonder why no man wants to deal with them for more than a night.

    • @mrsdudeandkids
      @mrsdudeandkids Рік тому

      In the current economy, I think we'll see fewer families able to swing a single income. My husband and I decided that for now, my working part time around most of my homemaking duties, I'd work. There are instances where affordability does come into play, not able to live at X luxury price tag.

    • @bleechrcreechrr
      @bleechrcreechrr Рік тому

      ​@@ari3lz3pp idk I really don't think your statement of "its more cost effective most times" is true. That's going to totally depend on what your husband does and where you live. Where I live we can afford our current mortgage on 1 income, however having family of multiple kids in this house would be difficult as it's small. The "next size up" house if you will, would require 2 incomes for the mortgage. And thats where prices sit right now, who knows where they'll be when we're looking to move.

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 Рік тому

      UNFORTUNATELY NOT EVERYONE FEELS LIKE A LAZY ASS WALKING WOMB. PEOPLE ACTUALLY WANT WORK AND GET EDUCATION INSTEAD OF WASTING AWAY ON A MAN AND CLAIMING HOMEMAKER AS A COVERUP

  • @Spookycatforever
    @Spookycatforever Рік тому +6

    I am a trad wife! I have always wanted to be a stay at home mom. I have a degree in elementary education but that has always been my backup in case I need to provide. I love my role has home maker and mother. I respect and love my husband who works so hard outside the home. I have been shamed and dismissed for my preferred role and I have always felt sorry for those who didn’t understand. I personally think it is the best way to live but I respect those who choose different.

  • @eringrant8221
    @eringrant8221 6 місяців тому +2

    I've been a stay at home mother for 20 years now. The way it looks for our family has gone through many phases, but I have been grateful for every moment. I have learned more about myself and what I want from life being a wife and mother than any other way, and that includes earning my bachelor's degree while raising my family! I am an advocate for the family -- my husband does not dominate over me because he earns more money, we are a team! I serve him and he serves me, and together we are raising respectable children who will hopefully be mentally equipped to be strong leaders in their generation! Traditional moms for the win!

  • @FiREfaiRY1441
    @FiREfaiRY1441 Рік тому +96

    Proud to be a traditional wife. 😌 I actually fell into the position, but it's where God wanted me to be and I LOVE it. ❤️

    • @XxLostFinalGirlxX
      @XxLostFinalGirlxX Рік тому +6

      I don't know if I would be a trad wife someday or not but even if I decided not to be one i think it's ridiculous if i were and just bully people like you who are trad wives.. it's called respect which I've noticed a lot of people lack these days.. while I might not end up one but if you like it I'm genuinely happy for you

    • @nightly765
      @nightly765 Рік тому +3

      @@XxLostFinalGirlxX Same, it might be for me, or it might not. If anything, I think I'd want to be the one working and supporting us financially, and hubby can be a stay at home dad. I guess it's just my personality. But I wouldn't shame anyone who wants that lifestyle of traditional gender roles. If anything, it's kind of ideal for a family, it's just not for me. I don't understand why people can't just let people live the way they want.

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 Рік тому

      PLEASE , GOD IS NOT FOR TRAD WIVES, DO NOT RUIN CHRISTAINITY. GOD DOES NOT ENDORSE MISOGONY.

    • @rafaelbarbosa7423
      @rafaelbarbosa7423 Рік тому

      Hi, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!

    • @FiREfaiRY1441
      @FiREfaiRY1441 Рік тому

      @@rafaelbarbosa7423 Yes, both of us. Sex is better as a married couple because you're more comfortable with each other. As saved Christians, though, we wish we would have waited.

  • @yellowmilk8649
    @yellowmilk8649 Рік тому +39

    I'm 23, from the uk and there's nothing I want more than to get married to a good Christian man and become a mum and raise a family while also taking care of my parents and sister 😊

  • @_thehappyhomemaker_
    @_thehappyhomemaker_ 11 місяців тому +4

    My husband and I adopted traditional gender roles when lock down happened and, I can honestly say that we have never been happier in our relationship/marriage. I'm not a full housewife yet, but we love the more traditional ways of life, a slower paced life and growing our own produce. I feel sorry for these women, they don't seem happy at all and it also makes me feel so grateful that God guided us to this path.

  • @kennedy4257
    @kennedy4257 Рік тому +64

    It amazes me how the party of "Don't tell me what to do because it's my choice" resembles a party of "Tell everyone what to do because we disagree"

    • @willworkforyarn4893
      @willworkforyarn4893 Рік тому +5

      If they were truly happy with being themselves, they wouldn't need to tell anyone else anything!!

