Very wonderful.. i’m living in Vietnam but my children studying in International school.. thanks so much for your lesson. I can learn everything from you teach I don’t allow my child go to bed late or spend a lot of time on TV 😛❤️🇻🇳
Hi Mark. I'm from Malaysia. I have two domestic helpers in my house. Both of them are from Indonesia. We need them to do the house chores, for example, wash clothes, wipe or wash the cars, vacuum and mop the house, wipe all the windows, wash the dishes, iron the clothes etc. At times I do ask them to help out to wash the vegetables. I'm the one who do the cooking. We don't give authority to domestic helpers to discipline our children. This is our culture. They might abuse the power and hurt the children if we were to give them the power to do it. Even myself for example, I am not allowed to spank or raise my tone to children. This is my family rules. For Asian, we believe it's our responsibility to educate and discipline our own children.
i think yes they should be learnt discipline but in a very nice loving way as I've been learnt discipline in my childhood. if the kids are more stubborn and rude then u can b a little bit harsh but in a tricky way because to b too much harsh sometimes make kids more rude and stubborn. so always try to learn them discipline with love and more affection. it works.
Hi, this is an interesting topic, again. We, in Hungarian, turn down a bed, not make it. (And cover the table, but not lay). - Discipline is important, at school and at home as well. I think it can be applied/achieved not only physically but also verbal. My all respect for pedagogues - I wouldn't have enough patience!
Hi, Mark, another great video. Thanks for the useful information! Would you consider making a video about computer interface (or even youtube interface) vocabulary? Something like: toggle key, radio button, checkbox, maximize, minimize, panel, menu bar, address bar/field, drop-down list, thumbnail, progress bar, icons, tab, pointer, cursor, annotation, avatar, window, dialog box, drag and drop, drag-select, etc. That could go a long way, especially in the Information Age that we currently live in :)
Au pairs have the right to discipline the kids without beating them. Probably teach them how to love people. If they feel loved, they will respect other people too.
Hi Mark! I think so, if parents' kids agree with it, because a person who take care of a kid is responsible for her education and something. But the final word ought be always from the parents. Changing subject, I love your voice by the way!! Great lesson Mark! See you next class! (Do you mind correct me if I make a mistake, please? Thanks!)
Discipline: The practice of training people to obey rules or a code of behavior. With this quotation I guess au pairs must receive authority from parents and follow the code of behavior according to the eviroment of the house.
Great video! I was an aupair in the US and in Canada as well. I would have never thought of “punishing” a kid ever, discipline is one thing but spanking!!! I never have and never will, even though now I have children of my own and they drive me crazy sometimes, hey we are the adults and should know how to deal with it in a better way!
Im an au pair, yes its part OF work being a nanny to discipline kids but in a nice way when they did something wrong you have to tell to Their parents. Dont be harsh just discipline with Love as your own kids so they Will respect you.
Hi Mad English TV, I’ve put a comment in other video about your great pronuntiation and how good is for non natives and I have a requets for you. I sent your videos to all my colleworkers that are learning english cause your are a fantastic Teacher and speaker. In order to help us to understand better other kind pronuntiations and situations, could you please make a video speaking just like you do and say for instance, the same Sentences as most of pleople would do on the the street or casual situations?? I think this would be really helpful to everyone who follows your channel.
Discipline kids who are not your own is okay but must be with a sensible way, physical punishment like spanking is strictly forbidden even though their parents allow you to do so, because it can cause injury and ingrain a violent subconscious in their little mind etc, I suggest using persuasion, reward and positive skill or sth like that, however some kids are hyperactivity, hard to deal with indeed, giving you headache, in this situation, you'd better bring it up to their parents to find a solution. Thanks Mark :)
Hi! It's difficult to answer this question, it depends on the au pair. In my country, it's better to discipline yourself your kids because there were lots problems with the au pairs. Take care!!!
Thanks for your hard work. I think some ingrained habit were developed when we were in childhood. I also dislike those people who don't wash their hands after going to bathroom.
Hi Mark! You took the words right out of my mouth! There's not much what's more disgusting than people, who don't wash their hands. 😝 As for the children: Physical or emotional punishment of children is considered as a crime in Germany. And a good thing, too! I'd try persuading them - with ice cream 😂😀!!! Take care!
