Should You Quit Your Job? | Eckhart Tolle on Doing What You Love and Loving What You Do

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 431

  • @SheilaMakena
    @SheilaMakena Рік тому +581

    I quit my job back in 2019. It was the best decision I ever made. I lost everything. I had to move back home. But I used that time to learn about questions I believed this life could never respond to. I have found each and every answer to every question I have pondered. Depression and anxiety will never take control of me the way it did for decades of my life. I admit, on the outside, it looks like I have barely scratched the surface, but on the inside, I have moved mountains. I have travelled to millions of new versions of myself in this one lifetime. I'm fine with how everything unfolds.

    • @OrangMation
      @OrangMation Рік тому +12

      Maybe you can share your findings with others 😉😇

    • @nicoleraheem1195
      @nicoleraheem1195 Рік тому +2

    • @nbi_nbi
      @nbi_nbi Рік тому +2

      How are you doing now ?

    • @trxxxxxxg
      @trxxxxxxg Рік тому +3

      I really wish I can be as bold as you to make the quitting decision .. anyway happy for you ~!

    • @SheilaMakena
      @SheilaMakena Рік тому +14

      @@OrangMation thank you for your thoughts. This is certainly the plan! I am working on an audiobook where I share my story as well as how we can mentally and emotionally free ourselves from the shackles of fear. No motivational stuff. Just really insightful information to help one understand oneself so much that you, at the very least, get back control of yourself and your life.

  • @Joseph-xt2qg
    @Joseph-xt2qg Рік тому +147

    I LOVE this idea: "If you cannot accept, enjoy, or be in enthusiasm, remove yourself, and then try again somewhere else."

    • @cristianm7097
      @cristianm7097 Рік тому +2

      Society always murders the individual.

  • @LashayneHampton
    @LashayneHampton Рік тому +111

    “It’s never too late to be what you might have been.” George Eliot ❤

  • @yourcalmplace
    @yourcalmplace Рік тому +353

    - I just want to let anyone who’s reading this, and going through a tough time know that it’s going to be okay. You’ll get through it! ✨

    • @melharrison5034
      @melharrison5034 Рік тому +1

      🙏

    • @jenniferpetrellicarslearni2265
      @jenniferpetrellicarslearni2265 Рік тому +6

      A very beautiful message. I'm going to the worst time of my life. My mother and now my sister passed away. They were everything to me. Now I have no loved ones no family left.

    • @wizardboy307
      @wizardboy307 Рік тому

      Thanks

    • @sushmaartho4973
      @sushmaartho4973 Рік тому +2

      @@jenniferpetrellicarslearni2265 im very sorry to hear that. Might a light inside you lead u to your inner peace. Love to you.

    • @sushmaartho4973
      @sushmaartho4973 Рік тому

      Thank u for your love spreading💝

  • @frankmurphy5
    @frankmurphy5 Рік тому +32

    Eckhart would actually be an amazing bartender.

    • @Kknightstar
      @Kknightstar Рік тому +3

      I wonder what dinner with Eckhart would be like, life changing for sure ❤

    • @adammorra3813
      @adammorra3813 Рік тому

      ​@@Kknightstar a nice steak

    • @birungicalorine8202
      @birungicalorine8202 Рік тому +1

      Giving advice go drunkards, the bar would lose customers each passing day. I would enjoy a glass of water every evening at his service

  • @avoicetocount
    @avoicetocount Рік тому +73

    I am currently in the process of walking out after ten years in the same job. The first five years I was able to enjoy what I did. For the last five years I had to strain harder and harder to find joy in what I was required to do and how it had to be done, and I maneuvered myself into burnout. Eventually, I figured I tried long and hard enough and it's time to call it quits before my unhappiness and the resulting inefficiency rubs off on others. I should have done that much sooner to prevent myself from falling ill. But I really wanted to make it work and be sure it's not me being the problem. I guess I'm a slow learner. But at least I'm sure now that it wouldn't have worked had I only given it some more time.
    If you're a little like me, I would give you this advice: trust yourself when you feel you can't stay even after having made an effort to change the circumstances. If you're really unhappy for a year, it's been long enough. Don't wait for anyone to give you permission to quit. Maybe you're in a position where you're very much appreciated by colleagues, customers, and/or your superiors because you're such a good worker and a nice person, too, but you're still seriously unhappy. Then you're the only one who is going to give you permission to leave. Trust yourself and don't wait too long to set yourself free from unhappiness.

