The Reason You Keep Failing
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Often times when we fail, we blame it on ourselves. I believe that this is a very dangerous belief to have. So today I'm going to show you how to deal with failure and also give you some tips on overcoming the fear of failure itself. And I'll be doing this by showing you an alternative mindset that you can adopt.
Not having this mindset might be the reason why you keep failing. It's something that I personally use when dealing with failure - to keep myself motivated. It's something that also drastically increases your chances of getting to where you want - as it forces you to think strategically.
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Intro: (00:00)
Your Current Belief: (00:16)
How To Break Out Of This Loop: (00:40)
The REAL Question + An Example: (01:42)
What You MUST DO: (02:50)
An Additional Tip: (03:30)
Important To Note + Sponsor: (03:54)
Definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result.
Far cry 3
unless if you are dealing with quantum mechanics :D
@@SlinkyDrinky Zing haha I’ll give you that one. I write one-liners in my spare time and sounds like something I would write.
@@ImprovementPill please make more such mindset and challenges video. They really help and resonate with us
OMG
I heard a quote that went
"If you aren't failing, you aren't trying hard enough"
You can fail from trying too hard though
@@whatdisd don't take it too literally. That's not the point of these kind of quotes, it just means failure is a sign you're trying hard. I think.
@@shanks6190 it is! it means your getting somewhere and your challenging yourself vs being comfortable and not learning and improving :D
Keep trying is something .
But people constantly destroying you and blaming and making you feel guilty for trying again is the most painful thing ever
If you fail too much, you aren't trying at all.
I can relate. I'm a 29 year old security guard still living with my parents. I failed in the military, school and countless jobs. One of my problems is I care too much about what people think about me when in reality their not even thinking about me. I was in physical therapy program but flunked out but I regret giving up and shouldve just taken kinesiology again. Be persistent and learn from my mistakes. Don't be like me or you'll end up like me.
I also worry about what people think of me .dont worry ,you aren't alone .
You will be ok. Believe in yourself. Its never too late for change.
How’s it going?
I never saw a comment about saying that they were training to be a military soildier it's quite rare to find a comment about saying that they were training for military.
I'm just 12 and I don't know wether I'm wasting time, or I'm not prepared yet. My motivation won't work, please help.
"It is possible to make no mistakes and still lose. That is not weakness. That is life".
-Picard TNG.
Then don't choose success
@@shubhamkashyap3189 I think it woohed over your head.
@@thepsychicspoon5984 making mistakes is okay but still failing 💀
@shubhamkashyap3189 Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone fails. Sometimes, you're beaten by those stronger, smarter, faster, etc. than you are. Sometimes, to the point it makes you want to give up.
So what? Failing is not a big deal.
You get up and keep pushing yourself. You learn from the experience and keep going. The best didn't become the best in a day.
@@thepsychicspoon5984 what happen if you broke asf and having ADHD and you have to crack any compitition exams but your family doesn't understand adhd.....
"Failure in something after hardwork is better than not even trying "
~A random legend
Self-doubt is the cause which leading most people who can't believe in oneself to failure
@@HamzahSalim nice
I used to believe i could do it and still failed, multiple times
@@ki8743 bro, you are missing something in you, You have to find that to get the Success!
@@JatinBhuyan Okay, ill try to find it!
I can 100% agree even tho I’m a child
Always makes me happy when this guy uploads. PLEASE NEVER STOP!
He won't stop, you'd never stop watching. He would make millions and you'd be left where you are. Please try to understand what's happening. I won't say much.
@@ayushbhardwas if you are saying what I think then I wanna say this guy has made me a lot of a better person and i will keep watching his vids bc he has worked hard and never gave up unlike the most of us who do. If I took your words out of context then please disregard
@@dlgtag7378 that's not the point. What's important is to realize whether or not it's actually making you accomplish something or is it making you feel like you've accomplished something. Self help is like a drug the more you have it the more you want it. Not the values or tips or tricks but the feeling of accomplishing something.