Super useful. ..but I wonder if the letters au are abbreviation for a particular word. I try the arguments policy and persuasive debates. .violence spell frustrating consequences
When you was given the right to prohibit something to children, or when they are rude to you ,you can punish them in some way . The parents should indicate what to do
That question is hard to answer. In my opinion, Au pairs need to talk to their parents at first if they have the authority to discipline the kids or not. then I think disciplining the kid is very necessary and it is the responsibility for au pairs to tell the kids what should he do or not do.
Hi, thanks for your videos, I love hearing you because I understand about 80%, I would like to go to Canada in order to practice, have you any advice to me as to city and accommodation?. BTW, that's the shirt you lost in China. Cheers.
Hi Mark! I think the au pairs shoudn't have the authority to dicipline kids, this is a responsibilite to their parents, the au pairs could and should to talk with the parents about the behavior of the kids, and the parents should to do somethings about this.
Do you think au pairs should have the authority to discipline kids? Personality I think that they can because the kids are like a mirror and they copy every thing from the au pairs. Thank you for your nice video.
Hi Mark, I think washing your hands is an education item. About discipline, it is a duty of the parents, only. Nobody can do it. they only must tell the parents what`s happened
Dear Mr Mark, Au pair is not independent and she does everything under the direct control of parents. Extent of her authority depends on the life style and expectations of parents, at the time of acceptance. Minding the kids is her primary job. She is a domestic help after all, and she is always amenable. Your question seems to be irrelevant.
Hi teacher, I've got a doubt. Someone is eating 4th chocolate. To get that answer how can i ask him? is it right to ask that "what number of chocolate are you eating? or is there any way to get the answer that "im eating 4th chocolate. And same goes for other things like "what number of president is Donal Trump"?is it right? if not, what are the ways to ask to get that answer?
+Mad English TV Thank you, my teacher. But when it comes to chocolate, can I ask with what number of just like you did with Donal Trump? I mean, it it right to ask, "what number of chocolate are you eating now?
Yes, but at the same time i think it is absolutely indispensable to hire a profetional educator for to cover this responsibility that corresponds to the parents. Parents always have to speak with au pair in order to work together about it
Good morning Teacher. How are you? Change outfit? That's nice! True. Mostly Western countries do not practice child spanking through discipline. No wonder there are lot of child bullies and number of case of teenage suicide because of it in these region. *A GOOD spanking done in sensible way is not child beating or child abuse.. Child beating/abuse/punishment is definitely a big NO. For me, if a child do not listen after several verbal instruction and correction, It is just right to give a tolerable spanking to emphasis what he did was wrong and need to stop. In case of Au Pair, she should know her boundaries and understand that the parent entrusted the child in her care to care for not to punish. If ever the child is hard to handle, she need to inform the parent what the child did (In front of the child) and let the parent correct right there and explain to the child the importance of Au pair's authority to disciple. If I would have a child of my own, I will give him a good spanking if in case needed. I will not let my child grow devil's horn and butt head me or other in the future. And in case of societies debate on this, I would say, the government is not responsible to disciple my child but I do because it is the parent's duty to brought up morally, upright and responsible children.
I know many people sleep naked. So do I. It's comfortable fo me. I think au pairs should have the authority to discipline kids only by words and questions.
Really, you don't need to wash your hands after you pee or poo, unless you will immediately eat something with your fingers, because the skin on your genitals or butt is cleaner than your hands, and actually you don't really touch your private part when you pee.
Sir, as far as being a baby - sitter, it's hard at time to control the situation specially when kids are stubborn. I've noticed one things with kids and learned also with other baby-sitters that kids react different from parents and baby-sitter. They obey their parents at once without creating difficulties. They behave like an angels infront of their parents. Whereas with baby-sitter they shows their real character. At time, I have to fight against myself to resist in my job. Those who work as baby-sitter must not take disciplines under their hands. Just talk with their parents and it's their responsibilities to bring up their children in a good way. As far as the kids are not for me, I must not to frustrated, nor to spank them. I must show my patience and loves towards them even if I full of rage inside me. Give disciplines to other that not belongs to you , it's a discussion among parent and baby-sitter. If they give you the right to do so, then it is good.
