If a friend cannot respect your belongings, in a sense they don’t respect you! That cousin is not even taking any accountability for basically not respecting boundaries 🤦🏻♀️
Agree. Why isn’t that girl saying I’m sorry about the damn wig!!! That’s what I was waiting for. I wouldn’t want to be friends with anyone who can’t acknowledge they did something wrong
Agreeeeee! I would let it go the minute she admits she messed up the wig and genuinely be sorry about it. But not taking accountability about it put a block between her and her friend.
@@dwayne-lb6er Why did Karamo not address this basic issue? How can she borrow her wig, return it destroyed and expect her to just continue on with the relationship and ignore the total disrespect for her property and the relationship?
I hate to say it but Karamao dropped the ball- everybody on that stage failed to see how the cousin never apologized about how she disrespected her friend. It’s not about the wig it’s that she refuses to acknowledge wtf she did and apologize and pay her back. She acting like it’s nothing !
I fully agree! It was about respect , never about the wig. Everybody’s acting like she needs to just get over it and heal but her dad passing had nothing to do with the disrespect she felt from her “friend” . It’s easy to just get over it when you’re the one that owes debt
Agreed 1,000%‼️ If the friendship meant so much like the cousin kept saying, she would have been paid her for the wig because she knew she messed it up. She would have never got that hug from me without an apology and agreeing to pay me back.
When she said “ he’s not really my man” and he replied “oh he yo man now” I lost it! 😂 🤣I feel bad for him though, his friend should have been honest about the cheating.
I went through the exact same thing as the wig owner. The problem is not a damaged object, it’s the lack of respect towards her and her materialistic things, friend wouldn’t have done the same to someone else, why would she feel she can do it to her and act like it’s okay? To then not take accountability and act offended when she didn’t want to be friends any more?
Never lend out what you're not willing to lose, people will borrow your things and not take care of them the way you do. Then they will minimize your pain 🙄
Right! I loaned my friend my LV bag. Her daughter set their apartment on fire & burned my purse. She didn't even offer an apology. I learned that lesson!
The wig girl is immature and has no accountability. It's not about the material thing, it's about what the actions surrounding the material thing bring to the surface. She clearly has no respect for others' property, no remorse, and is very selfish.
She definitely not. $400 is alot of money for a wig and the borrower doesn't show no remorse and accountability of destroying someone's property. Why is someone borrowing someone else hair? That's not even sanitary. That's her money and how the girl is showing disrespect, it's not right. We can all say she's choosing a wig over friendship but what about the person who owes for the wig. She put her foot down so she don't feel used again. We're not in this lady's shoes. She wants to get back in the friendship to take something else. Why didn't she replace her friend wig and call it a day. I wouldn't trust her.
I felt the same way if she respected her ad her property she would have offered to pay for or repair the wig. You can tell the girl has allowed so many other forms of disrespect and she was just fed up.
why isn't he addressing the disrespect; not taking responsibility for messing up the wig-for her birthday; compensate for what she destroyed; weave is expensive; show that it is about your friendship by settling the issue of her heart and not make light of it-replace the wig. Red flag-boyfriend letting family interfere in their relationship; I believe cousin has an underline jealousy of their relationship-gaslighting.
I feel like the boyfriend's cousin needed to atleast apologize to her long time friend for damaging the wig. She went up down and all around to avoid a simple sincere apology.
This is the first time I felt like Karamo handled a situation wrong.... that girl should have been apologizing for damaging that wig... and should have been told to stay out of their relationship
Why can’t she just say I’m sorry I messed your wig up but I don’t have 400 bucks... if I did I would have been able to buy my own wig and not borrow yours... 😂🤦🏽
She should pay for it in installments.. It’s about respecting her property.. She has no respect and boundaries. It’s evident she is involved in her relationship with her cousin. Her boyfriend need to set boundaries in his relationship and set his cousin straight when she disrespects his girlfriend. That’s the problem they are both trampling all over her feelings because they are family. If you are really sorry pay for the wig.. period…😮
The important part that Karamo did not address is that the owner of the wig just wanted the friend to accept responsibility for damaging the wig & should probably offer something to repair, or put towards replacing the wig.
She should repair her friends wig. What kind of friend destroy something and not fix it, and think that is ok? She is a tacky friend for not repairing the wig she destroyed.
The friend keeps saying she let a wig and money tear them apart when she was the one who destroyed the wig. She let a wig come between them. Not only did she destroy it, but she never replaced it. She chumped her friend and feels like she is in a position of power because she is the boyfriends cousin. I don't know what her problem is,but whatever her problem is, it goes way back. That boyfriend should be ashamed of himself. His loyalty is with his family even when they are wrong against his woman. And, they both sat there like they were right. She needs to get away from that family because they do not really care about her.