    • @shaheedsimon24
      @shaheedsimon24 Рік тому +2

      Exactly

    • @Charagrin
      @Charagrin Рік тому

      Why didn't Micheal play one of those videos instead then? You are right. I agree with you that Mike is an idiot and chose the wrong vids.

  • @carolwilliams5337
    @carolwilliams5337 Рік тому +73

    Traditional Wives Rule! Ive been a happy Traditional Wife for 51 years. Never had to work full time, raised my own children, cooked my own meals ( better than take out) . Worked part time at a job that made me happy. Ideal life!

    • @be_reselient
      @be_reselient Рік тому +2

      Blessed . This generation is embarrassing. They are ruining our society.

    • @danutaromanowska7428
      @danutaromanowska7428 Рік тому

    • @jillybelphegor4819
      @jillybelphegor4819 Рік тому +2

      My mom was a stay-at-home-mom. She wasn’t a trad wife. My dad worked while I was in school (and for school-like hours during the summer). So both my mom and dad raised me. My mom was also president of an art club (unpaid position) and she’d take me with her to its meetings. My mom cooks dishes of a variety of nationalities and she makes up recipes. She also does desserts. My dad cooks traditional dishes. He also cooks seafood. Oh, and he bakes the same select desserts over and over again. And he bakes bread. My parents share cleaning chores. We’re a happy family.

    • @Kwildcat13
      @Kwildcat13 Рік тому +3

      You worked full time .. staying at home is work

    • @carolwilliams5337
      @carolwilliams5337 Рік тому

      Yes, thank you! I did work hard.

  • @depressedbatman3578
    @depressedbatman3578 Рік тому +16

    I’m a woman who absolutely does not want to be a Trad wife, however I have a ton of respect for the women who choose to be. It’s a really difficult job to take care of that many other people all the time.

  • @tothestars3958
    @tothestars3958 Рік тому +3

    Engaged to a trad woman, both of us could not be more happy. Rebel by living a good life, the results will be sweeter than any argument.

    • @rafaelbarbosa7423
      @rafaelbarbosa7423 Рік тому

      Hi, I am happy for you and your wife! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!

    • @tothestars3958
      @tothestars3958 Рік тому

      @@rafaelbarbosa7423 Wish I could help you out, but we're not married yet so I can't give firsthand experience!

  • @janlharrington3509
    @janlharrington3509 Рік тому +70

    Not sure I count as a "trad wife". I have 7 kids and stayed home with them for 17 years. I now work at a job I love but still do most of the traditional roles. My husband works hard to provide for us and I totally appreciate him. I'm not a great housekeeper, but he always has clean clothes and dinner.

    • @user-bx4ti6ig3i
      @user-bx4ti6ig3i Рік тому +6

      That's still traditional. Your kids are grown so that gives you time to have a job. I plan to do that once my kids are grown as well. I have 6 kids and my little one is only 3.

    • @hairbeauty8083
      @hairbeauty8083 Рік тому +2

      I've done both and as I have gotten older I appreciate more and more the choice to be home as the work space got more hostile yearly. I use to work at least 2 jobs so I could leave one if I really hated the other and it got to a point I just couldn't find a job where I was happy and downsized and I'm happier at home

    • @jillybelphegor4819
      @jillybelphegor4819 Рік тому +1

      My mom was a stay-at-home-mom. She wasn’t a trad wife. My dad worked while I was in school (and for school-like hours during the summer). So both my mom and dad raised me. My mom was also president of an art club (unpaid position) and she’d take me with her to its meetings. My mom cooks dishes of a variety of nationalities and she makes up recipes. She also does desserts. My dad cooks traditional dishes. He also cooks seafood. Oh, and he bakes the same select desserts over and over again. And he bakes bread. My parents share cleaning chores. We’re a happy family.

    • @aluminumcanplanet8507
      @aluminumcanplanet8507 Рік тому

      7 kids? Wow sounds like a busy bedroom, must have boinked him almost every night. What a gal

  • @violet5610
    @violet5610 Рік тому +26

    As a trad wife I would like to let her know we are too busy taking care of our husband's and families to worry about online opinions.

    • @rafaelbarbosa7423
      @rafaelbarbosa7423 Рік тому +1

      Hi, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!

