I asked queer folks in O Bar about dating in Manila | Ted Talks | Theodore Boborol

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  • I went to O Bar, one of the top Manila gay bars, for the first time, and interviewed some people about queer dating in Manila. You will be surprised by their answers.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 53

  • @jpherreramdrn
    @jpherreramdrn Місяць тому +10

    It's really difficult to find someone to make relationship with. And it's true that there's no perfect person but the key is always the 3 C's - Communicate, Compromise and Commit.

    • @jonathanbalagtas848
      @jonathanbalagtas848 Місяць тому +3

      Now a days, indeed it is very difficult to have a romantic relationships between 2 men. Unlike in the 80's, 90's and early 2k. ...Its because of someone's attitude, prespective, and mind-set. And the absence of "challenge" and absence of commitment.

  • @20knighty
    @20knighty Місяць тому +7

    i like the 2nd Kuya’s advice, halatang yung mga nasabi nya base on his experienced in 10 years grabe, sana all tlga😅mahirap nman tlga maghanap kse yung iba ikama lang ang hanap🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @retailryph
    @retailryph Місяць тому

    Love this! 🧡🧡🧡

  • @JohnDoe-fk6uu
    @JohnDoe-fk6uu Місяць тому

    hui this is fun! No one does this in the Philippines. I love the rawness of answers and the different perspectives about gay dating. Please make more videos like this pls!!

    • @TheodoreBoborol79
      @TheodoreBoborol79  Місяць тому

      Awww thank you. I'm really hoping to get to film another video like this.

  • @juanchofrancois5369
    @juanchofrancois5369 Місяць тому +3

    Dapat magkaroon ng center for lgbt match making ang pilipinas. Kasi dapat may counselor ang mga dating gay couples. If wala silang gabay, hindi nila mananavigate ng maayos ang relationship nila kasi nga may kanya kanya silang standards kahit contradicting sa pakikipagrelasyon tulad nalang nung "no monogamous ekek".
    Dapat talaga may counselor ang mga single lgbt na looking for partners. At dapat may match making center sila.

    • @TheodoreBoborol79
      @TheodoreBoborol79  Місяць тому +2

      Good idea! They can also joins Sparks Camp (shameless plug! :D)

    • @NaldV-vd8if
      @NaldV-vd8if Місяць тому +1

      💁🏻‍♂️✝️🙇🏻‍♂️🌇🤦🏻‍♂️😢
      "Por Favor no practiquen la sodomia homosexual porqué serán condenados en el Juicio Final ante el Gran Trono Blanco De DIOS.
      💁🏻‍♂️📖🔍LEER EN LA SANTA BIBLIA PALABRA DE DIOS EN APOCALIPSIS 20.
      😢🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♀️"!NO HABRÁ EXCUSAS!"

  • @reynaldobumatayjr.3678
    @reynaldobumatayjr.3678 Місяць тому

    nice video. nice content. real and raw.

  • @nursedada
    @nursedada Місяць тому

    ka miss mag O… ❤❤❤

  • @Dpageantbuff
    @Dpageantbuff Місяць тому

    The 2nd guy Yun pastry chef gave some really good advice!

  • @RRzlopez6700
    @RRzlopez6700 Місяць тому

    Its the opposite Baron! here in the province mas wild. Recycled ang ka hook ups kasi community is smaller. I preferred sa big city, matino naman ung iba

  • @akosinubitah
    @akosinubitah 2 місяці тому +1

    relate sa 2nd guy sa planetromeo,,, only, i didnt find my one true love yet. anyway, life

  • @loujoa
    @loujoa Місяць тому +1

    Sana may list ng mga IG accounts, sa description 😅

    • @TheodoreBoborol79
      @TheodoreBoborol79  Місяць тому

      Haha! Sensya na! That night ko lang din sila nameet. Next time! Pag makagawa ulit ako ng ganitong content.

  • @akosinubitah
    @akosinubitah 2 місяці тому

    Medyo malakas background noise sa loob ng club. Hehe

  • @jajagaela5219
    @jajagaela5219 Місяць тому

    Ano po ig ni 3rd guy?

  • @PEWPlays
    @PEWPlays Місяць тому

    swerte nalang tlga, hindi ko na kailangan magBar hopping at dating apps para makilala yung soulmate ko.

  • @tancready9180
    @tancready9180 Місяць тому +1

    in demand or demanding hahaah

  • @scottiandiaz1268
    @scottiandiaz1268 Місяць тому

    Hi Kim, gusto mo ba makapunta sa amerika?? hahaahhahh

  • @shamc8325
    @shamc8325 Місяць тому

    Mahirap sa Pilipinas kasi everyone has very high standards. Kahit mga panget. Kaya yung talagang guapo either taken na with another guapo or nakaangkla na sa mayaman. Yung iba naman kahit meron interesado puros yung kapintasan ang nakikita. Hindi ganyan sa ibang bansa. Sa ibang bansa pag nagkakoneksyon ka with someone khit mas guapo o mas chaka ka sa kanya..usually it’s given a chance. Masyado marami nagmamaganda sa Manila. Kahit saan ka oumunta na gay spot ganyan. Mga di naman kagandahan pero ang gusto model

  • @reynaldobumatayjr.3678
    @reynaldobumatayjr.3678 Місяць тому

    wait... director ka sir di ba?

  • @macman2132
    @macman2132 Місяць тому +1

    "Their is no such thing as a monogamous relationship"
    Me: ahhhh, malantod 🤣

    • @crush9lfe
      @crush9lfe Місяць тому +3

      Red flag 🚩🚩🚩… sounds like he has a lot of unresolved traumas. Run Sis!!

  • @ninicast7570
    @ninicast7570 Місяць тому +1

    hirap nga kasi mostly walang sense kausap iba puro landian habol at ons lang

  • @SebastianAlex_LifeAdventures
    @SebastianAlex_LifeAdventures 6 днів тому

    Anong name ng 3rd guy he looks like korean ..ano Ig nya haha

    • @TheodoreBoborol79
      @TheodoreBoborol79  6 днів тому

      Sinabi niya! Pa-lipread na lang sorry. Lowtech kasi mic ko.

  • @boyetarizala2992
    @boyetarizala2992 Місяць тому

    15:15 😘

  • @GQ-ul1rl
    @GQ-ul1rl Місяць тому

    Natatangahan Lang ako Sa question na: "Sa guapo mong Yan bakit Ka single" Such a backward thinking.

    • @TheodoreBoborol79
      @TheodoreBoborol79  Місяць тому

      Sorry po. It was meant to be taken lightly para ma relax siya pero sorry if it appeared tanga.

    • @kristofferabellon2734
      @kristofferabellon2734 Місяць тому

      Not necessarily. let's admit that dating starts with physical attraction. So, if someone attractive is single, the next question would be, why. What underlying issues are there, since obviously it's not a superficial reason. Unlike kc sa atin na d kapogian or walang abs, alam na natin na konti lng choices natin at onti lng magkakainteres satin. 😊

    • @GQ-ul1rl
      @GQ-ul1rl Місяць тому

      @@kristofferabellon2734 and you never ask why someone is single. "Why" is something people should be careful to use specially when you're not a trained psychologist. There are other polite questions such as, "when was you last relationship? or "Are you in the dating scene?"