My heart broke for Abbie when she said she was disappointed in herself. Mumma, you did everything you could for your baby. He’s happy and healthy due to the culmination of your choices throughout your pregnancy and labour. I hope once you’re both able to, you find someone to speak to about the traumatic experience you both endured. Sending so much love ❤️
Exactly!! There’s such a weird stigma around child birth these days.. it’s this certain competition that a lot of family vloggers have set.. if you notice all of the family vloggers all do an all natural at home birth and are so passive aggressive & condescending about epidurals & shade other moms for getting them & give sneaky jabs to other women. It’s actually so sad that child birth has turned into some sort of competition so I’m really glad her midwife reminded her it’s ok!! Child birth is HARD and extremely painful and just because one woman was able to do an all natural at home birth easy peasy doesn’t mean that’s the case for everyone, every birth is different, one birth may be more painful than another woman’s for many different reasons. Child birth is a wild ride & it’s so upsetting that it’s a weird badge of honor if a woman doesn’t get an epidural & has an all natural at home birth. I’m glad Abbie didn’t treat her childbirth like all the other family vloggers do..
I know Abbie was the one with most pressure, cause she was feeling so disappointed at herself, but I felt so much for Julia. Seeing the person you love the most in the world going through that and not being able to do anything is so scary. When she sat down to put those clothes on and said everything was going to be fine, I broke down. Love you both so much, thank you for letting us be a part of this whole experience. You are light.
He’s incredible. When we have traumatic birth experiences like this all we need is someone to tell us we did everything possible. I wish I had a doctor to tell me those encouraging words during mine.
I couldn't agree more. That doctor is exactly what someone delivering babies should be. I also loved how swift the midwife was to take action, knowing that the best course for mum and baby was the hospital.
I was crying cuz Abbie is in so much pain, julia is crying. Suddenly He came then it turned into relief and joy. Little man you are so blessed with this mama & mommy.
This midwife is amazing! She is not afraid to recommend the hospital if she thinks it is better for both the mom and baby. Not all of them are like that.
She should have said hospital earlier. I'm glad it worked out where everyone was ok but this could have gone worse, and it was already a nightmare. The mommas were super strong and had a great medical team at the hospital. And the reward was a little baby boy.
Ive watched a lot of birth videos. I have never been so moved and struck with raw emotion. Abbie did so so well. And Julia was so sweet. Hearing how much the doctor's were validating them and that they did everything they possibly really set everyone who watched this off. Well done, both of you.
The fact that Julia was trying to calm Abbie the whole time, and be strong, but then as soon as Julia broke, Abbie stopped everything and helped. I love that.
Abbie is a rockstar.. I can't imagine how exhausting this whole thing was. Julia also just made me cry, trying to be strong but loosing her shit at the same time. Congratulations girls!!
I’ve seen a lot of birth stories and I can say, it is so rare to see such a strong, level-headed and resolved young woman birth her baby the way Abbie did. What a champion ❤️
That was funny. I am super excited to see the next chapter and chapters in there life as well as seeing this adventure again but with Julia being the pregnant one.
@@brittainyellis6670 and where the fk that lesbian mother stands in the natural order because shes supposed to be "born that way"...how the fk could lesbians become mothers 15000 years ago...if only I can understand...which I do...aholes should stop donating sprms...thats the core of the problem thats what led to the rise of the lesbian mom...which is another reason to believe every problem in society is there because of men...gotta admit.
The moment Abbie saw her son... Her heart fluttered so much in that moment, you could hear that though the monitor. Such a beautiful moment. Congratulations guys!
The tenderness of the nurses and doctor is what ended up making me emotional. They were SO wonderful to you guys. They really took their time to explain everything, and to validate and encourage Abbie. I know it’s not the experience you wanted, but I so hope you can look back at this and appreciate it.
as someone who also went through a traumatic home birth transfer, i completely understand those feelings you were having, abbie. but it truly seems like you were surrounded by some extremely supportive people. you ladies did a great job. 💕
I cried, this is so emotionnal. Nothing went as you guys planned but still, it made my heart skip a beat when Abbie said to Julia before going into surgery :"don't cry", such an incredible and strong lady. Sending you love and support through that traumatic experience. Sometimes, life challenges us into certain things but in the end, you have a beautiful baby boy. You guys did everything you possibly could. Take care !
No but the fact that this pregnancy went from “we’re having a birth vlog” to “Abbie has about 100 problems w her and Baby H’s heart rate has dropped and she needs a C-section” is insane. You’re so strong
Abbie is one of those people that seems ordinary but then shocks you with her extraordinary strength and grace. She handled it all so well, even when things went the complete opposite of what she had planned!
@@AyaKal1 Yeah but I thought they were talking about the first one. The lady in their home. I mean multiple ppl said it but it was mainly the lady at her home
I must say this is the best team of doctors and nurses I have watched or seen... They weren't judgemental or ignoring them rather they told them every single thing they needed to know...