Or maybe it’s just because some people quite literally don’t care about wigs like that. His girlfriend values wigs more than they do. Some people just have different values on things. But I will admit, if the girlfriend had come to the cousin in the beginning, like, “could you pay for my wig? If you don’t, next time you ask for something, you’re not getting it until you pay for what you damaged. And if you damage THAT, you won’t get ANYTHING out of me ever again.” But you absolutely don’t end a friendship over a WIG. Like the cousin said, it’s freaking petty. People are so quick to break off long term relationships/friendships over crappy reasons in this day and age. Instead of breaking off friendships, learn how to set up boundaries like a grown adult who's moved past high school drama
The wig situation made me upset because the friend kept acting like, oh i didn't mess it up & oh well... Let me get away with it . Why didn't karamo tell the friend she's wrong for messing up her friend's wig, she's wrong for acting like she doesn't care, & she's wrong for not admitting that she's wrong ? ! That's her friend wig ! She paid money for her wig ! You can't hold people's things, mess them up, & act like you don't care . That's wrong & disrespectful . The friend definitely should've been put in her place .
I would never get over that lack of respect‼️ And the person that did it not even feel bad about it and didn’t even see something wrong in her actions‼️ No, no, no…. I wouldn’t trust her never again… Not ONE word‼️
why is nobody respecting the fact that she worked her ass off paid 400$ an let her friend used said wig an shawty ruined it an than never apologized or even take accountability for what she said. that dead wrong come on now all shawty want is for her to own up an we’ll move on.
De'Asia sounds like she lost her mind for real. A $400.00 wigsss and you had no remorse SERIOUSSSLLYYY??? Don't lend out no wigs and makeup periodttt..smh let her friendship dive she has no respect at all, and she doesn't care to have any respect.
I feel bad for homie. The good dudes always get played, smh. And the good women always end up with the most rotten dudes. I hope he doesn't become bitter and can continue being a decent man and find someone who is good for and to him.
What makes him a good dude? He clearly expressed that he wasn't even interested in Carla for real until she acted as his caretaker. Carla probably felt like he really still wanted to be with his girl friend. Carla is wrong for cheating, but his interest in her was probably too late and unreliable.
@@lasheemaford8318 no both parties are wrong an you should really watch how you talk because baby boy I’ve never been a hoe I can’t relate an just cause you choose the wrong partners don’t mean every black women is bad stop projecting have a blessed day
He not no good dude. Why he didn’t unlock his phone either. He was probably hoeing too. He’ll be ight. He had hoes too. Plus he wanted his best friend too. So yeah
No, both good AND bad dudes get played. It just stings more when it happens to good men. The same goes for good women. Being cheated on isn't a matter of if you are good or not, it's just that you had the unfortunate experience of being betrayed by a selfish, evil person. 🤷♂️ That's all it is. You could be the perfect spouse and a cheater will still cheat because they are arrogant and lack self control and loyalty.
I usually agree with Karamo, but ima have put on my “Auntie” hat right now(I’m in my late 50s, and by late 50s I mean I turned 60 in October 😆),, he mentioned forgiving Nicki no Sir, you don’t give a person a second chance to betray you, there is NO girl code when he has been your friend for years way before she met Carla,,,, I’ve got childhood male friends and would never cross them or allow someone else to just because were both women,,,neither gender takes precedence in friendship ,,,, ole girl was cheating and you let your homeboy be the sucka she was never his real friend,,, no repairing that,
Agreed... also though the wig situation the young lady that damaged the wig should've been held accountable for her selfish disrespectful behavior towards her friend, she was too dismissive about her friends property. I would never do my Best friend that way, it's not the material thi g it's the principle of being g respectful of your friend.
When you forgive it’s for you not the other person. It’s for your peace . That doesn’t mean still allow her or them in his life . He can simply forgive & move forward with his life .
This girl ruined a $400 wig and is like whatever! She should have at least offered her something. Cousin is WRONG... She should make it right... They just want her to eat it. 🤷🏾♀️
I believe Karomo is missing the point. People would walk over you after you forgive them for something and they can’t even apologize for and they’ll keep doing it over and over. There’s no trying to work that out at all like the girlfriend said when you can’t respect her and not caring.
Girl Cousin is wrong & immature & definitely using manipulation tactics to get accountability for the wig using it as “it’s just a wig” when in reality the relationship seem a likkle jealous from the cousin picking sides and not letting her cousin know, I also feel as if Boyfriend is using “my family” instead of sticking up for the person he probably will procreate with she is not heard baby needs love praying and sending healing to all three🙏🏾❤
Soon as I saw her shoes I knew she was trifling. She couldn’t get a shake and go outta me😂 Her lackadaisical responses tell me all I need to know about her “ friend “
I feel so sorry for the young lady, she just got Gaslighted by her this so called " Sister" a person who loves and respects you would take accountability for their actions!! If she really wanted to be back in her life you could have simply " paid for the wig" She knew she had damaged the wig and wasn't even descent enough to tell her, she just threw it in a bag and gave it backed damage, that speaks volumes about the type of person she truly is. I really hope she doesn't trust her again, she is setting herself up to be hurt again. Even the boyfriend, he is playing it down as well, Why didn't he replaced the money for the wig?? They act as if the money isn't nothing, but neither one of them came up with the $$$ the problem could have been solved !!
