In Memory of my Dad

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  • Опубліковано 27 сер 2024
  • I lost my incredible dad, Dermot Martin to stage 4 prostate cancer in October. He was diagnosed in July this year and began treatment but unfortunately it didn't work and he passed away at home on 05/10/23. A month has passed and we are still in shock but I wanted to mark today with a tribute to him on my UA-cam channel. He was my biggest cheerleader and loved watching my vlogs (which I always thought he'd find boring but he was so interested) so it felt right to share his life with you and tell you more about the man he was. I wouldn't be studying medicine without him, be it him encouraging me to be interested in science and the world around us, helping me with quadratic equations at the dining room table for my A levels or him telling me to keep applying for medicine and never give up. I owe so much to him.
    His requiem mass was live streamed last weekend and you can watch it here - • Requiem Mass of Dermot...
    featuring an incredible Eulogy by my dad's friend Ed (13mins15), one of my best friends Tara sings beautifully "Who Knows Where the Time Goes - Sandy Denny" and straight after I read my poem (1hr7mins)
    He was feautured (and even on the front page of) a few newspapers when he passed away:
    www.dailyecho....
    www.bournemout...
    www.burnleyexp...
    www.lancashire...
    www.holdthefro...
    Thank you for everything dad x

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  • @LydiaMartinMedic
    @LydiaMartinMedic  9 місяців тому +37

    Thank you guys for the lovely comments, I hope you enjoy learning a bit more about my dad and his incredible life.❤ I am planning to keep going with 4th year as in his last few weeks dad kept telling me to "stay strong and focus on my career". Thanks a lot dad, easier said than done! 😂 Somehow I did manage to pass my 8 week psychiatry placement.. it was a struggle but luckily psychiatrists are usually quite understanding people who like to talk! I'm still taking things a day at a time but I hope to be back with some med school vlogs very soon. I'm doing more regular updates on my insta (@lydiamartinmedic) Lots of love, Lydia xxx

  • @rebeccamorgan8101
    @rebeccamorgan8101 Місяць тому

    Anyone would have been proud to have your dad as their own. He seemed like a loving father❤ You were blessed to have him. When you have your children, you will be able to share all your lovely memories with them.
    Great video.

  • @GemWoody
    @GemWoody 5 місяців тому +1

    Im just making my way through all of your videos. He seemed like such a sweet man in your vlogs, and very funny. So sorry for your loss ❤
    Make him proud

  • @zacharyhart2122
    @zacharyhart2122 9 місяців тому +6

    Such a brave thing to put a tribute on YT. It will get easier. ❤

  • @chiyungwong3774
    @chiyungwong3774 9 місяців тому +4

    Easily one of the greatest videos I’ve watched on UA-cam. Beautiful and poignant tribute. I wish I had known your dad.😊

    • @LydiaMartinMedic
      @LydiaMartinMedic  9 місяців тому

      that is so kind of you to say, thank you ❤❤❤

  • @jessicagreenham9503
    @jessicagreenham9503 9 місяців тому +5

    This is so beautiful. What an incredible life 💛

  • @kenjewell5619
    @kenjewell5619 9 місяців тому +3

    So sorry for your loss, one thing I can say is it does get easier with time and good memories help.

  • @ABC-ys2eh
    @ABC-ys2eh 9 місяців тому +5

    my deepest condolences to you and your family dear Lydia ❤ sending you lots of strength and healing ❤

  • @zoellz
    @zoellz 9 місяців тому +1

    I have similar aged parents and I worry I don't have enough time with them and when you said your dad had so much life left to live made me cry. This is a beautiful tribute to him.❤

  • @anoudalsaab6539
    @anoudalsaab6539 9 місяців тому +2

    He lived an amazing life and he will continue through you and your siblings ❤️

  • @EmelyPhan
    @EmelyPhan 9 місяців тому +2

    That is cute that your father would support your UA-cam stuff as well as promote your channel to his friends.

  • @martm216
    @martm216 9 місяців тому +5

    So sorry for your loss Lydia 😢. Lovely tribute. Bless you.

  • @garden_vibes7796
    @garden_vibes7796 9 місяців тому +4

    What a cool dad you have!!! Sending love, this was a wonderful tribute.

  • @nicolatodd3979
    @nicolatodd3979 9 місяців тому +3

    I'm really sorry to hear of your loss, Lydia. You're an inspirational young woman, and will have an exceptional career as a Doctor. When I've experienced a close loss, I've felt enveloped in a massive amount of love from those who've passed and feel them every day in my life - in many respects the love is stronger without them here. With that amazing feeling of love behind us, we can't go wrong. Please take care x

  • @louisemcintosh4230
    @louisemcintosh4230 9 місяців тому +5

    This is beautiful!! so sorry for your loss❤

  • @shelbyassinder8032
    @shelbyassinder8032 6 місяців тому

    I randomly stumbled upon this video, I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad on Christmas Eve and this was such a lovely video to watch! ❤

  • @heidichatwin7205
    @heidichatwin7205 6 місяців тому

    This brings me to tears. So brave of you to do this.

