How Janet Jackson's marriage was doomed from the start

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  • Disturbing truth about how Janet Jackson's marriage was doomed from the start: Tensions over their VERY different cultures, and his obsession with privacy continually rocked their relationship.
    The photographs were eye-catching, to say the least. Dressed head to toe in billowing black clothes - an oversized poncho, baggy trousers and a hood that covered her hair - singer Janet Jackson was almost unrecognisable as she strolled hand-in-hand with her husband, Wissam Al Mana, in London in October.
    Gone were the thigh-high boots, skimpy skirts and cleavage-baring tops of her heyday. Instead, not an inch of flesh was visible as 50-year-old Janet, then six months’ pregnant with her first child, gazed pensively into the distance.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 494

  • @kierramckinnon9815
    @kierramckinnon9815 5 років тому +99

    You don’t need to give up who you are just to marry someone

    • @newlynew2137
      @newlynew2137 3 роки тому +7

      It’s not easy as that. This was an abusive relationship.. they slowly change I so slowly u don’t even realise u have changed... then when u look at urself u don’t know who u are... it’s a good thing Janet is a strong woman and knows herself she just got lost- we all have done that xxx

    • @stormscastles5258
      @stormscastles5258 2 роки тому

      Should it make you ordered

    • @zabrinaskonecki6398
      @zabrinaskonecki6398 10 місяців тому

      It depends on who you marry. Islam is no joke, study it and you will see.

  • @maryclinton2291
    @maryclinton2291 7 років тому +119

    I know that's right Janet, love your Mother forever because you only get one, and Money has no price on that!

  • @servingjesus5972
    @servingjesus5972 7 років тому +179

    If a man was indifferent toward my mother that would be a deal breaker for me

    • @michelleredd4756
      @michelleredd4756 7 років тому +11

      I fully agree with you on that. Love me - Love my mama too, boo!

    • @jvzubair8635
      @jvzubair8635 7 років тому +9

      why marry a girl of different religion different values and put her through all this ...
      all hating Muslims let me explain he is an abuser nothing else and definitely not a Muslim husband

    • @AuroraTheGoddess
      @AuroraTheGoddess 7 років тому +6

      serving Jesus well im Catholic and my husband is Muslim and originally from Morocco. We have a wonderful marriage.

    • @servingjesus5972
      @servingjesus5972 7 років тому +5

      AuroraTheGoddess Respectfully, one of you is compromising your faith,, or you are both non practicing of your respective religion

    • @realeyesrealizerealliesnon6611
      @realeyesrealizerealliesnon6611 7 років тому +1

      serving Jesus, we don't know the full story most likely. Ms. Katherine has probably brought more lawsuits than any other woman in the U.S. and it's possible that someone other than her own children see that behavior as too much to deal with.

  • @Irockgswift
    @Irockgswift 7 років тому +30

    Based on what the media had said about Janet's marriage to Al Mana she was in a controlling marriage. Janet had a passion for performing on stage and this was limited to how she performed. From the way the media put it she had to conform to his demands which probably made her unhappy. There's nothing worse than not being yourself in any relationship or marriage.

  • @ToFester
    @ToFester 7 років тому +105

    So wealthy and can't never find true happiness so sad.

    • @1937Me1
      @1937Me1 7 років тому +5

      ToFester I bet you I would be happy. try me.

    • @djohn515
      @djohn515 5 років тому +8

      Money don’t buy love nor happiness

    • @TheBrownIsland
      @TheBrownIsland 5 років тому +3

      Choosing the wrong people and marrying for the wrong reasons does not lead to True Happiness. Had she made the right choices she would've possibly been in her 2nd but Happy marriage right now. After the abusive one.
      Spur of the moment elopement at 18yrs old _(James)_ doesn't lead to True Happiness and rushing into a marriage with someone you can clearly see you're not compatible with _(Wisom)_ just because you Feel your getting older also doesn't lead to True Happiness.

    • @murlinejames3338
      @murlinejames3338 5 років тому

      ToFester p

    • @FyeNikka1
      @FyeNikka1 4 роки тому +1

      @@TheBrownIsland You are WRONG. It was her Third Marriage... Sometimes HAPPINESS is only a PERCEPTION of those who are viewing it. - No one knows what really happens behind closed doors- . I'm sure they both played a role in the DEMISE of that marriage. Neither is life PERFECT Sir...!

  • @carmay3600
    @carmay3600 7 років тому +198

    Who couldn't see this coming?! This is both of their faults for thinking that their religious beliefs and upbringing would take the back seat to their "love". She was wrong for thinking she wouldn't have to submit to his religious beliefs and he was wrong for thinking he could make "Ms. Jackson if you nasty" submit.

    • @gayle2020
      @gayle2020 7 років тому +27

      I agree. She knew it wouldnt work out. He knew too

    • @valentinomiller6251
      @valentinomiller6251 7 років тому +30

      Perfectly written. The cliche that "love conquers all" is a whole lot of bullshit. I knew it wouldn't last.

    • @stephaniewiggins3807
      @stephaniewiggins3807 7 років тому

      Volume of l shape

    • @donavonbailey8736
      @donavonbailey8736 6 років тому

      carmay3600

    • @rahsaanification
      @rahsaanification 5 років тому +7

      This is why its against the most high to swirl.Look at this mess,all the money don't matter,I'm sure she'd prefer a stable husband at home vs across the damn globe.Now she got 2 deal w madness all cause she wanted an exotic relationship n got an exotic baby will gotta deal w traveling half way across the world 2 see his father,can't tell me god wants this.No way

  • @cocodan6500
    @cocodan6500 7 років тому +130

    He has an obsession with privacy,yet he married Janet Jackson.

    • @iceylegit727
      @iceylegit727 4 роки тому +13

      A perfect example of irony.