@@yoongistoe4677 We're human. We're not perfect and we don't do everything right all the time. But I've been doing this for 6 years and most are good. Unless you actually do this for a living, you don't get it.
@@veevee306 I agree, most are wonderful, beautiful human beings who NEVER get the recognition and praise they deserve! Unfortunately there are some horrible doctors and nurses, and even when there are only a few, it makes it seem like majority. You only hear about the bad, no one does a 'story time' on their nice normal experience at the doctors office, just the horror stories, and so people naturally tend think the majority are horrible. Its the same way in my profession, teaching. Not AS bad at the elementary level, where I teach, as the middle/junior and high school levels, but still very much prevalent.
Parenthood is such a scary, but incredible thing. Congrats to you two. I can tell that with you girls as this child's parents, he is going to become a fine young man.
ikr its so important to always reassure new mothers because they just gave birth and they have a bunch of hormones around along with self-doubt of 'i could've done better' even when they did all they needed to do, giving them reassurance is such an important thing, yet often overlooked thing
The surgeon reassuring you that it wasn’t your fault was the most touching thing it triggered the waterworks that lasted thru the end of the video. Congrats mamas! He’s beautiful ✨💜✨
*The entire journey of Baby H entering the world has been too overhwhelming! I couldn't help but cry to see him enter the world in the arms of his beautiful moms who have been waiting for this moment for so long! Abbie, you are so strong and Julia, the best partner we could ask for!*
It broke me to tears and then again when the doctor said "you've done everything you could". I had a c section at 42 weeks 5 days after only 15 hours of back labour. No one ever spoke to me that way. I was only 20 then.
@@KarleneAlyssa im really sorry to hear that you didn't get the amount of support that you deserved especially being that young so i understand why that part of the video made you emotional but you did everything you could and in the end your beautiful and sweet little angel was in your arms and that's what matters💙💙
I'm a girl, just ignore my username. I have a girlfriend and in the future I hope for her to be my wife. If she wanted to get pregnant and gave birth, I can clearly see her saying this to me. I really hope she's the one. Btw I'm proud of both of you Abbie and Julia
I WAS CRYING THE WHOLE TIME! These mamas are so freaking strongg! Shoutout to the midwife, doctors, nurses and all the frontliners for working so hard despite the pandemic. Bless your family 🥺✨
Midwifes are literally some of the most amazing people on this earth, helping lives come out Into this world safely and I can tell you, that you had the best
@@lauracorbett4577 Oh...that makes more since now I feel embarrassed. Back to my animal loving self you is gonna do research on guenia pigs for no reason.
Y’all are so damn strong man. Every time they would mention something that was a cause for worry I would get teary eyed FOR YOU! I know my ass would be sobbing or at least crying a little whenever they mentioned something scary. But y’all kept it together and were so strong and it was truly inspiring. I’m happy everything turned out fine! And that you finally got your baby boy. I know this was a while ago but I’m pregnant right now and watching any and every labor and delivery video lmao
When Julia started crying I started crying😭 I can’t imagine what they felt in those moments. So proud of you guys! ♥️ congratulations on your beautiful family
@@saydegray2419 IF done right you actually shouldn't feel anything! For my son I only felt something because literally 20 mins after getting it I had him so it didn't really get the chance to actually work. With my daughter it was a god sent thing that I literally cried after getting it because I felt NOTHING. Now if it fails you're in for a rude awakening.
@Madame Satanas i mean you feel the pressure yes thats unavoidable but you shouldnt feel the pain of it. Its why they went in ans fixed it for her. Didnt help that scoliosis makes placing it harder, but they got it in the end.
The people who disliked this just accidentally clicked it because they were crying from how emotional this was. Congratulations to you both, you’re so strong and deserve the best! ❤️❤️
My mom is a gynecologist and i saw so many babies, but for some reason this vlog made me cry and emotional. I am very happy for both of you ♥️♥️♥️ and congratulations
I’m in love with this OB for reassuring you that you did literally everything you could to have this baby the way you wanted to. I was in the same position and my OB told me the same. Congrats to ya’ll! I know the wait was worth it : $
Holy shit he's actually here, I cant believe it I feel like it was just yesterday you surprised Julia with the test and started decorating the nursery. I'm so excited to see the rest of your journey with him ❤️
I'm glad that the hospital staff establish a calm environment as they prepare you for the birth. Abbie must've been so anxious and Julia is right. You shouldn't be disappointed in yourself. It's not your fault. You did great! I'm crying right now. You 3 make 1 beautiful family. I'll be patiently waiting for baby R.
Congratulations guys. I was sad and started to cry because all of the pain Abbie went through. But I’m really happy that the baby was born happy and healthy. I love you guys!