@@ayushbhardwas I get what your saying but I truly think that if it was him or just a lil push I needed but I think I really have changed for the better and became more convenient and i can talk to people now so I do think this has helped me
@@dlgtag7378 sure, right talk vs real talk. Just be aware
This… resonates with me a lot. I’m failing at schools because of procrastination, lack of focus on my tasks, relying on others to do their job even when I know that they won’t do and repeating the same mistakes before wallowing in self pity. I’m trapped in this quicksand of failure, the more I struggle, the more I sink further.
I am in the same condition too
Help me
Everyone procrastinates. But when you start to procrastinate, i want you to go deeper into what your procrastinating on and what will be the result if delay or do not do whag you have to. Your mom calls you for dinner and you're sitting in your room upstairs. You procrastinate and don't want to go down. What will happen if you don't go down? You will get shouted at by your mom, you'll waste a bunch of food, you'll be hungry, you'll be unhealthier and weaker the next morning. This action only brings you ruin. You ruin yourself. That means you don't have any love, care or respect for yourself. You are also not grateful that your mom made you some warm tasty food and that you are able to eat food in safe shelter and don't have to worry about not having anything to eat. Now, it is very clear that this action brings you ruin. This should be enough reason to now go and eat the food. When you start doing this often, you'll start evaluating it quicker till you can evaluate if the action brings ruin or benefit without even looking at all the reason why. This worked for me, hope it works for you.
Also remember, Work out to out work.
Perfect timing. I was just starting to feel like a failure because I just can’t seem to win, no matter how much I try.
@jyyugh Same, I feel that I'm going to disappoint everyone
@@ihavenoname6184 I manage to fail everyday
@@ihavenoname6184 I can’t do anything
I’m actually crying on my bed as I write this
@@ihavenoname6184 My grades are failing,All my friends are toxic and I manage to fail at simple everyday tasks
@@spiltmilk9632 My parents are the best, but I just can't change, I just can't develop an interest in life. I've cried about it, I try to change but I just go back to my normal self.
Not trying at all is so far below failure that it lives in another dimension.
I don't try because I don't want my best to be someone else worst.
stop being so arrogant and stop fooling people into failing.
@@eligonzales186 is this sarcastic? Every successful personal has easily failed hundreds of times. if you're afraid of failure, maybe you shouldn't be ambitious
@@pursuitsoflife.6119 you need to stop looking at yourself more. It's pathetic and narcissistic
@@pursuitsoflife.6119 It's not about other people. Some people fail 1000 times, some millions, Idk. But you just can't say something like that to everyone who are failing. What do you mean try? Try what? Losing your family and hope and then try again? How? Can I bring them back again? They are alot of things in life that fail. Not everything is about ambition, money, career .
im so tired of trying. i keep trying and stressing over school and keep failing i dont wanna do it any more i keep trying
Same bro😢
same here engineering is killing me
I’m at the point to where I don’t want to be alive anymore
no
Real but let’s find something that we’re passionate about huh, I know that if I did reach my goals/see sunshine more & learn to love myself that I’d be happier
Same
Live
Me too
"A goal without a plan is called delusion. You need a plan to achieve your goals "
Overhaul- My hero academia
“I failed over and over in my life, that’s why I succeeded.” -Michael Jordan
He didn't fail for THAT long lol. Hearing a guy who had unimaginable success at a very early age say this is kinda funny.
Right
"I was world famous and loaded by the time I was 20." And "I failed so much in my life" don't really go hand in hand. 🤣
Lol he failed and learned from it. Does he have to spell it out?
I like the strategy, but my problem is that I'm addicted to the internet while needing the internet for work or school. So, I can't just turn it off like your junk food strat.
same here :-(
Use this app called appblock!! Do check it out, and use it on strict mode, seriously amazing app
@@vanshitasingh4523 thank you!
Try changing the location of your workspace. You can go to any coffee shop or library or you can also go to a cybercafe. You will be more likely to focus on only your work rather than just surfing the internet
There's an amazing app called offtime, you can download some of the previous apk versions and use it.
In my personal experience the current version ain't up to scratch.
But the app itself helped me get through exams, give it a go
Action helps build resilience, inaction stokes fear.
So can I throw a tantrum? Lol sorry
Failure isn't bad, it's a regular part of life. Of course it's great if we manage to succeed, but we should get used to the fact that we will fail every now and then.
