My guess with J Lo, there’s no oxygen left in the room for anyone else let alone a husband. She should just stop trying to get married. She’s clearly not marriage material.
Ben knows Jen will always be there for him in a time of need. The Love, Kindness, & Caring never went away. She is his Rock. The Father of her children is a bond that can't be broken. I wish them all well 💞
Well she better keep it simple before her fiancée leave her! Ben should not be her responsibility! He’s a grown man who is trying to cause chaos with her new man🤷🏾♀️ Ben is selfish and it’s all about him🙄 I also feel Jennifer needs to let her cooch rest and stop chasing men and putting her kids in the middle of her shenanigans 🤷🏾♀️
If it had been like what you say ay, they would never have divorced; he has no choice but to be with her for the children and because he is very dependent on her, he is a very immature and weak Man, who needs her a lot to raise the children, he could never alone.
@@Lfrost969 garner is obsessed to Ben Affleck. garner obsession cause alcoholism and depression to Ben... Ben said on interview he was in situation he doesn't know how to be out.. and he did is drinking and sleeping to the couch... Ben can not have a peaceful life with garner obsession.. garner is always be pain in the neck to Ben... but he a weak person he can not stand against garner manipulation using their kids.. unlike brat fitt he stand against Jolie manipulation using their kids... both Ben and brat are alcoholic during their marriage to there ex wife.. sorry for Affleck he married a crazy woman.. Affleck said jlo is intelligent, attractive, loving. and loyal.. jlo love him.. but jlo can not give him is to change and give up her career.. maybe for jlo it is too much.. jlo support him financially and professionally to have his dream..to be movie director and producer...they said Ben is protective to jlo and kids.. there is a rumor garner file a complain to investigated jlo for using her popularity to her transaction.. she is crazy... jlo is product endorser
At the end of the day we all can have an opinion but none of us live with Ben ,Jlo or Jennifer. Why do woman want to bring down woman. Men do he same thing they move on and find another woman. They both went into this relationship with their eyes open, she's always probably loved Ben, she tried it did not work,let them sort out their own problems. Ben was the one who allegedly said something about Jennifer, we all weren't happy as she's the mother of his children. Now all of a sudden she the golden wife. Just leave these people to get on with their life and enjoy their life. God bless to all of them. Xx
Unfortunately when one purposely exposed one's life to glorify one's wealth, beauty, and talent (or lack of ), people notice and they form their opinion. It is part of being famous and the fortune that comes with it. Lopez knows that well enough that if she is not being talk about, her fame is diminishing.
They already signed the divorce papers after a reconciliation didn't work out. They just haven't gone before a judge. Read this in the latest issue of People Magazine.
Its sad that Ben didnt see what was obvious even to strangers. JLo is not a nice person and terribly hard to put up with. She is Jenny from the block. She has no class. Ben with all his flaws still has class and was fortunate to father children with a wonderful person. He got fooled by his imagination. Hopefully he can stay sober and continue to coparent with Jennifer Garner.
Classy Ben has slammed doors on women , waved his arms at women, tossed drinks at papps, called posers “witches” for posting on their keyboards and tried to date very young women on Raya etc. That classy Ben?😏
It's very sad as a society that we tend to judge people even when we don't really know them . Just because we see them on our TVs or media doesn't really mean that we know them. I am a believer that it takes two people to make a marriage work. Both parties have to sacrifice, compromise and accommodate each other. The investment in the relationship should be balanced. And yet as a people we judge a relationship without knowing, so we choose a side and we adopt hatred for someone we don't really know. There is no marriage without problems but it takes both parties to work out those differences. We have to remember, these are two people with two different personalities. My take on this is I wish they could work out their differences as kids are involved in both parties. But If they love each other but that love is enough to stay married to each other, then I wish them both all the best .
They do not marry for love or family. It is strictly for publicity. Liz taylor married many times but she was a beautiful talented woman and this woman is neither.
The weirdness is that their’s denial that Jennifer’s rarely seen with her kids. They were at her birthday celebration and out riding bicycles with her. Max is a special needs teenager who doesn’t like crowds.
jlo and Ben can be divorced.. and jlo ready to move on without Ben and have peace of mind.. what scary is garner obsession to Ben Affleck which was cause of Ben alcoholism and mental health problem.. Ben forever can't have peaceful life.. courtesy of garner.. and garner always pain on the neck to Affleck... Affleck wanted to protect jlo and kids against garner... in once interview.. Ben never talked about garner and not appreciated garner in public.. he is protected father... he said jlo is intelligent. talented and loyal.. no matter what jlo is Ben dream woman.. and he said he still love jlo... it is better for jlo to be away professionally and personally to garner and Ben Affleck toxic family.. garner and Affleck are professionally in secured... Affleck used jlo popularity to come back and for financial purposes... good for him having pathetic crazy woman.😂😂😂😂
@@CrystalDatingCoach yes garner was flirting with Ben Affleck while she still married and Ben Affleck engaged to jlo.. they cancelled their engagement 4day before there wedding day.. garner was pregnant that time.. in Ben Affleck interview. he said. he was in the situation which is he doesn't know how to be out.. all he did was drinking to forget his situation.. Ben Affleck he still called jlo as his wife... there is rumor garner file complain to investigate jlo for using her popularity to transaction..if it is true.. she is pathetic crazy woman...