    • @nataushalight1684
      @nataushalight1684 Рік тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @cleopatrajones7096
      @cleopatrajones7096 Рік тому +2

      Such great advice for the patient and hopeful and spiritual. I’ve been in this position and kept asking everyone else and not trusting me. Quitting was the best decision for me

    • @sadaafatima
      @sadaafatima 8 місяців тому

      Thank you for your advice! It's very helpful for me as I am also a good worker and I am also appreciated, but I have not been happy with the job at all, despite trying a lot.

  • @skylarro
    @skylarro Рік тому +204

    For everyone seeing this hope u have an amazing day. And yes i did quit my job best thing i ever did❤

    • @CatWoman6
      @CatWoman6 Рік тому +2

      That's good! Hope you are enjoying your new job.

    • @zalmarzalmar3835
      @zalmarzalmar3835 Рік тому

      Your job that you quit, was a test for your acceptance capability :)

    • @aryanalfa2444
      @aryanalfa2444 Рік тому

      Well done

    • @adammorra3813
      @adammorra3813 Рік тому +4

      If i quit i will become homeless

    • @glennaremoy
      @glennaremoy Рік тому +9

      ​@@zalmarzalmar3835Up to a certain point that is true. But then, if you're still miserable, it could just be that the problem is not with you, but the environment you're in. Accepting something you utterly despise can become an excuse to stay passive. Only you can tell which it is. Only you can know when it is time for make a move. Don't let fear of the unknown stop you. When you're courageous, invisible forces will come to your aid and help you!

  • @tyremanguitars
    @tyremanguitars Рік тому +84

    I've quit many a job I hated mostly due to bad management and bullying, often it is beyond your control who you end up working with.

    • @lisapiccirilli4908
      @lisapiccirilli4908 Рік тому +1

      I agree!

    • @user-ph1wy5bj1c
      @user-ph1wy5bj1c Рік тому +1

      Thank you 🖤

    • @Cusp_of_magic
      @Cusp_of_magic Рік тому +2

      This is so true! Nobody should have to put up with bullying and bad management.

    • @almondmilksoda
      @almondmilksoda Рік тому +3

      This is likely the worst part about working. 😞

    • @radiokaput
      @radiokaput Рік тому +8

      Exaaaactly! Most of the times it is not about the job itself, but the relational dynamics

  • @phixphixation7261
    @phixphixation7261 Рік тому +198

    This message came at the right time.

  • @Ролтун
    @Ролтун Рік тому +46

    I tolerated colleagues at work for more than 10 years, because I had a thick layer of psychological protection. But when Dad died of cancer, I got stressed. And suddenly I saw around me that my colleagues were very toxic and now I can't stand it and quit.

  • @psilocyborg4775
    @psilocyborg4775 Рік тому +11

    I have never understood why people ask what you do for work, like this is a gauge of who you are. Dont ever let work define you. If you dont enjoy it dont do it, simple. Dont let society dictate your worth. Be happy and honest and you'll be ok. Money is just a number, remember that. If you can be happy with nothing then you are successful.

  • @cardinal8268
    @cardinal8268 Рік тому +11

    Sometimes the job you're in allows you to do the thing you love.
    When the job becomes all consuming in a negative way its time to regroup and move onto something else. Leap and the net will appear.

  • @TheDorkle
    @TheDorkle Рік тому +9

    Quit
    Enjoy the quiet.
    Learn from the quiet.
    And then follow that passion🤘🏼🔥🙌🏻

  • @federico6284
    @federico6284 Рік тому +123

    Needed to hear this ! Thank you gurú! 🙏❤️ I had been working in a job I loved for 39 years up until last January. I’m 62 yrs young. Unfortunately I suffered a left knee meniscus tear on the job (old problem). And I caught COVID for the third time at the same time. I was no longer as enthusiastic as I used to be since I had to pay dearly with my health. My Orthopedist said that if I wanted to conserve what was left of my knee I would have to change jobs and lower my level of activity. So I quit my life’s vocation. After recovery, I tried looking for a remote -desk job-wfh . But after almost three months of sending out résumés, and going on virtual & real interviews, I finally figured out that maybe it was time to accept the inevitable : I have become superfluous in the modern day job market. So , after going through all of the stages of grieving , I have learned to accept my new reality and make the very best of it ! Luckily the doctor did not operate me ! I am grateful that I have some passive income every month. I am grateful that I was able to go to the gym and work on strengthening my knees, lowering my weight, increasing my muscle mass, and feeling much better about myself . I have also brought down my expenses , learned to live as a minimalist , and love the stoic way of life. Now I live in a peaceful mountain cabin surrounded by nature, lovely views, and am growing some medicinal plants , fruit trees , and soon, will plant an organic vegetable garden . Good by rat race ! 😅 Namaste 🙏

    • @claudiawilliams-BEYOU
      @claudiawilliams-BEYOU Рік тому +5

      Congratulations Federico
      I wish you all the best

    • @federico6284
      @federico6284 Рік тому

      @@claudiawilliams-BEYOU thank you 🙏.