    • @kylephoenix3686
      @kylephoenix3686 4 роки тому +7

      I know right????????!!!!!!!!!

    • @joyceboyd23boyd87
      @joyceboyd23boyd87 4 роки тому +4

      He didn't tell the truth,
      He wanted to be seen.
      When she went to meet the family, if
      She did, she should have said forget it.

    • @stacygunn4224
      @stacygunn4224 3 роки тому +4

      My sentiments exactly

    • @serenamaben35
      @serenamaben35 2 роки тому +3

      Right I don't know what he was thinking 🤔

  • @shirleyjohnson559
    @shirleyjohnson559 5 років тому +24

    Big fan of the Jackson family. I wish they could’ve had kind of a normal life. But impossible. Just keep praying for your girl. Even the family.

  • @simplyredand59
    @simplyredand59 7 років тому +31

    I think she got tired of being controlled by her husband. She married him and started compromising the things she believed in, so much to the point that it made her life miserable in many areas. The more she compromised, the more he wanted her to, until she just couldn't/ wasn't willing to do it anymore. Going through the pregnancy, she thought things were going to get better, but he became even more controlling. She wasn't having it, so she left. I'm not saying she's right. Both of them are to blame for the breakup. She should have found out who she was getting before she married him, and he shouldn't have married her and tried to change her into someone that she had no desire to be. Lesson for both of them and hopefully both of them got it. Marry someone who is already the way you want them to be, and not who you hope they will become. Someone famous once said, and I wholeheartedly agree with them, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them.” Now they have a child together, to consider, and I hope they will put him first regardless of how they feel about each other.

    • @HolidayGolightlyify
      @HolidayGolightlyify 6 років тому +3

      simplyredand59 An amazing answer. Many ordinary people marry someone expecting that the other person's lifestyle has to change after the wedding and being angry if that person does not change. The truth is that if we want to change anyone, we do not actually love that person the way he or she is. He or she is not good enough for us. So we should
      do everyone a favour and find someone we don't have to change. And no one should change for other people, people should be what they want or otherwise they would not be masters of their lives or respecting themselves.

    • @Rinnie749
      @Rinnie749 2 роки тому +2

      Maybe he wanted her to change because, she got into the Islam religion and she has to obey the rules of Islam maybe he didn't control her that much, but if he did controlled her in some ways he should not then, I can say that the divorce was a good thing to both of them

  • @latashaharvin1550
    @latashaharvin1550 6 років тому +43

    I'm happy she got out and back home.

    • @Jessicaro
      @Jessicaro 4 роки тому +1

      people acting as if she was a prisoner. stop believing the bullshit she lived very comfortably with him and took a hell of a lot of money after she left. stop acting as if she is all innocent and he is the bad guy because he is a muslim

    • @realpope8186
      @realpope8186 4 роки тому

      @@Jessicaro Because a husband should dictate what a grown ass woman should wear...

    • @Jessicaro
      @Jessicaro 4 роки тому +1

      @@realpope8186 who has ever said he dictated what she should wear? did janet said that?
      And she is a grown woman. if you don't want your man to dictate what you wear you say no or you leave. she did stay five years married to him after having dated him for more then two and had for the first time in her life had a child by her husband so it wasn't that bad unless she is a golddigger.
      What we all know she was. her past men weren't exactly billionaires so weren't worth taking those eggs out of the freezer for and gaining some extra pounds to hide she had a surrogate mother. stop acting as if a man can force a woman who is a millionaire and old enough do be wise enough to do anything. she isn't 20 nor dumb.

  • @johnrose1313
    @johnrose1313 7 років тому +41

    Did anyone think this would work. Janet has always been her on women . remember her first album " CONTROL" she has got older ,but it basically who she is. I personally love her.

    • @24romac1965
      @24romac1965 7 років тому +3

      Janet's 1st album was NOT CONTROL, it was Her 3rd album, 1st album was "JANET JACKSON" released in 1982, 2nd album was "DREAM STREET" released in 1984 and 3rd album "CONTROL" released in 1986

    • @AdultThirdCultureKid1971
      @AdultThirdCultureKid1971 6 років тому +1

      John Rose I didn't think it would work. It takes two mature people from different cultures or from the same culture to make it work. The key is communication, right?

    • @jpecco9668
      @jpecco9668 5 років тому

      @Patrick Finley she was always overrated anyway she dances more rhan she sings

  • @tonyabrown9597
    @tonyabrown9597 7 років тому +36

    Janet is a strong minded person it shows. Janet has worked to damn hard to let a man weather I'd it's her husband or not. I believe she has taken a stand and said enough is enough. The public will never know exactly what happened for Janet to separate from her billionaire husband. To me that's a private matter Janet now has the most important little person in the world to make sure he gets her undivided attention and that's her son.Nobody knows what kind of hell Janet husband put her thru for the past five years. But one good thing came out of all of this and that's the birth of her son. Plus she will walk away a very wealthy woman and full custody of her son. Now that this has hit the media I'm sure Janet is not going thru this alone she has her family. And if what is being said that he controlled her in changing her style and the star she worked so hard to become to her fan base. Then Janet needed to separate from him. Janet work to damn hard on what she has accomplished in her career. I wish her all the best and the public need to pull back and respect her privacy as she go thru this difficult time. Janet is a fighter and she will bounce back.

    • @drwalka10
      @drwalka10 7 років тому +7

      She knew he was controlling before they got married ... stop playing dumb please

    • @morehyeshiahtorahlessons5545
      @morehyeshiahtorahlessons5545 7 років тому +1

      third marriage?

