What I Spend In A Week Unemployed | NYC VLOG

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  • Опубліковано 31 тра 2024
  • Welcome back! In today's video, I take you along for a week of spending during my sabbatical, as I transition from a material girl to a budget-savvy lifestyle in the high-cost living city of NYC and Jersey City. I also share how I save money and still enjoy life in these pricey locations!
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    0:00 - Intro
    1:00 - Friday
    2:39 - Saturday
    4:32 - Sunday
    5:23 - Monday
    8:53 - Tuesday
    12:52 - Wednesday
    13:06 - Thursday
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 291

  • @Bukola1
    @Bukola1  Рік тому +42

    Thanks for watching! Let me know what videos you want to see from me :)

    • @christopherreed3019
      @christopherreed3019 Рік тому +1

      I asked a question in your previous video and you didnt answer, so I will ask again. You said you couldnt take a trip to Lagos during your sabbatical. So I was wonder, since you are Nigerian...why cant you take a trip to Lagos? Don you have family members there? I am just ..please explain..

    • @nocodepiper2097
      @nocodepiper2097 Рік тому

      you are not "partners" anymore 😊 - I saw Casey's video

    • @dylanpollak4873
      @dylanpollak4873 Рік тому

      Would be so cool to understand how you decided how much money to put away for the sabbatical and what money you won’t touch. Would also love to learn how you go about getting the money you got from stocks at Google if that’s a thing? Or a 401K?

    • @robynlea6950
      @robynlea6950 Рік тому +1

      @@christopherreed3019 She didn't answer your comment. Bye 👋

    • @TheGilmore_Girl
      @TheGilmore_Girl 8 місяців тому

      Where did you get the wig? It's pretty.

  • @parisbear6062
    @parisbear6062 Рік тому +149

    Taking a sabbatical when you have a safety net over your head as you have a partner who is no doubt sharing the rent and utility costs is a huge plus.

  • @potatocoder5090
    @potatocoder5090 Рік тому +85

    Bukola, I love how real you are! I took a sabbatical a couple years ago and I definitely was not as kind to its ups and downs as you are. The biggest thing I struggled with back then was my self-worth, I often questioned who I was without my work. I like that you have gone into this sabbatical with a plan, and that you have an acceptance mindset towards the changes that it brings. I wish this video had existed back when I was taking my sabbatical, it would've been a good motivator (even if the sabbatical was my choice) Looking forward to more such videos! I love your clothing choices (especially the black top in this video), could you make a video about your favorite pieces and how you style them?

  • @fatuma2954
    @fatuma2954 Рік тому +52

    Yes, girl, NY is expensive. I'm happy you followed your heart. I'm actually dealing with the same dilemma of playing it safe or going for it.

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Рік тому +8

      It really is 😭

    • @qcouple4930
      @qcouple4930 Рік тому +10

      Leave NYC whenever you decide to stop working, I wish I did. My rent ate up most of my savings.

  • @NikNik0123
    @NikNik0123 Рік тому +152

    More unemployment chronicles, please‼️

  • @cody_codes_youtube
    @cody_codes_youtube Рік тому +9

    Love the transparency! I think it’s important to have this level of openness. Thank you!

  • @vetgirl71
    @vetgirl71 Рік тому +46

    Your mental health and peace is a priority right now in your life! Don’t listen to the haters! Life is too short and yes, it’s risky to not have a paycheck coming in every two weeks! But you did pre-plan this sabbatical and set financial goals in advance to make this possible! You can ALWAYS make money, but if you don’t take time to improve your quality of life and create your own peaceful environment & goals, then it’s worth it! No regrets, no looking back! Money will always be out there people, but you can lose your mind if you don’t maintain a healthy lifestyle & your mental health! God bless and continue to ignore the negative naysayers who are envious and feel better transferring their fears and doubts on you! Proud of you! Keep doing you! Cut off the noise and block any distractions if they try to hinder you from meeting your end goals! God bless you bukola ! 😊❤️🙏🏾

  • @sber3911
    @sber3911 Рік тому +6

    Great content...your face at timestamp 14:17 when you said "and the charger" had me laughing. You'll never forget your charger again! I can't wait to watch and learn from you on this sabbatical.