Most but not all women feel that way. I agree with you. My son, single at the time, told me that a man is faithful as his options. I feel he is no different than most men. My son is Al B Sure/Shermar Moore clone. There were too many options. 😮😮 Then he told me he may be with a cool, fantastic figured, intelligent, beautiful, trendy presenting, and a great girl...and he see another woman and he say to himself, I can have her too. And so on. But listen to this, my son also told me that there are only 3 different types of vaginas.....no when is telling me stuff, I listen and ask nothing because I'm already shocked at what I'm being told but I don't want to make him feel he can't tell me things. So, I never asked him to describe the three. Yeah boys are a different beast than girls. This was in his 20's when he was over sharing and making uncomfortable will remaining chill. He is now a married 48 year old father of two. Whew chile?
With the wig scenario, and the way the bf and the cousin are acting, I think that maybe she feels cornered because the cousin keeps intervening in the relationship and I get that she is family but there is a boundary when it comes to couple’s fights, I think the wig was just the last straw and she feels very alone. The bf himself said he didn’t feel like there was a issue with her intervening and they kept saying she was the issue even when he was in the wrong.
So many little red flags with the boyfriend and his cousin. I can’t help but feel that the way the two cousins backed each other up here on screen is the same way they do it at home when the girl and boyfriend are having an argument
Yeah, I feel like that was the real issue. It seems like they gang up on her and invalidate her feelings. They were so quick to jump on what she said and when karamo gave her feedback. I feel like she was pressured to say she believed her. This was wrong and there’s dysfunctional dynamics going on with the boyfriend and cousin.
Acknowledgement is everything...taking ownership. You messed up the wig, won't admit it, and didn't answer the phone bc u knew you were wrong. That what passed her off
Who borrows somebody’s wig???? That’s too personal, that’s like wearing somebody’s panties,,,, no Ma’am, where they do that at? Nothing, no clothes, no wigs,,,,, y’all ain’t 8th graders, every woman should have her own stuff!!! Y’all too old for that unless it’s like a blazer for a job interview ,,,, grown women don’t borrow each others clothes, she should be embarrassed for even asking
If you borrow something and damage it, you pay for the repair or replacement. Period!! If you can't do that, don't borrow people's things. When I was aged 21, (many moons ago) I borrowed a 4 track recording device from a friend. It was stolen out of my car. My friend was on holiday at the time. I purchased a new one before my friend returned from holiday. Never let a friend regret lending you their things. Show some respect.
People kill saying money is not an issue.. Then pay it and shut down the issue... If your relationship is so important do what it takes to fix it.. She clearly sees it as disrespect that you didn't acknowledge her feelings about the damage that came off as disrespect...And if the bs continues then you know it's deeper so shut it down at that point...
People love to miss the principle! She would’ve been cut off cause stop playing with me tf . If you mess up my shi replace it! I’m supposed to just get over it?? Girl bye you done
This is about principalities. The wig was an example of how, the friend didn't value, the wig's worth, or their friendship. She used, wore, and damaged the wig, then handed to her, bald up in a bag! She didn't tell her before returning the wig, nor did she pick up the phone when the young lady tried to contact her about the wig. Then she has the audacity to sit up there and lie, when the host asked her if, she damaged the wig? Then followed it up by saying, she chose money over their friendship. Girl bye with that nonsense. Why didn't you offer her some of her money back, to make things right? This is about this woman feeling Used, Dismissed and Disregarded.
@@LaCreshiaify Lol, yep he keep saying. It more than just about the wig. Well it is .....The young lady is dating the cousin of her ex bestfriend, they are both using her, and both team up against her!! Yes its deeper...Quit letting folk use you, to be apart of something...Those folk are blood. They have already showed her that they gon stick together whether they right, wrong, or indifferent.
That “best friend” had a very condescending attitude when she spoke. So even when she said she tried to reach out and mend the relationship it’s hard to believe since her demeanor is saying the opposite. She should be done with both the “best friend/sister” and the boyfriend. They were friends first then she got with the cousin so now she’s not a friend she’s the girlfriend of her cousin. Relationship dynamic changed and that “best friend” is always going to be on her the side of her family.
I usually agree with Karamo, but the wig Lady was right about not being heard . Even after she said it was about being heard the friend still didn't hear her and Karamo participated in pressuring the girl to accept friendship again. I feel like her boyfriend and her friend's family is the type of family that sweeps toxic stuff under the rug just because its family.
Lol cap... those women put their story together i really feel he was right and the one in the green is getting it on with everyone in the picture and the streets 😂
What type of friend would be so disrespectful? She ruined her things and instead of apologising she's gas lighting her. She couldnt be my friend. Its not about the item, its about the disrespect.
Okay so he brought her on the show to try and expose her, and has the nerve to say "you serious you brought me here to tell me in front of the whole world"
Can we hide like the fact that he started out by saying she was feeling him and he wasn’t interested but then both ladies was like he was interested and the bestfriend said no
I can't believe the cousin doesn't feel responsible for buying her a new wig!!! How would the cousin feel if the shoe was on the other foot? If you borrow something from someone, you ARE responsible for taking care of whatever you borrow. If you don't want to be responsible for things you borrow then don't borrow anything!!!
I'm with her on the disrespect from the friend. It may be 'just a wig' - but if you mess up something you borrow from a friend you should make it right. If she came at her properly she probably wouldn't have even cared that much
Wtf u mean it’s just a wig my sister took my 500$ wig and she screamed the same thing called the police over my wig idc about a fight but my wig tho!!!! And tel this day we don’t talk 6mths ago
Let's replace the word "wig" with "watch" or "bike" or just 400 cash and then see how the response would be. Its the principal of a friend not respecting your property. I would be upset if my friend borrowed a $400 item and destroyed it and i would respect my friend's item also. But i also agree with another comment, dont lend out anything you arent willing to loose. My grandmother taught me that too.