Failure is ok, but not when it keeps repeating ; like in my case
I’m okay with failing but my family isn’t. That’s my issue.
failure is used to learn, not just to fail.
Tyler Joseph:
It's all right to fail. You just have to get up again and try. That's the bottom line.
Right but it keeps repeating for me
This resonates with me a lot. I always felt that grades came to others way easier than me and pitied myself for being naturally incapable when in reality all it was, was strategy and efficiency. I won’t give up and will keep going. Last year of high school before med school! :)
I remember being that optimistic going into med school. But I just kept failing. Now I am 33 living with my parents. No job, no friends and no education. All because I just can't get myself to study hard on a long term basis.
Keep going I believe in you
Keep me updated
This resonates me so much, I failed some chemistry classes and hated those exams even if I tried so hard to study. I hated it so much that I just didn't care with the subject. Pissed me so much lol
Thank dude. This semester was rough and I fucked up. Now I know that the strategy I've been using isnt working at all and that I need to stop being distracted all day until exam time.
This is the video i need to break my addiction since I've failed over and over in trying to end my pornographic addiction. Thank you for informing me about what i need to do in order to destroy my addiction.
Just a reminder: you can do everything right, make no mistakes, get everything perfect and still get fucked.
In these times failure is not your fault, but it’s your responsibility to get back up from it.
I ironed the shirt so many times but it still failed the shirt was still wringled just like everything else in life
I lost my will after trying my best many times yet failing each time/way, no matter what I do I cant find the same spark for working on my academics
Maybe your studying routine is not suitable for you. Before I study for hours but now that I discover the routine that suits me my grades gotten a lot better
Me too
This is the best video you ever did in my opinion. Don't blame it all on yourself, change your strategy! Thank you so much for sharing this discovery.
I started self improvement because I found a video of yours a long time ago
It has been almost a year and the results are just amazing
Thank you for helping me
Thank you Improvement pill! For all the content you put up. It has really got me thinking in a way I've never done before... and I'm improving...
Keep up the BANGERS bro! This channel changed my life!!
I feel like this video is literally made for me. I can totally relate to it. Every single example given here is actually what I do.
Update: This comment was posted 3 months and I still do the same mistake. :(
Ever tried, ever failed
No matter
Try again, fail again, fail better
Failing on something does not mean the end of the world. It mean this strategy is not suitable. apply next strategy and keep going. 👍
When I fail civics eoc in senior year: My life is over
Failing also doesn't mean you're a failure either, it just means that you lacked success in achieving something
I found I was much more efficient with my goals when I implemented appropriate strategies. Thanks for the reminder. New year's resolutions coming up, and it's time to stragegize!
If I try to succeed I fail even worse.😡😡😡
I wonder why people dislike this kind of video, which is meant to just help yourself and share some constructive knowledge 😂😂
So much to learn from you!
I don't really care what people think of me, I just want to dial into that frequency of which that is mastery. But sometimes that is very difficult, something you can only learn through massive, massive amount of experience
Balanced with the delicate art of deliberation and input
Perfect timing 😊
I need this so much
I've been asking myself this for 5 years
Just what I needed thank you 💛
I was looking for this video only ur timing is just amazing ❤️
Couldn’t be more perfectly timed.
Do not give up no matter hoe many times you fail👍
thank youuu so much for making videos like this! you really help and inspire us :) the animation is great, too!
Thank you for million times
I'm really struggling with my studies and totally tired and want to give up 🥺
I keep failing and overthinking, I keep thinking about my situation, family and even though I always study and stay up all night preparing for an exam. I still fail, as of now I don't have motivation to study anymore. I am overloaded with things to worry not only about school. Idk what to do anymore. I don't even feel sad anymore when I get low score.
Hi improvement pill, thank you for your educational videos. This video just came straight away when I was feeling down.
Ironic that I was reading an article about how GAD affects working memory and can make you function improperly. Anxiety can compromise your performance and bring you failure.
Failure is proof that you are trying, so never let it bring you down. Instead, take it as encouragement to try harder the next time. Of course, it is easier said than done, but with time everything will work out.
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That's a hard pill to swallow
Yeah but what if the harder you try the worse you do, my whole damn life's been that, sigh
Truly amazing!