    • @christineschrempp7847
      @christineschrempp7847 Рік тому +2

      Where do you live? I have the same goal....

    • @federico6284
      @federico6284 Рік тому +2

      @@christineschrempp7847 in the mountains of Costa Rica.

    • @larakolye463
      @larakolye463 Рік тому +2

      Amazing 🤩😍 wish you the happiest life ever❤❤❤

  • @TheNomad8899
    @TheNomad8899 Рік тому +15

    I hate my job, i hate my job, i hate my job. Will leave in august. Please, Lord give me strength.

  • @mrstoner2udude799
    @mrstoner2udude799 Рік тому +3

    I used to hate my job until I brought myself to it. You cannot enjoy anything where the tru and whole you are not present. Do i love my job. No. But I love myself and I welcome all of me every moment. That has made all the difference.

  • @ReynaSingh
    @ReynaSingh Рік тому +34

    There is always the possibility of change

    • @GOD999MODE
      @GOD999MODE Рік тому +3

      Yes, possibility is always there, but probability is low. Opportunity and competition are the barriers to entry.

    • @asimen1103pl
      @asimen1103pl Рік тому +1

      ​@@GOD999MODE
      I don't treat Life as a competition :D

  • @carllahoud
    @carllahoud Рік тому +58

    Lately i have been pondering leaving my job but deep down i accept and respect the fact I'm working and bringing home money.

    • @SheilaMakena
      @SheilaMakena Рік тому +8

      This is a valid belief system you have about your current situation and that is just fine! Continue to do things and have experiences that bring you real joy. No matter how small they are, bask in the enjoyment of the good you already have in your own life! Things will shift in their own time. Wishing you the best in your endeavor!

    • @cupidok2768
      @cupidok2768 Рік тому

      I changed jobs recently

    • @tinajthesinger
      @tinajthesinger Рік тому +2

      This is valid. As for myself I had reached a different level of consciousness so - having accepted my job - I eventually was called to leave.

    • @seanguzy9601
      @seanguzy9601 Рік тому +2

      in other words
      you are coping.

  • @debbiefallon3560
    @debbiefallon3560 Рік тому +15

    For me, it’s always been about the people I have worked with. I didn’t like secretarial work, but could have stuck with it if my bosses and some coworkers were encouraging, positive people not on power trips. However, each time I walked out on a job, after the initial rush of great relief and freedom, I would feel guilt about not succeeding at holding a job. Eckhart’s masterpiece “A New Earth” helped me stay a few months longer in a position because I tried to be in the moment and find joy in the present, but my manager was an unhappy woman who didn’t seem to like me. A toxic environment! So leaving was the healthiest option.

  • @bobbifoth5492
    @bobbifoth5492 Рік тому +34

    I also quit my job after 5 years despite the money.
    Best thing I ever did

    • @jassvir8503
      @jassvir8503 Рік тому +2

      I am on the verge of quitting but my logical mind advises otherwise. If you don't mind me asking, what are you or will you be pursuing after quitting?

    • @ryancovel
      @ryancovel Рік тому +2

      Can you elaborate? Why was it the best thing and what did you do instead?

    • @Greenmould
      @Greenmould Рік тому

      Likely living under a bridge now with no income to buy a phone to reply to you

  • @nesiansides7133
    @nesiansides7133 Рік тому +2

    Actually disliked my job, so I did my activities like asmr youtube channels do. Applying attention with precision and accuracy as the pinnacle of awareness, every step with was intended for spiritual realms of presence, feeling proud with motion.. OMG!! Parking spots where I wanted is available. People I feel negative energy from started conservation with me, odd people buying lunch weeks at a time 😮
    I quite smoking Marijuana and drinking alcohol.. because this is my new 😊
    I am.. grateful 🙏 thank you ❤️

  • @RachelSmets
    @RachelSmets Рік тому +20

    It took me a very LONG time to understand this. How can I enjoy the present moment if I HATE my job and I hate working for a boss???
    When I FINALLY understood it, I was able to find my way OUT of the job, escape the 9-5 and today I am traveling the world and having the FREEDOM I dreamed about.
    Feeling JOY in the present moment is KEY.
    If you can't enjoy the NOW, how can you attract the joyful freedom?
    I Had to learn to really find joy and contentment in the present, in tiny things, just so I could FEEL good.
    That feeling then attract MORE of those good things and opportunities and making money online.
    Making money on my own terms is all I wanted and I share how I did it in my videos, because I want EVERYBODY who feels STUCK to get out of the stuckness FAST ;)
    enjoy the NOW!