BEN HAS A PERSONALITY VERY SIMILAR TO JLO, THEY CHEAT AND THEY CHANGE PARTNERS LIKE WE CHANGE CLOTHES...GARNER WOULD STAY WITH BEN FOR LIFE BUT HE CHEATED+ALCOHOLISM ETC...
Agreed. I watched 20 minutes of the documentary and was cringing. How could she share his book with everyone. With her track record she should’ve held on tight and try not to freak Ben out so much. Especially if she knew the celebrity attention really affected him so much. I really don’t doubt they love each other. But I think they both thought they could change for their loved one and they couldn’t. They are who they are. JLo is a diva and loves the attention. And Ben would rather not be. Don’t get me wrong. He likes his projects to make him money and do well but he doesn’t like the limelight. He really shouldn’t have asked her to marry him.
I am a 62 year old woman and have been married for 46 years. It really upsets me that people give up on their relationship so quickly without blinking. I think Jennifer should be given another chance and she should move in with Ben at his new house for one year and see how things go for that one year. If she said that Ben is the love of her life then she needs to prove it by first of all apologizing to him. If you don’t try to fix this then the public is going to think you are full of shit in saying he is the love of your life. Jennifer in a relationship there has to be compromises not pride. There are things that needed to be kept private in a relationship and you went against Ben’s wishes and showed your circle of friends and family the love letters are a private matter and sacred thing between the two of you. keeping their life or the things that matter like all his letters to her private and you violated that trust. Jennifer as a fan I will no longer be a fan of you and Ben if you guys don’t attempt to fix this. It’s more embarrassing that you guys did not try then that you tried. Jennifer you also have to keep your entourage away for that year only have them around when absolutely necessary. Just imagine you and Ben living together without all these people around you, you will focus on the two of you and your children will be so proud. Jennifer give it a go for your children, your fans and first and foremost for yourself. Life is going by so fast and the next thing you know you will be 70 and not have the love of your life by your side. Jennifer you need to focus on you, Ben and your children do not throw this marriage away PLEASE!!!! 🙏 🙏🙏🙏. Ben you went after Jennifer with your beautiful emails and you would end them with NOT GOING ANYWHERE!!!! Give this marriage another try, everything I wrote above pertains to the both of you. PLEASE GIVE THIS MARRIAGE another year, look at it as a trial run and by the way if you did not know how famous your wife is where have you been living under a rock?? Ben honor your word as a man so your daughters and son could see that your a MAN of your WORD and the two of you need to do this together and most likely with couple counseling. Do yourselves a favor and don’t throw away something that can be so beautiful just because of pride and mistakes that can be corrected. Honestly the two of you need a lot of growing up and remember you will experience growing pains. Do it for America. May the good lord bless you both and guide you in giving this love and relationship one (1) more try ❤❤❤God bless you and your family (the children) 👶👧🧒👦❤❤❤❤❤Emme, Max, Samuel, Finn and Violet, do it for your love for them and for each other 🫂🫂🥰🥰🌺🌷💐🌹🌹🙏🙏❤️❤️✝️✝️🌹🌹🥰🥰
I think it's safe to say that Jennifer Garner was truly a great wife and great mother. She has less drama in her life and she puts her family first. I think Ben just realizes too late that he had a wonderful thing with her and he will never have that with JLo. Live and learn.
JL wants a FAMILY-man, STABLE marriage, NOT a runaway husband. She wanted to settle down with him. He, he likes ‘adventures’, temporarily relationship, a fling with the nanny…, he wants just to have fun and move on.
I don’t understand why these two ever thought they were compatible lol. She seemingly has narcissistic tendencies and a superiority complex who loves to be publicly adored despite having minimal talents. Ben is famously private and seems just a regular down to earth guy. What seems to have broken the camels back though is he begged her not to do that stupid documentary because it would mean sharing details of their relationship and his love letters to her which people saw. She lost $18 million over that and wouldn’t listen that it would harm their relationship as well as her bank balance. She’s just not an empathetic or caring person as he also begged her not to create her own alcohol line knowing full well he was a recovering alcoholic but nope she went there. So unsurprisingly someone who puts fame and wealth (despite already having enough) above her love for her relationship ultimately lost it - surprised much?🙄
I bought into the whole "Second chance at love" thing...hook, line and sinker! All the hype, "This is me Now...a Love story" and "The Greatest Love story never told" 🤔. I wish them both happiness!