    • @landaps
      @landaps 7 років тому

      why are people blowing this up? she been in hell? all these speculations. if he is being over protective, isnt that what men do when they see tge woman they love go thru child birth to bring into the world the most precious part of themselves that will ever exist-their child. on the flip side, women go thru so many emotions, so many hormones rushing thru our bodies, the inner independent woman inside trying not to get lost in it all-an incredible internal battle at the same time going thru child birth. birth that actually involves another person. these two can get it together. all this negative energy from people who have no real clue whats going on. perhaps being a wealthy person makes your wife & kid a target & your wife doesnt understand that or maybe that makes you extra protective over them. idk.

    • @Diana-yz6kl
      @Diana-yz6kl 7 років тому +4

      She couldn't have been that strong, she knew what she was getting herself into. I don't feel sorry for either one, he knew what he was doing as well. These are the games rich-broke people play.

    • @Curiosity83
      @Curiosity83 4 роки тому +2

      Big fan of Janet read her last book sis is not strong when it comes to picking men she has a thing for abusive men. Janet may be rich but she is anything but total happy

  • @Burberryb3891
    @Burberryb3891 6 років тому +30

    People with a lot of money 💶 can't never seem to make the right choice whenever it comes to personal business.

    • @TheBrownIsland
      @TheBrownIsland 5 років тому +3

      Same with People with No money.

    • @deannagreen2006
      @deannagreen2006 5 років тому +2

      Janet Jackson seen that money i don't believe she was happy in her heart with her ex-husband and that was her third husband .He was a Billionaire according to the News Media.

    • @joyceboyd23boyd87
      @joyceboyd23boyd87 4 роки тому +2

      Because they never ask Christ Jesus is this
      The right one or way.
      They go by their fleshly lust. They end
      Up marrying or going
      With someone else's
      Destiny.

  • @raelove4268
    @raelove4268 6 років тому +26

    "I want a child but in return you must obey my rules, respect and be part of my religion. Now if you just sign here"

  • @ttdenadaabba2149
    @ttdenadaabba2149 7 років тому +32

    Janet did the smart thing and escaped the chains,and the doomed of what brought down her brother and she wanted no part of it and now she is a pure woman..

    • @lonniejolly5882
      @lonniejolly5882 7 років тому +6

      Please she waited for that money to kick in.

    • @ttdenadaabba2149
      @ttdenadaabba2149 7 років тому +1

      +Be And it was , yes I would be happy to,; you would think when you hear about a family with so much success like the Jackson's that you logically look up to them right?
      but look where success brought them , look what happened to Michel , I think the message of Janet was she wanted to regain her real morals , and herself worth ,and her peace. When you reached the Pinnacle Peak of what the Jackson's achieved you find out that materialism and money didn't gain them happiness. We live in a country where fashion's, Fads, nice car's, hip hop have dictated our minds and have taken control of our youth that we have lost our morals. Islam and the truth of it doesn't necessarily promote what the media wants us to hear. I thank Janet found and regained her peace and happiness that she had and forgot about before she became famous.

    • @drwalka10
      @drwalka10 7 років тому +4

      She knew he was controlling before they got married ... stop playing dumb please

    • @Diana-yz6kl
      @Diana-yz6kl 7 років тому

      Lonnie Jolly
      of course she was, take all the pain and suffering, but you'll get a big reward at the end. Is it really worth it? Where is her dignity as a woman.

    • @lindamonroe7687
      @lindamonroe7687 5 років тому

      Lonnie Jolly

  • @ROYALP100
    @ROYALP100 7 років тому +84

    Glad that's over now Janet can get back to work!

    • @abubakrbryant1751
      @abubakrbryant1751 7 років тому +1

      Golden Voice lol

    • @hls1147
      @hls1147 7 років тому

      just saw here tonight in concert.......AMAZING!

    • @joyceboyd23boyd87
      @joyceboyd23boyd87 4 роки тому

      She still carrys that
      Sweet little Arabian
      Baby.
      Christ told those
      Israelites don't next
      With the people around them. He said
      You will then be tempted to serve their god's. He knocked done that
      Image of dagon 2times as they stood
      It in a room with the
      Ark of the covernant
      Of God. In the book of
      Samuel

  • @curtistinemiller1560
    @curtistinemiller1560 7 років тому +8

    TWO CANNOT WALK TOGETHER I UNLESS AGREED..CONTROLLING ANOTHER ADULT IS ABUSIVE!

  • @A358M
    @A358M 7 років тому +10

    Especially Katherine omg she is so sweet,how could anyone not like her?Michael had his mother's sweetness.

  • @ladyj7517
    @ladyj7517 7 років тому +26

    Not sure why all the drama as this was indeed doomed from the start and I am surprised it lasted this long. I am a Brit and live in a Muslim country - trust me, I have seen firsthand how 99.99% of Western/Muslim marriages never work. The cultural differences are too great to overcome, not to mention the added pressure from family on both sides. Even women who are raised in this culture, struggle; although there are a lot of positive aspects to life here and the younger generation are slowly changing the way they think about some things but some things. If Janet and her husband can't be happy together, hopefully they can be happy apart, at least for the sake of their son.

    • @AdultThirdCultureKid1971
      @AdultThirdCultureKid1971 6 років тому

      Lady J Growing up in a Muslim country can be a struggle for even someone born in a Western country, too.

    • @asafaust6774
      @asafaust6774 4 роки тому

      Hopefully, the father will not take their son out of the country. Some Muslim countries believe that the father has total legal control over the child. It would be a long drawn out process for her to get her son back. Remember the case when the mother took the son to Brazil. Later, she died, but her new husband, and her parents refused to let the biological father see his son. The step father specialized in such cases; legally fighting in behalf of parents who lost contact with their child due to the other parent moving to another country. Still he insisted on keeping the child in Brazil. Barack Obama intervened and somehow managed to see that father and son were re united. His grandparents have the nerve to demand visitation after blocking the father from seeing his own son. I would never trust them, after what they did. I hope this does not happen to Janet.

