@@secretagent4955 but that all depends on one's financial situation. In this day and age it is rare to be able to live next door parents etc. Back then or back home its easier. Its not one size fits all.. to laugh about is a bit childish
I feel like asian families need to encourage independence from a young age... We have to learn form the white folks - they have got some things right. The first 5 to 7 years are important in a marriage - the foundation needs to be strong. Our elders need to keep themselves busy, be independent as much as possible and rely on the community for support not just their grown children. We are retiring until the age of 68?! Living with inlaws is not everyone and sad thing is a guy doesn't have to think about that whereas a woman has to. I know very people who managed to live with inlaws.
@FB-dp6gm I definitely do, and yeah she has more respect for her inlaws. Looks like I can't say the same for anyone else. Good luck to your husbands peggage 😊
@ssm9405 y writing essays. It's just laser behaviour a man watching rumena and getting offended.bro go read Salah and say asthagfirullah. No1 cares what u both think. Calm down.
@@Slowjo369 fear Allah. Using language as pegged to describe another Muslim. Shame on u. Maybe concentrate on becoming a decent Muslim first. Wash ur mouth boy!
Been married for 12yrs and all i can say is u have to have alot of saborr, not bc im not showing off with makeup, clothrs n non hijab, im modest n hardly speak with anyone. Being British born i am quite traditional m not westernised. Divorce comes from shaitan. Only thing is his Pakistani and im Bengali, so his family hasnt fully embraced me but i dont care, i have my 5yo son. All the best.
Why do Bengali boys and girls (at times) follow this person and watch her videos just to put her down....is it because of jealousy or you can't have her?? I find it is very regressive that Bengali men put Bengali women down, this is probably why the girls are marrying out of the culture more often now. Not all people are the same, I acknowledge. Let's support one another.
I wanted to live with mine but they didn't and so we lived separately but they made my life hell I realised they didn't like me for mo reason what's so ever God protected me and kept me away
You can still do so much for your parents without living with them. Its not just the duty of the siblings living with the parents. ALL children's need to take an equal responsibility to take care of their parents. And daughter in laws can stil be caring and loving living in a separate house.
“Husband and wife need to bond without anyone else around” it didn’t work out well for you. So if you’re living with in laws or not it doesn’t matter you still have conflicts. Also a major red flag when a woman says she doesn’t want to live with in laws, you know she’s a conflict creator already
Conflict creator? Cause the women doesn’t want to live with the in laws. Can you point out where in Islam it says that she has to live with the in laws? I can tell you it’s a women right in Islam to ask for accommodation damation and it’s her haq
@@khalidabegum100 Can uou point out how n islam where you’re allowed to show you’re hair and figure to thousands of people. You girls just choose islam when it suits you. Im guessing you’re a conflict creator too?
stfu you typical egotistical male. Grow tf up. If you want to marry your mother go ahead. No woman wants to live with strangers, she wants her own home. How about you try living with your wife's parents then? Not that you'll ever have one.
With all due respect what if you are the only son and elderly parents
Could live next door to your parents, or a few streets away?
@@secretagent4955 but that all depends on one's financial situation.
In this day and age it is rare to be able to live next door parents etc.
Back then or back home its easier.
Its not one size fits all.. to laugh about is a bit childish
@@user-ov5rn2io9x Fair enough. However she didn’t laugh about that, she laughed at herself saying Allahumdalliah
Well your poor elderly parents a buggered then I suppose.....
I feel like asian families need to encourage independence from a young age... We have to learn form the white folks - they have got some things right. The first 5 to 7 years are important in a marriage - the foundation needs to be strong. Our elders need to keep themselves busy, be independent as much as possible and rely on the community for support not just their grown children. We are retiring until the age of 68?! Living with inlaws is not everyone and sad thing is a guy doesn't have to think about that whereas a woman has to. I know very people who managed to live with inlaws.