I knew from the beginning of the story that it was another man & not his best friend. Especially when his best friend got to the stage. I could tell she was being honest about not having a sexual relationship with his girlfriend.
The wig case is bizarre. I don’t get how anyone can let someone else borrow a wig. A wig is way too personal, like underwear 🤣🤣🤣 I could never let anyone borrow my wig
This solution felt forced, the petty way the friend acted when she damaged the wig was u forgiveable! She did nt remove the glue or the cutting of it! She felt betrayed. . It s time to look for new friends who value u and your possessions! Ever again.. No solution here!!!!
How are you going to be more loyal to the one that u don't even know like that. It wasn't your place to tell him but u should have backed off from your friendship with Carla. I'm sorry he had to deal with that. These chicks ain't loyal. They will be more loyal to a no good dude before realizing a cool fella is right before then...just dirty
2nd Drama:🙄=👩🏿🦰🎻🎻🎻🎻 Pay her for the wig, dumb the "friendship". Kayla, is petty. She's alway's, gonna have major, issue's, about something. DUDE, RUN!🏃♂️REAL TALK!🚩🚩
I’m glad they fixed their relationship. the boyfriend was missing grandma’s stuffing and potato salad. You see how he grabbed them at the end. That man was hungry.
I remember seeing the first one on karamo's channel...homeboy was willing to give his best friend another chnace but his girlfriend, well that was done...😐
If a friend cannot respect your belongings, in a sense they don’t respect you! That cousin is not even taking any accountability for basically not respecting boundaries 🤦🏻♀️
Exactly, 💯💯
Agree. Why isn’t that girl saying I’m sorry about the damn wig!!! That’s what I was waiting for. I wouldn’t want to be friends with anyone who can’t acknowledge they did something wrong
Facts Karamo just kept blowing past the fact that there’s a lack of respect involved here!! 😡
Agreed she took no accountability and doubled down
Agreeeeee! I would let it go the minute she admits she messed up the wig and genuinely be sorry about it. But not taking accountability about it put a block between her and her friend.
You don’t just get to destroy someone’s property and expect them to let it go because you’re friends! It doesn’t work that way!
Pay her for her wig
@@dwayne-lb6er Why did Karamo not address this basic issue? How can she borrow her wig, return it destroyed and expect her to just continue on with the relationship and ignore the total disrespect for her property and the relationship?
I hate to say it but Karamao dropped the ball- everybody on that stage failed to see how the cousin never apologized about how she disrespected her friend. It’s not about the wig it’s that she refuses to acknowledge wtf she did and apologize and pay her back. She acting like it’s nothing !
AGREEEED!
that irritated me the whole time...like just apologize🤷🏾♀️
Agreed 😅
I fully agree! It was about respect , never about the wig. Everybody’s acting like she needs to just get over it and heal but her dad passing had nothing to do with the disrespect she felt from her “friend” . It’s easy to just get over it when you’re the one that owes debt
Agreed 1,000%‼️ If the friendship meant so much like the cousin kept saying, she would have been paid her for the wig because she knew she messed it up. She would have never got that hug from me without an apology and agreeing to pay me back.
When she said “ he’s not really my man” and he replied “oh he yo man now” I lost it! 😂 🤣I feel bad for him though, his friend should have been honest about the cheating.
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That ain't his friend
I thought Karla was going to admit to being trans. Sucks that his insecurities revealed a different truth.
@@leonaneufville9182he isn’t insecure if he was he would’ve stayed in the rls !!
I went through the exact same thing as the wig owner. The problem is not a damaged object, it’s the lack of respect towards her and her materialistic things, friend wouldn’t have done the same to someone else, why would she feel she can do it to her and act like it’s okay? To then not take accountability and act offended when she didn’t want to be friends any more?
Never lend out what you're not willing to lose, people will borrow your things and not take care of them the way you do. Then they will minimize your pain 🙄
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Yes, that's what our moms always taught us as children in the 80s.
Right! I loaned my friend my LV bag.
Her daughter set their apartment on fire & burned my purse. She didn't even offer an apology. I learned that lesson!
Facts!!
I learned that a very hard way.
Can we all collectively agree that karamo should start doing lie detector tests
Yes !
Yessss
I agree 👍💯
Yessss let’s goooo.
Yep!
The wig girl is immature and has no accountability. It's not about the material thing, it's about what the actions surrounding the material thing bring to the surface. She clearly has no respect for others' property, no remorse, and is very selfish.
Took the words out of my mouth!
She definitely not. $400 is alot of money for a wig and the borrower doesn't show no remorse and accountability of destroying someone's property. Why is someone borrowing someone else hair? That's not even sanitary. That's her money and how the girl is showing disrespect, it's not right. We can all say she's choosing a wig over friendship but what about the person who owes for the wig. She put her foot down so she don't feel used again. We're not in this lady's shoes. She wants to get back in the friendship to take something else. Why didn't she replace her friend wig and call it a day. I wouldn't trust her.