    • @violet5610
      @violet5610 Рік тому

      @@rafaelbarbosa7423 we both had experience before we met. It doesn't create an issue unless you let it. We both thought we were going to be married before we had met each other and we made mistakes. We helped heal the heart of the other and now we are inseparable

  • @madelineanne581
    @madelineanne581 Рік тому +2

    I can’t wait to be a stay at home mom! My husband and I are in early/mid 20s and Catholic marriage is the most freeing way to go!! So many people just want to get angry and push against traditionalist worldviews, because they lack true understanding of Christ and a majority of the time, come from broken homes and just hate others being happy when they can’t.

  • @myfairhousewife
    @myfairhousewife Рік тому +5

    Trad wives should be United in a time where we are literally trying to be eliminated. And there is no denying it.

  • @livmilesparanormalromanceb6891
    @livmilesparanormalromanceb6891 Рік тому +165

    I'm a proud trad wife, and this was hilarious to watch as I made dinner. I'm praying that they discover just how precious womanhood is and that they embrace God's role for them to nurture and support their husbands and their families.

    • @CamperEra
      @CamperEra Рік тому +7

      Amen ❤

    • @motalkbadazs
      @motalkbadazs Рік тому +3

      theyre too scared and "traumatized" to settle down with a good man. They fear the soap opera abuser so badly and want to be right about his existence that they just assume the worst and believe it

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 Рік тому +1

      Amen girl ,Amen

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 Рік тому

      NOT EVERY WOMAN IS JOBLESS OR LOW SELFESSTEEMED SO MUCH SO THAT THEY WANT TO BE SLAVES.
      LIKE GOD WHY DID YOU. MAKE WOMEN, THEY ARE SO BRAINLESS. PRECIOUS WOMANHOOD MORE LIKE DOMESCTIC SLAVES

    • @be_reselient
      @be_reselient Рік тому +2

      They wont. This is the devils work, signs of the end times. Protect your children from it.

  • @elyssacorbaley8133
    @elyssacorbaley8133 Рік тому +87

    Being a traditional woman myself I honestly can't begin to fathom how an entire culture can place such hostility on a lifestyle and moral issue when they claim to be so tolerant, all while screaming to the world that they, the majority, are so sorely oppressed.
    I'm in my early twenties, and I would love to be with a husband someday who is willing and able to provide for the family while I raise and teach our children. I think God has to come first in a marriage, and caring for your family is one of the most moral and fulfilling callings... But it's difficult to find traditional men these days, as I'm sure it is for women. I hope the best for the survival of this culture and traditional families!

    • @sdlorah6450
      @sdlorah6450 Рік тому +4

      As an older woman, I am struck by the fact that we older women in the church are to teach the younger women with respect to loving their families and their character:
      The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;
      That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
      To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. Titus 2:3-4
      God's blueprint for marriage and family is timeless and cannot be improved upon. Feminism, which encourages women to have full-time careers and to fulfill personal ambitions, deprives children of their mothers and men of their wives. Feminism wrecks homes and marriages from within as it demands the best of a women's time, energy, and affection!

    • @zx1906
      @zx1906 Рік тому +1

      Keep sticking to your faith and your moral standards while out there in the dating world. The best thing my husband did for me while we were dating and getting to know eachother, was sticking to his beliefs and sharing them with me, answering all of my questions and not judging me for them. It brought me back to Jesus and it’s laid a strong foundation for our marriage. ❤

    • @willworkforyarn4893
      @willworkforyarn4893 Рік тому

      @@sdlorah6450 I agree with a lot of what you said! These women act like they only have one choice! Women can still have careers. All of life's passions can still fit into their lives. But it takes planning. And at the end of the day if they don't want homes, husbands and children, then that's ok too! God never demanded that every person get married, nor every woman have children!

    • @janethays3408
      @janethays3408 Рік тому

      The best advice I could give you is: when you get married, if you are both working with no children, live off your husband’s salary and put yours in a savings account. That way, when you do have children you will already be able to live off one salary. The savings could be used to put a down payment on a house.

    • @jillybelphegor4819
      @jillybelphegor4819 Рік тому +1

      My mom was a stay-at-home-mom. She wasn’t a trad wife. My dad worked while I was in school (and for school-like hours during the summer). So both my mom and dad raised me. My mom was also president of an art club (unpaid position) and she’d take me with her to its meetings. My mom cooks dishes of a variety of nationalities and she makes up recipes. She also does desserts. My dad cooks traditional dishes. He also cooks seafood. Oh, and he bakes the same select desserts over and over again. And he bakes bread. My parents share cleaning chores. We’re a happy family.

