For real even in my younger days, staying at the club literally all night sucks. By 5 am everyone looks like shit. All the makeup is gone, the hair done fell, everyone's feet hurt, everyone is sweaty. It sucks. If I got a girl, then we going home by 3. If I ain't met a girl and closed the deal by three, then I'm getting a pizza and going the fuck home. Tomorrow is a new day.
Nbs 😫 like mf go home. By 2 im gassed and ready to call it a night. Go home and lay up. We all got that one homie who never knows when to call it quits and go home
Either your spouse is gonna cheat or they are not. Restricting them does nothing. She's every bit as likely to cheat on you at 2pm as she is to 2am. Either you have trust or you don't.
@@meekaaeelmccullen3360 If your spouse can't be trusted drunk, then they can't be trusted period. Her being out late isn't the problem. Getting drunk is not an excuse.
@@savagegamer2292 dude these kids don't have girlfriends or the prospect of a future wife. They are getting on here, "oh well if my wife stays out late it's divorce time." Nigga what wife 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😅
@@savagegamer2292 thing is some of ya'll supposed boundaries reek of insecurity. Niggas using therapy buzzwords to excuse their control tactics will never stop being funny.
My biggest thing would be not wanting to go to sleep while my girl is out. The time isn’t necessarily the issue because a cheater is gonna cheat lol. But that’s wild I’m going to bed at 11p and when I wake up around 7a she still outside lmao.
I'm not preventing my wife from staying out overnight, but if you married with small kids you not trying to hang out all night, you got shit to do early the next morning!
Thank god he got our backs cuz he right. We west Indian don't play with anything regarding our culture. You start talking shit we firing back with everything we got.
With my husband 17 years. I am allowed to do what I want because we have trust. But I don't because that's what I prefer, to take my ass home to my favorite person ❤
A traditional man wouldn’t feel comfortable going to bed at night, while his wife is out, for safety reason. As far as culture, there should be compromise, knowing you as a man is tradional. So she could stay out for cultural events, but she shouldn’t want to, because of your traditional values.
If a man is worried about their wife staying out until the next morning at a party, he might want to be concerned with her cheating with the guy from work on work hours.
If she does that because that's her culture and the man allows her to do it. What happens in the future when the man comes home 10 am after a night out. Could she question him either? Or should he be given that same trust.
TRINIDAD & TOBAGO'S 'CARNIVAL/JOUVERT' IS A FESTIVAL AND CELEBRATION, A LONGSTANDING TRADITION AND IT IS NOT JUST SOME "LONG PARTY" (Yes, we're usually out from Sunday to Tuesday afternoon, but most people go back home to change costumes and get something to eat and then come back out). This is a celebration of freedom, a display of art! We have numerous bands that incorporate costumes, music and dancing as we compete on the grand stage, we pour our hearts out on that stage!!! we tell a STORY on that stage!! As you're reading this costumes are being designed for next year already! THIS IS OUR HERITAGE, OUR CULTURE, SPEAK ON IT WITH RESPECT. If you're insecure and afraid your girl will cheat because YOU would then that's on YOU. DO NOT MOCK OUR CULTURE! Hush yuh cunt, respecftully! And thank you Flip and Mel for trying with these idiots lol
Thank goodness somebody said it!! I over here with nuff suck teeth with these ignorant muddaskunts.. we on de road for days!! They trippin bout 10am?! He’d be mad as hell cuz I’m tramping til bout mid afternoon then we headed to the beach to eat and smoke out.. you’ll catch me sometime the next night homeboy.. and that’s just so I can shower and change to beat the streets some more!! Carnival is only once a year! Fete is Fete!!!
As someone from California, if ANYBODY is talking about going to a function from 10pm-10am, my first question is "what drugs you got for that?" Cuz if she just talking bout "drank, weed" im lookin at her like "yeah, D too" 😂 aint nobody at a function after 4am if they aint on drugs, looking for drugs or looking for sex.