  • @lydiahiksan1232
    @lydiahiksan1232 Рік тому +5

    @1:55
    in the name of not making things complicated your friend should've just paid the whole bill since u only had a coffee instead of you both using your cards to split the bill.
    Great video and congrats on your sabbatical!

  • @Africanbeautyy93
    @Africanbeautyy93 Рік тому +2

    Loved this! Looking forward to your upcoming videos ❤ please take good care of your self during your sabbatical

  • @faridahadeyemo1
    @faridahadeyemo1 Рік тому +5

    Looking forward to more interesting vlogs! You quit your job before and things turned out great afterwards. Enjoy your sabbatical 🎉🎉and cheers to new adventures 🎉🎉🎉🥰

  • @akosuakoranteng3327
    @akosuakoranteng3327 Рік тому +32

    I love the idea of the walking groups I'll try it one day! Thanks for the video Bukola!

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Рік тому +3

      It was actually fun and a good way to meet people! Thanks for commenting ❤❤❤

  • @InnocentiaNtuli612
    @InnocentiaNtuli612 Рік тому

    Your videos are always great to watch ❤so enjoyable and I love how you're well spoken

  • @tfh5575
    @tfh5575 Рік тому +5

    i personally can’t believe people wonder what someone would do with their free time not spent at a job…like…some people have actual hobbies that fulfil them. my hobbies and just personal time to work on myself (which is a forever journey) filled my days when i took a sabbatical. i have never lived to work i work to live period. i would gladly retire right now if i could and have a fulfilling life.

  • @tsubes8556
    @tsubes8556 Рік тому +1

    I’ve been following you ever since I was preparing my own SWE journey career transition into a coding bootcamp. Love your content, please keep creating!

  • @doney1996
    @doney1996 Рік тому +2

    It’s the fact anyone can relate to you that makes me fall for you! Love you! Thank you so much for your journey!

  • @cherish8479
    @cherish8479 Рік тому +12

    So happy for you!! Plus you make money being a content creator…at least you have no kids..I had to take time off for my son, three years old… I understand using savings and sticking to a budget.. but also your content and the time I’ve been giving I’m completing data analyst certificate courses…and python and sql..soooo thanks!!!! Enjoy your time off it will all work out!!!

  • @sahanasundar1903
    @sahanasundar1903 Рік тому

    Excited to watch your upcoming content!

  • @whitneybrown4067
    @whitneybrown4067 Рік тому +1

    This is 4 Sure Gonna b so Insightful🔥🔥🔥👍n Happy Sunday😀….

  • @lucianacaracciolo
    @lucianacaracciolo Рік тому

    You are so real! I enjoy so much all of your videos. :)

  • @shess1640
    @shess1640 Рік тому

    First time seeing your vlog….good stuff! Thanks for making these videos. Now I’m a new subscriber.

  • @aliciamcmillan9322
    @aliciamcmillan9322 Рік тому +1

    Yes, keep the videos coming!

  • @CamboMeng
    @CamboMeng Рік тому +1

    Good luck on your journey! Follow your passion

  • @mallew32
    @mallew32 Рік тому +26

    A day-in-the-life that is not focused on work is actually freaking iconic! Thank you offering such transparency and insight.
    *Also, total side-note, right before I left my fantastic trainer (because after like six months I couldn’t afford it anymore) she offered me a discount to help me stay long. At that point I couldn’t take it because I was already in the red, but if I had known early I would have stayed.
    I’m not sure if all trainers do that right before you leave, or if it was just that she’s very cool people, but perhaps your trainer/s offer a discount to help you stay longer.