Very wonderful.. i’m living in Vietnam but my children studying in International school.. thanks so much for your lesson. I can learn everything from you teach
I don’t allow my child go to bed late or spend a lot of time on TV 😛❤️🇻🇳
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Never get bored watching your video. You’re truly amazing
Hi Mark. I'm from Malaysia. I have two domestic helpers in my house.
Both of them are from Indonesia. We need them to do the house chores, for example, wash clothes, wipe or wash the cars, vacuum and mop the house, wipe all the windows, wash the dishes, iron the clothes etc. At times I do ask them to help out to wash the vegetables. I'm the one who do the cooking. We don't give authority to domestic helpers to discipline our children. This is our culture. They might abuse the power and hurt the children if we were to give them the power to do it. Even myself for example, I am not allowed to spank or raise my tone to children. This is my family rules. For Asian, we believe it's our responsibility to educate and discipline our own children.
That's great! 😃😃
i think yes they should be learnt discipline but in a very nice loving way as I've been learnt discipline in my childhood. if the kids are more stubborn and rude then u can b a little bit harsh but in a tricky way because to b too much harsh sometimes make kids more rude and stubborn. so always try to learn them discipline with love and more affection. it works.
THANK YOU FOR YOUR EFFORTS. IT'S A GREAT LESSON. FROM A TO Z. CONTINUE. GOOD JOB....
Hi, this is an interesting topic, again. We, in Hungarian, turn down a bed, not make it. (And cover the table, but not lay). - Discipline is important, at school and at home as well. I think it can be applied/achieved not only physically but also verbal. My all respect for pedagogues - I wouldn't have enough patience!
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Hi Mark, in my opinion, I think it's better working hand in hand with the mother towards desplining the kids in order to get the best out of them.
Thank you for sharing..Im au pair...
Its very helpful..
Thank so much your great teacher
Hi, Mark, another great video. Thanks for the useful information!
Would you consider making a video about computer interface (or even youtube interface) vocabulary? Something like: toggle key, radio button, checkbox, maximize, minimize, panel, menu bar, address bar/field, drop-down list, thumbnail, progress bar, icons, tab, pointer, cursor, annotation, avatar, window, dialog box, drag and drop, drag-select, etc.
That could go a long way, especially in the Information Age that we currently live in :)
That's a great idea! 😃😃
Hi,Mark.I am very happy to see your videos.They are very useful.Thank you for your good lessons.🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺
Thank you Mark.Additional learning for me.Morr Power
Au pairs have the right to discipline the kids without beating them. Probably teach them how to love people. If they feel loved, they will respect other people too.
Hi Mark! I think so, if parents' kids agree with it, because a person who take care of a kid is responsible for her education and something. But the final word ought be always from the parents.
Changing subject, I love your voice by the way!!
Great lesson Mark!
See you next class!
(Do you mind correct me if I make a mistake, please?
Thanks!)
Thank you so much! 😃😃
* always ought to be
Hello. I'm an au pair for two kids with autism. :) I'm watching you in silence and I like your lessons. That helps me a lot
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Discipline: The practice of training people to obey rules or a code of behavior. With this quotation I guess au pairs must receive authority from parents and follow the code of behavior according to the eviroment of the house.
U r very right, kids r so annoying.
Yea. They can do it with any kind of punishment they want except a lethal one.
Thanks very much for this lesson Mr Mark.
Thank you for your good advice. I'm going to help to my son and his wife with ther baby who will be born in spring in Australia.
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Great video! I was an aupair in the US and in Canada as well. I would have never thought of “punishing” a kid ever, discipline is one thing but spanking!!! I never have and never will, even though now I have children of my own and they drive me crazy sometimes, hey we are the adults and should know how to deal with it in a better way!
Im an au pair, yes its part OF work being a nanny to discipline kids but in a nice way when they did something wrong you have to tell to Their parents. Dont be harsh just discipline with Love as your own kids so they Will respect you.
Very Useful thanks a lot.
Hi Mad English TV, I’ve put a comment in other video about your great pronuntiation and how good is for non natives and I have a requets for you.
I sent your videos to all my colleworkers that are learning english cause your are a fantastic Teacher and speaker.
In order to help us to understand better other kind pronuntiations and situations, could you please make a video speaking just like you do and say for instance, the same Sentences as most of pleople would do on the the street or casual situations??