It was so hard to watch Julia go through that. She must have been so scared. You both are so strong and I am sending so many prayers to you all right now 💗
I watched my brother go through the same thing when his wife was in labour. I was scared, he was terrified and the midwife was horrible. Thankfully after an emergency caesarean, my most perfect niece was born. It’s so hard to see someone you love go through something so painful and traumatic.
I cant believe Abbie stays so calm, and when she almost / already is /gets in labor she can still make jokes 😘❤️ I cant explain how happy i am for you guys! When Abbie was holding the baby i was in tears ❤️❤️❤️
You guys went through a lot during his birth, I'm so glad he's finally here and he's fine. Abby's so strong, she's done everything she can to get her baby safe and sound.
I just really want to say how much I'm grateful that with everything that happened (going to the hospital and...) You still took your time and energy to put this video for us. I'm really happy for you guys and I'm sure you guys going to be the best mothers in the world . 💙💙🎉
I started getting teary eyed when he cried like I am so glad to be able to witness this moment and hear his first cry. I will be his virtual aunt plsss
I don’t think there was a moment I wasn’t crying. Abby you are so strong, all of those curve balls were getting thrown your way and you just fought through them. Your little boy is loved and I know you all are the best moms !❤️
It hurt my soul to see Abbie in so much pain. Your generosity in sharing this with us is unbelievable. You are wonderful wives and mothers. Lots of love you all three of you.
i cant believe he’s actually here! abbie, julia i’m so happy to be able to see your baby h has arrived safely. you both have a beautiful baby boy and i love this environment you’ll be providing for him. he has the luckiest moms ever! 🥺🥺
when the midwife was soothing abbie when she was having terrible pains i started crying man poor abbie :( and the fact that juila was by her side the whole time is so amazing and you could see h the pride in her eyes as she held him this is just so sweet ❤️❤️❤️
I’m not even a parent and I’m over here crying, so happy that Abby and the baby are okay. My mom was a single mom and she almost died having me, it was two weeks until she was released from the hospital when she could finally hold me. I can’t imagine that feeling
Abbie, you were so incredibly strong and brave. That was an insane amount of stress and pain to have to go through. Julia, you were so supportive and amazing. My heart broke when I saw your baby boy, he is the most perfect, beautiful baby ever ❤️ I love you guys so much. You have supported me through coming out, and accepting myself. Notifications are turned on!
I watched this video a few days before finding out I was pregnant and longed for a baby. I relate to Abbie so much with health anxiety and knew it would be tough for me. Julia, my partner totally relates to you - very similar relationship dynamic. Anyhow, I wanted a natural birth, birthing pool etc... thought how awful your experience was but figured it was really rare for things to be this bad. My birth on the 5th of November was nearly a repeat of yours, Abbie. 86 hrs in labour. Sepsis emergency section. Haemhorrage. If I'd known before 🤦🏼♀️ I'm so blessed with my baby boy and I love him so hard. Coming to terms with what just happened to me feels like a mountain to climb. Thank-you for sharing so much. I look at you and how you've grown from this and it gives me hope ❤
Thank you. I actually only just recently found out from my consultants that it was a rare case of cephalopelvic disproportion. He was actually too big to descend into my pelvis. This stopped me berating and blaming myself so much and I'm feeling loads better. My boy is nearly 1! He's the best thing that ever happened to me xx
My heart broke for Abbie when she said she was disappointed in herself. Mumma, you did everything you could for your baby. He’s happy and healthy due to the culmination of your choices throughout your pregnancy and labour.
I hope once you’re both able to, you find someone to speak to about the traumatic experience you both endured. Sending so much love ❤️
Agree
So true and great suggestion!
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Absolutely true
I agree
the fact that they went through this and still had motivation to edit this video and post it drives me crazy. like these women are SO strong!
Your midwife reassuring abbie that it’s okay to feel the pain and she’s not weaker for it is literally so touching.
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@@neneyashiro6420 for real* it the same thing :-)
@@savannahscott7477 fr*
Exactly!! There’s such a weird stigma around child birth these days.. it’s this certain competition that a lot of family vloggers have set.. if you notice all of the family vloggers all do an all natural at home birth and are so passive aggressive & condescending about epidurals & shade other moms for getting them & give sneaky jabs to other women. It’s actually so sad that child birth has turned into some sort of competition so I’m really glad her midwife reminded her it’s ok!! Child birth is HARD and extremely painful and just because one woman was able to do an all natural at home birth easy peasy doesn’t mean that’s the case for everyone, every birth is different, one birth may be more painful than another woman’s for many different reasons. Child birth is a wild ride & it’s so upsetting that it’s a weird badge of honor if a woman doesn’t get an epidural & has an all natural at home birth. I’m glad Abbie didn’t treat her childbirth like all the other family vloggers do..