    • @Abdurrahman-gf2jj
      @Abdurrahman-gf2jj 2 роки тому +1

      What do you white colonialists know about Islam? So shut up

  • @vashtyketaily2581
    @vashtyketaily2581 5 років тому +23

    This is Janet Jackson American Royalty she can do as she pleases an we still love her an her Music The End.

  • @dianering4708
    @dianering4708 6 років тому +20

    You will find a lot of money is going Janets way. She waited until the right time in order to claim the max.

    • @joyceboyd23boyd87
      @joyceboyd23boyd87 4 роки тому

      She thought she had found the great love,
      And that arabian came on strong cause he's seen her
      Perform on stage
      A while back, and that was enough
      For him.

  • @GearsinMotionGraphics
    @GearsinMotionGraphics 7 років тому +17

    If it's MONEY, it can't buy u Love....Love will never do without you.

  • @sirpoppinchuck
    @sirpoppinchuck 4 роки тому +9

    Pretty much a deal breaker when you have no respect for parents. I don't know what she was thinking marrying him being a Rich devout Muslim the main word here is "submit" and hes probavly used to having everything his way. You cant have two divas no balance.

    • @donnaharris9022
      @donnaharris9022 2 роки тому

      the deal breaker is that he was a muslim. And they always expect you to give up your beliefs and accept theirs and she actually did it. She was never born again.

  • @Maria-0017
    @Maria-0017 6 років тому +12

    If you can’t accept a mans culture and the traditions that go with it don’t go there , no matter how many bags of 💰💰💰💰 one might have 👌

  • @lorenamjaj
    @lorenamjaj 7 років тому +10

    The truth, is that if Wissam wanted a wife with muslim principles he should married someone from his own culture. He should realize that Janet is a public figure, she grow up on the spot light. Besides why if this damm stupid man was trying to control her dance moves or even dictate how she was going to performed in concerts,or how dress on stage. or dress in public. That is too much too controlling. in a relationship every thing has to be 50, 50, and not 80. 20.

    • @Irockgswift
      @Irockgswift 7 років тому +1

      lorena4mj aj90037 best comment I read. Exactly why not marry a woman who's already accustomed to those rules or that way of life.

    • @PRINCESS2527
      @PRINCESS2527 6 років тому +1

      lorena4mj aj90037 thank you I agree!! He knew she was famous ..like wtf

    • @GCMickens
      @GCMickens 3 роки тому

      Am I missing something? Was Janet kidnapped ? Drugged? Under a trance? Did she do any research about his culture ?

  • @StellaAdler_
    @StellaAdler_ 3 роки тому +5

    I was shocked when she married him..i'm so glad they divorced. She looks so much happier now.

    • @winniejohnson5559
      @winniejohnson5559 2 роки тому

      She most likely never intended to stay married.. 5 year contact . She fulfilled it and it done

  • @GearsinMotionGraphics
    @GearsinMotionGraphics 7 років тому +19

    Who said this thing called LOVE is perfect?...... know what you want.

    • @valentinomiller6251
      @valentinomiller6251 7 років тому +4

      "Love" shouldn't cause you to change who you are.

    • @Diana-yz6kl
      @Diana-yz6kl 7 років тому

      Valentino Miller money does lol

  • @kara4165mia
    @kara4165mia 2 роки тому +2

    one things for sure, no-one is ever permanent, people need to accept responsibility for their own lives, there is a reason for everything, people choose their own paths, they learn from their own decision making, it was all meant to happen the way it has

  • @user-ii3hm2tc1t
    @user-ii3hm2tc1t 7 років тому +6

    When I saw her in that outfit I knew he was the one in control. He did a remix of her own song on her

  • @MegaVictorias
    @MegaVictorias 7 років тому +66

    I don't understand this man! You can't control Janet, she's a celebrity, a singer. She's been all her life, why should she start to have boundaries now. She's an independent woman with a career why should all that be changed to please this man? After all she had already given up so much to fit into this culture and please him. What a man? I like him though because of Janet. I thought he was a nice guy, I guess I was so wrong.

    • @deloresmcbride8045
      @deloresmcbride8045 7 років тому +2

      DailySunRise

    • @StoryeTime
      @StoryeTime 7 років тому +3

      People like him take it as a challenge, they have such a high regard for themselves and want to possess people who are in the light and they live every second for it

    • @MegaVictorias
      @MegaVictorias 7 років тому +4

      she's not that dumb to have known and still go along with it, he hid his nature until they tied the knot.

    • @celesteadeanes4478
      @celesteadeanes4478 7 років тому +1

      DailySunRise There was some good in this relationship....some. Arabs dont respect women nor blacks that is a brutish historical fact

    • @celesteadeanes4478
      @celesteadeanes4478 7 років тому

      DailySunRise Have you EVER been in love?

  • @MsGrace4ever
    @MsGrace4ever 7 років тому +7

    The shade thrown at Janet in this video is shameful

  • @Maria-0017
    @Maria-0017 6 років тому +9

    And notice how this story is all one sided he’s staying private, controlling men usually find it very hard to keep there mouth 🤐

    • @Ilana.bobanana
      @Ilana.bobanana 3 роки тому +2

      Not necessarily. Some abusers just stay quiet so that everyone else thinks the other person is crazy.

  • @asianmix4947
    @asianmix4947 2 роки тому +1

    IT'S SAD...WHY GET MARRIED AND HAVE A CHILD IF YOU ARE JUST GOING TO DIVORCED YOUR OTHER. I don't understand why people in general do that. DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT have a child with someone unless you're married to that person for over 5years

  • @sylviaistheone1
    @sylviaistheone1 7 років тому +32

    sorry to hear this Janet you do what you have to do nobody deserve to be controlled

    • @drwalka10
      @drwalka10 7 років тому +12

      She knew he was controlling before they got married ... stop playing dumb please

    • @marichiu1808
      @marichiu1808 7 років тому +4

      The religion comes first than anything else, it doesn't matter who you are.