  • @paulmuaddib3470
    @paulmuaddib3470 Рік тому +5

    Many people are very limited regarding personal ability or intellectual capacity to be choosy enough to land a job "they enjoy"
    earning enough money to support your family is often no bed of roses, that is just life.

  • @sourcehealing82
    @sourcehealing82 Рік тому +27

    just put my notice in today, i already feel a huge relief from that. I just have to trust that things will work out because they always do. I want to enjoy work and I know that a lot of that comes within myself but.....being in a toxic work environment just makes it harder to do that work.

    • @thomaswillans4085
      @thomaswillans4085 Рік тому +2

      Things will work out. Believe in yourself. You will fly!

    • @karend7640
      @karend7640 Рік тому +1

      I'm doing this on Friday at the age of 56. For the first time in my life I sm going to fully trust the universe!!

  • @chrisbarker5336
    @chrisbarker5336 Рік тому +9

    I have a well paid job but it’s stressful and makes me anxious. Moving jobs isn’t going to be easy because the family relies on my wage. Life’s a grind man. But hopefully I’ll find another path.

  • @BarbaraSzorad
    @BarbaraSzorad Рік тому +51

    "It's really your presence in the doing that allows the joy to come from within you and then it flows into what you do." ♥

    • @lisapiccirilli4908
      @lisapiccirilli4908 Рік тому

      I'm sorry, but that is just not true for all jobs. Toxic coworkers make life hell..

    • @surlespasdondine
      @surlespasdondine Рік тому

      So true! This is something I'm experiencing more and more often recently and it is amazing.

  • @raggar77gaming40
    @raggar77gaming40 Рік тому +25

    Eckhart has literally saved my life just lately ❤

  • @andy42x
    @andy42x Рік тому +15

    I feel like the issue with modern white collar jobs is that there is no flow. Five items compete for our attention of the present moment and the result is feeling scattered. Takes more discipline than ever to stay focused.

    • @Kelvin-ed6ce
      @Kelvin-ed6ce Рік тому +2

      I start with the task that feels most natural first, then work around that. If your office doesn't allow that, then perhaps you're micromanaged. But I highly agree that work shouldn't be a checklist. Intuition and human nature must rule, then flow will come. Even pilots checklists are more intuitive than just to-do lists.

  • @mrtrek2117
    @mrtrek2117 Рік тому +2

    I gave up my job to build the entire Starship Enterprise, people said I was nuts and laughed at me. Now I have a super successful UA-cam channel and enjoy every single day. Now I'm making good money from doing what I love and people don't laugh at me anymore :-)

  • @gracetoglory5020
    @gracetoglory5020 Рік тому +19

    You're the BEST 🎉 If I could hug you...... I would! 😊 Blessing be multiplied upon you and yours ❤ Thankyou so much for being here for us 👍⚘🇦🇺

  • @funnytv-1631
    @funnytv-1631 Рік тому +31

    Surround yourself with positive people who uplift and encourage you

    • @TheSoteriologist
      @TheSoteriologist Рік тому

      I avoid "positive" people like the plague. They're basically evil, mostly 😊

    • @yukio_saito
      @yukio_saito Рік тому +2

      I absorbed negativity from people who were around me. I got rid of those people.

    • @SYD3785
      @SYD3785 Рік тому

      @@yukio_saito how did you get rid of them?

    • @yukio_saito
      @yukio_saito Рік тому

      @@SYD3785I went no contact with some of them step by step or with others all at once.

  • @tdiddle8950
    @tdiddle8950 Рік тому +5

    I call this the first point of understanding. Wherever you are, that is precisely where you are supposed to be. That is ALWAYS the first point of understanding. How could it be any other way?
    Now that you understand that, where will you go?

  • @surlespasdondine
    @surlespasdondine Рік тому +4

    I was already pretty sure I'm in the right job before I had an adrenal crisis. But after I felt so happy and grateful to be able to go back to work and I learned about Ikigai recently and I realize I'm one of the lucky few who are already doing something they love, that they are good at as well, are getting paid for and that contributes to society. I am extremely grateful.