SHE IS NOT WEAK SHE IS STRONG
the mid-wife telling Abbie she’s not a wimp for the pain was so sweet and i’m sure reassuring to hear. such a good lady
Ikr. I loved that part.
you. are. riet. she. is
Can we just take a second and talk about how strong Abbie is!! I can't believe she had to go through all of this! She is a freaking hero
Ikr, she's so brave! I would never be able to do something like this but she did so well!!
i know!! she’s so strong brave and beautiful! she should know how proud everyone is of her❤️ we’re sending all the love to them all!🥰
Lmao, did you just literally copy and paste my comment? XD
@@tinakushner1758 you cant copy paste on yt
@Sop Mario
uhhh, i think you can i copy pasted your name so i could reply to you🤷🏼♀️
I know Abbie was the one with most pressure, cause she was feeling so disappointed at herself, but I felt so much for Julia. Seeing the person you love the most in the world going through that and not being able to do anything is so scary. When she sat down to put those clothes on and said everything was going to be fine, I broke down. Love you both so much, thank you for letting us be a part of this whole experience. You are light.
Beautifully said, I agree
That baby Harbor is Abbies twin
Your midwife seems like an absolute angel, when she was trying to reassure Abbie about the pain
Every nurse did
She did.
"its not you, youre not a wimp. this hurts" that is the most beautiful validation any laboring mom needs tbvh
@@happystrawberry220 to be very honest
even as someone who has chronic pain that made me tear up
You're crazy
ikr so sweet
@@Manuplater_yt your cousin’s brother is your cousin too lmao
That doctor validating your efforts just took me to tears
Absolutely 💯
He’s incredible. When we have traumatic birth experiences like this all we need is someone to tell us we did everything possible. I wish I had a doctor to tell me those encouraging words during mine.
I couldn't agree more. That doctor is exactly what someone delivering babies should be. I also loved how swift the midwife was to take action, knowing that the best course for mum and baby was the hospital.
It is too trw
I'm so stunned by how kind and compassionate the doctors and nurses were. Amazing.
I was crying cuz Abbie is in so much pain, julia is crying. Suddenly He came then it turned into relief and joy.
Little man you are so blessed with this mama & mommy.
Yes 👏
Preach hunny
This midwife is amazing! She is not afraid to recommend the hospital if she thinks it is better for both the mom and baby. Not all of them are like that.
She should have said hospital earlier. I'm glad it worked out where everyone was ok but this could have gone worse, and it was already a nightmare. The mommas were super strong and had a great medical team at the hospital. And the reward was a little baby boy.
Some of them try to do it alone! Thinking there amazing at there job! Which they are but they sometimes need a helping hand
ikr
@@my_quiet_riot hard when she knows it’s going against her patients wishes.
Ive watched a lot of birth videos. I have never been so moved and struck with raw emotion. Abbie did so so well. And Julia was so sweet. Hearing how much the doctor's were validating them and that they did everything they possibly really set everyone who watched this off. Well done, both of you.
I love when Julia started crying and Abbie said “don’t cry no emotions I’m doing fine”🥺❤️❤️
I know I just watched that part and I am literally sobbing
The fact that Julia was trying to calm Abbie the whole time, and be strong, but then as soon as Julia broke, Abbie stopped everything and helped. I love that.
Abbie is a rockstar.. I can't imagine how exhausting this whole thing was. Julia also just made me cry, trying to be strong but loosing her shit at the same time. Congratulations girls!!
I’ve seen a lot of birth stories and I can say, it is so rare to see such a strong, level-headed and resolved young woman birth her baby the way Abbie did. What a champion ❤️
"Thank God I'm married to a woman so she can do it next time" - that is awesome. You did amazing girl!
That was funny. I am super excited to see the next chapter and chapters in there life as well as seeing this adventure again but with Julia being the pregnant one.
wait so what's going to be their UA-cam channel name now that the baby is here
@@vygasreejith6315
Maybe the ensign fam or the ensigns? Idk
You're married to a woman and you think you can have a God...wow!...by the way God is a male you know...how are you working this one out.
@@brittainyellis6670 and where the fk that lesbian mother stands in the natural order because shes supposed to be "born that way"...how the fk could lesbians become mothers 15000 years ago...if only I can understand...which I do...aholes should stop donating sprms...thats the core of the problem thats what led to the rise of the lesbian mom...which is another reason to believe every problem in society is there because of men...gotta admit.
The moment Abbie saw her son... Her heart fluttered so much in that moment, you could hear that though the monitor. Such a beautiful moment. Congratulations guys!
her son?
@@laylayoung322 yes, her son. She gave birth to him..its what the whole video is about...
@@shishkebab6267 I think they wondered why they wrote 'her' and not 'their' because Abbie and Julia are both the moms.
