Dear Future Wifey S2, E216: Major Keyes to Life (Christian Keyes)

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  • Опубліковано 15 жов 2024
  • We all have principles that we live by whether spoken or unspoken. Unfortunately, most of our principles were shaped by pain and failure and becomes the steering wheel to navigate us through life. Today's guest, Christian Keyes, is no stranger to overcoming some of the most devastating blows growing up. This episode is affectionately called, “Major Keyes to Life.”
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  • @Sunshine-wn4eg
    @Sunshine-wn4eg 3 роки тому +249

    "We all got a chapter we don't read out loud". Deep

  • @writethevision2015
    @writethevision2015 3 роки тому +118

    “Don’t mess up my peace if you’re still at war with yourself”

  • @shnnyouman1
    @shnnyouman1 3 роки тому +431

    “May take me longer to get there that’s cuz I’m dragging my integrity with me.” Powerful!!!

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  3 роки тому +14

      Amen!

    • @angelaadamsali3936
      @angelaadamsali3936 3 роки тому +24

      The first time I heard this Brotha talk, I knew he had depth. He’s serious about living intentionally. That is so dope, especially after hearing his story. A true survivor. 🙌🏾

    • @tracymiller6965
      @tracymiller6965 3 роки тому +2

      Yes it is!!!!!!

    • @howwelearngrowdaily
      @howwelearngrowdaily 2 роки тому +1

      That's a whole word!

    • @pearlhunter2440
      @pearlhunter2440 Рік тому

      Exactly, amazing. 💯👑💯

  • @arielpage884
    @arielpage884 3 роки тому +371

    He deserves a partner that will love him the way he needs to be loved..my heart hurts for the child in him

    • @carlacreech2605
      @carlacreech2605 3 роки тому +2

      yeah...sigh...

    • @mishasanders5070
      @mishasanders5070 3 роки тому +9

      Yes he does. I was adopted and I thank GOD everyday that I was loved appropriately and not abused like so many others. My hurt bleeds for the child in him. Praying that he will continue to heal and receive the love that he deserves 🙏🏾❤️

    • @gailholmes9099
      @gailholmes9099 2 роки тому

      I agree

    • @apiffanyfulcher6628
      @apiffanyfulcher6628 2 роки тому +1

      WOW that’s hard!!! That’s another level of abuse!!!

    • @dawnpratt846
      @dawnpratt846 7 місяців тому

      Hell we all do !

  • @jennthagodmutha
    @jennthagodmutha 3 роки тому +326

    So glad he set the record straight for women to realize sexuality will NOT grab a man’s attention & KEEP it 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

    • @joycewatt800
      @joycewatt800 3 роки тому +2

      So true!

    • @shericaowensimpactingwindo5636
      @shericaowensimpactingwindo5636 3 роки тому +4

      Dat part👏👏

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 роки тому +20

      People/men have been saying that for awhile now. The problem is that some people don't want to receive it.

    • @TawandaVance
      @TawandaVance 3 роки тому +18

      Mature men have that ideology because there's just as many men saying the opposite. Discernment is definitely needed when choosing the right partner.

    • @Th3lite
      @Th3lite 3 роки тому +8

      Not a man of substance.

  • @cherieward2856
    @cherieward2856 3 роки тому +191

    To have gone through so much abuse and still become a good well rounded man is one of those BUT GOD testimonies! Love it!

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому +2

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

    • @RealLadi228
      @RealLadi228 2 роки тому

      Hug!

  • @mzchocolitt4091
    @mzchocolitt4091 3 роки тому +278

    He always had the energy that says he is so much more than his looks. Thats a king right there!

    • @bellelareign1267
      @bellelareign1267 3 роки тому +4

      Absolutely

    • @deardragrace4619
      @deardragrace4619 3 роки тому +6

      A visual representation of a king.

    • @howwelearngrowdaily
      @howwelearngrowdaily 2 роки тому +5

      Very true...you can tell he's so much more to him

    • @inetherwalker7000
      @inetherwalker7000 2 роки тому +10

      Wow we just don't know, what people have gone through. Lord have mercy 🥺.