@@lauralopez3608 How could he have been a better father to her kids when she's hardly around them? He spent more time with her kids than she did. He's a good man that has actual friends and his kids adore him while he battles a real disease. 🙆🏾♀
He cares more about them than she does. He is respectful to their father, Marc Anthony, and stays in his lane. Ben knows, that her Father's Day tribute to him this year, was so inappropriate...That's the difference. 🤷🏾♀
Is he going to run to Jennifer Garner for someone to prop him up & lean on? I really, really hope she doesn't take him back or let him get close to her in any way. That's just asking for more trouble & heartache & she deserves so much better. He's a mess & needs serious help.
Right ? Why do I get the sense she's into this ? Why should she be ? He cheated on her with the nanny, dated several young women, I mean isn't that insulting ? Then he went back to one of her exes and now he might want to take her back ? If she says yes then she agrees to being treated like a doormat.
He doesn’t want to live the full exposure, non stop working, fully staffed at all times life. He doesn’t want that to be a model for his children either. It’s understandable. They tried. Fundamental misalignment is exactly that. Ben knows 💯 now that Jen is not for him. He was stressed and miserable. Sad but the reality.
This is just plain messy. Like for real when they got married, I was like I give them 2 years before they get divorced. Apparently they are getting divorced quietly. SMH 🤦🏼♀️
Releasing 2️⃣ Albums, a Film & a Documentary for someone you love is not an easy thing. Blessings to them both in what appears to be a difficult path ❤️✨️❤️
A part of me really hoped and prayed they would come full circle, but we never know what happens 365 days in a marriage. I think both moved way too fast and thus may have caused an unhappy marriage. Jlo hides it very well and Ben doesn't. I wish them well and perhaps therapy to slow them down and re-evaluate their lives. Good Luck!
Why is it so easy to get in and out of relationships when it no longer suits or convenient for you? It's just crazy to think how many relationships that "didn't work out" for Jennifer Lopez. Relationships don't work all by themselves. You must put in the work too.
Jlo could never hold a candle to Jenn Garner. Ben cant wait to escape the smothering of Jlo. Ben is very close to his children as oppose to Jlo. 😮Bye girl, bye
he is a traitor to the love that JLO had for him, he is a Man who doesn't know how to love and who liked being with her in the good times and not in the bad times, if they get divorced, she will be much better off without him and he will continue to be miserable like when he was with Garner.
That wasn't love, if she loved him she wouldn't have sold and had alcohol around him and she would have respected his privacy wishes....but she is greedy and thought she was the most important person in his life lol he showed her tho😅😂
@@brendafuller907 then you contradict yourself if she has moved on, she can't be a disaster and she has been alone for 5 months, so if she can be alone for 5 minutes.🤷
@@JojoBean-zo7nx she married someone who doesn't know how to love, and who is immature, did she have to treat him like a 15 years old child? And if he likes privacy why did he marry her? Now it turns out that the child is not to blame, think, that hate doesn't win you.
I could never imagine my husband leaving me for an ex girlfriend. What a nasty human being he is. What is wrong with people you’re married and have kids, work it out, be a man. Not a fan of his. And the fact that he didn’t make it work with J Lo just makes J Lo another victim along with his ex-wife.
I think THIS TIME Ben has finally realized 😳 😮"I feel only lust not love because no one in their right mind can live this way"!!!!!!!!!! I'm out!! Sad as it may seem..
Maybe we know that we just know nothing . Both have maybe serious issues (alcohol problems & selfcentered way if life )and just try to separate with respect ?
Everything with her has to be a huge production, and a circus like atmosphere. Ben doesn’t want to be a part of her shenanigans, and is trying to run from that as fast as possible.
Ben is ACTUALLY prioritizing his ❤ family. Jlo only talks about it.😅 Jlo is dense, sang at her wedding with Ben, and now singing alone at her birthday. She reminds me of a toddler at their bday party, making all their guests pay attention to them and not letting them play or go off and enjoy themselves.😂😂😂
This is why they killed off Daredevil in Deadpool & Wolverine offscreen because Ben Affleck couldn’t come back to care and that’s why they only brought back Elektra because she was trying to come back
This woman should stop getting married and stop subjecting her kids to a revolving door of men
😂😂
True. And they keep bonding over and over with "faux" siblings and then having to detach. It's sick.
Amen... she always has one waiting somewhere and it's always "forever" lol... she the type that only needs friends with benefits
Her kids ought to get used to her many temporary love interest and her love of publicity by now. Kids are not her first priority.
JLo needs to learn how to be content ON HER OWN first rather than bounce from man to man. It’s embarrassing now.