  • @Ray03595
    @Ray03595 Рік тому +1

    taking a year sabbatical seems so nice! Don't ever feel guilty for it either, you earned it and look happy!

  • @alcazar123456
    @alcazar123456 Рік тому +1

    Awesome vlog! Keep setting those PRs! 💪

  • @ndyer6005
    @ndyer6005 Рік тому

    You look rested & refreshed already!

  • @tunuk4060
    @tunuk4060 Рік тому

    such a beautiful vlog😍 would love to see more vlogs!

  • @ValerieAdah
    @ValerieAdah Рік тому

    This was so fun to watch

  • @vanessam4980
    @vanessam4980 Рік тому +2

    Bukola, I would love to see more beauty content from you too! I love everything you put out but I’m soo interested in your skincare/haircare/maintenance…you’re gorgeous but in a really minimalist way it seems

  • @sandraandworld3451
    @sandraandworld3451 Рік тому +16

    I like how you invest in yourself! Inspirational

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Рік тому +4

      Thank you! It is really important to invest in your Health and Fitness :)

  • @ad7711x
    @ad7711x Рік тому +20

    I know employed people who can’t afford to do most of the stuff in this video.

  • @rajivwallace
    @rajivwallace Рік тому +4

    Congratulations! Wish you guys all the best!Just saw Casey's video right after watching your video!

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Рік тому +5

      Thank you! We were planning to annonce it a lot later when we had our pictures back but guess the cats out the bag lol

    • @MindyC
      @MindyC Рік тому

      Saw Casey’s video too! Congratulations!🎉

  • @TheAlexis123987
    @TheAlexis123987 Рік тому +15

    Love this Funemployed content!!!

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Рік тому +4

      Awesome! More too come

  • @_silentrose
    @_silentrose Рік тому +2

    Omg I love Choc O Pain!!! 8:49 My fiancé and I always get their fresh bread too and it’s so good 😊 Love the walking group idea since I also live in JC (near the boardwalk on Newport) and would love to join one!! Also your recipe ideas look so yummy 🤤 I make my overnight oats almost identically to you except I also add a teaspoon of vanilla ❤

  • @joann4369
    @joann4369 Рік тому

    ooouuu i'm gonna be interning in NY this summer!! I have heard of the Seated app, will definitely be looking into that bc NY just has restaurants everywhere!!

  • @MsAlexis
    @MsAlexis Рік тому +1

    I'm proud of you for staying true to yourself #Inspiring

  • @444thelifestyle
    @444thelifestyle Рік тому +1

    Bukola, I can relate so much right now. I resigned my corporate job working as an Marketing Coordinator for a few Orthodontic clinics… it just felt time to go. Although I miss the paychecks and I am living life through my savings ( obvi being frugal and budget friendly ) I haven’t felt more alive. I am focusing on content creating as well. I’ve always did cc as a hobby since I was in middle school… it’s something that never left me so this year I took it more seriously through UA-cam and IG. Cheers to you and wishing you nothing but the best! I am loving this series keep them coming! 🤍

  • @marticiachilds2937
    @marticiachilds2937 Рік тому +1

    Yes, hun! Teach me your meal prep. Recipes in description 😂

  • @SmbSmb-tm8om
    @SmbSmb-tm8om Рік тому +2

    Morning routines …ootd when you go on date nights…. Spend the day with me… meal prep …

  • @safol123
    @safol123 Рік тому +12

    Girl you ballin 🤩. and I'm here for it!

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Рік тому +12

      not right now lol but I claim that energy!

  • @CarlaJenkinsTV
    @CarlaJenkinsTV Рік тому +25

    Thanks for your honest vlog and detailing all of your weekly expenses. NYC is expense. However, you should also consider posting your recipes on Pinterest and doing another blog because you're meal prep has an audience.