    • @redeemed5906
      @redeemed5906 Рік тому +1

      YES!!! As long as he keeps bringing on eye candy like this, i'll STAY tuned in 😀

  • @sscott504
    @sscott504 3 роки тому +243

    It was refreshing to see a conversation between 2 men healthy enough to be vulnerable...it gives a glimpse into the world of a man's life, his trauma, his healing, and his wholeness

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому +3

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

    • @Thatmainchick
      @Thatmainchick Рік тому +1

      Absolutely

  • @diettajohnson7809
    @diettajohnson7809 3 роки тому +126

    Christian cracks me up. You can tell he's worked on his soul and peace in his mind. His sense of humor makes him attractive. Keep working on you Christian. Healing

  • @DanielleTRushin
    @DanielleTRushin 3 роки тому +88

    I love Christian’s commitment to God, integrity, and self control concerning sexuality. An actual King! I love it!

  • @cassandragriffin1489
    @cassandragriffin1489 3 роки тому +170

    I like his answer he don’t put that lustful energy out there! He know his worth. Love It!!

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @SoleyeRaye
    @SoleyeRaye Рік тому +16

    He's a Humble...Intuitive Man...a person of Light!!!!!!!!!! with a beautiful heart...that decided not to become bitter and let anyone change him....HE'S BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @IAmMonicaDenise
    @IAmMonicaDenise 3 роки тому +183

    “It’s not a false sense of confidence, I’ve done the work...I deserve to be here.” This is a solid gentleman of Godly character and integrity. Laterras, thank you for continuing to produce content with substance, and that sheds light on issues we should be more passionate about, such as child abuse in the foster care system.

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  3 роки тому +7

      To God be the glory

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

    • @sofondadavis5028
      @sofondadavis5028 Рік тому

      This was his adopted mother.

  • @ChasingYonci
    @ChasingYonci 3 роки тому +93

    “Women aren’t as aggressive with me cuz I don’t put it out there.” Yes!! 👏🏽 👏🏽 It’s a vibe people put out!!!!

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @cshell75
    @cshell75 2 роки тому +48

    As a former foster child who had a terrible experience, my heart breaks for the boy that was Christian. But I thank God for the man that is Christian…who overcame the circumstances of his birth and upbringing. Thanks for this interview.

    • @dawnpratt846
      @dawnpratt846 7 місяців тому

      I totally agree he was very fortunate to overcome his obstacles Very !!

  • @katyp5914
    @katyp5914 3 роки тому +81

    "I can't be at war when I'm at home!" 🎯💯🙋🏽‍♀️ Profound and powerful. "... If a house be divided against itself, that house cannot stand." Mark 3:25

  • @CherWallacePeters
    @CherWallacePeters 2 роки тому +23

    I have admired Christian Keys for years as an actor. This was the first in depth interview I’ve heard from him. OMG!! I had absolutely no idea of what he experienced as a child. Even though it was absolutely horrific, God preserved his life and his sanity, and that in itself is amazing.
    I was unaware of his philanthropic endeavors, and other things.
    He is soooo funny! I thank God for seeing him through that trauma, and I’m proud of him for seeking healing for himself, so that he could be whole, and be the father that his child needs and deserves!
    I pray God sends him a wife that provides a safe and peaceful place for him to lay his head.

  • @annharrison5654
    @annharrison5654 3 роки тому +42

    Be slow with intimacy..that should not be priority. Build a friendship first..be kind.

  • @letsheal6342
    @letsheal6342 3 роки тому +151

    So saddened by Christian’s childhood story yet happy he pursued healing so his son/child(ren) wouldn’t suffer from unresolved pain. Truly the hand of God was/is upon him. Thank you for having him as a guest. #GracefullyBroken

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @MsClark-zf5yr
    @MsClark-zf5yr 3 роки тому +40

    “We’re all healing and we all have a chapter we don’t read out loud.” Indeed.

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @nizarr21
    @nizarr21 3 роки тому +37

    This is a solid man, all round!
    May God lead him to his wife 🙌🏼

  • @LRamey
    @LRamey Рік тому +20

    Man… isn’t it something how some of us don’t look like what we’ve been through 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
    Very transparent .. thank you Christian

  • @jjewelztraveltech
    @jjewelztraveltech 10 місяців тому +7

    I knew when I first saw Keyes that he was different and that there was a back story to the grace and kindness he exudes. I wish Christain all the love, joy, peace and success his life and heart can hold. ❤⭐️

  • @ThatsBrilliantWithPC
    @ThatsBrilliantWithPC 10 місяців тому +5

    This video is from two years ago and it happened to pull up on auto play. Starting at min 27, Christian gave a little insight to what is happening today. His message is consistent. Praying that God will continue to bless him, protect him, and be his defender in the matter. God’s got him. 🙏🏾❤

  • @glorycarriersrenmow
    @glorycarriersrenmow 3 роки тому +45

    All I see is "broken to be a blessing." May God continue to shower His love on this king.