Also… a marriage is essentially a business arrangement/agreement/contract. Would you want to stay in business with someone that is behaving in a way that could affect the trust and effort put into the business? Because… a relationship is an investment. An investment of time. And there’s nothing of greater value than your time. So, if they’re wasting your time or being reckless with what you’re building, they’re the wrong partner to have.
My girl wouldnt even wanna stay out for that long, she'd be too worried about what im doing and why Im ok with. Tbh my girl dont even like to be awake past 1 am 😂😂😂🤷🏽♂️
As a woman, I have no desire to stay out all night long. I did that here and there in my 20s. Nowadays, no way!! I don’t wanna see the sun come up. I’m a home body anyway. I don’t go anywhere 😂
@@jayaccord the fact that you actually asked me what I need to tell her kinda shows me you’re not currently leading a relationship which means you’re single or just a little pussy 🤷🏽♂️
I see most commenters are not of Caribbean heritage. Most Caribbean people know what it is, married, booed up or not. Once Canival time come and you made your mind to participate, IT'S UP ALL CARNIVAL WEEK. PARTY NUH DUN!!!
If u got a Caribbean grl from nyc they really be outside on those festivals shit. However you better have a grl you honestly trust we’re u not worried. But you ain’t staying out all night or go with her. Cus I don’t love the music in all honesty but she do an who am I to say yea nah. But I ain’t trust that dance shit at first I’m with flip to.
My girlfriend then who cares, but my wife or long term relationship that feel like marriage then its a hell no. Its not even a worried bout her Cheating thing. Its About Respect. I wouldn't disrespect my wife & do that. She that starved for attention, then let her go. A Man shouldn't have to be called insecure cause he has Boundaries & standards. Its way too many soft dudes raised by women that are comfortable letting they women run over them. You don't want her out there all night cause you pose to be her protector. I can't protect someone out there half dressed in the wee hrs of the night. Its my fault at the end of the day if something happen to her for not setting boundaries & I can't blame her culture for me being less than a man & not leading my relationship as the most high has instructed us.
Is she? I’m so amazed at the lack of people not understanding that plenty of women want to be told what the fuck to do! Are they finding these women at clubs or minimum wage jobs because if so sure, you get what you pay for but plenty of women want they man to lead am I missing something?
If you married and have kids that a hell no if you're talking about a party but my ex wife would go to the casino with sister and come home the next morning. Did i like it no and it wasn't anything about me not trusting her but just because of her being a female it's dangerous out here at those time of morning. There were times I've stayed out to the next morning plenty of times bit once again i was at the casino myself and for those who been to casino you don't have a sense of time. Other than that hell no and that goes for myself also. Because as they use to say only thing open af that time is someone legs. As a grown ass man when i go home and visit my mother still today if i go out and I'm going to be gone all night i will call her and let her know. As a father learn how she felt because when your kids no matter how old they maybe you don't sleep until they walk back in the house and you know they are safely home. A phone call can change that easily, see we didn't have cellphone when i was growing up so where ever you were at you better call
This the first time i ever thought that the cast of this pod didn't know what they was talkin bout....i rock wit yall but yall just sounded mad ignorant....this was wack....
Man, i must be weird. If I cant trust my lady at all times of the day then i aint gonna be with her. As an earlier comment said, if your partner gonna cheat, they will find a way whether you restrict them or not. Do i want her coming home at 10am every weekend, hell no. But shit, I've been out plenty of nights until 8-9am doing nothing suspicious. As long as i know she good then i'm good until she gives me a reason not to trust her🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️ They clearly know nothing about Caribbean culture! Jouvert, carnival, fetes etc are completely different animals!
![Lp. Сердце Вселенной #60 РОЖДЕНИЕ ЛОЛОЛОШКИ [Финал] • Майнкрафт](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/YoR0pAV9FVQ/mqdefault.jpg)
Some dude in the comments said they let they wife go to Jamaica for 7days……7 days in Jamaica is CRAAAAAAZY
He utilized his time
“Her and Winston and them.” OMFG 😭😭😂😂
3 4:29 4:41.
.