My guess with J Lo, there’s no oxygen left in the room for anyone else let alone a husband. She should just stop trying to get married. She’s clearly not marriage material.
So none of the there are (Ben, JLo y Garner) only divorces.
And whats marriage material 🤦🏽♀️😅
What if it's the man who keep on doing her dirty
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@@tinamaps1605 People who are committed to each other. Not only think of themselves. Be willing to compromise.
Ben knows Jen will always be there for him in a time of need. The Love, Kindness, & Caring never went away. She is his Rock. The Father of her children is a bond that can't be broken. I wish them all well 💞
Well she better keep it simple before her fiancée leave her! Ben should not be her responsibility! He’s a grown man who is trying to cause chaos with her new man🤷🏾♀️ Ben is selfish and it’s all about him🙄 I also feel Jennifer needs to let her cooch rest and stop chasing men and putting her kids in the middle of her shenanigans 🤷🏾♀️
Did you just get off the phone with them.. you sound like you know and you know nada.. 👎🏻
If it had been like what you say ay, they would never have divorced; he has no choice but to be with her for the children and because he is very dependent on her, he is a very immature and weak Man, who needs her a lot to raise the children, he could never alone.
@@Lfrost969 garner is obsessed to Ben Affleck. garner obsession cause alcoholism and depression to Ben... Ben said on interview he was in situation he doesn't know how to be out.. and he did is drinking and sleeping to the couch...
Ben can not have a peaceful life with garner obsession.. garner is always be pain in the neck to Ben... but he a weak person he can not stand against garner manipulation using their kids.. unlike brat fitt he stand against Jolie manipulation using their kids... both Ben and brat are alcoholic during their marriage to there ex wife.. sorry for Affleck he married a crazy woman.. Affleck said jlo is intelligent, attractive, loving. and loyal.. jlo love him.. but jlo can not give him is to change and give up her career.. maybe for jlo it is too much.. jlo support him financially and professionally to have his dream..to be movie director and producer...they said Ben is protective to jlo and kids.. there is a rumor garner file a complain to investigated jlo for using her popularity to her transaction.. she is crazy... jlo is product endorser
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We knew it wouldn't last. But shes already moved on I'm sure. She cant be alone for 5 minutes. I feel sorry for Jennifer's kids.
Should of worked it out with Mark
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CORRECT. I ALSO FEEL SORRY FOR HER TWINS.
If Jennifer Lopez truly cared about her family and children, she wouldn't introduce them to multiple men and show a lack of respect for them.
I like Jennifer but it’s true…you don’t create that kind of confusion for your children…
Jlo has no choice but to introduce the guy she is currently dating to her kids because they will end up seeing it on Tv or the Internet anyways.
@@cj7767She isn't discreet that's the problem. She can date someone it doesn't have to be exclusive until goals are in place.
@@dimples2000 Yeah true she is not discreet and she always has to date a fellow celebrity. Jlo needs to date a guy who is not in the public eye.
So what’s the answer then? -you gonna be single for the rest of your life because you can’t introduce your kids to your partner?
I’m sure she is devastated and embarrassed that her marriage with Ben failed. She is pretending on camera that she’s happy we all know she’s not.
OHHH SHE IS GOOD IN PRETENDING THAT IS WHO SHE IS "MISS PRETENDING" 24/7.
What’s in Jlo’s heart? Herself!
Well he definitely loves the name Jennifer
At the end of the day we all can have an opinion but none of us live with Ben ,Jlo or Jennifer. Why do woman want to bring down woman. Men do he same thing they move on and find another woman. They both went into this relationship with their eyes open, she's always probably loved Ben, she tried it did not work,let them sort out their own problems. Ben was the one who allegedly said something about Jennifer, we all weren't happy as she's the mother of his children. Now all of a sudden she the golden wife. Just leave these people to get on with their life and enjoy their life. God bless to all of them. Xx
Unfortunately when one purposely exposed one's life to glorify one's wealth, beauty, and talent (or lack of ), people notice and they form their opinion. It is part of being famous and the fortune that comes with it. Lopez knows that well enough that if she is not being talk about, her fame is diminishing.
They already signed the divorce papers after a reconciliation didn't work out. They just haven't gone before a judge. Read this in the latest issue of People Magazine.
People magazine is trash. Not much better than the national enquirer
Its sad that Ben didnt see what was obvious even to strangers. JLo is not a nice person and terribly hard to put up with. She is Jenny from the block. She has no class. Ben with all his flaws still has class and was fortunate to father children with a wonderful person. He got fooled by his imagination. Hopefully he can stay sober and continue to coparent with Jennifer Garner.