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @roxymitchell4296
    @roxymitchell4296 3 роки тому +118

    I am a Social Worker and I see cases of abuse like this. Heart breaking and traumatizing. Definitely my goal is to find parents that really want to help children and not do it for the money. #Godspurpose

    • @Nou75
      @Nou75 3 роки тому +2

      I was thinking the same. I'm glad social work has progressed over the years

    • @Th3lite
      @Th3lite 3 роки тому +1

      My colleague handles claims for DHS. Some of the cases I've read 👀. Heart breaking, resulting in deaths.

    • @ladyl5127
      @ladyl5127 3 роки тому +3

      @Roxy Mitchell I know all about the “foster parents” who only do it for the money. I knew a “foster parent” who had two boys who was temporary in the system for 6 months the worker that was over the case was great she did all she could to make sure she was upfront with the biological parent (mother) all that was going on one day she had to report that the “foster parent” threw the 5 year old outside in the cold/snow on ground at this time and locked him out and later threw his brother out also....the worker immediately removed them from the home. A lot can happen within the 6 months being in the system not sure how long they was with that particular “foster parent” but it does bother me because why would you choose to be a caregiver for a system that’s already messed up/crooked and on top of that not sure why the children/child had to be there in the first place some just need a little help others come from abusive backgrounds etc....I just don’t understand it I just don’t understand why people make the choices that they do....🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🙏🏽

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

    • @radiantrobin2178
      @radiantrobin2178 2 роки тому +1

      I would love to adopt or foster children, but I am probably beyond the age of doing so! I have the heart and the LOVE!

  • @createdcreated1977
    @createdcreated1977 2 роки тому +14

    I'm with Keyes. Don't post me unless there is a ring on my finger AND EVEN then, slow your roll. Posting me does not impress me or tell me you love me. Treating me with respect and allowing me to do the same....NOW THAT is what is real. Social media....nonsense.

  • @beingindymendy
    @beingindymendy 3 роки тому +39

    “The short cut will cost me my soul. It may take me longer to get there; that’s because I’m dragging my integrity with me”. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 I felt that!!
    Much love to Mr Christian Keyes and all that he had to endure!! Great healthy conversation and being vulnerable!

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 роки тому +144

    People need to start believing children when they report things. I can't believe she still had access to his brother. That is crazy to me. Smh.

    • @yahushuaschosen4129
      @yahushuaschosen4129 3 роки тому +12

      I was thinking the exact same thing! How did she get away with this terrorism! Crazy! I hope that his brother is okay as well.

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 роки тому +10

      @@yahushuaschosen4129 I pray he is okay as well in Jesus name. I'm concerned about his emotional and mental state as well. This is part of the reason the Lord have led me to not judge men to harshly, and have led me to pray for them and minister to them in Jesus name. Amen and Amen and Amen.

    • @yahushuaschosen4129
      @yahushuaschosen4129 3 роки тому +7

      @@ladennayoung2939
      Exactly! I have 3 brothers, I stay humble when it comes to our brothers. I wish BM would stop putting Black women down when they choose to date outside of their race. "That part "
      It honestly upsets me because we want to love ourselves, put in the work to heal should that be the case , so that we can be whole withen ourselves, and the black Man that that The Most High Yah prepares for us. I have a beautiful heavy melonated teenage daughter in college. I pray protection over her, as she is about to go out into this cold world we live in.
      Thank you for your response and kind words...

    • @yahushuaschosen4129
      @yahushuaschosen4129 3 роки тому +3

      Thank you! I greatly appreciate your acknowledgment.
      Have a blessed day!

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 роки тому +3

      @@yahushuaschosen4129 I just get frustrated when someone act like someone is better based off of their skin color and/or hair texture alone. If someone truly fall in love with that person, that is different. But don't be color struck. That is very irritating to me. Men have lost their way tremendously. Especially a lot of black men. We can pray and intercede for them. And seek healing through counseling/therapy if we need to. We have to develop a healthy relationship with Christ and self. Before we can fully connect to someone else.

  • @vinciacloete2764
    @vinciacloete2764 3 роки тому +62

    "I can't be at war when I'm at my house." I have listened to many a men or actually all men say something somewhat similar. Men simply want a 'home' to come 'home' to🍃 I love this episode.