I felt the same way if she respected her ad her property she would have offered to pay for or repair the wig. You can tell the girl has allowed so many other forms of disrespect and she was just fed up.
MISS ZERO ACCOUNTABILITY is one who will wrong you, then tell you how mad to get!
I’ve had my share of her type, it’s why my circle is a DOT!!!
why isn't he addressing the disrespect; not taking responsibility for messing up the wig-for her birthday; compensate for what she destroyed; weave is expensive; show that it is about your friendship by settling the issue of her heart and not make light of it-replace the wig. Red flag-boyfriend letting family interfere in their relationship; I believe cousin has an underline jealousy of their relationship-gaslighting.
I feel like the boyfriend's cousin needed to atleast apologize to her long time friend for damaging the wig. She went up down and all around to avoid a simple sincere apology.
And we wouldn’t have been friends after that because she’s trying to use oh we’re like sister girl ok and my sister can’t destroy my stuff either
Yeah it felt like holding my breath, waiting for that apology and it just never came. I felt the girlfriend was horribly gaslit.
@@thabsmkhize2481same
If Maury and Iyanla had a baby.. I’m here Karamo
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Yoooo 🤣🤣🤣 i say the same thing
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This is the first time I felt like Karamo handled a situation wrong.... that girl should have been apologizing for damaging that wig... and should have been told to stay out of their relationship
You are so right!!
This is definitely not the first time and I fully agree with what u said !
Why can’t she just say I’m sorry I messed your wig up but I don’t have 400 bucks... if I did I would have been able to buy my own wig and not borrow yours... 😂🤦🏽
Right.
She should pay for it in installments.. It’s about respecting her property.. She has no respect and boundaries. It’s evident she is involved in her relationship with her cousin. Her boyfriend need to set boundaries in his relationship and set his cousin straight when she disrespects his girlfriend. That’s the problem they are both trampling all over her feelings because they are family. If you are really sorry pay for the wig.. period…😮
Right
The important part that Karamo did not address is that the owner of the wig just wanted the friend to accept responsibility for damaging the wig & should probably offer something to repair, or put towards replacing the wig.
That’s what I said.
So true.
Exactly
She has pride,and need to let go. The other person is willing just accept it. Good advice sir
Yeah, he totally skated over that.
She should repair her friends wig. What kind of friend destroy something and not fix it, and think that is ok? She is a tacky friend for not repairing the wig she destroyed.
I don't know why, but that girl just annoys me
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Yes she it. And just ignoring the facts.
Or at least replace it.
I agree, this lady looks like she has no remorse for destroying that 400.00 wig.😮😮😮😮😮
The friend keeps saying she let a wig and money tear them apart when she was the one who destroyed the wig. She let a wig come between them. Not only did she destroy it, but she never replaced it. She chumped her friend and feels like she is in a position of power because she is the boyfriends cousin. I don't know what her problem is,but whatever her problem is, it goes way back. That boyfriend should be ashamed of himself. His loyalty is with his family even when they are wrong against his woman. And, they both sat there like they were right. She needs to get away from that family because they do not really care about her.
I’ve been there done that and you’re absolutely right
Or maybe it’s just because some people quite literally don’t care about wigs like that. His girlfriend values wigs more than they do. Some people just have different values on things.
But I will admit, if the girlfriend had come to the cousin in the beginning, like, “could you pay for my wig? If you don’t, next time you ask for something, you’re not getting it until you pay for what you damaged. And if you damage THAT, you won’t get ANYTHING out of me ever again.” But you absolutely don’t end a friendship over a WIG. Like the cousin said, it’s freaking petty. People are so quick to break off long term relationships/friendships over crappy reasons in this day and age. Instead of breaking off friendships, learn how to set up boundaries like a grown adult who's moved past high school drama
Girl you deserve a new wig and a new man!
Lol
I don’t even believe they cousins. He’s on the cousin’s side to damn much.
@@prettygirltee8 she had been her friend since they was little I think she would know if they weren’t actually cousins💀💀
AMEN!
A new friend too
The wig situation made me upset because the friend kept acting like, oh i didn't mess it up & oh well... Let me get away with it . Why didn't karamo tell the friend she's wrong for messing up her friend's wig, she's wrong for acting like she doesn't care, & she's wrong for not admitting that she's wrong ? ! That's her friend wig ! She paid money for her wig ! You can't hold people's things, mess them up, & act like you don't care . That's wrong & disrespectful . The friend definitely should've been put in her place .
She need to leave that whole mess. 🙄
I would never get over that lack of respect‼️ And the person that did it not even feel bad about it and didn’t even see something wrong in her actions‼️ No, no, no…. I wouldn’t trust her never again… Not ONE word‼️
I agree with the statement . TRUST IS EARNED!
@@cyoung9733 SO true‼️
Lol the dude won't unlock his phone and looks like a saint. He's cheating too lmao
Exactly
why is nobody respecting the fact that she worked her ass off paid 400$ an let her friend used said wig an shawty ruined it an than never apologized or even take accountability for what she said. that dead wrong come on now all shawty want is for her to own up an we’ll move on.
Right, sister/friend knew she messed that wig up. The respectful thing would be paying for another. She was out of line
Ok…but she still has not admitted to ruining the wig!