I think this would be really helpful to everyone who follows your channel.
Hi Daniel! Thanks for sharing my videos! 😃😃
Discipline kids who are not your own is okay but must be with a sensible way, physical punishment like spanking is strictly forbidden even though their parents allow you to do so, because it can cause injury and ingrain a violent subconscious in their little mind etc, I suggest using persuasion, reward and positive skill or sth like that, however some kids are hyperactivity, hard to deal with indeed, giving you headache, in this situation, you'd better bring it up to their parents to find a solution. Thanks Mark :)
Hi! It's difficult to answer this question, it depends on the au pair. In my country, it's better to discipline yourself your kids because there were lots problems with the au pairs.
Take care!!!
Thanks for your hard work. I think some ingrained habit were developed when we were in childhood. I also dislike those people who don't wash their hands after going to bathroom.
Hi Mark!
You took the words right out of my mouth!
There's not much what's more disgusting than people, who don't wash their hands. 😝
As for the children: Physical or emotional punishment of children is considered as a crime in Germany. And a good thing, too!
I'd try persuading them - with ice cream 😂😀!!!
Take care!
Super useful. ..but I wonder if the letters au are abbreviation for a particular word. I try the arguments policy and persuasive debates. .violence spell frustrating consequences
Au Pair is a French word.
Can we use this stop horsing around for elder people also I mean same age of us.
That depends on the relationship that au paairs have with the family
When you was given the right to prohibit something to children, or when they are rude to you ,you can punish them in some way . The parents should indicate what to do
Very agree
I worked as au pair in Germany during one year
Wow! Cool! 😃😃
That question is hard to answer. In my opinion, Au pairs need to talk to their parents at first if they have the authority to discipline the kids or not. then I think disciplining the kid is very necessary and it is the responsibility for au pairs to tell the kids what should he do or not do.
Good job thank you
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thanks for your video
In public bathrooms I prefer washing my hands before rather than after in order to handle my stuff with clean fingers.
I think before and after ... ;-D
Yes because they represent their parents some how
Thanks
Hi Mark I'd like to bit know the difference between au pair and maid? Coz someone song have a maid I can tell to bring me anything
A maid is almost the same job. Usually a maid's responsibility is to clean the house and do other things around the house.
Hi, thanks for your videos, I love hearing you because I understand about 80%, I would like to go to Canada in order to practice, have you any advice to me as to city and accommodation?. BTW, that's the shirt you lost in China. Cheers.
😃😃The big cities in Canada are expensive! Smaller cities have much cheaper rent.
What does ingrained mean? Please tell me.........
Something that is permanently set in your mind. Like a habit. I wash my hands without thinking about it.
I got it mean. Thanks
Thank you 💛
Hi Mark!
I think the au pairs shoudn't have the authority to dicipline kids, this is a responsibilite to their parents, the au pairs could and should to talk with the parents about the behavior of the kids, and the parents should to do somethings about this.
Very useful.video
Do you think au pairs should have the authority to discipline kids? Personality I think that they can because the kids are like a mirror and they copy every thing from the au pairs. Thank you for your nice video.
no authority ...but morality
In our culture, we have idiom "귀한 자식 메로 키워라",but I don't know how to translate it.
Good mornng from Brazil!!! Nice t-shirt 😁😁😁
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Hi Mark!
How do teachers punish their young students in Canadian schools if they refuse to do homework or break rules?
Hi! 😃😃In Canada, teachers are not allowed to punish their students.
Perhaps not a lot of homework in Canada either 🤔
That,s depand on the personality and on behavior... But if kids are naughties then no one change them-i think. Yes
Good lesson sir
Hi Mark, I think washing your hands is an education item. About discipline, it is a duty of the parents, only. Nobody can do it. they only must tell the parents what`s happened
Hi teacher,I like your pronounce,why Can i listen clearly that you say
Dear Mr Mark, Au pair is not independent and she does everything under the direct control of parents. Extent of her authority depends on the life style and expectations of parents, at the time of acceptance. Minding the kids is her primary job. She is a domestic help after all, and she is always amenable. Your question seems to be irrelevant.