  • @moniquedependable3782
    @moniquedependable3782 3 роки тому +66

    I just want to thank God that His Child is Wearing his “black man of God” crown. This is a beautiful thing! I am grateful to have had the opportunity to drop a tear with this man of God and say a prayer also. Transparency is a blessing. God is providing his peace. It’s been received. I respect you my Brother in Christ in allowing God to order your steps. You also Laterras. I don’t care what anybody says God’s Kings are still available. I love you both in Christ and I see mine at the end of the rainbow.

  • @eighthlab2383
    @eighthlab2383 3 роки тому +35

    We all rooting for this healed brother to find his PEACE chiiile Her name need to be Peace!

  • @Kelli_Ess
    @Kelli_Ess 2 роки тому +28

    Omg! He endured so much as a child. May God continue to bless him bc he is a walking testimony.

  • @blessedrightnw9733
    @blessedrightnw9733 2 роки тому +22

    He is preaching👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾! I wanted to cry because of his story but his testimony is amazing! What a beautiful soul with an even more beautiful spirit🙌🏾🙌🏾!

  • @Nichole4Hope
    @Nichole4Hope Рік тому +8

    I would’ve never never known. I was literally in tears hearing his story. It’s a true gift from God when you can go through that, not take your own life, and become a man at peace. God bless you and your future wife.

  • @lidyagebre8381
    @lidyagebre8381 3 роки тому +71

    The mother in me want to rescue him from that horoble childhood. What inspiratioal black king he is!!! I started with tears but finished with big smile. Stay blessed all black kings.

    • @dreammakar
      @dreammakar 3 роки тому

      Same!

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому +2

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @kenishabyrd
    @kenishabyrd 2 роки тому +7

    This is the realest, most honest, funny, and spirit-filled interview. "I'm a man" this has depth/layers of maturity and understanding. Truly respect and honor Christian Keyes.

  • @dawnkynard5838
    @dawnkynard5838 3 роки тому +53

    Started praying when he told his story. Truly felt it. God had him. God bless.

  • @shalee89
    @shalee89 3 роки тому +28

    He needs to be a regular like J Barnett, I loved his sense of humor and transparency!!! Beautiful !!!

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @valantonio8038
    @valantonio8038 3 роки тому +8

    I met Christian years ago in San Antonio and he really is a genuine, easy going, and funny guy. It’s heartbreaking to hear him talk about his childhood abuse and instability. It takes a wise, God fearing man to overcome the anger he must have felt. I’m glad he was given the gift of discernment and is persevering in life.

  • @rochelleford9183
    @rochelleford9183 3 роки тому +19

    I love how he said we all have a chapter that we don’t read out loud.

  • @Francie315
    @Francie315 Рік тому +2

    I went from shedding a tear for the little boy who didn’t get love, but was beat worst than a rabid dog! To shedding a tear for the incredible young man who used his pain to become the creative force that he is still becoming today. I just bumped into his musical videos and found this interview, so grateful.

  • @DJ-ts5uv
    @DJ-ts5uv 3 роки тому +36

    I always liked him, but after watching this, I really admire him. He has integrity, strength, depth, spiritual knowledge, knowledge of self, humility, a sense of humor and he’s fine??!?? Please where can I find a man like this?? He’s a unicorn for real. They just don’t make them like this anymore. 🦄 😍❤️

  • @lvjackson8030
    @lvjackson8030 3 роки тому +60

    No lie, I had to stop this podcast when Christian talked about the abuse he experienced... no child... i mean NO CHILD, should have to be subject to ppl like that... ugh... He is blessed and I'm grateful to see he is here, despite all of the terrible things done to him... Praise God for His grace & mercy. Thank you for having this fine & faithful King on your show to give his testimony. Blessings.

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @donnisha5180
    @donnisha5180 3 роки тому +57

    Ppl never know what you have gone through... my lord! The first story is mind 🤯🤯🤯 she could have killed him!

  • @jojaejmarro
    @jojaejmarro 3 роки тому +39

    Mic Drop!!🎤🎤 Being real, open, truthful, and transparent about your story can heal and assist someone else. Thanks so much for helping ME see things in a new and different perspective. My babies adoption will be final by summer. I needed to hear this. I need to be ALL they need me to be for them!❤👶🏽👶🏽

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  3 роки тому +9

      I'm so proud of you!!!! I honor you. Thank you for being a change agent.