De'Asia sounds like she lost her mind for real. A $400.00 wigsss and you had no remorse SERIOUSSSLLYYY??? Don't lend out no wigs and makeup periodttt..smh let her friendship dive she has no respect at all, and she doesn't care to have any respect.
I feel bad for homie. The good dudes always get played, smh. And the good women always end up with the most rotten dudes. I hope he doesn't become bitter and can continue being a decent man and find someone who is good for and to him.
What makes him a good dude? He clearly expressed that he wasn't even interested in Carla for real until she acted as his caretaker. Carla probably felt like he really still wanted to be with his girl friend. Carla is wrong for cheating, but his interest in her was probably too late and unreliable.
@@LaCreshiaify facts 👏🏽
@@lasheemaford8318 no both parties are wrong an you should really watch how you talk because baby boy I’ve never been a hoe I can’t relate an just cause you choose the wrong partners don’t mean every black women is bad stop projecting have a blessed day
He not no good dude. Why he didn’t unlock his phone either. He was probably hoeing too. He’ll be ight. He had hoes too. Plus he wanted his best friend too. So yeah
No, both good AND bad dudes get played. It just stings more when it happens to good men. The same goes for good women. Being cheated on isn't a matter of if you are good or not, it's just that you had the unfortunate experience of being betrayed by a selfish, evil person. 🤷♂️ That's all it is. You could be the perfect spouse and a cheater will still cheat because they are arrogant and lack self control and loyalty.
I usually agree with Karamo, but ima have put on my “Auntie” hat right now(I’m in my late 50s, and by late 50s I mean I turned 60 in October 😆),, he mentioned forgiving Nicki no Sir, you don’t give a person a second chance to betray you, there is NO girl code when he has been your friend for years way before she met Carla,,,, I’ve got childhood male friends and would never cross them or allow someone else to just because were both women,,,neither gender takes precedence in friendship ,,,, ole girl was cheating and you let your homeboy be the sucka she was never his real friend,,, no repairing that,
Yes on everything you said 💯 % agree !!
Real Talk
Clear and plain💯
Agreed... also though the wig situation the young lady that damaged the wig should've been held accountable for her selfish disrespectful behavior towards her friend, she was too dismissive about her friends property. I would never do my Best friend that way, it's not the material thi g it's the principle of being g respectful of your friend.
When you forgive it’s for you not the other person. It’s for your peace . That doesn’t mean still allow her or them in his life . He can simply forgive & move forward with his life .
This girl ruined a $400 wig and is like whatever! She should have at least offered her something. Cousin is WRONG... She should make it right... They just want her to eat it. 🤷🏾♀️
I believe Karomo is missing the point. People would walk over you after you forgive them for something and they can’t even apologize for and they’ll keep doing it over and over. There’s no trying to work that out at all like the girlfriend said when you can’t respect her and not caring.
He missed the whole point
Totally agree.
Girl Cousin is wrong & immature & definitely using manipulation tactics to get accountability for the wig using it as “it’s just a wig” when in reality the relationship seem a likkle jealous from the cousin picking sides and not letting her cousin know, I also feel as if Boyfriend is using “my family” instead of sticking up for the person he probably will procreate with she is not heard baby needs love praying and sending healing to all three🙏🏾❤
Soon as I saw her shoes I knew she was trifling. She couldn’t get a shake and go outta me😂 Her lackadaisical responses tell me all I need to know about her “ friend “
She’s not his best friend she kept a secret from him I wouldn’t trust either
I hate that the girl didn’t apologize and kept making it seem like the girl was being petty about her damaged wig! The nerve of De Asia!
I feel so sorry for the young lady, she just got Gaslighted by her this so called " Sister" a person who loves and respects you would take accountability for their actions!! If she really wanted to be back in her life you could have simply " paid for the wig" She knew she had damaged the wig and wasn't even descent enough to tell her, she just threw it in a bag and gave it backed damage, that speaks volumes about the type of person she truly is. I really hope she doesn't trust her again, she is setting herself up to be hurt again. Even the boyfriend, he is playing it down as well, Why didn't he replaced the money for the wig?? They act as if the money isn't nothing, but neither one of them came up with the $$$ the problem could have been solved !!
U don’t cheat on someone u love period
Most but not all women feel that way. I agree with you.
My son, single at the time, told me that a man is faithful as his options. I feel he is no different than most men. My son is Al B Sure/Shermar Moore clone. There were too many options. 😮😮
Then he told me he may be with a cool, fantastic figured, intelligent, beautiful, trendy presenting, and a great girl...and he see another woman and he say to himself, I can have her too. And so on.
But listen to this, my son also told me that there are only 3 different types of vaginas.....no when is telling me stuff, I listen and ask nothing because I'm already shocked at what I'm being told but I don't want to make him feel he can't tell me things. So, I never asked him to describe the three.
Yeah boys are a different beast than girls. This was in his 20's when he was over sharing and making uncomfortable will remaining chill. He is now a married 48 year old father of two.
Whew chile?