Lol he said Donovan ,gotta be Jamaican 🇯🇲
lmaooo not winston!!
For real even in my younger days, staying at the club literally all night sucks. By 5 am everyone looks like shit. All the makeup is gone, the hair done fell, everyone's feet hurt, everyone is sweaty. It sucks. If I got a girl, then we going home by 3. If I ain't met a girl and closed the deal by three, then I'm getting a pizza and going the fuck home. Tomorrow is a new day.
Nbs 😫 like mf go home. By 2 im gassed and ready to call it a night. Go home and lay up. We all got that one homie who never knows when to call it quits and go home
Pizza or Hot Dogs when you’re drunk be getting you through tough times 😂💯
The question is she's there without you. You're not there to leave with her by 3
Either your spouse is gonna cheat or they are not. Restricting them does nothing. She's every bit as likely to cheat on you at 2pm as she is to 2am. Either you have trust or you don't.
Thats not true, she’s way more likely to cheat drunk at 3 in the morning as opposed to sober in the middle of the day
@@meekaaeelmccullen3360based on what?
@@meekaaeelmccullen3360 If your spouse can't be trusted drunk, then they can't be trusted period. Her being out late isn't the problem. Getting drunk is not an excuse.
Fuck all that you just typed
Weirdo mentality
Depends, does she want to remain my wife?
If yes, then no.
If no, then yes.
Facts
Incels taking about the rules for their future non existent wife 😂😂😂
@@ANTIStraussianlol calling someone an incel for setting boundaries in a relationship will never stop being funny.
@@savagegamer2292 dude these kids don't have girlfriends or the prospect of a future wife. They are getting on here, "oh well if my wife stays out late it's divorce time." Nigga what wife 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😅
@@savagegamer2292 thing is some of ya'll supposed boundaries reek of insecurity. Niggas using therapy buzzwords to excuse their control tactics will never stop being funny.
“9 IN THE MORNING AND SHE JUST GETTIN HOME. TALKIN BOUT THE OVERNIGHT SCENARIO!”
My biggest thing would be not wanting to go to sleep while my girl is out. The time isn’t necessarily the issue because a cheater is gonna cheat lol. But that’s wild I’m going to bed at 11p and when I wake up around 7a she still outside lmao.
Your speaking from a traditional, moral position. These women today are not traditional.There lies the issue.
She’s for the streets
2-3 am no issues, 5 am just a notification, 10 am im im asking questions, depending on the answer everything could good or there is an issue.
Im not comfortable going myself to a party ending at 5am. I need to sleep
I wouldn't even date a woman that wants to be out at a club/party etc
I'm not preventing my wife from staying out overnight, but if you married with small kids you not trying to hang out all night, you got shit to do early the next morning!
All these relationship questions can be answered with one question. "Why are you in a relationship with someone you don't trust?"
Because we lonely asf. I don’t trust my boss but I go to work….needs over needs as nobody says…..🧐
There is no human you can trust when alcohol can get involved. Alcohol helps a lot of trusty people make “mistakes”
Love don’t got shyt to do with trust….. what’s your tolerance for mistakes and lies…..
Steal out ya mommas purse
My ex stayed out and got met with those papers as usher sang😂💯
Thank god he got our backs cuz he right. We west Indian don't play with anything regarding our culture. You start talking shit we firing back with everything we got.
Question is…why Would your wife want to stay out overnight? Not saying she shouldn’t be able to go, but those are scary hours
Bruh .. it’s a simple no lol
@@Dayxh8facts
it's her tradition
@@freetheworld2671 there are women in a relationship who don’t have this as a tradition and still think it’s ok
DAMN
This is why raves and festivals are wasted on me. By 10PM, it's time to go to bed 🤣
Caribbean culture will have you coming back from parties the next day
Fellas, we aren't even gonna entertain this BS.
Literally .. this not even up for debate
Niggas rather their wife drive home drunk and hit a tree instead of sleeping on her friends couch 😂
Whole conversation is crazy….