  • @kelceypowelljenkins5902
    @kelceypowelljenkins5902 2 роки тому +9

    My heart broke listening to his story. Sadly, this happens more than not with foster kids. Some make it and some don't. Praise the Lord for your life Mr. Keyed..

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 Рік тому +3

    Wow this was a incredible interview with Christian Keyes it's made heart feel so sad what he went through when he was in that foster home how that woman was so abusive to him.and this is so unbelievably that's people can be so cruel I appreciate him coming on this podcast sharing this with us because I know it's wasn't easy but people need hear this because it's beneficial to do many people that might went through this at young age themselves either someone they might know. It's wasn't nothing but God grace and mercy he showed towards Christian even for him be here today telling about it all he been through God hands on him.its amazing he did let that abuse make him.bitter but God had purpose for his life now look in devil face tell him I survived. May God continue bless him every area his life I love this podcast show Laterras Whitefield is really awesome host .

  • @MexRoze5
    @MexRoze5 3 роки тому +22

    I REALLY value his points of view about women. Christian needs a strong caring woman that offers him a haven at home.A foundation that will be built so strong that even the hardest weather conditions can't destroy it! Thank you Christian! Stay blessed!! 🙏❤🙏❤🙏

  • @mspinkdiva3
    @mspinkdiva3 3 роки тому +19

    Christian is always such a joy to watch! Humility, wisdom, Realness, Humor just awesome guy!

  • @Searchn4answrs
    @Searchn4answrs Рік тому +7

    Always a pleasure to watch Christian Keyes, especially as himself. Thank you Laterras for being so transparent❤

  • @chrisparker6249
    @chrisparker6249 3 роки тому +50

    Wow....powerful story, reminds me of what Paul spoke of about how trials builds character.

  • @EbonyCOliver
    @EbonyCOliver 3 роки тому +53

    All of Christian’s books are good. Even his movies, I love Note to Self.

  • @peterssister421
    @peterssister421 3 роки тому +55

    Everytime I catch a Christian Keyes interview, he ALWAYS inspires. He is a consistent and authentic 100 PERCENT CLASS ACT!! #BLACKEXCELLENCE

  • @lorinemurray6571
    @lorinemurray6571 3 роки тому +32

    I’ve been waiting for this all day, lol‼️ I’m just started to watch it & right now I’m in spiritual tears listing to how Christian was abused.....only God could have helped him get through that....My Lord‼️ What a STRONG SOUL‼️

  • @dwaldenable
    @dwaldenable 3 роки тому +14

    He had me cracking up. I hope he finds true love. He deserves it.

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @shree2ann
    @shree2ann 3 роки тому +31

    OMG he was tortured.... thank God he healed from that. My God 🙏

  • @MsDee-xc8uc
    @MsDee-xc8uc 3 роки тому +7

    "Can't attack what you don't know about"...😂😂 Amen!
    So many gems in this video!

  • @nerrinebrown9939
    @nerrinebrown9939 3 роки тому +17

    It's nice to see a Real Man with Integrity. It's sad to say it's rare. Too Blessed to be Stressed is your flow. Christian thanks for being transparent 🙏🏾 ❤

  • @prettyuniquell2011
    @prettyuniquell2011 3 роки тому +16

    “ A lot of people have Presentation-Ships”. 🗣That PART!

  • @RealLadi228
    @RealLadi228 2 роки тому +7

    Hearing his testimony again was hard... couldn't believe it before some years ago and still find it difficult to imagine because he is such a beautiful talented intelligent soul.

  • @latricemarie6188
    @latricemarie6188 3 роки тому +25

    God is a genius and comedian all at the same time.

  • @leslieralston5461
    @leslieralston5461 3 роки тому +18

    First of all Christian is hil-lar-ri-ous!!! I’ve been following him for several years now and every time I hear his story I always cry. I’m so glad that he didn’t choose to ingest what happened to him and allow it to make him bitter. ( I would understand if he did) but nonetheless he’s better and has something to contribute to others from his pain. I love the fact that he lives in and stands firmly in his truth, cussing and all.🤣🤣🤣 Laterras once again, your letter was 🔥🔥. I pray that you find your good thing, sooner than later. Blessings!!😊

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @danawright8306
    @danawright8306 3 роки тому +26

    "I think it's possible for your soul to recognize another soul"!!!! That resonated with me immensely because it has happened three times. It's a powerful experience