OW MY GOD, HER HUSBAND IS PEGGED LOOOL SHE LAUGHS AT HIS FAMILY IN HIS FACE AND HE EATS IT UP LIKE A GOOD LITTLE DOGGY 😂😂😂
@FB-dp6gm I feel sorry for the marriages you've witnessed mate 😂 the wife's I know have tooo much respect to throw shade on their inlaws
@FB-dp6gm I definitely do, and yeah she has more respect for her inlaws. Looks like I can't say the same for anyone else. Good luck to your husbands peggage 😊
@ssm9405 y writing essays. It's just laser behaviour a man watching rumena and getting offended.bro go read Salah and say asthagfirullah. No1 cares what u both think. Calm down.
@@Slowjo369 fear Allah. Using language as pegged to describe another Muslim. Shame on u. Maybe concentrate on becoming a decent Muslim first. Wash ur mouth boy!
@FB-dp6gm why you writing essays then ? Boring me man
Been married for 12yrs and all i can say is u have to have alot of saborr, not bc im not showing off with makeup, clothrs n non hijab, im modest n hardly speak with anyone. Being British born i am quite traditional m not westernised. Divorce comes from shaitan. Only thing is his Pakistani and im Bengali, so his family hasnt fully embraced me but i dont care, i have my 5yo son. All the best.
Look at her chewing gum tooth how can she talk about marriage when has just been married less than few years 😅
they're separated now
What happened do you know?@DaKoolDude
Well said
@@HarryR2015 yes
@@StockBuffalowhy are you spreading lies for no reason
Is she separated from Kem?
Seriously marriage advice from her, man people really need guidance
Has your marriage ended? I'm so worried. Looking at your current snaps Kem isn't appearing?
Yes they separated she announced it on tik tok not divorced yet
Oh no @@divyatripathi5001
Why do Bengali boys and girls (at times) follow this person and watch her videos just to put her down....is it because of jealousy or you can't have her??
I find it is very regressive that Bengali men put Bengali women down, this is probably why the girls are marrying out of the culture more often now.
Not all people are the same, I acknowledge.
Let's support one another.
Marriage advice from her.......lol 😂😂😂 speechless.
her and Kem separated now
A few people said that on tiktok. I’m shocked
@@secretagent4955 it really is i know
@@fatimapatel3792 Shocked as they seemed happy together.
@@StockBuffalono you don't know. You're just making stuff up because you're bored of your own life.
@@salmarahman5849 she said it on her IG story
I wanted to live with mine but they didn't and so we lived separately but they made my life hell I realised they didn't like me for mo reason what's so ever God protected me and kept me away
You can still do so much for your parents without living with them. Its not just the duty of the siblings living with the parents. ALL children's need to take an equal responsibility to take care of their parents. And daughter in laws can stil be caring and loving living in a separate house.
Talks religion but shows herself to the mandems 🤣
“Husband and wife need to bond without anyone else around” it didn’t work out well for you. So if you’re living with in laws or not it doesn’t matter you still have conflicts. Also a major red flag when a woman says she doesn’t want to live with in laws, you know she’s a conflict creator already
Conflict creator? Cause the women doesn’t want to live with the in laws. Can you point out where in Islam it says that she has to live with the in laws? I can tell you it’s a women right in Islam to ask for accommodation damation and it’s her haq
@@khalidabegum100 Can uou point out how n islam where you’re allowed to show you’re hair and figure to thousands of people. You girls just choose islam when it suits you. Im guessing you’re a conflict creator too?
@@khalidabegum100 “islam” and “Haq” when it suits you
@@hu54ne_x2 you mean when it suits you depriving a women of her Islamic rights you hypocrites
stfu you typical egotistical male. Grow tf up. If you want to marry your mother go ahead. No woman wants to live with strangers, she wants her own home. How about you try living with your wife's parents then? Not that you'll ever have one.
What happened to her? She isn’t the same person I used to see
How is she different? I only ever saw her doing modelling of clothes, never really heard her speak until this.
What about when you have kids that grow up?? What happens to your privacy then??
The parents would be too old to want to get it on by then 😅 or they’d keep noise down 😂
Never live with in-laws! Allah said himself!
Don’t she go on if I was her father in law I would pay her to move away from us
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