Exactly they should call this the simp podcast
Sitting here trying to remember why we thought staying out all night until the next day was fun??? 🤔😂
Seriously!
Was was living like 3rd world citizens fr. No offense.
Flip was piping this shit up 😂😂😂. Joe really was in trouble lol
All ya can't even hold down a 8 hour shift bout J Ouvert lol 🇹🇹
With my husband 17 years. I am allowed to do what I want because we have trust. But I don't because that's what I prefer, to take my ass home to my favorite person ❤
Not Winston😂😂‼️‼️🇯🇲🇯🇲
A traditional man wouldn’t feel comfortable going to bed at night, while his wife is out, for safety reason. As far as culture, there should be compromise, knowing you as a man is tradional. So she could stay out for cultural events, but she shouldn’t want to, because of your traditional values.
Johnson and Johnson 😂😂😂😂😂
If a man is worried about their wife staying out until the next morning at a party, he might want to be concerned with her cheating with the guy from work on work hours.
Please be quiet
@@cam0x195lol right. Fuch is he talking about?
Mmmmmmm 🤔🤔
lol sthu.
You niggas have no logic and is mad insecure......
It’s a no ! And I’m sure my wife Wouldn’t happy with me coming home at that hr
I agree with the first part but i suppose you're the man of the house so it's normal for you to be home late sometimes
If a chick wanna stay out that late. She’s probably too young for me or she just ain’t for me.
If she does that because that's her culture and the man allows her to do it. What happens in the future when the man comes home 10 am after a night out. Could she question him either? Or should he be given that same trust.
If anyone staying out all night in a Marriage there’s a problem lol
Nah 10AM is wild bro 😂
Was that Shadae yelling in the background?? Lol
Yes lol
Jouvert starts at 4am just before the sun rises not at night.
TRINIDAD & TOBAGO'S 'CARNIVAL/JOUVERT' IS A FESTIVAL AND CELEBRATION, A LONGSTANDING TRADITION AND IT IS NOT JUST SOME "LONG PARTY"
(Yes, we're usually out from Sunday to Tuesday afternoon, but most people go back home to change costumes and get something to eat and then come back out). This is a celebration of freedom, a display of art! We have numerous bands that incorporate costumes, music and dancing as we compete on the grand stage, we pour our hearts out on that stage!!! we tell a STORY on that stage!! As you're reading this costumes are being designed for next year already! THIS IS OUR HERITAGE, OUR CULTURE, SPEAK ON IT WITH RESPECT.
If you're insecure and afraid your girl will cheat because YOU would then that's on YOU.
DO NOT MOCK OUR CULTURE! Hush yuh cunt, respecftully!
And thank you Flip and Mel for trying with these idiots lol
Thank you. And Jouvert really starts at 4 am anyways.
Thank goodness somebody said it!! I over here with nuff suck teeth with these ignorant muddaskunts.. we on de road for days!! They trippin bout 10am?! He’d be mad as hell cuz I’m tramping til bout mid afternoon then we headed to the beach to eat and smoke out.. you’ll catch me sometime the next night homeboy.. and that’s just so I can shower and change to beat the streets some more!! Carnival is only once a year! Fete is Fete!!!
Ended at 10am? Seriously, who leaves a party at 10am? Is that even a thing?
It's called drugs
Gotta go to Miami. Some clubs they have run for 24hrs
That's when she scrapes herself off that one night stand beds and heads back to yours 😅😅 to sleep it off 😴 😅
Vegas
joicing bad lmaooo
As someone from California, if ANYBODY is talking about going to a function from 10pm-10am, my first question is "what drugs you got for that?" Cuz if she just talking bout "drank, weed" im lookin at her like "yeah, D too" 😂 aint nobody at a function after 4am if they aint on drugs, looking for drugs or looking for sex.
6:36 got me weak 😂😂😂
She come back with her hair messed up then what😂 at 10am
Also… a marriage is essentially a business arrangement/agreement/contract.
Would you want to stay in business with someone that is behaving in a way that could affect the trust and effort put into the business?