Especially the narration!
If at first you don't succeed, don't come home" 😊
Bro,I can't stop this belief because it's true
You help me so much with a lot of my problems and thank u for that keep going!!
This is what I needed, thank you
Your videos are really helpful
Thanks buddy😁
Just the video I needed thanks bud
Thank you for this!
Recently came to same realisation. Will power is powerful and necessary short-term tool. But key thing here is "short-term". You cannot rely on excessive use of it, it helps to use it to make first steps, but for long term results you need effective, habit oriented strategy.
I did strategize greatly. I studied at every free time I had no one studied harder then I did. Still wasn't enough. Oh well...
Youre right, Mr Perfect !
Im a failure cause I fail all the Time ! Thank you soooooooooooooooooooooo
sooooooooooooooo much !!!!
Thank you ❤
I needed that
Appreciate you man! This video is 🏆.
It's always so bad when you fail and people tell you, you have to have something with your mind or brain because it can't be that you still fail. This is just the wrong way. I now see it
Thank you for your hard work these videos are exactly what i need INSTANT THUMBS UP 👍
NOBODY WANTS TO BE 60-80 YEARS OLD WHEN SUCCESS HITS. SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST LUCKY AND SMART.
I'm 36 and I've never worked a real job a day in my life. I've failed out of multiple colleges. I seem to destroy everything I touch. It honestly sucks how little I can get right. I'm also 425 lbs which means I have health problems which prevents me from doing manual labor.
Thanks for the advice, gonna use it for 2021
This was really needed, Thank you
and Also the EAT ME Part 😂
Wow ! Notification pop-up at Right time. Thank you Pill
Useful advice. Thank you
literally every day till now i would consider a failure so thanks for this video
your will power and Motivation are the things that make you try again, and again and again regardless of failure , your strategy is what makes you succeed
Thanks for ur idea.. I was searching for this..
The thing most people miss is given here properly
Thanks for the video!
Thanks for the inspiring!
"with the help of the guys at skillshare" made me decide this guy should be a rapper
Thank you 🙏 this was on time
This came to me at the right time
Thanks you are amazing!
I needed to see this video
This video was very helpful for me, thank you
Thank you for the video, I may or may have not been doubting and failing with a subject so uh- yeah. 😅😅
I’m so far beyond what you’ve said that you can’t understand. The perpetual failures have taken every bit of joy and confidence from my former skills. It seems that at 40 it all started downhill and has done nothing more than pick up speed. No amount of positive thinking will change that.
the thing about failure is that- people despise you, scold you...and im thank full for that- but sometimes its just cruel- when you keep failing.....big sucess wont be apreciated for me
Thank you.
Why is it that everytime I go through something you always bring me up. Thank you Improvement Pill.
I love your video tnx there is channel like this that help us improve ourselves I will admit it I love the meditation and reaching out to girls.😁😊
Things in my life are just terrible and I'm living with depression for a very long time. I have no will nor stragety, I'm just there without trying anything.
Since pandemic, Improvement pill is my buddy. ❤
i've been studying my entire life and now in my last year of highschool, i can't even get close to points that i have in my dreams. i don't feel like a failure anymore bc i know i am one. i cant believe i searched what to do if youre a failure,, this is how pathetic i am
Your video help so much 🔥🔥 thankyou
Thanks for your advice sir. I’m gonna take the TOEFL in 10 days and I need to get a 90+. My previous score was a 62 and if I don’t score a 90+ everything will fail
All the best!!!
Wish the best for you!
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I don't need strategy...I need a video with epic music.
Hey improvement pill, are you interested in making a video about toxic relationships? (Like what kind of or type of friends you should have, how you can be a better friend etc...)
I love your videos 🥰🥰🥰 Keep going
This is what I need you read my mind
You're really great 👍
feeling like this right now
I always forget this...
Usually this "constant inability" can be a sign of a much deeper issue: Complex PTSD
Erm, i searched this video. I was always like that. Still in my teenage years, i feel like im not doing anything correct, rely on opinions, have a lot of self-doubt and get jealous of other peoples lives. Honestly, i dont even know how to help myself at this point... I keep doing what somehow makes me feel better.