My little sister did this. The guy would show up to pick her up on the date and then she would decide to go and take a shower. She is a childless cat lady in her 60's today, I wonder why.
@gxr7777 facts lol. This chick told people I was scared of talking to her because I refuse to go chill with after she had me waiting for about 4 hours and I just talked to her friend. She ended the friendship because her friend got to chill with me. Stuff was actually funny
@Racfguy hell no lol. She didn't respond for 4 hours but I was just waiting for her text but I was also talking to her friend at the same time and her friend came over to chill and we didn't get busy until the other girl texted saying she had to take care of something. I simply said ok and me and her friend went to my house drunk,high,and laughing 😆😆😆. Some dude who wanted her told her I slept with her friend which is how she found out because her friend didn't say anything and I kept my mouth shut
It’s a big red flag for someone who is unable to arrive on time for a date. For me it’s an indication that this person has serious psychological issues or doesn’t respect you as a person. It’s best to dump them and move on.
Sounds like you guys are young ! I met my fourth wife when I was 68 and our relationship deepens with each passing day !! I’m an 84 year old retired Doctor whose life has never been finer. Keep trying but stick to your fundamental principles! Good luck👍👏
I used to do that...I would be 15 minutes early, then I realized why do this if she doesn't care about punctuality. Now when I show up,if she's not there by a minute after, I just leave. I block and move on.
Men, tolerate no disrespect or games from a woman. Just move on as it will never get better with her. 10-15 minutes and then dip. Ghost and let her find a desperate simp. Women desire a man who don't put up with their BS and will move on without hesitation to another woman.
Just modern women playing games, this is what they learn in college instead of real world skills. It's not like the same BS isn't being taught is public schools. Looks like people and parents are seeing the truth and taking action.
My little sister did this. The guy would show up to pick her up on the date and then she would decide to go and take a shower. She is a childless cat lady in her 60's today, I wonder why.
Yes, gee, I wonder why too. I guarantee your sister is clueless about it.
Lmao...awesome
@@ronaldwinder5051 She was and still is an attractive woman with a terrible personality.
I swear some women go on and on about this emotional intelligence b.s. not realizing how emotionally immature they are lol
How is giving the genuine emotion of anger to someone who is wasting your time makes someone unstable? She's a narcissist
10 minutes and see ya wouldn't want to be ya.
@gxr7777 facts lol. This chick told people I was scared of talking to her because I refuse to go chill with after she had me waiting for about 4 hours and I just talked to her friend. She ended the friendship because her friend got to chill with me. Stuff was actually funny
@@J.P_INC. You waited for 4 hours? Really? Time to date her friend.
@Racfguy hell no lol. She didn't respond for 4 hours but I was just waiting for her text but I was also talking to her friend at the same time and her friend came over to chill and we didn't get busy until the other girl texted saying she had to take care of something. I simply said ok and me and her friend went to my house drunk,high,and laughing 😆😆😆. Some dude who wanted her told her I slept with her friend which is how she found out because her friend didn't say anything and I kept my mouth shut
It’s a big red flag for someone who is unable to arrive on time for a date. For me it’s an indication that this person has serious psychological issues or doesn’t respect you as a person. It’s best to dump them and move on.
The system indeed works by eliminating herself from the dating pool😂
He did well and must now realize that they not only get older but paradoxically they get more desperate and meaner.
He needs to date younger.
The meaness is camouflage to the desperate feelings as their SMV and fertility tanks.
lol no, he waited way too long.
Sounds like you guys are young ! I met my fourth wife when I was 68 and our relationship deepens with each passing day !! I’m an 84 year old retired Doctor whose life has never been finer. Keep trying but stick to your fundamental principles! Good luck👍👏
@@RonaldMayDMD-nt3fd "laughing"
So, you're advice is that I let a woman take over half of everything at least 3 times and just keep going...
Forever alone.
Been there...she tried it at her parents house. I walked away when she said it would be over an hour before she was ready for a suit and tie event.
Just shows how mature she really is. I will give her ten extra minutes, just because of traffic. After that I leave. No woman is worth waiting for
She finishes her Martini and then heads home to her cats.
This woman has no respect for anyone
Not necessarily. She just wasted her youth riding the carousel and then she "decided" to get selective 😂
Possible sociopath?
@@snidecommenter7117 Possible? LOL
15 Minutes and I'm gone.
You too good, I have 0 tolerance for being late, that means if she's not there on time I'm out.
I used to do that...I would be 15 minutes early, then I realized why do this if she doesn't care about punctuality.
Now when I show up,if she's not there by a minute after, I just leave.
I block and move on.
That woman is clueless she can’t see the ocean because there’s too much water in the way.
10 mins late and I'm gone
Uh huh uh huh
I've walked away from business meetings due to them being late. So a casual meeting I do the exact same thing
10 maybe 15 minutes. Especially on a first date. This woman is insane
Especially when she didn't answer his texts.
Or better yet order the food, eat and when/if she shows up make sure it's 2 checks.
@@gxr7777 I like that.
tom is so lucky that he move from this toxic lady before things got serious and he would be stuck in a drama filled relationship
She's delusional in her own world. ❌💯💔
AND 50 YEARS LATER AGED 87 I AM ON MY NEXT EXPERIMENT ,""BUT THIS TIME FROM THE CAREHOME I ENDED UP IN ?
LOL
There is zero chance I'd want anything to do with someone playing these kinds of games.… the only unstable one is this lady that thinks this is ok
I’m tapping out at 15 minutes, unless she has a legit reason
Men, tolerate no disrespect or games from a woman. Just move on as it will never get better with her. 10-15 minutes and then dip. Ghost and let her find a desperate simp. Women desire a man who don't put up with their BS and will move on without hesitation to another woman.
He didn’t fail the test. She did.
I see a great relationship with a Cat in this woman's future.
Now why would you do something so terrible to a cat? This arrogant narcissist deserves to be alone.
and lotsa boxed wine
Cats like to be fed on time.
15 minutes and I'm done!
10 mins waiting on a first date, and it's over.😅
I might have waited longer if this wasn't a first date. But, this guy was acting pretty dumb.
She discuss her methods a few years later to her cats and empty containers of Boxed wine.
She will soon be working to differentiate a Maine from a Burmese. Future cat lady.
Waste of oxygen
Just modern women playing games, this is what they learn in college instead of real world skills. It's not like the same BS isn't being taught is public schools. Looks like people and parents are seeing the truth and taking action.
The point of this BS story was what?
I'm old school. 20 minutes is goodbye. 10 to 15 minutes if she calls with a good excuse but 20 is game over. That's disrespect.
She is looking for a Simp but would not be happy with him.
Little girls 🎱🪦
I don't mind waiting a bit but the strategizing part.... its like beginning something with distrust. Sounds constipated.