  • @futureofpsychology946
    @futureofpsychology946 Рік тому +23

    To be honest the last week I have been asking this question. I am commenting before I listen due to the title. I asked pretty much begging for an answer and here I am “my answer”. Guess I gotta listen now! To everyone reading just ask and know that answer is on the way.❤

    • @blackzetsu466
      @blackzetsu466 Рік тому +2

      Hi. I'm curious of what conclusion did you come to after watching this video or at least how has your perspective changed if any. Ty

    • @futureofpsychology946
      @futureofpsychology946 Рік тому +5

      I’m gonna be honest I just listened. And crazy thing is after two weeks of asking/meditating for a sign it’s always been just hold on. So I went to work on my night off last night and I actually didn’t complain or feel as irritated as I have been. I didn’t have that ugh I just want a new job something I’m going to like thought. I actually lived in the moment. (I work overnight 10 pm to 7am). I didn’t have that negativity surrounding me like normal because I was in the present. I not one time thought about how they made me worry and how I just want to leave. It was actually a good night for me. I guess it helped that I got to play around a lil 🤣 because I think when I come in on my day off I can do what I want. But I understand what Mr Tolle is saying if we are living in the past that all kinds of not where you want to be. And if you are living in the future the anxiety puts you in another state we shouldn’t be in. But if we live in the right now n learn to accept right now those future thoughts will make themselves present. Live in the now is living resistant free. So I will try hard to let the present in and keep my faith in my future. I know it’s coming. The job, and everything else my fun future holds…….

    • @futureofpsychology946
      @futureofpsychology946 Рік тому +2

      @@blackzetsu466 you know I’m 42 and haven’t been the most patient person as a matter of fact I use to think patience what is that. But I swear if I believe what I want now is coming I get it. My new apt I got it. I wasn’t patient at first for about a year. Then I chilled in my living situation I stopped yearning for the future Al day every day. When I did and I decided to just know I’d find a place and be approved. In 24 hours that apt was mine. Then had to wait 6 weeks to move at first I thought man six weeks however that was my impatience kicking in again. I had to stop and start enjoying everyday as it’s own.

    • @blackzetsu466
      @blackzetsu466 Рік тому +2

      @@futureofpsychology946 ok gotcha, understood. I'm glad you received some peace and relief from the anguish. I know how the job situation can be as I was once in that space. But it will work out. You can be in the present moment and actively pursue your future goals. Just do your best not to fall back into the turmoil in the process. Your doing just fine. Life flows in harmony.

    • @futureofpsychology946
      @futureofpsychology946 Рік тому

      @@blackzetsu466 thank you so much you have no idea how much I like hearing things like this I don’t get it a lot hardly ever outside of myself lol. It feels great to have someone else have my back…… u rock

  • @hammerbet7140
    @hammerbet7140 Рік тому +15

    "Unhappy humans make others unhappy too".
    Perfectly said. Watched this phenomenon with a friend of mine two weeks ago. He hasn't been able to be present for as long as I know him and his behaviour became unbearable for me when we were meeting.
    I couldn't help but to say what I thought about him and we didn't communicate for two weeks.
    Don't know is it right or not but I felt and still feeling no regret.

    • @Kelvin-ed6ce
      @Kelvin-ed6ce Рік тому

      keep a distance! even with normal people I like to keep a distance. Everything becomes neutral, things get done logically, no emotions involved. A lot clearer and more effective.

    • @hammerbet7140
      @hammerbet7140 Рік тому

      @@Kelvin-ed6ce do you keep distance with everybody? I know a man who's behaving in this manner constantly no matter with whom he's dealing with. Even when we were drinking beer and smoking hookah in Friday's evening, he tried to keep a distance. I didn't feel myself well back then, in such an atmosphere.

    • @tinajthesinger
      @tinajthesinger Рік тому

      Did you feel relief? If yes, that is valid and you made the right decision. I considered doing that with a friend some years ago; then I changed my mindset to acceptance and "coincidentally" we saw each other less. Now I am relaxed about her and we get on fine.

    • @hammerbet7140
      @hammerbet7140 Рік тому

      @@tinajthesinger yeah, I felt myself better. It was like I didn't lose nothing.
      After some time we had a little talk for a while but I felt the distance between us.

  • @veraintuizione6497
    @veraintuizione6497 Рік тому +5

    The pure and simple truth.
    Who knows why human beings find it so hard to accept it...🙄
    So grateful 💓🙏

  • @bluemindapproach
    @bluemindapproach Рік тому +4

    quit my job 7 years ago. It's been tough but actually it's been far less tough than working for others and selling my soul.

  • @Lizzyliz1111
    @Lizzyliz1111 Рік тому +3

    He has the cutest demeanour. 🥺

  • @ButterflyAwakening
    @ButterflyAwakening Рік тому +24

    Happy Wednesday! Remember that each day is a gift, and it's up to us to make the most of it. Take a moment to reflect on your blessings and focus on the positive. Let today be a day of gratitude, kindness, and love. Trust that the universe has a plan for you and have faith that everything will work out in the end. Enjoy this beautiful day and spread positivity wherever you go.