With the wig scenario, and the way the bf and the cousin are acting, I think that maybe she feels cornered because the cousin keeps intervening in the relationship and I get that she is family but there is a boundary when it comes to couple’s fights, I think the wig was just the last straw and she feels very alone. The bf himself said he didn’t feel like there was a issue with her intervening and they kept saying she was the issue even when he was in the wrong.
So many little red flags with the boyfriend and his cousin. I can’t help but feel that the way the two cousins backed each other up here on screen is the same way they do it at home when the girl and boyfriend are having an argument
Yeah, I feel like that was the real issue. It seems like they gang up on her and invalidate her feelings. They were so quick to jump on what she said and when karamo gave her feedback. I feel like she was pressured to say she believed her. This was wrong and there’s dysfunctional dynamics going on with the boyfriend and cousin.
Acknowledgement is everything...taking ownership. You messed up the wig, won't admit it, and didn't answer the phone bc u knew you were wrong. That what passed her off
Who borrows somebody’s wig???? That’s too personal, that’s like wearing somebody’s panties,,,, no Ma’am, where they do that at? Nothing, no clothes, no wigs,,,,, y’all ain’t 8th graders, every woman should have her own stuff!!! Y’all too old for that unless it’s like a blazer for a job interview ,,,, grown women don’t borrow each others clothes, she should be embarrassed for even asking
When they say it's not about the money, it's about the money. All she had to say is she's sorry she destroyed the wig and would pay her back.
If you borrow something and damage it, you pay for the repair or replacement. Period!!
If you can't do that, don't borrow people's things.
When I was aged 21, (many moons ago) I borrowed a 4 track recording device from a friend. It was stolen out of my car. My friend was on holiday at the time. I purchased a new one before my friend returned from holiday. Never let a friend regret lending you their things. Show some respect.
People kill saying money is not an issue.. Then pay it and shut down the issue... If your relationship is so important do what it takes to fix it.. She clearly sees it as disrespect that you didn't acknowledge her feelings about the damage that came off as disrespect...And if the bs continues then you know it's deeper so shut it down at that point...
The cousin may be jealous of their relationship and destroyed the wig on purpose.
@@tedra6455that's exactly what I was thinking! She did it on purpose!
@@tedra6455You can understand a lot by the way she came to the show…🤮 She could have worn something nicer.
People love to miss the principle! She would’ve been cut off cause stop playing with me tf . If you mess up my shi replace it! I’m supposed to just get over it?? Girl bye you done
This is about principalities. The wig was an example of how, the friend didn't value, the wig's worth, or their friendship. She used, wore, and damaged the wig, then handed to her, bald up in a bag! She didn't tell her before returning the wig, nor did she pick up the phone when the young lady tried to contact her about the wig. Then she has the audacity to sit up there and lie, when the host asked her if, she damaged the wig? Then followed it up by saying, she chose money over their friendship. Girl bye with that nonsense. Why didn't you offer her some of her money back, to make things right? This is about this woman feeling Used, Dismissed and Disregarded.
💯 Exactly! The wig symbolizes the disregard the cousin had for her friend. Karamo doesn't get it because he's a bald guy.
@@LaCreshiaify Lol, yep he keep saying. It more than just about the wig. Well it is .....The young lady is dating the cousin of her ex bestfriend, they are both using her, and both team up against her!! Yes its deeper...Quit letting folk use you, to be apart of something...Those folk are blood. They have already showed her that they gon stick together whether they right, wrong, or indifferent.
I don’t like the way she talking to her, just say sorry.🤔
I agree that if it was someone else that destroyed the wig, his perception of the situation would be different
Bruh why would karamo hang over that seat like and say “did you say you wanna work it out?” Like he was so shocked 😂😂😂😂😂I love him
When this man said you want me to talk to her ?! I bout died . That couldn’t have been me on that stage that line woulda shatter me 😩
Right cause he ate her up! Paid her dust that instant 😂😂
Karamo sneakily said, “bih don’t wear that wig anymore” 😂 keep the braids lls
This 😂😂😂
That “best friend” had a very condescending attitude when she spoke. So even when she said she tried to reach out and mend the relationship it’s hard to believe since her demeanor is saying the opposite. She should be done with both the “best friend/sister” and the boyfriend. They were friends first then she got with the cousin so now she’s not a friend she’s the girlfriend of her cousin. Relationship dynamic changed and that “best friend” is always going to be on her the side of her family.
I usually agree with Karamo, but the wig Lady was right about not being heard . Even after she said it was about being heard the friend still didn't hear her and Karamo participated in pressuring the girl to accept friendship again. I feel like her boyfriend and her friend's family is the type of family that sweeps toxic stuff under the rug just because its family.
I couldn't agree more. I felt very uncomfortable with karamo pressuring her to accept the friend back even when she was hesitant.
Lol cap... those women put their story together i really feel he was right and the one in the green is getting it on with everyone in the picture and the streets 😂
You do owe her the money for that wig, girl! In all honesty, though, I wouldn’t loan my wig to anyone!
My first Karamo episode.. I will be watching more
“ON TV” had me dead 💀
Nah seriously 😂
"Girl, she done plucked this!" ... LMAO I just love him
But he doesn't want to unlock his phone as well he probably doing something too
I love how karamo doesn’t let things get too ghetto on stage, he said “we can put her away now” to the wig 🤣
What type of friend would be so disrespectful? She ruined her things and instead of apologising she's gas lighting her. She couldnt be my friend. Its not about the item, its about the disrespect.