  • @musicaldooder20
    @musicaldooder20 Рік тому +2

    Dude, that first girl that Michael reacts to has such a halting way of speaking that I almost wanted to yell “spit it out!” at my phone.

  • @mrgmsrd
    @mrgmsrd Рік тому +3

    After about 10 years of working in healthcare, in a generally rewarding job, I left to be a SAHM. I was very nervous that I would not get the external validation I got from my career. It's been 4 years and I am so much happier. I am able to care for my family in a way that is meaningful to me, volunteer in my community and my son's school, and make time to care for my own needs. My health has improved dramatically, and my relationship with my husband, son, and extended family is better. No regrets.

  • @godbless6939
    @godbless6939 Рік тому +75

    As a woman proud of Traditional woman

    • @XxLostFinalGirlxX
      @XxLostFinalGirlxX Рік тому +1

      I don't know if I would be a trad wife someday or not but even if I decided not to be one i think it's ridiculous if i were and just bully people like you who are trad wives.. it's called respect which I've noticed a lot of people lack these days.. while I might not end up one but if you like it I'm genuinely happy for you

    • @pinkwonderpower7906
      @pinkwonderpower7906 Рік тому +1

      Yes, we build healthy homes that lead to healthy individuals that make a healthy society!!

    • @XxLostFinalGirlxX
      @XxLostFinalGirlxX Рік тому

      @@pinkwonderpower7906 umm that can be anyone who has respect for others and cares about others not trad wives but kind people period

  • @rorichacon6094
    @rorichacon6094 Рік тому +158

    Haha I have a traditional, happy, healthy, successful, regular family. But the second lady cracked me up how she somehow assumes that “the man” makes all the choices and lays down the law. Lol. I always say “my husband is the head of the family, yes. But I am the neck that turns the head”

    • @jillybelphegor4819
      @jillybelphegor4819 Рік тому +9

      My mom was a stay-at-home-mom. She wasn’t a trad wife. My dad worked while I was in school (and for school-like hours during the summer). So both my mom and dad raised me. My mom was also president of an art club (unpaid position) and she’d take me with her to its meetings. My mom cooks dishes of a variety of nationalities and she makes up recipes. She also does desserts. My dad cooks traditional dishes. He also cooks seafood. Oh, and he bakes the same select desserts over and over again. And he bakes bread. My parents share cleaning chores. We’re a happy family.

    • @tiffanyr.l.peters4226
      @tiffanyr.l.peters4226 Рік тому

      Amen sister!

    • @yellowroses8736
      @yellowroses8736 Рік тому +5

      My Big Fat Greek Wedding... That's my favorite line in the movie.

    • @joebone1961
      @joebone1961 Рік тому +1

      I see what you did there.

    • @gato2
      @gato2 Рік тому +2

      @@yellowroses8736 why are you leaving meeeee.

  • @lily6413
    @lily6413 Рік тому +2

    I decided to leave teaching to become a stay at home wife and eventually mom. Best decision I’ve made. I’ve never been happier. I much rather be tired from taking care of those I love than working for somebody that doesn’t appreciate me. I’ll “go back” to teaching when I start homeschooling my boy.

  • @kayla-marieortizlafrazia4210
    @kayla-marieortizlafrazia4210 3 місяці тому +1

    When we finally figured out that I would get to become a stay at home mom, I could not believe how blessed I was/ am. I can’t imagine being so self-centered and ungrateful. I’d consider myself traditional-ish. My husband still contributes to the housework and making meals. But I also homeschool, so I have my children 24/7. ❤

  • @Kay3Kay3
    @Kay3Kay3 Рік тому +131

    My mother is a trad wife. She stayed at home, raised me and my siblings while my dad worked. Yes, things did get overwhelming at times but overall she was a very happy woman and felt fulfilled with her life. I’m so thankful to not have been to a modern leftist feminist and feel sorry for those who were.

    • @jillybelphegor4819
      @jillybelphegor4819 Рік тому +4

      My mom was a stay-at-home-mom. She wasn’t a trad wife. My dad worked while I was in school (and for school-like hours during the summer). So both my mom and dad raised me. My mom was also president of an art club (unpaid position) and she’d take me with her to its meetings. My mom cooks dishes of a variety of nationalities and she makes up recipes. She also does desserts. My dad cooks traditional dishes. He also cooks seafood. Oh, and he bakes the same select desserts over and over again. And he bakes bread. My parents share cleaning chores. We’re a happy family.