@@friendofstars still nothing wrong with the way she phrased it. She was talking about Abbie in paticular.
I cried so much at the end. I'm so happy for you❤️
The tenderness of the nurses and doctor is what ended up making me emotional. They were SO wonderful to you guys. They really took their time to explain everything, and to validate and encourage Abbie. I know it’s not the experience you wanted, but I so hope you can look back at this and appreciate it.
Yeah me too
as someone who also went through a traumatic home birth transfer, i completely understand those feelings you were having, abbie.
but it truly seems like you were surrounded by some extremely supportive people.
you ladies did a great job. 💕
Can we just take a second and talk about how strong Abbie is!! I can't believe she had to go through all of this! She is a freaking hero ♡
And Julia she was there supporting her while also going through the panicking and stress
They deserved this happiness for being so strong so happy to see them finally with baby H in hands🥺💜
I could never go through this they are so strong
@@mollyconnolly8937 me too, I'm terrified
@@maddyhoverter That's true! The are both real troopers!
My heart broke when Julia started crying, good job Abbie for being strong, my cousin had to have a c section ages ago but i remember us all panicking
same :(
@@imogensmith3574 It's one of the scariest thoughts as two lives our at stake
@@leah6488 yes it seems quite sad, havent you benn waiting FOREVER though!
I cried, this is so emotionnal. Nothing went as you guys planned but still, it made my heart skip a beat when Abbie said to Julia before going into surgery :"don't cry", such an incredible and strong lady. Sending you love and support through that traumatic experience.
Sometimes, life challenges us into certain things but in the end, you have a beautiful baby boy. You guys did everything you possibly could. Take care !
The way they worked so hard to help her pain is wowing me. My hospital was annoyed when I was in pain. I’m so happy they did all they could for her!!!
What a fabulous midwife. I cried when she was validating Abbie and walking her through.
same 😭
No but the fact that this pregnancy went from “we’re having a birth vlog” to “Abbie has about 100 problems w her and Baby H’s heart rate has dropped and she needs a C-section” is insane. You’re so strong
and she was in critical condition the day after too
😭😭😭 That was emotional, thank you for letting us see that special part of your life 🖤
1000%
I think it's clear we are all so honoured and blessed right now
Yes
I love you so much and you are a role model to me. Not just you but Julia too I'm lesbian so I look up to you both thank you 🥰
Awwwwwww omg I saw this and I clicked on it immediately!!!!
@@evasteinbacher7235 sameeeed
Abbie is one of those people that seems ordinary but then shocks you with her extraordinary strength and grace. She handled it all so well, even when things went the complete opposite of what she had planned!
The amount of pain Abbie had gone through is just unimaginable. She’s a real fighter
@@Rebornagain101 uh have you watched the video????
@@Rebornagain101 Seriously..
@@Rebornagain101 gtfo
@@Rebornagain101 jfc I cannot believe people like that really exists. I really hope you get help and can grow.
@@Rebornagain101 omg ur legit prob a boy, u don’t, just totally don’t know pain the female gender goes through. SMH
That midwife is such a gem, very calm and empowering and encouraging. So happy for you guys!!!
It's so nice that the doctor was telling Abbie she did everything she could for the baby ❤️
yea :(
It was the mid-wife that said that but yeah I agree
Yea
yes, it was the doctor, at 17:40
@@AyaKal1 Yeah but I thought they were talking about the first one. The lady in their home. I mean multiple ppl said it but it was mainly the lady at her home
This is one of the sweetest, most moving birth videos I've ever seen.
“Don’t cry, no emotion, I’m doing good” that got me 🥺
I must say this is the best team of doctors and nurses I have watched or seen... They weren't judgemental or ignoring them rather they told them every single thing they needed to know...
That's how most of us are.
@@veevee306 you don't know some people and it shows...
@@yoongistoe4677 We're human. We're not perfect and we don't do everything right all the time. But I've been doing this for 6 years and most are good. Unless you actually do this for a living, you don't get it.
@@veevee306 I agree, most are wonderful, beautiful human beings who NEVER get the recognition and praise they deserve! Unfortunately there are some horrible doctors and nurses, and even when there are only a few, it makes it seem like majority. You only hear about the bad, no one does a 'story time' on their nice normal experience at the doctors office, just the horror stories, and so people naturally tend think the majority are horrible. Its the same way in my profession, teaching. Not AS bad at the elementary level, where I teach, as the middle/junior and high school levels, but still very much prevalent.
@@veevee306 yes my doctors was literally chilling sitting down and he KNEW I Needed to push before I knew I needed to push it was amazing ☺️
Congrats to all 3 of you 🌈❤️
Ikr
love your channel!!
I love you guys!❤️
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hello les filles, toute les mamans LGBT bonheur a vous, vous ètes formidable .I LOVE YOU. FRANCE
I burst out crying when Julia was trying to calm herself down for Abbie. ❤️ Such a special love.