Hi teacher, I've got a doubt. Someone is eating 4th chocolate. To get that answer how can i ask him? is it right to ask that "what number of chocolate are you eating? or is there any way to get the answer that "im eating 4th chocolate. And same goes for other things like "what number of president is Donal Trump"?is it right? if not, what are the ways to ask to get that answer?
Great question! 😃😃
How many pieces of chocolate have you eaten already?
What number of president is Donald Trump?
+Mad English TV Thank you, my teacher. But when it comes to chocolate, can I ask with what number of just like you did with Donal Trump? I mean, it it right to ask, "what number of chocolate are you eating now?
@@baheejtsk7314 No, you can't ask that about chocolate. It doesn't make sense.
Hi. The best way of kids' punishment is to deprive them from something they like it too much
I just sleep in my birthday suit, it's easier and feels great, especially in winter. I feel as if I were a pupa in a cocoon....
I think right words is more effective than spanking..
Hi Mark....... love you!!😍❤
Love you too! 😃😃
Yes, but at the same time i think it is absolutely indispensable to hire a profetional educator for to cover this responsibility that corresponds to the parents. Parents always have to speak with au pair in order to work together about it
I do not know Western Culture much but as an African Au Pairs have Authority to Discipline the Kids 😅😃🤣😀
Mark🧡
Good morning Teacher. How are you?
Change outfit? That's nice!
True. Mostly Western countries do not practice child spanking through discipline. No wonder there are lot of child bullies and number of case of teenage suicide because of it in these region. *A GOOD spanking done in sensible way is not child beating or child abuse.. Child beating/abuse/punishment is definitely a big NO. For me, if a child do not listen after several verbal instruction and correction, It is just right to give a tolerable spanking to emphasis what he did was wrong and need to stop.
In case of Au Pair, she should know her boundaries and understand that the parent entrusted the child in her care to care for not to punish. If ever the child is hard to handle, she need to inform the parent what the child did (In front of the child) and let the parent correct right there and explain to the child the importance of Au pair's authority to disciple.
If I would have a child of my own, I will give him a good spanking if in case needed. I will not let my child grow devil's horn and butt head me or other in the future. And in case of societies debate on this, I would say, the government is not responsible to disciple my child but I do because it is the parent's duty to brought up morally, upright and responsible children.
Hi Student! 😃😃I'm doing great thanks. Yes, I wore my green shirt. 😂
Great thoughts! You would make a wonderful au pair. 🤗🤗
Thank you! That's great, I am going to be the coolest Au Pair.😎😉
Sorry for mistake.😄😄
Unfortunately, we've had never a choice for breakfast.
Whatever prepared was our breakfast.
Plz correct my sentence if u see it.
Now the cell phones are the better au pairs.
Yes Mark , its absolutely okay to spank the kids , i have 3 kids and I guarantee for you that its really useful
I know many people sleep naked. So do I. It's comfortable fo me. I think au pairs should have the authority to discipline kids only by words and questions.
I think au pairs should have the authority to discipline kids.
..no slaps and spanks to children....there are lots of right arguments using which it is possible to calm children down....the same is about pets..
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If not, kids'll take the authority to discipline au pairs.😀😀.
Lol
U r not teaching us English u increase our knowledge. Even I didn't know a specific word for baby sitter
Au pair is a French word, isn't it? British English uses 'babysitter'. And this latter doesn't use 'chores'.
You're right! 😃😃
Really, you don't need to wash your hands after you pee or poo, unless you will immediately eat something with your fingers, because the skin on your genitals or butt is cleaner than your hands, and actually you don't really touch your private part when you pee.
Sir, as far as being a baby - sitter, it's hard at time to control the situation specially when kids are stubborn. I've noticed one things with kids and learned also with other baby-sitters that kids react different from parents and baby-sitter. They obey their parents at once without creating difficulties. They behave like an angels infront of their parents. Whereas with baby-sitter they shows their real character. At time, I have to fight against myself to resist in my job. Those who work as baby-sitter must not take disciplines under their hands. Just talk with their parents and it's their responsibilities to bring up their children in a good way. As far as the kids are not for me, I must not to frustrated, nor to spank them. I must show my patience and loves towards them even if I full of rage inside me.
Give disciplines to other that not belongs to you , it's a discussion among parent and baby-sitter. If they give you the right to do so, then it is good.
Did you go pee?