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @HBSugar1106
    @HBSugar1106 3 роки тому +17

    Love his transparency and vulnerability. It's not easy to discuss dark parts of our childhood or traumatic experience or events. So that really does hit me and others. Cause a lot of men don't like to let those walls come down.
    I know he's a great actor but haven't heard his singing voice yet. Excited to hear it. Hoping he finds an amazing and beautiful woman to be his wife in the future. He truly deserves a great love and someone with incredible strength, knowledge, and understanding. Loved this interview fantastic job gentlemen. Two classy smart black men educating folks on relationships and life. 👍🏽

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @r-dene0134
    @r-dene0134 3 роки тому +14

    All I can say is Wow.. He grew through what he went through. GOD BLESS HIS LIFE AND FAMILY. He truly is deserving of a heaven sent woman❤️🙏

  • @godspurposefuldaughter
    @godspurposefuldaughter 3 роки тому +22

    I enjoyed this interview with Mr. Keyes. I agree with what he said regarding relationships. He's seems very down to earth and easy to get a long with. God bless you brother. I like him genuinely, he will be a blessing to whomever God leads him to, and he's funny. I love it!!!

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @abawitx
    @abawitx 3 роки тому +27

    First, I do believe you may need a trigger warning on this particular episode prior to the start of it.
    Second, I've heard his story before. It's the most difficult story I have ever heard in my entire life. I've had some physical trauma from my childhood and recently. But. What he went through makes Guantanamo Bay seem like a resort. You can't write a movie for his story, it's so heavy. The way he can even tell his story without breaking down shows how the Lord has covered his heart and mind and covered him. It's stunning. I freeze when I hear it each time. And his ability to forgive this woman is something unto itself that 99.999% of people would not be able to do, Believer in Christ or not.
    I pray the Lord continues to heal him and restore to him 20 fold every single thing Satan stole from his childhood. I pray the Lord's continued favor upon his life and surround him with His Supernatural full Agape love. This man is absolutely incredible and God will use him mightily.
    Thank you Laterras for getting him on your show.

  • @jenniferharris7942
    @jenniferharris7942 3 роки тому +32

    Laterras, thank you for continuing to give us impactful episodes. Blessings to you and your family!

  • @nakiahall1781
    @nakiahall1781 Рік тому +2

    Everything I Watch Christian Keys interviews he is such an inspiration and so strong listening to how he is so transparent plus so open-mind and just so over all amazingly talented.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @loveforJ
    @loveforJ 3 роки тому +19

    Wow..that's why we have to be careful how we treat ppl...look at ppl..think what we think about ppl when we have no clue what they've been through. I applaud you Christian Keyes! God had and has His hands on you! Your name is a blessing. You have the keys to Christ's heart! God's continued blessings to you!

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @cookieladycarriej.7645
    @cookieladycarriej.7645 3 роки тому +15

    He's 100% when I remember my daughter and I meeting Mr.Keyes on the cruise Fantastic voyage of Tom joyner; and he was so super nice so genuine and just full of grace love mercy, Thanks God you live through that tragedy that horror house continual blessings Mr. Keyes I can't imagine you keeping the last name however God still has his stamp approval on you. Thank you so much for inspiring my daughter she's in the Atlanta area and she studying and also an actress and an awesome writer. Thanks for sharing Blessings 🙌

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @chania80
    @chania80 3 роки тому +11

    Your guest comes across as a very kind soul. He has a tough outer layer but I felt his kindness. He is very grounded too. God bless him and may he keep healing! Thanks for another great episode sir.

  • @girlnamedrehoboth
    @girlnamedrehoboth 3 роки тому +10

    Listening to him talk about his childhood was triggering, to say the least. And hearing him talk about God nudge him to forgive was another trigger. I like that he says we are all healing because we are. Many of us have been traumatized in various ways but ultimately, God wants the healing of our souls, minds, and bodies and forgiveness is a door that opens that rivers of healing for us. Thank you Laterras for this episode.

  • @keepthefaithwithtori
    @keepthefaithwithtori 3 роки тому +7

    Every time I hear about his childhood I just weep so bad. I thank God he was able to get Healing....I love him so much!!! When I meet him.... I just want to give him a hug!!!!! God's chosen have to go through soooooooooo much!!!!!! I am soooooooooo grateful that he is not bitter..... He is such a Humble man and his character is sooooooooooooo Beautiful.... May God continue to Find Favor over his Life!!!!