Classy Ben has slammed doors on women , waved his arms at women, tossed drinks at papps, called posers “witches” for posting on their keyboards and tried to date very young women on Raya etc. That classy Ben?😏
It's very sad as a society that we tend to judge people even when we don't really know them . Just because we see them on our TVs or media doesn't really mean that we know them. I am a believer that it takes two people to make a marriage work. Both parties have to sacrifice, compromise and accommodate each other. The investment in the relationship should be balanced. And yet as a people we judge a relationship without knowing, so we choose a side and we adopt hatred for someone we don't really know. There is no marriage without problems but it takes both parties to work out those differences. We have to remember, these are two people with two different personalities. My take on this is I wish they could work out their differences as kids are involved in both parties. But If they love each other but that love is enough to stay married to each other, then I wish them both all the best .
Lopez is not from the block. It is one of her lies that got exposed.
They do not marry for love or family. It is strictly for publicity. Liz taylor married many times but she was a beautiful talented woman and this woman is neither.
@@janicethompson3028Liz Taylor was a beautiful actress only. Jennifer is multitalented and has many accolades.
Jlo please stop getting married. It’s you not them 🤦🏽♀️
Exactly
lol 😂
It's weird that you never see JLo's kids and she rarely talks about them yet she says family is the most important! BS
When her tour didn't sell, she's used her family as an excuse. Despicable
Probably you have a high myopia
@@mextrouble She was too proud to say her ticket sales weren't selling. Kids are a great excuse.
The weirdness is that their’s denial that Jennifer’s rarely seen with her kids. They were at her birthday celebration and out riding bicycles with her. Max is a special needs teenager who doesn’t like crowds.
Her son looks very unhapppy in all his pics
Jennifer Garner is simply an extremely good person... period. Best of luck to Them all.
I YEARN to be with a woman like Jennifer Garner
Shes a bigot
jlo and Ben can be divorced.. and jlo ready to move on without Ben and have peace of mind.. what scary is garner obsession to Ben Affleck which was cause of Ben alcoholism and mental health problem.. Ben forever can't have peaceful life.. courtesy of garner.. and garner always pain on the neck to Affleck... Affleck wanted to protect jlo and kids against garner... in once interview.. Ben never talked about garner and not appreciated garner in public.. he is protected father... he said jlo is intelligent. talented and loyal.. no matter what jlo is Ben dream woman.. and he said he still love jlo... it is better for jlo to be away professionally and personally to garner and Ben Affleck toxic family.. garner and Affleck are professionally in secured... Affleck used jlo popularity to come back and for financial purposes... good for him having pathetic crazy woman.😂😂😂😂
Let's not forget she was MARRIED and Ben was ENGAGED when they started dating.
@@CrystalDatingCoach yes garner was flirting with Ben Affleck while she still married and Ben Affleck engaged to jlo.. they cancelled their engagement 4day before there wedding day.. garner was pregnant that time.. in Ben Affleck interview. he said. he was in the situation which is he doesn't know how to be out.. all he did was drinking to forget his situation.. Ben Affleck he still called jlo as his wife... there is rumor garner file complain to investigate jlo for using her popularity to transaction..if it is true.. she is pathetic crazy woman...
Ben Affleck should’ve stayed with Jennifer Garner, she’s so much better than JLo
Why stay with Garner so he can cheat on her again ,great choice
shud have - but the ship has sailed. ben shud find someone that’s not looking to settle down, a no-string relationship suits him best
Wasn't he screwing the nanny? The guys a hot mess. You don't marry hot mess! Jen G better keep him at a distance. He's nothing more then a fling!
But he didn't. Tells how much you know......
BEN HAS A PERSONALITY VERY SIMILAR TO JLO, THEY CHEAT AND THEY CHANGE PARTNERS LIKE WE CHANGE CLOTHES...GARNER WOULD STAY WITH BEN FOR LIFE BUT HE CHEATED+ALCOHOLISM ETC...
I would go with tha girl who requires less attention.
Is that how it goes with men? Just curious
@@arrow1042 100% my UA-cam friend, yes. Greed is a typical answer for most but what it really comes down to is insecurities :(
@@OperationChicago you mean some girls who require lots of attention are somewhat insecure? Thats sad.
@@arrow1042 Correct and it is sad. I think we all need some attention but not as much as some people, especially Jennifer Lopez. She requires a lot :(
I don’t care for Lopez but the continuous mean comments about her are beyond the pale. People seem to enjoy dripping hate on her.
Agreed
Did she really sing at her own birthday party? Wow
Lmao 😂😂
JLo always have to be the center of the attention......loll
Self-absorbed much?she is something .lol
Sang at her last wedding too!
😂😂😂
JLo should have focused on her relationship.instead of trying to profit from it.