  • @Ezarhia_The_Fulani
    @Ezarhia_The_Fulani 3 роки тому +3

    Janet Jackson has never been a raunchy singer.

  • @srobinson4070
    @srobinson4070 4 роки тому +3

    Both rich and unhappy. Money cannot buy you love. They can have everything. I feel sorry for the child. Janet should of known better

  • @marthajane6617
    @marthajane6617 7 років тому +9

    We will find out the truth, i always thought something was off with this ruse of a marriage.

  • @smohammed6538
    @smohammed6538 7 років тому +2

    they will be in contact because of the child, he seems like a really nice person

  • @patriciasaenz7793
    @patriciasaenz7793 7 років тому +3

    Famous or not. No one can't control anyone. Some people may think that they can. But they can't.

  • @johnsmith-cm3wi
    @johnsmith-cm3wi 7 років тому +3

    we all make mistakes and Janet Jackson will recover from this , Love is good when two people are on the same level of love and Understanding Tweets John Lee Smith Best wishes to Janet .....

  • @Purplemetall007
    @Purplemetall007 7 років тому +22

    Serves her right....after all these years with him she had no clue as to how those men treat women and raise children? Shame on her.

    • @phangirlable
      @phangirlable 6 років тому +2

      It's her fault for muslim men being manipulative nasty liars? They act all nice before marriage and then turn into monsters once they have the woman trapped. Thank goodness she is too powerful on her own so she could free herself.

    • @suzvalentino1901
      @suzvalentino1901 6 років тому +1

      WOW do you have it wrong, I am married to a Muslim and we share a life of happiness and love, maybe that's what your looking for.

    • @sababajwa93
      @sababajwa93 5 років тому

      phangirlable it’s true

    • @sababajwa93
      @sababajwa93 5 років тому +1

      Suz Valentino also true

  • @truedopelife
    @truedopelife 6 років тому +3

    He knew who she was if she got away from her controlling father why wouldn't she do the same over a man. I'm surprised it lasted that long but very happy Ms. Control aka Nasty aka Ms Jackson got the hell outta there before he abused her or hurt her even more. Good for her!!!

  • @michelleredd4756
    @michelleredd4756 7 років тому +10

    A few years ago, I was interested in getting married, particularly since my husband and father of my children, became terminally ill and subsequently died. I considered a non-Muslim man but then I thought, "a bird and a fish can fall in love - but where will they live?"
    I have found Islam to be a way of life that is honorable, patient, forgiving, balanced, but not for foolishness, flaky, deceitful practices. More often than not, many people, including Muslims, get cultural traditions confused with what is Islam. Arab men can and many are, very domineering and harsh to the female in the family. But this is a cultural practice that Arab men held "before Islam" came into being, and we all know "old habits - die hard". Just like in the annals of American Christians, there can be found oppressive, even violent acts towards girls/women by men that went to church and called on Jesus regularly. The mountain folk of Appalachia and down on the farm of ex-slaves in the South. While the movie the Color Purple was depictive of a fictional story telling, I don't doubt that those situations in that time/era was a reality for many girls and women. Young girls married off to old men when all they wanted was to go to school; women (mothers, daughters, sisters, etc) physically, sexually and psychologically abused. So, before any more negative comments are made about Muslim men this/that, remember to be Muslim is to follow a religion, like it is to be a Christian means to follow Christianity. Muslim men are no more cruel and horrible than many of your own Christian fathers, uncles, brothers, cousins, sons and husbands. The Bible reports "all have come short (of - to) the Glory of GOD!"
    Remember Tim McVeigh, the white, Catholic (Christian) man that blew up the FBI building that killed many of the children that were in the daycare that was housed in that building for the employees of the FBI. No one is calling "all young white men devils or baby killers." And his religion was Christian. C'mon people know that to be Muslim is not racial, one can be any race and a MUSLIM. Just like any race of a person, he/she can be CHRISTIAN.
    We as a people don't like to be categorized as "all Black women are rachet, weave wearing, welfare recipients, men with no jobs, making babies he can't feed, or having children and walking away from them, because he's chasing the crack pipe, etc." That is NOT who Black people are. Yes, it is true for a few, but by and large that kind of depiction of a Black person is not valid for more than HALF of African-Americans. So, please stop with the name calling and not knowing what you are talking about. He/She without sin - let him/her cast the first stone.

    • @HolidayGolightlyify
      @HolidayGolightlyify 6 років тому +2

      Michelle Redd You know what, just explore better what your prophet did in his life, how he treated women, how he was a pedophile how he spread Islam with a sword, how he treated kafirs, how your evil Allah justifies slavery and death punishments... It is a cult. There is nothing you can justify it. It is nice to have some kind structure in life but not through an oppressive Nazi-like ideology seeking to dominate. go and fond Jesus Christ if you need religion. He is the only truth and true love.

    • @jofreeman9517
      @jofreeman9517 4 роки тому

      @@HolidayGolightlyify Absplutely!!!

    • @bchlon1
      @bchlon1 3 роки тому +1

      Please don't run down Christians and not point out Pedophile Muhammad. Really?

  • @GearsinMotionGraphics
    @GearsinMotionGraphics 7 років тому +14

    In the name of LOVE?, or money. know thyself.

    • @AdultThirdCultureKid1971
      @AdultThirdCultureKid1971 6 років тому

      Robert Jackson Exactly. It is important to know yourself before you commit to anything.

  • @evangeline5748
    @evangeline5748 7 років тому +7

    This is hilarious! Not the break up. But the narrators voice.