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 9 місяців тому +3

    Despite his 5 foot 2 stature in school Christian didn't let the bullies bully him. 🙏🏾 What a testimony !! Thank God for healing your soul 💙 always working on your well-being in Jesus Mighty Name Amen

  • @trifree
    @trifree 2 роки тому +5

    Man, I'm so sorry you experienced that during your childhood. Thank God, you made it out.

  • @sylviabute7530
    @sylviabute7530 6 місяців тому

    All praise to this brother for sharing his childhood experiences. His experiences brought back memories of similar treatment that I experienced from my mother. What happened was wrong we must also remember that much of the behaviours that are perpetrated by our people today have their origins in more than 500 years of Chattel Slavery. The slave master did everything to our ancestors and the memory of those experiences are in our DNA. As a result of this many of our people act out these
    behaviours. We have never had any help to deal with our trauma since slavery ended. Mrs. Keyes was mentally ill but her conduct must also be seen in the context of our historical experiences (Chattel Slavery) it is a shame that the authorities did not take any notice about the concerns raise by the brother. Racism is also part of the reasons why he was not listened to.
    Thankyou to the brother, the pastor and other producers of Dear Future Wifey.

  • @acenewb1e
    @acenewb1e Рік тому +3

    If not looking like what you've been through were a person... Never would have even thought by how he carries himself, the characters he plays, and the class he exemplifies as a man. My God thank you for protecting this vessel of a man with your love and light.

  • @cardinalbk
    @cardinalbk Рік тому +4

    Another phenomenal interview! I am sorry to admit that I did not know who Christian Keyes was before this interview, but I am an instant fan! It was extremely difficult to watch at first, I almost turned away because of the abuse he experienced. However, I am very happy that I stuck around!
    Thank you again Mr. Future Wifey for another stellar episode and I pray that Christian Keyes finds the peace he desires, in God’s timing.

  • @Kim_L_Simmons
    @Kim_L_Simmons 3 роки тому +7

    This was such a great interview! Christian is too hilarious lol. The main thing that stuck out for me was FORGIVENESS. To have to go thru all of that pain and still be able to forgive is so major. God definitely has a way of turning your pain into your purpose!

  • @LaKeishaJRichards
    @LaKeishaJRichards 3 роки тому +11

    Omgoodness another one for the books!! This was my first time hearing his story & Babyyyyyyyy the Lord has truly been on his side for such a time as this‼️😭🙏🏽 Blessings to you both 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @yahushuaschosen4129
    @yahushuaschosen4129 3 роки тому +7

    I have nothing but admiration and respect for this brother Mr. Keys! I love watching his interviews and movies. I was moved to tears several times as he so bravely shared his story of abuse. The part that bothers me the most is How the system FAILED HIM, HIS BROTHER and many other foster children!! They chose not to believe him and were too lazy to put him with a good trusting family. Pause......😥
    The foster care system needs to be reformed just like the police departments! So sad! When he stated that she hit him in the head with a hammer, in addition to being put outside naked in the cold and beaten while in the cold/scaling hot showers and everything else, Wow!
    "THAT PART "
    I'v never heard of such Traumatic abuse on this level. He said that she was "crazy." No! She was demonic. I am happy that he finally got the help he needed and found the strength to forgive and able to move past it. Love this man and all he stands for. He dates and loves black women. How refreshing to know this... Thank you for doing this video. Wishing and praying that both of you be blessed with woman that the Most High Yah above has in store for you, and she fulfill all the desires of your hearts forever!💜
    Peace and love to you handsome strong black brothers..

  • @missnormaj8972
    @missnormaj8972 3 роки тому +9

    I have been waiting for this notification all day! I love Christian Keyes! He seems like the most genuine person with the most genuine soul. Before I stepped away from social media, I used to watch his Sunday lives faithfully. Online church and Christian Keyes were my Sunday funday activities. He has the most positive energy. I should have known you two were friends. Great episode!

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for your support

    • @missnormaj8972
      @missnormaj8972 3 роки тому +2

      @@DearFutureWifey always! This podcast is blessing so many lives. You are definitely walking in your purpose.

  • @kishma4527
    @kishma4527 3 роки тому +12

    I really enjoyed this episode. I went through every emotion and I even had a praise moment each time he dropped a gem.