Because… a relationship is an investment. An investment of time. And there’s nothing of greater value than your time.
So, if they’re wasting your time or being reckless with what you’re building, they’re the wrong partner to have.
Yea she can stay overnight but we not husband and wife no mo we single now
My girl wouldnt even wanna stay out for that long, she'd be too worried about what im doing and why Im ok with. Tbh my girl dont even like to be awake past 1 am 😂😂😂🤷🏽♂️
Bruh it’s Caribbean thing blood …you jus have to get you girl that int bout that life
What regular type of party last until 10am? That’s a sleepover party.
Y’all 40+ y’all still know people that want to go partying all night ? I’m in my 20s and even for me that’s hard to get people to still do 🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 letting your girl or wife stay out late is a get out of jail free card. Go ahead.stay out.
I think I speak for a lot of men when I say we would love to have an entire evening to ourselves boiiiiiiiiii 🤣
Love this podcast 🙏🏿
I hate it
My wife is allowed to go anywhere she wants. I trust her. 100 percent. If u don’t trust ur wife 100 percent why u married her gee?… serious question
The question is why she's out late at night
As a woman, I have no desire to stay out all night long. I did that here and there in my 20s. Nowadays, no way!! I don’t wanna see the sun come up. I’m a home body anyway. I don’t go anywhere 😂
This channel off the chain
If she goes to ANYYY Caribbean party Dominican/Jamaican/Puerto Rican or Trinidadian she’s gonna belong to the street REEEEEAL QUICK!!😅
Lies…smh
You saying your wife can’t be out ain’t gonna stop them from cheating. They cheating, they cheating.
if she wants to stay out she is for the streets its that simple
The question is “Can your woman stay out all night”? The fact that so many comments went straight to cheating, shows a lot of insecurities.
It's a matter of principle
@@anti-narc1343 Principles aren’t the same for everyone.
I see the word "culture" thrown out a lot as a blanket pass for questionable behaviour. You do you, we'll just watch the downfall
It's not about trusting ya woman. It's about keeping her out of harms way
She’s grown I don’t tell my wife what she can and can’t do
Well shit. Mine is too and I do it all the time! It’s acutely pretty nice idk maybe that’s just me. 🤷🏽♂️ to each they own i guess.
@@Mac-gn3zh why do you need to tell her what to do,is cause she doesn’t know what to do or because you’re insecure?
@@jayaccord the fact that you actually asked me what I need to tell her kinda shows me you’re not currently leading a relationship which means you’re single or just a little pussy 🤷🏽♂️
@@jayaccord Type nigga that worried about hurting his girl during sex 😭 nigga if you don’t slap that bitch 😭
@@jayaccord Adam 22 ass nigga 😂
who tf still goes clubbing in their 30s anyways
Joe is a 50 year old bachelor lmao
Lmaoooo I’m wit flip, for something like jouvert that’s cool but a regular party?! FOH
I see most commenters are not of Caribbean heritage. Most Caribbean people know what it is, married, booed up or not. Once Canival time come and you made your mind to participate, IT'S UP ALL CARNIVAL WEEK. PARTY NUH DUN!!!
If u got a Caribbean grl from nyc they really be outside on those festivals shit. However you better have a grl you honestly trust we’re u not worried. But you ain’t staying out all night or go with her. Cus I don’t love the music in all honesty but she do an who am I to say yea nah. But I ain’t trust that dance shit at first I’m with flip to.
This just became a convo about the festival…
😂😂😂 focus! Not you! Your girl/wife
lit ep
Which Jordan's are those?
My girlfriend then who cares, but my wife or long term relationship that feel like marriage then its a hell no. Its not even a worried bout her Cheating thing. Its About Respect. I wouldn't disrespect my wife & do that. She that starved for attention, then let her go. A Man shouldn't have to be called insecure cause he has Boundaries & standards. Its way too many soft dudes raised by women that are comfortable letting they women run over them. You don't want her out there all night cause you pose to be her protector. I can't protect someone out there half dressed in the wee hrs of the night. Its my fault at the end of the day if something happen to her for not setting boundaries & I can't blame her culture for me being less than a man & not leading my relationship as the most high has instructed us.