  • @zuza741
    @zuza741 9 місяців тому +1

    This video is a masterpiece, I was crying the whole time while watching it... take care and stay strong!

    • @LydiaMartinMedic
      @LydiaMartinMedic  9 місяців тому

      sorry for making you cry!! thank you xx ❤❤

  • @MinodaJ
    @MinodaJ 9 місяців тому +4

    It is such a beautiful tribute, Lydia x

  • @servingcant
    @servingcant 9 місяців тому

    What an inspiring man, your Dad is a legend. I wish to live such a beautiful fulfilling life. Sending you and your family lots of love ❤️‍🩹

  • @nopenopenopenopenopers
    @nopenopenopenopenopers 9 місяців тому

    Oh fuck, I am so sorry for your loss. I am so happy for you that you had such a wonderful relationship with your dad - your pain at his loss is a testament to how close the two of you were, and your tears are just an outpouring of love for him.

  • @TaraFlanaganUK
    @TaraFlanaganUK 9 місяців тому

    So so beautiful. What an epic man and Dad!!! You are such a beautiful family and it was so kind and brave of you to share this, love you lots xxx

  • @malikapatel2555
    @malikapatel2555 9 місяців тому

    so beautifully said Lydia, a lovely tribute and sending you and the family my condolences and all my love xxx

  • @Ishal2008
    @Ishal2008 9 місяців тому

    Your dad is looking over you and is super proud! Stay blessed as a family of 5. Stay strong! ❤️

  • @comienmoffat2551
    @comienmoffat2551 9 місяців тому

    I am crying because I too lost my Dad and he would also have been 70 years old this year. I am so sorry for your loss 😢❤

    • @LydiaMartinMedic
      @LydiaMartinMedic  9 місяців тому +1

      im so sorry for you loss too :( lots of love xx

  • @rebeccafox1420
    @rebeccafox1420 9 місяців тому

    You are genuinely so strong. Sending my huge huge hugs❤️

  • @Diamondpaintingwithsophie
    @Diamondpaintingwithsophie 9 місяців тому

    So sorry for your loss

  • @cathykilburn3931
    @cathykilburn3931 9 місяців тому

    So sorry for your loss. x

  • @DyslexicStudentMidwifeSoph
    @DyslexicStudentMidwifeSoph 9 місяців тому

    So sorry to hear 😢 I lost my mum when I was young. Thoughts are with you and your family ❤

    • @LydiaMartinMedic
      @LydiaMartinMedic  9 місяців тому

      so sorry to hear you lost your mum at a young age. sending u lots of love and thank you ❤❤

  • @beckylouisephotography9081
    @beckylouisephotography9081 9 місяців тому

    After watching most of your videos, hearing this news feels lol like hearing your best friends dad has just passed. So sorry to hear Lydia. Lovely video and wow the strength you have to compose it so beautifully and so soon after. Currently at work but will watch the rest of the video soon. Keep being you ❤

    • @LydiaMartinMedic
      @LydiaMartinMedic  9 місяців тому

      thank u for this lovely comment, trying to be strong for him ❤ xx

  • @helen4231
    @helen4231 9 місяців тому

    ❤sending so much love, a very beautiful tribute xxxx

  • @hinnah5954
    @hinnah5954 9 місяців тому

    I'm so sorry for your loss, Lydia 😔

  • @aimsrobo97
    @aimsrobo97 9 місяців тому

    A beautiful tribute for an amazing man. Love you my girl ❤ xx

  • @LIVEINPEACE2023
    @LIVEINPEACE2023 9 місяців тому

    I’m so very sorry. 😢 🙏

  • @sallypearson9069
    @sallypearson9069 9 місяців тому

    This is beautiful Lydia, well done for surviving the first month xxx

  • @AleksandraWajnert
    @AleksandraWajnert 9 місяців тому

    Hugs ❤

  • @FloLangridge98
    @FloLangridge98 9 місяців тому

    Sorry for your loss ❤

  • @AmberBiffin
    @AmberBiffin 9 місяців тому

    This is such a beautiful video for your Dad Lydia ❤❤

  • @laurafabianmarrero
    @laurafabianmarrero 9 місяців тому

    Im so so sorry for your Lost
    😢😢🙏🙏

  • @hanniluxe
    @hanniluxe 9 місяців тому

    So sorry for your loss! X

  • @allisongriffiths4303
    @allisongriffiths4303 9 місяців тому

    Sincere condolences ❤ take care.

  • @blonyynka
    @blonyynka 9 місяців тому

    What a lovely video!

  • @freya1735
    @freya1735 9 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @carlybenarbia9193
    @carlybenarbia9193 9 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @christophercurtis8083
    @christophercurtis8083 9 місяців тому

  • @Ecentrah
    @Ecentrah 9 місяців тому

  • @juliagaylard4186
    @juliagaylard4186 9 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @Goldbair
    @Goldbair 9 місяців тому

  • @adventureswithmegan
    @adventureswithmegan 9 місяців тому