Dumper Feelings When You Ignore Them (Podcast 530)

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  • Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
  • If you're a dumpee and want to try to get your ex back, you are likely feeling very confused after the breakup. Today's podcast discusses the likely dumper feelings if you ignore them.
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  • @vincentbos
    @vincentbos  2 роки тому +2

    'GET YOUR EX BACK' Advice & Support
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  • @MadeInTheStruggleProgram
    @MadeInTheStruggleProgram 2 роки тому +7

    When you catch the girl cheating and she still reaches out, DONT REPLY TO ANYONE - You dont need to give an explanation- Let your exes go- You sont deserve that 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

  • @tucker8358
    @tucker8358 2 роки тому +5

    Great video. My ex "accidently" called me one night after a night of drinking. I didn't answer but followed up the next day with a text asking if everything was ok. She used the "i was drunk" excuse but then she shortly starting texting about the our memories we shared during our relationship and how she was going through a lot at the time Blah Blah Blah. I was confused about this. a couple days later I text and just ask how she was doing, considering she mentioned that she was going through a lot. got a response with a few more texts, nothing of real substance. a couple days later I asked if she was free on a day coming up and wanted to go do something. Well, got ignored and i think i got my final answer from that point. I will never reached out and never planned to reach out prior to her "accidently" calling me. Still don't think she knows the reasons i had to walk away. She probably stills thinks she was perfect and i had no reason to walk, but whatever. P.S. I am the Dumper.

  • @marthagarguilo1093
    @marthagarguilo1093 2 роки тому +3

    You should always ignore your ex unless they come to you

  • @ellaesmeralda9360
    @ellaesmeralda9360 2 роки тому +1

    Instagram requests and I ignored. Total of four this year...
    Not responding to a lowball form of communication.

  • @inserter400
    @inserter400 2 роки тому +1

    Thanx Boss for the livestreams 👍
    They are excellent 👏 👌 👍

  • @tonyhinton6189
    @tonyhinton6189 2 роки тому

    My ex some times contacts 4 times a week how can I have no contact

  • @0220LMB
    @0220LMB Рік тому

    What if they send what are clearly breadcrumbs? In this case, they "accidentally" hit record and sent two video messages two different times. It wasnt even her face. Just her surroundings because she was trying to make it as though it was an accident both times but that is impossible to do on this particular communication app. You have to he in the chat only you and the other person share to even record a video for them. One of them she faked saying "oh shit" to pretend it was an accident.
    This is driving me crazy. Why did she do that. And twice a couple of weeks apart? I miss her so much and I would give anything to talk to her. I didnt know what to say on both occasions tho because she didn't say anything directly.
    What does one do in the meantime? So, she thinks I'm ignoring her.
    What do I do? She hasnt contacted me at all now since rhe last time.
    Please help. No one else has been in this situation so no one has been able to give advice. Thank you.

  • @ConfidencePT
    @ConfidencePT 2 роки тому +1

    Vincent, should I set photos of my ex to private on my social media e.g. Facebook? Is this a sign to her that I'm moving forward? Given that I'm now in No Contact by default because she hasn't contacted me in 15 days at all, is this the way to go? My concern is that by keeping them visible to her, it may show that I'm hung up on her and that she can have me on her timeline?

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  2 роки тому +1

      It's a great question and unfortunately there is no definitive answer. Removing / hiding pics of your ex could look as if you're moving forward, but potentially could look reactive to the situation as well. One suggestion would be to upload new photos which show your present mindset and situation which wouldn't include your ex and show you are moving forward without seeming too reactive.

    • @ConfidencePT
      @ConfidencePT 2 роки тому

      @@vincentbos Yeah, that's the hard part. She had actually removed photos of me a good month or so before she broke it off. So, now there is no sign of me on her Facebook at all. Well apart from comments and likes on posts.

    • @tracyrooster
      @tracyrooster 2 роки тому

      No don't do nothing that's away to get her attention do absolutely nothing

  • @thurtymen459
    @thurtymen459 2 роки тому +3

    Hi Vincent! How do I donate tips to you?

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  2 роки тому

      Thank you for your kind words. There is a link to click at the bottom of the video description if you would like to "Buy Me A Coffee" :)

    • @thurtymen459
      @thurtymen459 2 роки тому

      Damn, for some reason my country doesnt allow PayPal donations. Is there another way?

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  2 роки тому

      There is no way of knowing 100% what will happen in the future. The only thing you can do right now is focus on your own journey and progression. I think another way to leave a tip is called "Super Thanks" here on UA-cam. I think it's a new option to click near the video :)

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  2 роки тому

      Thank you for your support.
      The important thing is to remember the past but not to use it as something to hurt yourself with day after day. It’s now time to draw a line in the sand and see today as the first day of the rest of your life and be positive from here.

  • @marthagarguilo1093
    @marthagarguilo1093 2 роки тому +2

    Let him go to hell for putting me through hell

  • @mt.hoodangler
    @mt.hoodangler 2 роки тому

    What if they wronged you???

  • @marthagarguilo1093
    @marthagarguilo1093 2 роки тому +1

    My ex fiance is a scumbag and ungrateful

  • @tonyhinton6189
    @tonyhinton6189 2 роки тому

    I'm not answering her anymore

  • @marthagarguilo1093
    @marthagarguilo1093 2 роки тому

    Even better

  • @sethrabanes3701
    @sethrabanes3701 2 роки тому +1

    can u like not talk like that?