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OOOOO Ouch, so true
Agreed. I watched 20 minutes of the documentary and was cringing. How could she share his book with everyone. With her track record she should’ve held on tight and try not to freak Ben out so much. Especially if she knew the celebrity attention really affected him so much. I really don’t doubt they love each other. But I think they both thought they could change for their loved one and they couldn’t. They are who they are. JLo is a diva and loves the attention. And Ben would rather not be. Don’t get me wrong. He likes his projects to make him money and do well but he doesn’t like the limelight. He really shouldn’t have asked her to marry him.
@@lfuentes4098 She’s a total narcissist! She knows he’s a very private person and wouldn’t like her sharing HIS most intimate thoughts
Garner is his Rock and Jlo was just his play thing.
I believe that too. He said he regrets their divorce, that says everything i need to know.
@@missv1111 Oh wow I didn't know he said that, that's is very telling!
Garner is the old leather chair that deals with his man child shit.....
So people are blaming him for moving near his kids... wow. You guys really think JG is the reason? Insane
I am a 62 year old woman and have been married for 46 years. It really upsets me that people give up on their relationship so quickly without blinking. I think Jennifer should be given another chance and she should move in with Ben at his new house for one year and see how things go for that one year. If she said that Ben is the love of her life then she needs to prove it by first of all apologizing to him. If you don’t try to fix this then the public is going to think you are full of shit in saying he is the love of your life. Jennifer in a relationship there has to be compromises not pride. There are things that needed to be kept private in a relationship and you went against Ben’s wishes and showed your circle of friends and family the love letters are a private matter and sacred thing between the two of you. keeping their life or the things that matter like all his letters to her private and you violated that trust. Jennifer as a fan I will no longer be a fan of you and Ben if you guys don’t attempt to fix this. It’s more embarrassing that you guys did not try then that you tried. Jennifer you also have to keep your entourage away for that year only have them around when absolutely necessary.
Just imagine you and Ben living together without all these people around you, you will focus on the two of you and your children will be so proud. Jennifer give it a go for your children, your fans and first and foremost for yourself. Life is going by so fast and the next thing you know you will be 70 and not have the love of your life by your side. Jennifer you need to focus on you, Ben and your children do not throw this marriage away PLEASE!!!! 🙏 🙏🙏🙏. Ben you went after Jennifer with your beautiful emails and you would end them with NOT GOING ANYWHERE!!!!
Give this marriage another try, everything I wrote above pertains to the both of you. PLEASE GIVE THIS MARRIAGE another year, look at it as a trial run and by the way if you did not know how famous your wife is where have you been living under a rock?? Ben honor your word as a man so your daughters and son could see that your a MAN of your WORD and the two of you need to do this together and most likely with couple counseling. Do yourselves a favor and don’t throw away something that can be so beautiful just because of pride and mistakes that can be corrected. Honestly the two of you need a lot of growing up and remember you will experience growing pains. Do it for America.
May the good lord bless you both and guide you in giving this love and relationship one (1) more try ❤❤❤God bless you and your family (the children) 👶👧🧒👦❤❤❤❤❤Emme, Max, Samuel, Finn and Violet, do it for your love for them and for each other 🫂🫂🥰🥰🌺🌷💐🌹🌹🙏🙏❤️❤️✝️✝️🌹🌹🥰🥰
This is so wise ❤🙂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣... Not happening...
Jennifer Garner is gorgeous
A new album ...this is me now divorced
What a disastrous 'This is Me Now'!!
😂😂😂😂
I think after so many times she needs to listen to her head and not her heart
J-low was the narcissistic smug will now look for attention to revive her “ career “.
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@@evelynemoise7543 not making sense .
Lopez seems to think her looks are all that she needs.
@@CarolynGardner-v2o tell me about ! her endless pouting 🙄
@@CarolynGardner-v2o well she has zero talent so vanity is her only assets
I think it's safe to say that Jennifer Garner was truly a great wife and great mother. She has less drama in her life and she puts her family first. I think Ben just realizes too late that he had a wonderful thing with her and he will never have that with JLo. Live and learn.
JL wants a FAMILY-man, STABLE marriage, NOT a runaway husband. She wanted to settle down with him.
He, he likes ‘adventures’, temporarily relationship, a fling with the nanny…, he wants just to have fun and move on.
lol
What a RIDICULOUS question. For the KIDS!
He moved closer to his kids. 💁🏽♀️
Right, not to his ex!!!!
I don’t understand why these two ever thought they were compatible lol. She seemingly has narcissistic tendencies and a superiority complex who loves to be publicly adored despite having minimal talents. Ben is famously private and seems just a regular down to earth guy. What seems to have broken the camels back though is he begged her not to do that stupid documentary because it would mean sharing details of their relationship and his love letters to her which people saw. She lost $18 million over that and wouldn’t listen that it would harm their relationship as well as her bank balance. She’s just not an empathetic or caring person as he also begged her not to create her own alcohol line knowing full well he was a recovering alcoholic but nope she went there. So unsurprisingly someone who puts fame and wealth (despite already having enough) above her love for her relationship ultimately lost it - surprised much?🙄
He wanted the @$$ . She needs to be idolized
I bought into the whole "Second chance at love" thing...hook, line and sinker! All the hype, "This is me Now...a Love story" and "The Greatest Love story never told" 🤔. I wish them both happiness!