    • @jillybelphegor4819
      @jillybelphegor4819 Рік тому +3

      I’m so happy my parents are my parents. :)

    • @e.sterling141
      @e.sterling141 Рік тому +5

      Yeah. You're fortunate you had that. And one thing I've noticed (which makes me grateful I'm not a leftist or feminist) is that these type of women seem to always be angry and hateful. And I just can't imagine living that way. Such a waste.

    • @zillasart7222
      @zillasart7222 Рік тому

      Same

    • @janicefinch3563
      @janicefinch3563 Рік тому

      There are plenty of women that stay home and are happy and there are plenty that don't and are happy. Statistically unmarried women without children tend to be happier (in general). Left wing women want women to have the choice and not feel pressured to choose the traditional life if that's not what they want.
      One of the women in this video was a stay at home mom.

  • @emilythe1st
    @emilythe1st Рік тому +88

    I’m a former member of the “church of woke” and I love staying at home and raising my kids. It’s way more exhausting than any job I’ve ever had (of which I’ve had many) but it’s where I’m meant to be. It is incredibly meaningful and fulfilling. Here in the Seattle area it is looked down upon to be at home with the kids. I almost didn’t even have children because the culture here is so career driven. Luckily I snapped out of it before it was too late and have two beautiful children. It is such a relief to let go of others’ expectations of how I should live. I of course have more to my life than my children and husband, and continue to make time for developing new skills and pursuing interests like sewing, taking online classes, making music, etc. I’m genuinely happier now as a Christian, moderate/rightish-leaning woman than I ever was as an extreme left liberal in a perpetual state of victimhood and misery. The “multicultural awareness” class I was required to take for a degree here would call that “retreating into your whiteness.” What a clever way to prevent people from leaving your religion.

    • @nataliek5134
      @nataliek5134 Рік тому +7

      I have the exact same story of leaving the church of woke and becoming a SAHM. Except I'm half white so I'd only be able to retreat half-way into my half-whiteness 😂

    • @solomonstello
      @solomonstello Рік тому +2

      Greetings from Granite Falls.
      I love Seattle.

    • @user-erick007
      @user-erick007 Рік тому +2

      ♥️♥️♥️

    • @user-erick007
      @user-erick007 Рік тому +1

      🥰🥰🥰

    • @user-erick007
      @user-erick007 Рік тому +3

      Chose the person wisely with whom you plan to spend your life with. It's a commitment for life & should ve taken seriously. If u have a great partner who appreciates u , u will have kids with great value & a wonderful life ♥️♥️♥️

  • @ChandraDePriest
    @ChandraDePriest Рік тому +2

    I am so lucky to be a stay home wife and mom to our children. My husband parents both worked and he was a latch key kid. I on the other hand had a mom to come home to everyday after school. My dad respect my mother and never expected her to be anything other than an equal partner in life.
    No one has told them about all the downtime they could have for themselves when the kids are at school and the husband is at work. Nails, Hair, hobbies, and self enrichment.

  • @faithcritchfield1066
    @faithcritchfield1066 Рік тому +2

    Being a mother is one of the most special and important things a woman can be, if you don't find fulfillment in that you won't find it elsewhere.

  • @athenapoe3377
    @athenapoe3377 Рік тому +58

    I am a trad wife with a twist...I work outside the home too. I cook, clean, budget household spending, take care of laundry and go food shopping. My husband works 12 hr. shifts, more than me, and I want him to relax when he comes home because if roles were reversed, I would hope for the same. On his days off, he'll help me cook, clean dishes, and do yard work. I am the only one of my friends who is in a happy marriage (those who are married, that is).

    • @JenniferoftheSea
      @JenniferoftheSea Рік тому +14

      Because your are both serving each other in the capacities that you can and are best at. Beautiful!

    • @cartooncat4580
      @cartooncat4580 Рік тому +3

      Similar situation. It’s hard to be a stay at home in this economy although that is certainly what would make me happiest.

    • @athenapoe3377
      @athenapoe3377 Рік тому

      @Raven Carlton If my workweek is busy, I try to cook enough for two days, especially if I know by the time I come home, my husband will be leaving for work. It's also nice because it's one less day of cooking.