Parenthood is such a scary, but incredible thing. Congrats to you two. I can tell that with you girls as this child's parents, he is going to become a fine young man.
“This is probably the craziest I’ve looked on camera,” she says, looking absolutely beautiful WHILE being in labor. God is a woman indeed.
SO right! She is so beautiful But you too Julia
Omg i read this is probably and abbie said it atthe same time i wss resding it LOL 😂
i agree 1 million billion percent! she’s an amazing beautiful strong brave inspiring gal and i’m so proud of her julia and baby H🥰
I would literally look exactly like a rotten potato.... 😂
The part the doctor said she did everything she could, so she don't need to have regrets never. It is so so SO important.
CONGRATS GIRLS 😍
ikr its so important to always reassure new mothers because they just gave birth and they have a bunch of hormones around along with self-doubt of 'i could've done better' even when they did all they needed to do, giving them reassurance is such an important thing, yet often overlooked thing
Absolutely beautiful. I cried. I'm 60 years old and I'm overjoyed for you three.
Awe, when Julia started to cry it made me tear up. She's such an amazing wife. Congratulations on the beautiful little boy!
Idk why but the doctor saying “here’s your little person” made me feel sooo warm and happy inside
Same
Abby comforting Julia when she was panicking brought tears to my eyes ❤️😭you both are so strong, congratulations ❤️
The surgeon reassuring you that it wasn’t your fault was the most touching thing it triggered the waterworks that lasted thru the end of the video. Congrats mamas! He’s beautiful ✨💜✨
These two women are literally so strong - both physically and emotionally.
“Thank god I’m married to a woman so you can do it next” lmaooo 6:22
Abbie just like oh helllllllllll nah I ain't doing this shit again
@@Strawberrycow-qb6jb LOL
I mean you can't really blame her, that was hard for me to watch. Imagine going through that😱
Time code?
@@zeldarwood4366 6:22
I love how supportive the midwife was with talking up Abbie about her strength 🥺 congrats
Poor thing, you were an absolute trooper, really opened my eyes to all of the unexpected things that can happen during a delivery.
God bless that midwife. She was so assuring and understanding 💙😩
Right she seemed so nice
Absolutely! She knew when plans needed to change and guided you to the right decision. 👍🏽
that’s a great midwife
*The entire journey of Baby H entering the world has been too overhwhelming! I couldn't help but cry to see him enter the world in the arms of his beautiful moms who have been waiting for this moment for so long! Abbie, you are so strong and Julia, the best partner we could ask for!*
the midwife comforting abbie was just the sweetest thing 🥺
It broke me to tears and then again when the doctor said "you've done everything you could".
I had a c section at 42 weeks 5 days after only 15 hours of back labour. No one ever spoke to me that way. I was only 20 then.
@@KarleneAlyssa im really sorry to hear that you didn't get the amount of support that you deserved especially being that young so i understand why that part of the video made you emotional but you did everything you could and in the end your beautiful and sweet little angel was in your arms and that's what matters💙💙
@@elenimoniaki7170 Thank you I really appreciate that. I happily now have a 10 year old. This makes me hella old.
“Don’t cry, no emotion😊” “sorry I’m gonna cry🥲🥺” awwwww their the cutest couple ever.🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Ikr. This video was so beautiful. I loved it.
I’m not crying you’re crying 😭😭😭😭😭🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🦄❤️❤️❤️
“Thank god I’m married to a woman so you can do this next” that fully made me chuckle, Abbie you are the strongest human 💗
same, i can’t wait to have a lovely family with my future wife just like them🥰 they both are so inspirational! sending so much love to them all❤️
I'm a girl, just ignore my username. I have a girlfriend and in the future I hope for her to be my wife. If she wanted to get pregnant and gave birth, I can clearly see her saying this to me. I really hope she's the one. Btw I'm proud of both of you Abbie and Julia
I WAS CRYING THE WHOLE TIME! These mamas are so freaking strongg! Shoutout to the midwife, doctors, nurses and all the frontliners for working so hard despite the pandemic. Bless your family 🥺✨
i feel so bad for julia, you can see how much she wishes she could help but knows there’s nothing she can do :(
I know right
I know but it was all worth all of the stress in the end
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She’s the gf we all want ❤️❤️😭
I know
this baby is so lucky to have two amazing moms like these
Abbie: “ is probably the craziest I’ve ever looked on camera”
Also Abbie: *looks stunning*
FOR REAL
Yesss
yesss
Fr tho
JADE
Midwifes are literally some of the most amazing people on this earth, helping lives come out Into this world safely and I can tell you, that you had the best
Yes and from what I have seen in videos they some so reassuring as well as a support in a way.