Ben never cared about JLO’s kids
Funny I see Ben alone with her daughter more than JLO with his kids
It's sad, he wasn't even a father figure to JLo's children, the whole time they were just "his children" he is not a great Man
@@lauralopez3608 How could he have been a better father to her kids when she's hardly around them? He spent more time with her kids than she did. He's a good man that has actual friends and his kids adore him while he battles a real disease. 🙆🏾♀
He cares more about them than she does. He is respectful to their father, Marc Anthony, and stays in his lane. Ben knows, that her Father's Day tribute to him this year, was so inappropriate...That's the difference. 🤷🏾♀
@@kellywade8275 Talking crap just be quiet
Five marriages stop getting married😂
Is he going to run to Jennifer Garner for someone to prop him up & lean on? I really, really hope she doesn't take him back or let him get close to her in any way. That's just asking for more trouble & heartache & she deserves so much better. He's a mess & needs serious help.
Right ? Why do I get the sense she's into this ? Why should she be ? He cheated on her with the nanny, dated several young women, I mean isn't that insulting ? Then he went back to one of her exes and now he might want to take her back ? If she says yes then she agrees to being treated like a doormat.
He doesn’t want to live the full exposure, non stop working, fully staffed at all times life. He doesn’t want that to be a model for his children either. It’s understandable. They tried. Fundamental misalignment is exactly that. Ben knows 💯 now that Jen is not for him. He was stressed and miserable. Sad but the reality.
This is just plain messy. Like for real when they got married, I was like I give them 2 years before they get divorced. Apparently they are getting divorced quietly. SMH 🤦🏼♀️
Releasing 2️⃣ Albums, a Film & a Documentary for someone you love is not an easy thing. Blessings to them both in what appears to be a difficult path ❤️✨️❤️
He keeps on running between these 2 jens
No he's a jerk because he used both. He loves JLO can't handle her spot light. Jennifer Garner shouldn't be involved but loves the drama.
Ben will swing back and forth between the two Jens like a pendulum.
People said it wasn’t gonna last and I thought they were jealous but oh boy💀
Making everyone around you miserable must be hard work. J-Lo is lookin' old & tired!
She 55 she is old
100% 👏 👏 👏
She's surely. stressed with trying to reconcile.
Wishing JLo the best.❤
It wasn't just a B-day party it was a low-key divorce party🤔
A part of me really hoped and prayed they would come full circle, but we never know what happens 365 days in a marriage. I think both moved way too fast and thus may have caused an unhappy marriage. Jlo hides it very well and Ben doesn't. I wish them well and perhaps therapy to slow them down and re-evaluate their lives. Good Luck!
Because he's so childish and immature....I feel so sad for his next victim
He is?
Ben fans vs jlo fans
@GerdaAdonis-bu6qd🤣🤦🏾♀️🤣🤦🏾♀️🤣🤦🏾♀️🤣🤦🏾♀️🤣🤦🏾♀️
Go JLo ❤ u are well rid of him.
@@Tee-uc1blwhite skin rules!
Why is it so easy to get in and out of relationships when it no longer suits or convenient for you? It's just crazy to think how many relationships that "didn't work out" for Jennifer Lopez. Relationships don't work all by themselves. You must put in the work too.
Jlo could never hold a candle to Jenn Garner. Ben cant wait to escape the smothering of Jlo. Ben is very close to his children as oppose to Jlo.
😮Bye girl, bye
SO proud of you Ben. You're a real Man. I'm happy
Pacific Palisade’s is not closer to JenG in Brentwood.
he is a traitor to the love that JLO had for him, he is a Man who doesn't know how to love and who liked being with her in the good times and not in the bad times, if they get divorced, she will be much better off without him and he will continue to be miserable like when he was with Garner.
Don't worry. She's moved on I'm sure. She can't be alone for five minutes. He's as big of a mess as she is.
That wasn't love, if she loved him she wouldn't have sold and had alcohol around him and she would have respected his privacy wishes....but she is greedy and thought she was the most important person in his life lol he showed her tho😅😂
@@brendafuller907 then you contradict yourself if she has moved on, she can't be a disaster and she has been alone for 5 months, so if she can be alone for 5 minutes.🤷
@@JojoBean-zo7nx she married someone who doesn't know how to love, and who is immature, did she have to treat him like a 15 years old child? And if he likes privacy why did he marry her? Now it turns out that the child is not to blame, think, that hate doesn't win you.