    • @jillybelphegor4819
      @jillybelphegor4819 Рік тому

      My mom was a stay-at-home-mom. She wasn’t a trad wife. My dad worked while I was in school (and for school-like hours during the summer). So both my mom and dad raised me. My mom was also president of an art club (unpaid position) and she’d take me with her to its meetings. My mom cooks dishes of a variety of nationalities and she makes up recipes. She also does desserts. My dad cooks traditional dishes. He also cooks seafood. Oh, and he bakes the same select desserts over and over again. And he bakes bread. My parents share cleaning chores. We’re a happy family.

  • @texasfamilylife8397
    @texasfamilylife8397 Рік тому +59

    I had no idea that my role as a homemaker put the fear of hell into others, rawr!
    But seriously, I am beyond blessed that I get to stay home and take care of our children and home while my husband works the long hard hours. I am more than happy to make their every meal, and run every load of laundry. Also my entire focus is on God, followed by my husband, then children, and that’s why it works for us.

    • @runictellings1536
      @runictellings1536 Рік тому +2

      @Texas Family Life Very very nice, most people miss the hierarchy of family. Really glad to see someone nail it spot on.

  • @barbaradiasbatista2009
    @barbaradiasbatista2009 Рік тому +4

    I just love that the women saying “being married and having kids sucks. Staying home is slavery. Happiness comes from being selfish” are not at all taking their own advice. It’s like the celebrities saying “don’t have kids, the world can’t take more people” but they spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to have children

  • @yahmein
    @yahmein Рік тому +5

    Always feel judgment when I tell people I’m a traditional wife. Literally everything has a label and stigma that goes with it these days it’s horrible, it’s like always walking on eggshells. So tiring, just let people live and keep your nose out of their business.

  • @legendzero365
    @legendzero365 Рік тому +152

    Can I just say that whoever edits Michael's and Ben's videos needs a raise? They always nail the memes and humor every time.

    • @ginaphillips6857
      @ginaphillips6857 Рік тому +2

      I love the editing so much!

    • @ateam137
      @ateam137 Рік тому

      Their editing really goes with Micheal's personality and delivery.

  • @coffeecrimegal5968
    @coffeecrimegal5968 Рік тому +81

    I just can’t get over how happy they all seemed…😂😅

  • @myfairhousewife
    @myfairhousewife Рік тому +1

    Trad Wife here! Trad wives unite! Just because we love our husbands and find joy in the entire idea of having a happy and warm home doesn’t mean we are nazis. We just have a different idea of happiness. It may not make sense to others but it does to us.

  • @PSvatos05
    @PSvatos05 Рік тому

    I appreciate the editing in this video.

  • @deleted2429
    @deleted2429 Рік тому +197

    As a 17 yo male, there is nothing more that I want in a relationship other than a trad wife

    • @ladiesgentswegothim
      @ladiesgentswegothim Рік тому +42

      And that can only come with the greater responsibility - becoming a trad husband.

    • @marymeyer6905
      @marymeyer6905 Рік тому +15

      You, young man, are inviting GOD to bless your future family. Your wife, children, entire family for generations, will be closer and stronger because of your decision. May GOD continue HIS blessings upon you and your future loved ones ❤
      Hold tight to HIS hand and HE will bring your desires to fruition.
      Your parents must be proud of you, I truly am!

    • @jocec3283
      @jocec3283 Рік тому +6

      @@ladiesgentswegothim Most men DO take that responsability.
      Hapilly, and proudly...

    • @andrewmontoya8511
      @andrewmontoya8511 Рік тому

      @@marymeyer6905 bruh

    • @wingsoffreedom3589
      @wingsoffreedom3589 Рік тому +1

      Only if she home schools or else she needs to get a job.

  • @MJS-PS144
    @MJS-PS144 Рік тому +47

    Pretty sure if I ask my homesteading, homeschooling, christ-centered wife to be less of a "trad wife" she would cut me. 😅

    • @theimmortal4718
      @theimmortal4718 Рік тому +5

      We're on the same path

    • @JennFredrickson
      @JennFredrickson Рік тому +8

      This made me giggle. Sounds like a great marriage. Congrats!

    • @MJS-PS144
      @MJS-PS144 Рік тому +5

      @@theimmortal4718 good path to be on 👍

    • @MJS-PS144
      @MJS-PS144 Рік тому +4

      @@JennFredrickson Thanks! I'm blessed!