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Рік тому +13

      Thanks for the kind comment! And really, I never thought people would be interested in my cooking... interesting 🤔

    • @MamaHarperr
      @MamaHarperr Рік тому

      Hey Carla!! I recognize you from boxing vids!👋🏿👋🏿

  • @ttmoore8750
    @ttmoore8750 Рік тому +2

    I've just started an unplanned sabbatical and I'm focusing on my projects again! I'm missing 6 months out of my internship and looking to make that up with paid roles won't be easy but will all me to spend less of my savings in general.

  • @knw-seeker6836
    @knw-seeker6836 9 місяців тому

    Best wishes to your journey
    It’s never to early and never to late to invest in personal well-being and self growth learning etc.

  • @Mac1731n
    @Mac1731n Рік тому

    I love your regular week vlogs or spend week vlogs 😊

  • @LyteFlex
    @LyteFlex Рік тому

    I love the way you edit

  • @ninabeena83
    @ninabeena83 Рік тому +1

    I would love to hear more about this trip to Rome and how you met that group of friends 😊

  • @phil6794
    @phil6794 Рік тому +2

    I see a fully relaxed Bukola.. 🙂.. . For real, you were really going through a burnout.

  • @flamingo5961
    @flamingo5961 Рік тому +6

    Could you cover more on how to prevent burnout in software engineer/office jobs?

  • @soaleseini3139
    @soaleseini3139 Рік тому

    I love your videos!

  • @Chi_di
    @Chi_di Рік тому +6

    Wow, congrats on the sabbatical! Life has to be so much more than working every single weekday of our lives, it’s important to enjoy, decompress and rest.

  • @k10158
    @k10158 Рік тому +2

    Could you do a video called “budget hacks for living in NYC?” or tips and tricks for someone who is unemployed but still wants to have fun in the city?

  • @goddessb582
    @goddessb582 Рік тому

    Love that your partner is considerate

  • @zucchinigreen
    @zucchinigreen Рік тому +18

    I love that your unemployment journey is defying people's expectations based on the comments.
    People think you should be super frugal and suffering and you are not. Thank for reminding me:
    That there is a life outside of my job
    Planned sabbaticals are a gift and not being fixated on money and investing in self-care is just as important as a 9 to 5.
    And finally, we are more than our productivity. Even if you did nothing for 6 months, I Stan in your investment.
    I hope that you keep you protect your good energy amidst all the questions from people who do not walk in your shoes and HAVE FUN! 🎉

  • @DianaMartinez-lz8jn
    @DianaMartinez-lz8jn Рік тому +1

    As a 45 year old woman, born and raised in bushwick bklyn now living in queens I agree with you this is very expensive for one person for one week. For one person 1/4 of that spending amount is decent. I agree with you the personal training sessions should be cut out. You can still get a great workout with free videos. And definitely walk to the supermarket and get those sales. If you’re trying to get out of debt or maximum the spending of your savings, Dave Ramsey says you shouldn’t see the inside of a restaurant unless your working there.

  • @SmbSmb-tm8om
    @SmbSmb-tm8om Рік тому +1

    Love your content ..So fun to watch …❤️

  • @innocentmadanhire2391
    @innocentmadanhire2391 Рік тому +8

    We are here to learn again.

  • @eileenhwalsh
    @eileenhwalsh Рік тому

    When I first moved to NYC I had $60 and had my 1st month of rent paid,that’s all! I learned that NYC is a great place to be broke. I did eat a lot of bread, but I also went to art shows and all kinds of free sites. I always bought the monthly pass for the subway 1st thing after rent,this way I could go literally any place in the 5 Boros. (That’s going away soon). If you have to be really broke for some time I think it’s a fine place to do it.

  • @SoftEarthHoney
    @SoftEarthHoney Рік тому +6

    Love this for you! I know how stressful Tech is so you taking this sabbatical is needed. I’m 8 months into my “Funemployment” and trusting in God🧘🏾‍♀️

  • @flamingo5961
    @flamingo5961 Рік тому +5

    Love these kind of vlogs in NYC and about finance

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Рік тому +1

      Me too! Planning to make more content like this

  • @abigailr.7487
    @abigailr.7487 Рік тому

    I loveee claw daddy’s 😌💅🏾

  • @brittanyrichardson81
    @brittanyrichardson81 Рік тому

    Great video!!!