  • @kdeloris2225
    @kdeloris2225 4 роки тому +1

    Janet Jackson is a queen she was never raunchy don't get her confused or Twisted with anybody else

  • @EmpressofChrist
    @EmpressofChrist 5 років тому +3

    She divorced him and left with 500. Million

  • @kellybarrientos9718
    @kellybarrientos9718 6 років тому +1

    No man, what ever religion, has the right to tell a woman, how to dress, what to do and who she can visit or hang out with.glad she got out of that controlling mess, find someone that treats you like a queen, not a doormat.

  • @patriciaalexander9751
    @patriciaalexander9751 4 роки тому +1

    How could you possibly think you could control a superstar like Janet? More money than brains!!

  • @Ngisa
    @Ngisa Рік тому

    Lmao being Janet I wouldn't tell Latoya shhhhit either! Next thing she's running to the media to vomit lies about my marriage- no thanks crazy

  • @videolover61
    @videolover61 7 років тому +6

    What's up with the jazz piano soundtrack?! How about some John Coltrane!

  • @shesrightyo
    @shesrightyo 7 років тому +19

    THIS IS HIS FIRST MARRIAGE and her 3RD plus BOYFRIENDS.! .....what the hell is her problem?

    • @billybobkumar9231
      @billybobkumar9231 7 років тому +2

      Exactly! And given that her brother Jermaine's been a Muslim for years, I don't buy all this "oh, she didn't know about Muslim's" b.s. She's dissin' a good man...again.

    • @tuffgong9697
      @tuffgong9697 7 років тому +2

      Be And it was @she always choose bad guys .Except ,JD he was a nice guy though,She should have married him

    • @hls1147
      @hls1147 7 років тому

      ass

    • @dianering4708
      @dianering4708 6 років тому +1

      Money, a lot of it

  • @luffyaazeeny8771
    @luffyaazeeny8771 6 років тому +1

    He shouldn't have married her in the first place..., what was he's thinking...??? It is totally his fault! I feel pity for the innocent child......

  • @tarajones1152
    @tarajones1152 2 роки тому +3

    GOD DELIVER WISSAM FROM COCAINE . . . . 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏

  • @debraking4923
    @debraking4923 7 років тому +1

    he should of told her to sign a "prenup" he knew what he was getting into. janet is too independent, talented & beautiful to be "Controlled" he should of listened to her "Control Lyrics"

  • @yolandawoodard1187
    @yolandawoodard1187 7 років тому +4

    Love and support you Janet, keeping you and your family in prayer GOD and Jesus is the solution to all problems.

    • @rahsaanification
      @rahsaanification 5 років тому

      When she crack open a bible an read it and see's that she is in defiance of gods will by mixing with a arab,she won't be happy.

  • @victoriabarkley9644
    @victoriabarkley9644 7 років тому +6

    Janet jackson, will be alright, she's better than ever. Janet u mad a smart move ,get out and stay out. 😁👊

  • @henriettasampson8647
    @henriettasampson8647 4 роки тому +2

    Janet looks amazing for her age of that's due to her DNA then God bless her congrats Janet for your new motherhood and independence it's looks great on you

  • @mjapas1971
    @mjapas1971 7 років тому +3

    She don’t like always staying in the home

  • @-justcallmecourtz-7287
    @-justcallmecourtz-7287 5 років тому +5

    Now she’s back YASS!

  • @kimwright6377
    @kimwright6377 7 років тому +11

    Janet didn’t dress raunchy!

    • @sistamaryclarence
      @sistamaryclarence 4 роки тому

      Lol you gotta be young lol Raunchy could describe her whole velvet rope tour lol

  • @ezekiel5687
    @ezekiel5687 2 роки тому +1

    That relationship was a joke and she looked bad. Glad it's over

  • @lindarobertson8561
    @lindarobertson8561 6 років тому +1

    Janet Jackson wasn't thinking too good she was more blind then she could see. What she failed to check on was the to be husband background as how life goes in his neck of the woods. Sure he going to control her with his demands. Now she got a kid. That's a beautiful baby she have but that's going to come to be a big problem.

  • @belinalug6928
    @belinalug6928 7 років тому +1

    Janet should have realized her destiny marrying into this religion, they even made a movie about a women that married a man out of her religion and she had to go through the same restrictions. He also was abusing her once he got her into his country. and she had to fight to leave the husbands country with her child.

  • @tineivarsson2481
    @tineivarsson2481 2 роки тому +2

    Raunchy singer .. are you f kidding me..lol

  • @ahkeyahysrael7115
    @ahkeyahysrael7115 7 років тому +5

    She is an Israelite.

  • @jeanettesdaughter
    @jeanettesdaughter 7 років тому

    Leave Janet alone. She will handle her business as always. Both rich. They fine!

  • @puddin5950
    @puddin5950 7 років тому +6

    she was never considered a raunchy singer

  • @nancisam8305
    @nancisam8305 2 роки тому

    Janet could never keep up with that lifestyle. She had to be very private and dress like that. Janet is used to being working and doing things, not stuck in house all day, no matter how much money he have.

  • @Rinnie749
    @Rinnie749 2 роки тому +1

    They were happy together but, all what I know is that her husband maybe controlled her to much especially, when she got through Islam

  • @CYMRUKID69
    @CYMRUKID69 4 роки тому +1

    It's a shame she has changed so much she was good in the 80s & 90s I wouldn't go to her concerts now Islam has changed her for the worse. Control was her best album.

  • @barbaralampkin6946
    @barbaralampkin6946 4 роки тому +1

    I am trying to see Janet in concert,for her black diamond tour. Marriage is hard,a lot of times the man does not make things easy. I was once married to a stupid black guy for just 2 months,it was not good!!! I am now happily divorce!!!. I know for my self I won't never marry,never ever again!!!!. This is typed by Chastity Lampkin. Why does men have to make marriages so hard in the first place???.