When I have my 3 babies I want a midwife to deliver them at home instead of going to the doctors
@@lauracorbett4577 triplets? Congrats
@@brittainyellis6670 No I don't want them born all at once I want to have a twin boy and girl first and then a year later have another girl
@@lauracorbett4577
Oh...that makes more since now I feel embarrassed. Back to my animal loving self you is gonna do research on guenia pigs for no reason.
THE WAY I DROPPED EVERYTHING IM SO EXCITED
Yess me tooo
Me too
FR
Same!!!
@@pazvivanco1316 meeee tooooo
Y’all are so damn strong man. Every time they would mention something that was a cause for worry I would get teary eyed FOR YOU! I know my ass would be sobbing or at least crying a little whenever they mentioned something scary. But y’all kept it together and were so strong and it was truly inspiring. I’m happy everything turned out fine! And that you finally got your baby boy. I know this was a while ago but I’m pregnant right now and watching any and every labor and delivery video lmao
ME TOO
When Julia started crying I started crying😭 I can’t imagine what they felt in those moments. So proud of you guys! ♥️ congratulations on your beautiful family
"I'm so glad I'm married to a women, she can do it next"
I love this🤣
@Dead Skull you still have to understand it hurts.
@Dead Skull key word reduces.
@@saydegray2419 IF done right you actually shouldn't feel anything! For my son I only felt something because literally 20 mins after getting it I had him so it didn't really get the chance to actually work. With my daughter it was a god sent thing that I literally cried after getting it because I felt NOTHING. Now if it fails you're in for a rude awakening.
@Madame Satanas i mean you feel the pressure yes thats unavoidable but you shouldnt feel the pain of it. Its why they went in ans fixed it for her. Didnt help that scoliosis makes placing it harder, but they got it in the end.
@Dead Skull I am a woman and I stand by all of your words. It makes me shiver when I think I might be pregnant
Oh the look on Julia's face when they were still at home, she looked so scared and sad, I'm so happy everything's okay now
The people who disliked this just accidentally clicked it because they were crying from how emotional this was. Congratulations to you both, you’re so strong and deserve the best! ❤️❤️
My mom is a gynecologist and i saw so many babies, but for some reason this vlog made me cry and emotional. I am very happy for both of you ♥️♥️♥️ and congratulations
Dr. Glam hope to see you collaborate in a vlog with them, If it will be possible
omg Dr. Glam watches the Ensigns too❤
Me to
Mine too!
Hi 👶
Abbie's smile when she was holding baby H made my day. Also congrats to all 3 of you.
♥️
“It’s not you, you’re not a wimp, this HURTS!...There’s nothing wrong with that.”
Ughhhhhh if only everyone could say that.
it brought tears to my eyes
That midwife was just absolutely wonderful. Wow.
I need her in my life, she’s a wonderful woman in the right profession 🙌🏼
their midwife is a godamn beautiful saint
Yes! I loved that acknowledgment of her pain, I’d love that too like yes this fucking hurts lmao
I’m in love with this OB for reassuring you that you did literally everything you could to have this baby the way you wanted to. I was in the same position and my OB told me the same. Congrats to ya’ll! I know the wait was worth it : $
Holy shit he's actually here, I cant believe it I feel like it was just yesterday you surprised Julia with the test and started decorating the nursery. I'm so excited to see the rest of your journey with him ❤️
I'm glad that the hospital staff establish a calm environment as they prepare you for the birth. Abbie must've been so anxious and Julia is right. You shouldn't be disappointed in yourself. It's not your fault. You did great! I'm crying right now. You 3 make 1 beautiful family. I'll be patiently waiting for baby R.
Is baby R the next one?
@@hannahyancey7384 If it's a girl, then yup
@@abbycook228 ok. Did they make a vedio about it
@@hannahyancey7384 I don't think so, but they've mentioned it in a couple of their videos
Waw honestly the medical staff looks so adorable omg it’s look like they tried to give you the most “natural” birth congrats on this little babyyyyy
Congratulations guys.
I was sad and started to cry because all of the pain Abbie went through.
But I’m really happy that the baby was born happy and healthy.
I love you guys!
13:09 “I will send you a Gucci bag, I’m sorry” Abbie is the sweetest ever. you guys are gonna be amazing parents. 🥺💕
It was so hard to watch Julia go through that. She must have been so scared. You both are so strong and I am sending so many prayers to you all right now 💗
I watched my brother go through the same thing when his wife was in labour. I was scared, he was terrified and the midwife was horrible. Thankfully after an emergency caesarean, my most perfect niece was born. It’s so hard to see someone you love go through something so painful and traumatic.
Congratulations!! Y’all are so strong for having to deal w something that wasn’t your plan. And Baby H is so lucky to have the best two mamas!
The “No, ur not a wimp” was the cutest thing in earth every mom should get that
I nearly cried because I felt sorry for abbie for all the pain she was going through... Julia eyes literally had tears.