    • @pritparikh4444
      @pritparikh4444 Рік тому +1

      Lol! I like the husband-like sense of humour that you have going. Hoping to someday be with someone who appreciates the pre-built "Trad wife" in me as well. In my early single 20's and working a STEM corporate job is good, but not as fulfilling according to me. God bless you two and your family by the way :)

  • @pizzaperson1
    @pizzaperson1 Рік тому +3

    I love being a stay at home wife and a mother ! I am so grateful to my husband for the hard work he does for the family. I love cooking and raising our daughter, I enjoy keeping the house cozy and enjoyable. I worked full time for 15 years before becoming a mother and there is no way I would do it again.

  • @victoriavanvleet1212
    @victoriavanvleet1212 Рік тому +3

    watching this while doing my makeup and planning my grocery list 😂

  • @DeborahKeleman
    @DeborahKeleman Рік тому +65

    Oh my goodness, I'm a danger! Why wouldn't a woman want to make her husband happy?

    • @ajb.822
      @ajb.822 Рік тому +1

      well, modern views have a lot of negative ideas about men, and apparently we're supposed to - IF we even marry - marry one we yet also still don't value, respect, like, cherish or wish to serve, and of course they see the word service only in a negative, oppressed way. Never mind that the president of the united states is supposed to be only there to serve all of us ! Or that many of we wives don't base our service on our feelings or on our husband's current behavior or attitudes, but on our own duty to and hopefully love for God. Taking comfort in the fact that quite often our good example, our love, our being worthy of respect, will bring about positive change in our husband all the sooner or at leat not complicate the situation with adding more things to fight about, more reasons for distrust, dislike, unhappiness. Much less all the things one could say if kids are in this home ( we don't have any of our own yet).

    • @abbyxiong3931
      @abbyxiong3931 Рік тому +1

      Because these modern women need to be at the center.

    • @uniqueunique8350
      @uniqueunique8350 Рік тому

      😂😂😂❤❤❤!!!

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 Рік тому

      ALL THIS IS EVE'S FAULT. IF NOT FOR EVE, PEOPLE WOULD NOT BE PASSING SLAVERY AS LOVE. NOT MY BUSINESS, THEY ARE MEN OUT THERE THAT ARE WILING TO SERVE THEIR WIVES, ILL JUST CHOSE THOSE.

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 Рік тому

      @@ajb.822 YOU ARE ABLE TO THINK LIKE THESE BECAUES OF ALL THESE BRAINLESS WOMEN

  • @sherrillpotgieter3945
    @sherrillpotgieter3945 Рік тому +37

    Being taking care of my husband for more than 50 years and I LOVE IT.

    • @happygirl7258
      @happygirl7258 Рік тому +1

      Pushing 30 yrs for us and I totally agree!

    • @jojokeane
      @jojokeane Рік тому

      Hooray! I love to hear about these long time love stories.

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 Рік тому +1

      My husband has beign a stay at home dad for 20 years now, He does all the chores and he loves it.

  • @mimisoto3693
    @mimisoto3693 7 місяців тому +1

    My dad started learning how to do laundry after he retired to help my mom with house chores and she helps him with his woodworking projects. But for my entire childhood my father worked looooonnnnggg grueling hours to provide for our family and my mom took care of us and the home. They didn't need to pay for childcare, one person was not taking on 2 roles. It was an even trade off in which the motherly role was left to my mother and the hard labor was left to the man ( my father) because he was better built for that kind of work. Like what is the problem? Feminists are so strange!

  • @georgidimitrov836
    @georgidimitrov836 Рік тому +1

    Tradwives: I want to have an easy life with time for myself, being a home-maker, doing some chores and taking care of my kids and husband.
    Feminists: No, you should slave yourself away at a corporate job, just to go home to a lonely apartment where you feed your cats and clean their litter then sob yourself to sleep with Netflix, wine and ice cream. This will be your legacy.

  • @JoeKawano
    @JoeKawano Рік тому +5

    That long echo edit at 10:01. Chef’s kiss!👩‍🍳

  • @joannajoel
    @joannajoel Рік тому +70

    I'm from India, I really desire to be a trad wife. But my whole family is treating me like I've done something terrible in my life, without having a career! Please pray for me 😔

    • @happydays1336
      @happydays1336 Рік тому +6

      I just said a prayer for you.

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson Рік тому +2

      prayers!! Sending all the love and hope your wish comes true! ❤

    • @karamlevi
      @karamlevi Рік тому +1

      Wife first.
      Business far 2nd.
      When your kids are moving out, you start your career / business… that’s ultra wise for family power.