  • @curtistisdale8150
    @curtistisdale8150 3 роки тому +3

    It seemed that Wissam pursued Janet because let's face it, Janet is Amazing!!! I remember when Janet was with JD (The True Love Of Her Life!!! Black 🖤) and she was attempting to not allow the Blackballing of The Superbowl keep her hide away... JD was with Janet during this horrible time, so if someone is with You during your bad times, shouldn't they see you when your doing well?!?!?! Then MJ (RIP) died and this relationship with JD hit a bump in the road but during JD & Janet's relationship Wissam would attend some of the same events Jan was at.... Janet might be a great deal of things but Jan is Loyal.... Wissam might have reclusive ways but he pursued Janet because she is The Ultimate and Phenomenal Woman!!!! Yes, He is a Devout Muslim Man with integrity spilling out of his pours and met Janet and it was a wrap...JD loved and adore Janet and brought out one of many personalities that lived within Janet's Beautiful Body, Mind, Spirit, and Soul but this one was all about Love and all the aspects and attributes of LOVE. Wissam literally raised his profile which wasn't bad but he was a guy that could buy and sell folks but still couldn't find an equal. As much as most are so stuck in Janet being rich, they have to remember she is WEALTHY and been for some time. They been quoting her wealth under 200 Million for close to 20+ years... She is Old-School as all The Jacksons were and are... Wealthy ppl whisper ( As The Jackson's are known to do) and Rich ppl seem to shout because it has been this trend to alert everyone on the planet about your every move... Things the Average Joe or Joan can't afford You make sure You alert "The Media"... MJ ( RIP) and Janet were students of "Old Hollywood" and "The Original OG's of Showbusiness" . The only rule of thumb was never let anyone know what You have or what You have going on.... I just saw a video of The Late, Legendary and Iconic 'Gregory Peck' (RIP) at Neverland Ranch ( RIP) and he was indulging in his childhood and said: "Can I come here every week!!!!". This was after riding a ride and just enjoying himself... MJ and Janet and the entire Jackson Clan would soak up and take advice and counsel from Old School Entertainers.... Do You really think Wissam would date and then marry Janet if she was this struggling person???? Janet literally could have went toe-to-toe with Wissam financially because you have to remember Janet is one of "The Best Business Women in The Business of Show"... She made her 1st Million when she was a teenager and twice she would have landmark deals that granted her deals bigger than her contemporaries at the time ( Including MJ & Madonnas).... Janet is worth a heck of a lot more than 120 million and not that it's something to sneeze at but she is closer to a Billionaire than most think... F.Y.I., Janet paid for MJ'S entire service.....Get out of Your Head That Janet is A Gold-Digger, and Desperate to make some ends...

    • @curtistisdale8150
      @curtistisdale8150 3 роки тому +4

      @Alwaysconcernedone JD is a very talented man and I saw an interview with Janet that ended being one of "Those Infamous Oprah-like ones", where it's the last interview before there is a split about to go down. During this interview Janet confessed that when she looks at JD she sees herself. She thought JD was the person she waiting for her entire life. It was like when Penny desired JJ on " Good Times". Janet's Love for JD was so endearing but the scary music was playing in the background....Janet went years being known as "The Sane Jackson" which didn't make sense to at least Me because I feel The Jackson were and still are "American Royalty". All those horrible rumors put out about The Jacksons (Especially MJ RIP King) was always because someone was upset with them not complying with someone wanting something or needing something from them...You know David Geffen is solely responsible for starting many of the horrible rumors about MJ. He liked MJ and I think he tried to kiss him and MJ turned him down and that was it...Then Paul McCartney and MJ created Magic and MJ ended up being Super Business Savy and bought the rights ( Catalogs) of The Beatles (RIP John & George) and between David and Paul now MJ is "The Enemy" ( Public Enemy #1) and now MJ isn't just a horrible person but now he is a Freak and even worse a child molester and "Wacko Jacko" is born. You remember when Oprah & Gail, (two Women I used to love, Still Love a bit) were celebrating O's b-day watching a private screening (Before Sundance) of "That Smear Campaign on Film": "Leaving Neverland" (1,000,000,000 thumbs down). They celebrated on David Geffen 's yacht with a performance from $ir Paul McCartney...Do You catch how the entertainment business works!!!! JD wasn't about all the shenanigans and Janet appreciated him being a normal guy and treated her like a normal girl...She wasn't leaving Cali and JD wasn't leaving the ATL....

  • @carlista2010
    @carlista2010 5 років тому +3

    I think money had alot 2 do with her being with him.she has good pension.

  • @michelleredd4756
    @michelleredd4756 5 років тому

    One thing is for sure, she does have a type. Not Black nor White but something in between.

  • @crazydoglady5
    @crazydoglady5 6 років тому

    What the hell was she thinking? This was a disaster before it ever started. She needs to stay single.

  • @PRINCESS2527
    @PRINCESS2527 6 років тому

    He knew how she was before she married him...he knew she had a career and was a public figure I don’t understand why he was so controlling and tried to change her......I wish she woulda seen that he didn’t really love her ..cause that’s just a mess

  • @patricecarter6148
    @patricecarter6148 7 років тому +3

    he knew what he was getting into

  • @bertiesuerollins2729
    @bertiesuerollins2729 7 років тому +5

    none of this is new to her she knew about his culture when she married him.don't feel sorry for her.

    • @xafahxafah1476
      @xafahxafah1476 6 років тому

      Bertiesue Rollins that's rude to say u don't know how he treated her before marriage vs after he could of been charming turned sour

  • @patriciasaenz7793
    @patriciasaenz7793 7 років тому

    He has been out in public. She takes him like pretty much every where she goes.

  • @want2knwNw
    @want2knwNw 5 років тому +3

    Fast Forward 2019...her show in Vegas was #WateredDown😟😩😞 I Wanted To See #NastyGirl

  • @alaya3410
    @alaya3410 7 років тому +1

    I WAS LOOKING FORWARD TO THEIR MARRIAGE MAKING IT. I HOPE THEY COULD WORK THINGS OUT. IF NOT SHE TRIED.