Okay so he brought her on the show to try and expose her, and has the nerve to say "you serious you brought me here to tell me in front of the whole world"
I think he wants to be with both of them. That should be a great arrangement
She doesn’t love Jerome. She should go with her new found lover.
Yup i feel so too
Can we hide like the fact that he started out by saying she was feeling him and he wasn’t interested but then both ladies was like he was interested and the bestfriend said no
I feel like the cousin and bf are belittling her feelings.
"righhhtt. A messsss" 😂😂😂😂😂
I can't believe the cousin doesn't feel responsible for buying her a new wig!!! How would the cousin feel if the shoe was on the other foot? If you borrow something from someone, you ARE responsible for taking care of whatever you borrow. If you don't want to be responsible for things you borrow then don't borrow anything!!!
Yea the best friend wants to be friends again so she can keep getting over.
Give that girl the money for her wig.
I'm with her on the disrespect from the friend. It may be 'just a wig' - but if you mess up something you borrow from a friend you should make it right. If she came at her properly she probably wouldn't have even cared that much
Wtf u mean it’s just a wig my sister took my 500$ wig and she screamed the same thing called the police over my wig idc about a fight but my wig tho!!!! And tel this day we don’t talk 6mths ago
Right it’s the principle she ain’t even care. “You could of fixed it” I WOULDNT HAVE TOO IF YOU AINT MESS IT UP 🤷🏾♀️
Karamo, Hold on, I have to get some more wine. BE RIGHT BACK.
see that dude wasn’t all the way off he knew something was going on
The friend is not listening; because respect would follow. I see none; the boyfriend and cousin are gaslighting the young lady.
Yes I do believe that Karam should give a truth test yesssss😊
Ouuu I’m liking this show! This is my first episode of his!
It’s a great show to watch. Join the family
The cousin/friend look like she the type don't take care of shit😂
1st: Who looks for love, on Facebook? 😂🚩🚩🤣
Forget both of them, that’s messed up how they did him
It wasn’t the wig it was the principle, An the no accountability. How you treat my things are an exact replica for how you feel about me.
Let's replace the word "wig" with "watch" or "bike" or just 400 cash and then see how the response would be. Its the principal of a friend not respecting your property. I would be upset if my friend borrowed a $400 item and destroyed it and i would respect my friend's item also. But i also agree with another comment, dont lend out anything you arent willing to loose. My grandmother taught me that too.
Agreed Karamo needs to start doing Lie detector tests
I think he likes his best friend more than his own gf
With the wig situation….why would you want to something that has already been on someone else’s head? Best friend or not? Smh
I loved how the cousin held both of their hands.
the cousin being like "I tell it like it is" girl who asked you ? mind your business
I love karamo he’s always asking the right questions.
I knew from the beginning of the story that it was another man & not his best friend. Especially when his best friend got to the stage. I could tell she was being honest about not having a sexual relationship with his girlfriend.
I’m trying to see why I’m the only one who thought Karoma was flirting with the dude? Can I have a hug? You smell good? 😳
Karamo is low key funny and sometimes I don't think he means to be😂
Karamo with the actual wig is crazyyy 😂😂 I love it
Jerome's in da house.
The wig case is bizarre. I don’t get how anyone can let someone else borrow a wig. A wig is way too personal, like underwear 🤣🤣🤣 I could never let anyone borrow my wig
You are suppose to return things the way you found it. If you can’t then play them back.
Like Karamo, what do you know about a "plucked" wig? Lmao lol lol lol lol so done! Lol❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Love you Karamo!!!!!
But … homeboy wasn’t willing to unlock his phone ? Hmmmmm
This solution felt forced, the petty way the friend acted when she damaged the wig was u forgiveable! She did nt remove the glue or the cutting of it! She felt betrayed. . It s time to look for new friends who value u and your possessions! Ever again.. No solution here!!!!
that woman having the audacity to say "wow." when he ignored her after she revealed her infidelity is CRAZY
Sometimes it's not what you do, is how you do it. And the day you say it.
How are you going to be more loyal to the one that u don't even know like that. It wasn't your place to tell him but u should have backed off from your friendship with Carla. I'm sorry he had to deal with that. These chicks ain't loyal. They will be more loyal to a no good dude before realizing a cool fella is right before then...just dirty
2nd Drama:🙄=👩🏿🦰🎻🎻🎻🎻 Pay her for the wig, dumb the "friendship". Kayla, is petty. She's alway's, gonna have major, issue's, about something. DUDE, RUN!🏃♂️REAL TALK!🚩🚩
The brother needs to disowned both of them
Damn right. He didn't unlock his phone. 😂
I’m glad they fixed their relationship. the boyfriend was missing grandma’s stuffing and potato salad. You see how he grabbed them at the end. That man was hungry.
I remember seeing the first one on karamo's channel...homeboy was willing to give his best friend another chnace but his girlfriend, well that was done...😐
@Strawberry !!!!!! yeah...that's true
He cheated too, that’s why he was so calm 🤣🤣
That girl knew she was wrong and now she's trying to get out of it!!!... i call BS when i see it!!!😂😂😂😂