  • @misterbumble2955
    @misterbumble2955 Рік тому +7

    And if you cant even accept, then just feel and observe the resistance.

  • @rogerlin9602
    @rogerlin9602 Рік тому +6

    9:40
    There is no clear dividing line between acceptance and enjoyment.
    Accept first. It is what is.
    Three modalities in conscious living: Acceptance, enjoyment and enthusiasm.
    If you can't do any of it, remove yourself and try somewhere else.
    Thanks Eckhart. 4 May 2023.🍨🏇🏖💖👍🐘🥁🥁🎁🌷

  • @andreaverachtert7109
    @andreaverachtert7109 Рік тому +10

    Yes, as being older I can see that is very wise what you said .
    I agree . Thank you ! ❤

  • @hevenposhtv
    @hevenposhtv Рік тому +3

    Joy comes from within from being present in the doing. Amazing

  • @vyas555
    @vyas555 Рік тому +2

    Eckhart is the best. So much empathy and compassion coming through. Thank you very much your holiness Eckart Tolle.

  • @isapasap3438
    @isapasap3438 Рік тому +1

    This very day I was thinking of quitting my job in med. health care. I have thought about it earlier but the conviction was never there til' today and then Eckhardt shows up. Great and Thanks!

  • @silviagrohmann7324
    @silviagrohmann7324 Рік тому +3

    Ja, das kann ich Bestätigen 😊 . Du hast das wunderschön erklärt ❤ Vielen Dank, und mögen alle Wesen glücklich sein 😊

  • @elizareyes4797
    @elizareyes4797 Рік тому +5

    Acceptance is the most accessible “ 🙏✨

  • @popsji8152
    @popsji8152 Рік тому +7

    Find out who wants to quit. Then you’ll realise job is just another conceptual thought to keep whatever you are disjointed. : )

  • @ThisIsTori_
    @ThisIsTori_ Рік тому +1

    Just posted a video of me talking about this on my page. I’m leaving the military after 10 years. I don’t have much of a backup plan, but I’m ready!!🤞🤞I’m not being fulfilled anymore. Time for change 😮‍💨

  • @budweiserthedog4449
    @budweiserthedog4449 Рік тому +6

    Straight in with amazing words of wisdom. Thank you ❤️

  • @thomasrobertfitness
    @thomasrobertfitness 5 днів тому

    I exactly had the same experience! I couldn’t enjoy any kind of job as I couldn’t enjoy the moment because I had to do something for a longer period of time than I would’ve wanted to do.

  • @roberta33
    @roberta33 Рік тому

    Completely true! Now, That I'm learning to be more present, I can focus on my everyday job's actions, without thinking about the fear that I have to loose it. And I'm starting feeling much better, and having more positive results.

  • @paulkearney4565
    @paulkearney4565 Рік тому

    A very wise and intelligent small farmer once told me -
    "We are what we want to be"
    Best insight to life I was ever given..

  • @yukio_saito
    @yukio_saito Рік тому +11

    8:50 It's a toxic positivity to say "I'm happy" when you are unhappy.😆 Everyone in the new age workshop pretends to be happy.😮‍💨

  • @itsmylife8164
    @itsmylife8164 Рік тому +3

    That's huge 👏, thanks 😊 🙏, presence is everything

  • @misino8927
    @misino8927 Рік тому +1

    Exactly my situation right now........Thank U Eckhart for your advice .

  • @MarinoTarot
    @MarinoTarot Рік тому +2

    That is a very prominent conflict in my life, thank you. ♥

  • @hulda2002
    @hulda2002 Рік тому +2

    Stuck in the same job 4 years, I've tried it all. No other job to be found yet, would happily leave if one popped up.

  • @jennyxuchi2147
    @jennyxuchi2147 Рік тому +1

    So many takeaways from this video! I appreciate a realistic question like the choice we face when picking a job.

    • @jennyxuchi2147
      @jennyxuchi2147 Рік тому +1

      you should quit your job if you can't enjoy what you are doing.

    • @jennyxuchi2147
      @jennyxuchi2147 Рік тому +2

      And the reasons why you don't enjoy what you are doing could diversify. And the last point Eckhart brought up is gold: There are three modalities of living. Acceptance, Enjoyment, Enthusiasm. If you are not living in either of the three modalities, you are somewhere in dysfunction, and you are creating unhappiness and suffering for ourselves. And that usually implies creating sufferings in others, because unhappy humans make others unhappy too. Just WOW.

  • @laaaliiiluuu
    @laaaliiiluuu Рік тому +5

    I have a well paid part time job that isn'tmy dream job but it's okay. I work between 3 and 6 months a year and the rest of the time I just do things that I like. It's a good realistic compromise for me.