Literally been refreshing UA-cam for this since Abbie posted to her IG story!! I am so excited right now lol
Same
Same
I've never been so excited about a video since Rose and Rosie announced her pregnancy hahahahaha.
Congratulations, you'll be excellent mothers ❤️
the way you two were so calm and quiet.. you guys are so incredibly strong
AHHHHH I CLICKED FASTER THAN JAMES CHARLES COULD SAY HI SISTERS IM SO EXCITED
i did to
Same LOL
Same
SAME
Omg same
I cant believe Abbie stays so calm, and when she almost / already is /gets in labor she can still make jokes 😘❤️ I cant explain how happy i am for you guys! When Abbie was holding the baby i was in tears ❤️❤️❤️
You guys went through a lot during his birth, I'm so glad he's finally here and he's fine. Abby's so strong, she's done everything she can to get her baby safe and sound.
The doctor, nurses and the midwife were so calm and friendly all the time! It was honestly so beautiful and you two were so brave
I BAWLED when he first cried! Congratulations, you both did SUCH a good job. I just wanted to give Julia a big hug!
Pov: you’re casually scrolling on your recommended and see this video and freak out. So happy for you two
Nope ive been following them for literally 2 years
@@pepepopopepep and so have I
I was getting so anxious when the doctor talked about the baby’s heartbeat, but I’m so so happy for y’all 🥺❤️
I just really want to say how much I'm grateful that with everything that happened (going to the hospital and...) You still took your time and energy to put this video for us. I'm really happy for you guys and
I'm sure you guys going to be the best mothers in the world . 💙💙🎉
It was just as much for them as it was for us!
I started getting teary eyed when he cried like I am so glad to be able to witness this moment and hear his first cry. I will be his virtual aunt plsss
I don’t think there was a moment I wasn’t crying. Abby you are so strong, all of those curve balls were getting thrown your way and you just fought through them. Your little boy is loved and I know you all are the best moms !❤️
It hurt my soul to see Abbie in so much pain. Your generosity in sharing this with us is unbelievable. You are wonderful wives and mothers. Lots of love you all three of you.
Omfg seeing Abbie in pain hurts my soul
Omfg Julia looked so worried I feel so bad
OMGGGGG I love your profile picture! Haha, look at mine. Hehehehe
;-;
i cant believe he’s actually here! abbie, julia i’m so happy to be able to see your baby h has arrived safely. you both have a beautiful baby boy and i love this environment you’ll be providing for him. he has the luckiest moms ever! 🥺🥺
when the midwife was soothing abbie when she was having terrible pains i started crying man poor abbie :(
and the fact that juila was by her side the whole time is so amazing and you could see h the pride in her eyes as she held him this is just so sweet ❤️❤️❤️
I’m not even a parent and I’m over here crying, so happy that Abby and the baby are okay. My mom was a single mom and she almost died having me, it was two weeks until she was released from the hospital when she could finally hold me. I can’t imagine that feeling
You did so well. I’m a c-section baby and my mom had me alone and she is the strongest woman i know. We are so proud of you.
Abbie, you were so incredibly strong and brave. That was an insane amount of stress and pain to have to go through. Julia, you were so supportive and amazing. My heart broke when I saw your baby boy, he is the most perfect, beautiful baby ever ❤️ I love you guys so much. You have supported me through coming out, and accepting myself. Notifications are turned on!
IT FEELS LIKE IVE BEEN WAITING FOR YEARS OMG IM SO EXCITED
SAME IT FEELS LIKE 9 YEARS NOT 9 months I FEEL SO HAPPY FOR ABBBIE AND JULIA!!
Ikr
Same I was screaming when I saw the video literally
I watched this video a few days before finding out I was pregnant and longed for a baby. I relate to Abbie so much with health anxiety and knew it would be tough for me. Julia, my partner totally relates to you - very similar relationship dynamic. Anyhow, I wanted a natural birth, birthing pool etc... thought how awful your experience was but figured it was really rare for things to be this bad. My birth on the 5th of November was nearly a repeat of yours, Abbie. 86 hrs in labour. Sepsis emergency section. Haemhorrage. If I'd known before 🤦🏼♀️ I'm so blessed with my baby boy and I love him so hard. Coming to terms with what just happened to me feels like a mountain to climb. Thank-you for sharing so much. I look at you and how you've grown from this and it gives me hope ❤
I hope you are doing well and healing ❤
Thank you. I actually only just recently found out from my consultants that it was a rare case of cephalopelvic disproportion. He was actually too big to descend into my pelvis. This stopped me berating and blaming myself so much and I'm feeling loads better. My boy is nearly 1! He's the best thing that ever happened to me xx
“I was waiting for this one turn it up”-Lizzo
This.😂😍
OMGGGG
😂😂😂
Same
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