Thinking you can tell another grown person what they can do (male or female) is crazy Wife or not And If U Gotta Worry She Not Yours😂
Your absolutely right but if my wife did this she getting served divorce papers soon as she get home it’s just that simple
Is she? I’m so amazed at the lack of people not understanding that plenty of women want to be told what the fuck to do! Are they finding these women at clubs or minimum wage jobs because if so sure, you get what you pay for but plenty of women want they man to lead am I missing something?
Why is she going without me ??? She won't let me either
If you married and have kids that a hell no if you're talking about a party but my ex wife would go to the casino with sister and come home the next morning. Did i like it no and it wasn't anything about me not trusting her but just because of her being a female it's dangerous out here at those time of morning. There were times I've stayed out to the next morning plenty of times bit once again i was at the casino myself and for those who been to casino you don't have a sense of time. Other than that hell no and that goes for myself also. Because as they use to say only thing open af that time is someone legs. As a grown ass man when i go home and visit my mother still today if i go out and I'm going to be gone all night i will call her and let her know. As a father learn how she felt because when your kids no matter how old they maybe you don't sleep until they walk back in the house and you know they are safely home. A phone call can change that easily, see we didn't have cellphone when i was growing up so where ever you were at you better call
Nah carnival u have to let dat slide brudda 😂😂😂 if u wit ah trini u gotta eat dat 😂😂
the husky guy trippin
She can’t because I don’t.
I personally don’t care I trust her. I Judy know she wouldn’t want to be out that long lmfaooo
Hell no she might as well be SINGLE
She can do anything she wants to I just don't have to be there to support that shit 🤷🏾♂️
so yall think your woman has to be in the house early but you dont men expect things they want give
Nigga Joe said me either and immediately look over his shoulder
If u don’t understand that’s cool 🤷🏽♂️ If u wit the culture u kno the difference
If she wants too.. I'm jus worried about her safety.. stop tryna control other grown folks...
Controlling lol if your woman respects you she won't be hanging out late at night while you're home watching the kids lmfaooooo
Yea, where we goin?
😂 Facts
If she does that, than a portal of disrespect will open... And she will find new ways of doing God knows what. So no...
This the first time i ever thought that the cast of this pod didn't know what they was talkin bout....i rock wit yall but yall just sounded mad ignorant....this was wack....
My wife can stay out as many days as she wants. She's not my property. She just can't come back to my house because that is my property.
my wife cant do anything I cant do...
Joe looking for these guys to get in trouble.
Carnival is a cultural thing around the world.
I don’t have to say no bc my wife not even comfortable being away from me for that long anyway
Ish was like, jouvert? No way!
Pick me up at 10am if you’re feeling insecure. Win win.
why are ya'll married to people you don't trust is the real Question.
My wife has to return to me by 6pm sharp on weekdays, and can NEVER leave my sight on weekends.
These comments are very telling and revealing 🤦🏿
If your wife or girlfriend wants to overnight it, you may as well be single.
Yall need to come to the Caribbean an feel the jouvert vybes. I trust my girl enough to take part in the culture
Simple. No...
Why she ya wife if you dont trust her?
Man, i must be weird. If I cant trust my lady at all times of the day then i aint gonna be with her. As an earlier comment said, if your partner gonna cheat, they will find a way whether you restrict them or not. Do i want her coming home at 10am every weekend, hell no. But shit, I've been out plenty of nights until 8-9am doing nothing suspicious. As long as i know she good then i'm good until she gives me a reason not to trust her🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
They clearly know nothing about Caribbean culture! Jouvert, carnival, fetes etc are completely different animals!
Well said 👏🏽 Finally!
nothing weird about it.
Hell no
Aqua 8 ordered steak feeling great
respect to Flip, have to respect the culture
flip thats like my chic saying she staying the state fair for 3 days...gtfoh....yea iight