    • @laaaliiiluuu
      @laaaliiiluuu Рік тому +3

      @@light_rays_rigpa I am self-employed in the event industry and work project based for various events for whatever I am needed. Mostly its about setting up technical stuff and operating it during the events but sometimes I just help moving stuff around. It's not a glorious job but it pays well and is easy to do.

  • @user-qt1bq5bw6i
    @user-qt1bq5bw6i Рік тому

    6:33 I am just gonna leave this here in case somebody wanted to rewatch and rewatch and rewatch. I absolutely love this insight.

  • @rocioguevaraobando9075
    @rocioguevaraobando9075 Рік тому

    Maestro Eckhart: Muchísimas gracias. 😊🙏😊

  • @TruthAwakening_Official
    @TruthAwakening_Official Рік тому +12

    Top notch channel! Great content. Thank you for inspiring me to start my own channel 💙 Awaken Your Truth Fam

  • @irreverentjules-240
    @irreverentjules-240 Рік тому

    Perfect timing. I just sent the owner of the business I contract with a not about frustrations. The job was always too far from home, I never know what I am walking in to or even when I will get paid. It is part time and I am looking at other options. After watching this one thing I know is, I can accept it temporarily. It is better than a bar tender at a disco😃

  • @aurelienabc7790
    @aurelienabc7790 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for your teaching. This is a blessing ❤

  • @kforest2745
    @kforest2745 Рік тому

    I’m always amazed when I hear people say how far ahead they are when they actually aren’t. So to all those who quit their jobs to stop lies from leading their lives they’re the only lives actually growing know that.

  • @TheSoteriologist
    @TheSoteriologist Рік тому +3

    Of course you should !

  • @improveofficial
    @improveofficial Рік тому

    My dream is to cultivate this channel! ❤the jobs of the future will be based on the improvement of others, each in its own way. a hug to all those who feel the desire for a change

  • @martinprochazka9434
    @martinprochazka9434 Рік тому +1

    😊need to listen it today. Thank you ET

  • @Parkitloveit
    @Parkitloveit Рік тому +9

    Very interesting that this pops up on my UA-cam start page today as this was my first day in the new job at the bakery. I’ve been happy in the job I’ve had as a receptionist in the hotel but the calls “your colleague is ill, can you come?” were too hard for me, so I thought if I worked 3 mornings in the bakery then those days, I can’t receive any calls when a colleague is ill. And now I work too many days and I don’t enjoy the job in the bakery. I would love to be an author and videographer, but I don’t have much free time left. I’ll have to meditate and think about a solution. Thank you for the inspiration in the right moment ❤

    • @petercrowe2704
      @petercrowe2704 Рік тому +1

      You shouldn't have to take a second job to justify not working extra hours in your first job. Guard your boundaries, be decisive, and make time for writing and making videos if that is what you want to do. Now is the time.

    • @Parkitloveit
      @Parkitloveit Рік тому +1

      @@petercrowe2704 Danke 💜 thank you 💛 gracias 🧡 merci 💙 grazie 💚 спасибо ❤️ for your kind words 🙏 I know I’ve been too weak and giving, it’s because of a trauma. I’m learning to not identify with the woman who had the trauma and I’m doing better each day.

  • @user-rk3pq2rw2p
    @user-rk3pq2rw2p 7 місяців тому

    Uno de los momentos más inspirados de Tolle

  • @tizianausai7116
    @tizianausai7116 Рік тому

    Thank You Eckhart🙏

  • @parisiansparkle
    @parisiansparkle Рік тому +1

    thanks for this video !! Yep, please add me in the list who quit their job !! After 15 years in a corporate, and various endeavours, I finally took the decision to align to my calling. Oh well, I have just discovered the multi iphen method and that I am a multi potentialité, also more things on my personality that I would love to express in next future. I am an advocate for ptsd, mental health and anxiety (burnout recovery is part of that), so quitting my job was hard decision making that also means quitting France to move back to Italy. Leap of faith. Good luck to you x

  • @ruudjw
    @ruudjw Рік тому +5

    I did quit the job I hated, too bad I never found a new job.....

  • @agendiamercy6583
    @agendiamercy6583 Рік тому

    Thank you Sir! Stay blessed 🙏

  • @ardenbaltimore4867
    @ardenbaltimore4867 Рік тому +1

    Thank you

  • @TheLUCIANA63
    @TheLUCIANA63 Рік тому

    Gratitude

  • @sihamknajm
    @sihamknajm Рік тому

    I love you so much beloved Teacher 🙏💖✨

  • @cjwestside
    @cjwestside Рік тому +1

    Love the pauses

  • @nellymathews2388
    @nellymathews2388 Рік тому +8

    What about if you like your job but it will not give me time to do all other things I would love to do?