  • @lenaprice6239
    @lenaprice6239 Рік тому +2

    Bukola, Congrats on your recent marriage! I saw you and your hubby in Casey's video.

    • @JS-kc2xs
      @JS-kc2xs Рік тому

      Omg she got married??? Aww that’s lovely

  • @alcampbell
    @alcampbell Рік тому +2

    I feel for you younger folks. The Landlords and Merchants are killing us with over pricing. In 1992 I got out of the Marines and rented an apartment for 600 per month. I`m still there, but now I have to pay 2000 per month for the same place. I`m about to take my social security but it looks like I may have to keep working too until I drop dead.

  • @Emilyghe
    @Emilyghe Рік тому

    I went to ovenly a few times in summer only to find a fly is always flying above the breads

  • @iamraymondyip
    @iamraymondyip Рік тому

    Awesome content! - from Hong Kong

  • @jameelharris8834
    @jameelharris8834 Рік тому

    Excellent content!

  • @katiescape
    @katiescape 5 місяців тому

    Wow, NY is so expensive, but such an exicting lifestyle, just found your channel and love these videos.

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  5 місяців тому

      Thank you so much!

  • @bettydavis7904
    @bettydavis7904 Рік тому

    Good job ! Keep going🤗

  • @shachede6828
    @shachede6828 Рік тому

    take as much time to rest, dont do anything if you dont want haha. i am also planning for my sabbatical.

  • @user-om5zq9el5g
    @user-om5zq9el5g Рік тому

    I quit my job at PwC to work on my cpa test and to take care of my heath, and I am two months in and ive done so much and don't miss my old job. I was lucky because I had two years salary saved up and I realized I need time for me and corporate wold will not give you that.

  • @user-oc6yn9li1g
    @user-oc6yn9li1g Рік тому

    You need the Amex green. 3x points on Uber and Subway. Pair it with a Charles schwab platinum for 1 cent per point into a brokerage.

  • @ty_teynium
    @ty_teynium Рік тому

    Crossaint in 5th Ave is nearly 4 to 6 dollars and they aren't even bigger than your hand! I can find one twice as big for less than half!

  • @Freshadventures_
    @Freshadventures_ Рік тому

    That pasta you made looks delicious! You should do a recipe video or post the recipe.

  • @dylanpollak4873
    @dylanpollak4873 Рік тому

    Would also love to learn about how you decided which places to travel to:) maybe after you post the content for safety reasons. But I’d be so cool to hear your thoughts :-)

  • @chantelamoako-atta1707
    @chantelamoako-atta1707 Рік тому +10

    Sending love and support, Bukola

  • @klt9874
    @klt9874 Рік тому +5

    I would love your recipe for the curry chicken salad.

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Рік тому +2

      Yes, no problem this is where the recipe is from: therealfooddietitians.com/curry-chicken-salad/
      I made a few modifications!

    • @USABESTMBA-COM
      @USABESTMBA-COM Рік тому

      Nice video 📹

  • @lgee9027
    @lgee9027 Рік тому +7

    You are self-employed!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @qcouple4930
    @qcouple4930 Рік тому +1

    For your grocery delivery, do you add replacement options so you dont get refunded?

  • @dalo5261
    @dalo5261 Рік тому

    Happy Married Life ❤️

  • @guesswho8562
    @guesswho8562 Рік тому

    Id would like to know where you started off and how you saved your money before hand? I live in Regina SK with costs high but not like NYC thanks love the channel

  • @kenkastro
    @kenkastro Рік тому

    Hope they have security controls in place for the portable chargers

  • @candigirl2009
    @candigirl2009 Рік тому +1

    Congrats on everything happening in your life! I saw you in Casey Neistat’s recent UA-cam video.