  • @smohammed6538
    @smohammed6538 7 років тому

    people judging and saying shit,Janet Jackson husband never said one bad word about her,he said he love her,Janet never announced he was controlling.

    • @Irockgswift
      @Irockgswift 7 років тому

      S Mohammed Of course she wouldn't.. She been in the entertainment business long enough to know they take any little information they get and run with it.

  • @nikykaur
    @nikykaur 5 років тому

    I can't believe she ditched makeup and nice clothes for that freak control of a man

  • @memeejefferson6835
    @memeejefferson6835 6 років тому +2

    $$$$$$$$$$ everybody has a price, including, Ms. JACKSON, IF YOU 'R NASTY!!!!!!!$$$$$$$$$$$$

  • @MJJ628
    @MJJ628 5 років тому +1

    She married that thing look at him unbelievable!!!!

  • @11fumiko
    @11fumiko Місяць тому

    I dont think she converted to Islam. You can see her Rock With you tour when she sings Discipline.

  • @cynthialowery2072
    @cynthialowery2072 2 роки тому +1

    Janet is still dressing as if she has kept her conversion, when you marry a man who is born into islam, converting is an automatic when getting married…as someone who had a relationship with a man born into islam, if you are with that person for more than a year some of the adjustments you make seem to stick, if you break from that person, you tend to want to somewhat maintain the dress code, and respecting the position of your male partner as he is the protector and provider for the woman( however that has to in turn respect the woman as well), etc you realize the western culture is poison and we as women don’t need to wear clothes that sexualize our bodies,( not speaking of short sleeves or shorts that come right above the needs) but tight clothes that are designed to sexualize… tribes that are nomadic, where women wear very little clothing that’s not sexualize, the people minds have not been corrupted by the western mindset

  • @nibirue
    @nibirue 7 років тому +8

    This Wissam guy reminds me of my ex

    • @rahsaanification
      @rahsaanification 5 років тому

      Bedwench

    • @jofreeman9517
      @jofreeman9517 4 роки тому

      @@rahsaanification What would you call Kenye West?🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

  • @joyceboyd23boyd87
    @joyceboyd23boyd87 4 роки тому

    Her wrapped up in that religious gab , says Janet wasn't
    Going to submit
    She felt uncomfortable the
    1st time they told her
    She had to wear that.
    She had better be glad she
    Didn't have to put on
    That grill facemask.
    That means your mind is shackled.

  • @studentofabrahamiamavibrat3615
    @studentofabrahamiamavibrat3615 3 роки тому +1

    ARRRRRRR THESE AUTOMATED ROBOT NARRATORS👎

  • @ericcollins7278
    @ericcollins7278 3 роки тому

    Don't call her raunchy singer how dare you probably don't have a successful relationship yourself.🤨🙄🤔

  • @theconsciousone9017
    @theconsciousone9017 5 років тому +1

    Sometimes different Lifestyles don't mix according to their different cultures I probably would not have any problem problem with mixing cultures the only problem I would be have would be the family thing I'm like Janet that would totally bother me lack of respect for my mother and father simply out of the question

  • @HolidayGolightlyify
    @HolidayGolightlyify 6 років тому +5

    What relationship? She is his object and slave.

  • @scrixz926
    @scrixz926 7 років тому +2

    She looks just like Micheal jackson

  • @bluerosefire_503
    @bluerosefire_503 4 роки тому +1

    He must have been a mean man.

  • @A358M
    @A358M 7 років тому

    this guy clearly prefers western women but he prefers them his way. How did he think he was going to change not only a western woman but a western scantly dressed western pop star? smh

  • @michelleredd4756
    @michelleredd4756 7 років тому +2

    I am so sorry to hear of this break of this marriage, but I am not surprised. I knew there would be some contention when it was announced she'd married this guy. It is more than a challenge for a western woman who is, educated, spiritually in-tune, psychologically driven, fiercely independent, with her own set of familial sensitivities and sensibilities, to marry a man that follows Islam to the letter. I am surprised to know she is the only wife he's "reportedly" to have or ever had and their child is his first, at his ripe old age of 40+. Part of me is on Wissam's side, Janet doesn't need to go back on the concert circuit, surely not for financial reasons, and sliding across a stage bumping and grinding at 50 years old, well, that too gets old, but I understand her as well. Show business is her life - her way of life. It's all she's known, some can say, it's the core of who she is; and frankly, it was "HER" family business. I'm sure he's known all of this, but while she was all 'goo-goo - ga-ga" in love for all the right reasons, he on the other hand was playing out in his head how she would behave towards him as a wife, mother and life long companion, and I'm so sure, doing her "thang" in Vegas, or anywhere else in scantly clad costumes, and singing about hoochie-coochie, was not going to fly with him nor his family/tradition/honor, which to a traditional Islam man is the BLOOD of existence. I pray for the sake of baby Eissa, these two stay very much connected, find a return to a path of love/connection with one another, and for this reason, they are awesome parents and the two do very, very well in life. They take the love for themselves their baby and one another as the "core" of their existence, and money and fame are simply conveniences, much like a dish washing machine. Nice to have, but not really necessary. Sometimes you gotta roll up your sleeves and get wet & dirty to restore health, balance and peace. Do the work Janet/Wissam because you two are worth it and so is Eissa. GOD-ALLAH will provide all else.

    • @doloresclement9589
      @doloresclement9589 7 років тому

      Your mom and you and son did be with family right now. I will pray for you and son. from your fan dee.

  • @1Robbinh
    @1Robbinh 4 роки тому

    The picture on the left, Janet does not look happy at all.

  • @nokuzolamdukaza1312
    @nokuzolamdukaza1312 5 років тому +1

    Go and enjoy your life dear money is not everything especially if it can't put a smile on your face