@@JojoBean-zo7nxShe is sick in the head for taunting him with her alcoholic beverage. She'll do anything for a buck.
What the heck is happening, this guys has been going from jlo to gardner to jlo to gardner again ayayay
It sounds like an old pattern. J Lo really could have kept this marriage private. She kept saying how this was her true love and now they have split.
I could never imagine my husband leaving me for an ex girlfriend. What a nasty human being he is. What is wrong with people you’re married and have kids, work it out, be a man. Not a fan of his. And the fact that he didn’t make it work with J Lo just makes J Lo another victim along with his ex-wife.
I have not even clicked on this IN WEEKS and low and behold it is THE SAME OLD S###!
It’s unanimous! Everyone agrees Jennifer has managed to keep a great reputation, and is respected by ALL! ❤💯
Simple to be closer to the kids
3 things jlo loves the most:
1. HERSELF
2. MONEY 💵💰
3. SPOTLIGHT
3 things you love : to hate jlo, jealousy, envy 😂😂
Always following her heart and her instincts BROUGHT her to divorce 😂😂😂😂
I think THIS TIME Ben has finally realized 😳 😮"I feel only lust not love because no one in their right mind can live this way"!!!!!!!!!! I'm out!! Sad as it may seem..
Every woman needs to stay away from Ben Affleck.. period
Ben and Jenifer Garner are perfect as a couple
OMG always the same story...WE KNOW! Anything new?
I dont think Ben and Jlo were ever a match no matter how hard they tried. Sometimes We have to stop going backwards and go forward.
These marriages kinda seem like vacations... really unique experiences then they gotta come home.....
Who is she getting married next😂
moving from one Jen to another Jen?! A $25mil house all by himself?!
Garner already remarried, didn’t she?
Yall sayong jlo is the problem is crazy yes she chooses the wrong men but Ben is not a saint
THIS DIVORCE WAS A GIVEN 😂
As was to Jennifer Garner also...
Entertainment tonight great job buddy
You can see how much JLO loves Ben in the way that she looks at him ❤ Sad it didn't workout for them.
Yes I think that she really wanted this.....But 2 has to want it.... She will be OK
She doesn't seem to invite any close friends of the female gender to her grand OTT birthday party. She doesn't have any.
Don't take him back Jen. You should get better. There is better. If he put his family first, he wouldn't have left.
Maybe we know that we just know nothing .
Both have maybe serious issues (alcohol problems & selfcentered way if life )and just try to separate with respect ?
Everything with her has to be a huge production, and a circus like atmosphere. Ben doesn’t want to be a part of her shenanigans, and is trying to run from that as fast as possible.
Ben is ACTUALLY prioritizing his ❤ family. Jlo only talks about it.😅
Jlo is dense, sang at her wedding with Ben, and now singing alone at her birthday. She reminds me of a toddler at their bday party, making all their guests pay attention to them and not letting them play or go off and enjoy themselves.😂😂😂
That's sad Jenny on the block can not stay married to any one well time to do some soul searching stay single and bond with your kids .
Throwing out your marriage story to the public is a disaster
Too bad he messed up with Jen Garner. She’s a way better person than Jennifer Lopez ever thought about being.
THIS WAS ALL SET UP TO DESTROY JLO . ..BEN USED HER .
JLo and Ben should live separately without getting divorced. One of them may regret the decision someday.
Yeah they should just date and hang out sometimes. Do their own thing. Might suit them better
She said she wants to spend time when more time with her family but goes on holidays alone and now celebrating bday not with family😅
I think he took her for granted. He wanted JLo forever and then finally got her and it’s not all that. Now they have a happy divorced home.
Hope they work it out
Jennifer Garner is such a good person. Ben and JLO just come across as a couple of children that can’t make up their minds
Well this was short lived
What’s wrong with J Lo? Does she insist on keeping breaking her own heart over and over? It’s self defeating.
oh my god im so worried
So bored with this relationship who cares let us move on real people that need help
So!
How narcissistic can one be to celebrate bdays when ur getting divorced yet again. And you keep saying Ben is the love of ur life😂
Heart can be deceiving
I think her eyes looked swollen at the met gala..... I think they had recently split at that time and she may have been crying.
This is why they killed off Daredevil in Deadpool & Wolverine offscreen because Ben Affleck couldn’t come back to care and that’s why they only brought back Elektra because she was trying to come back
And it’s also why that she’ll probably return for Secret Wars if they kept her alive she’s finally the
Yes I love it ❤ I’m so thankful to God praise God to be closer to hes kids and Jennifer Garner Amen ❤
Aren't his kids old?
Hmmmm because men revert to what's familiar and comfortable. His is family
Taking him back was a big mistake! Jlo should have never done that.