    • @christiankeyes7893
      @christiankeyes7893 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your love and support true out these years....I really appreciate you for your comments and likes ...I just really want to appreciate you and show you how much I care about my fans that’s why I’m replying to your comment now ,if you love to have a conversation with me anytime any day feel free to message me with this my username @privatedevicee on telegram that’s my private device,or send me your mobile number if you have telegram app so I can add you up ..

  • @LifeAccordingToAnnie
    @LifeAccordingToAnnie 11 місяців тому +1

    His upbringing story really broke my heart. I have such a disdain for people who treat or treated children badly. The amount of brain rewriting it takes to not let thst circumstance turn you into the sane thing is true resilience. Sending my ❤️🫶🏽 to anyone who’s been through the same or si miliar.

  • @brownsugagigi3661
    @brownsugagigi3661 Рік тому +6

    I’m just catching this episode. 😮 God bless him!!!! He’s been through so much, & he is still smiling 😊. Lord bless him

  • @Mindfreegardener
    @Mindfreegardener 3 роки тому +6

    Man he dropped so many gems but when he said “ don’t mess up my peace, when you’re at war with yourself” 🙌🏽 that part though!! So good

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  3 роки тому +2

      I firmly live by this

    • @louiseottley4995
      @louiseottley4995 3 роки тому +2

      See that part right there it hit a spot in my heart I had to let someone go for my peace I asked God mths to restore my peace and I got it back and no one gonna disturb my peace because they are miserable with themselves what a word

  • @MC-gn5hi
    @MC-gn5hi 3 роки тому +7

    Happy Birthday Mr. Whitfield! Thank you for every leap of faith that you've taken to bring us this podcast. Every guest has shared life changing and faith instilling testimonies. It's truly a Godsend as are you. Sending love and respect from Italy!

  • @jadasimone1528
    @jadasimone1528 Рік тому +2

    Christian Keyes is HILARIOUS!! No wonder he's a natural at acting! 🙂 God bless the woman who captures his soul, cause they are going to have such a cheerful home. Great interview LT.

  • @belindaphelps700
    @belindaphelps700 Рік тому +2

    Listening to his stories brings tears to my eyes. Thank God for bringing him through the abuse and the strength to forgive. Thank God he was able to heal. What a stand-up man.

  • @Viva__XO
    @Viva__XO 2 роки тому +3

    My God 😭🙏🏾 his story just broke my heart. I was not expecting him to have shared that he went through that kind of abuse. Thank God he's progressing beyond that

  • @sheliacroom882
    @sheliacroom882 Рік тому

    I love it when you have Christian on your podcast. He is very open about his life. I enjoy watching ALL of your podcast. They have been very uplifting to me.

  • @israelaiesha2531
    @israelaiesha2531 3 роки тому +4

    27:15 - "It may take me longer to get there but it's because I am dragging my integrity." Wow. Signature quote. I'd never seen Christian until this podisode. Thank you for sharing your story. Your journey is inspiring and the message in your story is transformational. Your authentic push is in my prayers.

  • @bbltz1440
    @bbltz1440 3 роки тому +6

    Christian you are a walking miracle a strong minded young man an inspiration to our youth with all that experience you made it through you must have an angel looking after you be blessed

  • @Ms1Brownchocolate
    @Ms1Brownchocolate 3 роки тому +6

    After knowing so much stuff he went through growing up, of course he deserves peace. I hope he ends up finding someone great enough for him soon. Keep the faith, Christian.

  • @shonicewilson4636
    @shonicewilson4636 Рік тому

    Love it! Saw you at a play at my alumni school Thornton "John Ruffin." Producer. You made some very good Christian points. Glory to God for getting you through.

  • @AndreaSylve
    @AndreaSylve 3 роки тому +9

    This was such an emotional, refreshing episode. Mr. Keyes has always been one of my favorite actors. He's so authentic and his heart is displayed in everything he does. You are bringing 🔥 and I truly appreciate it. God bless you on your journey to the one!!!

  • @suzettemurray189
    @suzettemurray189 3 роки тому +8

    I loved this. Christian is soooooo funny and I have never heard Laterras laugh so much and so hard!

  • @_SheLOUneyticky
    @_SheLOUneyticky 2 роки тому +3

    I’ve always had a crush on Mr. Keyes. ☺️ But it’s so sad to hear about this man’s upbringing because no one should ever have to go through such trauma at a young age. He’s just so beautiful in & out. You can recognize a good soul when you see/feel one. Be blessed y’all! 💕