    • @Law19157
      @Law19157 Рік тому

      Your photos on your Instagram account are nice

    • @Morlla234
      @Morlla234 Рік тому

      I will pray for you! Keep your desire known to Jesus, and pray for it, he will answer!

  • @allen2879
    @allen2879 Рік тому +1

    Bro the editing here is soooo funny! GG

  • @savannahjones299
    @savannahjones299 5 місяців тому +1

    Genuinely love my husband, he hard works all day,makes money,pays the bills,has stress on his shoulders comes in flat out more tired then me when ive taken care of my son and home all day and yes thats a job in itself. My husband was working late,sends a text that he's hungry not in any way to get me to cook for him but that he hasn't eaten for most of the day sweating away. I tell him I'm going to cook for him he says he wasn't asking me to cook for him and I said "I know,even if you did I would still cook for you." I do it because....I-love-him. I care for his well being as he does for me. We help eachother.

  • @tcgtpl
    @tcgtpl Рік тому +34

    If anything that you can distantly connect to 1940s Germany is bad according to the woke crowd, then they should all be really into eating meat, smoking, and drinking because AH was a vegetarian, non-smoker, and teetotaler.

    • @nonamesplease6288
      @nonamesplease6288 Рік тому +11

      Hotler also liked dogs and chocolate. Let's see them give that up.

    • @indepthmike5578
      @indepthmike5578 Рік тому +4

      That failed artist also started off as very poor in his early life he was basically sleeping on public benches and in homeless shelters it wasn't till he enlisted to fight for Germany in WW1 that his life completely turned around and where he began to make the right connections with the right people that would turn him into the leader of Germany who almost conquered Europe.

  • @rustyshackleford1908
    @rustyshackleford1908 Рік тому +117

    I saw a recent article talking about how females are getting stood up more than ever on dating apps like Tinder and Bumble.
    These videos explain a lot of why that is happening.

    • @MAGA_Patriot2024
      @MAGA_Patriot2024 Рік тому +9

      I honestly don't know what they expect...one look at them (especially the one with the booger dangling from his/her/its nose) automatically leaves skid marks in the parking lot...

    • @pianomusic4you
      @pianomusic4you Рік тому

      For sure.

    • @msnewsenior
      @msnewsenior Рік тому +3

      No it doesn’t, it’s just you making excuses for guys being jackasses. If you don’t want to show up for a date, don’t make plans

    • @rustyshackleford1908
      @rustyshackleford1908 Рік тому

      @@msnewsenior you're so edgy.
      I'm surprised I could hear you since you're so far away on top of your high horse 😂🤮

    • @mindyourbusiness4199
      @mindyourbusiness4199 Рік тому

      ​@@msnewseniorwomen should split the bill instead of looking for a free meal. If I rolled up on one of these goblins Id drive away too.

  • @lordoreocat
    @lordoreocat 11 місяців тому +2

    Our society today lacks fairness and happiness.
    I am 13, going to be 14 years old in two months, and when I grow up I want to be a business owner (hopefully in a little town) and even be a house wife. They say, you can be anything you want. You choose what you want to be, then they say you are wrong and this is not the right life choice. We live in a society that contains only hypocrisy. It’s sad. I do not believe in god (though I believe there must be some god out there), but if there is one, save our souls.

  • @annelanham2258
    @annelanham2258 Рік тому +2

    Literally curling my hair so I can look cute for my husband when he comes home as I watch this. 😊❤

  • @paramoreparks9960
    @paramoreparks9960 Рік тому +38

    As a women who fell for all this "independent woman" shit, which ran me into the ground and pushed me to lengths no one could ever imagine... BE A TRADITIONAL WOMAN/ WIFE. THE GRASS IS WAAAAAYYYYYY GREENIER ON THIS SIDE. FROM MY EXPERIENCES.

  • @bethany45101
    @bethany45101 Рік тому +41

    Proud traditional wife here. I keep the home, homeschool our kids, and do stereotypical “wife” things. My husband owns a business and takes care of our finances. It’s really such a good life. I feel so bad for these poor deluded women. They are really missing out.

  • @mariareginarosaria8927
    @mariareginarosaria8927 6 місяців тому

    Thank you, Michael!

  • @WcJ31
    @WcJ31 Рік тому +2

    My wife told me she found her purpose in life and that was becoming a mother. As a Father and husband it made me more of a man and want to always be there for them. Doing it God’s way is the best way! I hope all women see the beauty in doing it that way

  • @robertbach9376
    @robertbach9376 Рік тому +19

    I drink water only because Hitler drinks water