  • @GiTRR
    @GiTRR Рік тому

    Hi Bukola i noticed that you measure your smoothie on the kitchen scale? your scale counts calories ? Thx!

  • @officiallynana14
    @officiallynana14 Рік тому +3

    That Pasta you made look really good!! where do you usually get your recipes I’m trying to start cooking myself❤

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Рік тому +1

      Thank you! I really like Make it Dairy Free cooking blog, that's where I got this recipe: makeitdairyfree.com/vegan-vodka-sauce-penne-alla-vodka/

  • @vanessab.6682
    @vanessab.6682 Рік тому

    My phone came with a charger and when I lost it, they said, "Sure you can buy this one. It's 40 dollars". And I had to buy it because I needed it. Sometimes I take my charger with me, but sometimes I am like no, you can stay home, where you are completely safe. So I understand your dilemma. If you were not expecting any important calls, I would have just waited to charge until I got home.

  • @keppingitreal9594
    @keppingitreal9594 Рік тому

    Wow thanks 🙏

  • @jmbirdsong5605
    @jmbirdsong5605 Рік тому

    I am really happy for you that you have decided to do this to refresh and recharge, but technically you are on a hiatus, because when you take a sabbatical someone pays you.

  • @cece82gemini27
    @cece82gemini27 Рік тому

    Nice to have a safety net.

  • @vmaxxk
    @vmaxxk Рік тому

    The transport is awesome. Hopefully your passion projects start generating income so you can continue the sabbatical. Your burn amount seems high.
    Your expenses are 80%+ of mine and I'm caring for a family size, and I'm not chopping my expenses in half since they are shared with my partner.

    • @vmaxxk
      @vmaxxk Рік тому

      Definitely confident you'll adjust and adapt, since the toughest part is already out of the way; which is knowing and tracking your finances and goals.

  • @C1ayd0n82
    @C1ayd0n82 Рік тому

    I was having trouble sleeping. Thanks this video sorted me out!

  • @WealthActionPlanners
    @WealthActionPlanners Рік тому +1

    Nice video, Im in the personal finance business and love your money habits. But, I was wondering how you're managing the huge costs for your beautiful hair, eyebrows, skincare and nails?

  • @alissad7221
    @alissad7221 Рік тому

    Could you do a video about starting a UA-cam channel? And your journey? 😊

  • @Aj-vr7ug
    @Aj-vr7ug Рік тому

    Absolutely love this video. Can I ask what camera you’re using?

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Рік тому +1

      Thank you! I used both the sony a7c and the sony z-v1

  • @tonifoster1835
    @tonifoster1835 Рік тому

    $120 for a PT that’s unbelievable, good that you are prioritising your health.

  • @RandomPerson1
    @RandomPerson1 Рік тому

    Mind if I ask how much you saved up/budgeted for your sabbatical? Could you do a video on how to prepare/budget for one?

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Рік тому +1

      I made a video here: how I planned financially
      ua-cam.com/video/Fl0yvqiTLLQ/v-deo.html

    • @RandomPerson1
      @RandomPerson1 Рік тому

      @@Bukola1 thank you! Must have missed this but am watching it now!

  • @innocentmadanhire2391
    @innocentmadanhire2391 Рік тому +3

    Ali abdaal took this route & he has been speaking about the great fulfillment after quitting his Physician roles...

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Рік тому +1

      Ali Abdaal is goals! He's really a huge inspiration to me

    • @innocentmadanhire2391
      @innocentmadanhire2391 Рік тому +2

      @@Bukola1 me too but I found him more like an alien , 😅😅😅😅😅

  • @TellyJTV
    @TellyJTV Рік тому

    Kinkys is so good

  • @faridahadeyemo1
    @faridahadeyemo1 Рік тому +1

    Hello Fresh need to run you a check for that mention 😤

  • @Shadav747
    @Shadav747 Рік тому

    I love this video. Please do more.