  • @goldlotus7831
    @goldlotus7831 Рік тому +8

    What about quitting your job and living in the present moment. You will be able to then move on and find a suitable job because your mind will be clearer to think about what you really want to do.

    • @crissmartalec276
      @crissmartalec276 Рік тому +2

      I've done this more than 10 times in 20 years and I still haven't found what I wanted to do. Ended up every time applying to jobs online and accepting the first decent offer for yet another corporate job. I changed my attitude over the years to not be so easily dragged down by coworker's bad attitudes but still have not been able to turn my life around after quitting and living in the present moment.

  • @soorajks2774
    @soorajks2774 Рік тому +1

    🙏
    For many years i ve been suffering from my elder brother's strong blackmagic and other tortures . He has caused serious health problems in my mind n body. Only a God Realized Master can save me from him . Humbly seeking Your blessings for protection.
    🙏🙏

  • @MirkoSelf
    @MirkoSelf Рік тому

    Eckart, you are great❤

  • @amrit_one
    @amrit_one Рік тому +4

    My philosophy is if you cannot enjoy the work you are doing AND then obviously you cannot accept it either , So immediately and instantly take the EXIT door of your workplace , NO second thought from your mind, just resign . The mind is clever and will find excuses to stay on but don"t listen . Take a leap of FAITH and remove yourself from your work or job. Try somewhere else , if don"t work , try 2nd place , if dont work try 3rd place , if dont work try 4th place - carry on upto 50 places or much.
    NOW listen carefully if nowhere works for you , then Find some place where you can grow some vegetables and crops etc to keep your body alive. Nothing more is needed. Take care

    • @Kelvin-ed6ce
      @Kelvin-ed6ce Рік тому +1

      sometimes, not accepting at first can be due to adaptation period to a new workplace or city. NEVER judge during that period. only AFTER it, if you know it's not working, then leave.

  • @SeelenschmachYT
    @SeelenschmachYT Рік тому +1

    It's funny; I have unconsciously carried the attitude of visualization of the present moment in me for a long time. Eckhart has awakened it with this monologue.
    I work in the security industry, and there are indeed often situations where my ego doesn't want to be and doesn't mind throwing it at me unasked. I manage to accept these thoughts. At the same time, there are people in very well-paid positions. With these people, I can really feel that they are never satisfied, even if they work much shorter hours than I do and still earn more money than I do.
    I can now stand the presence of these people better, because I know that it is they themselves who are making themselves unhappy. I only take a service-oriented approach.

  • @portopraia7605
    @portopraia7605 Рік тому

    Thank You!

  • @SebKorn
    @SebKorn Рік тому

    ❤ you Eckhart, thanks!!!

  • @Mixedvib3s
    @Mixedvib3s Рік тому

    Thank you!

  • @evazylla
    @evazylla Рік тому +1

    I saw him in Aucklamd LOVE YOU Eckhart ❤❤❤

  • @bevssoulinspiration
    @bevssoulinspiration Рік тому

    Thank you 😊

  • @sp4263
    @sp4263 Рік тому +1

    Thank you !! I needed to hear this 🙏🏻

  • @Santaheckler
    @Santaheckler Рік тому +1

    Jobs are not necessarily for “Joy”, they are tools. Use your job(s) to pay off ALL debts and then save a year of expenses. Once you do that, you’ll never be enslaved to a job again. Godspeed.

  • @user-ov6qq2ye8z
    @user-ov6qq2ye8z Рік тому

    Be present where I am means :
    Accept what I am doing now.
    Once I take one step at a time, then I can take second one too.

  • @janicescott-pair97
    @janicescott-pair97 Рік тому

    It's a shame how most people dread going to work. I do understand that there are varying factors. For me, it's the negative, toxic environment. For those who enjoy love their jobs, God bless.

  • @carolinehage7744
    @carolinehage7744 Рік тому +1

    Wise words❤

  • @amin_abdollahi_369
    @amin_abdollahi_369 6 місяців тому

    Thank you ❤🌸

  • @rutanyaalda2222
    @rutanyaalda2222 Рік тому

    thank you

  • @Thorhem
    @Thorhem Рік тому +9

    Eckhart reminds me of a turtle. 😊

  • @RGS
    @RGS Рік тому +3

    3 Modalities of doing
    Acceptance
    Enjoyment
    Enthusiasm

  • @katietaylorvlogs
    @katietaylorvlogs Рік тому

    Thank you! Yes actress